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Question For WomenNo-Mirror-9053/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:34 PM
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your derailing of my points is masterful, i'll give ya that 😭 you as well sir
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:28 PM
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i'll take the jokey response as an admission of not much 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:25 PM
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i'm curious, how does your luck tend to be with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:15 PM
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you are such a dweeb
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:14 PM
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i'm not a virgin but if i was i would lie. i was lucky enough to lose it at like 19 but wouldn't want to tell women as an adult i was a virgin, doesn't sound like it would go well. sue me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:34 PM
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tbh sounds like more of an emotional reaction than a logical one. of course everyone would want to punch them in the face, but in many cases that wouldn't be the wisest course of action. yeah it can be taken to it's logical conclusion in theory, but humans are more complicated than that so it has to be taken on a case by case basis and the individual matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:46 AM
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The truth can be wielded in a harmful way like anything else. if someone says something mean to me, it may be true that they hurt my feelings, but that doesn't mean the best course of action is to go punch them in the face. That being said gaslighting men into thinking things like strength and confidence are not gonna make them more desirable does not help anyone. Just makes men confused without having any idea why. If a woman works out and gets in nice shape, wears flattering clothes, and puts …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:18 PM
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ok have fun dude
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:54 PM
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wtf this analogy does not remotely match up 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:01 AM
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i don't think so, like i told someone else, i have a hard time believing the idea that women like attractive and confident men is not just common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:40 AM
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maybe you're right haha. i can see how stuff like hypergamy or chads or whatever is red pill, but i have a hard time believing that women liking attractive and confident men is not common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:34 AM
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yeahh i honestly i think we're still in the process of finding the right advice to give men that is a balance of honest but non harmful
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:14 AM
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Thank you! I consider myself mostly bluepill, but I don't think about this kinda stuff much, I just try to live my life and be the best I can be and people liking you tends to naturally happen from that. I am also offput by the bitterness and attitudes of most red pill ppl i've seen. If my stance here that improving yourself as a man will give you a better shot with the ladies is red pill, then I guess blue pill would be the equivalent of sticking your fingers in your ears and going "lalalala" b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:13 PM
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I'm mostly bluepill and denying that this is true is pretty much delusional. The sexual marketplace is inherently amoral, but you don't have to be a dick about it to play the game well. Women like respectful and responsible men who are also masculine and dominant, it's just that those traits tend to correlate with less responsible men. Tell him to work on his masculinity. Work out and get some muscle, adopt a more serious and unshakable demeanor, stop worrying too much about what other people th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:17 PM
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I'd do it 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:29 PM
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so you don't consider the beliefs about the nature of sexual attraction/gender to be red pill constructs, but helpful tools for men? like a man who buys into this stuff, but isn't adversarial, just uses it as a tool to get laid, isn't red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:41 PM
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I 100 percent agree with this take. A handsome guy who is awkward and has a creepy demeanor will be avoided like the plague no matter how good he looks. An average looking guy with social skills and charisma can usually have quite a bit of success with women. As a decent looking guy who used to have zero social skills when I was younger, women used to flirt with me or try to approach me, and after they talked to me and realized i was kinda shy/awkward, i would immediately see their interest plum…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:51 PM
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??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:26 PM
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yall niggas need to touch some grass
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:26 PM
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Yes. I don't personally read too much into stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:25 AM
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idk, this kinda feels like a myth, in my experience if a girl likes you she doesn't really care
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:19 PM
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it's a joke brodie
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:58 PM
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opportunity to have sex doesn't necessarily mean that someone is gonna cheat if they get into a relationship. i mean, most women have basically infinite opportunities for sex and they're capable of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:39 PM
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overweight gamers with fedoras
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:37 PM
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I would like to add that girls go to jupiter to get more stupider.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:06 AM
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bruh shut up you corny ash
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:56 PM
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lmfao, you know you struck a nerve with a reddit dweeb when they start trying to insult you 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:51 PM
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it's not a contest grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:53 PM
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i'm thinking most likely the child is going to remain with their biological mother until less she is unfit to care for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:35 PM
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i don't think there's an easy solution, it would have to be a case by case thing. more than likely i would want to stay away from the mother, but be in the child's life in some capacity to at least make sure they know i haven't forgotten about them and they are still loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:32 PM
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reread my original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:29 PM
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sure, i think that's technically true, but people's emotions are not some game to win or lose. i would personally choose to have empathy rather than try to "win"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:20 PM
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i don't think he should be forced to, but i also think if the kid has come to see him as a dad that would be traumatizing to watch him just randomly stop caring about you one day for a reason you don't understand. so imo that would be a big factor in this kind of decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:17 PM
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this is the most redundant shit i've ever read, you really just rewrote the same sentence and reworded it like 20 times
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:46 PM
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whenever i am quiet women think i am boring or not interested. how do i be attractive and let the woman know i'm interested while still being introverted?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:45 PM
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cope all you want. men would be willing to date a shy or awkward woman too. someone being socially uncalibrated doesn't give us the "ick" the way it does for women. it does not subtract from their ability to be our companion/partner in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:39 PM
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Shy awkward women are cute. Shy awkward men are creepy. Yes it is gender specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:32 PM
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dweeb
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:35 PM
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woke up on my birthday one time to my ex-girlfriend giving me the best blowjob ever, it was the sloppiest most passionate shit ever, lasted like 20 mins, literally extracted my soul 😵‍💫 tbh preferred this to any material gifts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:34 PM
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lmfao 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:26 PM
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men gotta step their shit up and stop whining and complaining, if i were a woman i wouldn't want yall either
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:08 PM
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Still gon shoot my shot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:14 PM
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It's cope
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:27 PM
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that's a terrible strategy my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:02 AM
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a man with options would not choose to be with an abusive woman. that being said, the ability to attract a partner of some kind is seen as a major proof of worth to both yourself and others. to many men, "in a relationship with a mean lady" sounds a lot more appealing than "incel".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:52 PM
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i'm of the belief that nothing is perfect, if it seems too good to be true, it is. if an unstable person is hostile towards a certain group, it's rarely about the actual group and more about the hatred that they are harboring in general. as soon as they have some reason to believe you are against them, you'll be on the same end of that drama!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:36 AM
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this doesn't apply to my comment idk what youre talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:30 AM
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If their hatred toward other women is that strong, it will turn on you eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:30 PM
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i mean, if the scat play is also consensual i don't see how it's inherently any worse
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:14 PM
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This is the best answer tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:41 PM
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Looks Friendliness Sweetness
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:00 AM
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that's the spirit!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 02:11 PM
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young guys do what? deceptively engage in a platonic friendship with a woman they are secretly interested in? i guess, i don't necessarily disagree with anything you're saying but i don't really think we're having the same argument here. my actual point in that reply is that a man will often use a woman's sexual interest in him as an indicator of whether a romantic/sexual relationship would be possible, which is true. whether he decides to engage in some deceptive friendship with her after that …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:12 PM
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assume in this hypothetical instance that the man is interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:34 PM
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i think you both need to look up the 'no true scotsman' fallacy as it seems to be your only point. a man can text his platonic female friend, he can go on a date with her, he can form a bond with her, talk about his feelings with her, etc etc. what he can't do is have sex with her. friendships can be extremely deep and meaningful, the main thing that separates them from relationships is a romantic or sexual interest. for most men, a woman's sexual interest in him is going to be the main indicato…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:37 PM
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you sound like a person with a lot of self hatred who projects it on to others. you are only as critical of others as you are of yourself. relax a little and try to enjoy people for who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:23 PM
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you are oversimplifying it. attractive vs unattractive is not a binary, it's a spectrum. relationships can be complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:18 PM
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i think it would be completely naive for anyone to ignore the role that our sexuality and desire plays in relationships, but personally i still believe in genuine love, respect women as people, and think most red pill men are bitter and cringy asf.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:01 PM
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again you have typed out a bunch of stuff without making any kind of argument or statement that is relevant to this discussion. best of luck in your pursuit of women's approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:58 PM
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you haven't made any argument here, just made three emotional statements. idk what you're getting at. yes, men also develop feelings and enjoy long term relationships, but once they have sexual access it becomes about maintaining a good thing. the reverse scenario of a man who is good friends with a woman and likes her romantically, but she is not attracted to him, therefore will not be sexual with him, means a relationship can't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:44 PM
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Ha, funny enough, it really does boil down to an ego thing. We are truly simple creatures 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:32 PM
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men and women are not the same. for a man, sex is symbolic for romantic access to a woman, since it's essentially what separates a platonic friendship from a romantic relationship. when a man has sexual access he has pretty much made it to the finish line, in his mind. friendship + sex is what a man is looking for. women are typically looking to share resources and find someone who is trustworthy enough to depend on while pregnant/etc which adds a whole different dimension to their desire that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:10 PM
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idk dude
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:45 AM
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noooo i don't think this is a scenario that has ever happened 😭 my male brain does not compute this dilemma
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:42 AM
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No, i would definitely rethink the relationship if she said that. to me that would basically be her saying "you're not attractive enough that i would ever do anything sexual with you purely for its own sake, this only works because there is a commitment and resource sharing involved." For women who still don't get it, for us it would be about the equivalent of a man telling you in the middle of sex: "hey, i would never want any kind of relationship with you, but you are definitely good for sex!"…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:39 AM
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guys could do a lot better, for some reason a lot of american men are taught that appearance is some superficial thing that means nothing and so they don't even think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:16 AM
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when men say they don't care about a woman's career and education, they aren't saying they're not interested in her as a person, they are saying that they don't use it as some sort of measuring stick for whether they're worthy to date
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:53 PM
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damn gotta find me a you 😭 i'm ok with being masculine in literally every other way but i need my love 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:55 PM
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Thank you man, this is excellent advice. The cat analogy and the advice about the push/pull really makes sense. Problem for me is i'm actually not desperate at all, I've been on dating apps for the past few years and have done pretty well, but unfortunately my need for love/affection doesn't just disappear. I'm considering there may be a wound there that I need to heal with therapy or something, like maybe I didn't get enough affection as a kid or something. IDK. But I will definitely keep this …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:33 PM
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well newsflash, a hookup is two people "using" eachother for sex. some people just like sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:37 AM
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Personally as a guy, i have been turned off by a woman telling me she's a virgin, not because i think she's weird but because it feels like by being your "first" i'm part of a very special and emotional moment for you and a lot of guys can get intimidated by that, especially in the early stages like on a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:35 AM
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yeah i am not trying to argue that there is no age of consent lol. i get what you're saying, and like i said many times relationships with a power difference can be ok, but my point is that people are allowed to be skeptical if something looks fishy or predatory. not all fishy and predatory behavior is necessarily illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:53 AM
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not sure exactly what you're getting at here, but just because something isn't illegal doesn't mean it's right. for example if someone is a shitty parent, unless they are literally abusive it's not illegal but we don't want people to be shitty parents right? like i said, not all age gap relationships are wrong, all people are unique so their interactions and relationships will all be unique. i think we need to use our judgement and look at the intentions of the people involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:32 PM
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can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:36 PM
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it comes from a time when men had options because they were raised to have self respect, self esteem, and standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:33 PM
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i mean, you seem to be talking about relationships here. yeah, men have standards for who they would be in a relationship with, but most absolutely do not have standards for just sex. the best looking dude will try to sleep with the worst looking woman if it seems easy enough
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:27 PM
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the problem is there is no hard rule. sometimes two people with a significant (legal) age gap genuinely fall in love, and in such a lonely world i think it's wrong to try to police that. on the other hand, there are definitely older dudes who go specifically for very young women because they are easier to control, and something about that is definitely creepy. when it comes to this topic i think we need to use our judgement and common sense. when something seems fishy it usually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:47 PM
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jeez that's kinda brutal they actually said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:17 PM
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dating preferences are not really my point but i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:28 AM
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meh, i think everyone is different. male sexuality is seen generally as invasive or aggressive, if someone is taught maybe by their family since youth to hate that part of themselves, i can see how someone can have a very hard time expressing this in a way that feels safe and acceptable for others. i really don't think painting this as a "red flag" or some weird scary thing is remotely helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:43 AM
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red flag for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:20 AM
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It's most likely going in that direction. I think it will lead to healthier and more balanced relationships between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:54 PM
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as a man, i'm not a virgin but if is was i would 100% lie about it, sue me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:36 PM
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