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Tell me you're 13 years old or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:10 PM
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Ae you a person, or a set of lists and rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:15 AM
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No one owes you anything, just as you do not owe them anything, and everyone masks to some extent initially in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:22 PM
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Nope. The word nice should not be used, they're fake. At the same time, everyone masks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:41 PM
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Two different sides to the same coin, people finding value based off of sex alone, both are unhealthy mindsets to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:04 PM
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Wat!? Again, there is so much nuance to human relations. I know I could date younger women, but I would not want to marry. I don't want more kids, I would like to retire around the same time as my partner, our life experiences are vastly different. Health becomes a factor as you age. Many older women could do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:08 AM
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He does have temper management issues, and his happiness is based off of her which are unhealthy relational behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:29 PM
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Human relational dynamics are nuanced, and so are feelings. Again, there are different kinds of loneliness, just as there are different forms of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:13 AM
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Hot takes no one asked for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 09:56 PM
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Bad faith argument. It's not true and you know this, many people don't get into relationships to have sex and think it will cure their loneliness, they get into one to experience what many people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:44 PM
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Yes, you can feel lonely with friends and family. People even feel lonely within a relationship, connection is nuanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:38 PM
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Again, relationships are different than friendships, and humanity is nuanced, but you cannot see this. Also, you did not answer the first question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:22 PM
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Wrong, and you are very black and white in your thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:00 PM
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Does this apply to women too? Touch starvation is a huge thing. There are many types of bonds and love, and friendships are different than a loving relationship. You can still feel a longing for love when you have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:25 PM
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It's a highly over-used term, based off of subjective data from mainly self-reported studies, and has been disconnected from its original meaning and intent. There is nuance in a relationship, and a really good couples therapist will figure it out within the triadic relationship of what is perception and reality. A good example of this is the show Couples Therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:51 PM
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It does in the long run, masks eventually slip, and abhorrent views tend to come out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:33 PM
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I agree, yet it will lead to dissatisfaction down the road. ADHD is another example of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:35 PM
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It's a huge factor, and many here seem to display markers for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:26 PM
4

It's performative.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:49 PM
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Ah, it's a group of grifters feeding off of vulnerable males looking for someone to validate their experiences and views, with many of them being losers in their own right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:30 PM
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No, I am not. Most men are not dead-beats.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:23 PM
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Wat!? What a poor thought. It's not difficult being a single parent if you're willing to sacrifice. I am part-time, and full-time wouldn't create much of a change, it would actually make my life a little easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:09 PM
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Nonverbal communication does, along with social cues, but they only give a little context or information. They cannot give you the why or what to what is going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:46 PM
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Ah, yes you can, it's called cognitive restructuring.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:19 AM
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Very different than a victimhood mentality; it's dismissive and is likely to reinforce their thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:56 PM
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A very good way to never change someone's mind or influence them is by invalidating their feelings, there are better ways to go about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:50 PM
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Feeling a certain way about something does not mean the perception and reality are correct; it's called incongruence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:56 PM
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Wat!?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:30 PM
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She's just trolling, or trying to justify her actions. Also, if you receive a lot of attention and actually decide to act on it, you increase your risk for negative consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:14 AM
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A new study found that incels lean sightly to the left of center. The Dual Pathways Hypothesis of Incel Harm: A Model of Harmful Attitudes and Beliefs Among Involuntary Celibates | Archives of Sexual Behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:24 AM
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Healthy love is conditional and says no too. Unless you are friends and have known someone for awhile, how you appear to someone gets you a date, and then if you're healthy, you say no as you get to know them and are not complementing each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 06:43 PM
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Ah, this is a very unhealthy take. One based on attraction alone. The woman probably has low self-esteem. Same for men who overlook issues because she is "hot".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:27 PM
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Ah, it's the double standards. I have witnessed many women "nag" a guy about clothes being left out only to do the same, and when the man brings it up, they tell him that's keeping score or not the same. You either live by the standards you hold others to, or you don't. Or you discuss it like adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 01:53 PM
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If you are not feeling seen, heard, or understood, and have discussed this, leave. If you are giving effort and you have discussed this and she is not, leave. Too many people stay because of sunk cost and are afraid to be alone. Have self-respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 02:17 PM
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High standards are great as long as they are consistent. If not, then you're settling or masking yourself for the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:20 PM
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I thought stereotyping isn't a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:13 PM
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Every woman I have rejected became verbally hostile, or would not take no for an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:07 PM
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Nice guys are just men who look to put on a front to get something from someone, not because they are genuinely themselves. Also, you do not need to accept friendship if you ask someone out and they say no; they owe you nothing, and you owe them nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 07:19 PM
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Ooo, they dislike the T-word around here...it's because they do not understand it. I wonder if many have theory of mind issues, they cannot read social cues?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 03:13 PM
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Uncontrolled emotional vulnerability is not cool; I will not date a woman like that. Context, place, and time is what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:43 PM
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Wrong. Healthy people (both men and women) express vulnerability, emotions, thoughts, and ways of being during appropriate times, places, and circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:07 PM
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Perfect is the enemy of the good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:07 AM
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I hope you read the article discussing this, it's written by a woman whose "open" marriage fell apart due to cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:48 PM
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You mean, unhealthy people of both sexes, without a rooted and stable identity change their standards and what they tolerate in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:40 PM
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What makes you think it will go away and get smoothed over? Seems like it's going to get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:30 PM
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Just adds fuel to your fire...where there's smoke...You might as well deal with this now. Delaying it will only make it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:23 PM
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Because you have feelings for someone and will display the emotions involved with loss while dealing with lying, and hiding. He is already sensing something is off, so you are displaying certain emotions that are not normal in your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:18 PM
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You'll get worse and hill pick up on it and ask more questions, especially if it ends. His Spidey senses are going off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:10 PM
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He's going to find out, you cannot hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:14 PM
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What is conscious becomes part of the subconscious, and what is part of the subconscious becomes part of the conscious again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:40 PM
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It will come out, or you really don't have a conscious and thus have a personality disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:33 PM
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The guilt will eat you alive, and he will pick up on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:12 PM
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What brings you discuss this with complete strangers? You know what you need to do...tell your husband, face the consequences, and get professional help. You are in limerence or affair fog.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:46 PM
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Yeah, you just fell into it, couldn't control what you were thinking or feeling. Just happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:25 PM
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That's on you, not him. You're now tied up with a scumbag that only cares about himself. You allowed him to push whatever boundaries you may have had. By the looks of your posts, you cannot communicate what you want in your marriage, and so you looked elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:36 PM
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Yeah, it was probably unlikely that you would have sent him nudes too and engaged in this behavior. You're a coward.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:28 PM
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You're deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:25 PM
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Damn, you're a saint. It's going to go physical at some point because you want it to. You are pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:23 PM
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No, you are afraid of the consequences. You are abusive, exposing him to the threat of an STD, and are using him because you only care about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:17 PM
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No you don't, you are human garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:14 PM
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They love to shift the goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:09 PM
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You miss every shot you do not take.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:27 PM
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You are just as bad as the pill guys on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:44 PM
2

Ooo, did that sting?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:09 AM
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Anecdotally, the older people who fancy younger ones tend to be weird and have mental issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:45 PM
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Yep, every day when I wake up, and throughout my day, that is what I think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:15 PM
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Nah, it's a system of belief that takes data out of context, ignoring contradictory data and nuance, anecdotal evidence based on the experience of the person, and misquoted and distorted psychology and evolutionary bio, with grifters thrown in preying upon vulnerable populations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:05 PM
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It is there to help you learn and identify the emotions you are feeling so that you can become vulnerable in a health way, to make the waves smaller. And is there to affirm you as a person, but challenge perceptions and notions that may or may not be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:53 PM
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Yep, victim mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:52 PM
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Eh, the post is illogical. Men do care about mental health as more men are utilizing the resource and discussing it. Though, the men here are doing them a disservice by arguing with you and negating therapy as a tool in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:40 PM
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Heh, look at all the defensiveness and resistance around the topic of therapy in this thread. I think many people here just want their world views affirmed and are incapable of challenging themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:20 PM
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Eh, many of the studies surrounding the mental and emotional load/labor are self-reported and that brings up bias and validity problems, and lack nuance surrounding these theoretical frameworks. The issue around psych and studies is many of the journalists do not understand how to read and interpret results and what the methods actually mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:26 PM
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Ignoring major priorities, values, and other important foundational issues that create stable and successful relationships to be in a relationship or not alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:14 AM
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How about this, many people of both sexes settle. Do not settle. I was one, and thank God she left me for an absolute dud. I know many men who are in crappy relationships with women that are absolutely horrible, and not the right fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:43 PM
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Eh, schools were developed around the factory model, and not many men attended college prior to WWII; it changed with the GI Bill after WWII. What we are seeing today is a round peg trying to be fit into a square hole. Many jobs that did not require a degree in the past now require one, you learned on the job in a semi apprenticeship model, and way back, many jobs only required two years of education or certificates of education. There are also biases built in as most teachers are women. I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:17 AM
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I think this is the wrong take. There are some people (men and women) that are self-actualized, self-aware, and mentally healthy. There are many relationships and people who are dating that are not healthy; they have settled. Of the people who feel self-actualized, how many have done the work to become self-aware enough to realize they can only control themselves and their choices, that they can self-sooth and validate, and be open and vulnerable enough to express how and what they are feeling i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:51 PM
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They are generally interchangeable, but there is some nuance in the terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:59 PM
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Manufacturing supervisor, in grad school to become a mental health counselor. I enjoy both because I use my mind and body, and work with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:17 PM
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If she is satisfied and she cums, does it really matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:13 AM
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I will beat this dead horse, but therapy. It helps to process trauma, aid in working through an existential crisis, and assists in reframing negative thought patterns and cognitions. There is also managing expectations; not everyone is a super model, not everyone is rich, not everyone is charismatic and charming, and some things can be worked on and change over time. I know my value and worth, and how other may view me, and so I date at that level, and I have accepted that I may never find a sui…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:28 AM
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I really don't understand the makeup argument, that is her choice. And I pay for dates as I know the women I have dated make less than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:25 PM
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Treat others with respect and have the same expectations of others. If they don't, move on. I have only had one instance where a woman I dated and had fun with tried the let's be friends, and I said no. Drives her nuts to this day that I will not accept this, that is on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:41 PM
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A PsyD with degree from a diploma mill that cherry-picks data and takes it out of context is not someone I would trust, but hey, if you need someone to confirm your biases and worldviews, go right ahead and watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:31 PM
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I think this cuts both ways. Stats are stable (OLD is only part of dating). How many men on here complain that women date men just like this...criminals, abusers, deadbeats? People with low esteem, and that are not aware of themselves and what they want, will date and accept poor behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:42 PM
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As time went on, nope. Glad I'm free and clear and have learned a lot. She's trying to save her second marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:20 PM
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Dodged a bullet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:25 PM
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It's intermittent reinforcement, not the friend zone, and both men and women experience. It's the same concept as gambling; you get short hits of brain chemicals rewarding the behavior. Many people lack the esteem and awareness to realize they have agency and choice to move on or feel they have sunk cost in this. It is also possible to have manipulation on both ends; this shows up in the forms of people pleasing, validation, and seeing others as objects, not as a person. The best thing you can d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:18 PM
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You conduct a survey to make the claim "most men"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:12 PM
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I have also heard that if you do not, then you don't care or understand women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:45 PM
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Shave your head and save money, many women find bald guys good looking. Hasn't prevented me from dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 04:55 PM
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I have a Selleck stache and the women love it-they also like bald men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:53 PM
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Not true, there are many duds getting into relationships with each other. Fat, lazy, emotionally unavailable, those with addictions, disordered and a those with a whole other host of negative traits are finding ways to get into a relationship. Many settle to avoid feelings loneliness, so you could to if you wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:57 PM
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You don't show yourself; I am not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:03 PM
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Correction, that they are insecure and jealous, which may not be the case. They may have boundaries or dealbreakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:48 PM
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You assumed. It's better to validate someone's experience and then ask open-ended questions. She assumed therapy is there for men to loosen their boundaries of what they find acceptable; it is not. You are correct that people can have deal breakers or boundaries as to what they find suitable. Your analogy is poor; there are many men who would date her and you're transferring your experiences and thoughts onto her. She is experiencing consequences of her choices, that is something for her to look…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:40 PM
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Same, I will next someone if it feels like a chore. I am not going to waste a woman's time I am not into and aligning with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:14 AM
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Many men hug. I hug men on a weekly basis in a group I belong to. And when I see male friends, we hug. My sons hug.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:32 PM
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Same goes for you, at the same time, the RP loves to cherry-pick data to fit their narrative. Anyone can make an argument using stats devoid of context and nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:30 PM
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Nope, lame. And you come off as a brownnoser.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:25 PM
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Nuance is needed. Approx. 60% of men who commit suicide sought out mental health prior to the act. Depression and other symptoms are less likely to get diagnosed in men who seek treatment as it presents differently such as using substance and anger to cope. 76% of MH clinicians are women and it has been shown there is a negative bias against men within the field, and men are less likely to be referred to MHC by other clinicians in the medical field. Men respond well to concrete methods of treatm…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:59 PM
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They like the heads I win, tails I win game. It's pointless to argue with persons that use cherry-picked data, and data devoid of context; they live in a victim fantasy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:41 PM
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They're just jealous that they didn't get to "pump and dump" her first, and calling out men who do that would call into question the strategies they use.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:36 PM
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Ever heard of freewill? Don't date them then and allow a boogeyman to live in your head you made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:32 PM
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Her man probably had a tiny peen, so she had to look elsewhere. New topic: on wings and penis size.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:50 PM
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You either accept where you are at in life or self-reflect and build self-awareness and move on from there. You may have standards, yet those standards may be self-defeating and irrational to who and what you are. I know I can attract women I am attracted to, but once I get to know them I, I gut check the alignment, compatibility, and my hard boxes. I mean, if you cannot find a suitable partner and feel alone or something is off, you have some awareness and the ability to reflect on your experie…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:27 PM
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I have known women who were insecure about size, you could tell when they bragged about their development as adults, or when they asked directly. I like boobs, but if the personality attached to them is horrible, I will pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:26 PM
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Look into theory of mind, unless you already know of this, it discusses mindblindess and the inability of understanding social cues. Many persons with autism have this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:12 AM
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At 40, there are a lot of nutty women; the bar is in hell for women. Men do not have a monopoly on crappy living and behaviors. I say no a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:24 PM
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At 40, there are a lot of nutty women; the bar is in hell for women. Men do not have a monopoly on crappy living and behaviors. I say no a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:24 PM
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It is for both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 11:02 AM
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I agree not washing hands is nasty, but I cannot control what others do, and worrying about it only creates issues for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:11 PM
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I wash my hands, but the picture of a teary-eyed woman worrying about an unfounded claim she heard or read about online is nuts. And if you touched yours, and I knew you did not wash your hands, I would not shake hands with you. If I did not know, I would shake hands as that is what I do when other extend their hand for a handshake.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 07:44 PM
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Tell me you're mentally ill without telling me you're mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 07:26 PM
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The experience I had last Thursday says differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:13 PM
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Being bald doesn't matter, and she is not that good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:37 PM
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The RP is a bunch of cherry-picked data, devoid of context, peddled by men with mental issues looking to cash in by using other men with mental issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:31 PM
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Life is a balance, and all coaching and self-help is, is formulaic gimmicks. If you follow them, people will sniff you out as fake and phony.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:12 PM
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Well, I think many daddy's girls are very self-centered as they know their dad will always smooth things out for them and they do not have to face the consequences of their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:19 PM
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The responses are pathetic; many of you are weak and pathetic men who could never have a functional relationship because you focus on a manual for getting laid and will never be loved. Damn robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:11 PM
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And you'll never know what he feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:24 PM
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That claim is garbage too, but acting like a victim is unhealthy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:02 PM
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Knowing a human scrotum is walking around in my state would make me unhappy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:58 PM
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So, you allow anecdotal evidence to live in your head all of these years...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:56 PM
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Mr. Taint, I mean Tait is in Florida now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:48 PM
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Again, why are you focused on unhealed and broken people? Many people are not really self-aware and operate on autopilot mode because temporary pleasure is better than facing the pain of understanding and fixing their way of being, or they don't have the money or time to explore this on a deep level. And it is possible, people are happy to play the victim because they it relieves them of feeling responsible for their choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:09 PM
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It would, but we also live in a very individualistic culture and many people have moved away from those support systems; community and family support are important factors overlooked by many.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:10 PM
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Many women without makeup are not good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:26 PM
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Most marriages are not that great. Many people put up with poor behavior from their spouses because they don't know how to communicate, and they do not want to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:15 PM
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Women complain about porn distorting men's views on bodes, but I think they are catching up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:30 PM
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Wouldn't be a problem if men could keep it in their pants and take a little pride in who they actually dated, you know, practice some self-control.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:28 PM
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It not a factor unless you are insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:11 PM
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1.5' isn't a factor. If you think a woman will go buck wild for someone based on penis size, you have another set of issues to contend with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:05 PM
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The girth is more important, not the length. And there is a lot more involved with sex then just the length of the penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:00 PM
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Try flirting or ask directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:42 PM
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What's the obsession with unhealthy people dating unhealthy people?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:06 PM
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Good, you're still a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:05 PM
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You're a piece of shit like her, just accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:00 PM
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They are, there are European health studies and studies from the CDC showing an increase in use.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:14 PM
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Both in men and women, but more so in women. With Alcohol, they are almost reaching parity in disordered drinking in certain age populations and ethnicities. At the same time, men are undertreated for disorders but commit suicide at a higher rate. Though women attempt more, men use very lethal means. Also, disorders present differently between the sexes. There is a lot of issues within society as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:13 PM
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Look at the rates of SSRIs, Benzos, MAOIs, and SUD order in women; the rates are increasing. With the meds, it could be due to the fact they are more likely to seek treatment. At the same time, what is causing the anxiety, depression, and other mood disorders?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:57 PM
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You do not have to be a "bad boy". Being good and assertive, playful, flirty, and fun is what attracts others to you, you know, confident. Disordered people believe the bad boy stuff, and frankly, you will attract other disordered people being bad, or detached and aloof; water seeks its own level
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 12:17 PM
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They judge both women and men: Peter Pan Syndrome, Crazy Cat Lady. Also, men who are single past a certain point are looked at as creeps and weirdos, or failures. Also, men who are single are asked if they are partnered or have a significant other a lot or if they are dating, ask me how I know. And men are asked and told to settle too, again, ask me how I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:25 PM
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Many disorders present differently in men and women, and the mental health profession is trying to rectify this with new research and diagnostic criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:18 PM
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Cold approach works when you engage with it in a certain manner, here are some real-world examples. Kind, older woman who works at the grocery store has a single daughter, you chat with her for a few months every time you are in the store and she eventually gives out her information as she views you as safe. Two women are sitting next near you at fire at a brewery, and you get to chatting and talk for a while (a couple of hours). She feels safe and you ask for her number and get it. Learn to dan…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:39 PM
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Look at the guy's profile, he is a swinger and sex obsessed...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:05 PM
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Yeah, it's an interesting sub, especially when they continue the dame dating patterns and expect different results.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:03 PM
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Not struggling here, glad she left. Sometimes deadweight gets rid of itself. Dating has been fun, but I am not lowering my standards to be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:40 PM
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No they don't, I have not had any trouble getting dates with single women or women with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:15 PM
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Way, way better. In control of my own life and she's, someone else's problem. Dating is fun when I choose to do it, I'm in grad school, and I work on my own house.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/24 06:32 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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