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You're not certain? It's misogyny. It's men thinking that they can date a 20 year when they are 40 so they won't settle down. And I'm talking about the men on this sub who put women down for NO REASON almost every day. One day it's their body count, the next day it's their age, the next day is she didn't decide to get pregnant soon enough, the next day is "I don't want to date a single mom", like seriously you all hate women so much for existing and then you wonder why you're lonely? Seriously d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:31 PM
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That's true it seems like a lot of women don't believe this just bc a 6 ft alpha chad isn't asking them to fuck. I think a lot of women want to date way above their league, more power to them I guess since a lot of men are desperate anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:51 PM
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If a guy guessed a high amount for me I would just assume he thinks I'm hot and that's a compliment? My self esteem is pretty low and I look like a square so I don't get too many guys assuming I've slept with a lot of guys. They probably think I'm a lesbian or a prude and my body count is pretty high I just don't act feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:48 PM
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I think that your body type doesn't change though. You can be fat and have a great body shape and I think that is what makes the difference. First girl def has the ideal body type she is just I'm sorry to say... fat but her body type is ideal. Her waist is small in comparison to everything else which is what guys are attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:30 PM
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So wifeys cant be hot now lmao okay... that's a hot take
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:13 PM
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Sorry I meant non objectifying way
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:12 AM
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Im a bisexual woman and I think I could love a woman if I ever dated one. I've only dated men so at times I feel like I'm not valid but I would date women if I was single but maybe I'm afraid of those feelings too? I do think bisexual women can appreciate women though in a non objective way too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:12 AM
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Do you mean bisexual men? I am positive that there are some bisexuals who will stay loyal no matter what but I'm not a bisexual man just a bisexual woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:55 AM
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I'm a bisexual woman and I could never be biphobic towards a guy who is. I mean maybe I would feel a little worried they love me less if their preference is men but they're with me for a reason. Idk why women are so ingrained even bisexual women to be biphobic. I'm talking about both straight and bisexual women maybe even lesbians too. I've heard of them being biphobic towards their girlfriends too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:52 AM
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Sounds like she was being sarcastic no offense. Nothing will make them realize they are acting entitled and shitty.
/r/AntiFeminists15/04/22 05:48 PM
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This is scary. Women don't know how much of an advantage we have when it comes to dodging false accusations. Men NEVER accuse women of rape but I'm sure it happens more than we think. I also wonder if lesbian and bisexual women are also subject to false accusations more by hooking up with women? I can't imagine many straight women have ever been falsely accused because I've rarely seen men falsely accuse a woman of rape or even if they did rape them they would be too embarrassed to admit it. I'l…
/r/seduction08/04/22 02:33 AM
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It's kind of insulting if you think about it idk 🤷🏻‍♀️ in a strange way it's insulting that they feel so bad for themselves when there are girls out there who again are simping for goblin men, just gotta find them but they don't want to put the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 04:40 AM
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Idk I mean it's like men like to think that there aren't girls who would date literal goblins for men. I know so many girls simping over hideous men with trash personalities. They just do it to themselves by thinking they don't have just as much of an advantage bc society deems women to be the more attractive species which is maybe true to some people but not to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 04:37 AM
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There are def some guys who have an advantage my dad likes to claim to be one of them. My roommate (I'm a girl but anyway I have two male roommates) he has a new girl over every week basically and idk what he's doing tbh. Maybe just meeting them off tinder? I have no clue. He's not that attractive imo just tall and prob has money but I do think that men do have the opportunity to ride the carousel maybe just gotta be tall and have some money? I think girls care more about height than money even
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:54 AM
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I'm surprised you think that actually I feel like more men think that women over exaggerate our worth honestly but I like to think this is more of a general consensus. I don't really spend money on makeup anymore because I work from home anyway and my bf doesn't care but on the rare occasion I do go out I might wear minimal makeup and I'm not trying to at all say I'm better than anyone cos I don't wear makeup as much the only reason I don't is cos I don't make a lot of money and I'm too lazy any…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:57 PM
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Well not every girl does spend hours getting pretty but unless she's a natural goddess men probably think they're ugly and unkempt but I have to say I have a lot of respect for women who don't want to adhere societal standards, I try not to but still catch myself thinking about them every now and then but I'll always be miserable if my whole life revolves around being conventionally attractive I can imagine that at a certain age that gets extremely depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:49 PM
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Well not me I'm in a relationship and I don't think I have these extreme high standards a man has to live by but I also am not out here conflating my ego with being a dime. I know I'm not that special tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:48 PM
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Idk if I mentioned about anything about being a bad person but I said they could have a boring personality well boring to men honestly since men don't care about beauty they only care if it makes us look nice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:47 PM
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You just said women are only valued for their beauty and then wonder why we have nothing else to offer? Maybe it's because men don't seem to expect anything from us just to be pretty, I wish men could also be less shallow and maybe value more from women than just their looks. This is exactly why women spend so much time an unhealthy amount of time obsessing over their looks and don't work on other shit and then men are mad we got the personality of a rock. How about women will have it extremely …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:57 AM
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It is a survival tactic for sure I feel like. If I wasn't this on edge about everything maybe I would have died by now cos I wouldn't have had my guard up
/r/AntiFeminists03/04/22 04:48 PM
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Thank you first person I encounter who doesn't think we all suck and are a bane to society! Trying to embrace this part of me since it's never going to go away as long as I don't sour anyones mood and keep it to myself anyway
/r/AntiFeminists03/04/22 04:28 PM
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Yeah idk it's not even natural to me just be all happy and positive it's just not authentic but of course I'm well aware I'm also not everyone's cup of tea since society hates negativity in any shape or form. I thrive off neuroticism
/r/AntiFeminists03/04/22 04:23 PM
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Definitely! I've dated someone similar to me before just a very negative person as well and neither one of us were ever happy
/r/AntiFeminists03/04/22 04:09 PM
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He's always very positive and optimistic and I'm the opposite I mean I think I'm a very negative person and I wish I could see things with a glass half full point of view
/r/AntiFeminists03/04/22 04:02 PM
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Thank you. Yes he is. I try and be a good partner myself but I know I still have a lot of flaws I could work on, like character flaws
/r/AntiFeminists03/04/22 03:59 PM
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He does help me a lot but because I'm older and I also make more money right now (I don't make a lot) I don't expect him to pay for everything but he pays for a lot more than he should have to
/r/AntiFeminists03/04/22 03:51 PM
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I'm 27 so not 35 yet but my bf is younger than me but I also am realistic too with my standards but sadly FDS has brainwashed women to think we're entitled to mens money
/r/AntiFeminists03/04/22 12:11 AM
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I think I'm lousy in bed and I'm a woman. I know my bf loves me but it's not because of how good I am in bed because I think I suck at it and I would never praise myself for being good at it either... I mean, great if you are but my life goal is not to be good in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:29 PM
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There is also a lot of women who aren't passionate about anything too? I'm pretty depressed so I'm not passionate about anything I think it's pretty fucked to think I'm not worthy of my bfs love cos I'm not passionate about anything...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:28 PM
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Im actually a woman haha 😂 but I don't agree with a lot of feminist takes which is why I'm here
/r/AntiFeminists18/03/22 12:54 AM
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My dad said this but he's a POS. I like to think not all men think this way.
/r/AntiFeminists17/03/22 10:40 PM
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Not that that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:06 PM
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I don't like my friends lol. I also think most people are extremely selfish so I don't bother putting myself out there and try to make new friends. Not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:55 PM
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Yeah, but I did at one point care about this friend I care about the impact they had on my life but we are no longer friends. I would never do this again though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:54 PM
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I guess it's really complicated but I don't pride myself on being a good friend at all but arguably I haven't had the greatest friends either. I know why I'm lonely and I'm okay with it. I'll never know what it's like to have a true friend tbh but if I had one I don't think I would do something to hurt them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:00 PM
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I just felt bad because of the whole girl code thing even though she's not even really my friend anymore? And wasn't my friend when that happened either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:59 PM
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Ive dated a guy my friend has dated before but this friend always had friendship breakups with me. Still wasn't okay and I feel bad about it but I would say the guy wasn't even a bf just a guy she hooked up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:25 PM
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Who are the men who complain about this? They need to change their tampon if they're so worried about womens primal urges like huh? it's pretty much known that women are not visual like men are...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:27 PM
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Are these the same women who are straight and want the best male in the animal kingdom? I would understand if they are lesbians but wtf I will never understand the hatred straight women have for men... like, imagine if a straight man said he hated women literally no one would want to date him so how come some guys give these women a pass?
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 04:32 PM
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Yeah exactly. I realized I was never attracting the right person when I had a list of demands so I had to learn to love my person wholeheartedly for the person he was if I wanted to be happy in my relationship not for what he can provide. My boyfriend doesn't expect me to provide anything for him either and I just choose to trust that he loves me for who I am as well and not for what I can offer whether that be in looks or emotional labor or whatever it is. I am just choosing to believe my partn…
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 04:17 PM
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If those are the girls you want, by all means have a ball chasing after a girl who doesn't see you as a human being but someone they can use. Chances are you probably see women as someone you can use as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:26 PM
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Thank you. I'm trying and not making excuses or blaming men for all my problems
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 06:32 PM
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Thank you! I'm just working on being a better person because honestly I don't think I was a good person for many years.
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 04:16 PM
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I don't think I have much to offer I'm pretty bland and have a boring personality and lifestyle but I'm loyal and caring and that seems to be enough for my boyfriend. Maybe I am a bit trad too.
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 04:14 PM
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Yeah that is true but I don't expect my boyfriend to have a lot of money. If he is doing enough then that's all that matters. I know men don't care about women's money but I do see a lot of women who are chasing men for materialistic reasons I guess in the same way that men chase after women for their looks. I just care about whether or not that person is a good person and loves me for me.
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 04:13 PM
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For real. The amount of friends I know who vilify their bfs when they are being hoes I don't understand it and will never understand it and I'm glad they are miserable.
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 03:54 PM
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I've never had insane standards cos I'm self aware enough to realize I'm no damn prize. I'm broke af so I don't expect my bf to be rich for example. That is transactional to me.
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 03:53 PM
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What do they tell her? She shouldnt have to listen to them, I hate when anyone tries to tell me how I should live my life tbh. You do whatever the fuck you want!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:40 PM
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Yeah actually sometimes feminism does the opposite and pits women against each other. Idk, sometimes I think it's a fallacy more than anything. I don't think women will ever be United and feminism is just used to fuel their agendas but theyre not actual feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:40 PM
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This is all a long rant about my friends being trash but one of my friends is a literal MOM and is choosing an abusive man over her daughter. I don't think she cares one bit about her daughter and I feel horrible for her. I could never be a mom if I know I'm going to pick a man over my child. My mom kinda did that to me too since she chose my dad over her own kids many times
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:59 PM
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At this point I really don't feel bad when they find out their current bf isn't shit either. I feel like at one point I was also being a hoe and not upholding myself to a high standard but giving men access to you so fucking easily, like ANY man access to you just because you like attention really tells me they're not even ready for a relationship. I've had guys try and talk to me now that I have a bf and I never ever respond or entertain them but I can def tell you there are many girls who do e…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:58 PM
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Sadly, I've had so many female friends cheat on their bfs usually because they're bored but sometimes it's because they're extremely insecure in the relationship and want to be in control. As if the coombrained dude giving them attention is worth it. I literally had a friend ruin her 5 year relationship for this coombrained MARRIED man. So yeah, there are def women out there who are just as awful. And even though I am a radical feminist there are some women I know who believe in radical feminism…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:54 PM
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Now I don't think FDS is bad at all but I have to say I know some low value or no value women who think they deserve a high value man without checking themselves and I think that's something that should be addressed too. Be the high value woman before you look for a high value man. Not trying to shame women at all but if you're out here cheating on your bf or hooking up with a new guy every other night are you really a high value woman? Or... if you're just using men for their money, is that rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:53 PM
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I don't understand the justification women have for cheating. Men don't seem to justify it nearly as much as we do and I'm not trying to be a pickme at all. I've had many friends bitch and moan about how they can't find the right guys but they're literally being low value to negative value women and cheating on these men themselves. Like really if you want to attract your ideal partner you have to be that ideal partner as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:21 PM
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Idk after watching the tinder swindler why would I be attracted to a man with money? Maybe that's a stupid statement but I wouldn't want a guy who is very ostentatious with his money. And I also wouldn't want to date a good looking guy who is a narcissist. My ex was a narcissist over his looks and extremely materialistic over daddy's money. I've already experienced that before the only thing it brings to a relationship is comfort (money that is). Looks don't mean anything to me if you're a horri…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:16 PM
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I am a radical feminist although I wasn't trying to offend anyone, just an observation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:27 AM
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Really? But some men have very high standards so even a relatively pretty girl may not be enough for a rich man with super high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:44 PM
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I think hormone levels are the determinant
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:23 PM
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Holy shit you're right and it fucking sucks. Our currency really is looks... isn't that harder to obtain than being rich? Idk both are hard though unless you're born rich or born beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:15 PM
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I think rich men like broke hot women because they are easier to manipulate I never see them marrying rich women...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:14 PM
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