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| 1 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?What about being happy without requiring a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beI’m not saying otherwise. This is why telling men to cold approach is horrible advice. Women live in constant fear of rape and violence, so please leave them alone, eh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeGoals not being aligned is unattractive though. That’s kinda my point. You are talking about “wants to have sex with”. I’m talking about “attracted to”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 01:16 PM |
| – | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeThat’s not my experience, as a man. I’ve turned down offers from women I wasn’t interested due to their personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 01:09 PM |
| 4 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeHe clearly wasn’t attracted to her as a person to be in a relationship with. I don’t mean “finds them sexy”, I mean finds them attractive. Wants to be around them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: The aspergers/high functioning autism red pill and blue pill dilemmaThere is a lot of harmful rhetoric that prevents people from receiving proper treatment. The notion that autism isn’t disorder but rather it’s hyper masculinity is one such example. This dissuades people from seeking treatment, especially proven treatment like CBT. As you will often see stated on here, there is this attitude that CBT is “feminist propaganda” or “blue pill rhetoric”. This comes from the notion that autism isn’t a disorder but rather it’s an expression of hyper masculinity. I have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beI would never lecture a women on her fears. I also don’t want to get recorded and blasted on social media. I’m in a neighborhood group and this kind of thing gets posted ALL THE TIME. It’s a real concern. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 12:54 PM |
| – | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeAre you interested in these women? If so, why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 12:50 PM |
| 5 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeYes! And this really is no different than how men operate. Look at Jonah Hill. He went after that surfer using his hookup brain. But when it started to transition from hookup to relationship, the game changed. Suddenly this women was very unattractive to Jonah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: The aspergers/high functioning autism red pill and blue pill dilemmaDaily exercise keeps the meltdowns at bay. Minimum of 30 minutes hard cardio, every day. This has been proven to be more effective than any anti depressants or anti anxiety. For most of the day after a hard workout, it’s like wearing a weighted blanket all day. Serious chill vibes. For myself, meltdowns always seemed to be random or over “a little thing.” Really, I was a bundle of stress before and the little thing pushed me over the edge. The exercise lowers my “resting anxiety level” and reduc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: The aspergers/high functioning autism red pill and blue pill dilemmaThat doctor is more qualified to make a diagnosis than you. Step off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: The aspergers/high functioning autism red pill and blue pill dilemmaIn a meta sense, accepting your situation and the odds and pivoting to focus on yourself…that will make you the most attractive. Autism is tough enough. But autism with chronic depression and self hate? That will drive people away. Remove autism and it will still drive people away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 12:36 PM |
| -1 | Discussion: The aspergers/high functioning autism red pill and blue pill dilemmaI don’t think it’s reasonable for the rest of humanity to disregard social cues and graces for the benefit of a small group of people. Social communication is a fundamental part of how we communicate. I say this as someone with autism, I don’t want nor expect society to change to accommodate me. I have to develop skills to operate within the social sphere. Friend group of autistic people sounds great though! Support and sharing tips is always helpful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: The aspergers/high functioning autism red pill and blue pill dilemmaIt’s not a hyper masculine brain. It’s a legit disorder that affects both genders. Assigning the bad symptoms of autism to the male gender is also not helpful. It promotes this anti-social behaviour by framing it as part of masculinity. This dissuades people from working on themselves. Bad advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 12:29 PM |
| 5 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeYou don’t even need to be bisexual, you just need to have women friends. The only thing women have in common regarding their preferences is that they are all different. Quite a few women don’t like the gym body look, for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 12:18 PM |
| – | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeIs the bar that low for women? Would you be interested in a women with the qualities you described? Seems like this is a self-report | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 12:16 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on MrBeast ? Does he show that ordinary men can greatly increase their attractiveness?Why don’t you think he is attractive? I beg to differ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 11:53 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on MrBeast ? Does he show that ordinary men can greatly increase their attractiveness?Everyone is born as an ordinary dude. Most people who try to make online content fail. Stay in school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 11:51 AM |
| 2 | Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the worldThis is a joke, right? If this is the big men’s issue on campus, then men don’t need help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 11:47 AM |
| 1 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?Choice B You spend most of your time at work. Especially if you are making good money…you work a lot. I would rather the majority of my time used for something useful like a career than just hanging around in bed watching Netflix. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 11:46 AM |
| 2 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?Why won’t a career carry you through life? Isn’t the point of a career to carry yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Dating advice for menHow is that a “victory”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 11:32 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Most “icks” women feel are justified as they are symptomatic of a weakness and femininityOh nice. Really no reason not to have an iPhone then! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 01:25 AM |
| 3 | Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the worldWhat male issue is not being taken seriously at university? Those gender studies classes are open to all students, not just women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the worldMen are deterred out of fear of pdf file accusations. There are movements to counter act this fear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 11:30 PM |
| 4 | Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the worldAny dumb dumb with two thumbs can work that job. That’s why it’s devastating that those jobs are being replaced by technical jobs. Don’t you remember “just learn to code”? Biden said this to concerned coal miners. Biden got roasted (over the coals) for this because the vast majority of coal miners are no where near intelligent enough to learn to code. I’m not a woman btw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 11:29 PM |
| 10 | Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the worldI work in tech. It’s still a hostile environment for women. I’ve seen shit that would make you cringe or cry. The most inappropriate kind of behaviour. I know tech workers aren’t known for their social graces, but this stuff was beyond the pale. There is still a lot of work to be done to make tech friendly to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 10:56 PM |
| 12 | Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the worldThe majority were kept out of the industry once it became “a man’s job”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Dating advice for menEmotional intelligence is a well known and studied type of intelligence. Tons of jobs have emotional intelligence tests. It’s backed by science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 10:07 PM |
| 13 | Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the worldLook up Ada Lovelace. Look up the women at NASA. Women created programming because it was considered administrative work and not “a man’s job”. Once computing took off and became lucrative, men took over the industry and it’s only now starting to recover. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 09:39 PM |
| 13 | Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the worldThere are campaigns for men to get into nursing and teaching. It’s a recognized crisis that these professions have dwindling numbers of men working in them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 09:34 PM |
| 11 | Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the worldWomen are outperforming men in math in primary schools. It’s such a differential that there is a movement to hold all boys back one grade so they will be equivalent. It’s called red shirting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 08:42 PM |
| 14 | Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the worldBecause I’ve read history. We’ve come so far in the past 70 years, it’s easy to forget how differently the world operates back in the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 08:40 PM |
| 1 | I'm confused on the overall stance women have on approachingDo you have a link to that study? All the research I’ve seen suggests it’s due to the age of the man at conception. This would explain why it seems to be “exploding” now…average age of marriage is now 31. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 08:35 PM |
| 13 | Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the worldIt’s because of removing shackles that kept women at a disadvantage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 08:34 PM |
| 12 | Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the worldLike mining coal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 08:21 PM |
| 2 | I'm confused on the overall stance women have on approachingAutism is more likely when the man is older. The sperm degrades. High IQ men pursue careers and don’t have children until later in life. There is this myth that autism is some kind of super power. There’s even that TV show with the autistic doctor that is based on this premise. It’s a stereotype and it’s a harmful one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 08:21 PM |
| 25 | Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the worldYou’re right, there’s still more work to be done for equality. Luckily the amount of C-suite women is growing every year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 08:19 PM |
| 15 | Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the worldTeaching isn’t an intellectual career!? Since when? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 08:18 PM |
| 59 | Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the worldWomen are outperforming men in universities. They are not less intelligent, if anything they are more intelligent. Just one example of “common sense” being a bunch of stereotype bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 07:34 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Most “icks” women feel are justified as they are symptomatic of a weakness and femininityEverything is integrated with each other, everything just works. The cameras are best in class. The image processing on iPhone is really good as well. iPhone integration with Macs is seamless. Android to PC isn’t even close. iPhones manage memory better and are less likely to crash. Especially at the low end market, an iPhone SE is way better than any android phone at that price point. The more expensive iPhone models add on features like better camera. I was Windows/Android for years until I ga… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 05:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Most “icks” women feel are justified as they are symptomatic of a weakness and femininityI’ve owned both. Apple wins hands down, it isn’t even close. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 05:31 PM |
| 0 | CMV : Most “icks” women feel are justified as they are symptomatic of a weakness and femininityIt’s the same in the US, which is why guys should get an iPhone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinityBoth are completely subjective. Nasty personality to one person is “fierce” personality to another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinityAs long as you are judging me based on my character and not my gender, then that’s fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinityI agree it’s a silly reason. But it happens. You just see the person on a different light after. My point is that this is a human quirk, not exclusive to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 04:42 PM |
| -3 | CMV : Most “icks” women feel are justified as they are symptomatic of a weakness and femininityThen you should get the iPhone. That was easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 04:29 PM |
| 5 | CMV Man didnt get worse if you compare men from 1950 to 2022, but if you compare Women from 1950 to 2022 you will see a INSANE decrease in "Dating Partner Quality." I am very curious if someone can prove to me that "back in the day" men were better, but i dont believe it.With the permission of their husband or father, sure. I mean women being able to open a bank account by themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinityAnnoying laugh, nasty personality, there are plenty of silly and non silly reasons that guys will say no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 04:10 PM |
| 3 | CMV Man didnt get worse if you compare men from 1950 to 2022, but if you compare Women from 1950 to 2022 you will see a INSANE decrease in "Dating Partner Quality." I am very curious if someone can prove to me that "back in the day" men were better, but i dont believe it.https://www.forbes.com/advisor/banking/when-could-women-open-a-bank-account/#:~:text=Technically%2C%20women%20won%20the%20right,refused%20service%20by%20financial%20institutions Another case of conservative men trying to erase their history because it makes men look bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 04:08 PM |
| 5 | CMV : Most “icks” women feel are justified as they are symptomatic of a weakness and femininityMen can too, if we’re honest. Like if you’re new surfer girlfriend keeps posting on social media like she did before you met. That’s a silly reason for a guy to get the ick. But it happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 04:04 PM |
| -3 | CMV : Most “icks” women feel are justified as they are symptomatic of a weakness and femininityAndroids are often cheap phones. iPhones are pricy, meaning the person who has one can make at least some decent money. You also don’t have iMessage on Android. You can’t tell if someone has seen your text message if they have Android. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinityNot confused this is based on personal experience. Men aren’t sex dogs. Attributes can turn someone off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinityOh it definitely can. Some people have really annoying laughs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 03:49 PM |
| 6 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinityWhich part is gaslighting then? “There is not a cheat code to women”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 03:47 PM |
| 4 | CMV Man didnt get worse if you compare men from 1950 to 2022, but if you compare Women from 1950 to 2022 you will see a INSANE decrease in "Dating Partner Quality." I am very curious if someone can prove to me that "back in the day" men were better, but i dont believe it.Bro, women didn’t have the right to open a bank account on their own until the 1960s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 03:46 PM |
| 9 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinityIt’s also something men can get. Pretty girl but then you hear her laugh and she sounds like a horse - ick. I don’t know why people keep dissecting basic human behaviour and using it as ammunition in some stupid gender war. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 02:25 PM |
| 18 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinitySaying women are individuals is gaslighting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinityDid you read that thread? Nobody is taking it seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Dating advice for menWomen’s preferences vary by culture, a lot. Compare western women to Asian or middle eastern women, very different. You can make meta statements that they are attracted to men who are competent and confident, but the implementation of that depends on culture. Women are individuals. One might find your charity work with the homeless to be a huge “ick” factor. Another woman might find that incredibly attractive because you are providing for others. You can’t just make a blanket statement that “wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 02:20 PM |
| 5 | Dating advice for menYes, that place is a toxic dump and obviously sexist to the extreme | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Dating advice for menYou’re comparing weight, which is a hard science and an objective fact, to women’s preferences which is a subjective thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 02:09 PM |
| 6 | CMV Man didnt get worse if you compare men from 1950 to 2022, but if you compare Women from 1950 to 2022 you will see a INSANE decrease in "Dating Partner Quality." I am very curious if someone can prove to me that "back in the day" men were better, but i dont believe it.In the 1950s, when women weren’t allowed to work, just having a job made you masculine. By definition because of sexism, having a job made you a man. Now that women are working, the mystery of the working man has been dispelled. Just being employed isn’t masculine anymore. Now you have to actually display masculine traits. This is ultimately a good thing, besides the stumbling blocks we have now. Men need a push to go out and achieve, this is what drives society forward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Dating advice for menThen please explain what being a womanizer is, and how that’s a good thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Dating advice for menBut it’s useless when actually engaging with an individual. You cannot assume a women will respond x or y just based on statistics. Because, as I said, the range of differences between any two individuals is greater than the difference between genders. Any difference in genders is dwarfed by individual differences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Dating advice for menGender studies is a bullshit academic pursuit. It’s all nonsense. Just noise in the data. Incredibly susceptible to bias and manipulation. Most studies are done on college freshman, not a representative population at all. Don’t compare soft sciences like gender studies to hard sciences like medicine. They are not relatable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Dating advice for menThe world is not black and white, it’s shades of grey. To suggest otherwise is pure folly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Dating advice for menLess than men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Dating advice for menWhat do you mean by this? Women celebrate other women in a way that men don’t to other men. This is more of a problem with men though than an issue with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Dating advice for menWhat does womanizer mean to you? I think we have different definitions. How are women abusing men…just by rejecting them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 01:29 PM |
| -1 | Dating advice for menTreat women less than because they are women…totally not sexist. Makes perfect sense. Your mental gymnastics are impressive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 01:24 PM |
| 3 | Dating advice for menThe difference between any two randomly selected individuals (regardless of gender) is greater than the difference in population traits. Meaning, you can’t use population studies to make assumptions about an individual. Not “you shouldn’t”. Mathematically it is not correct to assume traits about an individual based on their gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 01:21 PM |
| 3 | Dating advice for menAbusing women is wrong, I didn’t think I would need to elaborate on that. And if you disagree, I don’t think I can convince you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 01:19 PM |
| -1 | Dating advice for menLonely men need to be taught to be womanizers? Yeah I can see why people view this as sexist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 01:14 PM |
| -3 | Dating advice for menIt’s sexist because you take that advice and apply it to all women, just because they are women. You are treating women differently based on their sex. Ergo, it’s sexist. The advice for men out there is plenty sufficient. Work out, pursue a career, be a social butterfly. But most men would rather complain then engage in self improvement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 01:06 PM |
| -1 | Dating advice for menIt’s sexist because women are not a hive mind. You can’t make a step by step guide, the very notion of that is sexist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 12:57 PM |
| 7 | ELI5: Didn't Jonah Hill just leave a relationship that didn't work for either of them and move on to happiness and a baby with someone more compatible. How is this not a win for everyone?Sure. But why did Jonah think she would completely change her lifestyle for him? Maybe he shouldn’t have asked out a professional surfer if he has a problem with women in swimsuits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 11:36 AM |
| 1 | I'm confused on the overall stance women have on approachingI don’t think you can say intelligence = more likely to be autistic. People with autism can hyper focus on a subject and get very intelligent in that area, but it’s not general intelligence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 11:34 AM |
| 2 | I'm confused on the overall stance women have on approachingMen are not a monolith. Different men have different opinions and do different things. Wild, I know. If you want to argue everyone is an individual (I agree), don’t turn around and say “but men are actually lying about this”. Like men all think the same. We don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 11:28 AM |
| 2 | I'm confused on the overall stance women have on approachingI used to be a bartender. It’s happened where I’m finishing my shift and a woman buys me a beer so I stay after work. One woman bought me a whole pitcher! I’m not tall, nor in shape, I’m just a good talker/funny guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Most single people aren't actually happy singlePeople are miserable in general, regardless of relationship status. Self fulfillment is kinda a personal journey. People can aid you on the journey, but ultimately it’s up to the individual to find meaning in their life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 11:06 AM |
| 2 | The easy fix/sSounds like your friend wants a relationship, not a broom closet bang. Good for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 01:46 AM |
| 0 | Have you ever approached or thought about approaching a guy you liked? If not, why?You have a very stereotypical view of men. It’s really sad. Using it to justify men getting raped is a new low though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 01:40 AM |
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