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It's not hard to understand. I've got my own stuff and it is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:00 AM
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No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:26 AM
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https://youtu.be/ENnAa7rqtBM?si=djZH5WDfSvwnqAeq Here's an anthem for you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:57 AM
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Mergers and acquisitions? Deal breaker
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:54 AM
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There's no way you can have all the effects of chasing without actually chasing. Even women occasionally chase because of this... despite all the current willingness of men to chase sometimes a woman will chase. However. You could learn how to better do the mate seeking things women do instead of chasing. Looking attractive. Being visible. Giving indicators of interest. Cultivating social circles. Getting good at existing in the plausible deniability phase of flirting. Seeking new social scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:08 AM
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Nope. Bottom surgery isn't good enough yet for me to bother with a transman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:50 AM
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Not a problem of any sort if she's happy too. Just if you do that and the consequences of your decision to not be yourself ever send you to an emotionally bad place that's 100 percent your problem, you need to hold yourself accountable. That's one of the major reasons the blue and purple here often have fuck all sympathy for all the wannabe players and pickup artists who come up whining to them about how the system is broken because they can buy a girl an expensive meal and get nothing in return…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:14 AM
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Then what you need to do is hold yourself morally accountable. That means yeah sure you can take the hot chick out for an expensive meal and a chick flick and spend the whole day being...what is it you guys call it...a dancing monkey...for her, even though every fibre of your being says that's no fun thats not me, that's a lie. But if at the end of the day she still won't fuck you well that should be entirely your problem to emotionally get the fuck over, not something you should regard as her w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:54 AM
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How about this...every time you're about to not be yourself in hopes of getting some vagina into your life carefully weigh up the consequences of doing that.... firstly because some of the consequences are likely to be shit you don't want and maybe that will cause you to reconsider and secondly because thinking it through might make it harder to avoid holding yourself accountable for that choice to take a hot chick for an expensive meal and to a movie you didn't like having been your choice some…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:44 AM
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You learned a lesson about refusing when someone offers to pay for themselves..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:04 PM
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"we are expected to plan the date" Well yeah if someone male or female wants to invite someone to go somewhere specific...as a potentially romantic thing or just to talk about nonromantic stuff...they're going to have to plan that. But you always have the option of waiting until they are ready to invite you somewhere "pay for it" It is assumed if someone invites someone somewhere they pay. Unless of course they make it obvious in the invitation that they aren't paying. Is there anything actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:29 PM
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Dating covers too extensive a range of a relationship to actually say? I don't expect anyone to defend someone else in the early stages of dating. The willingness to intervene gradually grows between the couple as the relationship grows. I've been married. I've cohabited. By the time I'm at that level of a relationship I've got my partner's back and he has mine. An example is If one of us goes to answer the door the other is poised to leap into action if there is trouble. There's an umbrella sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:47 AM
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The argument being put is a fucking scam. The majority of men and the majority of women protect provide and make money. Sure the balance in any relationship fluctuates with circumstances. Maybe she goes part time at work until the kids are at school. Maybe he loses his job and she takes on a second job for a while. Maybe he's the one the maniac attacks at a public event and she needs to turn the tide of the conflict and maybe it's the other way round. But almost universally the bulk of adult hum…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:20 AM
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I think I've explained it clearly. If you don't understand it that is because you don't want to understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:53 AM
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This is their version of I will gladly pay you Tuesday for a hamburger today.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:46 AM
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I have never regarded any male partner of mine as having more or less of a responsibility than me to protect, provide and make money. Those are adult human responsibilities. If you claim those as only male responsibilities and suggest I must claim more responsibilities to compensate men, you are attempting to steal from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:38 AM
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I personally need a positive emotional connection to be happy sleeping with a man. This is not the case for every woman but it is the case for many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:31 PM
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There are countless different pastimes in the world he could have chosen. The things you choose to give your time to shape you. Why he chose to spend an average four hours a day gaming pales in comparison to what the choosing to do that did to his personal development.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:31 AM
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Pretty much. It's mostly the dudes who have no intention of ever being held accountable themselves for things like spending a decade not doing anything to gain more social skills, social circles, fitness, ability to present themselves well while having gained expert standards in half a dozen computer games. If I tell her she's not being accountable maybe she'll never get round to noticing my lack of accountability!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 08:20 PM
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You really think women don't have those sort of experiences dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 08:01 PM
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Those hot girls don't want the losers of the classes up above them as often as you might think. Because they can have the winners of the class they are actually in. Imagine being in their situation. You can have someone socially competent your own age with a hot body and a trades qualification he is quite capable of turning into a successful small business over the next decade or so. He won't think less of your lower class ways because he actually shares them...as does his family who do not look…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:34 PM
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The fact that for very sensible practical reasons you in particular can't and should not personally help everyone doesn't necessarily mean it would be a bad thing if they somehow managed to get helped. There, I've given you the idea that kept me from sliding into being a giant conservative ball of shit as I aged.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:15 PM
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And the tannin in the iced tea distracts from the taste of the sugar.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:11 PM
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Idk, I don't particularly like shrimp so don't take me particularly seriously. If you've got a lot to cook up just because you've got a lot to cook up (like maybe they were on sale) not because you're trying to make a special impressive meal then maybe use a can of tomatoes and a jar of pasta sauce and season it all to have a flavour profile a bit like paella? I mean obviously you're not going to use a lot of saffron unless you've got some just hanging around purposelessly after making another r…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:09 PM
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Ikr? I can imagine all sorts of situations including bizarre and unreal ones. It takes me about two minutes to upon request come up with a set of stories in which I falsely accuse someone. Stories with royalty and magic and prophecies and forced marriages and entire realms at stake and even royal life is cheap and desperate desperate deeds to prevent dire outcomes. Doesn't mean I've ever done it in my fifty plus years of real actually lived life or am ever likely to in any likely future. I can s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:42 PM
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Oooh oooh I've got one... Hypergamy used to mean marrying socially or financially above the status of one's family of origin. Now it apparently means a woman showing any positive attention at all to a man who has anything to recommend him. Bloody youngsters nowadays, pack of whiny unaccountable jerks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:07 PM
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Depends how it happens. Let's imagine it's 5pm on a Saturday night and you have a sudden plumbing emergency. You start shutting off the main tap, calling around for plumbers, cleaning up the water and getting wet things things set up to dry. You also quickly text the person you have a 6pm third date with. Sorry will be very late should we reschedule? In return you get a reply "I don't fucking believe this that you'd flake on me like this." Then a minute later "you'd better be here by 6.30" Then …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:13 AM
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So let's say on a particular instance I think this practice of showing up to a date just to have a confrontation that you think is automatically healthier than lack thereof may end up in the other person becoming angry enough to start doing violence... should I carry a concealed weapon to this sort of date because of a potential need to defend myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:33 AM
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Idk. How much would the ingredients of each cost? Is one made with fresh fruit and the other made with some sort of chunky frozen slurry? Transport costs to the shop? Got anything else you want to do near that smoothie shop? Is it 9am on a lazy Sunday morning and you're at risk of doom scrolling all morning if you don't get your arse out the house and see some sunshine? Decisions are complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:57 PM
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Well since most of that is decidedly just a performance it's definitely taking you off the path of being excited by most women's natural normal reactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:43 PM
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Facade. It's a facade dude. Like when the shop assistant smiles and fawns but is really thinking when will this dumb bitch make a purchase so I can make quota.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:24 PM
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But statistically it is likely you've probably viewed a bit of it anyway. Even if only because of a particular piece being notable in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:21 PM
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I'm in my fifties and have existed with access to both sex and porn for forty years. I know both. Porn, if one uses it, is part of one's exploration of one's sexuality. And most types of porn are only partially fantasy...there may be acting but the deeds are real. If you watch someone get fucked in the arse they are usually really getting a dick up them. And quite frankly...many women are grossed out by men with extensive porn experience in much the same way as many men are grossed out by women …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:33 PM
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People also masturbate to things they very much want to do, and discover new things they want to do via porn explorations. Both things are true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:22 PM
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That's moving the goal posts. The person I replied to claimed men did not experiment much with their sexuality. Masturbation is part of sexuality and most men experiment with it extensively, and especially experiment with porn and masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:15 PM
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Men experiment plenty with porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:21 AM
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A woman is not a patch to apply to a man's cracked facade to prevent the toxic feelings within him leaking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:53 AM
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https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c2lj7e0519xo Turns out bacterial vaginosis is likely to be an STI.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 02:26 AM
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4711
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:32 AM
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Dating is trifling and irrelevant to most of human existence it only looms large for the ones nobody wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:26 AM
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No, we encourage the men in our lives to seek therapy when they've got obvious issues within themselves they say they want to change and we've tried to help them but every time it ends up with the man angry and the relationship destabilized. So we try to get him to go to a professional so he can have help AND a functional and supportive home life. The ones who have serious issues in themselves they say they just don't want to change we generally just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:37 PM
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Nah. I'm old by your standards. At no point have I ever faced a shortage of interested men from the group of men I regard as most compatible with me. And my interest in having any man at all in my life is waning far faster than their interest in me that's for sure. So for all relevant purposes that have any impact on me, mens collective opinions on when my prime is just doesn't count at all, never did, not so much as one single solitary fart, not so much as a penny laying in the gutter, not so m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:23 PM
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Bottle flick trick indicates multiple areas of physical competence that many men do not possess. It's as valid an admirable sign of superiority as a six pack is. There's some people who can't master a skill like that no matter how they train. And men are just as likely to be attracted to someone who has positive traits they don't possess. For example all the loser social rejects who are attracted soooo hard to women whose empathy skills are highly developed and use those skills oh so casually...…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 07:25 PM
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Everything has a price tag dude. Even if only in terms of all the other things that could have been done of that particular thing hadn't been done. In most places in the world where abortion is available women indeed have to initiate and pay for the cost of any abortion thats not strictly medically necessary even if it is life enhancing because the decision is regarded as diifferent to a decision to have a lifesaving abortion... you're just too damn clueless to actually know this. Your argument …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 07:17 PM
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Oh as soon as you think being equal in what it costs to be sure will cost you as much as women must pay you decide to limit the equality. Figures. You're not really about equality it's all just sophistry to you. Look....a great many people both male and female who have produced and raised babies look very poorly upon men who do possibly impregnating activities with women they clearly think of as untrustworthy sluts. If such activities produce a baby what you have done is make a child whose fathe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:00 PM
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Accurate paternity does not ensure a kid gets a full and accurate medical history of their parents. You'd have to bring in legislation to open the parents medical records to the kid for that to happen... something I'd be all for but I'm not so sure other people would enjoy their kid knowing that they had chlamydia or that they'd attended hospital with a can of beans shoved up their bum or thinking that their friction burn from a long porn watching session was a serious advanced sti. I know who t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:50 AM
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In Australia Oil of Olay was called Oil of Ulan for decades. I can't say Elon without thinking of lotion. Oil of Elon.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:27 AM
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Maybe I get diagnosed with terminal cancer and decide fuckit I'm not going to waste the opportunity to kill someone who the world would be better off without and only do a few months time for it? That's basically the only crime I've ever let my mind wander towards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:24 AM
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Idk. It sends a pretty bad message to kids even if he can't follow through. The president doesn't give two shits about your curriculum and will gleefully abandon you to the vagaries of what's popular in education in your particular state. Kind of a deadbeat vibe to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 01:30 AM
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The nurse at the nursing home complained that my grandmother with dementia only wanted dessert and refused to eat the first course. My mother said "just give her two desserts then" and the nurse was shocked, horrified. Like bitch please what's it going to do...shorten her life while giving her the one thing she still enjoys while she can still enjoy it? This is a negative how?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 01:24 AM
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Hypergamy is originally a sociological term intended for use in sociological discourse. It's generally reserved in sociological discourse for matters of economic and social status. I think you can only push it so far before it becomes totally meaningless. If a woman is for example to be regarded as hypergamous because she admires how well her boyfriend solves crossword puzzles or how he can do that bottle flick trick the term has entirely lost any weight and gravitas it originally carried when p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:42 PM
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It really depends whether casual sex is her primary operating mode and she's relaxing into picking based mainly on lust or she's doing it due to a one off emotional situation that was in place before she even decided to have casual sex and doesn't really have anything to do with the specific man and is all about her. If she's decided life's too fucking boring and it's a problem that she never does anything to seek new experiences and this new year she's going to pick a man and fuck from midnight…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:52 PM
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Well I doubt we'll pass the home visits requirements now. So I guess we're no longer even considering adopting unless we live somewhere that hands out parentless children like tic tac.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:52 AM
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Men volunteer to have the diagnostic D&C I need so I don't have to go through it. I throw them to the ground and stomp on their faces and say how dare you attempt to steal part of my female privilege from me! Police...take him to the castration and forced labour facility where he will be sewing clothes for Barbie dolls the rest of his miserable neutered life. I love being a woman it's just so empowering all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:02 AM
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Bisexual men have two somewhat statistically different sets of humans they want to appeal to. That's always going to lead to occasional decisions to do something that appeals more to one of the sets of humans than the other set of humans. A haircut a pair of glasses a pair of trousers a shirt...all opportunities to make yourself more or less attractive and all things that men who have sex with men and women who have sex with men potentially have different opinions on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:55 PM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/Ha9m_GkTIe4?si=WozcW4J4X6ZVJ3GF
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 07:17 PM
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The don't discriminate against Venezuelans boat sailed weeks ago and the USA wasn't on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:48 AM
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Idk. I'm bored too because things are getting repetitive here but not in the mood to actually make a post then caretaker it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:20 AM
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You bored?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:12 AM
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America should make it illegal for an American to pay for sex in Venezuela. Tren de Aragua runs a high proportion of the prostitution there. It's just common sense. One simple, easy to obey law that victimises no-one to help cut off the supply of American $$$ to that organisation. It's not like there aren't other places in the world to go for paid sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:00 AM
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Well to be fair since it's a sugar site it wouldn't be better chances so much as cheaper chances. Getting what you pay for. I guess it's just up to the individual guy at what price point he's into starting to pour some sugar.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:46 PM
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Heh. I wear basically that except for a daintier watch as my "I really can not be bothered today" outfit...and I'm a middle aged woman. Sure can tell that's a cheap coat. Also stubble is only sexy rather than slacker if it's obviously deliberate. He should consider shaving his neck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:39 PM
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It's fairly common for men to sign up to dating apps and parts of dating apps that aren't really meant to provide what they are looking for. Like telling the app they are female and a lesbian so they can go bother lesbians. So ummm like whatever it's just humans being human. And what's wrong with a market having a bottom end?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:31 PM
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There's still people providing good service in countries without a tipping culture. Management have to actively manage employee performance to make sure they get good performance, that's all. It's no longer by default the customers job to detect and reward or punish depending on level of service. Have you ever left America?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:04 PM
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Waiting for some passport bro to post about how friendly and desperate for a green card, money, anything the Guadalajara girls are and how really it's not that dangerous there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:29 PM
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I would do it to women who give that sort of vibe too if I dated women and if I ever met one who gave that vibe. Do you think women who give that vibe are common? If you're encountering women who give that vibe by all means ghost the bitches. The only type of sexism I'm guilty of here is I guess if you regard heterosexuality as sexism?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:50 PM
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I am not obligated to suffer an outburst before making myself absent. If I do a risk assessment based upon his behaviour and communications and decide that aggression in response to an honest statement that there will be no second date will be the response I am well within my rights to delete and block. You don't owe some one you've only been on one date with free shot at being aggressive at you. They can work it out. If they can't work it out then you're no doubt not the only aspect of the worl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:51 PM
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The cow and pig varieties that take longest to grow are usually the tastiest. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:33 PM
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I was thinking more like delicious elephant roasted whole.on a spit. Elephant sausages. Elephant steaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:32 PM
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I wonder whether an elephant based livestock animal would ever have been a possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:50 PM
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There's some similarities between that and my cheater ex. Specifically the whole takesies backsies attempt. You call one of their family members to come deal with them. When you phone the family member be blunt...you don't care if they kill themselves at this point but you know their family will care. And you divorce them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:49 PM
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Maybe you could get a scholarship if you go for a degree where the standards are low. Around here that's Agricultural Science
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:45 PM
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Drowsy sort of opiate snooze?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:06 PM
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Okay different tack...hold your phone in a manner that maybe you're videoing him or maybe you aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:01 PM
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Get up go to the bathroom, come back sit somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:57 AM
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2 "something about these guys are getting them an audition' Yeah. They don't go home from school or work, get straight on the computer and spend five or more hours a night playing computer games, whining on Reddit and wanking, they actually go out and interact face to face enough to learn a few things. That shit adds up. You know how good you are at playing your favourite game? They've just got more tactics and strategies because they've played their particular game more. You chose whatever it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:52 AM
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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14506009/sld-killer-Courtney-Morley-Clarke-port-clare-central-coast.html Eewwww.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:18 AM
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Yes it's not unreasonable for an individual to see that as desirable and auspicious thing for them and not seek to explore options that do not offer that. You're doing nothing wrong if that is how you mate seek. But it's still just a way and there is no the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:13 AM
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"Everybody wants me"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:44 PM
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Sigh. The essence of the social aspect of masculinity isn't "I need other people" but rather "Other people need me" For men not to be lonely they need to be needed. And that doesn't have to be by women they are hopeful of romance with it can be needed by friends, it can be needed by a workplace that actually behaves well towards them or a political group or a criminal gang or their family or whatever. A lot of guys here get angry about that because they feel that if other people can contact them…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 07:38 AM
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The country I live in grants alimony only in exceptional circumstances and for as short a time as necessary to deal with those circumstances which usually means if the other party is futzing about trying to delay the divorce or if the alimony recipient is caring for a disabled adult child of the marriage or an elder from the alimony payer's side of the marriage and that interferes with their potential to work for money...or other such odd situations. Truly rare circumstances. So this question al…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:02 AM
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Most women die alone even if they married.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:37 AM
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Having very restrictive standards is only delusional if you won't be happy with the consequences of not getting your preferences. If a person were to for example have the standard of only ethically sound billionaires... there is some debate about whether such a thing exists at all...but would be just fine not dating at all ever, then they aren't delusional at all. They've set a standard they can deal with the consequences of having set... that's a very reasonable realistic thing to do This calcu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:32 AM
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Not really. There's a rather complicated set of dynamics between them. The person who likes people for example tends to work hard to acquire good social skills. And learning things whether deliberately or on your way to other goals does rather tend to change ones sense of self and reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:27 AM
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A couple of those pictures are giving some mild meth addict vibes. Just something about the clothes and posture. That's a no from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:24 PM
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If you're having trouble deciding maybe instead of making a broad judgement about body hair make a specific set of judgements about your body hair in particular after actually examining it thoroughly. Is your chest hair attractive but you've got these weird patches of hair on your back that aren't even symmetrical? Is any of it greying, how do you feel about that? Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:10 PM
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I'm not calling those decisions flawless logic I'm saying that those decisions are rational...that is reasonable and based on logic. My decisions in this regard do not have to be flawlessly logical and I have never and will never attempt to make my decisions about other people so. And if a man wants to fuck flawless logic he should definitely not be looking at other human beings to stick his dick in...he should go home and attempt to root his computer...which is probably more amusing and sensibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:57 PM
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The guy who wrote The Gift of Fear got it absolutely right in my opinion. If the furtive weird guys at bars overlap significantly with the angry aggrieved weird guys here defending the furtive weird guys I absolutely do not want them either, btw. No point getting to know them either
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:28 PM
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Well here you go switching the goalposts from two stranger dude's chances to even talk to a girl at a bar or club and one of them winning that contest because he's there with friends and not radiating furtive weirdness to the chances of two entire categories of man getting a relationship with any woman at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:22 PM
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It's primarily about safety. Very much about safety. And safety is a moral imperative if you've got people who love you. Of course if I need to send someone away consequent to an assessment of risk I should do so in the most convenient way possible. Furtive weird dudes actually make that easier to do by behaving furtively. By not being in company of friends. By not adhering to the normal social behaviours.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:05 PM
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Weird autist vibes overlap with predatory vibes. Maybe weird autists should set their minds to eradicating that overlap from their vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:00 PM
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People who make other people uncomfortable by their actions need to get used to the fact nobody with other options wants to give them comfort in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:49 PM
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Because my preference is meeting guys through hobby groups. If I'm at a bar it's to be with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:27 PM
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I don't want to stick around furtive dudes long enough to understand their nuance. If they wanted to be as fair to me as they want me to be fair to them they would stop being furtive. It's a fair and balanced situation in my opinion. They cause me fear, I deny them the opportunity to continue to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:25 PM
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I'm not saying one is better or worse than the other just that you can't reasonably compare the decision making process around them because the abusers mostly manifest in very different ways to how the furtive weird guys manifest. For example usually the domestic abuser who you may or may not have definitely realised is a domestic abuser but usually there's been some signs he's not a great guy is out with his friends and some friends of his friends.And obviously you're going to go over to talk i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:19 PM
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I don't know him from Adam when he's furtively relocating himself around the room to glance at me and make false starts to do something while spewing out anxiety vibes everywhere. And I don't want to find out. Like I said the best I could possibly hope for from finding out is a socially incompetent friend and the worst is being assaulted. He's low on the social ladder because nobody likes his behaviour. If he wants to be higher he needs to start by taking responsibility for his behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:56 AM
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It's like you want me to compare two wildly different natural disasters. Like dude...floods and wildfires are different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:49 AM
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If he wants objectivity he needs to go fuck a plastic doll, human beings see each other subjectively and he's clearly not into that. Love is subjective, hate is subjective....he needs to go hang out with things that do neither. Self preservation is a sound moral choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:39 AM
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Just because he's socially anxious in public with strangers doesn't mean he's gonna be a real sweety in private once he feels comfortable. And if I were to go by the way guys here who are like that display their nasty side here, I would have to say the furtive weird guys have high chance of at very least attempting to bully their partners once actually in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:35 AM
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I use the word "furtive" for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:10 AM
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The DV guy and the furtive weird guy aren't a direct equivalent because they are usually giving out the clues to their nature in different ways at different times. And usually the DV guy is neuro typical and going to be better at adapting how he communicates about his DV depending on how tolerant the particular audience generally is of it and how willing to keep his secrets. Ruling out the DV guy requires entirely different strategies. It's really quite useless comparing them. And of course some…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:09 AM
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Actually it is extremely moral to protect oneself. How fucked over would your family be for the rest of their lives if you were found naked and beaten to death in a ditch with a splintered tree branch shoved up your butt? Well that's the sort of shit that can happen to people who drop the ball on protecting themselves from folks whose behaviour might be due to ill intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:55 AM
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I just don't think that's a question relevant to this topic? i mean I get it, you're desperate to either find any angle to deny the fact it's sensible to shun the furtive weird guy and failing that to start sealioning on some other topic so I'm not longer hammering my very valid point...but I just don't see it as relevant to the point I'm making. More people should tell furtive weird guys to fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:50 AM
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It's their dysfunction not the dysfunction of everyone around them. They are adults and they have left the realms of school programs for the disabled. They are personally responsible for either learning how to interact at a level that gives them access to the parts of society they wish to interact with or finding and inhabiting the parts of society where their level of interaction is acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:26 AM
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It's not usually about status. Status issues usually involve just not getting called back. It's about how if someone is exhibiting significant amounts of highly visible approach anxiety it's fairly hard to tell if they are just an exceptionally anxious person or if they are anxious because one of the reasons they intend to approach is that they intend to perform actions that deviate quite badly from what is normal and acceptable. If someone is one of the best and brightest, charismatic and magne…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:22 AM
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Like I said, the criminal tattooed guy has usually practiced some radical acceptance of the fact he scares people a bit. If he's looking to make connections with nice normal easily scared people then instead of continuing to hang around in situations and exhibiting behaviours where he's scaring people then blaming those people for being scared he seeks out situations where he's less scary and in those situations performs acts that make him even less scary. For example the guy who did the lights …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:10 AM
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It's not rational to make efforts to give chances like that to people who at absolute best are people you don't actually need in your life. Someone whose life is going great, lots of socially adept friends and good ability to acquire more socially adept friends doesn't actually need all the weird disconcerting dudes lurking about at the margins. Why would they stop the party to spend half an hour calming one of those guys down and getting him comfortable communicating when the chances are fifty/…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:48 AM
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It's entirely rational not to give chances to furtive weirdos when you're awesome and have a lot of awesome friends already. It's mind blowingly obvious that's a rational course course of action.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:18 AM
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Dude. I don't care if you don't think the reaction is fair. The girls these guys target are goddamn awesome, therefore they've got enough friends and don't need to give chances to furtive weirdos behaving in disconcerting ways. If those guys want to be included they can learn to behave in ways that don't set everyone's teeth on edge. Or they can find someone who wants to be their friend but is weird enough to set their teeth on edge and then include that person in their life. DEI is pretty much …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:08 AM
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I've worked a fast food job. It's definitely unpleasant coming home smelling the way those jobs make you smell. And the shift work and how it destroys any semblance of a routine lifestyle and makes weight control extra difficult. Wouldn't for a moment have blamed a man with a less gross less disruptive job for not being interested. He's worked hard to not have that bullshit in his life, if he has the option of continuing to not have that bullshit in his life through his choice of mate of course …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:33 PM
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The tattooed criminal usually knows accepts and works around the fact his appearance initially scares many people both male and female. The shy nerd guy is usually in total denial of how his social dysfunction is also quite scary and even when he has it pointed out to him that furtive behaviour by a stranger raises the question of why the fuck this guy so uncomfortable in this situation...and not all the possible answers to the question are innocuous...he fights hard, viciously, to continue bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:33 PM
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It's never going to fucking happen though is it. As soon as one suggests even the simplest and easiest of behavioural changes along those lines such as carefully reading profiles on dating apps before swiping and actually deciding to completely reject certain women straight up, there's a conga line of outraged dudes whining about how impossible unfair and wrong that is for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:23 PM
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I raised one issue that is a fairly common reason why someone in the USA might not be in a hurry to take just any old job... raising one issue isn't exactly a crusade. I think you just don't like it when some aspect of reality doesn't coincide perfectly with what you think morally should exist. I sort of sympathise because I too was horrified when I discovered that some peoples experience of losing a job is systematically set up this way, that taking a stopgap job makes things worse. But when yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:11 PM
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That's for state legislated unemployment insurance. Highly paid professionals often have privately purchased insurance. Mostly in their employment contract through their employer as part of the employer's general policies on high value employees. The idea is if the employer sacks an employee or just retrenches them they want the employee to find a well paid job rather than get a macjob that just pays the bills because if the employee falls into a rut and feels stuck with a macjob they are likely…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:53 PM
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That would be government unemployed benefits? From what I've heard, the sort of unemployment insurance that involves you paying or your employer paying a set percent of your income as premium to a private insurer can have provisions where you basically get a proportion of your previous income for a set number of months but if you take a job....any job...even one shift...the insurance ends. So if your previous job was very highly paid that $600 Macca's job might be quite a money loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:36 PM
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From what I've heard about unemployment insurance in the USA in some cases you lose it if you take any job...and if your lost job was highly paid even though through insurance you're only receiving a portion of what your wages used to be it can still be basically a money loser to go do DoorDash or whatever before your insurance runs out. I too was amazed to hear this it seems totally dysfunctional but the person who informed me of this (admittedly it was a decade ago) was adamant. Insurance can …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:29 PM
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I wouldn't quit my job unless I had discussed it at great length with my partner. Or maybe if my employer ordered me to do something profoundly dangerous or deeply unethical...I'm not going to die or go to prison for some rat bastard boss. So idk. Sounds a bit weird to me. You also say I was laid off which is a totally different thing. Which is it? Anyhow. If he wants that divorce we need to live separately and apart for a year because that's just how things are legally here. And I'm not moving …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:31 PM
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Life's a journey, but the unfortunate obligatory destination isn't the point of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:49 PM
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I would have to answer nonfiction because otherwise I can't read contracts and instructions on medication and how to operate machinery and use my phone and other significant things. But if we are talking purposeless reading just for funsies...I'd pick fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:42 PM
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Maybe stop worrying so much about looking pretty and once you're looking as pretty as you ever think you will pick a different positive adjective to aim for? You can look polished you can look creative you can look cuddly you can look witty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:38 PM
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Poke out the eyes of the men who care if I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:35 PM
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You're not really rich unless that's chump change in your family.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:46 PM
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99 percent of people are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:44 PM
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My baby takes the morning train...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:43 PM
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No I don't see people doing that though? Everyone knows Bonnie Blue is gonna be just fine and the guys who are salty because now a woman who would never want to marry them in the first place is unacceptable to them are totally irrelevant. The sort of women that progressives are more concerned about intervening on behalf of are some chick who had three boyfriends in highschool only one of whom she went all the way with, two in college, lived with a guy for a couple of years out of college and now…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:40 PM
1

NGL I wish some guys would shit or get off the pot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:30 PM
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Or you could y'know...accept that it's not the fault of an entire gender that your parents were idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:29 PM
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Some man will be eagerly willing to marry her though, if she's willing to choose from the men who are into that. Why is it a problem when people expect water to be wet and fall downwards? I expect she will marry if she wishes to. I'm not going to stress out if she doesn't but I 100 percent expect she will find a guy who thinks she's the coolest thing in the world. She'll probably have an easier time getting married than some chick who has only done fifty guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:26 PM
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It isn't the unusual boundaries per se. It's that people who decide to have particularly unusual boundaries are most often 1) idiots who haven't thought through the extra risks and therefore the likely downfall of their relationships due to the unusual boundaries And also... 2) incredibly fucking smug and convinced that their unconventional choices are evidence of some sort of superiority on their part be it a superiority of ethics or a superiority of attractiveness or a superiority of courage A…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:49 PM
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So basically you are attracted to women who put a lot of money and effort into their appearance and this has resulted in you dating women who want to be trophy wives but just haven't made it yet. Here's an idea. Swipe yes on a few women who look like they could really do with a makeover. Ask yourself how much more attractive would this one be after a three hundred dollar haircut, a thousand dollars of new clothes, and six hundred dollars worth of cosmetic products carefully explained to her by a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:29 AM
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Maybe you just need to choose better... because everywhere I look amongst my kid's friends I see young women in relationships and marriages with young men who are together working extremely hard to as a household survive and make economic progress in a difficult and stressful era.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:10 AM
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Oh I've been in this situation. Larger but well within physical tolerances was a bit physically nicer but the nicest thing was when one girl my new partner had hooked up with about five years before started dating my ex and I knew she was too blabbermouth to resist telling my ex he had the smaller penis. That...that was just chef's kiss. Sometimes fate outright hands you your vengeance quietly and without you having to deliberately do anything to get vengeance. Pretty sure it bothers my ex to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:50 AM
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Usually people who act like that...and there are a lot of people who act like that not just women, also desire some attributes that aren't common in single people among the group they'd rather have a relationship with who would also consider them a prospect. For example she'd really like an honest man with a decent income but she also wants masculinity, an ethnic or class heritage similar to her own and him not to have been married or fathered a kid before. Or he'd really like a skinny woman ten…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:25 PM
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Men don't need to be particularly good looking or pleasant or useful in a household to have casual sex with men. Women don't need to be particularly good looking or pleasant or useful in a household to have casual sex with men. The moral of the story is if you want casual sex it helps to like dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:40 AM
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Most women are having sex with only one man and it's because not only are they attracted they also want to build a life with him. The ones you are talking about in this post are not the same women The way to find out why those women select who they do is to be friends with those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:16 AM
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Or at least can't complain and keep anyone's respect while doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:51 AM
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"sex is sex" Then have sex with a man. If "sex is sex". I guarantee you that if you live in a place with enough people there's men willing to fuck you in a public toilet tonight after minimal negotiation. You want sex with a woman. Which is not what she's getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:47 AM
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You don't want cocks penetrating you. You're getting upset because someone else is enjoying something you don't want at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:53 AM
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Send a singing telegram.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:33 AM
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I think the key thing is to always be realistic about how long you've known someone. People end up screwed over because they start treating someone they've known for a total of four hours in person contact and a few hundred words of texting like an actual partner. You barely know that person, obviously it's normal to still be discovering deal breakers at that point and normal to just end the interactions rather than let someone try to waste your time trying to convince you they didn't really say…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:43 PM
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Idk dude...why do some guys think they are all grown up and ready to be romantically active but are too chicken shit to ask a woman why she does something and instead run off to a subreddit and ask them to guess why she's doing what she does. That just doesn't make sense right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:44 AM
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First dates? If we've never gone anywhere together just as friends then I would expect him to pay if he asks me on a first date that has a significant cost attached. If he doesn't want to do that maybe he should wait until I'm the one ready to ask him out rather than try to hurry me along. Impatience and rushing usually has a price in this world. Flowers? I am mildly fond of flowers but a weekly purchase certainly seems a bit excessive. I would feel uncomfortable. If we live together I would lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:47 PM
1

That naivety of yours gonna get you in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:22 PM
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You're completely fucking delusional if you think consent is by itself enough to make predatory aspects of a relationship nonexistent or that everything that feels like love is love or that feelings of love automatically mean no exploitation is present. This place is full of what seems like virginal but over sexual fourteen year old boys claiming vigorously that they know how complicated aspects of human relationships work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:54 AM
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I've never taken less than six months because I recruit only from friends so whatever. But there are times in my life I have idly considered it. Those times have been when I felt I wanted a pivotal memorable experience to contribute to a process of personal change. Sort of like how if one was stuck in a rut one might decide to have an experience that has always been available but is a bit silly and inconvenient and one doesn't usually do. Maybe one lives at Redwood Park but there's a part of tow…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:21 AM
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I lost patience with it fairly quickly . Did you at any point, simply clearly and in one paragraph or less define exactly what you mean by The Sexual Diversity Movement? Is it something we are more accustomed to seeing referred to using other terminology? If you didn't define what you mean by that term I suggest that would be a very good start towards simplifying the entire post and making it more readable. I also suggest putting the clear definition of it earlier in the post because people are …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:14 PM
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If most women you meet have met bad boys in more than say a passing way through work (like idk..."these gang members came in and ordered lots of burgers" type of thing) or having been in the same retail premises at the same time buy sunglasses or having gone to a friend's house and his brother had brought a friend round who has brought someone with him who they quickly realised they don't want to know...or other such unavoidable aspects of modern life...then the fault is probably with how you pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:08 AM
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Why doesn't it make much sense? Ethical deviance tends to cluster up the top and down the bottom of society. How many billionaires who are not scoundrels do you think exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:29 AM
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I guarantee you the rich ones that are marrying down in age are bigger messes than the rich ones that aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 12:07 AM
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It's because even though the relationship is going to be highly unpleasurable for herwhen he's old enough to be her father at least the divorce will set her up for life. The average guy who supports age gap relationships has neither attractiveness nor squillions of dollars and is merely a seedy old man who wasn't liked much by youngsters when he was their age and hasn't aged particularly well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 11:26 PM
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Hmmmm. I've only got a sample size of two, but the first one I dragged it out at first because I was very committed to making that marriage work. There were times when I was thinking well this seems doomed but just let it run a while maybe I think of something. Eventually I just got really depressed when it was obvious things weren't going to work no matter what I tried. I don't know if you've ever been depressed but it can make taking any form of useful action difficult. Then after I was depres…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 09:11 PM
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A Victoria's Secret model isn't exactly going to be screaming it to the world if she feels her love life is inadequate and she's not attracting the men she wants. I'm smart enough to realise that what is publicly presented is not always the personal reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 08:03 PM
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That's about the only instance I've ever seen of "going on a break" that makes perfect sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:34 PM
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She should join some tabletop roleplaying groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:28 PM
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Ah, you see I've been to what is generally known as a nightclub precisely three times in the three and a half decades or so I've been old enough to go. And each time it was to see live comedy or live music. Those places aren't particularly appealing and fewer people as a percentage of population are frequent nightclub users than you probably imagine. So yeah you find trash in the garbage can, not a surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:33 PM
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Well obviously you're an expert on male desirability... how many cocks have you personally taken?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:27 PM
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The reason we don't say it about older women isn't because older women who seek to date much younger men aren't just as much of a mess as older men who do that...it is that generally older women aren't running about trying to ruin some young boy's youthful years. Absolutely if there was a 35 year old woman in my social circle desperately trying to get every 18 year old boy to put his cock in her and fall in love with her I would be having a few words with those boys parents about the predatory n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:07 PM
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Sigh. A little bit of tension is like pepper on scrambled eggs and nobody normal is going to keep wanting someone who is just sort of there and completely and utterly bland. But that's about the ratio that's to most peoples liking. The level of tension that's inherent in the fact you are two different people. Yes people of both genders partake en masse in fantasies about bad boys/girls, Instagram baddies, being seduced by cougars, all sorts of situations that are a bit riskier. Some even like a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:48 AM
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Getting stuff done is attractive. Hugging and puffing and making a big fuss so everyone pays you attention while you get stuff done is a lot less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:53 AM
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If the sums can't be made to adequately add add up you're going to eventually be miserable. If one of you is miserable eventually the other one will be miserable too. I'm not going to knowingly set myself and someone I think is pretty cool on the path to a miserable life together. I'd rather we were both free to seek a happy life elsewhere. And not just for my own sake. Not everything one desires is a wise choice or a kind choice. NO SCRUBS I have to refuse alliances that will cast either of us …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:33 AM
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Nah dude. I've been the breadwinner. I've been the one bankrolling lifestyle. That's not the issue per se. It's about whether we will give each other a good life, better and more fulfilled than apart. If the answer to that is no when I ponder us separately and together then I have to refuse the alliance. We go our separate ways. Material provisioning is an integral part of whether one can have a fulfilled life. It's an unavoidable fact. My resources only extend so far. His resources only extend …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:08 AM
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No. Love is about building a life together that you are each proud and pleased to give the other. If together you can't do that...if both of you together can't avoid some form of misery together including the misery of serious material deprivation ....then if you hold any affection at all for the person and for yourself you must walk away from the possibility of that relationship so that each of you now have the freedom to find someone else who they can actually build that happy future with. NO …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:12 AM
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I just don't think love is what you're talking about there. Infatuation maybe. NO SCRUBS
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:56 AM
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Love takes a while to grow. I'm not going to let it grow in circumstances where the end result is most likely a miserable life for me. Even if I could somehow tolerate the miserable life I shouldn't imagine the man involved would be happy if I was miserable...unless of course he doesn't love me. I'd rather avoid loving someone who doesn't love me. NO SCRUBS.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:55 AM
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Oh. It shouldn't concern me if I allow myself to do the things that allow a person to become become pairbonded with someone who has never been and possibly will never be more than a burden? Find someone with an IQ under 90. They might fall for this argument. NO SCRUBS
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:26 AM
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Then you're gonna need to negotiate a raise at work kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:15 AM
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If I'm definitely going to be worse off financially with a man, I don't want him. It's already a huge risk, that you will get together with someone then they get sick or injured or depressed or develop a bad attitude and can't/won't work and you spend your life caring for them and accomplishing nothing else.. I accept that as a possibility, the risk is part of the price of admission but I refuse to enter any situation where it is the trajectory at day one. How stupid would one have to be to star…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:16 AM
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Yes. They form a liking for highly gussied-up top totty who spend twenty or thirty times more than the average woman does on appearances. And then are shocked, shocked, that to contemplate having and raising babies with a man such women want a very presentable home, enough money to maintain their beauty routine, gym membership with personal trainer, designer clothes and a fancy school for the kids, weekly manicured and a great big gemstone on a solid gold band.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:02 AM
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Get yourself a nice old beater that still has a lovely "smile" and a few side dings from previous collisions. Watch everyone on the roads give you a respectful distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:41 PM
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I totally get not liking the pinky ring. Everyone has differing degrees of comfort in how far they are willing to stray from their culture/subculture/community/class of origin and something like a pinky ring can be a massive indicator of all of those things. When I was a kid the only men I ever encountered wearing a pinky ring were my father's dodgy Greek (the nationality not the US college phenomenon) friend from university who nearly went to prison for involvement in a huge government health b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:31 PM
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Material and financial aspects of life need to be attended to or life is miserable. Male or female, someone who has set their life up to be a loving partner who doesn't make a future partner miserable will have attended adequately to those aspects of life. Some people just aren't ready to be an adult and yet have aged out of the era in life when parents are doing the taking care of them. They're going to have trouble in their adult love life one way or another. I say this coming from a place of …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:55 AM
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I don't know any woman who thinks anyone is obligated to date? What I do know is women who would like people to shut the fuck up about how hard it is to get a date if they also happen to be categorically removing large swathes of the dating population from consideration. It's not hard to get a date you're just picky...which is absolutely fine so long as you take responsibility for the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:53 PM
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To live at peace with a vegan you just gotta go vegan and zone out whenever they start ranting. Billions of humans have endured more hardship in relationships than that and counted their relationship good.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:14 PM
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Vegan women get on fine with vegan men. Yeah I'd give up animal products in a freaking heartbeat if it would solve any of my unsolved intractable major personal issues I really care about. Giving up animal products is for the most part...excepting a few things like some medicines that even most vegans agree have to stay...do-able for human beings. A faffing hassle and a lot of work and a loss of several sources of joy that I would have to seek replacements for but absolutely do-able. If I was in…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:08 PM
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Cool cool then. All men who are unwilling to go vegan have life partners. Why are so many of those men still complaining here that they can't even get a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:07 PM
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If they really wanted a life partner as much as they say they do, those men would get with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:46 AM
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Yeah whatever. Men who won't give up animal products in order to get into a dating market where the gender balance favours them are living proof that the necessity of having a sexual relationship is being vastly over stated. I'm not vegan but I'd go vegan in a heartbeat if it solved any of the major issues of concern and dissatisfaction in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:38 AM
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Feel insecure all you want, it doesn't actually matter if it's valid it merely is...but bad behaviour as a result of insecurity is still bad behaviour and a woman with standards is unlikely to put up with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:38 AM
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