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| 5 | night approach | Field Report | No-Pay9075 | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 07:18 AM |
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| 5 | i need to escalate but can't figure out how.I used to struggle with this a bit so maybe I can help you since it's not really an issue for me anymore It's one of them things that learning about game and stuff probably made me worse at, as I was so in my head and overcomplicating it with all kinds of escalation ladders in my head ('i need to somehow find ways and moments to touch her wrist then her hand then her shoulder then her knee, then her thigh then her face' etc etc etc lol) So let me tell you what I do now; What's important is that … | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]that's a weird opener lol. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 09:03 AM |
| 21 | Stop Focusing on Your Lookslets not sugar feed it though. If a girl doesn't think you are good looking, no amount of game is gonna help. Looks are super important, but yes, we actually have to put in effort to change it as much as we can. gym, style, lasers for skin, and sometimes more extreme stuff. Not just whine about it and do nothing | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 09:01 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]good game, good game! | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Has an EXTREMELY direct approach ever worked for you?everything works and nothing works. There's really no right or wrong (barring ridiculous examples!) If you are her type, indirect or direct is fine And if you're not her type, nothing is going to work | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 12:35 PM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]it's just a numbers game. Unless you are extremely good looking, most girls are gonna reject some stranger hitting on her, even if he's 'learnt game'. It's all good. Keep going | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 08:43 AM |
| 1 | How many rejections in a row is too much?there is no number. I mean, do you think if some guy who looked like Danny devito at his age now, but was approaching hot 18 year old girls he wouldn't get basically 100% of the time even if he had 'game'? He could make 2000 appraoches and get rejected every time even if he was super charasmatic and confident (had game) So it's really all about the various variables. A rejection either means you're not her type, or your 'game' is so bad that it makes overrides her physical attraction since she's… | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 12:10 PM |
| 5 | Does anyone have videos of Julien Blanc doing pickup back in the days? Infield footage? I wanna reference his style.you can torrent his old programs i'm sure | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Why you have no success with British girls, and how to remedy thatI don't really mind. They tend to just ignore you or be honest and tell you you're not their type very fast, so it saves wasting time on 'no girls'. Just move on to the next. US girls can sometimes lead you on a bit as they're so friendly | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 02:24 PM |
| 3 | The first 15 seconds of your approach can literally make or break everythinga million times this. It's why all the experts disagree with each other. It's why the community used to 'debate' so much about direct vs indirect blabla. It's why the coaches actually get rejected just as much as we do. It's why many have used actresses in infields etc It really is basically a numbers game. If you are her type, you'll be ok as long as you are not ridiculously weird and creepy. If you're not her type, it's over. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 09:34 AM |
| 4 | boyfriend destroyerNo. If you were her type she wouldn't bring up her BF in the first place (if he even exists). You can try though. Use the various bf destroyer lines and get back to me For example : 'how long have you had that problem?' or 'I have a gold fish' and when she says 'what?' say, 'i thought we were just naming things that don't matter'. But no, it doesn't work i'm afraid. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 10:15 AM |
| 16 | Seduction or Neurotic?sounds like he's trying to run some sort of pushpull/hot cold 'game'. He definitely wants to smash. Sounds like you do too. You might have to take the lead here as he might play this game until he's literally one thousand percent sure he won't get rejected if he makes a move | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 09:20 AM |
| 4 | [FIELD REPORT] She fucked me in the car and then made out with my roommate.I like your reports. You must be a very good looking dude the way the girls are always super into you straight away. Keep it up my man!! | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Any attraction, game and social skills books, channels etcpretty much haha. I've seen them all. It all boils down to the numbers game. It's a game of screening as opposed to converting. No matter how many courses you watch and stuff. There's no secrets and we all know the same stuff | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 01:58 PM |
| 6 | Youtube advice gurus ruined my lifeAMS is all talk, tbh. See that vid of him where he was talking all tough about he was gonna approach some girls, and then a group of young girls walk past him, and he freezes and starts making excuses etc lol. He has nothing to teach anyone anything about girls | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 10:11 PM |
| 13 | Is it normal for a girl to approach a guy?nothing. Lucky swine was just lucky to be born handsome lol | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 07:21 PM |
| 10 | Is it normal for a girl to approach a guy?it happens. Although some guys will basically never experience it, and some guys (like my best friend) will get it about 10 times per night lol | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 03:21 PM |
| 5 | Why Picking Up Girls Is Like Playing PokerFirstly spotting the signs that she is interested. And then making the convo more man to woman. Talk about things you wouldn't talk about with your male co-worker. Look at her like you wouldn't look at him too! On high points (where she's laughing at some shit you said or whatever) increase touch. Escalate on high points. Pull her towards you and then shove her away lol. At some point you'll want to slow it all down. Try to move the convo to something better suited for seduction. Stuff about her… | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 03:08 PM |
| 3 | DEBATE: Show interest and intentions YES OR NO? WHEN AND HOW?depends which expert you listen too Many say not too, and equally as many so that you should I think it's irrelevant tbh (Probably why they all disagree). If she's attracted to you, there's no harm in doing so. And if she's not attracted to you, you were never gonna get her anyway | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 11:37 AM |
| 28 | Why Picking Up Girls Is Like Playing Pokersometimes I feel like the game/skill element is a bit overrated. I used to never get laid, even if a girl seemed to think I was at least quite attractive. Various reasons. Scared to escalate being one of them Since reading a tonne and approaching even more, I get laid some now and am better at actually closing the girls who think i'm somewhat attractive It's really not that hard. Try to not creep her out and bore her to death, and escalate in a calibrated way. I feel like people could learn all … | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 08:56 AM |
| 2 | night approachinteresting thing is actually that when i've been to the US i've been blown away at how receptive and friendly etc girls are compared to girls here. I tihnk in part due to the fact that not all places are like the US in terms of it being somewhat 'normal' to talk to stranger. (stranger danger is much stronger in places outside of teh US) So with that in mind, negs SHOULD be useful at the open here. But as I say, you tend to get a very hostile reaction. LIke a peasant trying to 'neg' Kylie Jenner… | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 06:29 PM |
| 14 | How MUCH Does Height Matter?that sucks. Speaking for myself, I don't ever try to hit on tall girls, but it's not because I don't find tall girls hot. I do! It's more that I assume there's no way in hell she'd want to hook up with a guy shorter than her. | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 06:21 PM |
| 2 | night approachfor what it's worth I COMPLETELY agree with you. I've found any sort of neg or even light tease to be social suicide in Europe and on young girls at night in particular. These girls with their 5000 insta followers and stuff don't seem to care about chasing my validation like the books say lol. A neg, even a very mild playful one is met with 'Ok. Whatever' Go away. You're ugly!' kind of thing as she's trying to get away haha. Just hostility as you'd expect if you negged Kylie Jenner or something … | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 06:13 PM |
| 6 | Are height so much important for women?i have friends who aren't very tall who get laid lots, but just like you and the other guy in this post, they are very handsome facially End of the day, height is just a part of 'looks' I guess. Kind of depends on what her specific 'type' is when it comes come looks. If you are close enough, you can bang her. If not, approach the next girl I guess | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 12:34 PM |
| 1 | How are people are able to hookup with people they met the same night?you probably just need to be more direct. Bolder. All of the hard work is done for you (attraction)- just escalate | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 05:58 PM |
| 12 | SOCIAL MEDIA IS WEAKENENING OUR SEDUCTION POWERyeah, social media is rough I tried DM'ing some random hot girls who I don't know but who live near me using some apparently 'tried and tested' PUA lines from experts and of the 10 DM's, 9 ignores and one girl said 'huh??' and then blocked me as I was gonna reply lol I do better in person. Social media has made all hot girls celebrities, essentially | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 05:21 PM |
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