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Fundamentals No-Philosophy5461/r/seduction10/11/24 03:28 PM
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Field ReportNo-Philosophy5461/r/seduction22/10/24 01:42 AM
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There's always exceptions. I'm not justifying predatory male behavior either. Consent 100% of the time is important without a doubt. However more often than not the encounters are probably consensual and enthusiastic in comparison to the rape and coercion that you mention. And a regret or second guessing after the fact is NOT rape or any form of force against either party. Communication is key, and if the male or female cannot healthily discuss said things and rules/boundaries; then no, they sho…
/r/seduction07/02/25 04:33 AM
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The " banged sex good" wasn't that good mate 🤷
/r/seduction06/02/25 02:40 PM
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"Didn't bother using a condom" She still had sex with that guy who didn't use a condom and it wasn't rape from what it sounds like, she's spinning a narrative to make you think she's different or wasn't into hookups for awhile. There is no difference in displaying a white knight bullshit facade. If you're a genuine/caring person do so, but don't do it out of pity or because you think you're better. And you want to liberate/change them? Good sex is something every guy before her probably said. Be…
/r/seduction06/02/25 12:19 PM
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No
/r/seduction24/01/25 05:38 AM
5

Honestly online dating or your friend groups are the only "safer" chance you have. You talk to the girl, you court her. A date. You do not include friends or any of any sort so as to ruin the experience. And if they are hesitant about meeting you somewhere particular you talk to them more and meet them in a public place first and build rapport. Now as far as rape accusations? Try to vet the women before getting too close to them or alone and don't give them a reason to want to blackmail you like…
/r/seduction13/01/25 04:58 AM
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Hear me out though; maybe just find those who are worth your time and match your energy. Most of the time if they're attracted to you, you don't have to work that hard for it unless you come off super clingy/possessive right away.
/r/seduction20/12/24 09:09 PM
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The women might be different in Madagascar 🤷
/r/seduction14/12/24 06:27 PM
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Nurses and medical professionals. Because they've seen it all and need something different to grab their attention
/r/seduction09/12/24 09:55 PM
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That's cool and all until the table is turned..have integrity
/r/seduction24/11/24 12:29 AM
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Save the dignity
/r/seduction21/11/24 02:55 AM
4

He was a player more than likely. And using her. He didn't get sex...so he dumped her
/r/seduction15/11/24 06:19 PM
1

Which is funny cause not all women can handle big sizes either.
/r/seduction15/11/24 06:16 PM
1

Go on a date, have sex together then see how you and her feel after.
/r/seduction15/11/24 02:43 PM
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19 to 29. Had a few opportunities with older women (mid to late 30s early 40s) but they come off more wishy-washy or not worth the effort. I've flaked on them or they have multiple older/younger kids and are hard to plan things with. Not that I don't have older options still available but I kinda leave it on the back burner as I don't really want to date a woman with kids closer to my age than I am with the woman.
/r/seduction11/11/24 04:13 PM
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I see that now, so yes. And I will say it does suck when you think you found one that you really want to experience things with but it ain't reciprocated or they string you along. They won't always admit to it, but actions speak over words in my experience, regardless of what they may tell you to keep you around. There's many more out there, as opposed to getting stuck on one. And also realize that the only reason you may be drawn to one that doesn't seem as interested consistently is literally …
/r/seduction11/11/24 04:07 PM
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Eh I've been on both sides of the coin, some women do the same . But you're 100% right.
/r/seduction11/11/24 12:37 PM
1

Morally? Yeah you won't gain much after 10. Preference wise? You have a good idea of your type, physically and emotionally/mentally. But yeah as far as sex and the physical intimacy goes? Unless their communication style lacks showing affection regularly, then yes there's definitely not much new to learn or gain. Aside from finding someone on the same wavelength
/r/seduction11/11/24 04:49 AM
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I'm not super tall at all, 5'10 barefoot.
/r/seduction11/11/24 02:39 AM
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Already have been
/r/seduction10/11/24 10:48 PM
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Emotionally (attachment, availability, caring as much or as deep.) it may just be me but that's my experience.
/r/seduction10/11/24 10:47 PM
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Exactly. I found it had nothing to do with the sex part of getting attached and more just the way we communicate and connect when it isn't physical. That's when it becomes the dangerous part if it isn't mutual. Because psychopathy and narcissism is a real thing.
/r/seduction10/11/24 09:10 PM
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I told you. The only reason it's 12 is because I was in a long ass relationship in high school and somewhat after. How many did I date to lay 11? None. Only one got more serious for a bit because we enjoyed each other. (Fucked on the first date) Most of em were from online. One of them I worked at the same job (met in orientation) and hooked up the same month. Another one I knew from high school. The rest were online.
/r/seduction10/11/24 09:08 PM
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Restaurants, their place, parks, etc. Dated? 1 was only more serious.
/r/seduction10/11/24 08:53 PM
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And sometimes it is the ones that are harder to get that are worth the chase. You can usually tell from the jump though if they're worth the effort and are genuine or just playing games.
/r/seduction10/11/24 08:05 PM
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Agreed. I will say I can't sleep well with multiple women in one day. (I did 3 in 24 hours last month and realized it was more about me chasing a high than anything) Idk how people do that cause that takes so much time and effort and it's kinda shallow. (it is everyone's individual choice yes) but I don't wanna be that person who isn't willing to commit if the relationship goes there, as I've had that done to me and I just lose interest and attachment quick.
/r/seduction10/11/24 07:53 PM
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Usually within the first to second date or time hanging out after talking a little. Some women will ask their friends for advice on hooking up or sleeping with people because they don't wanna come off like a hoe. But you gotta be patient yet bold and take the opportunity as soon as it comes. And looks have nothing to do with playing hard to get or playing games, I've had less attractive dates play hard to get just as much or little as more attractive ones.
/r/seduction10/11/24 07:49 PM
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If you're referring to sleeping around, confidence comes with the experience. Sometimes you have to be a little persistent (not desperate or pushy) and some women you have to be assertive and stand your ground with as a man. I don't mean disrespect them or anything like that, but be upfront and forward and let them know you aren't going to be a doormat, yet being yourself and showing them they can feel safe around you is the biggest factor that has consistently gotten me laid (physical attractio…
/r/seduction10/11/24 07:44 PM
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Absolutely. You have to see both sides of the coin to appreciate the whole piece.
/r/seduction10/11/24 07:39 PM
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This is more accurate, I fell for a short term fling last year and got heartbroken (I was naive and dumb) then I tried seeking again this year in June. So yeah 10 since June? I do get tested and try to be careful with protection when I can though
/r/seduction10/11/24 07:39 PM
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You do until you don't. I definitely understand the sentiment of how it feels before you seek out Pandora's box. But once you get it you realize it's just like chasing the wind, you'll never be fully satisfied. It's like you lose a piece of yourself with each person over time (even if it's just casual)
/r/seduction10/11/24 07:36 PM
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Results for what?
/r/seduction10/11/24 07:34 PM
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Yeah I kinda came to the realization last night when I bagged a real baddie (she was my 12th overall) that I thought was out of my league. But felt like meh it's whatever after. I'm in therapy, and I definitely want something worth waking up too and not wasting time and energy on. Jumping between people gets tiring quickly like groundhog day.
/r/seduction10/11/24 07:34 PM
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Well if it's just random people off social media you're messaging and not on a dating site and you've also never met them. Then one they probably aren't attracted to you, and two they didn't want attention on their personal profiles. Usually hitting someone up on their actual socials is something you do after meeting them in person or talking to them on a dating app or something similar.
/r/seduction10/11/24 03:20 PM
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Say you contracted herpes from another hookup. Bet she'll ghost you quick after that. 🤣
/r/seduction09/11/24 08:16 AM
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Overrated buddy, I didn't lose my virginity til 23. After a long failed relationship, my body count went up by 9 in the last year and a half. You'll get your chances but you have to be assertive (albeit respectful) and take initiative to get there most the time. Getting laid doesn't fall in many males laps like women
/r/seduction04/11/24 03:20 AM
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So just saying do you want to hookup to a rando? 🤣 There's gotta be a bit more effort than that
/r/seduction26/10/24 05:27 PM
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Did you mean to say with? 😅 Most hair transplants are obvious is all I'm saying. And there's no shame rocking bald if that's your genetics. Something you can't naturally change like height as well as opposed to weight
/r/seduction23/10/24 06:57 PM
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Unfortunately I had to shave my head and accept the hair loss a year or so ago. Trying to hold on to it with snake oil hair products or transplants is a joke. But I also have gotten more attention/women since shaving my head. I think it's because I was able to accept that more and who I was physically with stuff I could and couldn't change. Some people will like you some won't. Your hair/body/eyes isn't the sole factor.
/r/seduction23/10/24 06:02 PM
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Dresses and skirts help with that too
/r/seduction23/10/24 01:54 AM
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Oh it isn't post nut clarity 🤣 did I not state I didn't nut nor even try to? It ended near as soon as it began
/r/seduction22/10/24 05:19 PM
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Oh fuck no. She asked if I was gonna hop in the shower after, I didn't wanna touch her anymore so I said nah. I took a whores bath
/r/seduction22/10/24 12:55 PM
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Hit me with the "Text me when you get home, I'll keep in touch." I replied like 1-2 times to be respectful, she knew though. She hit me with the "Hey" a couple days later
/r/seduction22/10/24 12:54 PM
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You're telling me dude. Worst night of my life
/r/seduction22/10/24 12:52 PM
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It's a possibility. I've been with virgins that smelt though so I don't think it's solely sperm. There's so many factors
/r/seduction22/10/24 12:52 PM
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I used a condom. I just wasn't feeling the risk to reward ratio, like I don't need to nut just for a nut's sake. And no I have and have had other options. I just wanted to see if my gut feeling was right about losing attraction upon meeting her in person the first couple times. Not ugly, just not my type.
/r/seduction22/10/24 05:28 AM
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I don't wanna say it's body odor. I can handle a little bit of a sweat smell; were all human. I get it. It's more the vagina is all. I don't think she was unhygienic. I should add she noticeably showered before arriving as her hair was still damp and I could smell soap. But in between I just wasn't having it. Even if someone doesn't use body deodorant on their butt I can handle most if they stay on top of washing & wiping there. But this was in between the legs. Shaved too so it wasn't "hair cap…
/r/seduction22/10/24 05:23 AM
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They're not necessarily nasty because of the smell. And you can't always tell..to play devil's advocate anyone can have an STD. Not just the ones that "look gross" it could be a PH thing too or something they don't know about. I like to give people the benefit of the doubt.
/r/seduction22/10/24 04:51 AM
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Like the movie "Good Luck Chuck" 🤣 I've felt like that a few times
/r/seduction22/10/24 04:40 AM
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Oh it isn't anything to do with intimacy or physical sensations. Strictly the smell. I have a very keen sense of smell too so it's a blessing and a curse.
/r/seduction22/10/24 04:38 AM
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That's what I'm thinking. I know I have a lot to learn still; it's just some people I've been with it's like I was willing to do way more with and less disgusted by doing things versus some I just can't even touch once it gets sexual. Maybe it's a genetic chemistry thing where the scents you just almost find repulsive? I forget what the term or phrasing is but I'm starting to believe it more in my experience.
/r/seduction22/10/24 04:19 AM
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I went through it one time with a previous fling. Paid for the hotel, picked her up and all. (DONT DO THAT for first encounters) I didn't have an out without seeming like an asshole. This chick smelled something rank near the ass. Like smelled like she ate a Mexican buffet for a week and went to the bathroom each day with explosive diarrhea and didn't wipe or shower. (That's how bad her ass was.) Before the pants came off it was okay. She was on her period as well, anyways..I was doing her doggy…
/r/seduction22/10/24 03:33 AM
1

My point is if you have to read a how to, it isn't gonna work..you can read til you're blue in the face but until you get hands on experience none of it matters. If the interest is there it's literally as simple as letting your balls drop and in some cases being persistent but respectful and fun to talk to. Like the only reason I'd be getting downvoted is because the people in the subreddit that don't take initiative don't wanna accept that's what it takes, no girl is gonna throw herself at you …
/r/seduction21/10/24 04:17 PM
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You don't need a whole ass book on how to do this... I hooked up with a coworker a year ago and initiated socials and all pretty quickly after we met in orientation. Trying to make a whole ass story on how to is such bullshit
/r/seduction21/10/24 02:37 PM
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Gentle but assertive, humorous but not a clown, confident but not arrogant or douchey about it. And last but certainly not the least: hygiene and a good cologne/scent (usually it becomes most noticeable when you've broke the touch barrier.)
/r/seduction17/10/24 11:19 PM
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That's still what I'm saying, I just mean you hookup with everyone upon the first time meeting you're going to catch something.
/r/seduction15/10/24 07:16 PM
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You can get a feel for it by slowly escalating touch and seeing how she responds. Don't be a creep, if she doesn't reciprocate the advance or seems uncomfortable; stop. Usually they'll joke about you playing footsie or something, etc and they'll play back. But unless you're at her place or your place; it probably isn't gonna lead to sex. News flash: very few times will a woman invite you over or come over the first time meeting. Most of the hookups on the first night is by luck, assertiveness an…
/r/seduction15/10/24 01:23 PM
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You have to feel it out. Not every woman or any woman every day is going to want to bang on the first date. Think about it...they don't know how many people you've stuck it in and vice versa. So that's why it's safe to at least talk and meet a time or two beforehand. And if it's that easy for every woman you meet; would you not wonder how easy it was for any other past partners? There's gotta be some resistance
/r/seduction15/10/24 01:20 PM
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In other words; if not already..she already has her eyes, ears and legs set on who she wants to be ploughed by. (It isn't you)
/r/seduction15/10/24 12:46 PM
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Protect your heart man. Detach from the outcome. That way if they're playing games or not interested you can easily collect yourself and find someone worthwhile
/r/seduction15/10/24 02:24 AM
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Women use vibrators usually as a result of not being able to have a man get them off. Men don't need a Fleshlight to climax like ever 🤣
/r/seduction14/10/24 12:39 AM
3

Think about it though you've seen more naked women than any of your distant ancestors
/r/seduction14/10/24 12:38 AM
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You can lie your way in between somebody's legs in the hopes of a relationship if that's what you're getting at. But none of that will last long if that's all you're wanting. Eventually it takes its toll. And you'll be old and alone and body counts and the women you were with won't matter. They'll all be married and have kids and grandkids of their own and or you'll be paying the lifestyle while another man cares for them.
/r/seduction12/10/24 04:31 PM
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You gotta actually talk to em some. And don't just invite em to your place, you have to give options. Sometimes the mood just changes, periods/hormone changes are still a thing for women last time I checked. If you aren't swooning her first, you're way less likely to get anywhere physically. Especially before even meeting.
/r/seduction12/10/24 02:08 PM
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You gotta actually talk to em some. And don't just invite em to your place, you have to give options. Sometimes the mood just changes, periods/hormone changes are still a thing for women last time I checked. If you aren't swooning her first, you're way less likely to get anywhere physically. Especially before even meeting.
/r/seduction12/10/24 02:02 PM
1

It's too late. That's a once a lifetime thing unless you're famous
/r/seduction12/10/24 12:36 AM
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Step 5: Wake up to reality and find you a queen and quit acting like everything's a game.
/r/seduction12/10/24 12:06 AM
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This has to be a troll post 🤣 For one, any straight man would have been balls deep already. Two, the women probably think you're gay if they're letting some random stranger that didn't touch them, sleep near them. Otherwise they would've kicked you out already.
/r/seduction11/10/24 10:28 PM
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The thing with same day lays is your risk for more serious STDs and just STDs in general go wayyy up, compared to people who wait a bit before just fucking like rabbits. Like if you want ass that bad go hire a sex worker
/r/seduction11/10/24 08:21 PM
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As long as the girl is shorter you don't have to be 100% honest.
/r/seduction10/10/24 11:55 AM
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I admire the confidence though is my takeaway. I'm trying to think like that a little more slightly.
/r/seduction09/10/24 11:31 PM
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That's just arrogance with a touch of denial though. Confidence? 100%. But you gotta balance it out to not come across ridiculous.
/r/seduction09/10/24 07:56 PM
1

And neurodivergents
/r/seduction09/10/24 07:54 PM
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It's about the implication 🤷 You gotta build that tension then play it off like you're not too eager but ask if they wanna hangout longer, make sure they're comfortable and bam
/r/seduction09/10/24 03:29 PM
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It's about the implication. 😆
/r/seduction09/10/24 03:28 PM
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I think it's all about wording. I've gotten more luck saying we can just talk some and order in or watch something and obviously it led to sex. But for women there's a lot of triggers that make them not want to come off as a hoe. Strictly inviting them to your place is one of them. You have to be more underhanded in your words. I've had some tell me they wouldn't hookup too soon and I responded okay, and we ended up fucking.
/r/seduction09/10/24 03:27 PM
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I'd at least give them a 2-3 strike policy for rescheduling. Shit comes up and life happens. If you have not met face to face yet; you have to take it at surface level value and not get butthurt. Being patient and understanding goes a ways longer than acting like a dick because you didn't get your date instantly. But yes if they reschedule you then leave them the option to decide when to meet up. I got rescheduled on twice because the girl was sick, she apologized each time and appreciated my un…
/r/seduction09/10/24 07:20 AM
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Sounds to me like you didn't escalate when all the green lights were flashing. She lost interest from your lack of initiative which can come off as not interested to a woman, and found somebody who would go all the way.
/r/seduction09/10/24 07:08 AM
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Oh not it definitely happened before social media. Just albeit different situations entirely, like stalker/serial killer/assault days.
/r/seduction09/10/24 07:06 AM
2

Exactly, the only time chasing would be a thing is if either partner are non committal
/r/seduction06/10/24 10:25 PM
1

The only thing extra I would add is don't be a pushover on the first date or so. Some women just like and expect any man to bend to their every whim and get what they can out of them, also in the process you're just being overly nice and or laying on your back for someone you don't even know. So some might lose respect for you out of that and you don't seem like as much of a catch. Split the bills at the restaurant, don't overly compliment her as in try to match only by as much as she compliment…
/r/seduction05/10/24 11:45 PM
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The stigma of sleeping or not sleeping together on the first date making someone more or less slutty and vice versa with waiting weeks to months makes you some saint; is pretty archaic and it's just a societal thing. It doesn't make any woman or man more likely to be promiscuous with multiple people. People decide before they have any interaction on what they are at least open to. You're not gonna win a relationship through sex and a woman isn't gonna lock a man down by making him wait longer or…
/r/seduction05/10/24 11:31 PM
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Yeah. Honestly it's just not something that anyone needs to overthink. It's not rocket science. If you click, you click. If not, move on. No amount of sleight of hand messages are gonna change someone's no to a yes or vice versa unless you're an ass
/r/seduction04/10/24 04:47 AM
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Honestly if both partners are emotionally and mentally mature. There won't be the push pull/mind games bullshit. That's moreso for women or men who are sleeping/dating around and wanting to keep their options open
/r/seduction04/10/24 03:55 AM
1

Guess it depends if you're wanting an escort or a non sex worker. As that was literally your question in your post a few hours ago. Pay to play i guess if that's the only way you can get it.
/r/seduction04/10/24 03:50 AM
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Guess it depends. It's a bit invasive for just meeting someone and if they're on the fence and or skeptical it definitely could give off "I fuck anything that has legs" vibes. I think hand kisses are more once you've established a connection but you can't compartmentalize any interaction between just one person or another.
/r/seduction04/10/24 03:43 AM
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Something else that was shiny caught her eye
/r/seduction04/10/24 12:03 AM
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Now throw in free will, life and other men doing the same exact thing...and you are back to square one. Really you just have to strike when the iron is hot
/r/seduction03/10/24 11:55 PM
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Girls can read lack of interest better than men
/r/seduction02/10/24 06:57 PM
1

That's not even hard, the worst part is when y'all agree to meet and or you fall off beforehand or she changes her mind and wants to be friends after meeting. That's when you dip out, cause impressions in person mean more
/r/seduction02/10/24 05:53 PM
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If she laughs isn't foolproof, she's gotta lose herself laughing and or not like just smiling and laughing because of nerves or anxiety.
/r/seduction02/10/24 03:27 AM
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Exactly. And there's so many more women and men that don't do the stringing along bullcrap and will be straight up about it and not waste each other's time. I think another thing men as a whole need to quit is having any attachment outside of building a quick good first impression. Don't pay for each other's shit, don't overly compliment, don't act too invested or get anxious attachment. 2-3 strike policy of matching interest and or "dates" then drop them if you haven't met up.
/r/seduction01/10/24 08:54 PM
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Just drop her. Friends go both ways and some girls use that to have the benefits of a relationship without committing or putting out. She more than likely isn't interested and if she was decided in person she wasn't. And if you stay in her orbit which some guys do to any female. She will either get a boyfriend and stop talking to you or she's getting dicked down by a bunch of bad boy "chads" while you're paying for her dinner and simping. Respect yourself. Not every girl will like you and it isn…
/r/seduction01/10/24 08:44 PM
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I've had more girls that I found attractive and they felt the same; that I did not catch looking at me than the supposed obvious contact guys think when women are allegedly into them or checking them out.
/r/seduction01/10/24 07:01 PM
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Then you're not having fear with those people and it's kinda pointless cause you're not actually gaining experience with someone you have attraction to
/r/seduction01/10/24 06:58 PM
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Okay, with that info you're 5'7-5'10 with dating site stereotypes. Honestly you sound average; and lacking social skills while being average won't help with first impressions and getting a foot in the door. Females play games and work the system too just like men. There's honestly no telling of a situation just by someone appearing to only look at someone. Maybe you caught her eye? Maybe she wanted to see if she could siphon some free drinks? Nobody knows til they put themselves out there for th…
/r/seduction01/10/24 03:11 AM
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I mean it's that simple. It ain't high school anymore just talk and get to it. Women want sex just as much.
/r/seduction26/09/24 04:54 AM
0

Be a gentleman, non chalant. Don't get too excited but be assertive if she entered your space first. Take her home 🫡 But if you're asking this you're either gay or a virgin
/r/seduction25/09/24 04:57 PM
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There's a lot of STDs out there too, but I don't stress about not having those 🤷
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:13 PM
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Or Has herpes.
/r/seduction24/09/24 08:30 AM
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Just dick her down already 😆, I doubt she's a virgin so if you ain't gonna put in the work, somebody else will
/r/seduction21/09/24 06:21 PM
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It's OLD did you follow rules 1 & 2?
/r/seduction21/09/24 03:49 PM
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I'd say there's an in between but yes definitely give the 2-3 strike method with hanging out or plans. But if all you do is interact and pursue people who are easy you aren't gonna be satisfied with settling. And there is the push and pull method if they have slight interest in you but until you put a face to each other social media is very shallow. That's why it's good to plan and then if they are putting it off throw them to the curb
/r/seduction19/09/24 06:15 PM
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I want a follow up, if she actually replies or not. If so, that's awesome. But a lot of guys just think since they're working and being nice that girls in customer service are totally into them 😆 just make sure they didn't have a preset number they give out.
/r/seduction14/09/24 08:41 AM
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Don't tell them at all, and have fun for a few moments til they find out and want nothing to do with you.. Or tell em from the jump and be left with next to no one until you decide on one at a time
/r/seduction12/09/24 11:54 PM
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Yeah and most women from clubs that are gonna reciprocate advances so quickly; you would not want to touch.
/r/seduction12/09/24 03:26 AM
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Agreed. Usually I wouldn't expect to get anywhere with customer service while they're working, let alone if they reject you once; do not keep harassing them as this is probably a regular thing for any woman and they're literally doing their job. But at the same time if you are adamant just shoot your shot but be a gentleman about it OP
/r/seduction11/09/24 07:06 PM
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Are you ever getting the chance to go to pound town? Or are you constantly getting cut off and excuses for constant rejections? It means nothing until you're securing the person in a relationship of some kind. Whether that be a short fling or more of a long term connection
/r/seduction11/09/24 07:03 PM
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Don't be weird bruh 😂
/r/seduction10/09/24 01:46 AM
1

Nothing til your balls deep
/r/seduction09/09/24 04:14 PM
1

It's a filter, I've heard that from multiple people. You just don't lead your conversation being creepy and sexual..most females don't want that in their first interaction.
/r/seduction07/09/24 04:47 PM
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Period
/r/seduction07/09/24 04:46 PM
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Agreed, like news flash most people are tired of waiting for sex if you don't click or vibe and the horror stories of people waiting excessive lengths to have sex and then the guy has a micropenis or just sucks in bed has been made known to many. Not saying it's impossible or wrong to wait and you shouldn't bang every person after meeting them, but both sides being celibate for a prolonged period to form a "inseparable" bond is getting to be unheard of outside of organized religion.
/r/seduction07/09/24 04:45 PM
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Most of these girls you speak of aren't interested in you because the way you are speaking about women who aren't sexually repressed; in this post. I would say speak your intentions from the jump, yet alone maybe just try to meet someone offline/more in person if it's that "easy" for you. Most the girls you're speaking of are already accounted for or don't see you as long term material/high value for a relationship.. Very incel vibe dude
/r/seduction07/09/24 04:41 PM
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Oh well yeah. My bad then. But I am just saying if anyone talks about one person they'll talk about you too when you're not there so yes. Integrity and honor definitely is a factor
/r/seduction02/09/24 11:10 PM
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Again...That entirely depends on the woman and the guy and their past relationships. I've known and heard both sides. Those who talk bad about an ex unless it was toxic or abusive aren't the people you want to be in a relationship, they will only blame others for their problems. Just because something didn't work out doesn't always mean the other party was a POS or whatever.
/r/seduction02/09/24 08:48 PM
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I'm not doubting your friend's morality or choices. I'm just saying that the girls that feel the need to reveal that or even think that aren't good for anyone. It's probably just a temporary ego boost for them. Best of luck to your friend though, I just wouldn't stay with a chick like that. Same goes for guys though too, I know it happens on both sides.
/r/seduction02/09/24 05:55 PM
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Personal trainer in this regard, also physical therapist 😆
/r/seduction02/09/24 05:52 PM
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Agreed. Although no person is worth losing sleep over if a simple interaction can drift them away from their partner. If they can, they're for the streets and shouldn't stay in a relationship
/r/seduction02/09/24 03:25 PM
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To an extent sure, but if a chick is doing that; she already probably made her mind up. And she's a girl at that rate not a woman. As well as if it's that easy for the PT to pick em up, whatever the bf had with them was not real or genuine. If a gym bro can steal someone's girl or ex; they weren't genuine to begin with. If all a girl or guy wants is to fuck any person that gives them attention or is slightly attractive then they should stay single and enjoy raising kids alone or paying the child…
/r/seduction02/09/24 03:23 PM
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Moreso cause I had trouble committing with the situation. And couldn't justify staying with her doing all that.
/r/seduction30/08/24 05:49 PM
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Nah don't sell yourself short it probably wasn't anything you were lacking. A chunk of females and males that age kind of even if they seem more mature are still in that live crazy/careless as much as you can for a bit era because life is too short and you'll miss out. (News flash you're never satisfied. But everyone has to find that out on their own)
/r/seduction29/08/24 05:36 PM
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Hinge, played it cool. Chick had a little daughter and I was a gentleman with both of em and told them I would be (albeit cut things off for different reasons) Asked what she wanted to plan to hangout after back and forth over a couple days and she was fine with me coming to her place and we "watched Netflix" (How I Met Your Mother ironically enough.) and met every night for a few weeks and got it out the system. Best sex I've had as of now though. She said the same multiple times even after we …
/r/seduction29/08/24 05:33 PM
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The eyes chico, they never lie.
/r/seduction24/08/24 04:30 PM
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There's so much more to it than just eye contact. A fling I had over a year ago we sat next to each other a couple seats away in a class/course. There was no long eye contact but you could tell from your peripheral we would both glance and lean that direction to each other up til we broke the ice and talked. She sat in the same spot every day as did I. Usually you can just tell by body language, responses, and eye contact/proximity. It's a process but there's also people who are just in denial t…
/r/seduction24/08/24 04:28 PM
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Gonna have to assert yourself and be dominant as well next time. Not an ass or anything but man to man, no more passive stuff. Most the time confrontation will scare guys like that off cause they're called out on it. It's very incel behavior on their part. Shoot you might even try just sparking up conversation with the women and getting in their circle respectfully and then the cock blocker can be completely ignored or disregarded. Buy em a blowjob or something and make em think you're gay.
/r/seduction24/08/24 04:21 PM
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Open the options like the woman you're talking to is. Then just quit responding and texting so quick. If there is actual interest on her side even a little bit; she'll wonder why you aren't fawning over her and seek you out. But it's also something more with younger people and just something you have to grow out of with the bullshit and games. Most the time they probably lost interest or are hoeing around if it happens consecutively and they don't explain.
/r/seduction10/08/24 02:10 AM
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Not one from a hoe. That goes for both sides.
/r/seduction07/08/24 03:36 PM
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Me too
/r/seduction05/08/24 03:57 PM
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