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It was a reference to all the scenes in 80s movies of the guys checking out the hot girl at the pool with slow motion But feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:44 PM
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If the relationship is monogamous that’s a deal breaker by definition
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:03 PM
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What did it tell you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:54 PM
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Accusations of hypocrisy are always projection. everyone is a hypocrite about something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:41 PM
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Good Will Hunting game
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:39 PM
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Pro tip: die before you realize life is a scam and people get attached to you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:55 PM
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bobs vagene
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:28 PM
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Acting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:21 AM
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Multiple reasons She needs to hate and incels are an easy target, nobody defends them and they’re mostly deplorable A woman posting nudes publicly is more likely to be a target of a violent incel (which yeah makes her foolish for posting and so on) if she posts nudes for free she probably doesn’t have very good self esteem, leading to a need to project it or introspect, she chose projection, see #1
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:28 AM
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People using “dysphoria” (an emotional state of distress that could be caused by anything) interchangeably with “gender dysphoria” (a mental health condition specific to gender assignment)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:28 PM
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Blue pillers and a sadness they just can’t seem to identify the source of
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:36 PM
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Oops, I was wrong. Good for you 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:38 PM
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There’s a whole lot of “you aren’t supposed to say that part out loud” energy in those takes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:38 PM
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He should dump her because he resents it, and that will come out Then he should seek out this stuff for himself to remove his FOMO She’s going to need therapy for getting dumped due to her past and to learn how to properly own it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:02 PM
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There’s a point in every business’s growth where they need an HR person to cover their asses, so they promote some female employee to do it. businessmen hate the idea of workplace equality and fairness and that makes them incapable of even pretending to be ok to regulatory bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:06 PM
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More or less. I doubt I’m alone, but I might be the only one here that will admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:52 PM
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This is a really good point. I’ve gotten into sports before just to have something to talk to people about. It works both ways. The internet has made this harder, because people get more into their narrow interests than they used to and if you aren’t geeking out at their level they consider you a poseur. Being well-rounded is less of an advantage now than being into some specific thing that has a broad appeal. You could get laid just by talking about Game of Thrones 7 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:31 PM
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It’s why I became an alcoholic, I never felt equally human unless I used alcohol to slow my mind down
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:21 PM
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Yeah I’ve learned this the hard first hand way in the past year… your personality is set from an early age and if it isn’t what people want to be around all you can do is pretend and hope it fools them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:18 PM
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Preselection bias If I were hanging out with people irl I wouldn’t spend any time on this place
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:15 PM
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Henry Cavill
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:12 PM
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To make up for lost hoe time, ugly people turn to poly and start fucking each other
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:58 PM
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Lucky them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:41 PM
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They’re all immutable. Changing your personality is just acting. Whatever bad things you unlearn will come back in times of overwhelming stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:40 PM
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I’m curious but I’ve been him in situations like this, and I do not envy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:30 PM
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My motto when I was dating was “if I want love I have to get out my checkbook” I’m good looking enough that women aren’t ashamed to be seen with me and I was under no illusions that any of them liked me as a person. What they liked was how my job made it so money was never an obstacle to whatever ideas they had. They thought they won the man lottery by getting an agreeable IT paycheck on the hook
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:51 PM
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I hate it, but I’m male and old
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:03 PM
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I don’t think echo chambers are going anywhere. They’re a core feature of computer network communications. Not just the internet but every form of online environment I’ve been in has had them. Usenet newsgroups were almost exactly like Reddit. So were BBS echomail groups and Prodigy way back in the day. Every topic-focused group develops an ideology over time, through attrition and attraction. People who think outside the norm leave when they find a place where they are considered normal. What m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:21 PM
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Following your intuition is a feedback loop that makes you trust your intuition more, even when it’s wrong, because you were just going on what you knew at the time. Intuitive knowledge is confirmed by feelings. People who trust their guts place their feelings above their thoughts in primacy. If she’s trusting her feelings she’s trusting herself, and how can trusting oneself ever be wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:45 PM
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NTFS jokes making me think I’m on slashdot in 1999
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:33 AM
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I’m invisible because people don’t see me unless they want something from me, but I don’t feel invisible. If anything I feel too visible. I feel like a vending machine that takes good feelings in exchange for whatever it is people want from me at any given time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:33 PM
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Target: but then we’d just be Walmart
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:22 PM
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Feet No I don’t buy pics
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:16 PM
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There’s a malicious enforcement angle here and that is a red flag Guy is saying we’ll split it 50/50, but I’ll make damn sure you don’t take 51% you greedy bitch Eventually he’ll wear her down and it’ll be easier for her to let him control this, on top of everything else he thinks he wants to control
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:55 PM
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I did, but I turned it all inward because I had no life and not many friends who wanted to have anything to do with me outside of school. I rebelled by doing whatever I could to not be like my father
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:47 PM
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That’s projected codependency and it is a severe red flag Unfortunately women never reveal it until after you’ve said let’s be exclusive.. they’ll lie to your face about it in fact
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:04 PM
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Yeah, I’d probably do it if she could handle it. Sex is just another experience to have together at my age, and swingers tend to be chill and discreet
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:40 PM
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It’s why stigmatizing addicts is bad, it keeps them using because using for an addict is a self-shaming engine
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:54 PM
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These women, their opinions aren’t real to them unless a man also holds them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:51 PM
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Nah, then you pack that mouth with cock. Based
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:47 PM
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Yeah there’s no point growing up (or, say, getting clean/sober) when nobody will acknowledge your improvement or give you credit. So might as well ride the self destruction all the way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:34 PM
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I am
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:45 AM
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We talk ourselves into all the sex we actually have
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:40 PM
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I did it for 20-odd years and quit the field this year. Why? I hit my ceiling. See, meritocracy is bullshit. The ladder is always rigged towards the good old boy network and “opportunities” to climb it are a carrot on a stick game they play with you to bleed you. I wanted my soul back.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:51 PM
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Flash forward a few years, I had gotten into a very serious relationship with my future wife, and crush girl found out about it. Turns out those dates over the summer were designed to get me hooked. Then her plan was to go wild in college before reeling me back in when she was ready to settle down. She wasn’t ever going to tell me her plan, but my girlfriend was a major threat now, and this was a last ditch effort by her to get me to leave my future wife and “come back to her.” This might explai…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:19 PM
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Sex is an excretory process for men. Semen is waste, and the need to ejaculate is on the same level of bodily need as the need to shit. Sex is a drug for both sexes that puberty forces us to be addicted to. This comment brought to you by the insane hot take gang
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:31 PM
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Because a first date that starts with you arriving separately and ends with you taking her home often does. You need to be able to read the situation and know if that’s what she wants. If you can’t tell for sure, it’s safest to choose the impersonal option. This case is a misread on the guy’s part, but it might not have been for a different woman. It’s all just part of compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:22 PM
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It works, but only on yourself. If you start out with this mentality, you’ll always be faking it to others in your mind, and if it’s a situation where others define success you’ll never succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:02 PM
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Imagine getting put on public blast Aziz Ansari style because you drove her home and misread where things were going next
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:59 PM
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They go at it in a way that impresses other guys, which reveals a weakness in the “only take dating advice from men” plank of the platform
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:35 PM
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This is the takeaway People who look for reasons to distrust you will find them whether they are real or not
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:58 PM
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They gave it away with “you two would look so good together” She’s their friend, so they want her to have a man that makes her look good. They don’t care about your happiness, appearance, or anything else other than having created this tableau for bestie
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:06 PM
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This is why I call it a set of coping skills for being stuck with a pool of low value women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:52 PM
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Boomers no Some Gen X transitioned to new Mind but not all. No boomers did
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:40 PM
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Hypergamy inc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:39 PM
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Being sincerely deemed worthy to share your life with is the highest compliment. People want to fuck you for all kinds of reasons that don’t have anything to do with your value.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:38 PM
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I’m from Appalachia and lost close family to the opioid shit, I know how it is. Maybe about 1/100 people get out and thrive. There’s something new to this dynamic in the last few years: people in urban areas don’t want us anymore. Nobody cared that I was from KY before trump. Now, since 2016 being from trump country (even though I left in 2000) turned me into a meme and nothing else and there is a black/white us/them mentality. In the city, to prove my loyalty to Urban America, I would be expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:14 PM
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People really need to pick up their dog shit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:48 PM
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I hate that shit, they need to express their need for dominance in some other way than by defeating the merchant
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:47 PM
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It requires no effort on my part to get rejected for my looks Whereas getting rejected for my personality means I’ve probably wasted my time trying to not be rejected for it I choose looks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:30 PM
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There’s a class stratification going on in the USA around college again using the anti-student loans, you don’t need a degree anti-college movement. Student debt and cost of education is outrageous, we can all agree on that. But education is the last playing-field leveler lower classes have.. you can be born into rust belt wasteland, and still work hard, go to college, and build your network, which is what the upper classes get from it. Whether you go to school or not, the upper classes are stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:21 PM
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Yeah, shocked me the first time it happened to me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:50 AM
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When they’re sick enough managing is support
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:39 PM
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Lol I’m way on the other side of that at this point and I wasn’t complaining Women freak to show off and they don’t waste the effort on random meat dildos. Or they don’t show us the vulnerability at the casual hookup level of trust. Is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:38 PM
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Tinder profile idea: “I bet my gay friend that I could find someone to suck my dick faster on here than he could on Grindr. Help me win”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:31 PM
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This^ Casual hookups with women are always vanilla lowest common denominator sex in my experience. Most of the time they refused to do anything but make out and PIV in one of three positions
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:45 PM
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I was around at that time too and I knew people who hooked up irl and even got married after meeting on IRC and MUDs. Good example
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:29 PM
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Q4All: have you ever been sexually attracted to someone for their personality? How did it happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:10 PM
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Feels right but thinks wrong Unattractive people have higher developed senses of personal loyalty than attractive people, because they haven’t been able to use hotness to get people to like them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:08 PM
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An example of how the internet is the normalizer of human knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:56 PM
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If all the generals hadn’t gone to west point together we probably wouldn’t have
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:51 PM
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“What you call ‘love’ was invented by guys like me to sell nylons.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:50 PM
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Lol real HVM use politics as a sales channel
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:37 PM
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I worked in tech. There’s a general lack of patience or acceptance for anything human or inefficient in corporate tech life that I internalized. I taught myself to shut off my empathy for others because it’s not productive. I was the expert on certain things which made people not want to learn them, so people asking me questions about anything started angering me outside of work. It’s considered bad etiquette to interrupt people while they’re working. I came to think of everything I did as “work…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:14 PM
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Find a way to get happy with what you have. If you can’t, live as long as you can stand to. That’s what I’m trying to do anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:41 PM
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You have to know the guy to know which kind of MGTOW he is though, and being MGTOW in itself is an obstacle to that. The circle of people who are willing to engage with a man who has been alone dwindles the longer he stays alone. Fair point on the other guys who dwell on self pity though, not that I’d know anything about that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:39 PM
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I’m realizing how much corporate etiquette influenced the way I relate to people over the years and while it’s good to recognize the problem, I hate it and don’t know if I can turn it around
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:31 PM
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The anxiety men have about relationships is because they are our support system and we get left behind in life without being a part of one. A man who goes into the second half of his life by himself is facing a long downhill decline with no help. Anyone he meets who finds out he is single is going to put up a barrier of “this guy better not try to leech off of me.” So he never gets a chance to prove himself to be okay. They also just can’t relate to you anymore once they’ve been neck deep in rai…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:28 PM
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That’s what my original comment said, yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:18 PM
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Some do, some don’t. Asshole is a behavior set too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:56 PM
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I disagree, mostly. “Nice” is a set of behaviors, not a mindset. There’s positive and negative niceness. Positive niceness comes from having a good attitude about life and genuinely liking people. Women love this. But it’s rare. Negative niceness comes from an attitude of efficiency and image-consciousness. These guys are following the rules of politeness because they want things to go smoothly and people to like them but they have negative attitudes and don’t genuinely care about people. It has…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:34 AM
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80s Eddie Murphy Dave Attell Hannibal Burress Norm Macdonald
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:17 AM
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Check the daily chat thread
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:38 PM
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Albert Camus had some thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:50 PM
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I always heard Fred Armisen was a dick
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:21 PM
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If prostitution were legal - and socially normalized - a small percentage of broken men would turn out more well-adjusted. The involuntary in incel would lose all of its meaning because women wouldn’t be the social gatekeepers of all sexual activity anymore. Guys who had given up because women don’t like them would get a chance to feel sexual. The only society that would prohibit men from that is one that is actively trying to destroy their mental health. Women have benefitted from putting in mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:44 PM
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Friends. Some family. And besides, seriously? You have never seen a guy getting called simp, soy, beta Billy, when he does stuff for a woman that other men think he shouldn’t so? not being fooled by people is a masculine trait. If you let them jerk you around men lose respect for you. They give you a pass for the first time. You know the cliche, fool me once shame on you, twice shame on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:13 PM
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Now you know reverse cowgirl is on the table
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:06 PM
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She was on the ArpaNet in 1971
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:01 PM
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The behavior is not gender specific but the consequences are. Men lose FAR more social capital from being fooled by a woman than women do from being fooled by men We’re supposed to never get anything wrong at all in any circumstance. but we get a pass for it the first time it happens with women. If you happen to make the same mistake twice, you’re shamed and ostracized for having poor judgment. Women can get to that point too but it takes a lot more runs through the wringer. -My capacity to love…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:35 PM
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I’ve been online since BBSes, and the online representation of reality has always been a fantasy world full of nerds pretending to be cool, pathological liars, and schizophrenics who can write lucidly enough to be taken seriously. You can’t separate internet culture from the mental illnesses of the people it emerged from.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:30 PM
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Yeah but are they loved or do they just have a junkie hanging off of them for scraps
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:58 PM
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If these people had minds that got the same thing from poetry that they do from analysis they wouldn’t be here at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:37 PM
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Relationships don’t happen if you’re cynical about the person you’re dating. This is why the person that cares the most has the least power in the relationship. They must choose trust and deliberately ignore anything that feels wrong. Once a woman realizes this is how you feel she’s free to use and hurt you however she wants to, if she is so inclined. The only consolation prize if you turn out to be a fool is being able to say afterward that you took the high road, which is a cope that means not…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:14 PM
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Feelings are the most destructive STD
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:52 PM
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This sounds like deliberately bad advice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:41 PM
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Yeah that’s the point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:01 PM
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Ah, it’s the “re-evaluating every time you chose to trust her instead of questioning things she did that had possible sketchy explanations” phase of the post-breakup
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:51 PM
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I’m attracted to competence
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:46 PM
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It’s a correlation/causation thing related to socioeconomic class, higher class women have lower n counts for a variety of reasons, they pair off with higher class men and higher class people signal high value
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:05 AM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:05 AM
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it’s a form of main character syndrome also alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:50 AM
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Yeah I’ve seen that too but these guys were competent and it was always internal hires. These would all have hired on at the same time and been lunchroom buddies or worked together elsewhere and bailed and followed the leader to the new place. It was never about money in these situations but about security and power. If they wanted money they started consulting firms.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:35 AM
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That’s one of the positives I took away from it. They also used to recommend some good books when it was new. I learned a lot from “No More Mr Nice Guy” and “The 48 Laws of Power”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:03 PM
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At the companies I’ve worked for there were groups of men in management and senior tech who had pulled each other up the ladder by working as a team. They were always lifers and had usually joined the company straight out of college. The most extroverted and shameless ones would get promoted first, naturally, and shamelessness was required because this was done by befriending the people at the level above them - or, kissing ass, as they call it in the blue collar world. Those guys targeted manag…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:36 PM
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I don’t. If anything, I’ve felt like people have paid too much attention to me my whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:48 PM
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Maybe a big part of it is resentment. After all it would be really unfair if those girls got to fool around with hot guys without consequences when they never got to do that. Same thing keeps us from getting health care. The USA is one big bucket of crabs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:43 PM
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10/10 without the Fox graphics 0/10 with
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:41 PM
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I wish I was so retarded that I had no awareness of my flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:33 PM
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Nah, I’m just thinking about how I was brought up I’m disappointed nobody’s replied “Honor is a horse”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:54 PM
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Has honor ever existed?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:57 PM
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Testosterone drives greed and competitiveness Winning reinforces it, losing diminishes it Winning gets you things, losing doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:27 PM
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Men treat each other like shit The patriarchy also works against men at the bottom of it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:16 PM
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Simply put, due to their enormous sex drive men have extremely low standards when it comes to both sexual partners and long term relationships. Yeah both genders start out like that. Selectiveness is learned by experience with the downsides of not being selective enough in the past. What I see women do that’s different from men is they’ll become so selective, usually due to some abusive man they crossed paths with, that they will reject every future man that doesn’t meet some arbitrary checklist…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:01 PM
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If they’ve known each other since they were kids or something sure If they just met like a year ago under vague circumstances that is suspect
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:16 PM
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Dogs are too high maintenance The cat-girl cleans and grooms herself Idk just guessing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:14 PM
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GRAB A BRUSH PUONRAMALALMA MAKEUP
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:11 PM
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In my 20s I dated a woman that wouldn’t let me kiss her on the forehead because her dad, who had died, would always do that. I get it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:09 PM
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My thoughts are who cares about other peoples sex lives If you brag you’re a dick, if you don’t brag people assume shit that gives them a reason to call you a loser, which of these groups of assholes am I supposed to be trying to impress
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:06 PM
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Charismatic gets way more everything
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:45 AM
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Has she given you your balls back yet or do you have to put up more curtains for that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:44 AM
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If that’s how she’s advertising no But if that’s what comes out the pants, ok
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 04:29 PM
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We still drank water with lead in it, blame the shitty good old days where real men just made progress happen and didn’t care about pansy shit like going senile in 40 years
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 04:01 PM
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I’ve heard some countries somewhat do this where everyone just kind of hangs out in the town square or whatever in the evening and random people just socialize. Someone in here mentioned people did it in their eastern European town. Just a natural social setting. Here in the United States that doesn’t seem to be a thing without obnoxious music and insane amounts of alcohol. In America this always gets stopped when someone asks who’s gonna pay for it or be liable if someone gets hurt. If the loca…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:21 PM
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I’d rather she got bored of me, hateful women are vindictive and can command resources to fuck your life up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:14 PM
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Disordered people pair together and find disordered behaviors attractive It was one of the hardest lessons when I realized crazy women and the creativity they put into being toxic was actually making me more attracted to them on some primal irrational level
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:34 PM
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I just realized that since breastfeeding was revived in popularity in the 80s/90s the standard of female body attractiveness has increasingly involved the butt
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:23 PM
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Make yourself feel sexy, it radiates
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 04:42 AM
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It was about polyamory for me. Which I never denied.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:18 PM
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Yup. It’s all on me, every bit of hardship I’ve ever suffered in my life. That’s not sarcasm. But had I not changed to poly in the first place I wouldn’t have fucked up afterward. My personal mistakes and bad decisions are self-evident. That doesn’t mean you can discount the effect of information hazards like polyamorists, who when in recruiting mode downplay the emotional hazards of it and ways it changes your thinking. There are dangerous ideas, and for most people - which I count myself among…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:14 PM
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Be that as it may, the information is out there. If you want me to apologize for insulting polyamory, I won’t. I stand by my statement, which was never anything more than obvious personal opinion and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:01 PM
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The best I can describe it is that living in polyamory and open relationships corrupted any sense I had that sexual talk was or should be exclusive. Had I not been in those relationships, this would not have happened. This was my choice and my mistake. I tell this story so that my failures can serve as a warning to others. Otherwise, nothing good is to be found.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:53 PM
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I’m responsible for all of it, so I’m not sure what difference it makes where I set the source of the faulty behavior. Besides, I’ve punished myself for this daily for years, you can’t hurt me more. The mindset I had gotten into due to my prior life with sexual talk not being out of bounds had spilled over into my current life, where it was not compatible with my partner’s idea of monogamy. There was no prior communication about this particular issue, and so I had been running with the autistic …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:38 PM
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What happened was I did something that I didn’t think was cheating (online flirting) while in a monogamous relationship after my poly/open ones, and got caught red-handed. The situation was compounded by my monogamous partner’s own issues and insecurity. But it made me completely change my relationship to sex and take it way more seriously so that I could fit into the relationship I was in, which was serious enough to be worth it. The conclusion I came to was that identifying as polyamorous is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:48 PM
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Oh shit, am I about to get poly brigaded? Help me Mrs_Degree! Polyamorous is a legitimate orientation. Few people who call themselves poly really are. Maybe you’re one of them. Maybe you aren’t. But to pretend it’s not a scene full of broken horny poseurs is disingenuous, if you have really been in the scene as long as you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:37 PM
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I think polyamory, as it’s practiced by almost everyone who does, is nothing more than a layer of pretentiousness added to what used to be called swinging Sex writes checks your heart has to cash. Denying that is the stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:30 PM
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Humans are not birds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:28 PM
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Can they GENUINELY not keep to one partner, no matter how much they love them and are attracted to them… I used to identify as polyamorous. I was in poly and open relationships for a time. I stopped when I was confronted directly with the stupidity of it and the pain that it causes. Fill in your own blanks. For me it was a matter of seeing sex as less than love, not an equal part of it. I still don’t really see sex as anything but a bodily function, but since monogamy itself is just a social con…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:53 PM
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Not my type, 2
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:32 PM
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I was thinking about the whole 80/20 thing earlier, and I think I’ve had a realization- the 80/20 thing is in fact real, but it varies from woman to woman who is a part of that 20 percent. Gee, it’s almost like the 80/20 OKC study is just a useless bit of statistical trivia. Hmm…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:03 PM
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Top thread contains this: I want revenge. I want violence. I want their blood pouring out of their body and begging me to end their pain. I want them dead. I want them to feel the same pain I have lived under for so much time. I want them to get suffocated by it. They never have empathy for me. Why should I have empathy for them? F*CK them. Let me enjoy their suffering. Seems healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:45 PM
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Possession and conspiracy to distribute, maybe, IF you were into something bad enough that it has DEA attention. Nobody’s going to arrest you for dropping acid at a festival 10 years ago, if that were a thing some bands’ entire fan bases would be incarcerated
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:38 PM
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I know goddamn well it’s all my own fault. My bitterness comes from my own stupidity and disgust at the manipulability of others. I got infected with TRP about 12 years ago and I’ve never gotten laid more than when I applied it to dating. That meant treating women like ambulatory fleshlights and amusements, not people. No woman stayed in my life because ultimately I treated them like shit because I was RP. TRP tells you to only care about the beginning of things. But if women didn’t fall for thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:24 PM
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Same That influencer career lasts 1-3 years tops I can feed myself for life with a degree - assuming the job I get with it doesn’t remove all desire to live, which is where I find myself today
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:49 PM
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It’s not criminal to have taken drugs in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:58 PM
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I’ve honestly never felt that way about any co-worker that was at my same level. People more senior than me, yeah, but they don’t really count as co-workers. I was the guy who always did their best work because I was taught by silly old people that that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:43 PM
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For unsuccessful men? 0%
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:02 AM
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My ex wife’s cousin did this out in Winter Park. I’d lived in CO before so it didn’t bother me, but the altitude was hard on those who weren’t used to it and the elderly family with heart trouble
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:23 PM
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Based on the witches I’ve known I’m guessing dirty fryer oil and high fructose corn syrup
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:18 PM
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7 herself, 10 if her dad likes me and wants to give me a job
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:16 PM
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Musicians are frequently scumbags, anyone who’s played in bands knows this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:53 PM
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That’s a false dichotomy, making a misogynistic statement is saying something that sounds misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:51 PM
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If she’s literally the best he can possibly do with all other factors being equal then I guess admire him for maximizing his potential, but I don’t think this will end well for him and especially her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:11 PM
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How old is he/was he when they settled down
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:08 PM
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Women should use hexadecimal so that they can be honest while presenting lower numbers “10’s not bad” (it’s actually 16) They can round down numbers ending in A-F since they would anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:04 PM
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There’s something to be said about the old full service society normalizing human interaction though. I doubt there would be so many agoraphobic basement dwellers in a world where everyone still had to work with other people to do everyday things
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:44 PM
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first boobs I got to play with were big and saggy thus I knew the dichotomy of large breasts from the beginning Today, I love all breasts equally
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:36 PM
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Fair points
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:29 PM
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Who’s giving you the tasks? Who’s calling you a pushover? What really helped me understand the manipulative side people have was reading The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene. It especially applies to modern corporate work environments as sort of a field guide to asshole behavior and what motives might be behind it. I could def understand that people lied and liked to trick me from a very early age, but I never understood how to spot it or why until I read that book.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:18 PM
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I’d suggest that people who struggle with mental health or who aren’t neurotypical have to address these issues first. This is slippery It implies that you have to have no issues at all to date Remember, being sad is all it takes to get prescribed meds and dubbed “depressed”, that’s a self destructive identity to take on if it doesn’t actually apply
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:07 PM
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Yes. But it’s a lifelong struggle. And you have to value not being alone more than being your natural self, which sounds like it works on the surface but has subtle undermining effects against your self-esteem: If you take the idea that your mind is disordered into yourself, then you are going into everything with the subconscious thought of being defective or lesser. You know you’re broken and need to work harder. Then Asperger’s people are vulnerable to liars as you said; Asperger’s + low self…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:03 PM
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I consider “fuck you” to have a universal meaning and the financial activities described with it to be different expressions of the same meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 03:29 PM
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I’m going by the American Psycho definition where it means you have enough money to spend just to show off to other people with money
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:59 PM
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100% agree There’s malicious trapping and there’s passive trapping I wasn’t even taught that leaving was an option, before I did. I got dragged out by a friend that believed life could be more. Then he became a massive alcoholic because they don’t teach you how to build a stable support system that isn’t anchored in your small town either. The reality bubble effect of small town/rural America is very fucking real
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:58 PM
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TRP is a response to what Sex in the City did to women That show created the entire urban liberal brunch boss bitch who don’t need no man by day / alcoholic whore by night Jekyll and Hyde persona that every woman with a job feels the need to inhabit as the main character of their syndrome in their post-college years now
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:41 PM
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Nah, I don’t buy that. The “you” in “fuck you” is everyone but the speaker in these idioms, and “fuck everyone” is core to both attitudes Having more money than you need is a stimulus that causes the scope of what you want to expand to whatever you can afford.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:39 PM
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People talk about “fuck-you money” but never about “fuck-you cheapness” Fuck-you money: I bought this ugly ass painting for $100k because I had $100k to spend and you don’t, fuck you Fuck-you cheapness: I paid $2 for a pair of pants because I am superior at deal hunting, fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:30 PM
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Sounds like she’s used to leaning on alcohol to make her like men and when she has to be sober she doesn’t. I can relate to that wrt women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:25 PM
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Especially tech Tech runs on pre-burnout 25 year olds being herded by MBAs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:15 PM
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I left rural appalachia, lived in the city for 20 years, and am moving back, just for this reason. I couldn’t stomach one more minute of smiling along with the smug middle class liberals and their hillbilly sister fucking “jokes”. If all the people around me are going to be bigots I at least want some nice scenery to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:10 PM
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Babies are the anchor. Women get pregnant to trap good men. This has happened to my nephew. So much potential but it was just too much easier to follow his dick back to the trailer park. He’s a dedicated father at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:05 PM
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Tech people tend to speak in categorical assertions, especially when they’re young. Some people are looking to “win” every conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 01:40 PM
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I met my first girlfriends at school, some at events after school Dated a couple of women from college classes (I stayed in town and went coco/commuter branch, it was cheap enough then to be worth it) My first serious gf I originally met when she dated one of my friends, she was into me then and we got together 3 years later I was always a computer nerd and was online before the internet, I started using online shit to hook up early too, stuff like yahoo personals (that was a thing) and local gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 01:38 AM
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I grew up in eastern Kentucky
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:07 PM
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Blessed Are The Shit Vacuumers, For They Shall Receive Dome
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:06 PM
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You did mushrooms for the first time in your 40s didn’t you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:02 PM
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I acknowledge it My view of relationships has been defined by my experience of them and all of my experiences have been negative The laws of logic and personal responsibility says this is my fault because I am the common factor Thus I am at fault for all of my failures I guess I’m just too broken to get what I want Might as well go on PPD and indiscriminately remind people that true losers (I.e. those who have played the game and lost at it) like me do exist, and see if anyone says something to …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:14 PM
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Username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:45 PM
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Love exists, it’s just not equally distributed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:44 PM
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You mean besides the masculine imperative being to not make these kinds of connections with other men, only with women? Men are usually tasked with more important things to do than socializing. Which means both us and other men are simply too busy to care about each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:36 PM
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Women have kids and get married too. My mom still brunches with her girls. The single and married ones. I thought we were talking about men Half my friends have kids/married. Half don’t. We still chat and hang out. How many of your (straight) single friends do you think are never going to get married or have kids? The oddballs that don’t want or can’t do those things get left behind socially by those who do. Simple as. Those men need to find other sources of support. If they don’t, life is a lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:12 PM
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Then the bro gang gets married and has kids and forgets about you in their mid 30s. People want to be around people similar to them, and to parents, only other parents are similar. The only long term support network solution for any man is to be born into or marry into a non-dysfunctional family
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:01 PM
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It’s “fine” because that’s how it is, not because it’s optimal. RP men keep trying to find an optimized path through the dating gauntlet where there is none. What they can’t accept is that no normie wants an optimal path. Normies accept that dating is confusing and emotionally driven and play the game by its own rules, which they understand intuitively. You know about learning styles? Some people need to be taught things by other people to learn them. Combine that with nerdy personality traits a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:49 PM
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Or like how NASA spent millions designing a pressurized ballpoint pen that could write in space, and the Russians just used pencils
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:59 PM
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Until they teach you that they are all that persists, then they are the worst - if accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:58 PM
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There was the idea in tech that lazy engineers are the best because they do things the most efficient way they know how. You don’t want someone designing automated systems that’s ok with getting paged at 2am when there’s an extra space in a data field
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:14 PM
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Women don’t want men who are as emotionally complex as them, they can barely deal with themselves on good days
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:48 PM
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you picked the one example that is so basic and essential that to use it as an example is insane, and then replied as if I actually said that and not something less moronic. I’ll respond if you respond to what I actually said
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:22 PM
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The corporate aristocracy approach UMC Suburbans pretending at being feudal lords
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:20 PM
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It’s never bothered me, it’s always been normal in all parts of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:15 PM
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In places where that’s the best a man can do, women lust after them. It’s one of the reasons trump saying he’d make the coal come back actually worked. Men in these communities got respect and female admiration for mining. The same people aren’t going to respect them for doing white collar work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:02 PM
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Never been more than 20 miles outside of a major city?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:00 PM
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Women are always thinking about projecting an image in anything that isn’t explicitly private. Women don’t want the responsibility of existing as wholly self-contained people, a significant portion of a woman’s personality is defined in the eyes of the people who know and regard her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:43 PM
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This is no country for old men. The pimp hand must be on station for rapid deployment when you undertake such a mission.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:06 AM
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That’s oddly specific
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:58 AM
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more like I wouldn’t join any club that would have me as a member
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:36 AM
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Same boat but I’m gonna argue semantics We get in them because they aren’t miserable at first They all become miserable though. Finding out why and fixing that is my goal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:53 PM
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Spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:50 PM
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I randomly tried it one year they were really thick and the fish went nuts. I wouldn’t go out of my way for them but one was on a tree close by
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 10:09 PM
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They make great fishing bait, otherwise yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:17 PM
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The male equivalent of traveling Instathottery is stuff like this: /r/EDC /r/KnifeClub /r/watches
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:16 PM
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I grew up hoping that there was somewhere I could find girls who were not into the Joe Dirt look Why: I did not look like Joe Dirt
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:58 PM
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Of course, nothing to do with the disrespect men have for women who have casual sex, repulsion of casual sex, not wanting casual sex. Those are fair points. I should say women who would otherwise be into casual sex often avoid it because of the stigma and when they use drugs and alcohol they stop caring about the stigma. Are incels avoiding being fucked up the ass because they are worried about being called names? Not that taking it up the ass is universal to gay sex, but I’d say more than a few…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:31 PM
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Women as a whole lack spines collectively. Men have bred the fear of god into them. CONAN! WHAT IS BEST IN LIFE?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:06 PM
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Pretentious people believe their lives are ongoing performance art projects; Instagram is their venue
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:51 PM
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Women avoid casual sex mostly because they fear being slut-shamed for fucking men their girl friends find ugly. Drugs and alcohol take that fear away and add a built in excuse for losing your filter. Of course the whole mess is linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:16 PM
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In 2011 it was mostly men who’d been screwed in divorces preaching that women were all evil gold diggers. “Men complaining about other men oppressing them is traditionally considered unmanly.” Isn’t that convenient? Lol it’s funny how no one seems to question that logic. After I wrote that I realized this is an American thing, not universal, because of the whole bootstraps/temp embarrassed millionaire attitude we have here. The feudal power structures in the USA have really only solidified since…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:04 PM
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I didn’t discover the MGTOW movement until I got to Reddit, around 2011 or so. I’ve been reading PUA and related material online since the 90s though. Society wants humans to be mindless cogs in the machine to breed and be wage slaves. Idk why PPD always ignores men at the top of the social hierarchy that exploit other men. The most powerful people in the world aren’t women. Facts. I think it’s just that this sub is made for man vs woman rhetoric and it catches runoff from the Xpill subs so that…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:44 PM
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As a man the early MGTOW movement was where all of this manosphere shit was really supposed to end up. Be yourself, without compromise. The MGTOW subreddit got taken over by incels when their subs got banned, and the movement (at least on Reddit) became what you described. For PPD purposes it can be argued that society doesn’t intend to allow men to do anything that doesn’t have at least an unintended side effect that helps women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:31 PM
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Being fat makes you settle because you have to. It’s prudent to find a way to be happy about whatever your lot in life happens to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:52 PM
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Do you think everything women do or not do is to impress their peers or men? Do you think everything that men do is to impress women? Everything? Of course not, absolutes don’t exist There’s a stack of potential motivations for any activity. One of them is social proof, but any of them could be the motivation
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:36 PM
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That ignorance has been deliberately engineered in the USA over the past 2-3 generations of republican defunding of public education. They take resources away while they’re in power and keep the democrats from giving them back when they get a turn, and replace public academic institutions with uneducated religious ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:16 PM
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I don’t hate makeup but I don’t like the heavy foundation contoured look that’s been popular in the past few years
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:02 PM
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Dating is a trolley problem and men are both the lever puller and the single body on the other track
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:54 PM
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Aight Imma head out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:24 AM
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I thought that was called Purple Pi…oh right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:15 PM
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T-shirts used to exclusively be underwear so they fit tighter back in the day
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:12 PM
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You’re not understanding but that’s my fault If you go into every date with the attitude that this is a step towards having a girlfriend then you are taking yourself out of the present and being manipulative of the situation Guys with dating issues should be working on making things effortless and not on trying to derive some system that will predict results People’s feelings can be controlled through how you present yourself, how you express your thoughts, and so on, but isn’t the point to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:41 PM
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Not talking about passively waiting, I’m talking about outcome independence I’m not talking to guys who can’t get a date either You will “find a relationship” if you set that as a goal for dating, but then what? You’re a dog chasing a car If your goal is instead simply to spend time with women you like you’ll find yourself in the right relationship and it won’t be this separated thing you have to keep engineering
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:40 PM
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That’s exactly what I’m talking about “Women can order it up and we can’t waaah” The relationship isn’t the goal, the relationship is an abstract thing that may never exist and definitely won’t in any positive form if you don’t pay attention to the people in it and try to force it to happen like it’s some progress marker on a work plan Being in the present with people is a relationship, the labels come afterward
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:20 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:15 PM
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Objectifying relationships is a fast track to dating failure An LTR or an FWB isn’t something you get, it’s something you do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:12 PM
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The other side of the conversation happens in their imagination. The internet functions in mind as a collective imagination, so there’s very little distance between having an internet friend and an imaginary one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:43 PM
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No, thats because of hormonal birth control
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:37 PM
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Online is the only way I ever had “success”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:38 PM
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Not being in the moment is why I prefer texting, I can say things the way I want to instead of having to get my words out ASAP before another person starts talking again
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:31 PM
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For men the good personality trope is being “fun” For women the good personality trope is being “agreeable”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:30 PM
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That’s a captive audience though, they all paid for the class
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:58 PM
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In fact I’ve spent a large portion of the last 5 years being single, living alone, assuming I’m not a relationship guy. But then being compared with someone like your friend, who never learns that he is the common factor, makes me want to prove that I’m a smarter and wiser person. Then I get lonely, or want sex, and I end up dating again, and eventually someone comes along who fools me into thinking this time will be different, and the same shit happens and people just get traumatized again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:54 PM
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Yes. I mean, I’m just middle aged and I already idealize my entire past as if it didn’t lead me to this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:20 PM
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This doesn’t seem like a “you” problem, dude. That sounds like a “them” problem. Don’t blame yourself because other people suck! I have no proof it’s all them. This is a consistent complaint in my relationships and the common factor is me. The idea of emotional responsibility is a common source of conflict too. I refuse to be blamed for another person’s shitty reactions. Women always start fights by saying “you made me feel [bad feeling].” Nope, you feel that as a reaction to what I did, your re…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:55 PM
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I figure because the facade will eventually crack anyway. Why waste your time on a doomed relationship when you can find someone you can actually click with? I assume all relationships are doomed and focus on enjoying the present with the person as they are happening. “Clicking” is as temporal and subjective as any other phenomenon involving humans. The “click” can disappear (happened when I was married) and then what? What do you feel like keeps being the conflict, if you don’t mind me asking? …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:35 PM
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It’s possible to be too uncomfortable of a presence to ever find someone who will genuinely accept you and isn’t pretending to do so to support ulterior motives. That seems to be what I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:23 PM
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My history in every single relationship I’ve had in my life, romantic or platonic, is that I eventually become too much for people to deal with, leading them to give up on me. Why would I offer anyone a reason to leave when they will find one of their own given enough time?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:21 PM
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Hey he’s less famous overseas than his wife there’s justice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:10 PM
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Inb4 Elon shows up at the head of the horde with a composite rail-crossbow that kills the unscientific with STEMbolts of pure logic and capitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:09 PM
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It feels normal to me for relationships to be like this. there’s always going to be something a woman doesn’t like about anything I do or way I feel. So I pre-emptively hide as much of it as I can to keep the peace
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:06 PM
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And if they’re not boring it’s because they’re channeling all their insanity into being interesting enough to get beta Billy to start paying their way. Once he does that insanity goes back to its normal vector of torturing men for not being perfect females
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:57 PM
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LDRs may be bullshit but it’s still bad karma to screw over another man, idk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:44 PM
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In the long run you will regret introducing instability into your life more than a lack of variety
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:01 PM
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Thankfully
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:51 PM
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Looking back, I would have appreciated affection and love, because I know a lot of my psychological deficiencies came from not getting enough of those things in the right way. Getting those things, though, would have required different parents and me living in a different place and time, which would make me a completely different person in every way, and that makes the comparison moot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:34 PM
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3 in society 8 at the office she looks like she has an obese ass that makes her embarrassed to stand up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:26 PM
1

Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:20 PM
2

Counterintuitive but correct also in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:29 PM
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I can’t find peace at all in relationships, so I quit dating and being in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:16 PM
2

women have a built in hierarchy of empathy that always prioritizes themselves and other women. This is the full truth here The female hierarchy of empathy is: their own children Themselves other womens’ children Other women animals they like men Animals they dislike
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:02 PM
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It’s still going to vary by location and life situation and what a person wants for themselves. Ask me when I was 25 and thought the tech bro lifestyle would make me happy? Nooo, I need that bag Ask me today when I’ve lived and seen through all that shit? If I have time tools and supplies to create art and enough money to not starve to death I’m good
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:27 PM
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It’s real and varies by location. Part of the purpose of the wage gap is to discourage women from working at all, which makes them more controllable and keeps paying seats open for men. This was the purpose of it in my former city, where women are still thought of by the white male ruling class as basic breeding stock Women in turn played into it because a) nobody in their right mind actually wants to work b) playing along with this felt good and right due to cultural affirmation c) it’s hard wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:24 PM
1

Gaffers tape is what duct tape is supposed to be Wish I’d discovered it years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:19 PM
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This question is stupid If what makes your life quality requires more money than you make then obviously no If you are happy with less then yes Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:10 PM
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They should recognize it as the exception it is and not claim it as a rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:51 PM
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We are all responsible for other peoples’ bad decisions when we publicly obscure the truth. In this case by putting lies and other bullshit manipulative misinformation about what women will actually do for men out into public domain. This kind of shit is why TRP was created and some men hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:39 PM
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Women who pull this “submissive” shit are lazy slobs that don’t want to put any effort into getting a man to pay for the expensive shit. They adopt BDSM language to appear like freaks and think calling you dominant makes you feel like Chad. They are doing it because they think it’s just enough of a sleaze show to make you lust after them without having to actually put effort into being sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:21 PM
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All mental health cures are placebos by definition. LSD and other psychedelic drugs have been studied for years for their mental health benefits. Society and the people at the top of it doesn’t benefit from people being well adjusted, it benefits from them striving madly to be better than whatever they think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:08 PM
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While I’ve seen similar things play out, telling men this can happen is as irresponsible as telling them to drop out of college/quit their job and buy lottery tickets
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:01 PM
2

Because to women children belong only to them and whatever man is around after birth is interchangeable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:00 PM
2

This is John Hughes grade teenage romantic fantasy bullshit. Women that want to do this for men don’t exist. They see the labor requirement for this man and eject him in favor of someone lower maintenance because female pride comes from being difficult and taking up their man’s time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:50 PM
1

Female sexual desire wanes when she can no longer control the man with it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:14 PM
1

The smart ones don’t all move away but they definitely don’t use dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:07 PM
2

More along the lines of complaining your back hurts because your old lady kept you up all night
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:02 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:59 PM
2

First time I did it was a low dose, probably 60ug. I didn’t fully trip with visuals and such but I got the gist. I was with my gf at the time, who was experienced with it. It’s one of my favorite memories. The next day my social anxiety was cured, I was no longer afraid to talk to people at all. I didn’t want to any more than before but it didn’t terrify me, I felt like an inherently valid member of humanity for the first time in my life. This lasted for months, but gradually went away. I’ve pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:15 PM
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sympathy without a solution has always felt like being mocked to me, I dunno
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:06 PM
1

Figure out what will and do that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:20 PM
1

RP did that to me 10 years ago, I’m here as a witness to its long term failure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:50 PM
1

I’m old enough that being sent nudes still feels illegal so whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:26 PM
1

Why do Americans use political parties like a descriptor for culture or religion? a) That’s what they are here b) if you aren’t willing to accept that, it’s still a useful shorthand for belief sets
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:24 PM
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I’ve seen this pattern A variant is when they become alcoholics early in this cycle and let themselves get pump/dumped by lower quality men over time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:07 PM
1

Yeah no that’s dumb This is just general stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 04:21 AM
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Rhetorical question If I can’t possibly understand what it’s like to be a parent why are they all out here bitching to me about it Go talk to your fellow reproducers and be validated by fellowship and enlightened by their knowledge or something
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:32 AM
1

I was disappointed that “ass antlers” never caught on
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:25 AM
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Lifting solves confidence problems that arise from deficiencies in projecting masculinity. It’s easy to overshoot and become intimidating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:04 AM
1

They aren’t lying to me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:41 AM
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An example of how we don’t love them hos
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:31 AM
1

Fine then, give up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:20 AM
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It’s easy once you realize your dick is the prize and most women aren’t worthy of it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:38 PM
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Nah the universe doesn’t give a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:33 PM
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Tupac was an east coast theater kid who could write. He was Donald Glover’s prototype
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:54 PM
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“Please Lord forgive me for my sins, cause here I come.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:52 PM
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I would prefer a world where men weren’t expected to know everything or to get everything we do right the first time. Dating improvements would follow organically from such changes because men would be less disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:48 PM
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I enjoyed dating when I still drank.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:20 PM
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Being confronted with your manipulability is an initiation, the illusion of free will is critical to the smooth functioning of society
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:51 PM
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So your issue is really with the women who “fall for” pickup techniques
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:44 PM
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My build has an 18 in Sexy, why won’t the females engage me with initiative
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:43 PM
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/r/growyourclit is there to help
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:30 PM
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Nobody gives a shit about the internal emotional health of people who signal high status, because a) they’re usually dicks and b) it’s assumed if you have high status that you are happy It is hard to achieve high social status while hating yourself though. But not impossible with enough money
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:24 PM
2

What age range
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:43 PM
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Hypergamy is a real thing in a certain type of woman, and RP men are either a) stuck dating women like this due to dating pool limitations or b) attracted to this type, consciously or subconsciously. Since women they don’t want to or get to fuck might as well not exist in their minds, RPers have decided as a community that All Women Are Like That™️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:38 PM
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today I’m just feeling bad for women who do this kinda shit to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:52 PM
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That’s sigma level MGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:44 PM
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I tried accepting this deal once, made me hate myself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:49 PM
1

Such horse shit Love bombing does not create stable relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:55 PM
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Inefficient is the right word. You can meet new people but there’s no guarantee they’re going to be people you want to know or vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:49 PM
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RP calls long and constant exposure “beta orbiting” though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:47 PM
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The case being up for review will give the Christian taliban ideas It’s all just a joke right now but if the hillbillies think they have the freedom to form queer kill squads they will
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:40 PM
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You see, you can’t rely on communication, because women lie. In this case, they lie about being into the same things you are sexually, so that you’ll like them at first, in the hope that you’ll lose interest in that icky stuff after a while, and just be happy taking them shopping and to get Starbucks. Honeymoon Phase = pussy trap Commitment Phase = beta bucks engage HTH
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:29 PM
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I love yoga MILFs but they all wish they still had their pre-children body and life, hence the yoga
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:24 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:11 AM
2

Broccoli is in season now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:01 AM
2

Foot fetishes have existed at least as long as the fashion world has been calling sandals and open toed shoes “sexy shoes”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:09 PM
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You’ve got it backwards. The types of 30+ men that have the money, lifestyle, and most importantly desire to take a 30+ woman to a fancy resort all look the same because their life enforces and selects for that look. That is the tribal marking of the middle management class
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:00 PM
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Reflecting on how young women will work their asses off in the gym to get a great body to attract a HV man so that she can get pregnant with his kids and destroy that body
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:11 PM
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It’s not usually said out loud
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:42 PM
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Has anyone made this exact movie? It needs to be made
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:40 PM
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Women don’t like men to have any exposed insecurities but they’re especially repelled by feminine ones like face structure Also hiding your genetic flaws with surgery has some kind of instinctive feeling of fraud
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:32 PM
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“You are not the commissioner of her league”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:24 PM
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Nurses. Never met one that wasn’t bitter and unstable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:43 PM
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I don’t think you’re wrong or hold the privilege against you. the OKC study has lost all of its context and has taken on mythical proportions The guy was asking why getting in womens’ face about that doesn’t result in some kind of golden epiphany and “you so smart”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:23 PM
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Dating stats reveal female privilege, and confrontation, especially with that kind of info, especially from edgy guys with an agenda about women, makes women uncomfortable 🤷🏻‍♂️ I dunno why that’s hard to grasp
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:16 PM
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Because, just like everyone else, they only care enough to engage with things that affect them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:06 PM
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I think any unnaturally long fake nails are ugly, especially the extra pointy ones that have been popular in the past few years
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:56 PM
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What you don’t think a sample size of 100 American.college students and townies extrapolates with pinpoint accuracy to all of humanity?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:28 PM
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That’s the only time I ever had success. Which is another reason today’s OLD is so unnatural. You have to work at it and keep your profike up and get good pics and all that which means unless you just like using the apps you are never 100% outcome independent due to time sink. This is why there’s still a stigma about using OLD in some circles
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:23 PM
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I’ve only been dumped by a) If they’re below my league I’m not dating them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:07 AM
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Job satisfaction does not put food on the table. Conversely, jobs that are satisfying tend to pay well. However there is a danger in loving your job: unless you work for yourself or are extremely lucky, your job never loves you back. I loved being a software developer and got recruited to found my own team and was given a green field project to run to start up a new line of business at the major financial firm where I worked. I was kicking all kinds of ass doing it as of April 2021. I was willin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:40 AM
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That shit’s photoshopped
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:17 AM
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the online world has always had an escapist and self-reinvention quality to it, even going back to BBSes, due to the disconnect from real world identity The anonymity of forums (and pre-social-media internet comms) is the antithesis of the need to stand out, which most people have. I won’t say women need it more than men but it’s more acceptable for women to ask for attention not standing out for the things we can’t help always appealed to the rest of us who were often treated badly for being ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:16 AM
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The ancestors are a hell of a drug
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:55 PM
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Hey, I just found my Chomsky T-shirt, let me put it on and speculate There’s a media driven stratified recombination of business and society in progress. COVID WFH accelerated it. The house is now also the official office workplace for the management class, their lives have been fully merged. So they speak corporate to each other on LinkedIn and don’t mix with the have-nots on Facebook and insta who speak vernacular
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:29 PM
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Thanks for not making it a LMGTFY link
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:26 PM
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I guess sexually successful would mean being able to have sex. I’ve been successful at that in my life and will be again when I put effort into it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:24 PM
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The fact that an historical soap opera can spawn a sincere revival of a pagan religion is amazing in its own way “People are so desperate to be told what to do that they’ll listen to anyone.” - Don Draper
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:21 PM
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It disturbs me how mechanical all the people that actively use LinkedIn are. Every post reads like it came from GPT-3. aggressively inauthentic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:19 PM
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Lol, you would have hated TV back when you had to watch things when they came on
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:36 PM
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I’m too old to be giving things official pop culture names, that’s for 20-somethings. They’re the equivalent of plate-spinning RPers though. There’s a very fine line between “not taking any man’s shit” and narcissism in a feminist package. I don’t like these kind of women because they are all looking for excuses to hate men, in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:26 PM
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What is the deal with people who use LinkedIn as an actual social network and blog
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:16 PM
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I exaggerate those aspects of my personality on PPD for rhetorical effect. None of you know me in person and my life doesn’t depend on any of you liking me, so there’s no imperative to behave in a socially adjusted way or even in an authentic one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:31 PM
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what’s this meme from
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:13 PM
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I can second this. I don’t usually like anime but Monster was brilliant
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:00 PM
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I’m sympathetic to Jenny as a guy. She didn’t ask for this disabled guy to get fixated on her, and protecting him from her lifestyle was noble enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:00 AM
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I think this is a boomer generation thing. Every old person I knew as a kid (would have been silent/greatest gen) was mean as shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:53 AM
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This reminds me of an old joke Man and woman get ready to fuck, he drops his pants and he has a micro penis She laughs and says “who do you think you’ll please with that” He says, “myself”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:30 PM
1

Thank you sir and/or ma’am
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:29 PM
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I would struggle if I tried right now because my life is currently very devoid of things women want. When I was still in tech in the city I could always pretend like I had a bright future in my career and throw money around to impress them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:00 PM
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Would you like to know more?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:15 PM
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It didn’t when I was younger
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:14 PM
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Feminism is theory and cancel culture is praxis It’s exceptionally bad praxis for accomplishing the stated goals of the feminist movement as it stands today, too Feminism in 2022 is trying to be an extrajudicial enforcement agency for rape culture, not a movement to bring social justice to women. All the goodwill done by finally catching a Bill Cosby or Harvey Weinstein can be completely undone by unjustly cancelling one innocent person. We invented criminal law because mob justice catches innoc…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:54 PM
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When I was interviewing they did hint I would be with a bunch of young guys similar to me age and qualifications. But yeah, all the ppl in managerial positions were Boomers 🤷‍♂️. This means you get to sit at the kiddie table and not with the people in charge. They’re going to cloister you on non-critical projects until they think you’re mature enough to work with the grown ups. This won’t happen until they retire. Not sure how old you are or where you’re at in your career, but if you are current…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:07 PM
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It’ll be secure for sure. Can you deal with hidebound old people hanging onto their desks waiting for retirement, who stonewall any new thing because it’s not how they’ve always done it? That’s what happens at secure employers, people who are fearful stick around out of fear and the culture turns inward. If that stuff doesn’t affect you or you value security higher than fulfillment then go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:50 PM
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My libido fluctuates (40s male). Today it’s high so so I’m going to answer once a day, 2-3x on good days. Tomorrow it might be lower and I would say once every 2-3 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:46 PM
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Feminism became dogmatic about equality, especially quantifiable forms like job ratios. They never talked about equivalency, it was just assumed before the 60s-70s wave that men and women had different strengths and that was ok. It seems like today’s feminists are mainly interested in punishing people for being stupid in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:01 AM
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What: I’m a living cautionary tale Why am I purple pilled: I think RP and BP both have merit, BP as the ideal and RP as the realpolitik. Reality lies somewhere between and both have tools to use in different situations. However, RP has a cult level to it that makes it inherently toxic so it’s not really a good source of active advice, but is useful for its perspective on dating and social dynamics Why am I here: I’ve been reading this kind of content online since alt.seduction.fast on usenet so …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:40 AM
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Equality is the wrong word for gender because like you said it’s not possible. We’re not talking about the equality of white people and PoC under the law. The word we should be using for gender is equivalency, where men and women are equal partners but it comes from complementing each other’s strengths and weaknesses. This was always the goal until the feminist movement latched onto the civil rights movement’s coattails for publicity in the late 1960s and started using the same language
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:37 AM
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Seems more like people being a prisoner of their minds than an actual problem. It is exactly that which is why it’s classic PPD content I will say though that before I got with that person in my past I was very hung up on what I had and hadn’t gotten to do and whether it reflected my value. So I understand both sides of this personally
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:06 PM
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There’s a sort of excited sexual curiosity and eagerness to please that people have with partners they’re really into. It’s almost a kind of innocence or naïveté. Like you love sex with this person so much that it doesn’t matter if what they want hurts or if the act is degrading “on paper”, you’ll do it anyway because it’s them. That is what these threads are about. They want to be that guy that she’ll do anything with. It’s not about specific sex acts (even if they show a fixation on one) But, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:52 PM
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I didn’t acknowledge, she gave no sign of recognizing me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:11 PM
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Congrats on the sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:09 PM
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I’m back in my hometown. A woman from my high school class waited on me at a government office today. Her and I were not friends - she literally stuck her nose up when I was around - but we were voted the male and female “Grouchiest” seniors of our class. She married a guy that hated me. She hasn’t changed much. But I was impressed with how she performed her job efficiently.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:56 PM
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The good old SQL MINUS approach The differential between two things is it’s own thing that can manipulate both things being compared
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:53 PM
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Average and below average women still need love too There is no Lake Wobegone of pussy where all the women are above average I just wanted to say “Lake Wobegone of pussy”, feel free to disregard the rest of the content
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:44 PM
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All addictive substances corrupt mens souls. Guess what almost everything good in life is? Addictive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:40 PM
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To answer it directly: no. Polite communication is not being a cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:28 PM
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Stop reframing this isn’t about arguments where the man is wrong and the woman points it out This is about arguments where the woman is wrong, has said she’s ok with being told that, then when you actually argue she goes batshit way beyond a basic “shit I was wrong” reaction. That is the norm with women, not an exception. Don’t claim to be tough enough when you aren’t, and don’t make other peoples’ lives miserable because of your weakness. Those are masculine values though so I guess it’s obviou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:47 PM
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Same here actually But there are times I’ve sought it out and it is a different world. in the world of casual sex signaling of status via collective attraction is more important than being attracted to your partner. Casual sex is a social activity, not an intimate one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:42 PM
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The routine of not admitting you’re wrong isn’t what I’m talking about either I hate being lied to. I’m talking about lying women who say they want open communication then blow up at you when you’re open with them because they don’t like what you say for some reason that may be valid, may be because they see backing down as admission of weakness, or because if they back down they’re letting the sisterhood down Women shouldn’t put up with belligerence in men either but men are expected to tolerat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:39 PM
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If that was something that existed it would be wonderful. Reality is sexism and other degrading, emasculating behaviors and attitudes. Women just laugh at that, saying how does it feel and I told you so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:27 PM
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Your east coaster perspective is interesting here because east coast culture is still collectively focused and tightly bound by social laws and norms, so you understand the role of shame in society. Someone from out west where individualism, and live and let live has always been a rule is going to think individual preference is the only thing that matters, or at least they’re going to feel obligated to signal it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:33 PM
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Exactly, you get it This is not about whether women want casual sex as much as men But about how they behave in the cases when they do want it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:19 PM
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Yup, you’re also right Include same-sex encounters for the “free spirits” and the number will be closer though Safe sex for promiscuous women means lesbian sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:42 PM
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I want someone who doesn’t come at everything like she’s da kween and every discussion is a fight to the death and she has to win. Women today are often taught this whole boss bitch ethic that says they have to act like belligerent cunts in order to adequately represent the power of womanhood in the face of patriarchy or whatever language they are using for it this season I understand that women have been oppressed and silenced for hundreds of years and this is just the pendulum swinging back. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:28 PM
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The main thing that makes women not have casual sex is fear of slut shaming. What many don’t realize is that the level of slut shaming a woman receives for “putting out too fast” is inversely proportional to the man’s attractiveness they’ll fuck Chad after a free drink and five minutes of talk because if he pumps and dumps they won’t get shamed because he’s Chad, and that’s what Chad does, be hot and ejaculate in women. She won’t get shamed for fucking him anyway because he’s hot enough that it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:14 PM
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Yup, yup, yup, and yup My point is not every relationship or person in one gets to be open without their world crashing down Openness is an ideal, not a fully achievable reality
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:43 PM
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The stakes of a serious long term relationship failing are varying degrees of life ruination that you may never recover from. The stakes of annoying a stranger are maybe getting yelled at or possibly assaulted. Who are you going to be more open with about your complaints?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:38 PM
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Women have real friends. Guys have drinking and gym buddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:33 PM
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Relationships always leave me with a long list of terrible things I learned about myself and usually a resolve to fix them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:37 AM
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Age gaps fuck your relationship up in subtle ways. My last gf was 11 years younger than me. 44-33 when we met. I was on the fence about that before we met in person, but it was the only negative during the pre-meeting chat so I decided to ignore it. Well, it turns out I derive a lot of my sense of self worth when I’m around younger people from being older and wiser. And there were times I definitely was wiser than her. But I had to keep my mouth shut so as not to be acting like I was trying to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:29 AM
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The answer to your question is the same: “Why live? We can’t know, and I don’t know.” It is a subjective question based entirely on the responses of individual observers. “We can’t know” doesn’t feel adequate for this problem. We can’t know what it’s like to be a bat but we can know some of the qualities of another person’s life - assuming we’re not all completely alien to each other mentally. “We can’t know” make me wonder what we (humanity as a whole) are missing or what we’re failing to look …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:54 PM
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And that’s why I never get an answer. There’s always a point where whoever I’m talking to just stops thinking, tells me the question is invalid, and throws up their hands. They never tell me why, or try to educate me, just say “accept it because __”. It’s like there’s some trigger in the question itself that shuts down logical thought. The phenomenon of shutting down the conversation is almost more interesting. I don’t see where “existential” and “logical” are antonyms. If you just feellike life…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:31 PM
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“Why should we live?” is a philosophical question. I shortened it to “why live?” I’m asserting that the question of “why should we live” must have a self-contained logical answer that does not depend on pre-bias towards living. I have never found that answer, and my desire for it to exist seems to piss people off, but I still believe it must exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:01 PM
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Whether I have read the same books with the same emphasis as you or not, and whether Camus is sufficient authority to appeal to to stop a conversation or not, the fact remains that absurdism doesn’t give me an answer that works for me. The third paragraph (that you got too flustered to deal with) has the actual core of the question in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:16 PM
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The Handmaid’s Tale, Stranger in a Strange Land, The Demolition Man long lived non-humans and humans being in relationships is a pretty common trope in fantasy and sci fi
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:05 PM
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I’m one but I’m probably a unique case
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:02 PM
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Absurdists give up on reason as a solution to the problem of meaning, and move the goalposts of meaning outside of the field of reason entirely. You can say you won any argument when you don’t actually fight the opposition. Camus was writing as a French intellectual after WWII, the French who just got occupied by the Nazis for 4 years, he had a perspective on brutality and the banality of evil that I can’t relate to. He’s not writing for me, a bitter American in 2022. Understanding what he said …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:46 PM
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Means you’re an extrovert by nature
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:37 PM
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Camus as I read him says that life is so absurd and meaningless that searching for a meaning in it is pointless. There is only denial and distraction, ie be Sisyphus and be happy rolling the rock because this time you saw a bluebird. That’s giving up on reason as a tool for making life better. Reason is our only real superpower so giving up on it is not something I find very admirable or appealing. Nietzsche came the closest to an actual reasoning of life = good, because he gave nihilism and pes…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:31 PM
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Pessimism is just how you practice nihilism if you’re not going down the Camus road. I don’t believe anything is beyond reason. The reasoning might be cruel and barbaric for some things, but everything can be argued for and against in a world of free thought. I have yet to meet anyone who will argue for an inherent value to life all the way to the end. They always throw up their hands, say it’s beyond reason, and back away like wanting to talk about it at all is sickness. If life is so good, why…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:13 PM
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Absurdism is the worst of existentialism. Imagine your life’s work amounts to “fuck it, I give up”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:02 PM
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This makes sense. But then why put in the effort it takes to live, if material life is transient? What dependencies are left on me that require me to keep myself materially alive, and more to the point, if I embrace this detachment and the pure pointless transience of material existence, how do I not resent the attachments that force me to continue be here?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:47 PM
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If anything, knowing that none of my choices matter in the grand scheme of things is actually an extremely comforting thought. I don’t understand this at all. If nothing I do matters, why do I have to exist in the first place? What required me to be born if I’m fundamentally pointless?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:41 PM
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This has been bothering me so long that I started studying paganism, magic and occult shit to learn how the psychology of creating meaning through belief works. Basically “meaning” is just a set of pre-programmed synchronicities and confirmation biases. Christians see Gods plan in the world because they believe there is one and it comforts them to believe this, so their biases get confirmed. On the other end of the spectrum you have magicians who make sigils that they believe will send good thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:31 PM
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Now I have
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:16 PM
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Doesn’t help that the only opposing force to nihilism is existentialism - you exist, so it doesn’t matter where you find meaning in life as long as you do. Well, what if you can’t? What if you looked everywhere that people say to look for meaning and value and none of what you found worked for you? Existentialists will tell you you didn’t look correctly or long enough. Nihilists will tell you you’re right that it’s not there at all. There’s no third path, and it seems like a huge gap
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:12 PM
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Basically, everything’s an attachment. wanting to eat food is being attached to not being hungry. Wanting to survive is being attached to living. The religious side of it is obviously bogus. Like how Theravada says householders can’t even achieve enlightenment because they have responsibilities they can’t renounce. That’s just a new flatter caste system with monks at the top (thinking in terms of 400 BCE India). There’s no concept of a healthy and unhealthy desire. When you’ve had what you thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:54 PM
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I can’t stand submissiveness in general personality, but so many women think that liking assertiveness and confidence means they get a full time bitch license Submissiveness in the bedroom means caring if I enjoy it. You would be amazed at how many women don’t care at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:46 PM
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What I mean is that depression is my default unchanging mental state, so everything I do starts with that as a handicap, eg Buddhist detachment is modifying a depressed mind instead of a normal mind
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:20 PM
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As a kid I was weird, weak and fat. Everyone was repulsed by me Started lifting as a teenager and became weird, strong, and fat. Girls still didn’t like me but the guys respected my size. Went to camp between junior and senior year, lost 35 pounds. I was weird, strong, and less fat.Some girls liked me when I came back. I was still big enough to scare the guys Over the next 25-30 years I worked desk jobs, became a drunk and a stoner, and gradually lost another 70 pounds. The big change was about …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:15 PM
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That’s a given, everything else is just on top of that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:09 PM
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What women want most of all is not having to think about any of this relationship shit and the man leading while the woman follows along being pretty is the tradcon way of accomplishing that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:06 PM
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I think I’ve internalized Buddhist non attachment so hard that life doesn’t seem worth the effort anymore. Is that supposed to happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:50 PM
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Yeah but fucked up people fuck each other up more The only way to get well is to be around well people who don’t judge your unwellness
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:13 PM
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Abortion is going to break the USA in two just like slavery did and it’s going to be very bloody if another Lincoln who wants to keep it together is President when the first abortion state secedes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:04 PM
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Women make it easy for guys they’re attracted to to get in their pants Average guys can get casual sex but women don’t make it easy for them because they are attracted to average guys less frequently than they are hot guys What women really fear in casual sex is being slut shamed. If the guy is hot enough they get less shit from other women for letting him pump/dump So the average guy will have to be personable and fun in a way that doesn’t cause fear of slut shaming to get casual sex from a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:37 PM
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I mean yeah, people feel those
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:06 AM
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Self-consciously compensating for insecurities ≠ caring about someone Accidentally making them feel cared for in the process of feeding your neuroses is just a fringe benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:51 AM
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Insecure simping makes women feel loved?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:45 AM
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Disagree Women want to be desired by other women. Not for sex, but as their enemy. If another woman finds them worth hating they see that as a sign they’ve done something right in their life This hate can come from being hot (fear you’ll take their man), smart (fear you’ll make them look dumb), wealthy (fear you’ll buy things before they do), but that’s what women are always trying to do, make themselves feel good and other women feel bad Men are just a sideshow
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:01 PM
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Who wants that when they can have a magic mirror that only reflects what they perceive as their good qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:54 PM
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Women are turned on by generosity because they like free shit, no more no less
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:24 PM
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The other outcome that I’ve experienced multiple times is that the relationship becomes all about trauma and the bad shit you went through, and you hold each other back from dealing with it. Outright fake it til you make it denial is better than that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:22 PM
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You don’t have to tell me that. What I’m saying is there’s no difference between someone who’s been through shit and gotten over it and someone who’s never been through shit at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:51 PM
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Any of the social struggles people complain about on here
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:19 PM
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Nobody’s going to know you had a shitty childhood and weren’t taught social skills if you don’t tell them. People don’t care about that at all. There’s a good chance their story is worse anyway. If that’s holding you back it’s all you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:03 PM
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Any job with manual labor and human interaction Or a job with human interaction that pays enough to afford a good gym and the time to go there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:30 PM
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Meh to me it’s sort of like an Iraqi blowing some marine’s leg off in 2005 then congratulating him on how well he gets around with his prosthetic in 2015
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:29 PM
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Big bobs round arse just that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:22 PM
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The pants cadre removes 1cm of pants leg per penis a feem has been penetrated by Sometimes it’s more than 1cm if they were really big penis, or less than 1cm if they were really small So if a woman is wearing hot pants it’s a 100% guarantee that she’s had enough dick to remove most of her pants
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:15 PM
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Banning Plan B would triple the birth rate of St Louis within a year
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:52 AM
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Depends on which one is the Klingon
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 09:11 PM
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There are those sexual acts which are PIV but are undertaken for the man’s benefit, as in when the woman is not in the mood. With the decreased access to abortion, my prediction is that those acts will fall out of favor to be replaced by blow jobs or other acts that carry no pregnancy risk. It would make sense for women to demand oral more often too for that matter
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:23 PM
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You’re not wrong. The kind of woman RP says AWALT targets basement dwelling nerds to settle down with, hoping they are too inexperienced to pick up on the red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:25 PM
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An increase in abortion restrictions should increase net access to blow jobs should it not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:22 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:18 PM
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It is by itself, but it’s a stop on the management pipeline so you can negate the unattractiveness by always being a year away
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:02 PM
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People with the Gifts love language are bad news every single time. The givers want to be able to buy you with no other effort. The receivers are gold diggers. Most are too shallow and narcissistic to be able to use another language at all and will always fall back to buying shit after a few failures at being deep
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:30 PM
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Looks too big but the camera perspective is making it look bigger Irl that’s probably perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:12 AM
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Congrats on the sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:03 AM
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Chad is the demiurge of the Just World Universe
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:45 PM
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That seems like a valid reason to not stand out to me. Tribal violence is as alive as ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:01 PM
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Self preservation, if you stand out as a man you get attacked, outside of subcultures where peacocking is encouraged Edit: well, they can’t all be gold
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:41 PM
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I would am to be doing the needful
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:33 PM
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I read the question as being about dating and new relationships and not including being married 20 years
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:30 PM
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When jaded older women “finally find a good man” they latch on like parasites and obsess harder than any 18 year old could dream of at their worst
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:47 PM
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Q4ALL: What % of women do you think are batshit crazy obsessive over their partners? Depends on age group and depletion of the dating pool (ie sense of scarcity) 20s: 10-15% 30s: 25-50% 40s: 40-80% Q4M: Have you had partners obsessed with you? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:19 PM
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I hate feeling like I’m being led around by my dick and I hate women who use sex against me, therefore I hate strip clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:06 PM
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Yes, and it was worth it Ugly women are grateful
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:49 PM
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My own well-earned misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:47 PM
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Pretty, 7/10
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:46 PM
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You get an astrology daughter by abandoning her as an infant, but it takes about 12 years after that, when she turns to ancient practices to understand what’s so wrong with her, that her father didn’t want her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:51 PM
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Is option 2 low libido in general or just around me? Likewise is option 1 high libido because she’s really into me or because she’s just horny all the time? Guy having sex: option 1 and who fucking cares why
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:43 PM
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Politics should be boring but they’ve proven if they make it like a reality TV show they can actually pass whatever bills they want. The Enlightenment is dead, and the Internet killed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:40 PM
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In 2022 this is very industry and location specific. You’ll be overdressed in a suit at pretty much any corporate job west of Philadelphia unless you’re a lawyer or in finance
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:37 PM
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I would read it but the way it’s presented I’m expecting the Time Cube to show up halfway down the page
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:34 PM
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Projected as the common female fantasy of her exes never getting over them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:33 PM
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Nah just my own lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:43 PM
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This guy is trolling. I understood your point. Your English was fine. Your brother fell into RP’s cult trap - not enjoying the results and deconstructing your success. Not appreciating your successes is always a recipe for being miserable and RP content spewers don’t make money off of guys with better lives
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:35 PM
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Problem is lack of accountability, you say “you’re being too nice” and they hear “Im just nice enough but in the wrong way”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:17 PM
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Few things are more frustrating than people you know are capable of reasoning but have replaced thought with a mental map of dead end knowledge cul-de-sacs that they retreat down upon the hearing of trigger words or phrases
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:13 PM
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So my question is, if a woman said she was miserable before she met you and that you’re the only thing that makes her happy would you be concerned? I have been told that before. It’s fucking terrifying. Pedestalling is a symptom of codependency and is a form of emotional abuse. You are reframed and constricted in your thoughts and actions, the penalty being declared responsible for the destruction of your partner’s mental health and whatever hell they put you through as a result
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:19 PM
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My opinions of women lowered after I did the post-divorce 30s weight loss/appearance maintenance. Early 30s is desperate-to-get-married age where I lived and I was a hot prospect for a little bit because I didn’t have any kids or baby mama bullshit to worry about, and I worked in software dev so they all thought I had Zuckerberg money. Women my age were utterly shameless in their selfishness, branch swinging, and use of sex for mind and asset control. The capacity for denial and hypocrisy is unf…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:08 PM
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Divorcing over financial issues isn’t divorcing over being broke, it’s divorcing over not being able to stop fighting about money.You can have all kinds of extra money and still fight about how it gets spent
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:20 PM
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Colin Wilson, A Criminal History of Mankind His angle is the dominant 5% have a need to exercise that part of their personality and if they’re not directed into something constructive, they will use it destructively. It’s very pre-internet-consciousness in that it assumes biological programming is unstoppable so it must be tamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:17 PM
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No, effective leadership doesn’t require those things, but they can be short term expedients in situations where ruthlessness gets things done faster than being nice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:13 PM
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Once I realized women could and would see me as BB I found it impossible to let my guard down completely with any of them. So, no
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:27 PM
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Pressure from others to be happy because they “won”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:25 PM
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I’m reading a book on a different subject that brings up the point that no more than 5% of people are dominant personalities of the type that can effectively lead. Wonder how many people there are who have been put in leadership positions in governments and corporations who aren’t one of those 5%
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:34 AM
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Ethically I have to pick 2, but 1 includes 2 so it’s really just virtue signaling
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:37 AM
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Something that causes harm needs to justify its existence by doing more good than harm. Asbestos was useful as a building material, but that doesn’t outweigh the fact that it causes lung cancer. So it was banned and non-carcinogenic flame retardant materials were created instead. how do you guarantee you cease to exist when you die? What if you dont? I do believe I continue to exist after I die, and in reincarnation. Next life will be all penance. In this one I’ve done enough damage. people live…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:23 AM
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The weight of my hurtful mistakes (and all the generational trauma on my shoulders) won’t ever lift. Those people have to live the rest of their lives with the damage I caused. They are justified in hating me and if I have a right to independence, they in turn have a right to share their stories with others. In short, there is no way I can make up for what I have done as far as these people are concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:15 AM
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Well, should the group have those beliefs? There are strong arguments that coddling destructive people is detrimental to all people and societal institutions. Maybe we’re not ruthless enough anymore and I’m an example of what happens when we’re too soft. If the people who hate me are part of the majority, who am I to argue for my value? What agency do I really have when I can’t defend myself against every possible attack? So, for example, you could show them that killing you is unjust because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:11 AM
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And there’s the next step in the conversation 😂 What difference does it make what I think about anything? You gave up on engaging my argument. Are you trying to insinuate something about my character based on my making this argument? What does that buy you in your reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:02 AM
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I appreciate your points. As far as you continuing to exist, you value your own life, don’t you? Like even if other people disagree on the finer points, if YOU value those moments of joy, isn’t that what counts the most? If I hurt someone and they believe I deserve to die because of it, who am I to argue? What argument above society do I have against that? Is there any objective standard for who deserves to live? hurting others is usually what seems someone unfit for existence. It’s even the law…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:27 AM
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This is where this conversation always ends 😂 Just once in my fucking life I’d like to meet someone who can prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:22 AM
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I did. God is the highest tier of consciousness powered by the force of life, which we create in the operation of Mind. God wants what humans want because we are both human and God simultaneously. God is not unbiased.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:21 AM
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Parents love children due to biological programming, oftentimes loving their kids is actually a detriment to their own lives. Ever known a parent that kept enabling an addict kid while the addict kept destroying the family? I have. Love is not a universal good either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:48 PM
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I did. There isn’t one, because my own heart is biased towards me and can’t be trusted. Where can I find an unbiased argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:30 PM
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Women will blindly defend deplorable women on social media because they’re vulnerable to the attitudes caused by memes like AWALT they have to control the narrative because men controlling the narrative = patriarchy, even if they intellectually compromise themselves in the process
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:29 PM
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Moved argument to parent comment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:23 PM
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I keep getting downvoted and banned on philosophy subs when I look for an argument for an objective, irrefutable value to human life. If philosophers don’t have the willpower and courage to argue for that, who the hell does? Is this because they know such a thing doesn’t exist? Edit: copy/pasting my position from another comment: Start from a pessimistic argument: Life is all suffering with rarely spaced moments of joy; these moments are the reason one should live. Extrapolate negative utilitari…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:00 PM
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“Nice shoes, wanna fuck”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:32 PM
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ayyy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:26 PM
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not paying for sex is just trading text messages for it instead of currency
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:03 PM
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It’s supposed to be clunky, it’s in-character. Narcissists have clunky speech patterns when they’re describing their inner life because their attention is always focused on themselves and how their words will affect their image.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:55 PM
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Word
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:57 PM
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The book is one of the best novels of the 21th century (so far), wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:56 PM
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In the public sphere, yes. In scope of local cultures, literally nothing about homophobia has changed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:50 PM
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That’s game that works until the cognitive dissonance kicks in
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:46 PM
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Seems legit to me Internalized homophobia make you hurt yourself, which is what being an incel is (psychic self-harm)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:36 PM
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I look for a 2+ carat engagement ring and/or a diamond-encrusted platinum wedding band because all the good women are taken
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:25 PM
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She’s happier going through day to day life alone but cries herself to sleep at night because there’s nobody to wake up with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:23 PM
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Orgasm causes love for both men and women I suspect based on a sample size of one that men don’t even generate oxytocin except by orgasming from partnered sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:21 PM
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Thanks for that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:09 PM
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RPers problems, mine included, are from going into the kitchen.. knowing how the sausage is made makes you not want to eat it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:00 PM
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I mean if you’re preaching bottom feeding I don’t think any of us are too proud to admit to that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:55 PM
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Easy mode comes from being born into a loving family that knows how to be successful within the system instead of fearing it. That’s not gender-specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:45 PM
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Use of computers and the internet increases black and white thinking, which leads to a fragmented social structure. It’s the cause of all of our current social problems, including incels. We need to be working on ways to adapt our physical lives to our online Minds so that we don’t all just become brains in vats, but only weird crackpots like me and various media studies types like Rushkoff even notice this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:43 PM
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In case anyone hasn’t tried this yet https://i.imgur.com/1fzzEgr.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:36 PM
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*women I’ve had sex with then I’ve already admitted all over the place that I attract garbage, so
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:31 PM
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Oh - yeah, it’s not the same here in KY. The city people aren’t gentrifying the woods here. The closest major city in KY is Lexington and it’s always been an insular college town that looks down its nose at the hills. City money doesn’t come here to live, they just buy property and vacation here or rent it out. They aren’t investing in progress, they’re building fiefdoms for when the collapse happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:09 PM
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In about a generation, all the transplants will have the same mentality as the natives. It’s in the land. You either leave permanently or become a crazy xenophobic hillbilly by behavior if not by thought, which works to change you into one by thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:54 PM
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They’re actually right about that. Ever heard of Matewan? It would be literally impossible for the federal government to conquer Appalachia by force, even with modern tech, without just bombing it all back to dust. They won’t ban guns because these people will vote them out over that one issue. That is real power. Which is why the CIA turned out the opioids in the rust belt late 90s when militias started agitating and everyone had just been assfucked by NAFTA. Opium wars work on the fearful and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:40 PM
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Everyone with enough years under their belt has done something in their life that some other human thinks they deserve to die for.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:33 PM
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Everyone around me has a gun. I live in a very rural area, and everyone single one of those gun owning people who live around me is irrationally fearful. They think they are kind of badasses who are heavily armed, yet underneath the veneer of bravado, they are the most fearful people I have ever met. I grew up in eastern KY, lived in St. Louis for 21 years, then moved back this year. This xenophobic gun mentality is multi-faceted there’s a kind of terror of modernity in the gene pool. The types …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:27 PM
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That’s why you act apologetic afterwards. It completes the narrative arc of their golden pussy inspiring animal behavior in a man who’s actually safe and kind
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 05:27 PM
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Open relationships and hall passes are waaaaay more common than people talk about
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 05:00 PM
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George RR Martin is such a goddamn fraud
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:39 PM
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It’s always projection. Women deep down don’t think they should have to do anything for men but lay down and spread their legs. Anything more than that is calculated effort for effect. So if a man puts in effort, they view it through their own manipulative lens and assume he has the same intentions they would. It’s always projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:36 PM
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Women see dominance as an expression of sexual passion, they want to be swept up by the man’s desire for them. So it’s all related
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:33 PM
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I assume he’s attractive to her and try not to project my bitterness onto them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:26 PM
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The only thing that’s changed is that women are more likely to be publicly turned off by male bullying than in the past. That’s what regulated men talking about problems before, the fear of other men marginalizing them as weak. Used to be that women were open about how much men putting other men down made them tingle. Now the virtue of acceptance must be signaled at all times
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:23 PM
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It goes back to the 1960s when the visionaries of the West were doing lots of psychedelics and realized the establishment materialist paradigm of reality was not all there was. George Lucas uncovered the amount of money there was to be made in servicing adult childrens fantasies back in 1978. The materialistic ethic has been in decline ever since. This freaked out the boomers because they dealt with their psychedelic awakening by disregarding it, doubling down on materialism. They won the Cold W…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:11 PM
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I’ve never had sex with a woman that didn’t enjoy being at least mildly dominated in some way, for example: pulling her hair at the base of her skull making her gag on my dick holding her in position spanking/ass slapping direct and forceful commands with eye contact looking at her dismissively while she blows me biting/hickeys in non-visible places Aftercare is key. You don’t want her to feel like you actually think she’s beneath you, but that a) she and she alone can unleash this animalistic s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:15 PM
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The world is full of beautiful things that aren’t women, so death shall wait for another day. Unironically based quote
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:35 PM
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Pete runs Addict Game. you show up in a woman’s life strung out and let her believe her love inspires you to get clean and her pussy is better than the drugs, but you never actually quit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:22 PM
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Better/worse is more complicated. The absolute best BJs of my life have been from women, but they were completely drained by the effort, men have more stamina and bigger mouths and throats so they can do it more comfortably than women and stay laid back about it. Some women like the discomfort though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:08 PM
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Pansexual male here, blowjobs and pussy eating are equivalent in terms of labor, but they put strain on different parts of your neck, jaw, and shoulders. Guys who suck dick enjoy it for its own sake, most women don’t - they know men love it and they enjoy being valuable to their men so they, ahem, suck it up. The ideal life to most women includes never having to have a man cum in their mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:54 PM
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This question is based on a false premise. you don’t get told such things about someone until you are already committed enough that they aren’t afraid to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:41 PM
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This is basically where I am now, except for being happy for those who play the game. They don’t know I exist and wouldn’t care about me if they did. That, I do know well from experience. I’m not required to spend my limited energy and resources on supporting them emotionally or otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:06 PM
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The homeless guy isn’t trying to be a cog in some social engine? How awful of him and everyone like him, fire up the gas chamber and let’s purge all these undesirables who don’t dress like east coast professionals.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:54 PM
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Your point was in superficial subcultures attention to the superficial is expected. The casual SMP and the world of business have that in common. Both qualify as venues for using your appearance as a tool for smoothing the functioning of the transactional social machine. the trend I have seen in my experiences is that the “wall” effect exists, the motivations just aren’t always consciously calculated
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:43 PM
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He’s never early He’s always late First thing you learn Is that you always have to wait
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:27 PM
2

I worked at the first ISP in town in 1995 and we used AOL CDs as coasters in the office
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:26 PM
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I do and I love it, everyone qualifies if they already qualify for my dick
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:24 PM
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100% Although if the porn would be a dealbreaker that’s a dealbreaker for me too so it’s a fair trade disclosure thing at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:07 PM
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Business culture has always been more conservative about appearances than gen pop, especially on the east coast. a clean/non-alt look is part of the uniform of the management class east of the Mississippi. all businessmen think everyone in the world should aspire to being managers and to be suitable to be one of their employees, whatever that means to them. What math? Looks like Reddit code-formatted my text for some reason but there was no math
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:33 PM
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I’m Gen X But I’m not permanently here, this is my porn throwaway account and I only come to PPD when I’m in a phase of being bitter about women and need a place to vent
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:18 PM
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Well yeah but there are only so many hours in a day so if you get lots of attention you need to figure out who to focus on. Abundance game leads to tyranny of choice, lack of abundances leads to FOMO, the human condition is dissatisfaction
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:15 PM
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looking good isn’t shallow: it’s looking your best. Why wouldn’t anyone want that? Why would anyone care about that outside of a context of dating and sex? The only internal point of looking your best is to increase sexual confidence, and to receive external validation. Once you see how easy it is to manipulate people and engineer situations the magic facade falls off of every human interaction and they become about transactional mechanics, your appearance becomes just another tool for impressin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:12 PM
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At least when you’re ugly you know people are listening to what you say because they find value in the content and aren’t just getting off on watching you say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:58 PM
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Because they’re not. They become special when you build a life with them. Wtf is special about that, it’s a business relationship for the women that romantic men put on a pedestal as more I’m on the other, downhill side of the RP glowup , mine happened around 2010 after I got divorced, I will now die alone and miserable because I chased shallow bitches instead of substance and lost all interest in what women have to say
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:45 PM
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The TRP glow up is a self-defeating prophecy Marketing yourself to as many women as possible through looksmax type activities is not the path to a good relationship, it is only the path to lots of shallow attention. This feels good if you’ve never had it before but quickly becomes obnoxious and degrading as you see how vapid and empty these women are you begin to crave the substance of your previous experiences with women, where it was rare to get interest but it was because of who you were and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:32 PM
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Context?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:21 PM
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I mean when you have everything but one thing you really want that thing is going to acquire a sharp focus
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:12 PM
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There are still 14 days left in pride month?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:08 PM
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“Yachting”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:02 PM
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I’m Gen x, fat ass doesn’t do it for me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:58 PM
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Doctors and nurses have a lot in common to talk about and they tend to respect each other. Really? Every nurse I’ve known was medically very intelligent yet was toxic Af and crazy in part because they got treated like shit by doctors at work all day. Foreign doctors especially treat nurses like shit because of their sexist home cultures
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:46 PM
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This was true for me, when I enjoyed dating it felt pretty effortless and dry spells weren’t a big deal. It’s just really hard to continue to enjoy dating after a bunch of shitty outcomes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:25 AM
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10 = Margot Robbie 5 = Kelly Clarkson 1 = Roseanne Barr When it comes to actual IRL dating, appearance is on a pass/fail basis
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:11 AM
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Deux
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:04 AM
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Yeah but there is always a group of guys who aren’t good enough for them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:13 PM
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They’ve fallen for and/or respect female dread game
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:20 PM
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What if you started out only book smart, realized it and became life smart enough to get by, learned how to get people to want you, and none of it helped you make it in life (defined by me as being happy with the results of your efforts)?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:57 PM
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“It will shock you how much this never happened.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:52 PM
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It’s exactly the same. The opioid epidemic was targeted at the angry population of the rust belt who lost their livelihoods to NAFTA and globalization in order to completely break their will to fight. Now here in the rust belt there’s no native capital left. So it’s true, nobody that stays can actually improve their lot because in the USA that’s done through entrepreneurship or flight. And people on the coasts just point and laugh and call us junkies and sister fuckers and still wonder why the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:30 PM
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Rural vs urban USA
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:11 PM
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“I feel bad for you.” “I don’t think about you at all.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:41 PM
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“What is ‘happiness’? Its the moment before you want more ‘happiness’.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:37 PM
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Don Draper: “What do women want?” Roger Sterling: “Who cares?”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:20 PM
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Ah, the pussy pusher strategy. Sex is everyone’s favorite drug, get someone a supply and get them in your debt
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:18 PM
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Not much, it seems. It’s all related. The land and isolation and the temperament of the people passed down to their children, accepting fate and zero agency, only hope being someone to come in and uplift them, which they won’t trust anyway. God shits on all the world equally but he always wipes his ass with an Appalachian
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:56 PM
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Traumatized populations have traumatized children who grow up with abuse normalized and the cycle repeats, people couple young based on unhealthy bonding and that produces more damaged people, in a few generations they’re capable of believing trump can make the coal grow back inside the mountain because they are so beaten down and damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:46 PM
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Yup, you encounter than a lot after the second coupling wave (early-mid 30s), when they have vowed never to tolerate most male qualities ever again after being dumped by the guy they went all in on in their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:35 PM
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Epigenetic effects of trauma explain so much of human history Like how entire geographically centered gene pools become defeated, fatalistic, and self-destructive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:27 PM
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Naivety in men is a kind of social expectation. It’s part of the Superman invulnerability expectation set A man is expected to be so full of his own greatness that the antics of silly filles perturb him not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:02 PM
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I don’t know of any self-respecting man who will tolerate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:14 PM
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Women are easy to please early in a relationship. It goes downhill once you commit. They start turning the thumbscrews down tighter after that, because they don’t have to pretend to be the coolest woman you ever met anymore. This results in the goalposts moving constantly and them never being satisfied. It’s a self-defeating, relationship-destroying thing that women have been convinced is a show of female power, analogous to men who can’t keep a woman due to clinging to RP AF/BB type thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:08 PM
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I’ve always boiled it down to “a real man doesn’t give a shit what a ‘real man’ is supposed to do” Its all situational, though. If you want to survive in dangerous places or not burn bridges you have to play by other peoples rules. Where it stops is when you are giving up too much dignity in return. I walked away from a six figure career because my dignity couldn’t take one more second of corporate bullshit or watching assholes get promoted due to me doing their shit work for them. But if I had …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:28 PM
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Ah, a subject at which I am an expert. Depression makes you not “fun.” It doesn’t make you ugly, unless you also let yourself go. This means it affects relationships, not dating. Since getting dates is about looks and first impressions, if you have the energy to be fun for an evening, especially if you can lean on alcohol to make yourself fun, depression won’t limit your options in itself. You can’t sustain the fun date persona in a relationship, though. So if you are depressed, or otherwise un-…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:14 AM
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And you’re saying young women should date older men? How many of these superior 30 year olds are just one of these “not fully developed” men in disguise?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:12 AM
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There will always be a need for people at the extremes of violence and compassion, and that’s where men and women respectively always find value. Equivalency implies complementary qualities like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 10:34 PM
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An arrest warrant requires evidence of a crime*, not just a threat, which can be completely manufactured. * “conspiracy” statutes notwithstanding
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 09:39 PM
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Dear god let’s hope
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:53 PM
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Agree, equality is impossible, what everyone ackshuly wants is equivalency
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:53 PM
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Self mastery means something to some of us
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:34 PM
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Not just the women either, I met more than one guy in my old city who was proud of having a gf that used to be some famous athlete’s fuckslot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:51 PM
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Right, I need my guns to protect myself from the cops when the trumpists get power again I won’t survive that scenario but if I take down two republicans before they kill me my life will at least not be a waste
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:36 PM
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Yes Have you ever heard of the trope of the absent minded professor?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:28 PM
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John Mayer
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:42 AM
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I haven’t. I’ve been to a decent amount of the US at least
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:38 AM
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Yeah reminds me of the Ross Jefferies alt.seduction.fast days
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:19 AM
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Affection is never random
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:03 PM
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Most women I’ve been with have disliked giving BJs and would always insist we fuck instead after a few seconds of it. The one who loved giving them was an insecure shitbag who, turns out, was only pretending to love giving them as a form of love-bombing. The only people I’ve been with who sincerely enjoyed sucking my dick have been male.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:30 PM
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Yeah never said it was logical or productive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:01 PM
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Bicep flex with 3 lb bass in each hand = pro game
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:49 PM
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Dunno about him but having to ask for BJs is almost degrading to me to both parties.. like if you really wanted to do it you just would, and if you were really into me I wouldn’t have to ask
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:48 PM
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I value my independence higher than anything or anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 11:33 AM
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I can’t live like that no matter how good everything else is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 11:19 AM
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Have you ever heard the tale if Darth Plagueis the wise
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:12 AM
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I don’t like being obliterated once I get there, but if I drink without supervision that’s where I always end up. I guess my nature is to self destruct, good times
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:58 PM
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I can drink in moderation in situations where I have to limit myself due to external factors. If I don’t have anyone watching or judging me by how much I drink though I don’t stop until I pass out with one in my hand
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:25 PM
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Lol I’m pansexual and every time I’ve opened up about that to a straight woman they’ve assumed it meant I was asking for a pass to go suck dick and in some cases it was never recovered from Women don’t relate to men as people but as caricatures and stereotypes, so they assume men are led around by their dicks and bi/pansexuality is just being unable to be happy with their wonderful pussy and all the monkey dancing games they want to watch you play to sniff it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:20 PM
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sober alcoholic, I can say my life was actually better on paper when I was actively drinking, because I didn’t have to say no to everyone’s favorite excuse to socialize
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:16 PM
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Expect? No. Both of those things have to be continuously earned Are you saying the likes of Charles Manson and Ted Bundy deserved and should have expected love and companionship? Their actions made it so that they didn’t Why do you think that being able to prove yourself unworthy of or incapable of love doesn’t apply to people less evil than them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:47 PM
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However, sex, or at least good sex, I actually feel good and get that bliss. Can’t get that alone Lol. Ever heard of drugs? That’s all sex is, it’s just release of some chemicals, after engaging in hours/days of self-deprecating labor and toil to acquire consent to use some other person’s body to trigger the release.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:49 PM
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100% agree RP is a set of coping strategies and self-preservation tools for being stuck taking out other mens garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 03:50 PM
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Sex is a drug that we are forced to be addicted to. Liberating yourself from this is the pinnacle of self-mastery.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 03:17 PM
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I was a virgin until I was 21. That summer I went back to school after dicking around for several years after high school and finally stopped paying attention to women and what they thought of my actions. I had a gf and lost the V card by that fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:13 AM
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It just means they didn’t really want to do the freaky shit in the first place and we’re just playing along to keep you. It’s a bad feeling. I’ve also had women tell me “I don’t need all the kinky stuff to get off with you.” Meaning it’s something they felt they had to do with other guys because they couldn’t make vanilla sex as good as I could for them. TRP lore says this means they weren’t attracted enough to me to do it. I don’t think they were lying though, because I’ve felt the same way. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:09 AM
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Epigenetics is what I mean by genetic damage. Trauma changes how your genes build the nervous system that writes the software. I’ve spent my whole adult life trying to change the software and every time I think I have, life doubles down and I get smacked down and proven wrong. I’ve given up on getting any help from psychology and the mental health system. I have stuff I’m working on. But the goal is not to be good enough for some woman anymore, it’s to just be able to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:34 PM
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Facts There’s been a distinct difference in the quality of the sex in different relationship types for me: 100% casual ONS/hookup : not much experience with this tbf but mostly fun with the women putting on a show to be more memorable Casual dating (go to dinner/drinks then fuck): bad, since the women were not interested in a relationship, they didn’t try in bed and hoped I would FWB: this has been the consistent #2 in quality for me, because the friendship encouraged experimentation without jud…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:24 PM
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Did someone forget to switch accounts?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:44 PM
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That’s the major part of it. Also going to build steps into the steep parts, reinforce places that get muddy and slip, maybe some drainage work. I want to build some rest spots and places to meditate too, I’m a little bit of a tree hugging pagan
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:27 PM
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Hot men have the same halo effect on women as hot women do on men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:21 PM
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Going to start building trails and clearing brush in our woods, planning for a future where I own the place and need to make money off of it. It’ll help my nephews when they hunt too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:19 PM
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Here’s the thing you can go off into monk mode, work on yourself and get to the point where you feel like you can deal with things and treat people right. You meet someone and it’s all going well and you’re maintaining as the new you. Then something stressful or tragic happens and you have no frame of reference, so you fall back to your old dysfunctional ways of dealing with it That’s been the pattern in all of my relationships. Self control of my bad qualities goes out the window when things ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:42 PM
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If you are a male, your ancestors likely held a sword or a spear or a club and they killed other men in order to dominate and procreate successfully. And here men are whining that they didn’t get a match on Tinder all week. It’s also likely they had (possibly nonconsensual) sexual relations with other men when women weren’t available, which men today are eschewing in favor of whacking it to porn and whining about mean girls. Women haven’t changed in that regard, witness the threads about lesbian…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:19 PM
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The issue goes deep. I was raised by control freaks in a tightly controlled environment. I have either been 1) a controlling dick, which rightfully nobody tolerates 2) the complete opposite, which was not the controlling dick I wanted to be at heart, which made me feel whipped, manipulated and controlled, building covert resentment I’m not sure it’s worth working on at my age, women aren’t going to fix my problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:05 PM
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What I’m saying is flexing anything on social media is a sign of immaturity and narcissism. If she flexes me on social, she can’t keep the relationship ours privately, and she’s in it at least partially for external validation and not because she wants to be with me. That means any man who can provide more social validation than me could be situationally seen as better than me and she will branch swing. Its a sign she can’t be trusted. If I have to play RP games to keep her, she’s trash and no m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:01 PM
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I personally can’t stand it. The higher the pedestal, the easier it is to fall off and the more it hurts when you do Flexing you on social media is just inviting her friends and followers to evaluate your relationship and that never works out in your favor
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:42 PM
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Fuck that, I’m not a trophy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:37 PM
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I realized after my last relationship that I’ve been emotionally abusive to every woman who’s loved me and it’s made me ideate lifelong celibacy or suicide as a way to prevent myself from ever hurting anyone again. Not sure if that counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:19 PM
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TRP is valid as a set of coping mechanisms and communication strategies for failed middle-tier men who are stuck with a pool of low value, trashy, hypergamous women to date. The kind of guy that fucked up every relationship he’s had to the point that the only women who will look at him are alcoholics, junkies, bored-out strippers, and so on. If you’re going to date women like that you need to be armed with some defenses because they will be using every trick in the book on you. Or you could just…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:08 PM
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My experience differs. A large number of people desperately want to be a “type”. They have no imagination to create themselves and join 1-N herds that tell them who to be, and their final personality either depends on which herd they are interacting with at any time, or becomes defined by the intersection of all of their herd memberships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:56 PM
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Yeah, close friends do, I vaguely remember that. I was talking about guys just spewing where have all the good girls gone type shit Sad for your friend but I get it, there are insecurities I’ll never get over
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:16 AM
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Men broadcasting their failings in dating and relationships is not something I see very often outside of forums specific to those topics. Could be generational, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:57 AM
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He said it because you didn’t, you ignored that factor to make your point. It’s impossible for men who date women to complain about dating struggles without implicitly blaming women. They aren’t dating the other men. The only other people they could be blaming is themselves, and that is never the intention of anyone who brings a personal issue of any kind into public for discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:43 AM
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Women love seeing men struggle. It’s universal, even among tradcon women. Edit: at 11 upvotes, this was actually a sarcastic troll, women don’t care about mens struggles one way or another, they have their own problems and if we don’t want them dumping their problems on us we shouldn’t dump ours on them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:30 PM
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Yes, it’s pointless. Women don’t care, nor should they.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:22 PM
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the nuuummmbbeerr of the beeeeaaasssssttt
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:09 PM
1

Quatro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:03 PM
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For humans* It’s all filtered through whatever baggage and bullshit we’ve been through True objectivity requires a type of detachment most people just don’t seem to be capable of when it comes to themselves and people close to them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:35 PM
2

Winning the rat race just makes you the best rat
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:51 AM
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I do not like to perform the romance. It sets a precedent of monkey dancing and enduring the pussy whip.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:54 PM
1

It is, they’re both in the genre of outsider stories
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:12 PM
1

It’s a quick read and a classic, I just read it for the first time last month and it hit hard
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:05 PM
1

I just read it recently and felt extremely “attacked”, I have basically been the main character for the past 5 years
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:00 PM
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It’s about a man who’s so stuck in his own head that he’s built a worldview out of his coping mechanisms to the point that he can’t function, sabotages everything good in his life, and alienates himself completely from society. It’s all about valuing the will to act along with the ability to analyze and understand
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:59 PM
1

Lot of guys here need to read Steppenwolf
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:39 PM
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I’m 46, the window has closed for me. Therapy has done very little for me. Treatment only helps me become a functional worker, it doesn’t make me human. And, like I said, my desire comes from social alienation due to not being a parent at my age. The desire to reproduce isn’t actually there, I’m just sick of mouth breathers looking down on me for it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:08 PM
2

I wish I would have had kids so that I wouldn’t be so alienated from other people my age. Not having kids as a man in my mid 40s makes people take me less seriously to the point of condescension. However, my insecurities are not a valid reason to create children that would almost assuredly suffer from my mental health issues and shit upbringing. So I’ve done the objectively right thing in a negative utilitarian, antinatalist sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:36 PM
1

2-4 years max, I was with someone 11 years younger than me for a year and it was a nightmare
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:33 PM
1

My nearby small towns on the map have stuff going on all summer long. I’m volunteering at a craft beer fest Father’s Day weekend. Funny, there were hardly any of these in the urban area I just moved back from. All the festivals were huge city wide events put on by ancient entrenched charities, they had volunteers booked months in advance and they were day long ordeals where groups went to hang out together and left together. Church carnivals with rides and food we’re a thing there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:21 PM
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We’re probably more like 1 in 1000, most men are not as bitter and jaded as PPD men and haven’t even heard of TRP, FDS, AF/BB, etc But you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:15 PM
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I separate things into abstract and material the past and future are abstract.. you can’t change the past, you can’t predict the future with certainty. The present is material, so in my life I am always there. Spending too much time in abstract mind-spaces, including those that you go into to plan for the future, causes you to become detached from the present/reality. Spending too much time in material reality ignoring the abstract leads to being your example in your last paragraph. There is a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:24 PM
3

No On Bumble women first messaging is just them sending “hi” or an emoji, it’s still up to the men to start the actual conversation It’s the diff between approaching IRL a woman who smiled at you vs one who just looked at you a little too long
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:46 PM
1

Arnold Keanu Reeves Russell Brand
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:52 AM
1

You’re more likely to have life screw you in scenario B because that grinding will make you blind to things like your wife cheating and people plotting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 12:25 AM
1

Not calling you fascist dude, I’ve just been thinking about the movie and Ebert’s take on it recently myself
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 10:34 PM
1

I’m not a movie buff at all but I read his reviews religiously every week just for his writing. He was one of the best editorialists of the 20th century.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 10:33 PM
1

The longer I’m alive and hang around places like this, the more I understand why Ebert hated Fight Club and called it “gleefully fascist”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:27 PM
2

Relatable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 10:32 PM
2

I am the product of generations of genetic mutations and epigenetic damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 10:27 PM
9

In effect, she was more concerned about how the claim made women look, rather than what was actually true. View everything women say online through this lens and you have the answer to every question on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 11:33 AM
1

Most stoner girls aren’t sucking dick for weed (once they’re past like 20 lol), like someone else said that’s gonna happen for harder drugs though for sure Stoner girls are a no for me, my problem with stoner girls is I’m also a stoner and between the both of us they always have me smoking myself blank and spending way too much on weed The difficulty is I’m also a sober alcoholic and women who don’t smoke weed and are single drink, which isn’t wise for me to be around too often
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 03:14 AM
1

Alcoholic beverage snobbery is its own class of asshole. Most I’ve known are just sublimating their alcoholism into something they can talk about because it’s all they have in their life. “I’m not a drunk, I only drink [vintage] from [distillery].” No different than weed snobs with strains or people who talk shit about coke from different cities, except nobody pretends that’s not addict behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:46 PM
3

I mean everyone likes good food and most have some likes and dislikes but to make it your main thing in life without being a chef just seems so basic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:02 PM
1

Foodies and foodie culture legit pisses me off. It’s such a first world privilege to have so much food that you can afford to be stuck up about it. It all just gets shit out anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:24 PM
1

Spending too much time socializing via the internet has definitely damaged my ability to trust anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 06:19 PM
2

It’s a soft core fetish sub, not a relationship discussion group
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 05:46 PM
0

Women have to be gold diggers because of the gender wage gap. If they’re looking for something serious when dating, that means they’re looking for financial relief from making 60% of what men do. Single moms especially. Another thing that’s out there in the dating pool is a kind of financial PTSD. An ex of mine’s mom and dad would fight violently about money when she was a kid, so she had a phobia about anything to do with money. She was hoping for a man who would completely take over that part …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:27 PM
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There’s a type of guy who seeks money just so that he can have enough to buy the hottest women and then pay them to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:21 PM
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I’ve noticed a gradual upward trend in online paranoia and schizoposting since weed legalization began in the USA Normalizing all day err day stoner culture will normalize psychosis, interesting times ahead
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 04:23 PM
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For fuck’s sake. A basic Google search brought back pages of articles declaring sex as a need. https://markmanson.net/sex-and-our-psychological-needs/amp Psychology Today says it’s a need that’s “required to thrive.” Guess Isaac Newton wasn’t accomplished enough for them, LOL https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sexual-futurist/202004/sexual-needs?amp https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/psychologists/understanding-the-psychology-of-sex/ Here’s a page that is selling Maslow’s sex-as-a-need.. you…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:47 PM
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Maslow remains popular in therapy and organizational psychology because the pyramid is an easy model for non-psychologists to grasp. note the phrasing: “out of fashion”. Actual truth doesn’t give a shit about whether academics like it or not. Nothing is empirically supported in psychology in the same way it is in hard sciences. The best tool they have for defining normal vs abnormal is statistical analysis of voluntary reporting surveys. It’s about as empirical as numerology and tarot cards or t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:31 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abraham_Maslow The hierarchy I mentioned: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow%27s_hierarchy_of_needs He was definitely in my psych 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 02:50 PM
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What I remember coming out was MJ was weird and inappropriate with kids, like having slumber parties with prepubescent kids, but it wasn’t sexual. It was because he had severe arrested development from PTSD his childhood abuse that caused him to see himself more as a kid than adult. The accuser added the sexual abuse as a cash grab but it was still wrong, just not criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 02:29 PM
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Yes, they laugh at Freud then pull out Maslow, who had love and belonging (implies sex for men) at level 3 on his pyramid, lower than self esteem. Or they pull out neuropsych and say that lack of sex or even just touch causes chemical imbalances that limit brain functioning. Virgin shaming is something humans will shoehorn into anything, it’s one of the basic social gene pool control levers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 02:11 PM
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I did say partially to blame, not entirely. Incels hold all the blame for their own actions, but this messaging mixed with modern tech and a ready made identity kit encourages young men to give up and wallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 02:08 PM
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If you’ve always had bad relationships, the problem is you. You have two options to address it: Fix whatever issues you have that cause this and go find a good relationship Quit putting your effort into something that’s proven by experience to make you miserable MGTOWs have chosen option 2. Some out of laziness, some out of spite, some because life is short and they don’t want to waste any more of theirs on romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:44 PM
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Greater society follows the psych professors.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:41 PM
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I mean I don’t have a textbook or a paper to cite, but it’s been a major trope in psychology since Freud. “Sexual needs” meaning anything from physical tension release to emotional well-being to social capital. Freud thought stunted sexuality caused every mental illness, and he still casts a long shadow. It’s also a very easy thing for psychologists to lose perspective on if they aren’t struggling with it themselves. You know damn well that your frat boy ass would have received that message diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:40 PM
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Not having a job and not wanting to go back to my career profession to get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:35 PM
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Modern psychology is partially to blame for incels because it has declared that sex and romantic relationships are a need - that is, a prerequisite for being a fully formed, functioning human being. Frustrated guys take psych 101 and get taught this dogma and suddenly they’re not just horny and lonely because they’re not getting attention, they’re actually subhuman in the eyes of the arbiters of normal mental functioning. What the fuck do you expect to happen when an entire social science tells …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:30 PM
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Where does this notion come from, that you have to be damn near perfect to even have a shot with an average woman? Impersonal observation of successful men. The internet has amplified it, but I grew up before it. I was a marginalized nerd in high school so the guys that got girls didn’t really talk to me, I had to watch and learn, so I thought it was only about physical appearance, that guys who weren’t athletic chads or bulked farm boys with mullets and porn staches (this was in the late 80s/ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 12:46 PM
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Yeah most women tell you who they wish they were instead of who they are and accepting themselves and being honest. Men do this too but eventually grow out of it when they get called out on it enough times. Women IME never really quit doing this until they’re too old to care about impressing people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 12:04 PM
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More often than not these kids are abused and shut down emotionally (no “childish” outbursts of feelings) to keep the peace
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 12:00 PM
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It’s a cutoff age and it varies by culture and location. Where I grew up (backwoods USA) it was about 21 for both men and women. People thought I was gay because I wasn’t married with a kid by that age. In a location with a greater and at least partially educated population it’s late 20s-early 30s, maybe mid-30s for people who had to do some work on themselves and actually did it. Outliers exist beyond the cutoff age, but you can look for them your whole life and not find them so sunk cost falla…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:35 PM
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There are very few truly good partners out there for anyone. There’s an age window to couple up with good people and if you miss it you don’t get a second chance. The truly good women get locked down by men who were taught right during this marriage window. Once they’re all taken the men who got bullshitted only get to choose from the castoffs and retreads and as misogynistic as it is you need the TRP rules to keep them from ruining your life because that’s all. You. Get. You can say the same th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:09 PM
2

BDSM exists to give lazy women a valid excuse to starfish in bed while still tricking the man into thinking she’s a Cool Girl
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:09 PM
3

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:25 PM
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If you haven’t been in love it might seem like it’s foolish or overrated. But if your ever had someone that sees the absolute best in you, who sees sees half your flaws as benefits and will work with you to fix the other half, and is genuinely ecstatic at the chance to spend time with you, you know how powerful it is. This doesn’t really happen today in a world where easy self esteem and sex is just a swipe away. What happens is: someone sees you could be close to their ideal if you’d just fix t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:56 PM
1

Hard disagree. kids need exposure to and demystification of guns from a young age, if they’re going to be around them at all. Guns have become these talismans of heroism and villainy to generations who haven’t grown up knowing and using them for mundane purposes. Hunting culture starts way younger than 18 or 16. Hunting culture also doesn’t produce mass shooters because hunters go kill things with their guns and know what life and death actually looks and feels like instead of their first experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:17 PM
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Men who project a life of female abundance. The ones who “act like they’ve been there before”. It comes off as arrogant asshole behavior from the outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:55 PM
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When they say “the bar is low” they mean they wish the dude they fuck who has a futon acted like the dude they’d never look twice at. And then if that dude gets his shit together he’s “just not fun anymore” and he gets dumped for the next futon wielding charmer. Unless she’s in her nesting phase. Then he becomes a BB and his resources get extracted through strategic deployment of sex and love, she gets her babies (the children are never considered as belonging to the father, even a dumbass like …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:45 PM
2

In my case it was always my own codependent tendencies and isolation. I lived in a city 500 miles away from where I grew up for 21 years so I didn’t have any real lifelong connections in my life and that put me in a situation where everyone I met had to be important. It wasn’t that way when I first got there, but as I got older and everyone circled the wagons around their own families it left non-natives like me out in the cold. But I could still get dates by playing the OLD game. For the last 6…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:05 PM
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Getting first dates is laughably easy. I’m a good looking guy with a (formerly) good career who knows how to play the OLD game. Finding someone I want to see more than once is damn near impossible. I’m at the age where most people who are still single either want to be, or are single because nobody can deal with their shit. The latter group gets very good at hiding their crazy after all of these years of dating, and you don’t figure out they’re that way until it’s way too late, so my romantic re…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:22 PM
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The only thing I’ve noticed that generalizes is that women who have given birth are not as tight near the vaginal opening, but usually are just as tight on the inside. Never noticed any differences in warmth
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:58 PM
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Didn’t she leave him because of Epstein?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:41 PM
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No. That’s why they keep the same secret fuck buddies for years while they stay “officially” single.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:08 PM
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Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:52 PM
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Taking someone to a strip club to learn women is like sending them to Bernie Madoff to learn finance
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:40 PM
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Not like that, I’m talking about being demoralized by being in a bad relationship Successfully married != bad relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:02 PM
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Love is a recreational drug, one of the most neurotoxic ones. It causes brain damage that cripples your ability to think rationally about your source of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:05 AM
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Single moms are actually great to date for guys like me who can’t stand being the constant center of someone’s attention. The kids come first, always, so there will be times when she actually… leaves you alone. Someone without kids will expect you to run on her schedule sooner or later.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 08:52 PM
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It works out for women to get babies and resources to take care of them. Once they start having kids that’s all men are good for to them. It never works out for men because our self esteem while in relationships is tied to how desirable our partners are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:45 PM
2

You can find yourself doing things you didn’t plan to do if you end up single in your thirties, when all the single women your age either just got ditched by their sperm donors, or are childless and baby crazy. Stepdad duty is better than getting used as a turkey baster and 18 years of child support
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:25 PM
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Who are these men who find this concept of step fatherhood so demeaning and difficult to come to terms with? It’s one of the places where the fascist/racist/alt-right side of TRP leaks out into the dating side. They don’t want to support another man’s genes because it means their obviously superior ones aren’t being propagated. It appeared when the internet provided an amplifier and normalizer for the black and white ideological thought processes of autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:15 PM
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I’ve known plenty of attractive women who weren’t entitled bitches. Volatility, selfishness, etc. comes from having fucked-up childhoods and the negative traits that manifest correlate with the issues and severity. In my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:27 AM
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Intent matters because it has a reinforcement channel through unconscious emotions - self-improvement registers emotionally as an act of love towards yourself. If you put the intention of self-improvement towards getting women, that makes caring about yourself contingent on repeating the process of getting a new woman, because those are the results that define having improved. You should only self-improve because it helps you become the person you want to be, which means it should never be conti…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:03 AM
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This is female “othering”, a coping strategy. Women project the qualities they hate about themselves onto others, so that they can demonize them for having them instead of doing any serious self work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:19 PM
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You have to take full legal responsibility for your actions at age 18, nothing I have said changes that. I would have thought this sub would recognize the concept of temptation and being too weak to avoid it, since it’s about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:36 PM
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In pre-pandemic society it wasn’t possible to survive (except in certain cases) in the USA without leaving the house. But there have always been people who would prefer to be complete shut-ins if they could. COVID made everyone a shut-in, so the infrastructure to support shut-in life grew, necessarily. Now that the lockdowns are over those people who wanted to be shut-ins can go on living that way. And they will be ridiculed and thus shunned and forgotten by those who aren’t, left to die alone, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:00 PM
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The long game is to starve and kill off the introverts. We’ve always been undesirable to the extroverted majority, we just have skills that make us useful to them. Can’t do overt eugenics in 2022. But you can lock us in our homes where we can’t socialize, put us to work there, give us bread and circuses shipped to our door, and wait 20-40 years and we’ll all be gone and you social butterflies can go around talking to and appreciating each other again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:50 PM
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TRP and FDS are sets of coping strategies for being stuck with a pool of shitty people to date. Self-improvement to get better prospects is pointless when there are no better prospects to meet. You just end up raising your own bar so high that nobody can meet it and you stay alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:19 PM
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The Wife, amiright? chugs pint of 101
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:13 PM
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It can’t be changed or saved. everything that goes mainstream eventually becomes as shallow as it needs to be to attract the lowest common denominators of the population. I don’t think it can get more shallow than Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:10 PM
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Here’s another point, self-improvement often requires tons of therapy and confronting childhood issues and when yours was really fucked up (like mine was) you end up having to reject your own past, and you see others’ pasts in a similar way. You learn too much about what makes people act the way they do and all the mystery of human life leaves - all socializing, not just dating, then becomes a form of “running game” and following a formula. Once you realize this and how everyone can be manipulat…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:25 PM
2

MGTOW is a dirty word on Reddit because /r/MGTOW got taken over by incels when their subs got banned. It gets hated on by people in the real world because the idea that men exist to provide resources and labor for everyone but themselves is internalized even by the most obnoxiously woke progressives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:29 PM
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Depends on location, generation, and socioeconomic IME Where I’m staying right now (rural USA), no Gen X woman is even looking at a man unless he looks like a construction foreman with a shaved head and goatee and about 50 lbs of beer gut and fat muscle In professional white collar circles women prefer hair and full beards or clean shaven with tennis player type bodies across the board if they can get them, but it depends on generation whether they’ll settle for anything else The young guys are …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:28 PM
2

Brene Brown
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:03 PM
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It’s a race condition past a certain age window. Women want to be treated with respect and as equals. Obviously that’s the right thing to do. But if you’re past the age where the good/sane people in your place and time have all sorted into couples, all that will be left to couple up with are the women who are single due to their shit personalities. (I’m well aware that they think the same about the men that are left, myself included) If you miss the good-relationship boat, it doesn’t come back f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:24 PM
2

The way it works is that you do you, whatever you want, and if someone you’re attracted to takes notice, then you pursue them. You don’t spend your life manufacturing opportunities to meet people to date, but if an opportunity arises you strike.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:39 PM
0

I wish the dating world was blue pill, but my life experiences have led me to see it in a red pill way. People of all genders lack basic self-awareness and self-criticism, which leads them to the complete delusion that they are blue pill when their actual behavior is red.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:14 PM
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The solution is to treat women like people, not just puzzles you have to solve to get to the warm holes. But what else can you do when all the women you meet demand to be treated this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:06 PM
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There’s no difference in today’s culture between an enemy and an opponent. Everyone who isn’t on your “side” is seen as a potential (remote in most cases but still potential) threat to your health. If you can get the SWAT team called on you for being a smartass to the wrong person online, what point is there in talking to anyone at all if you’re not going to get something out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 12:48 AM
0

You don’t always get everything you want out of life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:10 PM
2

I’m a bi male and I don’t ever plan on dating, touching, or having sex with a woman ever again for my own prior reasons. This is just another nail in the coffin.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:37 PM
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I’m a former tech worker who was manipulated and used for BB so many times that I’ve come to despise women and Im just here to troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:03 PM
2

Women fucking hate men in 2022, they are all out to use us to get babies and fund their lives and stupid woman shit. The true endgame never includes us, they even statistically live longer. Women are not partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:12 PM
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Not as a primary partner. That’s a horrible deal for men. What happens when ppl open relationships, is the man has been loved and lusted after by SO for long enough that he forgets other women probably don’t want to fuck him on sight. But other men do want to fuck his SO on sight, and if it’s a poly relationship, she’s allowed to. So for every 1 date you get she could have 100. It takes a very high value, secure, or whipped man to live with this for very long. Plus poly women tend to be mentally…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:29 PM
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Im here as a cautionary tale
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:28 AM
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My experience with women in recent years has been that they stereotype men, transacting for our attention with sex, and they treat themselves as if they have nothing else to offer. I’d love to meet and settle down a woman that wants to have intellectual conversations and not be into childish shallow bullshit, but they just whore it up and insult my intelligence by treating me like just another stereotypical dick-led generic dumbass like they’re used to. If you aren’t accessorizing their life by …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:55 PM
21

All women are sex workers, it’s basic hate on the competition
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:06 AM
1

They grow up understanding it as a fact of life. “Look what I bought” is a mating call for all wealthy people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:04 AM
2

Growing up is man’s work
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:00 AM
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Truth Even the men who are most successful at OLD are still seeing the women at their worst - shallow, flaky, ambivalent, insincere
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:04 AM
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