| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 23 | Moving On | No-Reception-911 | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/22 12:12 AM | |
| 20 | I don't want this damn divorce. | No-Reception-911 | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/22 06:05 PM | |
| 9 | Consequences of surprising my STBX at mediation by bringing counsel. | No-Reception-911 | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/02/22 07:45 PM | |
| 5 | How to manage my Exs requests | No-Reception-911 | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/22 05:02 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 7 | They don't care about us men at allA man yelling is abuse, a woman yelling is reaction to abuse. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/26 09:56 PM |
| 3 | I’m pretty sure divorce is nearing. What can I do now to hedge a little bit of money now to protect myself?I would stick to legal and moral excuses. Gambling, strippers and hookers could all be used against you legally. Just say you're buying snacks, money for homeless isn't bad, buying girl scout cookies, whatever, thr point is to keep the amounts small. A large grocery run that gets up to $200, tagging on 20-40 isn't going to be noticed. Get a slurpee at 7-11, 10 bucks cash back is some taquitos and an energy drink, you were hungry man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 01:18 PM |
| 3 | I’m pretty sure divorce is nearing. What can I do now to hedge a little bit of money now to protect myself?Cash and physical precious metals stored at a friend or family members place or at your work. Anything in an account or having a trail will come up in discovery. Everyone you get groceries or something at a gas station pay with debit and take out $20-50 in cash and stash it. Use cash to buy gold or silver bar or coin if you want it to potentially gain value long term. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Need advice please.Never give in 50/50 custody and your incomes are similar enough child support should be minimal | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/22 03:15 PM |
| 2 | What’s your ‘hook’ when telling your divorce story to people?That my ex had an emoticons affair with her sister and is living with her now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/22 10:07 AM |
| 14 | It’s crazy how many women of this generation don’t even care to try and fix issues in marriage. I am truly shocked on how fast and easy she was willing to give all this up…Ditto. My ex blaimed me for every bit of our relationship failing. Didn't take responsibility for anything (except for marrying me in the first place). According to her I'm abusive, narcicistic, neglectful, a bad parent, and a shitty husband. She fired our therapist, but she claims I wasn't willing to do therapy. It's laughable. I confessed and repented my sins and inequities, some slower than I should have. I apologized to her until I was blue in the face. I don't think she has taken responsibi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/22 02:48 AM |
| 3 | That $1.6m house has her wanting to reconcileMy ex still doesnt get that her annual trips to Disney, annual trips to see her family, eating out twice a week and nicer car didnt magically appear from my ass. Weve been seperated 6 months, divorced 2, she got her first job (part time for 3 months) and is now unemployed again. She walked away with a tidy sum of money, I give it 2 years and she'll be homeless and broke. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/22 03:37 AM |
| 5 | Moving OnThank you. It was cathartic writing it | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/22 01:43 AM |
| 1 | my wife is divorcing meFirst, try counseling or reconciling if she's willing, pointless if she's not. Attempt mediation. A mediator is a professional, typically a lawyer, that didn't represent either of you but acts as a go between and advises both of you what the court is likely to accept. Most likely, the inherentance is off the table. Assuming no kids. Try to get half the cash, half the stuff (or half the value of the stuff) and half of the equity you have in the house and call it good. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/22 05:34 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone gotten the snip?I got snipped while married, with the soul intent of preventing pregnancy for my now ex wife. I'm not looking to get out there and sleep around, but it is a double edged sword. I MIGHT be open to another kid, but that's an expensive option now, so it does eliminate those women who want to have kids, being snipped might be a deal breaker. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/03/22 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Wife wants a divorce I think if she would compartntalize her emotions like Jesus and I want her to and realize fighting constantly is normal everything would be great?He's not reading it , or under unsound/unqualified teaching if this is how he thinks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/02/22 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Wife wants a divorce I think if she would compartntalize her emotions like Jesus and I want her to and realize fighting constantly is normal everything would be great?You need to stop talking. Pick up your Bible, read it, pray and repent. If this is how you present yourself "well", then your wife had biblical grounds for divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/02/22 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Does “The woman you marry is not the same woman you divorce” ring true for you?Look it up. If it works for you, whatever. I think it's toxic bullshit. One of my exes claims is that she's going on this journey of discovering her feminity and didn't think I would want to go on that path with her. I said I would have had she asked, but if this shit is what she's talking about I would have kicked her out of the house. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/02/22 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Does “The woman you marry is not the same woman you divorce” ring true for you?Thankfully my kids are clinging to Christ. When I have them we are doing family Bible study which they love. They've commented that their sad Mom doesn't let them go to church. God is certainly working in them, they are asking deep, intelligent, thoughtful questions and praying with full hearts. A part of me wishes she would just up and leave town, give me full custody and leave town. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/02/22 05:26 AM |
| 5 | Does “The woman you marry is not the same woman you divorce” ring true for you?The same book? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/22 11:20 PM |
| 11 | Does “The woman you marry is not the same woman you divorce” ring true for you?Feminist blogs and this nonsense book Women Who Run With Wolves. She's bought into this concept of divine feminism. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/22 11:05 PM |
| 9 | Does “The woman you marry is not the same woman you divorce” ring true for you?How the hell you go from a professing believer, baptized, dedicating your children and a member of the church to worshiping idols and making altars (in under a year) astounds me. Wonders if she ever did believe, or if she was just playing me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/22 10:58 PM |
| 35 | Does “The woman you marry is not the same woman you divorce” ring true for you?My Christian ex-wife is literally now a witch. Like altars to false gods, spells, etc. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/22 10:31 PM |
| 1 | I don't want this damn divorce.All the old posts, her saying how grateful she was to be loved by me. How happy we were. It sucks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Consequences of surprising my STBX at mediation by bringing counsel.Yes approximately. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/22 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Consequences of surprising my STBX at mediation by bringing counsel.No, she hasn't worked outside the home ever. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/22 12:25 AM |
| 3 | Consequences of surprising my STBX at mediation by bringing counsel.I earn substantially higher than her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/02/22 10:43 PM |
| 4 | Consequences of surprising my STBX at mediation by bringing counsel.Honestly, I would dig up another 20k to get her to just leave town and give me the kids. Not sure I could find much more. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/02/22 08:29 PM |
| 5 | Hung up on ex having accused me of being a narcissist on her way out...They call in #Narctok | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/02/22 01:06 AM |
| 10 | Hung up on ex having accused me of being a narcissist on her way out...Mine pulled the same shit. Narc is the new boogie man. If you're seeking therapy, acknowledging your issues, and addressing them, you're not a narcissist. Look at her behavior, you might have been her supply. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/02/22 01:03 AM |
| 1 | How to manage my Exs requestsThank you for that reminder. I'm having a hard time not seeing everything she does and manipulation and control | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/22 05:52 PM |
| 0 | How to manage my Exs requestsThank you for being so helpful... oh wait... by helpful I meant something else... | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/22 09:22 PM |
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