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Yes they should keep it to themselves :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:04 AM
1

Why we end up the way we do is something scientists still haven't answer. We will not solve nature vs. nurture on PPD. I can rephrase if it makes you feel better. When I was younger I used to feel bad when men would open up to me and I felt it was the right thing to do to be a safe space. But as I've gotten older and I'm looking for a stoic life partner, I find it extremely unappealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:15 AM
-1

Thank you. I thought it would be more appreciated tbh but I'm just being flamed for being a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:22 AM
0

Until you're arguing with his Mom in probate court about stuff you helped buy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 01:03 AM
2

Agree. There's also nothing you can do to earn a man's attention. He's either into you or he isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 01:02 AM
1

Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:46 AM
4

Isn't there a thread currently about how sad men are when they chose to open up? Did they choose bad women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:44 AM
3

Right. There's a weird conflation of lonely and good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:42 AM
9

Exactly. I cannot stand the women on this sub who go "We're not all like that!" Yes, we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:38 AM
1

I'm curious what the right response would be to you. If I say "That's not true, we accept men opening up!" we're called liars. And if I, am honest, and agree with OP, I'm still chastised. So please tell me what you'd like me to hear. How can I please you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:19 AM
-1

Correct I hate seeing men cry. It's disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:47 PM
0

I don't check to see if snakes are poisonous
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:39 PM
2

Yup. They're going to promote what you engage with. That's why I avoid the gender war on TT.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:32 PM
1

I mean I'm being harsher now and you're still offended so something tells me your axe to grind is with women in general
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:56 PM
1

Incels have co-opted RP spaces. I was watching fresh and fit last night and the ones donating money looked like sewer rats
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:54 PM
3

Exactly. The podcaster, another Red Pill Guy, suggested asking her if she was overwhelmed or busy to see if this was a one time thing and if there was any way he could support her. If this is a pattern, he then suggested having a convo to set expectations of what they think the standard of the house should be. Either way, he is leading his household towards what he thinks the household should look like (Dominance).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:57 AM
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The red pill, to be successful requires nuance which is something autistic people don't have. I was watching a podcast where a man was wondering why TRP wasn't working in his relationship. He said he learned from Tate he needed to be dominant in his relationship. So, when his fiance left her purse on the couch, he said "Put this away or next time I'm throwing it out." Was he following Tate's advice? Technically. Did he have enough social intelligence to know that that's just going to piss his wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:42 AM
1

But I thought all women had to do was download tinder and they'd never be lonely?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:38 AM
1

Yes. The "vulnerability" is cloaked in low self esteem and bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:30 AM
1

I just avoid places and people that are drunk and sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:26 AM
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Time, place and context. But yes, I do find it to be an imposition. Add that to the wimmin bad list.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:24 AM
4

Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:54 AM
0

I mean off of the top of my head I've had two males friends tell me how their Dad has days to live and how the other one was having sex with another man in the friend group and I was sworn to secrecy. Both of these conversations, yeah, I can handle. Just not out of the blue when they're hammered and I unexpectedly have to hold a grown man. It's exhausting and laborious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:53 AM
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I have strong friendships and community. I invest in third spaces. If I was single tomorrow I'd be sad but I wouldn't be any less fulfilled
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:36 AM
9

This is only true if you're good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:31 AM
-4

No
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:29 AM
-1

I mean I do, now. But as a younger woman I avoided sounding "mean" at all costs. Like I was socialized to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:28 AM
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Yup. And then they blow up randomly a few days later. When my husband and I were dating a few years ago, I had asked him when he was planning on filing his taxes. He smashed his phone into the ground. Turns out he was stressed about money...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:05 AM
3

My insecurities? Absolutely. I think people bigger than me can hurt me. I'd rather be called insecure that maimed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:01 AM
-3

What about my mental health though? When did I consent to someone trauma dumping on me?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:00 AM
1

We're chomping at the bit to drink shit beer and talk about hockey
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:59 PM
3

Right. They need to discuss ways they help each other not how mean women are for not wanting to play therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:57 PM
2

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:14 PM
0

I mean, yes and no. Like yeah, I want to say I'm an open ear. But men have been drunkenly been telling me things I don't want to know for years. It's played out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:04 PM
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Men rarely cry so if they are it's a signal something is seriously wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:02 PM
3

Most men are stronger than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:59 PM
0

Correct. I don't like emotional or irrational people. It's assuming I have a vagina that I'm somehow nurturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:19 PM
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I mean, I feel like it's dramatic to say like it's a safety issue but that's what it feels like. When I see my bestie crying at the bar, I know we can leave and get some Taco Bell and things will be better in the morning. But if a man, who is much bigger than me, is showing signs of instability and irrationality, I'm a little scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:18 PM
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Those are two different scenarios. Obviously if someone lost a loved one I know how to respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:09 PM
2

Even with my husband, I have to just separate when he's really emotionally sometimes. It's almost like a primal feeling that I need to remove myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:07 PM
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*sympathy I can't relate to those without emotional control
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:03 PM
3

When I get bombs dropped on me I don't know how to respond. I'm not a mental health specialist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:54 PM
7

Yup. You cannot have traditional a la carte.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:46 PM
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I agree with you. But it's not for the reasons you think. Men bottle things up and then explode randomly. I'm very candid that I don't care about your feelings if you haven't taken the steps to deal with them maturely. Go bother your mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:18 PM
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Not really. All LTRs I've been in, including my marriage I slept with them in less than a month. I'm going to to invest long term if the sex sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:47 PM
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When you're saying this is an issue I should care about, yes. I have no issue respecting differences until you try to change my mind. If I was able to live life as a single person happy, productive, and social, I have that expectation for others. I wasn't going around asking people to care about my loneliness. I focused on making the best of my circumstances
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:48 PM
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I would live a happy and productive life regardless of my relationship status. I loved being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:43 PM
2

If it's a competition, are women the prize?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:37 PM
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I don't think anyone doubts romantic love exists. I'm married myself. But is the lack of a romantic partner a banishment to loneliness and social isolation? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:36 PM
2

Idk id rather be a good person than get laid 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:08 PM
-1

Yes, men use sex to build intimacy because they don't know how to in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:02 PM
1

I mean, that's what happens when we tell women all men care about is beauty. Those looking for male validation will take the path of least resistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:56 AM
1

I think I get why they do this. They know that if they're rejected by a fellow ugly girl in their league it would be their last straw. So, they pick girls/women to fawn over that they know will reject them, so they can feel like a victim instead of feeling ashamed. Shame eats people alive. People go through leaps and bounds to avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:55 AM
2

Unironically, if you are *that* unimpressed by women...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:52 AM
2

If you always smell shit, you need to check your shoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:51 AM
1

I always think of the line from the social network. "You think people don't like you cause you're a nerd...in reality, it's because you're a jerk."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:49 AM
1

Yup. I was on the chess team and model UN in high school. I'm also a blonde former sorority president with tig ole bitties. We're out there. Women who are actually pretty typically do have interesting hobbies. It's the kinda sortas who thrive on male validation who are kind of boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:42 AM
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I always find the cognitive dissonance funny. They think women are these terrible creatures yet us not paying attention to them is the source of their unhappiness. If we're so terrible, why do you want my attention so badly?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:48 AM
1

If it was a loneliness issue the focus would be on building community and creating third spaces. It's a sexless issue. Men don't care about building new friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:47 AM
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We have this mantra at work and it's "Be right or Win." Focusing on being "right" can take away from the win.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:44 AM
4

Fellow history major whose focus was gender and sexuality of the 20th century :) That's why I'm here. My tech job pays well but the history of relationships is something I'm passionate about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:40 AM
8

I feel the same. It's entertainment but it encourages me to keep an eye out for the social awkward men I encounter at my job. I always try to make small talk with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:39 AM
4

Many of the comments I see come across as closeted. I have a "bi" friend and she looks for any excuse to reject a man's advances. Like babe, if the opposite does not but disgust you...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:35 AM
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Yes. I am so grateful for my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:20 AM
5

As a someone with a Mom who grew up in the 80s who tried to teach her kids the most valuable thing was being hotter than other women; I agree. Suggesting I don't try to marry the richest man I can is a newer concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:58 AM
4

So you're saying moral virtue and being a man are a juxtaposition? Why is it one or the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:57 AM
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I can be my full self around my husband. I don't need to filter or worry about seeming weird. As for the other stuff, he's a burly 6'3 man who can throw me around. He's a blue collar man who started his own business last year and I couldn't be prouder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:13 PM
1

From a woman's perspective, not needing men to pay the bills anymore has really lessened the dating pool. It's now based on compatibility which is much harder to find vs. a warm able body.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:01 PM
1

That's why I think it's important for women to study red pill content. Know the signs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:56 PM
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Men need to focus on community and friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:55 PM
1

Oh no, I'm here because I find it funny
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:53 PM
2

Looking at your post history you dedicate a lot of time to this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:45 PM
2

lol okay
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:29 PM
3

Settling down isn't a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:08 PM
-1

No one is a villain in their own story
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:30 AM
0

We don't care if you're resentful
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:17 AM
0

Definitely. Men have never felt bad using me as a piece of ass or arm candy so I don't feel bad. All men want is to be needed, so I've never felt bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:09 AM
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So what? Be mad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:08 AM
1

As a hot woman I'm also jaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:04 AM
1

In your large social circle?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:03 AM
-3

What was the last thing you built?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:52 AM
3

I'm not watching relationship stuff on YouTube that's pretty sad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:42 AM
12

There's a weird conflating of ugly/good chad/bad. Most of the chads I've known are pretty nice and charismatic. Meanwhile ugly guys are usually kind of mean too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:14 AM
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"Women need to choose better." "Wait no, not like that!"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:12 AM
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As a married person, everyone settles in one way or another. That's what people who are looking to be married do. There's no unicorn out there who checks all of the boxes. The people who have an issue being "settled" for aren't even in the position to be settled for. It's a "You can't fire me I quit!" situation. If there was actually someone willingly to settle for them, they wouldn't be complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:11 AM
1

Same. My body my choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 09:18 PM
1

A wealthy suburb of Atlanta. I took cotillion (an invite only manners club) so I can tell who isn't educated in this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 09:03 PM
-1

I'm not interested in those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:24 AM
1

The person I'm meant to be with will want to spend time with me. I don't need to ask my now husband to spend time with me. He just likes to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:53 AM
-1

As a woman who grew up wealthy I can literally tell how a man grew up by how he holds a fork.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:15 AM
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As a rich girl I can confirm. I never mind going dutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 02:56 AM
5

There's that empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:37 AM
5

Yup. Most mentally ill turn inward: cutting, eating disorders, etc. Mentally ill men make it everyone else's problem
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:27 AM
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Yup. It's why I no longer even make small talk. I've been hit on too many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:21 AM
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Yup. Also no fatties!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:21 AM
1

The Liz Lemon effect They think being a social outcast was some weird stroke of fate and no one understands how awesome they are vs. they're lonely for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:20 AM
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I hope you find what you're looking for!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:31 AM
2

How many school shootings do we have under our belt?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:58 AM
2

Go quietly in that these men will make their anger someone else problems be it an OF model or a class of first graders. A "healthy" release is needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:03 AM
2

Oh no it is sad and pathetic. But do I understand that lonely men will never just fucking shut up and go quietly? Yes. Let's make the women forced to interact with them are paid for their labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 01:49 AM
2

You were framing it in that way, but no, I don't care if men pay for sex. I honestly encourage it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 01:46 AM
2

Me personally, I don't care if you pay OF girls to talk to you. If anything, we should all be compensated for entertaining men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 01:43 AM
3

Paying for affection is pretty pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 01:39 AM
1

That's so dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 01:38 AM
12

Bon voyage!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 12:50 AM
0

Eggs are worth more than sperm
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 12:50 AM
3

That's a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:41 PM
3

I don't see the difference. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:30 PM
3

My husband is blue collar. Men often lose hands and limbs if they're not being careful. All to provide for their families.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:54 PM
3

Because that's degrading to an old man's body He's sold his body his entire life. It's no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:25 PM
2

That's depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:21 PM
1

It's like how people blame Mexico for importing drugs ignoring the fiends who are creating a demand
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:20 PM
5

Most blue collar professionals have an expiration date
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:19 PM
16

Throw on some Christmas carols guys lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:53 PM
1

You're blaming women for problems men created. OF could end tomorrow if men woke up and controlled their urges.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:25 PM
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If men weren't horndogs we wouldn't be having this conversation. Cut off the demand and there's no supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:24 PM
2

Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:22 PM
2

I see no difference in a sex worker than a soldier or any other blue-collar worker. It's offering your body for labor and exchange for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:21 PM
2

And "teen" categories 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:20 PM
2

There's a reason rich women aren't sex workers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:18 PM
2

It always goes back to mommy with y'all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:16 PM
10

Most jobs are. The only retirement my job offers is a 401k.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:14 PM
1

Work isn't meant to be empowering. It's just work. I don't go to my office job every day to feel empowered. I go because the rent is due.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:12 PM
1

There's a reason some morgues don't allow men alone with the bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:45 PM
-1

Same I was single for like a year in college voluntarily and that was it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:24 AM
1

It sounds terrible but the only women I know who've dated much older men have had sexual trauma. Becky from the suburbs who had a good home life is dating frat guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:26 PM
5

I have no idea what you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:17 PM
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I think a diary would be more appropriate for this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:58 PM
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"I don't care if men say I'm hot. Men would fuck a mcchicken." -audriana Lima
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:51 PM
1

This! This year I really gave football a shot and it turns out it's actually a very strategic and interesting game. Now we bond over watching sportscenter and him helping me with my fantasy team. In contrast, I love theater and go to a murder mystery party ever year. He's started to come with me and he takes it seriously and gets into character and he's really good at it! We both really respect each other and each other's interests. While some are more interesting than others, (I cannot get into…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:25 AM
2

I think many men conflate masculine and macho.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:04 AM
4

Great, leaving women alone is the goal
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:03 AM
2

People aren't shunned from the herd for no reason. If you have trouble fitting in that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:36 AM
-2

r/MenAndFemales
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:35 AM
3

That's why paternity fraud and getting fucked in family court doesn't bother me. They should have seen the red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:32 AM
2

Let's ask this sub how they feel about fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:30 AM
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I really don't think you have thick enough skin for this sub. I would encourage you focusing your healing offline babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:28 AM
6

I just say "should have chose better!"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:23 AM
2

feetus deleetus
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:22 AM
1

I've always had men say I was interesting. I've also always been in a relationship. Personality really does carry you a long way. No doubt there's women prettier than me; but Rizz is universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:17 AM
4

I think men who find men more interesting and want to talk to them about what's going on in their day might prefer the company of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:15 AM
1

I'm sawwie
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:49 PM
1

Why? I'm no one special
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:46 PM
1

You can call yourself whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:39 PM
1

I work in consulting and most of the time consultants hook up with...other consultants. It takes a lot to work where we do and aside from it being a proximity thing, you want a partner to appreciate and understand what you do. I don't know any of them, aside from senior leadership, that are going home to a stay at home partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:32 PM
0

Same, but I've also never had problems finding an "alpha" man. I know it's a troupe on here that these ebil career women will end up alone, but I think (Actual) Alpha men like to be challenged.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:27 PM
2

If women were naturally submissive there wouldn't be a need for religious or political encouragement of submission. Why would women have fought for rights if the man leading the household is the natural order?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:25 PM
-4

Are we arguing what words mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:09 PM
1

No I won't. I'd rather be rude than dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:48 PM
-4

Only a sith deals in absolutes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:47 PM
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That's why I think the strongest relationships are the ones where you're friends first. On top of my husband and I being sexually attracted to each other, we have common interests and genuinely enjoy spending time together. I think you should look for a partner like you do look for friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:45 PM
-4

Because they see relationships as a power struggle and they want to "win"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:40 PM
3

Maslow's hierarchy of needs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:12 PM
6

Get a job first. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:43 PM
1

No, I have a career
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:03 PM
5

Yup. My first date with my husband we just laughed and talked about random things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:42 AM
3

Yes, what every woman wants is a man who can rationalize killing a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:30 PM
3

I'm sure that helps you sleep at night thinking it was justified
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:23 PM
3

You expect a thank you for killing civilians from the 3rd world for Lockheed Martin's stock price?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:18 PM
1

I'm a consultant. I worked really hard to be a consultant. Got my MBA to be a consultant. I make a shit ton of money as a consultant. If guys "don't care about my degree" that's fine. But it's not like my career is separate from me. It's a something I care about so my partner should appreciate it. So many men, like OP (military) have their identity tied to their job. Imagine if we were like "oh I don't care about what you do it doesn't internet me."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:12 PM
10

Having a good credit score is what responsible adults do. It's not a perk in dating. It almost sounds like he's looking for a woman to be impressed by his ability to do adult things like pay bills and own shelter
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:09 PM
1

Pay for play
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:05 PM
5

God that's even worse
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:32 PM
3

Ok? I don't date from zip codes where military is encouraged
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:28 PM
5

Right 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:25 PM
5

Everyone thinks they're middle class
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:24 PM
4

So did you join the military because your grades sucked you come from a poor background or both?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:22 PM
6

It's "so what can you do for me"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:21 PM
8

Better! He's ex military who's killed someone. I'm sure women are lining up to deal with what comes with that...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:16 PM
4

I mean judging by your responses you're quick to anger
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:15 PM
15

Exactly. I'd never date a cop, military, emt etc. Anything that requires turning empathy off is a dealbreaker. You can't just be full of adrenaline and come home and act normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:15 PM
8

Yup and that macho attitude means they'll never get real mental health treatment so you're stuck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:14 PM
1

How often do you drink?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:13 PM
-3

"What do you bring to the table" You mean the table we're sitting at where there's pictures on the menu? Not a damn thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:12 PM
13

Right. I don't need to convince anyone to spend time with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:10 PM
32

They act like we aren't on the same internet. If I hear a man using manosphere language it tells me he can't get laid organically so he's watching red pill stuff online
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:06 PM
13

It's negging. It's making you prove yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:03 PM
15

Exactly. Leading up to the date I'm sure we've gone over what we do for a living etc etc If there's no potential value assumed upfront then I'm not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:01 PM
6

Military screams poor background
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:59 PM
2

"So what do you bring to table" Absolutely nothing sir. Check please.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:43 PM
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Many men have eating disorders. If you're only eating plain chicken and broccoli for "gains", that's still disordered
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:41 PM
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To be fair foreman isn't looking that great either
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:40 PM
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The "one of the guys" gir
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:39 PM
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I'm on the sub I've never seen it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:38 PM
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Yeah I get a little scared when someone is bringing in my right to vote in conversations regarding sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:36 PM
3

Thank you for not oppressing us!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:33 PM
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I did fantasy this year at work and it was a great way to meet people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:32 PM
5

Good
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:30 PM
5

I also encourage women to lie about their body counts
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:17 PM
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Right. Me woman. Me want Chad. Me want beta bux to raise my son when Chad done. Happy? Can we wrap it up? Do y'all not have Christmas to get ready for?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:16 PM
2

I agree. I think many marriages are like that as well
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:59 PM
2

I offered to buy my own ring and my husband was horrified I'd even suggest that. Men are invested in the gender roles when it comes to this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:38 PM
3

I don't think an engagement should ever be a surprise. I told my husband I wanted to be married in a year and he proposed a month later.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:36 PM
5

I'm confused do they hate modern day women or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:30 PM
1

Social outcasts have always existed. I think video games are just what they spend their time doing rather than the video games are making them losers. I don't think the captain of the football team spends his weekends playing PlayStation. Maybe an hour or two at night or at a buddies house but never enough to where it's an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:27 PM
5

Our grandmothers got married because they had to. We can support ourselves so we can be selective with picking a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:25 PM
1

My husband plays rec softball in the spring and then does rec hockey in the winter. He prioritizes hobbies with friends outside of work and the home and I encourage it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:23 PM
2

But if women are so terrible, why are men upset about not being with them? Wouldn't you want to avoid something so toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:22 PM
3

I agree. I think many men don't know how to be intimate outside of sex which is why it gets conflated. I actually have a higher libido than my husband. But yeah, before we met I assume he was trying to have sex because he didn't have a partner at home who plays with his hair like I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:19 PM
1

Men, since the beginning of time. Helen of Troy literally cause a whole war.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:17 PM
5

It's so strange. I was a prude because I didn't want to sleep around but then when I did have casual sex I was called a slut. It's almost like it's a game you can't win!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:16 PM
2

Getting some vitamin D isn't nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:33 PM
3

Yup. The most aggressive comments only have post histories of PPD and video games. That's why I pay them no mind
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:33 PM
-1

Sounds like you're not into women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:40 PM
0

I mean, I don't think any relationship is strictly 50/50. Someone calls more of the shots. But I'm glad my marriage is ceo and president not ceo and the secretary
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:07 AM
0

In my company president and CEO are nearly equal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:49 AM
1

Great, I hope they find people they're compatible with
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:56 AM
1

No one's stopping them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:55 AM
0

Many companies have CEO and Presidents.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:14 AM
3

If we're so formulaic why haven't you cracked the code and found a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:34 AM
7

My Ex whose cheated on every single partner he's ever had just came out 🌈
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:10 AM
2

As a queer woman my gaydar is pretty good and Myron and Sneako (popular red pillers) give me strong vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:46 PM
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Do you come from a two parent household?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:42 PM
0

I'd love to see the data behind red pillers and single mother households. It's Freudian. Especially when they go off about how much they hate single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:41 PM
3

Yes, I would put the autistic (call it what it is) in a different category. Both groups feel disenfranchised for different reasons. I've watched both fresh and fit and Andrew Tate and I think the fresh and fit type red pill is the more benign one, it's simply make a bunch of money so you can live in Miami and hang out with OF models. As a bisexual, it's somewhat appealing at times. I'd also like to be really rich and hanging out with beautiful women in Miami. Andrew Tate, I think is more common …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:30 PM
1

This isn't a hard concept
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:25 PM
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I don't care if older men date younger women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:10 PM
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I'm around successful men all day. I can tell by the men's syntax and word choice they usually aren't in the circles I'm in. You are completely right. These men have no idea what HVM do outside of content curated especially for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:06 PM
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No they do as well. Do I need to make everything inclusive? Are you a sjw?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:00 PM
-1

Men don't care about us as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:59 PM
4

Aka they'll have sex with me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:45 PM
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Right. We go from a lot to slightly less than a lot. I'm married and I still get hit on frequently. I'm waiting for this wall to run into id love to be finally left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:35 PM
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I remember being 16 and being grossed out when my friend would bring us around older guys (she always dated older men). Even at 16 when these 22 year olds would hit on me I was like "why don't girls your age like you" Some people are dumb and just get older. But not every young person is easily manipulated. Many of us understood men's true nature from a young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:31 PM
2

He ran straight into the point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:28 PM
2

Agree and it's why the content is geared towards working class men. These men probably grew up not being able to have secure attachments whether it was familial or financial
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:18 PM
2

Yup. I can't remember the last time I was at a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:12 PM
1

These are people whose weddings and babies I've seen irl
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:12 PM
1

Yes but who cares what I think? I'm just a bitter old woman who's super jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:58 PM
1

You're under no obligation to defend your relationship to b me, a stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:56 PM
1

I didn't say anything :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:55 PM
1

It's a canon event I cannot interfere (This is what every woman in this scenario says)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:48 PM
1

Anytime! Good luck in your endeavors :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:47 PM
1

Babe if you want a HVW, you gotta be in the right tax bracket for one. I don't care if you go overseas. But I wouldn't be cooking dinner if my husband works at Amazon.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:38 PM
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Canon event
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:35 PM
9

Is a 15 year old a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:32 PM
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Unmarried/divorced men in their 30s and 40s scream baggage and mental issues. Let the college girls have their zaddy moments. I'm rooting for them from a distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:29 PM
13

Yup. That's why I've never put stock in being a "good girl".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:27 PM
0

I think it's funny as an UMC woman traditional relationships are still the norm. I just finished making my husband's dentist follow up appointment. So yes, these men are having to leave because they can't find us. It's not like we went anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:20 PM
1

Casual sex is fun
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:18 PM
2

Right. I literally couldn't care less. The fact they're so quick to reply too shows we are in the same time zone or pretty close to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:16 PM
-1

I love cooking for my man after he works a long shift. We're both red blooded Americans. He's a business owner though. I assume the men of PPD are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:13 PM
0

But if we're all in Chad's harem what do we care?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:03 PM
0

Yup, but he'd never dare an ugly woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:39 PM
3

Because high value men like younger women So if they wait they'll get a low value man It's a sales tactic. Creating scarcity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:38 PM
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"Let's go to the movies vs. I want to take you to the movies"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:35 PM
0

Yup a lesson to women everywhere! s/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:30 PM
0

A husband? It did :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:04 PM
2

Think about it this way, OLD is for the people who couldn't manage to be a person in real life and make a connection. It's the bargain bin of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:46 PM
-2

I'm hot, that's all that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:43 PM
1

Yes. Their lingering sense of rejection clouds their view of reality. It's like going to antiwork asking how to be successful in your career.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:43 PM
0

The Liz lemon effect. They think because society has rejected them it simply means they're misunderstood by the masses
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:41 PM
0

Seriously they fall in love so quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:34 PM
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Men don't care if we have good social skills. We just have to look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:34 PM
1

It's men who aren't intelligent who don't value intelligence conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:26 PM
2

It's why I never did OLD. Most of the people on there are boring
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:24 PM
5

Yes, women are blamed for men's shortcomings
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:10 PM
2

This is a feminist saying babe
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:00 PM
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They say this like we're supposed to beg them to stay or something Bon voyage 🛳️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:52 PM
4

Wherever there's a pointed finger a woman is at the end of it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:41 PM
7

I swear you guys google "young marriage statistics", read the abstract and think you're good to go
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:40 PM
9

On fresh and fit they say you need to get married young because that's when you'll find the highest value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:31 PM
1

She's supposed to be alone forever so she can be made an example of for women who dare to be ambitious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:23 PM
1

Right. The trad wife vs. boss babe is just the Madonna whore complex. Most women are going to fall somewhere on the spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:53 PM
29

Leaders don't have to tell you they're in charge
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:36 PM
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And that's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:32 PM
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My husband and I have a shared bank account so not really
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:28 PM
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Right wing men think women are private property Left wing men think women are public.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:47 AM
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Well, then we are clearly not compatible and shouldn't be dating. Best of luck in your future endeavors
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:37 AM
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If you ask me on a date and then ask me to split the check, I will oblige and then ghost you. If we mutually agree to get French fries, I'll pay for my own meal nbd. I'm looking to date a man from a middle/upper middle class background. We need to have the same social norms. It's not so much gender it's more I don't want to learn another person's social language.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:32 AM
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That's for teenagers and the religious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:21 AM
2

If we're just getting coffee I don't want to talk religion or politics. That's why I'm glad these things are listed on OLD now. My first date with my husband we just told funny stories
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:38 AM
2

Thank you for your kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:05 AM
3

Thank you. I remember one time I was on here and I told a man, a red piller, that I make about 20k more than my husband and i don't mind. He will probably make more than me at some point. We're in our 20s, we're still growing. This man says to me "the fact you would accept that means you sound like a woman no one wanted to be with anyway" It hurt my feelings. So now, every time I see a man complain about how women don't want to be with men who make less than them, I don't comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:41 AM
1

So decenter women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:43 AM
5

I feel sorry for the modern man. You're at a crossroads trying to navigate what masculinity looks like in a world that still rewards toxic masculinity; while simultaneously shames it. It's mixed messaging. Men are still valued only as providers yet providing for a family becomes harder and harder. While mental health is more normalized; your feelings are still gaslight lit with "go to therapy" thrown at you if you express discomfort. But myself, personally, I've been burned too many times trying…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:53 AM
1

I have literally seen men on here advocating for violence, repealing the 19th, and forced relationships. It would be comical if not scary
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:45 AM
1

If I was single, I wouldn't date under 100k no
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:38 AM
1

I mean I live in a big city where millions of other people live too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:34 AM
1

No one I know would even swipe right if they have anything from moderate-right wing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:24 AM
3

Yes, women are sleeping with men they want to be around. That is the implication.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:20 PM
3

probabilistically No child left behind strikes again
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:09 PM
5

It's married men at the strip club who probably had the same standards when looking for a wife. That's why I pay no mind. There's zero reward for trying to prove your chastity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:08 PM
1

If you watch my big fat gypsy wedding all of those girls are dressed very provocatively yet being a virgin is required at marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:06 PM
0

Also happily married!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:02 PM
2

Checking who they follow on Instagram is the easiest way to see what someone believes in
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:02 PM
6

This is a revenge fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:41 PM
1

Bean soup effect
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:40 PM
1

I don't struggle with black and white thinking, no
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:51 PM
3

Yup, my husband is a burly blue collar worker who is ready to throw down with anyone who even looks at me funny. He also does 50 percent of the housework (unprompted), is an active listener and communicator, is my biggest cheerleader in my career endeavors and calls out toxic misogynist behavior of those around him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:46 PM
1

I think arguments that need extremes to work are misrepresentation of my point, purposively Have a good afternoon
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:20 PM
1

Only a sith deals in absolutes. Reality looks like something in the middle of what you're suggesting. Just as I don't take career advice from the unemployed, people shouldn't listen to the single for relationship advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:58 PM
7

Right. If women are naturally attracted to these conservative men, why lie? I thought women were lining up to date these masculine macho men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:54 PM
-1

If I wanted to be married based on an established criterion I would have gone to a match maker or had my parents set me up with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:43 PM
3

As a married person, that wasn't my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:26 PM
6

I definitely agree. They're conserving their wallets, culture be damned
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:25 PM
2

Sounds like a job interview
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:21 PM
12

Ah, we're talking about the online people not reality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:19 PM
10

Which isn't very conservative of them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:11 PM
7

Any self respecting woman laughs at "so what do you bring to the table"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:10 PM
2

I think many RP's disdain for women starts here tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:05 PM
51

We do. There's several articles going around about how conservative men are having trouble dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:54 PM
5

Correct. I'm an emotionally healed woman. I don't need to be dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:54 PM
3

I wish life were as simple as it's define in the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:17 PM
3

What does being Indian have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:12 PM
12

They're trying to attach a gameplay to love, the most irrational emotion out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:58 PM
9

Building community with other men would be so helpful for many of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:56 PM
8

I agree. Men view the world through the lens of a power struggle. There has to be a "winner"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:49 PM
2

"You can't fire me, I quit"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:34 PM
3

Things that don't happen for 200 Alex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:33 PM
4

The same men who post study after study about why women are terrible suddenly don't want to look at the science when it comes to hitting your kids
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:32 PM
7

It shows their true nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:31 PM
11

The stereotype of the nagging wife comes from simply asking men to participate in the home they live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:24 PM
25

My woman check must be lost in the mail
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:18 PM
3

"It"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:05 PM
2

Yup. People are dynamic. Our biggest feature is often our greatest flaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:57 PM
1

I'm sure you feel that way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:49 PM
1

It can be. It's one of the last safe spaces on Reddit for incels catharsis.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:57 PM
0

Because where I live it is. If you want a middle class like you are shooting to make and date in the 100k range
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:52 PM
-1

I don't. You feed on negative attention because you don't receive positive. Ignoring is the best thing to do with men like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:38 PM
2

I've seen this happen objectively ugly men. I think it's more women have low self esteem vs. wimmin bad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:35 PM
1

I mean, we're in New England so seafood is the backbone of his hometown's economy. It's cultural and community just like farming is in the other example provided. I've also seen this with police wives, firefighter wives etc. we're expected to co-op the community more so than just the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:33 PM
2

Ok? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:29 PM
2

Yes. I feel like most "outcasts" are like this. People are social creatures. No ones usually shunned from the herd for no reason...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:20 AM
5

Women love a project. They (wrongly) believe that if they help build him, he'll be thankful. Date at the finish line ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:19 AM
6

Completely agree. The guy usually has "loser" written on him in 7 different fonts but for some reason it's just completely ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:18 AM
3

Thanks. I just got done fixing him dinner. He had a long 14 hour day yesterday. I'm a terrible cook so not sure how he'll like it but hey it's the thought 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:21 AM
11

It's nuanced. And there are people who are completely different behind closed doors. But if the guy has 3 DUIs and and doesn't have a job, I'm really not surprised when my girlie is calling me crying because he stood her up on her birthday (true story)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:52 PM
4

Actually not what I was saying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:45 PM
2

I agree. It's the Madonna whore complex. Not liking sex= good girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:43 PM
3

No notes. Especially number 2. I think women need to be less stuck up and approach more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:41 PM
19

I think it's ironic they think women are brainwashed by rom coms when they all think they're duckie from 16 candles. The nice guy waiting patiently for the love interest to see he's been there all along! In reality, most of these men remind me of mark Zuckerberg from the social network. Angry, repressed, and bitter. (Paraphrased) "you think people don't like you because you're a nerd...people don't like you because you're a jerk."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:39 PM
11

I'm a woman who grew up in the 2000s. I'm no stranger to how cruel they can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:29 PM
8

Yup. We are all horny monkeys. We should all give each other a bit more grace
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:22 PM
1

Why is this so common? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:17 PM
14

Spot on. I know women who have such high standards, but let these men get away with murder in other areas and then complain they're unhappy... I think the biggest example is the stay at home moms who wanted the traditional setup but then are picachu shocked that they're exhausted. No shit, you married a man who thinks laundry is beneath him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:45 PM
18

Definitely. I remember my bf in college kissed another girl drunk and I'm like "well it was a frat party of course girls were there" 🫢 Like girl, STAND UP for yourself...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:28 PM
2

Your story is really validating. I'm so sick of getting shit with lobsters on it. Trust me, we have enough. I can only control my own actions, so I try to really talk about myself and my hobbies when I'm with people that know my husband better than they know me. I need to be known for more than "fishermen wife"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:26 PM
3

If I could go back I wouldn't have. And when people ask my why I did say I felt societal pressure. I saw a grave with my new last name on it and I got so weirded out cause I'm just like "no you're actually not my family I don't belong here."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:42 PM
4

My husband works in the seafood industry and we got invited to a colleague's wedding. They had made the invitation fishing themed and she was dressed up in fishing garb and everything. When I saw the invitation I was like "she's a nurse and you'd never see him dressing up like her career." But isn't that what losing your last name symbolizes? You are just an extension, a passenger in his odyssey.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:33 PM
4

Sometimes you do want a warm body ontop of you but I definitely could have cut some of the encounters out if I had a toy or something. Live and learn 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:22 PM
52

Women often ignore obvious red flags. I don't think it's as clear cut as "well he was a Chad" but I'm not always buying how the toxic behavior came out of nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:16 PM
0

I don't really orgasm from PIV
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:12 PM
2

Yeah I've had a bunch of sex and I'm indifferent. I don't feel bad, but I wouldn't do it again. Sex is sex. People put too much meaning into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:07 PM
4

My husband owns a business. I respect the hell out of him because it's a hard life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:46 PM
3

Are you one of those guys who talks about the gym a ton?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:00 PM
2

Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:08 PM
5

No, I'm not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:01 PM
1

They need to be treated like the violent threats they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:57 PM
1

This is hate speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:56 PM
8

I'm more concerned about the men openly advocating to take away women's rights on this sub. There are some dangerous people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:50 PM
36

Yup. That "village" everyone refers to is the unpaid labor of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:48 PM
0

Yup. The men writing diatribes online about how modern women are terrible are the beacons for mental clarity and reason
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:39 PM
7

I mean my tik tok is full of men yapping about how women are gold diggers now a days Given the rise in podcast equipment sales I don't think these men feel disenfranchised
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:33 PM
2

So emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:18 PM
1

Cool?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:52 AM
3

Whose rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:36 AM
1

I think it's interesting we're seen as something for men to "figure out" when what works on one woman is offensive to another and that's not even factoring in culture and norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:32 AM
1

And having sex with them will make them less misogynistic? We've been having sex with misogynists since the beginning of time and it's never helped imo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:31 AM
2

I went to 6 weddings last summer. This is the further thing from my reality. My entire instagram is weddings and babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:25 AM
1

If it doesn't fly, let it fly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:16 AM
2

This is the way. So many fights could be avoided if people wern't cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:55 AM
3

Both husband and I work 50-60 hour weeks Dishes: 50/50 Laundry: he does his own, I send my out professionally Mopping/vacuuming: I think he vacuums more because he cooks more but I'm the only one who mops Trash: husband unless he's working OT Bathroom: me (I prefer it this way) Cooking: all my husband We rarely fight about housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:37 AM
2

The world has always been this way. Our grandparents did not have the laundry list of what they want in a partner like we do. I'm pretty sure my grandpa's requirements were "two holes and lives in town"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:02 PM
3

Oh whoops! I meant Monkee
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:58 PM
1

No, it's a Michael Jackson song
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:06 PM
2

So I think this a non issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:51 PM
1

We are the world, we are the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:41 PM
2

I feel like if you go outside and see couples average looking women are with average looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:14 PM
2

Charming
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:11 PM
3

I moved out at 19 and still have a great relationship with my parents. I think our relationship got stronger because we weren't fighting over dishes etc. I think a lot of this is cope. People who couldn't afford to move out anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:10 PM
2

I don't think it's weird, but if I'm dating I want to have sex without feeling like I'm a teenager sneaking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:09 PM
2

The argument is women have no right to complain about being rejected by men they're actually attracted to if they're rejecting "nice guys."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:00 PM
1

Oh no I'm sure you're quite normal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:58 PM
2

Yes I understand rhetoric pretty well. I'm not arguing semantics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:57 PM
5

I agree. A big problem is atomization in that these natural relationships aren't happening anymore. People think they can outsmart biology by reading a bumble profile. I didn't play sports but I did theater and usually the cast all ends up "getting together" at one point. When you spend hours a day together nature does what nature does.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:55 PM
4

Mad is a simple way to put it. If I tell someone to quit bitching it usually means I find whatever they're going on about petulant, non-important or cumbersome
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:44 PM
1

I mean this with love, but your social skills are probably stunted due to your upbringing. I think you should treat your social sphere like how we introduce kids to social situations because that's probably your baseline. Invest in clubs, sports. If there's Greek life that's going to fast track you into how to interact in secular society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:42 PM
2

I mean if you're telling women not to complain that means it's irksome to you, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:39 PM
5

I think our money brains help us build attraction to people we are around consistently. Since I was a little kid, I always had crushes on the boys in my class or at camp or church or whatever. It's not like there's this divine intervention every time a couple gets together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:37 PM
2

Settling is a good thing. Thinking there's this unicorn of a person out there waiting for you is immature
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:34 PM
1

Exactly. And it's not like these women living on the coasts are looking to move to bumbfuck Missouri just to call themselves homeowners
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:30 PM
1

I also grew up with money so I'm really not that impressed by it. My dad can buy me anything; I don't need a partner for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:28 PM
2

You have to walk before you run. Increase your social circle increase your chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:27 PM
2

I don't need rich, but I need ambitious, strategic, and financially literate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:25 PM
8

So it's women complaining about being treated poorly that bothers you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:23 PM
4

Do you feel attacked?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:22 PM
4

Where in my word choice is there emotion?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:15 PM
2

Got it. This is about humbling women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:12 PM
3

So me being logical is dating an ugly man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:05 PM
1

I've watched a few episodes of fresh and fit for my own anthropological study and it's always the men who look like sewer rats who are giving $50 shout outs to be able to talk and ask questions to the only fans models. There is nothing, rational, pragmatic, or even respectable about that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:04 PM
3

And it's only temporary. If anything when you bring her back here and she experiences her first 20 minute shower she'll be wicked grateful
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:41 PM
1

Yes. There are still women who do want marriage and children but we need to accept that this isn't going to be the reality nor expectation for everyone is society. So, instead of being mad at women for double standards, something that's probably never going yo change, focus on your platonic, familial, and collective relationships so you're not so angry and unfulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:39 PM
1

No, decenter romantic relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:33 PM
4

I mean, life is give and take I'm sure many men on here would sacrifice hot water for a chance at a wife from the old country
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:32 PM
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Especially if he's hot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:29 PM
1

I think marriage and relationships are outdated and men and women need to focus on building community with each other and not some contrived gender war
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:28 PM
1

I mean, good for them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:26 PM
1

That's great. I too hope for world peace someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:25 PM
1

"you get some designed group either opressed or on the road to extermination" Slavery, manifest destiny/trail of tears, Japanese internment, Jim Crow not to mention the curving of LGBT and women's rights until the 20th century
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:20 PM
0

Then what do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:18 PM
3

Okay babe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:16 PM
-1

I think you're just looking for a woman to say "I'm sorry we've been so cruel to you" right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:16 PM
1

American history disagrees
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:15 PM
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I think we should leave each other alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:10 PM
1

What's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:05 PM
4

if you can have an arranged marriage why wouldn't you? I think it's a great idea
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:13 AM
1

This is true. Men have no solidarity. They happily fuck each other to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:06 AM
4

Correct. I've heard what my mother and grandmother went through. I don't want society to look like that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:03 AM
3

Then foster community with men to discuss these issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:01 AM
26

Because they mean submission. These men are not misunderstood. They are telling you who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:19 PM
1

If the mods think I'm posting contentless rhetoric they are more than welcome to remove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:17 PM
1

Or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:15 PM
1

Good, let's do away with that. Loyalty is for dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:14 PM
1

Because it's a shaming argument I have no interest in validating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:13 PM
1

That's what I'm saying. Leave us alone. Looks like we agree 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:49 PM
2

So wouldn't it be best to just avoid getting married?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:47 PM
5

You're just trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:42 PM
2

I love being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:40 PM
2

Well it sounds like they're trying their dardnest trying to save their marriage while the big bad woman is running to the courthouse to collect her alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:40 PM
2

Well as a woman who can produce milk for a child (the only sex which can do so) it would be interesting to get a ticket in SLC for something directly attributed to my gender 5 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:39 PM
4

Oh no they understand our history just fine. Don't give them the benefit of the doubt. They just didn't like it. Plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:37 PM
1

I'm not following
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:34 PM
5

Why can't women feed their babies in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:34 PM
0

I'm not following
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:32 PM
3

Do you feel the same way about other minorities groups who claim historical issues have affect on modern ones? It's fine if you do but be logically consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:32 PM
0

Breastfeeding only became decriminalized in Utah in 2018. I was very much alive then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:29 PM
1

The numbers don't hurt me, no. The more women leaving unhappy marriages the better
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:27 PM
2

Nope, just wanted to hear uou say it. Thank you for the honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:27 PM
15

Suicide rates and loneliness I think are huge societal issues. I, someone who practices what they preach, even volunteered at the suicide hotline for a bit. It's when my gender is at fault for why these men feel this way makes me want to disengage from the issue entirely because they're making me feel unsafe and unwelcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:26 PM
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They do. And I get you're trying to beat the Reddit mods but just be honest that you think you've been done wrong by women in life. Trying to frame it like you're advocating against some sort of societal ill is laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:24 PM
1

I have no issue with people doing what's best for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:22 PM
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I don't think divorce is inherently bad 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:21 PM
-1

Yes, I think men are more tolerant of women's unhappiness than woman of their own. Marriage is a bad deal for women. I'm not really an advocate for most people getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:14 PM
1

So you're saying the relationship has problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:12 PM
-2

Women were second class citizens until very recently. Are second class citizens not treated well or something? 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:03 PM
-1

These men don't actually want anything. They want a forum to complain about women because they need catharsis. The men of PPD are no different than any SJW. They're probably isolated or ostracized and think that just maybe, if the world was a nicer place to (insert group here) their lives wouldn't have been so difficult. Seriously, go to any social justice forum and just switch out the group. The writing and syntax is the same. To ascribe any good faith to these men as some sort of activists, or…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:02 PM
-1

"Family courts are unfair!" Okay, what are you doing to push more equitable legislation? "Canada is a socialist country I can't do anything!" Okay, we have a case of learned helpless. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:56 PM
6

Then vote. Start grassroots movements. Canvas. Petition.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:54 PM
5

Right. I think it's interesting women are painted as hysterical and irrational but they're still so scared of our emotions. Men would rather die than feel like they're being rejected and it's almost comical how sad it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:52 PM
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Is divorce bad? No one leaves a happy marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:46 PM
1

I resent that I'm only 30 years removed of being able to get a business loan for myself and other economic advantages that have put women subservient to men when we are the more emotionally intelligent gender. Of course I love men Individually. I'm a daughter and a wife. A beloved colleague. But as a collective I'm happy to see it only took us like 40 years to start to dominate the cultural, academic, legal, and professional spheres.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:43 PM
13

Correct. I don't expect the bear at the zoo to behave like a human. Men will ask how men are predestined to act. I'm not some incel white knight. I'm here for entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:38 PM
24

Correct, not much on tv at the moment
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:31 PM
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Wimmin bad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:29 PM
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I don't think women think of men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:28 PM
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I just think it's interesting people who spend all day, like yourself talking about how evil women are yet you still want their attention. If something is bad for me, I avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:14 PM
10

Thanks! Have a lovely weekend yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:04 PM
8

My point is, people have predestined leagues. If they do the work they can raise their chances to a higher caliber mate, but things like childhood trauma are going to automatically disqualify you not matter how much potential you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:14 PM
12

Bon voyage!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:12 PM
9

Reading comprehension is hard
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:08 PM
17

Candidly, yes. I'm a fully actualized adult with a great career. But, I did have some bumps in my childhood, even with therapy and mental health treatment, still manifest from time to time. When I was looking for a partner, I knew that it wasn't fair to go after men who didn't have background into this. I knew I needed to find someone with some "edge" like myself (and candidly I found those men boring anyway). Even though I put in the work, I really am not the ideal partner for someone without s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:59 PM
1

I don't want to date the bus driver
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:54 PM
18

Definitely. I throw this sub in the same category as me loving trash reality tv. I love a train wreck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:53 PM
3

It definitely means sacrificing in other areas! When I was single I used to just blow my money on clothes and going out for dinner/drinks. It's a less flashy lifestyle but more wholesome ig
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:52 PM
5

Around 120. So actually very middle class for where we live, but high for the national average. He owns a business and I work as a consultant so we pay for convenience where we can as we're both working all the time. It's a priority for us in our marriage to enjoy the time we have together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:37 PM
2

You could have been more straight forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:34 PM
1

So your activism is reserved to Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:29 PM
5

Of course silly. But the angry young men of the internet fading into obscurity is a silver lining to part of the decline birth rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:29 PM
3

Truly. I love being married and it just being us to to take on the world together
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:28 PM
7

Double income no kids
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:08 PM
1

Do you vote?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:08 PM
10

I think it's because we have partners and lives to attend to. My husband and I are going out to a fancy seafood restaurant tonight and I'm just killing time before he comes home from work
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:06 PM
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I think these women should avoid these men. These men are bitter and entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:04 PM
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And you think you're advocating for men to go against the grain to look out for their own interests?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:03 PM
14

Gotcha, the graham Stephen type. I've seen what I've needed to see
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:02 PM
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You can tell these people don't have investments.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:57 PM
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Is someone forcing you to marry them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:57 PM
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So you see yourself as some sort of advocate for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:56 PM
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Wouldn't the most logical thing to do would to be to avoid women then? Yet I'm sure all of these men are involved with one one way or the other
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:54 PM
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Men are terrible with paperwork. They're perfectly fine staying legally married but checking out emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:53 PM
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People don't leave happy marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:52 PM
2

We do. The housework fight is for middle class couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:49 PM
21

I don't think you'll have to worry about this. Cart before the horse don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:48 PM
29

"You can't fire me, I quit!"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:46 PM
12

We just hire people because we're DINKS. My husband isn't changing his own oil nor cleaning the gutters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:45 PM
20

And yet I and many others are still happily married despite this odd interpretation of modern marriage. So there seems to be a disconnect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:43 PM
6

If all someone does is watch Snapped Al day, they will come to the conclusion that wives commonly murder their husbands Same with RP content
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:41 PM
22

With marriage and birth rates decreasing it's comforting to know that in a generation or two the men who couldn't procreate genes will be removed from the gene pool and hopefully my great granddaughter will never know what any of this means
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:40 PM
45

"Fellas is it gay to do the dishes?"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:33 PM
28

Right. As a married person, why should I listen to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:31 PM
21

I am so thankful there are rational people in these parts. Because holy cow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:25 PM
24

Yeah this is a weirdly specific scenario. My husband doesn't do dishes because of my fidelity. He does dishes so we dont get maggots.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:24 PM
32

You can tell they aren't married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:21 PM
2

Are you winning son?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:35 PM
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The only person I have control over is myself and I try to be kind to all. I think it's a good way to go through life but I'm not your mother. You have free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:32 PM
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Are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:31 PM
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State sanction girlfriends is what some of these people believe unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:26 PM
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Okay? Then don't. I don't really care either way
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:22 PM
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That's a false binary. I can be nice to someone and great them with respect without feelings obligated to do anything for them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:00 PM
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If I'm asked out by someone I don't find attractive I just say no thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:44 PM
0

Maybe, but still got my 666 so I'm good
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:50 PM
1

Yup if I'm disliked by these men I've done something right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:05 PM
3

It's Schrödingers masculinity. They spend hours online discussing it and trying to emulate it when there's nothing less masculine than a man who spends his time arguing on forums
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:04 PM
2

Same. I grew up in the conservative south and always felt like a freak. I moved to a big city and had no issue with finding platonic or romantic partners
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:03 PM
1

That's why TRP pushes that, unironically, I slept with some ugly men in college. Low self esteem and alcohol are a bad combo. Now that I'm older (and don't drink much) I would have much higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:52 PM
1

I think you should be nicer to yourself. I'm sure you're great to be around regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:46 PM
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I mean, we all live in society together so we should all be respectful but fully agree no one has to be around no one they don't want to. I was in a sorority. We literally hand picked the women we wanted to be around too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:43 PM
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I don't really like being around overweight women either. I'm just as shallow as any man so I don't mind men who have these preferences so long as they are not outwardly cruel
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:00 PM
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Isn't blocking to avoid challenging comments against the sub rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:58 PM
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It's truly the best. TV doesn't capture this level of depravity anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:56 PM
1

I find that sad. I'm sure people would appreciate the deeper emotions you have if you open up. You don't need to wait to experience that in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:54 PM
1

If men can't get positive attention they'll settle for negative. They certainly don't go quietly into the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:34 PM
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I'm sorry you feel that way
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:32 PM
1

They do have to be single if there's not anyone consenting to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:29 PM
1

And what if you never find a romantic partner? No one on this planet will have known your true self?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:28 PM
1

Well yeah, you don't listen to us anyway. The best thing I can do is to tell women to just ignore these men since they do need our attention: positive or negative. Have a nice afternoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:18 PM
1

And expecting a romantic relationship to fill those needs is unrealistic. You can't put your emotional needs in one basket.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:15 PM
1

So why are men lonely? It must be women's fault if we're not expecting any sort of introspection.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:12 PM
1

So you're reserving emotionally intimacy for a female partner one day?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:11 PM
1

The Greeks and the Romans have great writing on friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:10 PM
1

Either it's an issue you want our attention on or not. I'm happy to ignore it and focus on other societal woes. I personally think literacy rates are a bigger social issue to face than men's mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:09 PM
2

I agree 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:08 PM
1

Then foster male friendship and community. That's what I'm advertising
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:49 PM
2

Clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:42 PM
1

Hey if you think the current model is working I don't want to hear about male loneliness or suicide rates. You guys have it all figured it yourself then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:31 PM
1

Something tells me women end up falling short of your expectations of them no matter the scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:30 PM
1

Many cultures are still not accepting of being gay. She might not even realize it yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:07 PM
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Right. They've been watching porn since they were 12 but still can't find the clit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:05 PM
3

Because they're emotional, not emotionally mature. There's a difference. Men aren't in tune with their emotions-but that doesn't stop them from having them they just usually manifest in the form of anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:04 PM
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Simple. It was fun and I enjoyed myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:00 PM
2

Correct. And being someone's full time therapist 24/7 is more than whatever a man is usually putting into the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:59 PM
2

Because it's labor. Unpaid labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:55 PM
-1

Definitely agree 💯 I'm on this sub for that very reason. I've always been interested in dangerous fringe groups. I don't think these ideas stay online (I.e Eliot Rogers) so I think it's important to be educated so you can notice the signs and hopefully intervene.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:48 PM
0

Nah, that's psuedo intellectual garbage. I'm glad women are realizing that's it's not right to be a man's only emotional outlet. That's too much pressure to put onto another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:41 PM
-1

The victim mindset is strong here. And I think it's funny especially as someone who's been sexually assaulted. I have every reason in the world to be bitter and generalize men yet I don't hold the actions of the bad men against the good ones. Meanwhile these guys got rejected once in high school and told themselves "they'd never let themselves be hurt again."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:33 PM
2

Which is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:30 PM
2

People complain about what they're not getting. It's a really loud minority online. I bet if I asked my husbands friends what the red pill is they'd be like "oh is that that Andrew tate guy" and that's the end of it. Successful men aren't watching dating strategy online
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:20 PM
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I'm so happy I explored my sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:17 PM
3

Right. If my hypothetical daughter wants to have casual sex I would just tell them to be safe and have discretion. That's it. What a weird appeal to morally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:03 PM
2

Never in history have we ever carved anything out for the weak, lazy, men. At Jamestown it was "work or die." I don't know why we should start now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:03 PM
3

Yeah if my husband and I break up I'm going to date women exclusively. I've seen enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:01 PM
2

Literally everyone I know is getting married right now. Idk where these sexless men are. At home, probably
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:00 PM
1

Right. Most people are socially aware enough to see people wearing headphones and not engage
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:48 PM
1

As a woman with a high sex drive, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:32 PM
2

Yup. I see this with birthdays. My friends and I always make sure we have a plan, tickets, a gift etc. we never forget and we plan these things months in advance. Meanwhile, my husband is lucky if his friends remember. It's sad as I'm usually the one coordinating something for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:30 PM
1

But recentering other types of relationships do. I'm married, but my most intimate relationships I have are with my friends. If I'm facing anxiety about the future, I text my friend not my husband. My husband is a "fixer" not a talker. Men are so isolated because they only use romantic partners as a way to be intimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:14 PM
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Right. Exploring sexually isn't a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:40 PM
-3

Are they ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:16 PM
8

I go to equinox, I think it's because it's more of a serious place to work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:57 PM
-2

Do they approach less? Even with a ring on my finger I'm still having to politely decline advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:56 PM
1

I'm childfree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:20 PM
0

Not all genes need to be passed down. We have enough people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:20 PM
-1

Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:24 AM
1

I can tell you're not wealthy by the way you communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:34 AM
1

And the men in uniform are usually the guys who are either poor and/or got C's in high school. Well to do men who have options don't go into these careers
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:14 AM
0

Just because some people have rags to riches stories doesn't mean your zip code isn't the biggest determination of your success. I'm failing to see where my logic is failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:05 AM
1

Yup. Maybe they'll finally spread their seed with discretion
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:06 AM
0

Then go to court and argue for more time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:45 AM
1

Let pregnant woman in the HOV lane and you'll have a point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:43 AM
2

I agree. Republican law makers don't
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:15 AM
2

I have to take breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:53 AM
2

Understanding life isn't fair is such a healthy thing to wrap your head around yet so many people can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:46 AM
-1

Therapy is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:43 AM
-1

More men would avoid these scenarios if they took responsibility for themselves like you had
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:20 AM
2

It's logically consistent. You can't tell people "life begins at conception" but treat unborn children differently in courtrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:19 AM
3

If a fetus is a baby, then this makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:16 AM
0

My man is spoiled. I give him his words of affirmation everyday since that's his love language.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:49 PM
6

It's usually in their tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:47 PM
2

I agree. I'm just like every other woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:47 PM
0

I like to hold my husband's head in my lap after he has a long day and tell him how I appreciate him working so hard for us. Men are still being spoiled. They're just not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:46 PM
2

Is that why weird kids are usually really into weapons?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:44 PM
0

Classism isn't a dirty word
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:43 PM
2

I love my man too. But we need to stop telling single people there's something missing from their lives. You can live a fulfilling life without romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:42 PM
0

I agree. I think everyone would be better if they decentered romantic relationships from their lives and focused on building community like we do trying to find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:42 PM
2

Girl...our UPS driver at our office 👌🏻 And they're union now. Not a bad idea 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:40 PM
1

Somewhere in the middle. Like they go on a few dates but it always sizzles out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:39 PM
1

How are you spending time with such wealthy people when your syntax is terrible? What has given you access to these spaces?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:36 PM
1

Who's said anything about plastic surgery? I'm talking about how women in their 30s look better than women in their 20s who don't take care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:35 PM
1

Exactly. Beautiful women aren't starved for men wanting to spend time with them. You have to stand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:33 PM
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So many of them are bitter and angry towards women. Especially if they're divorced.I don't want the job of convincing them I'm "not like other girls" I traveled for work a bit and like you said, they're always looking for the opportunity to explain something to me or talk about whatever their work is in the airport lounge. I found it endearing the first few times, but it gets old especially since they all do it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:18 AM
2

I was just thinking that. The tired moral panic arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:15 AM
1

It does. I embrace it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:29 AM
8

And it's sociology as well. Only like 2 generations ago, all grandpa needed was a job at the mill and he was pretty much guaranteed a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:28 AM
0

Right. There's usually a common denominator in everyone's problems in life (themselves)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:26 AM
-1

Do those genes need to be passed on? That just sounds like biology in play.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:25 AM
-2

Whenever I complement men platonically they think I'm flirting. It's gotten me in trouble at work when I thought I was just being polite
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:23 AM
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I'm married so the stuff geared for me is different. Yes. I'm married and I avoid "marriage humor" online like the plague. It's women passive aggressive calling their husbands morons (which can be fair). I feel if I watch too much of that content I become resentful towards him since so many husbands are Portrayed as incompetent
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:21 AM
1

Oh I never denied it. Just offering my perspective of interacting with the zaddies in my clubbing days. I looked 16 when I was 19 (fake id) too so I got the jeepers creepers feeling whenever they'd try anything. But no doubt some childhood trauma helps women bypass that feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:34 AM
0

Because poor people often make dumb choices
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:20 AM
0

Do I seem triggered? Can you point to where in my word choice I seem upset? But you have a good point in your last paragraph. All of the girls I know who were fucking older men in college had weird daddy hang ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:19 AM
2

Because we're not that into these older guys. It's a funny story and nothing more. The idea that these men in their 30s are crushing it with younger women is a half truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:34 PM
1

"I've tried nothing and I'm all out of options"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:26 PM
0

I'm glad you feel seen
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:13 PM
3

As do the women. It's a mutually beneficial thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:10 PM
4

No doubt. I'm not denying it happens. I'm saying we go back to our dorms and make fun of these men while we text the hot frat guys we'd rather have attention from.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:07 PM
6

It's true. Women who can do other things in life, often, do. Most of the women in my office when they do have kids it's in their mid 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:01 PM
1

Most poor people stay poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:53 PM
1

The 5 figure rock on my finger says differently
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:46 PM
1

Did I hit a nerve?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:44 PM
6

If a man doesn't want to pay we are not compatible. That's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:41 PM
1

That's fair too. Some men understand the value of good company.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:41 PM
1

If I was off putting I wouldn't be so well versed in fine dining.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:35 PM
1

Probably because it's something people with ample discretionary income do. People with money don't mind spending it. Especially if that money gets you a hot date people can be envious of.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:34 PM
7

They're trying to sell you something. If you have men thinking they're going to finally avenge all of the women who rejected them and will make tons of money one day you have them hook line and sinker. My only objection is that I didn't get in on the grift sooner. I could have been the next pearl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:33 PM
0

I work in consulting so I'm around really successful men all day. I'm married but I know I would have ignored them if I was single. Many of them are too short. I was in the elevator and I ran into the man dropping of our Instacart order. Literally the most gorgeous man I've ever seen in my life. I thought to myself "wow he probably gets laid more than all of these nerds combined."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:27 PM
12

Same. People don't settle down until late 20s/early 30s. I was the first one to get married at 26.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:23 PM
2

Depends on who you are around. I don't think anyone is saying they look the same as they did 10 years ago. But they're still attractive. I would argue I look better than I did at 20 because I eat well can afford nice skincare.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:21 PM
0

No one is holding men at gun point to take me out to dinner
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:17 PM
6

And emotionally. I've had to leave a few friends behind because they simply cannot address their traumas and insecurities and are still looking to talk shit on Instagram and fight outside bars or whatever. Some people age but they don't mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:43 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:41 PM
2

So most of my friends are late 20s and early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:35 PM
3

Me? I've been married for a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:34 PM
5

If the men I've dated wanted to go Dutch I wouldn't have minded. I'm married now so it comes from a joint account anyway. It just never happened. Maybe once in college getting coffee, but men have always been excited to share a meal with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:07 PM
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I think it's just funny as somebody who lives in a high cost-of-living area as most of the women I know in their 30s are career women who are wealthy, so obviously they spend a lot of money to look good with no kids. Hell, I'll probably look better in my 30s when I can finally afford veneers. But yeah Tammy Lynn who started having kids at 21 and smokes and eat casseroles probably does look busted by 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:05 PM
10

Your 30s are building off of your choices in your 20s. So if you laid a good foundation, you'll probably see the fruit of your labor. And vice versa if you didn't do anything of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:02 PM
10

I'm seeing it now as all of us (27) are settling down and getting married. The perpetually single guys in our friend group are scrambling to find a halfway decent woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:01 PM
19

And most college girls want to date hot frat guys. Not the 40 year old balding guy at the club. Whenever my friends and I would go out we would drunkenly yell "go start a family" whenever old guys would come up to us
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:55 PM
2

But also get married before you're old and wrinkle or you won't get a good guy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:50 PM
5

Because they can be. If men stopped paying for my meals I'd come to stop expecting it. But it's never not happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:45 PM
1

Married single mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:55 PM
1

Everyone's entitled to preferences. When I was single I avoid people from divorced/single homes. If I'm going to be a wife one day (and I am) my partner needs to know what that entails.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:54 PM
1

I think if you want to be married, date someone whose parents are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:52 PM
1

Are you rich yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:34 PM
9

Nothing is stopping men from giving average woman their pretty woman moment. They just don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:28 PM
2

God I love posts like these.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:32 PM
5

They have to channel their rejection somewhere. This hypothetical scenario is catharsis for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:30 PM
7

They would never take Emily Radkowski on a coffee date. Men put in effort for women they actually want to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:29 PM
5

Right I can't keep up with the contradiction. We are going to hit a "wall" and men only value us for our youth and beauty, shouldn't we aim to find the highest status man we can in our limited prime?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:27 PM
25

Right I'm failing to see how this is an issue. First dates are about finding out if you're compatible. If the bill is an issue, then you're probably not compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:26 PM
3

Yes, wimmin bad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:24 PM
6

Hot women typically are entitled. As they should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:20 PM
3

Hot women are probably going to want their dinner paid for. Women more desperate for male attention/don't believe in gender roles are less likely to but they probably aren't the women you're into. Sorrow, sorrow, prayers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:17 PM
3

Life isn't fair. More at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:52 PM
1

It's so sad how easily manipulated people can be. Common sense can tell you that a woman filmed outside of a nightclub in Miami might be a tad materialistic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:34 PM
3

Yes. Because feminists also agree that there's "no such thing as a free lunch" and know that men feel entitled if they spend money on you. The woman in the video embraces the traditional mindset. She knows she's attractive, so she's expecting to be provided for. You cannot pick and choose what parts of traditionalism you want to keep.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:31 PM
14

The woman they want to date expect nice dates (hot women).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:01 PM
0

I met my husband when I was 20. We didn't get married until 26 though. We both needed to grow up a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:59 PM
4

That's okay
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:48 PM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:47 PM
0

If that's what they feel like doing. Not really my business
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:39 AM
2

At that point I'd just rather have a hot FWB
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:13 AM
4

Yes, we are socialized our value decreases with age. It's something you have to work to unlearn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:09 AM
1

Agree. Have your fun and then settle down when your brain is fully formed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:04 AM
9

I mean aging bring up insecurity in everyone. It's a manifestation of our mortality. If that's an insecurity women have I won't invalidate their feelings but I don't think it's representative of modern women as a group.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:00 AM
10

No, it's a revenge fantasy found on red pill forums. Women in their late 20s date just as they do in the early 20s. I'm 27 and my girlfriends are still bewildered I got married. They love living their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:47 AM
10

I agree. The women play along too sometimes which is so frustrating. Even today I got "oh casual sex just made me feel betrayed." Well yeah, if you're expecting him to marry you, you're going to feel that way. But if it's actually casual, you should be grown up enough to accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:20 AM
6

I agree. Many women feel so much shame about their sexual nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:01 AM
13

I agree. It's infantile.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:00 AM
5

Most? I don't know. But I do know I am a woman who can have sex no strings attached. Are there more of us? I'm sure, but there's still a lot of stigma regarding our sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:45 AM
1

I met my husband young so I wasn't on them long; but yeah seeing the same people active gave me the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:53 PM
2

I know a few married couples from tinder. It's what you make of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:51 PM
2

I feel like that's biology. Adapt or die.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:50 PM
6

If I already find you attractive, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:46 PM
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And many of the women I know have no regrets. I don't know why you keep using most
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:33 PM
–

You don't speak for most of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:17 PM
-1

Social skills are skills. Quit putting us on pedestals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:16 PM
6

I dated this guy in college who had a high n count. Nicest guy ever. Loved philosophy. Was straight forward in telling you sex is no strings attached for him. Respectful, feminist. He just liked it casual. I had the same view of sex at the time so we got along well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:45 PM
1

I've never met a well adjusted man with a high body count. Like any vice, they're running from something
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:42 PM
0

Many of them are on the DL as well...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:40 PM
4

I think there's also confusion about what men want from women. Our grandfathers were looking for 2 holes and a hot meal (no I don't care if your grandparents were married for 50 years that doesn't prove they loved each other). I think men still want that, even if it's to a smaller degree, but they also themselves have become more romantic and want a genuine connection with someone to connect with emotionally. The first one is much easier to find. The second, not so much. I think men need to real…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:33 PM
2

Protect them from who
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:30 PM
6

I've never seen this scenario irl or online. Sounds like a revenge fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:27 PM
1

I also prefer the company of men. Not in a pick me way, I just have a more masculine aura.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:11 PM
7

If you're on Reddit during the business hours of all American time zones, you're not building anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:48 PM
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Seriously. In like 40 years we've started to dominate both workforce and academia. A blimp on the timeline of history.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:58 PM
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Which is why we should end the stigma of causal sex. Women do this because they're embarrassed (trying to look better) and they think sex means something. It's just our monkey brains being horny it has no inherent meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:57 PM
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And then they say "she's not yours it's just your turn." When men want to sleep with women on the first date yet want to marry a low N woman. Projection is confession.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:55 PM
0

I'm sorry I didn't specify to make sure your exact scenario was excluded
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:43 PM
3

Have you struggled to maintain other sorts of relationships? Romantic? Platonic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:35 PM
1

Is it open dialogue or trauma dumping on unassuming strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:15 PM
9

When I used to vent about my husband (which I rarely do anymore) to my single friends all you get is a chorus of "ew dumb him" at the smallest infractions. It's going to take people who want to uphold the family unit to keep relationships going because it is hard for men to live up to the unbeatable standards of the single girl best friend. My other friends in relationships have all agreed we don't talk about our relationships to this one friend. Very rarely do I side with the traditionalists bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:08 PM
1

And while there are legitimate reasons to cut people off, the Venn diagram between the emotionally unstable to begin with, and the people quick to do this are a circle. Conflict resolution is a skill many don't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:05 PM
10

If everyone smells like shit, you might want to check your shoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:54 PM
1

I have two loving parents 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:37 PM
4

Because "what about me and my specific life scenario? Why aren't we talking about meeeeeee?"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:37 PM
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If it doesn't apply, let it fly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:36 PM
1

I did, he says it grosses him out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:35 PM
0

I'm sorry you feel that way
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:29 PM
1

Yup. My male friend at work complained to me that dating women his age (25-30) feels like a job interview because it's questions like "do you want kids" on the first date. I see both sides. I get not wanting to waste your time, but I get his frustration that he feels no one wants to work towards anything, he needs to check all of the boxes or there's no second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:27 PM
1

Which is why I think decentering romantic relationships is a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:25 PM
2

That no one asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:19 PM
2

Yup. There's a few "meet up in the city" groups I've been apart of. I've met some great people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:18 PM
6

Not even just marriage failing; people die. My husband's job is like ranked second for most dangerous professions. Being barefoot and pregnant my whole life seems like a huge gamble god forbid something happened to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:17 PM
2

Do you need my help?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:13 PM
3

Right. That's why I just roll my eyes when people say "there's no village." The village only existed due to the unspoken contract that the baby is "one of us". Once you throw individualism into the mix, people are less likely to volunteer free labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:13 PM
1

Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:11 PM
4

And family. People are cutting their parents off over the dumbest things
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:59 PM
6

Life is hard. My marriage is easy. So yes, life is challenging and we go through challenges together. But we are not each other's challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:52 PM
1

Asking you how you came to a conclusion threatens your perception of reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:51 PM
1

Not forever, but long enough that I've been able to capitalize it and set myself up for the day I become ugly and invisible. Pretty gets you in the door
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:50 PM
1

It is when you think we're so easily seduced by these chads
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:23 PM
1

That's not what gaslight means
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:22 PM
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Theories explain the natural consequence of facts, more specific data that's been proven alongside observations. Fact: an apple falls at : F = G(m1m2)/R2 when dropped Theory: all items fall at : F = G(m1m2)/R2 when dropped. Since we cannot test all items, we use theory to explain why all items hit the floor. I think people confuse "theory" and "theoretical" because it's the same suffix and theoretical is conflated with hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:14 PM
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Babe that just shows you don't know the definition of theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:57 PM
1

Says who?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:54 PM
1

Because if they understand that we are selective and aren't actually that easily influenced they'll feel that warm pit of rejection in their stomach
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:29 AM
1

Most people who take SSRIs find them to help
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:25 AM
1

I'm from the south. Marriage is still very much expected and encouraged. I will say that encouraging teenagers to get married isn't exactly cool though...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:30 PM
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They equate sex with love so they think we must do that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:28 PM
1

Yup. Look at retirement homes. Women tend to have more visitors as they've nurtured community.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:26 PM
1

Right. The most well adjusted people live in perpetual loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:24 PM
1

This is why I'm not interested in men's mental health. You all demonize the very practices that are preventing suicides.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:19 PM
1

How often are you having wine nights?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:18 PM
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Yup. Have you ever heard a group of guys hanging out? They just talk about sports or work or the new drake song or whatever. They'll have known each other for 10 years but sound like co workers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:15 PM
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Because they're probably divorced and working crappy jobs due to being divorced. Meanwhile, the younger crowd grew up with more freedom so we have more assets, money, and time than they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:14 PM
1

Thank god, I'm sick of all the attention
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:12 PM
1

There's subreddits dedicated to everything
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:12 PM
1

You think we've never been done wrong by ugly men we had pity sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:22 PM
1

How often do you console strangers on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:17 PM
1

Men are demonized because they're obsessed with sex either way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:08 PM
1

Yes and no. You gotta pick a struggle. You can't be unlikable and ugly. That's why kids become the class clown in school
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:08 PM
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I mean, what do you want people to say? Yes you're ugly so life will be harder?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:53 PM
1

I definitely agree more so challenging the red pill idea that men become more desirable with age
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:14 PM
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A bottle of water at dollar tree is a dollar. A bottle of water at the airport is 6. A bottle at a music festival is 10. Your worth is determined by what people are willing to engage in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:09 PM
1

Ah yes. The 1950s. Where white men prospered and white women had it slightly better than everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:32 PM
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If gender roles were natural religion would have never been created.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:31 PM
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Yup. That's why I'm not shedding any tears over male loneliness/suicide rates. They need to fix the problems they created. It's patriarchy that says men are supposed to be stoic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:28 PM
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Whose weary? I look back on my mother and grandmother and the exhausted lives they lived "under the hand" of men. My life is a cake walk thanks to the sacrifices they and other women made so I could be educated and free of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:26 PM
1

Yup. Children slow us down. They know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:21 PM
1

Gravity is also a theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:19 PM
1

Yup. That's why we're being bothered with the "male loneliness epidemic" in media. The landscape for reproduction has become more competitive as we've gained equality in work and in society at large and it's upsetting for some.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:18 PM
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And that bubble helped me find my husband, someone who I can agree with what radio station we listen to in the car.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:12 PM
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It's just a preference. If someone finds meaning in the womp womp music that's great. We're just not compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:02 PM
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Yes. I went to a woman's gym in college and I loved it. Antidotally, the second best gym I've been to when it came to gender was equinox. Everyone there did their own thing. The worst obviously was planet fitness
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:49 PM
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And he's welcome to criticize. It's a free country. But what you find superficial, I find meaning in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:38 PM
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Most of these comments tell me these men are working class. When you're in a corporate environment like I am, yes there is a "boss" (and everyone has one) but there's no blind obedience. For example, I'm working on a project that required some red tape therefore pushing back our deadline. Instead of my boss being like "work until 9pm to fix it" we worked together to establish new expectations and a new deadline. We compromise and collaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:27 PM
1

Leaders don't have to tell people they're in charge
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:22 PM
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Because men see everything through the lens of a power struggle. They have to "dominate" and have little sense of collectivism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:16 PM
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I'm actually more conservative than most of my friends; but My liberal ones won't even engage if they can smell the hint of trump/populist/republican on them. It's close to a zero tolerance policy (and I don't blame them.)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:47 PM
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"Why aren't you more open to dating people who want to make you a second class citizen?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:45 PM
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This stuff does matter. It may be trivial to you, but it matters to many people. Our grandmothers settled and "agreed to disagree" because they were dependent. Now, being that I'm completely self sufficient, I'm looking for a partnership. And yeah, I probably even wouldn't go out with a guy if he didn't like Taylor swift, let alone was pro life as they're adding to my life. Not something I have to compromise on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:19 PM
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Depending where you are, if you are pro life you're not going to get a date unless the girl is also conservative. That 15% or whatever of disagreement is literally the right to make choices with my body which is a non negotiable regardless if we agree on guns and taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:03 PM
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I disagree on both ends. I consider myself moderate because I don't like big government . I wouldn't date a conservative because I don't like traditional gender roles. And I can tell a lot from people's music choice. For example, if someone is really into trap rap or EDM, I can assume they're not deep thinkers and/or into using drugs recreationally (no shame, not my thing anymore) If someone says "I hate Taylor swift I think she's annoying" I think they're probably misogynistic and discredit her…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:48 PM
1

Do you guys not have moms?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:41 PM
1

The irony in we are always described as being an inanimate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:40 PM
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This is literally the status quo. Only recently is not getting married young encouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:39 PM
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I'm just a believer in evolution. The genes that are passed down are the genes from people who beat the competition for a mate. Not every bird, dog, lion etc gets the chance to reproduce. Why would humans be different? Because we have feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:37 PM
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I mean yeah. I married my 6'2 husband and we're still renting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:29 PM
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Yup. There's plenty of plain Jane's out there. Yet they're not getting male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:13 PM
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They can if women online are their biggest idea of how women behave. It is Jlaws job to be attractive. If you go outside and go to the grocery store, you'll see women with little to no make up on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:12 PM
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They just want to wear it themselves. Like it's 2023 be who you are!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:10 PM
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Yup. My husband gives me cash to go get my hair and skin treatments done. Men with money want their partners looking good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:09 PM
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"Women need to be more picky." "No, wait, not like that!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:04 PM
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I'm still failing to see how this is a bad thing. I want to be with a like minded person from my socioeconomic group. That translates nearly identically to my online experience
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:02 PM
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Hard agree. I've heard people talk about putting their non negotiables like kids and religion on there too. It's better to field people out that to be deep into a relationship and having to compromise on your laurels
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:55 PM
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Yup. Seeing my husband interacting with his friends is kind of sad. They just talk about sports and work. It's all surface level.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:59 PM
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But I thought the success men found in their 30s means 20 year olds are going to be crawling all over them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:58 PM
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"I've tried nothing and I'm all out of options!" Like, maybe women have stronger communities because we are nicer? More pleasant to be around? Smell good?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:56 PM
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What a great way of phrasing this. I remember in high school all of the guys would go after like 4-5 of the "popular" girls. Obviously, those girls dated the football players so then they'd be upset that they were rejected by a girl they had zero chance anyway. Meanwhile, my dorky self in the model UN wasn't even asked to prom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:55 PM
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Same. I'm married but my single friends are all doing really cool things. One is a curator so she's super busy anyway and doesn't have time to date. When she does, she said that she hadn't found anyone who adds to her already great life. They just seem like unnecessary effort atp
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:52 PM
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So much of success in your life is how you spend your 20s. So yes, Gen X women who got married young, pumped out babies, and then divorced for whatever reason probably aren't living self actualized lives. The reality is very different for younger women who have decentered men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:47 PM
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Women invest in building community.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:37 PM
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Being immature is great. We all should strive to live a life of ease and joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:31 PM
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Yup. If we are partnered we do so for companionship not necessity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:30 PM
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The worst offenders I've met are married men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:03 PM
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Yup. Isn't it convenient that they're following a dogma that says sex is immortal?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:02 PM
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Right. Look at the Romans, the Greeks. The idea that sex is icky is somewhat of a modern concept. Hell, call it an American concept. I worked in France and the men I was with talked about having girlfriends and boyfriends/lovers in marriage as if it was acceptable. Obviously all of the Americans at the table were offended, but the idea that one person is going to satisfy you for the rest of your life is actually not that common.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:57 PM
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What is it about these women you don't like?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:08 AM
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Exactly, don't waste your time on me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:06 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:03 AM
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Because they're mad that the fear of not having kids gets women to settle. So if less women are worried/care, less women are rushing to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:03 AM
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Being married just the two of you is so much fun. There's no reason to rush
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:02 AM
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If I'm understanding correctly, women have earned this violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:57 AM
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At the end of a pointed finger always lies a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:48 AM
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I did, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:47 AM
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What's wrong with Down syndrome? They deserve respect just like you and I If I have a baby with Down syndrome I'd love it just the same. This isn't threatening
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:44 AM
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Yup. If I didn't marry my husband I'd be childfree. I'll divorce before I'm a married single mother
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:42 AM
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Puppies are annoying. That's why I don't own one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:40 AM
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momtok is pretty depressing. Basically overworked women with useless husbands. I'm pregnant myself but it inspires me to sign up for daycare, a maid etc. there's no benefits to motherhood except the emotionally ones. I cannot do it 24/7,
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:36 AM
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Oh I'm sure it does
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:33 AM
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Welcome. The well acheeally crowd runs the show here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:33 AM
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I'm saying you're treating data like a horoscope
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:24 AM
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Yup. No sleepovers for my kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:24 AM
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Because they live in nicer areas than single women. Safer areas = less crime
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:17 AM
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As someone with an MBA I laugh at the statistics that are posted here. They have no idea how to interpret data
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:15 AM
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Because they're wealthier. Causation ≠ correlation
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:13 AM
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Statistically this is true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:12 AM
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If you're a white boy then why did you use the N word?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:15 AM
2

Imagine talking to a woman in the middle of Nebraska asking her if she has any chads she's talking to She'd look at you crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:13 AM
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Outside of fresh and fit I've never seen this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:12 AM
2

Yup. Domestic labor is extremely undervalued
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:10 AM
2

I'm married. And the idea of submission is dumb. I cut it out of our vows.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:08 AM
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Yup. Modern technology has really absorbed the need for "big strong guy" at home. My ring camera deters more breakins than my husband does.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:19 AM
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Same. We probably wouldn't even call ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:07 AM
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Last I checked guns were gender neutral
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:04 AM
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Cops rarely come to save the day. They come after the fact, take some pictures and usually just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:03 AM
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The hypothetical robber they always reference
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:56 PM
2

Yup. They work 9-5 while you get to work 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:44 PM
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Great point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:41 PM
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Yup. And you're most likely to be harmed if you're pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:23 PM
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Am I asking for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:42 PM
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Yes, we can end the violence by just telling them we see you 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:25 PM
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Because it wasn't for you. Plenty of other movies also have the theme of decenter romantic relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:10 PM
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And it's the same crowd whining about how no one takes men's mental health seriously. Like sir, do you take it seriously? Do you think white knuckling your way out of depression is healthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:39 PM
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How do you know they're infertile? Seems like an odd work conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:33 PM
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Literally the theme of the Barbie movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:32 PM
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I support MAD. Everyone has the right to their own destiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:29 PM
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Right. We're all human. I accept a quick glance. It's when you linger...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:18 PM
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Thank god
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:14 PM
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Lost what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:07 PM
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Of course it's not all men. But they have been, all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:25 PM
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Yup. And I'm sick of women on here giving them the benefit of the doubt. They can't be saved and it's pathetic we try to convince them of our humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:36 PM
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Hey some of us love a dad bod. But not if they're raging misogynists lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:11 PM
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It's deadly. It's how we ended up with most school shooters.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:09 PM
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My favorite is when I've had more female partners than they have 😂 Also my heart goes out to you ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:08 PM
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Follow the money. The daily wire's target audience is young men. They have to be competitive with other RP content in that market while still striking a conservative tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:06 PM
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Honestly, let them think this. Whatever gets them to scurry away into quiet acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:02 PM
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Mommy. It's usually mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:01 PM
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Okay baby
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:58 PM
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Women who enjoy sex are divinely punished and end up unhappy. It's a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:55 PM
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Yup. Those are rookie numbers. Gotta pump those number up!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:39 PM
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Revenge fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:38 PM
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As we become a less religious society we need another way to control women's sexuality. We now use pseudo science and logics and facts but it's the same religious drivel we've had for centuries just rebranded
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:23 PM
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Exactly. If I'm whimpering like a church mouse my husband knows I'm not interested and asks if everything's okay. Cause normally I'm an active participant in sex as I'm someone with a high libido who loves doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:54 PM
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R/marriage is full of men picachu shocked that the prudish woman they married gave them a dead bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:46 PM
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It's a half truth. Yes, oxytocin is released during sex. No, you do not release enough of it to form a "bond" after one time. We also do not have limited supply of it. Oxytocin is comparable to serotonin. Also, if anyone responds to this comment with a psychology today article save your time I'm not reading it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:39 PM
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I just tell women to start saying 4. 10 if you're in a nightlife heavy area. I'm not going to argue about how this is nonsense. We should just play offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:24 PM
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"You can't fire me, I quit!"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:15 PM
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Yeah I'm a little tipsy so I'm confused if I should be mad it's sexist or racist? Lmao Does the homophobe/transphobe lobby want to weight in before I delete my comment? Did I miss anyone? Bueller? Woke ideology just eats itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:30 AM
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Everyone is responsible for their own metal health. Other people's actions are still your responsibility to process and handle. Everyone in prison probably had a bad childhood. They are still responsible for their crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:21 AM
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Lonely young men have little affect on my life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:08 AM
2

Call it what you want it's depressing and unproductive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:36 AM
1

I don't really care if it's banned or not but people don't want to be around the unfortunate or the unlucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:38 PM
1

boo feminists grr
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:11 PM
3

At least red pill is about having some pride however inflated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:10 PM
3

I am sorry the movie about girl's toys didn't live up to your representation expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:59 PM
5

This may be a hot take but mental health is the responsibility of the person suffering with it. Just as your colon cancer isn't something I'm tasked with helping, neither is your depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:58 PM
1

Triggers are our tellers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:43 PM
0

No. Are we doing the men vs. women thing right now? This is your Saturday night?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:29 PM
-1

Men aren't stupid and do not play when it comes to their money. I've watched enough discovery ID to know the benefit of the doubt gets you in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:26 PM
4

No I wouldn't. Female abusers aren't taken as seriously as they should be due to the "woman are wonderful" idea men have. Any comment section of a teacher taking advantage of a young man has men egging it on in the comments. I would love bad women to face more accountability in society. The idea that we're inherently angelic is a product of the patriarchy and the madonna whore complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:17 PM
5

Sounds like they should choose better
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:14 PM
3

Or as my husband from Boston calls it- the Dahpahtad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:49 PM
2

Do you bang a ton of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:31 PM
9

Because ONE movie did not center them. It's so sensitive you're right. I didn't watch wolf of wallstreet and thought "well what about me 🥺" I thought "wow this movie is funny scorcese is a great director."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:29 PM
1

There's profits to be made in the gamefication of the dating market. If you can convince people there's a strategy or a formula they're more likely to buy your course or keep watching your podcast. And if you're unsuccessful, it's all the more reason to keep tuning in. You can see the sunk costs in this comment section. Capitalism is the house and house always wins
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:24 PM
1

If my brother is doing nothing to improve himself then no I do not care. I'm the farthest thing from an empath. You are the one with the "women are inherently good" fantasy. I'm just as pragmatic and focused as any man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:17 PM
2

Yup. The easiest way to get rid of these posts is to starve them of the attention they need.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:16 PM
2

Agreed. Where is this suffering in silence I'm always hearing about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:15 PM
12

They do think that. They see their virginity as something women did wrong,
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:14 PM
2

Right. If men aren't going to therapy, communicating their feelings nor eating well, cutting booze out etc I'm at a loss of what else to offer for help.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:13 PM
5

Right. I am responding honestly when I say I don't care. I honestly agree with OP more women need to stop entertaining the pity party. They don't want our help.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:11 PM
7

Right. Only eating plain chicken and broccoli is disordered. But tell a bodybuilder that and he'll call you fat and lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:09 PM
5

Yup. "Be a man." "Boys don't cry." "Acting like a girl." Are all so hurtful to young boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:05 PM
2

I don't care about any wounded people. That's a net negative to my busy life. I don't even keep in contact with hot mess family members.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:01 PM
4

Anything for the kids
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:00 PM
6

I don't care. We good? Did I save an elementary school classroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:59 PM
2

Well yeah. I avoid the unhappy and the unlucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:55 PM
2

And that's unfair of me to put that assumption on you so I apologize.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:54 PM
3

Most movies don't even pass the Bechdel test.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:53 PM
5

What positive female models are in the wolf of wall street? The godfather? Mystic River? Not every movie needs to fill a quota.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:52 PM
8

I would settle for at least being left alone. I'm told with age that will happen but alas...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:51 PM
10

Right. I remember I saw a therapist when I was 15. He blamed my anxiety on my period. 11 years later I was diagnosed with OCD. Imagine the amount of help I could have received if my mental health wasn't chalked to my gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:49 PM
13

Right. Ignoring them is not cruelty. It is simply indifference
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:48 PM
2

I'm glad you have marketable skills and a craft you are good at.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:45 PM
5

I mean if you walk the walk I'm happy for you. You just can't expect a housewife if you don't own a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:44 PM
12

Ok, I think men need to be the ones to fix the mental health crisis as men understand other men. I have no interest nor qualifications to care about the emotions outside of the immediate men in my life. Satisfied?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:41 PM
13

This isn't an incel sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:21 PM
2

Is it that monogrammed stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:14 PM
0

Of course not. But he's the type to use "women reject you when you're vulnerable" when in reality he's just a weak man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:57 PM
2

Etsy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:53 PM
2

I don't think anyone is entitled to romantic love or a partnership. There is not someone for everyone. And no one has to be with someone they're not attracted to. I'm a firm believer that life isn't fair. If you are looking for a woman to tell you dating isn't a meritocracy I completely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:43 PM
0

So if it's a competition there's clear winners and losers. If I lose a game of pick up basketball is because I had lesser skill than my opponent. I can't blame society, social media, whatever for my loss. I'm the loser. Plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:29 PM
0

Isn't black pill stuff not allowed? I'm confused how they have the market here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:27 PM
2

Is that not evolution?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:26 PM
2

Nothing is more frustrating than the "why did we fight to work again crowd."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:56 PM
4

Totally agree. People understand those who have been bitten by dogs not liking dogs but then we're supposed to assume benevolence as the default? Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:55 PM
-1

Exactly. Emotions are always someone else's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:42 PM
0

Women aren't inherently therapists. They're not equipped for "it's already pretty bad." The emotionally mature thing to do is to communicate before it gets to that point. Unloading months or years of rage/sadness etc is selfish
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:41 PM
3

More often that not, the only times I've seen men cry is after they fucked up. My ex got on his knees and started bawling when I finally came to my senses and went to his house to get something I had left there. He was just blubbering about how much he loved me and I'm the only one who ever saw him for who he was blah blah blah. Idk maybe that would have been nice to hear before cheating on me and blowing me off to do drugs. 🤷‍♀️ he probably thinks that he was rejected for being vulnerable with …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:38 PM
3

It's like shopping on shien and saying clothes have gotten so cheap
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:31 PM
2

Yup. The older I get I've unlocked more doors with more impressive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:30 PM
-2

Right. Assuming they're ignorant is still giving them the benefit of the doubt and it's not holding them accountable for the patriarchal views they're well aware they have. Men are not stupid nor secretly benevolent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:27 PM
3

They are and I honestly feel sorry for them as patriarchy hurts everyone. Have you heard the saying "love your sons but raise your daughters?" We raise men with the idea they'll be transferred from mommy to wife so we don't teach them basic life skills and emotionally regulation. And since women are getting married (and settling) less and less we have men who feel angry about not getting what they were socialized to expect with the maturity of young children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:22 PM
5

"Men are just a paycheck" -women proceed to get their own jobs- "I miss when women stayed home and the man was the provider." ?????!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:16 PM
6

Because they're obsessed with sex. Like fundamentalist Christians, they talk about it so much because they aren't having it. Normal people don't think about what fresh and fit, onlyfans, and the likes are doing to society. Their algorithms look completely different. Hell, my algorithm currently is just cruise ships since I'm looking to book one. It's curated to what you're obsessing over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:14 PM
15

"She has a specific way she likes it done." And your boss doesn't? My boss likes a PowerPoint to review before our major meetings. Imagine if I was to be like "well I prepare for meeting differently so I'm not going to do that"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:10 PM
5

Have you found your traditional wife yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:53 PM
7

I also want PTO, bonuses, and catered breakfast like I get at my real job.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:49 PM
13

It's mostly larping. They want a housewife but they don't even have a house. Like, good luck finding a woman who wants to live on one income in this economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:48 PM
8

I also don't "obey" my boss either. I can respectfully challenge them if there's a roadblock or a better way to do things. My boss hired me because they respect my ability to do my job well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:46 PM
42

Especially since it's true. These men somehow are able to follow instructions at work but don't have enough respect for their wives to load a dishwasher correctly or buy a Mother's Day card for their own moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:45 PM
0

I used a stay at home mom for my wedding signage. You could never get ahold of her and you could tell this was not her top priority. I do some graphics stuff to help my marketing team when they're busy and I was actually explaining stuff to her at one point. It cost and arm and a leg but that's what happens when you get married in north Florida the "mamas" corner the market. So next time I see someone's kids on a vendor website I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:41 PM
1

Thanks :) Like most things, it's about balance. I log off at 4 most days and use my weekends to do domestic stuff. Women don't have to be 100 percent domestic nor 100 percent workaholics. I actually pity the women in my office who still think putting in 100 hours is going to make them apart of the boys club.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:37 PM
1

Mental illness is genetic. You cannot good intentions your way out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:34 PM
4

I mean I make six figures, have a great husband and I'm up for promotion next year. The modern life has been nothing but fruitful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:30 PM
9

Yup. No one can take my education from me. I've seen women without one go from wealthy housewives to working in retail once their husbands want something bouncier.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:20 PM
4

Yes. I check all of those boxes minus the debt and life is good. I am laying off the sauce though partying got old.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:19 PM
3

Almost like it's the natural order of things. I grew up with a stay at home mom and all of my friends had those as well. Even then, they still called the shots although their husbands made millions of dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:17 PM
1

It's an argument against reproduction if you have mental illness in your bloodline.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:10 PM
1

Agree. I don't know the name of my 3rd great grandfather off the top of my head but his alcoholism sure has stuck around in our branches
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:37 PM
1

Well that's rude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:18 PM
1

I'm just trying to help but you don't sound interested
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:03 PM
1

Good
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:02 PM
1

Agreed. Leaders don't have to remind people they're in charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:42 AM
6

It's what happens when the only interaction with the other gender is through online mediums.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:33 AM
10

It's women he sees on podcasts. So...you know the type of guy...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:30 AM
1

Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:03 AM
16

Agreed. It indicates such a lack of discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:12 AM
-2

We're comfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:56 AM
1

They want our acknowledgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:59 PM
2

Oh I don't doubt that. You have to work with them, together, in a copacetic way. Most cluster b's and autisti don't do well in therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:58 PM
2

It's the same reason fascism runs rampant in these circles as well. The nefarious and colluding yet dumb and cumbersome "other" is the reason for their life struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:56 PM
1

Yes, you are so unique special a professional could not even begin to dive into the crevice that is your inner self
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:53 PM
1

So someone with your genetic makeup was able to reproduce. I love going on ancestry and seeing all of the people who come before me. Trust me, there's many uggos in there. They still made it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:41 PM
6

I dated many wealthy men in college. I set out with the goal of marrying rich. But I hated how they treated me. They treated me like an object. I married blue collar and I'm so happy. Not only do we have a very comfortable lifestyle (he owns his own business) but he treats me like a person. That's what matters to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:38 PM
1

Your parents found each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:34 PM
0

Yes, my strong interpersonal relationships fell randomly in my lap
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:38 PM
–

Rejection isn't something to fear. It's apart of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:12 PM
1

I really don't like the "internet is bad" pearl clutching but I am worried about what the heavier red pill content is doing to angry young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:10 PM
0

I'm someone another person wants to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:09 PM
2

Exactly. We are social beings. It's abnormal to "hold out" for a perfect person especially if your social group is coupling up. I lived with my husband's friends for a bit in college. Of course, they had a laundry list of what they wanted in a woman. I got to meet most of their gfs and hookups. Most of them maybe like met half of the criteria
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:08 PM
0

Same. You never see well adjusted people using self help
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:02 PM
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We've really done young people a disservice by not exposing them to rejection early on. Especially young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:40 PM
3

I'm in Boston! I love it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:29 PM
2

I've grown to dislike traveling as I've gotten older. It feels like escapism. I like different cultures and places but I no longer feel the urge to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:27 PM
1

200 bucks is a dent in your savings?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:25 PM
1

I cannot imagine hookers are that expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:18 PM
2

It's a largely contested branch of science. Many scientists see it akin to astrology.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:17 PM
0

I appreciate your self awareness. Most men on here are jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:59 PM
1

Manipulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:55 PM
3

If anything I'd love to see more "promotion parties" than go to another bachelorette 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:52 PM
1

I think it's interesting a largely irreligious group doesn't believe in evolution. The strongest genes are passed on. Weaker genes die out. This is the natural order of things. There's no need to swim upstream against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:51 PM
1

I'm actually pregnant :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:00 PM
1

Just like I don't say the names of school shooters, I don't interact with any hinting to or alluding with violence. The attention is what they're looking for. Have the day you deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:58 PM
1

Your post history would make Eliot Rogers blush
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:53 PM
1

I'm not following.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:52 PM
3

He told me the other day I wouldn't be able to defend myself so it sounds pretty indiscriminate. Terrorists, actually
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:05 PM
-1

I'm from the northeast I can say married if that's your preference lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:46 PM
-5

Everyone I'm around is happily partnered. I have one single friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:33 PM
6

They do. That's why they've halted our advancements. They need to be needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:22 PM
3

😴
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:19 PM
3

Men have never liked women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:15 PM
2

I'm confused, are the men and women not together?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:14 PM
3

That's a huge number
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:13 PM
3

Kind of icky tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:55 PM
9

If being dependent worked in our favor we would have never fought for the right to work
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:49 PM
2

I mean there's enough immigrants in my city so why waste the airfare? And honestly, the more of these women we can get married and off government assistance the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:45 PM
1

Y'all arent bored yet
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:33 PM
6

That's what I was thinking. You can tell that when they say they'll magically become established when they're in their 30s. The men I'm around have been groomed for success since they were school aged.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:30 PM
5

Strip clubs are for bachelor parties and lonely men. They're still lame. I went to one for my bachelorette and while the girls are hot, you can tell they're geeked out. I got a lap dance from one whose jaw kept clicking. The funniest part is we outspent the men two fold and took the strippers away from them for most of the night. They kept giving us dirty looks. Like aww I'm sorry, was this the only female touch you get?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:21 PM
2

It's a revenge fantasy. My mom is in her 50s. All of my husband's friends were talking about how good looking she still is at my wedding. Meanwhile if someone is a loser in their 20s, they'll probably be a loser in their 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:13 PM
13

I think it's interesting that we have this idea that women are naturally submissive yet we've needed religion and legislation to keep them in this position in most of history.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:09 PM
2

I personally would love everyone to start seeing us (women) as the sexual, carnal beings we are but that would require deep deconstruction in our evangelical society
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:55 PM
13

"Put Molly up in her champagne...she ain't even know it." -Rick Ross
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:37 PM
16

Right I'm curious what internet they're on. Every algorithm at this point is specifically tailored to your interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:35 PM
2

I'm more of a rad fem and I oppose all commodification of the female body (without shaming the sex worker)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:34 PM
3

Seeing how he treats people that can't do anything for him. He treats everyone with such a baseline level of respect and dignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:31 PM
1

Yup. I hate feeling like I'm wearing pjs in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:30 PM
13

Ah makes sense. Yup, I'm upper middle class so the traditional 2.5 kids thing hasn't really gone anywhere. It's more so people getting married on Fridays instead of Saturdays cause the economy is bad but the courting process is the same. The single men I know are actually panicking more than the women because once one guy in the group gets married they all do as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:26 PM
5

UMC?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:19 PM
34

Where are all of these childless and alone women? I'm in my late 20s so baby showers and weddings are a constant for me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:13 PM
5

I bought an OF from a tik toker I found hot and then was like..."god what loser pays for porn." And quickly canceled
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:06 PM
2

I'm married and still get shots ordered for me when I'm out with my friends. It never ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:51 AM
1

I agree. I definitely wouldn't be where I am in my career without my superpower. I've never not gotten the job after a job interview. But now that I'm comfortable and settled in my career I'm ready to fade into the background. Let the new girlies take over. I'm rooting for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:50 AM
2

Then I'm happy for you. May we all age with grace.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:37 AM
1

And that's valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:36 AM
1

Thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:35 AM
6

I once ignored a man cat calling me. He got out of his car and yelled at me from the sidewalk. I ran home.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:35 AM
2

We all will. If we are so lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:32 AM
1

So you're telling me I didn't actually shrivel up once I turned 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:00 AM
3

Same. I met my husband at a frat house. Obviously we grew up together. But if I had to date again now in my late 20s I would avoid men who partied all together.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:58 AM
1

Because in 7th grade they separated the boys and the girls and I was told I was a chewed up piece of gum if I had sex before marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:01 PM
1

At least the red pillers stand on business The black pillers are just mushy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:20 PM
1

Attractive woman here. It's about once a month. Ironically more since I got married; I've had men comment on my ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:15 PM
1

I agree. The idea of "choreplay" is good intentioned but still doesn't solve the root issue. We do chores to maintain a clean home. Notro be sexually rewarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:13 PM
6

I once ghosted a guy in college. He was nice enough, but I just couldn't do the dating thing and he was way too eager. We had only hooked up a few times. Anywho i went to a small school and we were in the same class the next semester. After the first class he wouldn't stop staring at me, his face was beat red and he was holding back tears. Then he mysteriously disappeared for a few weeks but he eventually came back. My point is, it's usually a one sided beef. Men really need to let the revenge f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:45 PM
3

I went to 6 weddings last summer. All of us are late 20s. It's very much still the norm and I live in a progressive area.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:48 PM
1

Most people are in consequential. Their lives have no meaning on this earth 2 or 3 generations down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:13 PM
1

Thinking that you have the qualification to determine what the future should look like is a delusion of grandeur
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:45 PM
1

One of the 7 billion people we already have
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:43 PM
1

Yup. Just as I wear a dress to my job I put on concealer over my pimples. It's professional and put together.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:19 PM
7

We're told to be feminine and men don't care about our achievements in work in school but somehow make up, one of the standards of being feminine, is now not attractive? I can't keep up 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:17 PM
2

I use foundation, concealer, bronzer, mascara. Some glitter eye shadow if I'm feeling frisky. None of that changes the way I look.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:15 PM
4

And it's so dishonest. None of the women in their browser history are bare faced.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:13 PM
1

Right. You can't speak to us with undertones of violence and then ask for our trust and attention. If there's an inherent threat of violence I will assume we'd start to look like countries where this is common place where we'd have male escorts. Arguably makes it harder to date...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:03 PM
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I'm Working full time and getting my MBA. I don't need a medal for my own life choices but some recognition like "wow it's hard to go to school and work full time" would be nice to hear every once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:59 AM
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I want attention to my achievements and my character. I yearn for that. I know I'm pretty. I've been pretty. It's old news.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:27 AM
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I can't wait to be invisible. To be able to go to the gym, the subway, the grocery store. It sounds like you get your life back.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:26 AM
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Can you double shun someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:56 AM
1

Well no, I save the pleasantry for my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:20 AM
3

Trust me I'm a big fan of us girlies getting together to lament I do not recommend giving most men attention
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:05 AM
3

Are men known for their listening skills? I don't think that was implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:00 AM
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I think people should complain if they feel like complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:56 AM
2

Yup. So unless he's talking about acts of terror which he vehemently denies I'm not worried. It's primal to protect your women and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:52 AM
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I'm from the south so when I think conservative I think conservative. All of the men I know like this married easily and young.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:40 AM
2

Yup. The best thing about my husband is his protectiveness. It's especially sexy since I'm pregnant. If they could maintain this frame into something more productive they'd have more success.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:25 AM
1

If you struggle with black and white thinking, yes I'll agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:08 AM
3

They're hot? We like causal sex too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:55 AM
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And since people aren't getting outside and talking to each other we have caricatures of what the other gender is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:49 AM
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I agree. So many times I've been bothered at the gym or getting groceries. Headphones in, mean mug, zero sign of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:36 AM
3

I haven't seen that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:09 AM
1

Whose they?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:37 PM
3

They couldn't even manage to win the midterms this year lol. I've had heavier Menzies than that red wave.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:32 PM
2

I think there's less shame. Female sexuality didn't come out of no where. Look at the Greeks and the Romans. But every decade we become less and less puritanical and science and technology have helped change our attitudes. Of course casual sex was common in the 90s. But you couldn't go to target and pick up a plan B OTC. Nor could you access a hookup in the palm of your hands and can be in and out. You used to have to go to bars and clubs and there's still stigma once you wake up in the morning …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:39 PM
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Yup. I agree, people are becoming more and more desperate. It's more important, now than ever, to know how to protect yourself physically as well as sexually and financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:29 PM
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I agree. It's a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:26 PM
1

I'm southern so I'm friendly and I talk to basically anyone. Most men see it as I'm interested. So now, I'm cold and I exaggerate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:07 PM
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Seriously, she knows he has a temper.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:02 PM
1

I'm married. I know first hand that every man has that under lying anger inside of them; something they've always used women to help regulate, as you said. From your cadence and the fact your account is only 11 days old, I doubt this is a something you care about passively.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:59 PM
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So what's your plan if you can't find a LTR? You're looking for one according to your history. Are you going to go to quietly into the night? End your family's legacy? If this is such a common phenomena, what would your plan be?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:52 PM
3

Was the French Revolution unorganized?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:47 PM
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In the western world we're only 185 years removed away from (legal) slavery. For most of our history that was legal as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:34 PM
4

Thank you. It's really concerning seeing threats of violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:59 PM
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Depending on how we define conservative but overall I Agree. And they usually do get the girl. I think the RP term is alpha fucks? But instead of being mad at biology they're mad that the cheerleader now has access to every quarterback in the tri state area due to technology.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:55 PM
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I agree. I lived with my husband and his guy friends in college and a period of time outside of college. If a guy wasn't apart of their group they were always on the offensive towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:52 PM
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Welp 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:19 PM
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I find most of these men to be non conservative. They're not mad women are having sex. They're mad it's not with them. The type of women that these men are interested in (think Instagram model, popular girl in high school) aren't even on conservative men's radar. Ironically they're the ones bagging the plain Jane's at church.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:14 PM
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I'm supportive of any group of people working towards their best interests. Best of luck to you guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:12 PM
3

Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:04 PM
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