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We all know that the group of men they wish to have conversations with is conversationally selfish, to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 03:02 AM
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Your opening was also risky, implying pretty girls don’t get math, I wouldn’t have gone by “hey you don’t fit the stereotype”.
/r/seduction11/05/22 10:09 PM
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It’s the vibe you excude. One example: yeah you have nice biceps but you don’t have a shirtless photo, you have a photo where your arms look good.
/r/seduction10/05/22 09:13 AM
138

1) get hot. 2) get charming.
/r/seduction10/05/22 08:59 AM
2

I know it is, I wasn’t in the convo to prove it’s not. That acting in love part made me respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:44 PM
3

You don’t claim it’s gonna be a fling unless she asks. You also don’t promise commitment. You be your charming and interesting self, you get laid. You ask her to become fwb. She says yes or no. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:35 AM
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https://youtu.be/fhL8rBt8Y1A
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:01 PM
0

Oh you are on the hook.
/r/seduction02/05/22 03:38 PM
1

You should have typed the title “being good at PIV sex..” to avoid people who value oral sex more than PIV sex. Now you have to deal with them..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:04 AM
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Hard truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 08:47 PM
9

It doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you. I love it when y’all mention love. This whole thing has nothing to do with that. You don’t do anal with a man because of love, you do it because he is able to trigger that level of enthusiasm in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 04:55 AM
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Being able to please the other gender without much effort :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:54 PM
1

Because they are easy to please and they don’t have options.
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:49 PM
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Disgusting lol
/r/seduction10/04/22 03:43 PM
1

Also women can fake attraction for the sake of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 06:54 PM
1

Men show their horniness because they damn well know there is a good chance they will be pleased. Women don’t show it because they don’t know if the guy can last long enough, has no erection problems, has an adequate dick, has a respecting attitude, knows how to fuck etc etc. Therefore they maximize only thing they can measure: looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:08 PM
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Men show their horniness because they damn well know there is a good chance they will be pleased. Women don’t show it because they don’t know if the guy can last long enough, has no erection problems, has an adequate dick, has a respecting attitude, knows how to fuck etc etc. Therefore they maximize only thing they can measure: looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:52 PM
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There is like 0 problem with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:40 PM
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And that doesn’t make them less horny. They can be very horny for small group of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:30 PM
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This is like chicken egg problem. I say the reason that they “appear” less horny is that it is harder to please them. I believe they are just as horny. From pure physical perspective, average woman can satisfy majority of men, definitely not vice versa. And the reason is not majority of women are not horny, they are just not horny for average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:29 PM
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Properly turned on women are capable of a lot of things you’d be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:21 PM
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The real reason is that on average it is wayyyy easier to sexually satisfy men than women. Amount of parameters that will lead to full satisfaction of women are a lot more than that of men’s. And that’s okay, it’s how the world turns.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:12 PM
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Were you born yesterday?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:47 PM
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Because sex is awesome, to some people. And by some I mean a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:47 AM
1

You gotta be hot first to get away with it.
/r/seduction28/03/22 06:20 AM
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It’s the lack of experience that fucks a man up usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 06:10 AM
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I’m a bit angry about the possibility of them getting commitment from a genuinely good dude to whom they are not really attracted to physically. Especially when the dude has no idea. That’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:45 AM
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There is no such thing lol your sample size is prolly too small
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 04:40 PM
1

No, it is because it is easier to please men than to please women in sex. Very simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:43 PM
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When she was calling me dude I was getting friendzone vibes too. Idk, I’d not chase excessively but I would not cut contact either if I was OP.
/r/seduction25/03/22 06:47 PM
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Well you say she is also flirting. Maybe it’s her style? There was a girl who was calling me dude but she was all over me.
/r/seduction25/03/22 04:30 PM
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When I was in your shoes, I learnt everything I could online (no not porn) and told the girl I was getting with that I was a little experienced, I was busy in school bla bla. It worked out fine.
/r/seduction23/03/22 06:26 AM
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1) get hotter 2) get interesting
/r/seduction20/03/22 10:38 PM
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There is also this: everybody is genius to explain why something failed.
/r/seduction19/03/22 03:31 PM
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How did you handle std talk? How often you got tested?
/r/seduction16/03/22 02:48 PM
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Ask these questions to women over 30 looking for the one. There are millions of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:30 PM
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They are just not into you enough to not requiring a dinner date. I took women for expensive dinners before but only the ones that showed genuine interest in the first place. You need to filter out better.
/r/seduction07/03/22 02:18 AM
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just know he will never gonna commit to you. idk if you would even want that. but he won’t. if that’s what you want you are wasting your time.
/r/seduction07/03/22 02:01 AM
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he is giving you boyfriend experience without commitment. probably because it’s fun. don’t overthink and don’t hope for more, enjoy it while it lasts.
/r/seduction07/03/22 01:55 AM
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“Top tier” is very welcome to try getting my girl. There won’t be an L in any result. Don’t be afraid of loneliness.
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:15 PM
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I’d like that!
/r/seduction06/03/22 03:32 AM
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we share the same hobbies lol and I agree never talk those with women you just met. Although you are not a natural funny dude, you can develop humor, you can structure your own educated opinions about anything. I’d say explore what our generation is talking about. Go on social media and become somewhat up to date with it. It’s a great source and you don’t have to engage other than reading. Be good with sarcasm. I’d say have a shortlist about extreme events, funny memories, unusual things you did…
/r/seduction06/03/22 02:58 AM
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Judging from how you describe yourself, I highly doubt you cannot convince someone for a date (I’d not doubt if you said you can’t convince someone to come over to fuck). However, okay, I believe you. Second thing after looks is how interesting/entertaining you are. What do you think of yourself in that department? Do you have friends that you can make laugh for example?
/r/seduction06/03/22 02:23 AM
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Use dating apps and/or try to socialize. Go on some dates. I’m sure you will find some dates. By time you will pick up what to do and what to not do.
/r/seduction06/03/22 01:53 AM
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dude you gotta try and find out. there will be pain but it will pass.
/r/seduction06/03/22 01:43 AM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:33 PM
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You gotta be hot first.
/r/seduction05/03/22 02:39 PM
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A ton of women dont mind that gap for hookups. The excitement and attraction matter more to some than orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:34 AM
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a ton of women would think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:33 AM
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No, the reason is it is much harder to sexually please women than men. Also the risk women take is bigger than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:53 PM
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The only concern is std.
/r/seduction28/02/22 05:18 PM
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Where the hell is that bar lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:53 PM
9

And prostitution doesn’t care about your looks. Tinder almost only cares about your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:42 PM
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Most women who met their LTR in the real world would not have swiped on them if they had an online dating profile And that’s disgusting. If I had a button that will let their men know this fact, I’d happily press that button.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:08 PM
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Yep. Accountability is a wild concept for attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:29 AM
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Well you are right. I don’t have anything to add. Being attractive and claiming to attract “wrong” type of men is bullshit. There are 2 possibilities: kind of men you are actually attracted to don’t wanna be the “right” guy for you (majority of the cases) you are genuinely attracted to “wrong” men and secretly enjoy that but it doesn’t get you anywhere (minority of the cases)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:19 AM
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Fuck red pill. Iont resent women. I’m pointing out a problem that replicated itself many times in all the relationship related subs of reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:41 PM
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Same girls wouldn’t want a partner that thinks like that ANYWAY, so I call your argument bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:29 PM
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Ahh i see.. denial
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:26 PM
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Based on a real problem of a lot of men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:15 PM
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It is horror for men that want to be thirsted after occasionally in their long term committed relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:56 PM
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Are you aware how many women plans what you did and fail horribly every year?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:34 PM
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Hookup material = he’s good looking Boyfriend material = he’s decent looking I just edited your post to show what actually matters. As long as women keep having different physical standards for each hookup-boyfriend-husband material, men will always have rightful doubts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:33 PM
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How did you convince him to commit to you seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:14 PM
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Then you are one of the few lucky women with a committed partner they badly desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:11 PM
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If you husband wanted to keep seeing you casually after the first date, would you be okay with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:07 PM
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Dont talk like you would do anal at a walmart parking lot during your lunch break in a 15 year old tinted car with that “someone” you just described.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:05 PM
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I’m so glad you exist. A ton of women does not think your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:35 AM
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It is because hinge is a relationship finder app. it’s their official mantra. Those great girls would probably swipe you left on tinder.
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:34 AM
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Nope, not the whole package most of the time. A ton of women actively settling for average (or slightly above) average face/body/dick because they need commitment more (usually after certain age).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:55 AM
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If she’s attracted enough to you to make you her boyfriend she’s attracted to you enough to have hooked up with you. Bullshit. A lot of women in relationships would not sleep with their boyfriends if boyfriend wanted sex without giving commitment. Ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:52 AM
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If they are already replaced, why the fuck are you making it your point partially? It’s not likely that govt will not demand tax from corps that will heavily employ robots. A lot of new regulations. And if that dystopian world ever even remotely happens, it won’t happen because of loser men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:46 AM
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The hard jobs men do will probably be replaced by technology. I honestly do not believe birth rates will reduce enough to disrupt economy. It will certainly reduce but it can be compensated by immigrants. Germany does that. They are just fine. It’s an idiotic reach to claim women raising standards will lead society to collapse. And I’d not worry, if a man really wants to marry, there will be a woman who will reduce her standards to be with him after certain age. And unlike men in this sub, that …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:22 AM
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So you really believe not getting laid will lead men to not work? Who is gonna pay the bills then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:40 PM
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Other men who are not too dramatic lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:54 PM
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Sksksksks dude there will not be a labor shortage because of single men. If you are too sad to work someone else will do it. This is what i meant by market will take care of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:55 PM
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None of these will happen for the depression of single men lol Market will find a way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:15 PM
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Do you even have a condom? Just go beat your meat and take an uncomfortable nap.
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:00 AM
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look for apartments or rooms. make an arrangement. sit her down and tell her you couldn’t forgive her and you don’t wanna live your life like this. you need to focus on yourself. pack your stuff and move out when the apartment/room is available. how doable does this sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:22 AM
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Or you can make an exit plan and bail.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:16 AM
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Worst part is he might be for real..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:53 PM
3

Well I won couple of times… great feeling to give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:48 PM
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Not if you win.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:44 PM
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Yeah I believe that as well. But it would hurt to reach there after months of trying if some other men reached there in first couple of times. If both parties are experienced, it shouldn’t take that long. If it does that probably means there is some stuff she actually desires that you do not have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:38 PM
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dude.. why are you doing this to yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:31 PM
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You are not with her, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:19 PM
4

Skskskks no no. Women are low value to me when they don’t care about sex much. And low value only in terms relationship partner, not in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:40 PM
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Hormonal changes over the years are nowhere near a dealbreaker. That’s unrealistic. And I agree pursuing each other is the best way to keep the fire going. I still think my vetting system is good avoid LVW in the first 6 months. I can also see how it can be modified/changed according to the match from what you have said so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:31 PM
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Ensuring being her best alone doesn’t do that. But setting high standards for me to become is a good start. Trying hard to get there and seeing no results will eliminate the bad women I mentioned above comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:16 PM
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Have you never heard of women settling for stability and security and stop caring about attractiveness or great sex? Those are the ones we wanna identify and avoid!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:10 PM
2

Or maybe you just never met that absolute beast in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:04 PM
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Your thinking kinda aligns with the phrase “women are not visually stimulated creatures, men are!”. And that phrase is definitely a product of patriarchy that wants to spare men’s feelings. And I see you picked dick size to talk about from the things i listed, probably because it is a hot topic here so I understand. However I am kinda on the same page with you about it. I believe there is a true preference range that varies from woman to woman, and it is not as cruel as men think here. However I…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:03 PM
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I 90% agree. I think with someone awesome it wouldn’t matter as long as she is enthusiastic about sex without faking. 10% I disagree. Because the source of enthusiasm is not clear all the time. It would be a dealbreaker if the enthusiasm is coming mostly from my personality and our connection, instead of personality, connection, physical attractiveness, skills, and dick size. Because if it’s only coming from personality and connection, there is no challenge to beat in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:50 PM
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Yeah I kinda forgot to tell. I assume the ideal partner would care to some extent about the stuff I prefer to be the best. If it’s the sex for example, it would be stupid to try to be a very low libido woman’s best sex ever. It’s not gonna help anyway. But it’s not stupid to try to be high libido woman’s best sex. Maximum happiness for her and me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:41 PM
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I am all in for communicating when the issue can be solved with it. You cant always communicate your way into being best at something. It is not realistic. And again, this shit isn’t important to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:35 PM
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Wait what the hell? There is no blaming. It’s not a woman’s fault that her man is not her best at something he cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:20 PM
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I am happy for you honestly. I sometimes feel I am cursed because I tasted being someone’s (experienced) best at couple of things I really care. I don’t think there is a come back from that. It was just too good of a feeling to settle for less. Maybe when I am 55 or something I might change my mind. 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:05 PM
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Absolutely! But we all know majority of them won’t. Because, you know, they don’t wanna be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:00 PM
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Yeah that’s the point. Unless you genuinely stop caring about what made that woman the best, not out of desperation to be with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:56 PM
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Okay so your point is basing everything on if it matters to women or not? What about what matters to men? What is inherently wrong about not giving huge commitment to women whose best X is not from me?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:55 PM
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I just lose some motivation to commit (not love) when she doesn’t show any sign that I am her best at X. If she gives unapologetic vibes (which I’d love), there is room for asking. Otherwise, that’s trouble. I also go for women who can do words of affirmation which also increases the chance to get reassurance without asking. And I don’t need commitment to be happy at all. So it gotta worth it when I commit, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:27 PM
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I agree about the requirements you said and all of them is easy except being (and staying) fit. I can add these: don’t ejaculate early, if you do be ready again before the woman loses her mood keep the dick hard as long as needed be able to thrust in different positions without getting out of breath for as long as needed (being fit isn’t equal to great physical stamina unfortunately, cardio is different than lifting and eating good) adjust the thrusting angle to g spot (a and p if you can reach)…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:21 PM
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I agree the evidence is hard to find and if you ask you might not get an honest answer because, you know, people lie. That’s the tricky part. I got lucky in 2 times I committed to someone where they gave the reassurance without asking. And that kind of set a high standard for me. My thinking is that I am really good at X and Y that I care to be the best for the person I wanna end up with. And love is not everything needed to be happy. It is necessary, but so are protected standards and boundarie…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:11 PM
0

It is kinda hard to be good because there are multiple factors directly up to man. But yeah with attention and experience, being good is not surprising. Being best on the other hand…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:32 PM
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I think the same and I don’t give a fuck about the opportunity cost. 2 times in my life I enjoyed committing greatly, both of the women were all over me and described me as best at certain things I care. Not a coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:26 PM
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Not best in every category, just a couple of things we deeply care. What they are depends on the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:20 PM
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ahahaha what makes you think “getting picked” is the ultimate greatest reward? we are not desperate to be with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:08 PM
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Number doesnt matter. A good hoe phase is the one you finish without any std. and absolutely no hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:13 PM
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It should be. People should just be more careful. No need to bother law.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:21 PM
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It is a legal scam. Just like lying for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:51 PM
0

Because there are better options to be enthusiastic about :(
/r/seduction09/02/22 04:35 PM
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lol I think any trad man you date would love this about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:29 AM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:47 AM
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How? How are they benefiting from them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:55 AM
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Very stupid argument. You think people who traumatized from past use it for their benefit? You think they wouldn’t make it matter if it was up to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:35 PM
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Intersection of these two group of men isn’t as big as you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:35 PM
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🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:27 PM
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Yeah that makes sense too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:34 PM
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I would say female RMV = SMV + personality + emotional intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:04 PM
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Wouldn’t be okay to judge someone for the teenage years. I was hardcore neoliberal, disgusting. I understand fear lobe and lower libido. Why do you think obligations affect your decision to sleep with someone out of pure attraction and without effort/commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:14 AM
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Skskskks i don’t worry for myself. I have committed to 2 damaged women when i was inexperienced, it was a nightmare. So my radar is good. I like that you required everyone to show effort before sleeping with them. No issues there. I was questioning you about the showing attraction part, because i got curious. but i know there is a lot of “not desperate” and “not damaged” women who know how to show attraction before having sex (unlike you?), so really noone in this thread needs to worry about tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:46 AM
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I hope so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:35 AM
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You sound traumatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:20 AM
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For the last 2-3 comments i was talking about how you are showing your attraction. Not about sex timeframe at all. I think you got that wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:49 PM
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That’s good. And also, why would it be leading on if you are actually interested in the guy? Like.. that’s the point. You are interested and you are showing that before sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:42 PM
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Amount of men who would accuse you of those is like.. 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:29 PM
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I was expecting “being touchy, some compliments here and there, initiating kisses…” but wow just because you say yes you are thinking you are showing attraction? i know you don’t care about them but i really wish patience and wisdom to the men you will date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:37 PM
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How do you show your attraction to someone you are dating then?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:30 PM
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That’s great. But again, when meeting someone new and when they are making me wait for sex, there is no way to know if they always acted this way or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:12 PM
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Did you make everyone show effort? There is no way to be sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:45 PM
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I see. Respond to 1st paragraph: of course FDS shouldn’t include “how to please a man” section, sorry i should have worded better. basically what made me point that out was the amount of posts/comments i see about encouraging NOT pleasing men (no compliments because he might get the wrong idea, lack of physical touch, text less, talk less). After all that i cannot imagine dating with an FDSer AND being sure how much attraction she feels, how much she is into me etc. There is no way because it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:56 PM
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I know you don’t need any praise, but i just wanna say congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:23 AM
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Why do you assume FDSers need instruction in that area? In this sub we can criticise FDS, and i wanted to criticise it. Also i like discussions. You are welcome to ignore. Why should women focus on what pleases men instead of ourselves? No women should care about what pleases “men” in general, only the men that fits their standards AND they are willing to mate with (assuming said man is already interested). If FDS will not gonna put much thought on this side of dating, it might as well become a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:06 PM
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You know that you do not have to meet those demands right? You are nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:37 PM
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I don’t see FDS manipulative. They are trying to protect themselves from getting traumatized (again). Are there any overreaction examples? Yeah, but still. It makes sense to me. Having high standards are also totally fine. They seem to think they will be happily alone if they can’t find a mate. Which is great. I believe every woman should read the handbook and take whatever that will make them less tolerant to bullshit men pull. My only problem with FDS is that FDSers don’t seem to have any care…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:04 PM
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Same to bodies, not same to mind. Hookup sex and relationship sex have different effect mentally IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:09 PM
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Why would anyone NOT agree with this lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:58 PM
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