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| 0 | The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back.Men just ain't even trying to get it, Lol!!! Telling a women that she is pretty is basically telling a women you only value her for a cheap fuck. But go ahead and tell her she is ugly. Maybe by the time you get to 2nd grade, you'll figure it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 09:08 PM |
| 0 | The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back.Unfortunately the only women that will go through that are women THAT ALSO DO NOT DESERVED TO BE INSULTED BY MEN; despite all these skitted podcast where men pretend like they reject pretty women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 09:04 PM |
| 3 | Men who cannot handle rejection from women, and women who cannot handle judgement from men, would do best to avoid pursuing relationships until they can.I think people are already avoiding relationships. Most men here that complain about women have never really talked to a woman. They've only read statistics or hear things through the grapevine. Women pretty much ignore men's judgements; especially men that don't plan to date them in the 1st place. For many it's not even a choice to date because many women are "post wall" and allegedly undatable to these men and many men are not reliable enough for most women to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 08:30 AM |
| – | "But I know so many ugly guys who are married !"Ultimate, a women is wrong because when men say pick better, they mean pick me. But a women needs to know a man exist before she is able to pick a man. So I guess the ultimate problem is how does a woman pick "me" when "me" is hiding someplace?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 06:36 PM |
| – | "But I know so many ugly guys who are married !"We already know you aren't responsible. You're are not in society enough to blame anything on you. women can't be bitter about men that hide themselves away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 06:31 PM |
| – | "But I know so many ugly guys who are married !"Women reduce it to "getting your dick wet" because no one is crying about soul crushing loneliness for the rest of their lives. Many of you are mad because a woman MAY HAVE GOTTEN 5 MORE HORRIFIC SEXUAL PARTNERS THAN YOU WITHOUT WORKING FOR IT. Ah, trust me, those women got exactly what they paid for; NOTHING!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 06:29 PM |
| – | "But I know so many ugly guys who are married !"How dare a bitch have the possibility to have 100 bad sexual partners over you, Lol!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 06:23 PM |
| – | "But I know so many ugly guys who are married !"Younger guys can't be dropping out of the game if they are not playing in the 1st place. The are not being missed. THE ONLY MEN THAT ARE BEING MISSED BY THESE WOMEN are the men that used to offer resources to the wrong women. Men that were always scared of women were never in the competition. And as far as monkeys go: One monkey, don't stop no show. If you don't want my love, you're free to fucking go. And that song was from the 50's!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?I wonder what power women have over other women to keep that woman from sexing you? Do women have nothing better to do than to pussy block other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 09:26 PM |
| 0 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseA good relationship is the ideal social setting. The reason why so many women stay in bad relationships is because a relationship is preferred over being single. It takes a lot of training (and antidepressants) for women to LEARN TO BE HAPPY SINGLE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 03:25 AM |
| 9 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseNo one is being tricked, Lol! Most women, as dumb as we are supposed to be, know how to read through the lines. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 03:16 AM |
| 1 | People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affectionBTW, men's sexual peak is late teens to mid 20s. Female's sexual peak is after 30. So just because her beauty peaks at 25, sex is not the most important thing to her unless she is getting married. Dating for most women at 25 is to gain life experiences. That why she dates hypergamously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 07:41 PM |
| 0 | People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affectionI'm thinking all of them damn toys his parent spoiled him with got him fucked up about finding a pristine virgin woman just to put her in the fuck buddy zone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 07:31 PM |
| 2 | People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affectionI think the majority of redditor in this sub only live their lives through other reddit subs. I mean, who tf goes to a tall men reddit sub to find out who tall men are dating, Lol!! You couldn't find a nightclub or bar to go to?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 07:23 PM |
| 3 | People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affectionThere is a thing called competition. Some people use sex as a sport. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 07:16 PM |
| 2 | People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affectionI don't understand how controlling other people's behavior is going to make your life any easier. You need to change your behavior and way of thinking. If you think you're a woman is going to find you in you mom's basement, then you are sorely mistaken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 07:08 PM |
| 8 | People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affectionThis is the only thing I feel bad about the kids here. I can't be bothered with whatever sexual problems they have. As a child back in the early 70's many of us were latch key kids. Many of us had 2 working parents that kept us locked outside of the house until they got home. We were FORCED to socialize no matter what our circumstances were. As long as it too easy to fuck someone without barely having to talk to the person, you are shit out of luck!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 06:51 PM |
| 1 | People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affectionMy sister spent 22 years in the Army and got married in her early 40's for the 1st time with all her masculine glory, lol! My mother is 82 with a boy toy. So, you always should have hope. But like me, it's hard to have hope when no one in coming into your life except for people that pretend to have a stable life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 06:41 PM |
| 2 | People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affectionLol!! everything in this sub is just a big whine about how a subset of men is not having casual sex and women are supposed to sympathize and feel sorry for them regardless of what women are going through. This should be this sub's mission statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 06:36 PM |
| 1 | People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affectionMost people that want sex in their prime will get sex in their prime. It may not and most times will not be THE BEST SEX YOU EVER HAD. But if you want sex bad enough, it can be had. And trust that bad sex IN YOUR PRIME IS MORE WASTEFUL IN YOUR PRIME THAN NOT HAVING SEX AT ALL! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 06:31 PM |
| 1 | People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affectionAh! I know plenty of people that never had a prime. My mother was married at 17; married again at 42 and now at 81 has a boy toy that treat her well. The only PRIME you need is a good heart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 06:25 PM |
| 2 | People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affectionYou still are only referring to 20% of the female population with that kind of privileged. The rest of us have to fight over men that are in the same situation as men. It's basically DOG EAT DOG for both genders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 06:22 PM |
| 1 | People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affectionI think women understand men PERFECTLY. The problem is, if the man is not THEIR man, and if these incel men, for lack of a better term, refuse to date incel women, then women have better things to do. The only world I live in is the REAL WORLD WHERE RENT NEEDS TO BE PAID. And I'm the only one paying it!! It's not women's "denial" you need to worry about. 80% of women are in survival mode and don't have time to worry about MEN THAT DO NOTHING FOR THEM!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Men aren’t inherently more desperate for relationships than women are, just more disadvantaged.Good Lord. You sound like me when I was in high school. I didn't do well in school because I had no friends. I remember times in E school where it seemed like all these psychological games were played with the students to see which student were allowed to be part of the group. Eventually, the less desirable children were always kicked out the main group of popular kids. These outcasts or were completely isolated, or forced to befriend each other if they wanted any friendships at all. I ultimatel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 03:36 AM |
| 17 | Men aren’t inherently more desperate for relationships than women are, just more disadvantaged.They just figure women are fucking everybody else except them. Naw ninja! we're not fucking anybody we don't want to especially you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 02:53 AM |
| 6 | Men aren’t inherently more desperate for relationships than women are, just more disadvantaged.I don't care how handsome a man is. If he doesn't wash his ass, I'm not trying to fuck him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges.Exactly, if men are not offering relationships, women are not choosing them. Woman can get good sex from a Chad as long as she understands Chad's purpose in life. Average men are not offering average women shit!! No good relationships; definitely no good sex; no good personality; not one muthafucking thing of value!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges.As an ugly woman, All I can say is SO! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 08:46 PM |
| 0 | Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges.Yes, younger women have it easier in the dating market; however, once they fuck up and no one wants them, not even incels, those women are not even over here declaring that the incels were right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 08:44 PM |
| 0 | Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges.I would give men like you my sympathy; IF IT ACTUALLY MEANT ANYTHING TO YOU!!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges.Wanting equality has nothing to do with not enough women fucking men for free!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 08:09 PM |
| -2 | Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges.Just because any married, std infected, porn/alcoholic/addicted men are free to contact anyone does not mean that women have it easy. Do men think it's a boost to women's self-esteem that randos contact us for free fucking, Lol!!! It was never part of my bucket list? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 08:05 PM |
| 0 | Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges.What good would it do a woman? What is the benefit to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 07:51 PM |
| 0 | Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges.Unfortunately, I'm too goddamn ugly for you to benefit a recognition of "men have it harder". For god sakes beautiful women, lie to these men already!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 07:50 PM |
| -1 | Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges.The only debate I ever see on here is "when will a perfect 10 model fuck me for me, with no strings attached when even the average women WOULD NOT FUCK ME FOR ME! If there was any real debate on here, all the Pickmes would be here boosting a lot of fracture egos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 07:46 PM |
| 0 | Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges.That's because all other women are too busy trying to get next month's rent paid. If women don't have dicks paying their bills, they DO NOT HAVE TIME TO FIND A DICK THAT REFUSES TO PAY HER BILLS. If men are not providing any security for a woman, she got to find another source of security. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges.And once that happens, then what? I think 95% of women already know. That's why women have given up on men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges.I can acknowledge that men's insecurities hurt women in the long run when it comes to dating. But many women's lives are already fucked up because of men's insecurities and women are turning to other alternatives of surviving when men are no longer or never was an option to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges.It would only feel nice if women did have it easier. If women are not acknowledging the plight of said men, then they are not having an easier life. They are trying to figure out how rent is getting paid next and not depending on a man that won't help because he's scared of financial rape. Pretty women don't give a damn, and they especially don't give a fuck, literally!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 07:21 PM |
| 0 | Modern society won’t admit that dating is harder for the average man than average woman, because it pushes a narrative that men don’t experience disadvantages, or women have privileges.Until average men admit that they are dating out of the same league as average women and they don't want those average women; then in the words of Lil John If they don't give a damn then we don't give a fuck. Class dismiss!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Why are Men are obligated to pay but women are not obligated todo anything?These men here may as well write a book called 1001 ways we thought we would get free sex, but didn't. Lol!! For the 874571st Umpteenth time. The only way that anyone is getting free sex is IFFFFFFFFFF they are paying for it; be it man or woman, and no one is getting a good deal for their money!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 05:12 PM |
| -1 | Men in college and early 20s should focus more on getting really good at sex than being a good relationship material to have more dating success and even relationship success a bit.All the "Text Buddies" I've attempted to be "buddy's" with can get past good morning or goodnight. Eventually, one has better things to do than say good morning and good night every goddamn day without any REAL conversation. Only ROMANCE SCAMMERS know the art of texting sweet nothing until they start asking for money. I used to even enjoy talking to these scammers until money comes onto the scene. Eventually this becomes too immoral and I kick er'body to the curb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 06:58 PM |
| 0 | Men in college and early 20s should focus more on getting really good at sex than being a good relationship material to have more dating success and even relationship success a bit.I mean one may occasionally find a Unicorn as a one night sex partner, but it is totally not the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 06:49 PM |
| 14 | Men in college and early 20s should focus more on getting really good at sex than being a good relationship material to have more dating success and even relationship success a bit.Exactly, why does one need to be good at sex just so one can do hookups better. Most women prefer relationships over hookups and men learn to be good at sex when they are actually into their partner. Ultimately if men insist on having hookups only, go to a ho already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Holding women back and beating them down, won't do anything to calm down hypergamyThe only men that don't care about a woman's career outside of male gold diggers want a professional slave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 04:33 AM |
| 0 | Holding women back and beating them down, won't do anything to calm down hypergamyYou would think Psychology would be a good major since people no longer have decent friends and need to pay to have a friend. Psychiatry would have been a better option as women prefer antidepressant over most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 04:31 AM |
| 0 | Holding women back and beating them down, won't do anything to calm down hypergamyI agree that most women DO NOT HAVE A CLUE that their college degree is fucking useless, and many don't even know what a successful salary is. Many don't find out how hard life is until they start having children OOW. Then of course it's too late cause decent men don't trust or want them; and these women only see men as an extra paycheck because HE REFUSES TO CHECK HER WHEN SHE IS ABUSIVE. Then they are women that KNOW THEIR SEXUAL VALUE IS WORTHLESS and chose college over men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 04:28 AM |
| 3 | Holding women back and beating them down, won't do anything to calm down hypergamyThe majority of men that approach women are toxic. The majority of incel that approach beautiful women are also toxic. You would think a decent man would approach average women to at least build up some kind of self-esteem. Yet y'all go the professional sugar babies (ho's) and expect to get a good outcome. And I'm not talking about approaching women for sex. I mean approaching women and treating them like human beings' worthy of conversation. Before the internet PEOPLE HAD TO TALK TO EACH OTHER.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Holding women back and beating them down, won't do anything to calm down hypergamyUltimately men are mad because they can't get free sex from beautiful woman. Women only get MORE SEX THAN MEN BECAUSE MOST TIMES SHE IS PAYING FOR IT ONE WAY OR ANOTHER. Be it supporting broke men; allowing men to baby trap them or any other thing they do to pay for a man's "love". NO ONE IS GETTING SHIT FOR FREE; except for women that can a will use many men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Holding women back and beating them down, won't do anything to calm down hypergamyThere really aren't enough men that can provide for a woman whether these men are fun or not because most men are DOING THE SAME THING THEY ACCUSE WOMEN OF; CHASING THE TOP 1%. I want a man, but the only way I can get a man is to lower my standards. Hypergamy for most women is wanting men that will treat us the best that he can regardless of his income. Most women are not balling either. I'm lucky if I can have a vacation once a year. It's more like once every 4 years and only if my parents/sibl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.Once women are old, fat, fugly, post wall, useless after 25, single with 50 cats, childless by choice, hypergamous after cock carouselling and the million of other insults men passionately use against women, and you wonder why women don't approach men, Lol!! It's called maintaining our sanity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.Perhaps women have the same answer when it comes to approaching men because there are no pros to approaching men. If I approach a man, I have to make sure he has a job a place to live and not use me as captain save a hobo. I got to hide my money, my car, my salary, not because I'm balling, but because I have to keep a mofo from breaking me to his pleasure of course. It's not about being a coward when you don't chase after men. It's about not being a muthafukin fool when the man turns out to be j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.Yes, to what? Bad sex. Women don not have it in their minds that random men they run into offer good sex. Men already complain that women are only attracted to only the top 1% of men. Well, they are only sexually attracted to the top 1% of that 1%. If casual sex was any good, you would think women would prefer that over having men pay all their bills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Men are delusional about how many bad men are out thereGood looking women may choose wrong based on the vast amount of men that chase after them. The average women have very few men that will chase after them, since 90% of average men are too busy licking their wounds chasing after to few women they chase out of their league. Average women are more than likely to resort to dating bad men because bad men will chase anybody that will have them while average men and women chase no one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 12:09 AM |
| – | Most dating advice from women here comes from a point of extreme ignoranceI actually agree with this. The problem the majority of these men may not have the personality to take any red pill advice, or they see it as immoral. I see this advice as more like BDSM roleplay. A real red pill person may be dangerous outside of BDSM roleplay. But a Beta or Signa, I guess that's the politically correct term for incel, might gain confidence using dominant or alpha roleplay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 01:01 AM |
| 1 | "Women want to be loved not lusted over" yet they keep pitching out for the top % of menI'm hoping to find my dream incel!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 06:33 AM |
| 0 | "Women want to be loved not lusted over" yet they keep pitching out for the top % of menAs a Baby Boomer, I have ZERO problems in marrying an ugly guy that can fuck me like a Chad! It's all about the enthusiasm for me.!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 06:30 AM |
| 1 | "Women want to be loved not lusted over" yet they keep pitching out for the top % of menI'm not suggesting that women should give ugly dude chances. I'm suggesting that the men in this forum have no concept of what women believe an ugly man looks like. The men that they consider ugly may be a prize to many women. If they only had sense enough to know, Lol!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 06:13 AM |
| 1 | "Women want to be loved not lusted over" yet they keep pitching out for the top % of menI'm sorry but unless he portrays himself as a wannabe gang banger, he's not considered a top attractive man! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 06:04 AM |
| 1 | "Women want to be loved not lusted over" yet they keep pitching out for the top % of menI'm not sure about the largely female audience. You can only watch a mediocre dick being sucked a certain amount of time (once) before a woman starts to get bored. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 06:01 AM |
| 1 | "Women want to be loved not lusted over" yet they keep pitching out for the top % of menEven at my big age, I would only have kinky sex with a man. He doesn't have to have a hot toned body; he just needs to know what pleases a woman. For me it's dominance. Just because I haven't had sex for several years doesn't mean I desire a man that thinks even missionary sex is a cardinal sin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 05:58 AM |
| 8 | Women not being able to get and stay in good-quality relationships is embarrassingGee! I've been going after men all wrong. I guess I better start looking for mean mugging me, that will break my jaw on the 1st date. My Bad!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 05:04 AM |
| 1 | I’m convinced that the only reason men want women to be more involved with fixing the “male loneliness epidemic” is because they genuinely do not care about one another’s problems. Thoughts?And not just wanting to have casual sex but have it with top-tier women. Men try to pretend that women don't know what their ulterior motives are and then wonder why WOMEN DO NOT CARE! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 05:13 AM |
| 0 | What's the reason behind this wave of extreme hatred against men on social media by feminists and women in general?Yes, many of us "dream" of (key word being dream.) being with a man with money and status. But at the end of the day, average and below average people marry each other. Men here will say that people settle for each other and then get mad because it's not true love. That's not good enough for men that get no one, Lol!! At this point, I would settle for an arranged marriage or even polygamy if I can make it work with my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 04:40 AM |
| -2 | What's the reason behind this wave of extreme hatred against men on social media by feminists and women in general?There is really nothing to debate about. Women chasing the top men are mainly top women. The only real hypergamous women that are not at the top are single mothers that would have been top if they didn't have kids with Chad. Y'all don't want them. All other women to y'all are untouchables. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 04:28 AM |
| 1 | What's the reason behind this wave of extreme hatred against men on social media by feminists and women in general?For the most part, I'm fine. I can't hate normal people for being normal. Normal people have normal lives and do not have time to worry about people that have "issues". I can admit to being lonely and hating men for being idiots about their real issues, but I also accept my fate in life. Only men of the criminal element, married men or hobosexuals come for me. I cannot lower my standards for these men, no matter how men here think women are constantly turning down good but ugly/average men. Even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 04:03 AM |
| 1 | What's the reason behind this wave of extreme hatred against men on social media by feminists and women in general?Although I believe that most women do not have any real reason to hate men; outside of men insisting that women that don't like them, love them, I also don't believe that there is any reason to have a debate about men specific problems with women. If a woman is already not what a man wants, then debating his specific issues is not going to change anything. Case in point I've seen a man turn a skinny woman down because she used to be fat. Even though she did lose the weight, he still accuses her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 03:50 AM |
| 0 | The real world treats men in their 20's - 30's onwards who are virgins as failures."The real world" has better things to do. Survival of the fittest. Nobody has time to worry about anyone else but themselves and their loved ones if they can get love ones. If you're not caring about yourself, don't expect anyone else to. All of us have lives to live and bills to pay. Outside of that is luxury thinking!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 07:31 PM |
| – | It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault.It's whinny because average or ugly women are not supposed to whine about what they can't get. Male response is; "It is what it is! you just got to deal with it". Or "women still get attention, no matter how ugly she is". By all means I can send any hobosexual that comes my way to you. You clearly need your dick sucked more than I need bad dick!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 08:06 PM |
| 1 | It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault.It gets to the point that women lived their whole life dodging shitty men; yet the "Not All" men never even defend themselves beside saying "Not all men". Dismissing what women have gone through with men does not make your case of "Not All Men" when you never even approached women. And don't blame women when she tells you from jump she not interested. Move the fuck on!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 07:56 PM |
| 2 | It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault.I blame a lot of men. There are men that I meet in daily life that are good; but their good does not translate to caring about women. They may not be in a position to care which is another problem; women meet men they could be attracted to , but they're taken. Many women may make the mistake of getting involved with these taken men and then blame the man for the woman;s bad behavior. The problem with "NOT ALL MEN" is that the those men are not part of society at all and women don't know they exi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 07:49 PM |
| 1 | It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault.Feminism basically caters to female leaders that have no hope of EVER getting a good man. It not about not needing a man or purposely being a masculine signa female; it totally about being in extreme survival mode. I'm not going to die or kill myself because a man will never love me. If an AN INSIDE AND OUT UGLY MAN will rather sit in his mom's basement, wallow in his misery and can't even work with a women to fix whatever issues he needs her to fix. Then you are utterly useless to ALL OF SOCIET… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 07:11 PM |
| 3 | It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault.If men really knew what women WERE really liked Men sexuality WOULD NOT BE BAD! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 06:51 PM |
| – | The idea that women don't enjoy sex, comes from male sexuality being demonize in society.The only time when women do not enjoy sex is when she knows the man requesting sex from her is only booty calling. Hell, they can't even get it up for more than a minute and it embarrassing for everyone involved in the process. I will NEVER HAVE CASUAL SEX AGAIN!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.Men expect us to be FREE FULLTIME LABOR for them, but can't even offer us the basic substandard security without calling us gold diggers. I have lived most of my life like a man. I can't afford the gold digging pussified men and the abuse they will place on us for being pussified. If I was going to ever pay for "services" from a man, I will shoot for the best option my money can buy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 07:39 PM |
| 2 | If a vast majority of men got laid easily, the United States would be a quasi socialist country right nowIt's too bad that apparently "ALL THE GOOD WOMEN OFFERING SEX ARE TAKEN"; even all the good women that if they were offering sex, no one is willing to invest in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 03:35 AM |
| -2 | Why do some women say its the guy’s fault for being single?You know every IT company I ever dealt with at work had more women not necessarily running the company but was the voice of the company. Most men I deal with in IT can barely explain to concepts of their business. But by the time a woman explains the concepts, I can come work for that company. If these women are not getting paid for their thorough explanations of their databases and systems, they need to find a better job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 07:10 PM |
| 0 | Why do some women say its the guy’s fault for being single?Women that chose to remain single spend most of their time bridging the wage gap. Basically she spends most of her time working DOUBLE TO MAKE OF UP THE WAGE GAP TO REPLACE A USELESS HUSBAND. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 07:04 PM |
| 5 | Why do some women say its the guy’s fault for being single?They may be "gifted" women, (More like "gifted" a beautiful slave.) But it's not like these women are happy in such unions. Most of these women have side pieces themselves or are subject to being killed. Don't get it twisted, Lol!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Why do some women say its the guy’s fault for being single?I'm a very shy woman. I take the initiative to contact a man first, not in any sexual manner but in a way to make my interest known. I'm not going to be some man's easy lay! If a guy is too shy to act upon my interest, or can't even tell that I have an interest, then I CAN'T DO ANYTHING ELSE WITH HIM. He is either not interested or has something else going on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 06:40 PM |
| – | "Women are not a monolith" but the Tea App is #1 at the Apple storeI don't think you have done any research at all. I haven't been to the app, but I already know the purpose of a Chad. Chads are not about looks; it's about being alpha. A 300-pound man can have several 300-pound women in rotation and be a Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 05:33 PM |
| – | "Women are not a monolith" but the Tea App is #1 at the Apple storeYou only want women to take the initiative is so YOU can be the manipulative/abusive asshole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 05:25 PM |
| – | "Women are not a monolith" but the Tea App is #1 at the Apple storeYou mean the perfectly normal men no women know exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 05:21 PM |
| – | "Women are not a monolith" but the Tea App is #1 at the Apple storeThe police only do anything AFTER A WOMAN SUFFERS SOME PHYSICAL ABUSE. Apparently psychological abuse is not a crime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 05:19 PM |
| – | "Women are not a monolith" but the Tea App is #1 at the Apple storeYou think it's easy for women to call the mostly male police when a date she thought was safe has her in a kidnapping situation?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 05:18 PM |
| – | "Women are not a monolith" but the Tea App is #1 at the Apple storeThe app has already been breached or hacked. Now many of these women lives are allegedly in danger of being killed by serial murderers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 05:08 PM |
| – | "Women are not a monolith" but the Tea App is #1 at the Apple storeIt was never about handsome men. It's always been about alpha males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 05:04 PM |
| – | "Women are not a monolith" but the Tea App is #1 at the Apple storeI thought the tea app is an app that exposes men with bad dating behaviors. You would think incels would be grateful, but ultimately, unless an incel grows some balls, the only thing that app does is make it easier for women to choose and accept their singledom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 05:02 PM |
| – | "Women are not a monolith" but the Tea App is #1 at the Apple storeEven if women are sharing men; it does not mean WOMEN KNOW they are sharing those men. Most women only talk to men that are NOT SCARED to talk to women. Women can probably assume these men that come to them have multiple options. But if all other men are too scared to talk to women, women don't know these invisible men exist or if these men are even capable of sustaining a relationship with women. Women are certainly not trying to fuck invisible men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Women don't approach men because of other women.Yeah! that too, Lol! There is really no benefit in women chasing men AT ALL; especially if they are passive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Women don't approach men because of other women.This analysis is VERY TRUE. In the office, I will see men line up and bring gifts to the lovely single naive young mother that has no interest in these men when I'm single, no children, older and no guy even looks my way; UNLESS, he's broke and spends an hour talking to me about the job he used to have 5 years ago in the hopes that I will take him in as a hobosexual. Then he will drain my bank account to get in line to give gifts the the cute little single mother that already had a man taking ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 12:24 AM |
| 1 | We should start sexualizing menThis is exactly the answer. If I were to invite sexual attention; I would let my titties hang out in public. If men want sexualization, maybe they should put a sausage near their penis, Lol!! You can just mean mug a woman and expect her to get horny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 06:59 PM |
| 3 | We should start sexualizing menMaybe these men should get a job at like an Amazon warehouse, Lol! As a middle aged women working there once, my jaw dropped as I watch younger women whose men were in the military hit on men ALL DAY, EVERYDAY; and every last man was scared shitless to say ANYTHING to these women. It was both funny and shocking at the same time being an old school person, Lol!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 06:55 PM |
| 1 | We should start sexualizing menMost attractive women already have men in their lives. Women are not going to "Stir a Pot" that's going to get her in trouble. I may sexualize an average man that I have a rapport with. But if most men are not willing to have a rapport with average, fat and ugly women, don't expect any women not already taken to give you the time of day!! I mean, you reap what you sow!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 06:37 PM |
| 4 | Men obsess over achieving a variety of women, to their own detrimentWhenever I cheated, it was to end the relationship. If I really loved a guy, I would never cheat, or at least never gotten caught. But first and foremost, I would never cheat UNLESS THAT MOFO CHEATED 1ST. Love really has nothing to do with it. If a mofo can cheat, but still say they love me, I can cheat, and realize my love means absolutely nothing to a mofo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 11:55 PM |
| 6 | We should start sexualizing menMen that women want are already sexualized. Not that I would personally sexualize most men, but men to actually be sexy in order to be sexualized. And I'm not going to sexualize men that really have no interest in me, no matter how handsome they are. I have role played flirting with younger men, but they had the game capacity to be sexualized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 12:30 AM |
| 6 | Decentering men, the 4B Movement, MGTOW & "monk mode" are all just copes for men and women who are sexually unsuccessful or failed at dating.The problem with anger is that it seeps into all aspect of life. You can lose jobs and promotions by unconsciously spreading anger in your words, and your mannerism. You also can't take your anger out on women you do in end up fucking. But I seriously doubt any women will ever participate in any anger fucks. But you do you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 05:19 PM |
| – | This Sub is an Echo-Chamber, That Doesn’t Advance Anyone.In order to talk about male loneliness, we need to address ALL ILLS OF SOCIETY. Drug abuse, criminal activity; homelessness; pay gaps and lack of humanity. Most women are living in survival mode. We no longer expect men to care for us. Most women are fending for themselves and women with any kind of pretty privilege will USE "SIMPS" FOR WHAT THEY NEED. IF ONLY I COULD GET A SIMP, LOL! THAT'S EVEN MORE FUNNY THAN MEN BEING LONELY! I can't worry about men being homeless when I'm fighting tooth and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 09:02 PM |
| – | This Sub is an Echo-Chamber, That Doesn’t Advance Anyone.Is it way worse for women that don't have problem getting men or way worse for women that can't get any man? Because women that can't get any man have learned to fend for themselves one way or another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 07:53 PM |
| – | This Sub is an Echo-Chamber, That Doesn’t Advance Anyone.It's not even false hope. One eventually gets to an age when they stop playing mind games with themselves and accept there was never any hope in the 1st place. Mind games may get one through decades of hard truths, but in the end one only wasted precious time hoping against all hope instead improving education and financial endeavors that would have supported a better lifestyle. Once I realized a man was not in my plans I literally kept myself business 20 hours a day with the occasional useless … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 07:48 PM |
| 1 | The best way to attract women is to not try.The guy is only creepy when he keeps "BEATING A DEAD HORSE"! I don't know what it takes for a man to STOP TALKING TO A WOMAN when she is clearly not interested in HIM of if she is using HIM FOR ALL HER RESOURCES!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think women are less attracted to men than men are to women ?A woman's libido is just fine when she is attracted to a man. A man has to check all or at least most of a woman's boxes in order for the libido to be triggered. I can look at male models and totally not be attracted to them if he doesn't have my type of personality; whereas an average man with my type of personality can make a sister drop her drawls, Lol!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 10:56 PM |
| 1 | If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitterMen don't care about a woman's social status UNLESS HER SOCIAL STATUS IS BETTER THAN HIS. There are plenty of men that expect a woman to have 2 jobs as long as it doesn't affect his playing video games all day or sleeping with other women! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 10:43 PM |
| 2 | If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitterYes, you are right. I do live my life as a white incel man. In order for me to get any kind of relationship, I would have to pay for it. I'm sorry, but I haven't met a man yet that's fit to be paid for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Women who have de-centered men completely, what drove you to this?Those women get money spent on them. And the ones that don't must not have to worry about money. Yeah, I'd be serial dating too if I DIDN'T HAVE TO PAY FOR ANYTHING or if I was fabulously rich. But men used ugly women to support their UNICORNS; and i will never pay for shit if I don't have enough money to wipe my ass with benjamins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 08:37 PM |
| 0 | Women who have de-centered men completely, what drove you to this?The only women that are enjoying men for the most part are women that have men "simping"; as men call it for women. Penis is only a bonus when it's actually good, Lol!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Women who have de-centered men completely, what drove you to this?Lol!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Women who have de-centered men completely, what drove you to this?I mean there is really nothing to discuss when many women here are brainwashed into thinking men ain't never going to be shit for them; and the men here are basically confirming that. Men here cry to women that really have no interest in men at all cause we are destined to get abusive men; let alone men that will do nothing for you EVEN if you were a Becky or a Stacy. I basically come here to confirm that ain't nothing happening but me paying my rent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 07:36 PM |
| 1 | If women claim to hate guys who pay for sex workers then why do they buy male hookers for bachelorette parties?Yeah, not all of us are living our lives like the real housewives of the city of your choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 06:25 PM |
| 1 | If women claim to hate guys who pay for sex workers then why do they buy male hookers for bachelorette parties?Exactly! This is not even a comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 06:23 PM |
| -2 | Most men aren’t privileged, they are just suffering differently and it’s not a competitionBut men here don't take anyone seriously; they just cry louder, expecting other people that get no love to care. People that care about each other don't have time to comfort cry babies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Most men aren’t privileged, they are just suffering differently and it’s not a competitionIt's only a competition if average people refuse to be average. I; in a sense, refuse to be average; but I want to be above average with an average person. But too many average people are too fucked up to think in an an above average lifestyle with their partner. They always seem to find a way to screw their partner over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 04:49 PM |
| 4 | Most men aren’t privileged, they are just suffering differently and it’s not a competitionThis is the most decent post I ever read in the history of this sub! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 04:38 PM |
| 1 | If women love misogynists, then why do so many men here struggle?Yeah, it's more virtuous to not bother random people just because you are horny, but can't get laid, instead hoping every women you come in contact with will fuck you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 08:41 PM |
| 1 | If women love misogynists, then why do so many men here struggle?Even if it is both, men have to show some kind of feelings towards a woman for her to have interest. A guy that I was/am attracted to; and I assume he was/is attracted to me at the time was being over attentive to me when I was walking through a place he thought was dangerous. At the time, I thought he was doing too much. But he seemed to be shy and being over attentive was his way of getting my attention. We still are a work in progress, Lol! Women have all these rules they think they need to f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 08:39 PM |
| 2 | If women love misogynists, then why do so many men here struggle?They have StAtIsTiCs, Lol!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Why Do Unsuccessful Men on this Sub Focus So Much On Women They Don’t Want To Date?Because the unattractive man has to offer something she will be attracted to. Many unattractive men will treat his unattractive partner as a piece of shit while spending whatever resources he may have on a prostitute or a once in a lifetime unicorn he may happen to cross paths with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Why Do Unsuccessful Men on this Sub Focus So Much On Women They Don’t Want To Date?I guess it's ultimately our fault; in the end anyway, Lol! We are the ones basically defending ourselves against women that don't want these men. My issue is that these men dehumanize perfectly good normal or average women based on them meeting women out of their league that won't date them. There are women here engaging with these men that these men don't want to touch with a 10 foot pole; not because we are bad, but because we are not Becky or Stacy. And really NONE OF US SHOULD WASTE OUR TIME… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Why Do Unsuccessful Men on this Sub Focus So Much On Women They Don’t Want To Date?I don't think people like the OP actually believe this. They just can't believe that normal women would choose a criminal over them. Women out of their looks league are NEVER GOING TO CHOOSE THEM OVER ANY KIND OF MAN THAT THEY ARE ATTRACTED TO. If an alien came to a woman that was attractive, she would choose the alien over these men. These men will tell an average woman to stay in her lane; meanwhile, they are recklessly driving all over the freeway!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Why Do Unsuccessful Men on this Sub Focus So Much On Women They Don’t Want To Date?So, are ALL the men in this sub rich and powerful and just can't attract women? If so, maybe I'm ready this subreddit all wrong Lol!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 06:55 PM |
| 5 | Why Do Unsuccessful Men on this Sub Focus So Much On Women They Don’t Want To Date?Yes, billions of average women, DO NOT CHASE AFTER CHADS, MOVIE STARS AND CRIMINALS; at least not on a full time basis, lol!! This just goes to show, that women who chase those type of men, are always going to chase those type of men. They are not going to grow old one day with cats wishing they should of just stuck with men they are not attracted to. Hell, old women may even step up their game by chasing emotional adventures from romance scammers; hoping that one day those men will be real. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Why Do Unsuccessful Men on this Sub Focus So Much On Women They Don’t Want To Date?Many people of petty crimes go to prison because they don't have the resources to keep them out of prison. There are probably MORE CRIMINALS that are not in prison than the ones who are. P. Diddy and R. Kelly got away with crimes for decades because they were able to pay "HUSH MONEY"!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 06:00 PM |
| 0 | Why Do Unsuccessful Men on this Sub Focus So Much On Women They Don’t Want To Date?There was a good looking man that just recently killed the CEO of a Health Insurance COMPANY (UNited Health Care) Since Health Insurance Companies have a reputation of denying Health Claims; and were responsible for damaging this man's quality of life, there were thousands of women volunteering to pay all this man's legal fees and were willing to do anything get this man off for COMMITTING MURDER. People in the US just don't see all people as criminals. They tend to find justification of certain… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Why Do Unsuccessful Men on this Sub Focus So Much On Women They Don’t Want To Date?In the US we have several series called "Love before during and after Lockup". 80% of the non-criminal MALE AND FEMALE are NORMAL PEOPLE. Both non-criminal male and females are usually alpha; at least with their criminal lover and have high paying jobs or barely legal jobs. The couples fail about 80% of the time because the CRIMINAL PARTNER EITHER goes back to jail or the non-criminal partner was used a a mark. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 05:43 PM |
| – | Woke isn't coming backAs a Black Conservative I always knew that minority politics DID NOT APPLY to only minorities. Whites are a minority too! The South African President came here looking for money to lace his bank account to a white man thinking this white man would neither fight, nor even care for a White South African minority; that's was once the victimizer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 05:12 PM |
| -2 | Women and girls need to be taught to be nice to their male partners, just like men and boys are taught to be with their female ones. The failure to do this is really tearing the social fabric and killing romance.I'm sorry, but it was the men that fucked that shit up. At one time all girls were taught to be feminine. But femininity did not keep men from cheating or staying at home taking care of their kids. Feminism allow for stable women to get jobs and provide mores stability to their families, while welfare allowed poor women to use the government as a sugar daddy. Men were too busy trying to fuck whomever they can that they took themselves out of family life. The women they chased after were the actu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Women who “expose” a man for being a terrible person after they break up aren’t good peopleUltimately people using TikTok for "Story Time" is just a way to monetize the abuse. Although, it's probably more entertaining to tell a story than it is to just beg for money. And ultimately, it the same concept as writing a book or making a movie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 05:20 PM |
| 10 | Women who “expose” a man for being a terrible person after they break up aren’t good peopleIn the Black community; back in the day, as long as a woman was a housewife and the man was paying all the bills women would never tell ANYONE, NOT EVER HER FAMILY, that her husband was cheating, whooping her ass every other weekend, or anything else that man was doing; as if what he was already doing wasn't bad enough. The police were never called on the abuse unless the abuse gets recognized outside the family. And back then the police didn't do shit most of the time. So yes, why is everything… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 05:03 PM |
| 3 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?No, it means that women are not willing to participate in cheap, evasive and most definitely useless sex. We care about your USELESS sex just like you don't care about having a meaningful relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 07:30 PM |
| 3 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?The point is with women is that even if we just say just easily empathize with a man's feelings about his lack of cheap sex, the question comes up every other day. Remiding women daily that you are looking for cheap invasive sex is not going to convince women to involve themselves in cheat invasive sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 07:16 PM |
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