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Agree💯, marriage is not worth it boyz. Learn to cook & clean, everything else we as men r already great at
/r/MensRights17/11/25 08:51 PM
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This and jumping into another relationship too soon
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/25 05:32 AM
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I learned it the hard way unfortunately
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/25 11:45 PM
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I see him few times a week, he works in the same company but different department. My ex knew it will hurt me mentally & it will be a thorn in my existence that y she cheated with someone from my workplace. It has been few years now but it still effects me but i less angry now. Also everyone at work knows what happened that makes it worse too, makes me feel like less of a man. I do wish sometimes either he leaves the company or i do. Hopefully i can win a lottery & quit this job lol
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/25 06:34 PM
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Stay with her bro. Grass isnt greener on the other side, its same grass lol. First divorce will suck ( financially & emotionally) & then dating in Canada will suck more. Also you are in ur late 30s, only women u will find to date will be single mothers or toxic leftover women. Boredom is not the reason to seek divorce. Also u said she loves u, love is hard to find these days.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/25 05:51 AM
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I m same age & never having kids. In my case one of the factors why my marriage ended was my decision to stay child free. Do i regret my choice, definately no. If you are happy with urself & your decision u will be fine. I have never liked babies or kids ( i m not a psychopath, i do love dogs & other animals & do find them cute). Do what you like, dont make life decisions to make others happy instead do things that make u happy. Are my friends & family disappointed in me yes, do care what they t…
/r/MensRights17/09/25 06:52 PM
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No genuine women would do that to u. U r thinking logically & just trying to spend time with ur daughter. Instead ur ex throws those words to mess with ur brain. Bro dont pay attention to her words, these words r the only weapon she has left against u.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/25 05:33 PM
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I dont know man but its just words & its upto us if we wanna let those words effect us. Mind u those words effected me for a bit but now i have moved on & not bitter about anything. We have limited time on this planet, shouldnt let someone's words take hold of our life( even if it was the person u loved the most once ). Moving on is the only way
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/25 11:40 AM
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My ex told me during separation that she married me becoz i was a safe option 😅. Women r incredible beings but most have no insight or accountability. Learned a expensive but valuable lesson in life. U will get over it, give it time
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/25 06:25 AM
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Bro i think u r right, i checked OP's profile. But this might be a mde up story to promote her OF. Seems like good idea to promote herself here to newly single divorced men
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/25 02:17 AM
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Bro, u summarized this ponzi scheme so well👏
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/25 09:54 PM
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Women are always more mature than men until it's time to take accountability. Then they are young and naive, and were taken advantage of.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/25 03:52 PM
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Cheating is never justifiable even if she drove him to it. Cheating for 2 years, it wasnt just short fling or random hookup. The guy was fully involved with a different women & would have probably continued if he wasnt caught. As men we have to take accountability for actions, cant always blame the women for everything. We have to see it from his wifes perpspective, the guy broke her trust. Seems like she is a decent women thats y his own family r siding with his wife.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/25 03:36 PM
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Its still early. Give her space, talk to her calmly (dont sound desperate, women dont like that ) & tell her u will respect her decision. Take full responsibility of ur actions
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/25 02:04 AM
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This is good advice, u being calm & cool will drive her crazy. If she is a narcissist u cant talk sense into her but giving minimal responses & not feeding into behavior will make her realize tgat she has no control over ur emotions which will make her furious. U cant control circumstances only thing u can control is urself & how u react to it.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/25 05:00 PM
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There r 2 ways to approach this 1) Smart way -Meditate, get a hobby, start going to gym,enjoy time with kids & learn to ignore her snarky comments ( women know how to get on our nerves). Wait 4 years while 2 of ur kids turn 18, meanwhile in these 4 years learn skills like cooking & taking caring of house chores on ur own. Also plan ur exit financially, make good use of this time to prepare for life after divorce. 2) Dumb way - let her comments & arguements get u riled up, raise ur BP & act out. …
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/25 06:00 AM
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Dont blame urself for still being affectionate towards him, he is father to ur kid & somewhere u still love him. I am a man & i know how guys think, he still wants to be in control of u emotionally while he explores his options. Google & look up push pull relationships ( u r in it). U husband might have narcissitic traits ( i hope i m wrong but what he is doing to u is cruel, u dont deserve this kinda treatment). Take ur time before serving him. Think things through, get urself together mentally…
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/25 03:01 AM
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40000 years, u r throwing numbers out there. Google it, marriage is about 4500 yrs old and we as humans have existed since 300,000 years. So we have long before existed before marriage was invebtes. Marriage is man made invention, it will evolve or will be replaced with another man made invention. Right now we r starting to evolve & understand marriage is not essential to us or society.
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/25 12:52 AM
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Shit, we can never understand what women really want 😅😅
/r/seduction04/05/25 11:41 PM
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There is only 1 reason for this kinda behavior. He isnt sure what he wants yet. He wants to be friends with u & have sex with u until he figures out this path( other path might be another women or just engaging in prostitution). He will throw u off to the side once he has a full plan What u should do: dont beg him to comeback, be confident infront of him & tell him that u respect his decision. Tell him u r starting to date again. Maybe he is delusional that u cant find anyone. Can do q follow up…
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/25 11:14 PM
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I m sorry for what happened to u. I also want to thank u for always giving good advice to guys who going through difficult situation
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/25 04:38 AM
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This, u might wanna start keeping a closer eye on her
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/25 04:32 AM
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Bro, u live only once. Stop making compromises, even ur kids will understand one day. Once women become toxic & start hating u they never change back. They lack accountability. U r smart that u already have prenup. We men keep too much to ourselves & keep stressing ourselves out while being fully functional part of society. Atleast tell her whats on ur mind.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/25 04:48 AM
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Me too waiting for OP to drop the address
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/25 04:16 AM
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This!!
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/25 02:22 AM
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This is it or she finally realized ur true value and wants to slowly make her way back
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/25 10:04 PM
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They will downvote it to the oblivion lol
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/25 05:57 PM
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Should have gone for it bro lol
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/25 05:18 PM
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For me the most important realization was self love & really understanding i am only responsible for my happiness not others. I was always trying to make my ex-wife, my parents & ppl around me happy, thought if they all r happy i will be too (i know i was delusional lol). I did struggle mentally after divorce but once i figured out what self love really was for me, it changed my life. Probably still have some issues & things that i need to figure out abt myself but i m no rush, i will figure thi…
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/25 04:31 PM
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🫡🫡
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/25 04:17 PM
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Bro i did same, i wish i would have found reddit at that time. I was devastated and trying to win her back but she was happy, bubbbly and leading me on that things can still work while sleeping with her coworkers and moving money around & preparing for divorce 😂
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/25 10:28 PM
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💯 agree. Never go back to an ex, it never works out & will only lead to more misery & regret. Women move on way faster than men do, if ur ex is unaffected emotionally & good spirits that means she has already moved on & getting some.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/25 10:24 PM
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Bro u had it good, i dont understand the guys who always want to be in relationship. She's smart & knows she is walking redflag that y she dont want to be in a relationship. She saved u lot of heartache in longterm
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/25 01:26 AM
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Bro first of all its to early, it will take time to heal, move on & adjust to this new life. Go on dates but dont expect much because it doesnt seem like u r ready emotionally & u will be setting up urself for more disappointment. Get ur life together first ( without women being involved), get into a routine of taking care of urself & the most important thing learn how to love yourself (i dont mean it in sexual way lol) instead of seeking it from women.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/25 06:24 PM
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Agree💯
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/25 01:22 PM
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Write all these feelings acknowledging how you hurt her emotionally & took her for granted. Also write how you are going to change & be a better person, telling her what she means to you. Read it out to her & give it a try. Be open to therapy, couples counselling etc. I was in same situation ( emotionally unavailable & taking her forgranted) & my marriage ended in divorce. We were separated too ( but living apart) while i was trying to change & mend things she wasnt even willing to listen to me.…
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/25 01:21 PM
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Agree, u shouldnt even be contacting ur ex or her sister
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/25 12:34 AM
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Nothing good is gonna comeout if u get back together with her. Also OP u need to set some firm boundaries with her, no contact with her will help u heal & move on faster. Dont feel guilty for prioritizing urself.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/25 12:01 AM
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Agree 100 percent, u only live once. Start planning ur escape brother
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/25 04:56 AM
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Sad but true
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/25 09:56 PM
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