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No-Spinach-169/r/Divorce_Men24/12/25 08:00 PM
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A marriage is a vastly different situation than a dating-type relationship. Communication quality in the latter is seldom a proxy of the same in the former.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/26 03:46 AM
1

Not worth it. If you are disrespected, just walk away.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/26 03:57 PM
3

Good!
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/26 02:21 PM
9

I consider my story as a success story after divorce, albeit not from a dating perspective. I divorced my ex in my early forties a few years ago, but never dated since. I am much happier now, healthier, more successful in my career, enjoy time with my child, travel a lot, and overall feel more fulfilled. There is life to be savored out there. Good luck!!
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 02:31 PM
1

Ditto!!
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/26 12:55 AM
3

😆😆😆😆 brilliant!!
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/26 10:49 AM
11

Your sister is your blood, as are your brothers. Stick with them over your wife, as you are doing. Unfortunately, your daughter seems to have been raised more under your wife’s influence, it seems, which is unfortunate.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/26 04:15 PM
2

Thank you. I’m intrigued, and will look into this.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/26 12:55 AM
2

This is an interesting idea. Mind if I ask what you did to become a Freemason?
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/26 05:01 PM
3

Bliss, isn’t it? This is what life is supposed to look like!
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/26 03:35 PM
4

Exactly the same. I got divorced a few years ago in my early 40’s and never looked back. I savor every minute of my alone time and independence. My kid is a teenager, and I have 50-50 custody, so we do spend time together quite a bit, but I have never sought out a relationship after my divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/26 03:33 PM
2

Aren’t dating and protecting one’s time two mutually exclusive concepts?
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/26 11:51 AM
1

I am not in NY, but my story was pretty much identical to yours. The ex was constantly disrespectful and verbally abusive, often in front of our child. Once I filled for divorce, she changed her tune and tried to shame me into keeping the “family” in tact. I went ahead and filed anyway, and have about 50-50 custody. My life and my child’s life have improved many fold ever since.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/26 10:51 AM
1

Curious as to how she could be influencing your life so much. How does she even know you have girlfriends, let alone their identities? Also, don’t you have a split custody arrangement for your child, with you spending Father’s Day with her?
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/26 11:11 AM
1

Congratulations. Savor the taste of freedom, joy, and peace!
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/26 10:34 AM
3

Why not just pay for it directly? Is it because of the expenses? Legality?
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/26 02:53 PM
1

You have quite literally read my mind and articulated my very thoughts in your last paragraph. The moment I come home from work, my castle is mine. My kid is of course a joy to spend time with.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 07:44 PM
2

P*ssy havers? Is that less cringe? By the way, I’m an incel, before you say it 😆
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 07:35 PM
2

Ditto.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 03:31 AM
3

I personally wouldn’t approach a woman who doesn’t look up or show any interest. The next thing you know, she has tattled to the rest of the females in your neighborhood, and you’re known as this creepy dude that hits on women. This is a different age we’re living in. I am younger than you, and divorced since 6 years. Never dated after my divorce. I stay busy with work and my kid, and started a side business lately. I have a lot to work on most times, which is why I never feel lonely.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 03:23 AM
5

I second this. Cold approaching is risky these days because of their attitude and sense of entitlement.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 03:17 AM
2

What could the smell possibly reveal??
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/26 12:44 AM
1

Is staying the night at a nearby hotel an option? If there are kids involved, you won’t want to give the impression that you are abandoning them, but just one night may not be a problem. I’d first leave, check into a hotel, and then send her a text or email saying that you decided to take this step to avoid being in her presence, in view of her behavior, especially thinking of the child. And then consult your attorney the first thing in the morning. I’d tell your kid that you’re just staying out…
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/26 08:31 PM
1

Not in Canada, so not sure. The Canadian laws are ultra-feminism-leaning, so now would be a great time to retain a lawyer. Like yesterday!
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/26 08:11 PM
3

Even if he doesn’t get attacked, it is a bad idea, because one can never be sure of the motives of the ex. If he does enjoy NSA sex, there are countless other avenues to do so.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/26 12:08 PM
9

Dude, never! Pay for it if you’re missing it, but no going back to get. Just get that whole concept out of your mind.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/26 06:02 PM
3

Get out now!! Please do not have a kid with this person.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/26 06:54 PM
2

How many dms, and thence pu*ssies are you expecting to get from this one comment? Dozens, at least, I hope?
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/26 12:07 AM
3

Hard disagree, too. Sometimes one just needs a shag, for which the paid route is ideal.
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/26 01:03 AM
2

Did you have to go through a vetting process that requires you to share your driving license or LinkedIn profile? That for me is a nonstarter.
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/26 12:48 AM
2

I second this!
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/26 12:43 AM
6

I totally understand and support your plan ( I did something similar), but can’t get behind your proposed custody schedule. Why not aim for 50-50? Your children are young now which may motivate your plan, but you may end up regretting your choice afterwards because it’s difficult to alter custody.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 10:03 PM
3

Lovely!!
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/26 10:15 AM
3

This is so beautifully put and relatable!! Congrats, brother!!
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/26 10:03 AM
1

Depends on what you mean by loneliness. If it is boredom, then I am seldom bored because I keep myself very busy with work and hobbies. If you mean whether I feel sad when there aren’t people around me, thankfully I’m one of those that do not. Now sometimes I miss sex, which is a natural biological urge, but not sure if that counts as loneliness, though. But then there are ways in which one can get sex, and still stay single.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/26 09:50 AM
1

Yeah, I don’t date either. Never dated after my divorce more than 5 years ago. The peace and solitude just gets addicting.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/26 01:10 AM
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This!!
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/26 01:02 AM
2

Dude, this is so true! Especially the Iceland bit. Done it myself! Just heavenly!!
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/26 01:00 AM
1

I could have written this myself!!
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/26 12:42 AM
4

Pretty much every dimension of life and living are enormously better after divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/26 12:41 AM
2

Paying escorts is precisely the right thing to do, if it can be afforded.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/26 05:29 PM
0

Apropos of your comment, “Dating” is female dominated, period, regardless of whether you take the pill or not, or the color you are thinking of. If you want to “date” females, they will take you apart (in a good way?? lol), see what’s inside, and then proceed, or not. There’s no way around it if you are intent on dating. I personally do not, but i also don’t critique those who choose to do.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 02:48 PM
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Why does your ex speak with your mother?
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/26 08:50 PM
4

Why do you have every other weekend? Was it court-mandated?
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/26 07:45 PM
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Can’t you temporarily rent a place to stay? I was in your exact same situation, leading me to file for divorce 5 years ago. My life and my kid’s life have been infinitely better since.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/26 05:36 PM
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You can extrapolate that last sentence to “… and therefore I’ll find sources to validate that experience “, which also annoys me endlessly.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/26 11:00 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/26 10:22 PM
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The Guardian is a liberal, far left, and therefore feminist “news” source. Look it up if you don’t believe me. I wouldn’t trust this particular report, at least.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/26 09:59 PM
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I don’t know that this observation is accurate, could possibly be feminist propaganda given that the source you cite is Reddit. In my case, I filed for divorce, been divorced (and single) for more than 5 years now, and these have literally been the best years of my life. I felt on top of the world the day I moved out. My ex, not really, although I don’t particularly wish her ill: I simply don’t care.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/26 09:57 PM
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No, put your foot down. This is ridiculous. I may encounter such a situation in the not-to-distant future, and if I do, I’m definitely not going to allow this level of entitlement.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/26 11:51 PM
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Yes, I do not find it morally questionable because I’m not really slipping into a dark alleyway and pulling my pants down. At the price point I engage, the trafficking argument is moot regardless of what many, especially women, would have you believe. Plus, I go to places where it is legal, and I’m not taking about poverty-ridden places, either. Ultimately it is of course up to an individual’s moral makeup, so there’s that. Personally, I am not looking for “love” or “moral support”, or a cure fo…
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/26 04:48 PM
1

Secret to what? Banging whores? There’s no secret; just pay for it by going to a place where it’s legal, that’s all.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/26 12:19 PM
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Never dated after divorce, but banged a lot of whores. That’s also a great way of moving on, if you’re not morally opposed to the idea.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/26 04:39 PM
1

Do you have enough male friends? I’m picking up on your “meaningful connections” bit here. I’m guessing that the dating aspect is meant to eventually scratch the intimacy itch, which is very natural, of course.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/26 05:13 PM
1

The only advice is to not do this marriage thing again. You got off lightly this time.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/26 02:08 AM
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95% of these seemingly “happy” families are miserable. They, especially the women, put on a mask when they are outside associating with others (especially females) in order to appear saintly. In their family lives, they are mostly abusive to their own children and husbands. Passive-aggressive, screaming Karens. You’re not missing anything. Raise your children with your own values when you have them; one day, they’ll thank you for it.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/26 03:08 PM
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Right, I totally get it. My situation was somewhat similar to yours, but I only have one kid. What I did was I reached out individually to the school, sports coaches, dentists, doctors etc. to include me in all communications regarding the child, which helped tremendously.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/26 03:19 PM
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What happens if you don’t respond to her at all? As in block her phone number, and automatically send her emails to junk? It seems that she can’t do anything on the legal front either!
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/26 03:09 PM
3

Can you consult a different attorney for a second opinion? This sucks, sorry to hear.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/26 02:35 PM
1

Where are you getting this idea that all sorts of paid sex inevitably results in stds? Are you thinking of slipping into a back alley to get your member sucked for 5 bucks by an addict? Then sure! There is a tremendous number of civilian chicks with hsv1 and hsv2 walking around. Please educate yourself before spreading doom.
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/26 08:30 PM
1

Pay for it, unless you’re morally opposed to it. However, if you live where paid sex is illegal, you may have to venture out a bit.
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/26 08:22 PM
12

I also left. Initiated the process because the domestic situation had become too toxic for our child.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/26 02:18 PM
4

In my case, my kid’s life with divorced parents has been infinitely better, IMO. His mother is an absolute abomination of a parent. He’s thrived after the divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/26 12:28 AM
3

I do have one. 50/50 custody.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/26 12:24 AM
6

Five years out. I never realized a man could be this happy!!
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/26 12:22 AM
1

😅😅
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/26 01:18 AM
3

Why are you engaging with an old, sexually frustrated female? Or any female for that matter?
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/26 01:06 AM
1

You must be sad that you don’t really have good boobs or an ass? 🤣. Hilarious!!
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/26 01:05 AM
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I have been divorced for five years now, and never dated since. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being single. I think most men are driven to seek out women because our sex urges get the better of us.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/26 01:51 AM
2

The primal drive is to have sex, actually. There’s nothing wrong with that.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/26 01:49 AM
0

Awwww….
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/26 10:39 AM
1

Do you have a summer vacation plan built into your official custody document? If not, there is nothing much you can do beyond just informing her. If you have already informed her, but she prevents you from carrying out the plan, then I’d consider modifying the custody plan to add that clause. You’d have to talk to a lawyer, obviously.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/26 05:36 PM
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I’ll go against the grain here and say that divorce is the literally the best thing that happened to me. My life has been more joyful than I ever imagined it could be, after a miserable 10 year marriage. In my case, I filed, and have 50-50 custody. OP, I hope your situation changes for the better with time. In my case, I am naturally introverted and like to spend time in my own company, so that definitely helped. Good luck!!
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/26 01:08 PM
3

To be honest, men that are not driven/motivated by sex are few and far between in the dating market, as you have observed. That is true of men in general, and especially true of the kind of men you’re looking for: successful, fit, in their 40’s, and does well financially. If sex is not a strong driver, why would they want to date? There might be some that are emotionally very needy and therefore cannot be alone, but you wouldn’t want them around, trust me. They’ll make you miserable.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/26 11:27 PM
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I am a man exactly your age, divorced my ex a few years ago, and never dated since. I see no value in dating, younger or older. The only possible reason to date would be to have sex, but this would be accompanied by a loss of solitude. So I just pay to play and live my life.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/26 11:05 PM
4

Terrified of dating? Then don’t date. Who’s forcing you to date? I am divorced since 5 years, and never dated since. You can live a very peaceful and happy life without dating, you know!
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/26 01:39 PM
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Please do not get on the dating apps. You’d be one of millions of men stroking the ego of the toxic females on there, and a pawn in the hands of the dating app companies looking to make money off of men like you. If more men got savvy and avoided the apps, we’d be living in a very different reality now. If you absolutely have to date (personally I would not recommend it, but ofc you are welcome to play that game if you so prefer), try the offline routes.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/26 10:42 AM
3

So, “choose better” is your response 😅?
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/26 05:38 PM
2

Very good questions, especially about the custody split. It is likely that OP tried every dirty trick in the book to deprive the father of his rightful share of time.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/26 01:24 AM
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I support this strategy 100 percent!
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/26 04:40 PM
1

Good!
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/26 11:36 AM
3

Thanks. I’ll take a look. Glad that I have walked away, and I encourage most others to do so as well.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/26 12:23 AM
4

Do you have references to the claim in the last sentence? That they’re being sued and have lost? Because that would definitely be good news, and would point to some kind of correction happening in the society.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/26 09:56 PM
2

Right. So the solution is to not play their game. Walk.The. F. Away!
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/26 08:56 PM
2

Bingo! But you can still take care of your biological needs without “dating”.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/26 08:53 PM
0

So much for the “sistahhood”!
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/26 08:33 PM
1

Better yet, just don’t date if you’re in the US. Pay for it a few times a year if you can afford it, to take the edge off.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/26 08:31 PM
1

Ah, I didn’t know that! Thanks for the info. It’d be great if you could post a reference to this information in this thread of perhaps as a PSA in this subreddit. Personally I’ll never co-habit with a female or marry one, so this won’t be of much use for me, but could be useful for many others here. Cheers!!
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/26 03:19 PM
1

Lucky you!!
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/26 07:38 PM
2

Good! So single-party-consent recording is allowed where you live?
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/26 06:44 PM
2

I see. I have kind of noticed that behavior, as well, but the thing is, I never really cared much about the Karen-type moms either. For example, I consciously try not to interact with any of the parents regarding anything. On academic matters, I just email the school and teachers directly. On my kid’s birthdays, it her and I that celebrate together, doing various activities and dinner etc. My policy has always been to never play into the hands of these mom-supremacist types. Now that my kid is i…
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/26 05:34 PM
1

Can you expand on how you are treated as a single dad? I’m also one. Just curious to compare notes.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/26 04:42 PM
1

Can anybody from the dance school not attest to your (earnest) intentions, if push comes to shove?
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/26 04:38 PM
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I am nearly 5 years in, agree with every single of your points. The hardest part, for me at least, is that physical intimacy is not as easy to get, but otherwise, I am at peace.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/25 12:22 AM
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It is pretty simple, really. If your son has some kind of an event on her days, you can definitely go, but be respectful of the custody hours. Similarly, your stbx can come to attend an event on your days, but should respect the custody boundaries. For get-togethers that are not on your days, I personally would not go, because there is a division of custody hours after all. Regarding medical appointments etc., you should codify that into the custody agreement. For regular doctor visits, the pare…
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/25 04:46 PM
3

Hate men?? You came here to say this, of all places? Fuck you!!
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/25 02:42 AM
2

Enjoy!!
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/25 09:22 PM
2

Sorry about the flu, man. Had it myself recently, and it sucked. Hope you feel better soon. At least there isn’t a bloodsucking bat flying around you and continuously sapping your energy.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/25 09:21 PM
1

Then rejecting that situation is simply the right move.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/25 09:17 PM
3

Thank you, and hope you enjoy yours!
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/25 02:48 AM
3

Good to hear you’re doing well, my man!!
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/25 02:47 AM
4

Hmmm… curious as to how long you’ve been divorced. My ex tries to tread on boundaries on a constant basis on the kid pretext pretty frequently. Careful, and good luck, brother.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/25 02:45 AM
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Thanks, man, appreciate that. Yes, I take care of my kid, and help my aging parents, but the latter mostly financially, because they don’t live locally. For my son, I do pretty much everything during my custody time, including helping with homework, driving to games, going out to dinners regularly etc. I’d be honored to help a brother out, so feel free to dm.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/25 11:40 PM
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I do have kids. 50-50. I don’t celebrate Christmas in a religious sense, so the ex has them.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/25 11:11 PM
3

Truer words have never been said!
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 03:58 PM
3

Getting laid, perhaps? There are shortcuts one can take with some hard cash, which IMO is a much better solution.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 02:42 PM
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I like your attempt at mathematically parsing the various descriptions of casual, long-term etc. 🤣 The trouble is, the female world has a very tenuous relationship with math and logic, lol, meaning that they themselves do not know what they mean.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 02:26 PM
2

Why would you not want to live by yourself? Why mom? There is no greater joy than living by yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/25 09:46 PM
1

If you bang them and then refuse to share expenses, is there a risk that they’ll cry SA to get back at you?
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/25 08:50 PM
2

Makes sense.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/25 08:45 PM
1

Can you elaborate on this? Are you concerned of being caught in a sting because it is illegal where you live?
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/25 03:59 PM
1

That is a valid concern. I’d not do it on the stateside, for example. In fact, doing it anywhere where it is illegal would place you at the mercy of fate.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 08:55 PM
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Agree. Regular travel wouldn’t be easy. I don’t do it very often.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 04:46 PM
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Then temporarily go and do to a place where it is legal, if you are able to afford it.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 03:50 PM
1

I do not think FWBs are that common for most men. If you are a reasonably attractive woman, not obese, too old etc. then getting a FWB can’t be that hard.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 03:44 PM
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Your thoughts exactly my mine. At this point in my life, I’d just like to drop all the BS and get what I want, which is sex. Paying makes total sense.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 03:39 PM
3

I think your vision of “prostitutes” are cheap street workers on drugs who suck d!cks in dark alley ways. Escorts do provide the “illusion of passion”, interesting conversation, cuddling, pillow talk etc. But they aren’t cheap! In my opinion, paying with time and attention to civilian females to inflate their ego is as much a Faustian bargain as paying escorts, but hey, to each their own!!
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 01:46 PM
1

I do go to places where it is legal. The prices are still somewhat high, but I budget for it.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 01:05 PM
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Escorts, exclusively for me because I do not have time for games which is needed to bed a decently attractive female. It just takes too much time and effort. I use that time to make money which I can use to pay for women of my choosing. Admittedly, this makes sex rarer compared with the FWB situation, but the time, effort, and mind games is the happy tradeoff here.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 12:40 PM
1

How old is your daughter? If she is in her teens, I’d take her out to dinner separately to celebrate the event and then watch a recording of her performance together when you two are together on one of your custody days. She might understand. Alternatively, if the performance is on one of your days, then you are in control. If your child is very young, then you’d have to suck it up, maybe.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/25 09:01 PM
6

Pay for sex if you can afford and legally do so.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/25 11:22 PM
3

So it sounds like divorce will happen at some point in the future anyway. If you take the initiative now, you will be able to start the clock on separating finances. The longer you wait, the more you risk losing. I get your feelings regarding children: I’ve got 50/50, like many others, but admittedly it is bit of a coin toss. No easy solution here, I’m afraid.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/25 07:16 PM
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Shooting, reading, gym, and banging whores.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/25 07:05 PM
1

Ok, madam.
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/25 09:58 PM
5

I keep reading this “best friend” description of the wife very frequently here. Is that how it is supposed to be? May be that’s the issue?
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 10:47 PM
6

How was she able to rifle through your belongings? Are you still living with her?
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 09:22 PM
1

I am sorry for your situation, but this one is on you for not prioritizing your kids over your own needs. You got married for the second time (at least), and sacrificed the happiness of your own children in favor of what seems to be a complete shrew. I don’t know that there is good solution here: looking at another divorce and more instability for your children. Hopefully their mother provides a stable home. If not, my heart goes out to them.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/25 04:41 PM
7

Pay for it if you can.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/25 12:12 AM
3

What if she stops cheating in a year? What happens to your case? Does she have to keep banging this dude for the full year to make your case?
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/25 05:42 PM
2

Calling women bad in an “echo chamber” like this precisely constitutes support, because objectively speaking, most women of this time are “bad”. And yes, I resent women in general and am very proud of it. Goodbye!!
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 11:10 PM
1

Yes, you are reading it wrong, which doesn’t surprise me at all, because every sentence you’ve written so far smacks of feminist ideals. Where precisely do you find me resentful of your not wanting a relationship? I find it hypocritical from your side to be obsessed with relationships (you are commenting on one incessantly), at the same time declaring you don’t need a man. This is a group for divorced men seeking support. If you think that you are stable enough to not look for relationships (whi…
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 10:21 PM
2

And you can fuck off. What part of that is unclear?
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 08:21 PM
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You cannot be disillusioned because what you’re seeing isn’t an illusion. It is real. Decades of anti-male propaganda, instigated by the feminists and pushed their castrated male slave politicians and policy makers has rendered the gender dynamics broken beyond repair. You should (and perhaps already have) throw in your lot with the rest of your sisters on social media as they declare why they don’t need men. This is what you have said here, twice, which is why I was asking what message did you …
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 07:32 PM
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So you’re wasting your time trying to understand the mindset of the opposite sex for sociological research purposes? To understand how to act around your male relatives? What possible reason do you have for being curious about the issues of divorced men? Do you care about our issues? If the last, then good on you.
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 07:06 PM
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Well, stop lurking. It might just enhance your mental stability, at which time you will stop looking for relationships, become permanently celibate, and save numerous men from the misery of your company. Good luck, sister!!
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 06:49 PM
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Brilliantly put, and this is precisely what I do too. Good to see sanity prevailing in this madness.
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 06:44 PM
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Really?? Aren’t you aware of the rabid and super toxic TikTok feminists of that age range? OP might find himself in some made-up TikTok video accusing him of SA. I say pay for sex if you can afford to in a safe way.
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 05:05 PM
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I’m sorry, but this was hilarious (not trying to minimize your frustrations). I’m five years out of divorce, but never dated because I sense extreme toxicity and loser vibes in American females in general. I’m assuming you’re on the stateside, too. Just curious as to where you met these women. Dating apps?
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 04:25 PM
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Good. More power to you, bro. Happy f*cking!!
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/25 07:11 PM
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Let me guess: you are a woman, right?
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/25 06:35 PM
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Divorced since a few years, and realized that the only thing I need a woman for is intimacy. I have outsourced that need to the professionals precisely to stay out of the dating market. I think of jumping into the sewer every time I get horny, but exert my willpower and refrain.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/25 12:44 PM
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This is the right question to ask.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/25 12:41 AM
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What would it take for you to see that your first sentence is utterly wrong?? Most women don’t care about finances?! Tell that to the hundreds of divorced men in this sub who have lost everything to these “wonderful” women that you speak of! Wake up, brother, and have some respect for the rest of us here!
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/25 03:41 PM
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That’s because, like the majority of Western men, you (and most of us) are a heavily feminized simp. But don’t you worry, you are asking the right questions, meaning that your enlightenment has begun! Hurrah!!🙌
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/25 04:24 PM
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