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Ask them if they'd rather encounter a bear or a black man, or say a bear or a Muslim guy. Misandry is fine but they'd think real hard about not being perceived as racist or bigoted with the other questions.
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/24 08:34 PM
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Most people don't. They remarry or shack up quickly for this very reason. Men and women both.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 06:03 PM
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She wanted it so not my concern to worry about it one way or the other. 🤷
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 06:00 PM
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"In year one" How many years have you been married? I'd imagine (as you seem to be aware of this too hence your post) she absolutely meant it. She's just waiting to pull the plug at some point.
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/24 09:56 PM
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"Hasn't caught on to the very obvious switch in my demeanor" She knows what she's doing, trust us...shes fully aware. Just stay cool calm and collected the entire time. Don't engage. It'll eat at her. And shell stop it eventually. Or she won't, and she'll get to receive zero satisfaction from it as you refuse to engage for the rest of the conversations.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 06:20 PM
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Yeah that was debunked. https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/to-your-health/wp/2015/07/21/researchers-retract-study-claiming-marriages-fail-more-often-when-wife-falls-ill/
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 01:40 PM
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Lesbian marriages have the highest divorce rates, and in hetero marriages women Initiate divorce upwards of 80% of the time. Me thinks your lying to be edgy on a men's forum.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 01:37 PM
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https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/to-your-health/wp/2015/07/21/researchers-retract-study-claiming-marriages-fail-more-often-when-wife-falls-ill/
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 01:34 PM
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Sounds like perimenopause.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 08:16 PM
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The irony about all of this is the women who see their partners as a companion and love them for who they are...the vast majority of them aren't divorcing. The ones who get bored and divorce...are gonna get bored of the next dude too. Just a matter of time.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 07:04 PM
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Damn. Guess the game never ends for some of them. Even if they can do fine on their own.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 05:22 PM
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Agreed. If she's a Lawyer or PA, or has only one kid that's 16 or something...probably fine. Other than that I wouldn't do it if at all possible. The chance that single moms are going to use you for a check/babysitter is just way too high to risk it. I've seen it happen. A guy divorces, "falls in love" with a woman who then dumps him once the kids head to college.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 05:16 PM
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"She honestly looks...like a woman half her age". No she doesn't. You think she does though, because.... There's no human being on earth that will have a stronger emotional reaction to your ex being 'pretty' than you. It's very common, it happened to me, it's happening to you. In regards to the thriving vs suffering part. Yeah well in a divorce one person tends to make out like a bandit while the other person is stuck with the bill. You're the latter. So was I. So were most guys on here. You'll …
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 09:00 PM
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So you want someone hotter is what you're saying. If you're an 8 or above, or you're rich...go for it. Otherwise, it won't work out like you're thinking it will. And your emotional support group, if your like most guys, will shrink drastically in a divorce. Men tend to like to stay married because it generally means there's someone who gives a shit we exist.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/24 05:26 PM
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How many years?
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/24 05:13 PM
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A mans chance of divorce goes up significantly if he loses his job. How's your job situation now?
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/24 01:55 PM
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Being a woman, im shocked you would suggest screwing over a soon to be ex.for your own gain. /s
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/24 01:48 PM
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At least 70% . But women then go " of course we're long-suffering saints, but we can only take so much, guys leave us no other option". And a lot of guys buy into that , and think "well as long as I do my part then it won't happen to me".... Until it does. Which leads to the other stat that fills in the gap. Lesbian marriages have the highest divorce rates of all. Really throws a wrench into the "man-to-blame" narrative. Flighty indeed.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/24 11:04 PM
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Found another job two months later. We divorced officially 5 months after that. School should give you some structure, that's good. You'll find better than her too. You will. It will get better.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/24 09:17 PM
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Please know...you're not alone. I get where you're at. Took a new job about 8 months into our seperation, the day I was supposed to move out from sleeping on my Dad's living room floor to a new place...I got fired from my job. I thought her leaving was my rock bottom. Lol....it somehow got even worse! Had been there for 30 days, sounds similar to you. The lady that had hired me left my 1st day. The head guy was an absolute piece of shit and let me go. Probably wanted to hire one of his own. Just…
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/24 08:41 PM
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Yes, she's talking shit on you. Yes her friends lap it up. Her family may or may not care. Yes, she divorced you to get with other guys. You hinted at that. Your suspicions are correct. Maybe not a specific guy but yes...she and all 92% of women who initiate divorce are over the moon excited to get back on tinder. My ex included. Your ex included. "I ultimately wish to talk to her, but I don't believe that will happen anytime soon, if ever" Your goal OP should be to never speak to her again if y…
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/24 04:19 PM
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"I feel like l was cheated on, and taken advantage of". Correct, on both accounts. She was with the guy months and months earlier too. I'd bet money on it. There was a post in one of the finance subs about a sahm that was publicly admitting she was going to use her husband for the next 3 years then leave him. Even 3 years is nothing compared to some of these women. Women know this stuff years in advance.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/24 09:31 PM
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You seem confident in your decision. Good. Get out now before she divorces you after getting her papers. I've seen it a number of times.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/24 06:29 PM
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A few thoughts. not sure guys wanting a divorce because they want more sex is a good idea. You'll get with a woman who wants it less, or one who will realize (most seem to eventually) they can weaponize intimacy and withhold sex as a punishment, way to get things they want, and at that point you'll be in the same boat. However, you make a ton of money so on the free market you'll get plenty of sex. But if/when you remarry or settle down, well....(see above). It's nearly universally better for ch…
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/24 06:56 PM
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I never had a "I'm better off without her!" Moment. But, I will say this. Women have no problem staying with guys for years knowing they're going to divorce them. So let's say me and you fought and clawed and pleaded and got our wives to stay. Done deal right? Not at all. They could've stayed.... for 4 or 6 or 8 more years and then left anyways.
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/24 06:55 PM
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Poor thing, she can't have her new boyfriend and get attention from her ex 😞. She doesn't give a shit about you (trust us on this one, she doesnt). But she still loves the attention and knowing you still pined for her. And she got some nice validation knowing you asked about the crying. On a side note though, make sure this new gal isn't using you for a greencard. Not saying she is, but I've seen it happen. You don't need an emotionally manipulative ex and an ex who uses you for papers.
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/24 06:28 PM
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"Social media but I think that was more for public attention". I mean women don't post gym pictures in their leggings to get likes from their grandma. Like you said, doesn't mean she was doing anything but...they've all got a number of dudes liking and "loving" those photos, and they keep an eye on those guys too. Women are very aware of who's liking what kind of pictures, and how often.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/24 08:25 PM
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Important to realize though that once women lose their looks, society at large treats them different than when they are young. One study said that guys become (and stay) happier than women from mid 40s on. Granted, they're still objectively treated better than us, but to them, it feels like persecution because that new 25 year old coworker is getting all the attention. The same society that only gives a shit about us if we can make money Is the same one that puts women on pedestals as long as th…
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/24 08:03 PM
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