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| – | What can be done to prevent being trapped in a bad relationship?By the way you're speaking to me I can already tell you're not my type my either. So no worries there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:02 PM |
| 6 | What can be done to prevent being trapped in a bad relationship?What I told a young girl today who asked me about moving in with her boyfriend but being scared was literally: If you can afford to try cohabitating, while not being stuck in a financial hell where you can't leave if shit goes bad. Don't do it. Only do it if you can afford to get out. And vice versa, do not "baby" your partner. If you have a partner who cannot afford anything, ask yourself is this the life you want? I casually dated a guy once who was an absolute bum. Unemployed, part time drug … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Do women care about men's body count? (Just want your opinion)Agreed. A guy who didn't use condoms ever and slept with 10 women sceeves me out more than a guy who slept with 50 women with protection every time. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/23 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Do women care about men's body count? (Just want your opinion)When I'm in relationships I'm very loyal and committed, when I'm not I've played the field. He doesn't know my body count and I don't know his. We've never talked about it because it genuinely does not matter to either of us. I had a guy ask me my body count on a first date and that was our last date. Yall are allowed to think otherwise but whoever my partner was with before me doesn't matter, because every experience he had good and bad made him into the man I'm so in love with and vice versa. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/23 03:17 PM |
| 22 | How to remain my purity after losing my virginity to the wrong man?This question breaks my heart. I've had many a partners, my fiance has had many a partners. We both don't care and have zero jealousy, insecurities or issues with this. He's even said he (and his group of friends) would never even consider dating a virgin because it's just too weird. I'm sharing this to show there are two opposites sides of this preference spectrum. My main point, is that your value as a person doesn't depend on your body count. You are still a beautiful woman. You're not broken… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/06/23 11:50 AM |
| 5 | do I look fat/overweight to you?You do not look fat at all. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/23 11:55 AM |
| 5 | why ghost thenEither something you're saying to them is changing their minds later on or they're finding someone else they have a better connection with OR the connection with you just isn't strong enough to compete against whatever else they have going on in their lives. You can self reflect on yourself and just work on you. Real talk, as long as you're working on you you'll find someone that complements you perfectly one day. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/23 11:32 AM |
| 7 | How to know when he sees you as a forever girlfriend or as a future wife?He's allowed to want marriage I'm his 30s. You're allowed to not. That's not anyone pressuring anyone. I'd communicate if you did expect it to be earlier and say hey my time frame was lookong more like THIS. My partner and I didn't meet until we were basically 30 and we both want kids. Tbh, I wish we were in our mid 20s for nothing else other than it'd be nice to get married next year and not immediately start thinking about having a baby. It'd be nice to just be married the two of us for a whil… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/23 03:49 PM |
| 3 | How are men supposed to even get a relationship nowadays?I don't have a physical type, I've dated every nationality, height, and shape. That said, I met my current partner on tinder (he was my first tinder date) and he was unemployed, homeless, about 5'9" (he'd say 5'10" lol). Our first date we talked for 4 hours straight. He's amazing and I'm blesses to have him in my life. What I'm getting at is its just timing and luck. That's all dating is. Before that every guy I had met was a meet Q or friends of friends or whatever. Sorry you're having bad luck… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 05:13 PM |
| 5 | "The Hoe Phase"Definitely both groups do it. I've had phases of the hoe phase between very serious monogamous relationships. Currently with my life partner who also had a hoe phase we both say we're glad for it because it helped us come into the relationship knowing what we like and how we like it. And he specifically always says it helps him feel even more secure in our relationship because I could be out there dating or being with anyone else but I choose him. Idk if I'd say I feel more secure in my current … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 12:25 PM |
| 3 | Does witnessing misogyny make women more cautious or compliant?I used to do say misogynist comments as a woman who went to engineering school and had only male friends because it helped me bond with those sexist asshats. A decade of bartending and I no longer have patience for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 09:37 PM |
| 6 | How can men find high libido women? Is it even realistically achievable?Hi high libido female here! Every guy I've ever dated ever has complained about my sexual drive. Aside from my current partner I dated a couple guys for periods of 2-3 years each. So that's after NRE. I like being active, I like running, I like eating well and I like sex. My current partner is the same way. That being said we both are open about what we like and how we like it. We both take care of our home together and we're the best of friends. My friends who I would argue are not as sexual as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 12:49 AM |
| 3 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsTattooed emo girl with daddy issues here. Can confirm I have no physical type | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Slutshaming isn't a widespread phenomenon anymore, the main issue nowadays is virginshaming.It's hard to argue that or have any sympathy for her. Like sorry, you hate yourself but just because you hate yourself doesn't mean you can be an absolute raging asshole to other women. Femcel was a good diagnosis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 10:50 AM |
| 2 | Slutshaming isn't a widespread phenomenon anymore, the main issue nowadays is virginshaming.I don't understand you at all. You're mad at being bullied for your lack of sexual experience but you're a proud slutshamer? You're just a mean girl is what you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Using sex as an expression of love is dumb. Recreational sex is just about pleasure and nothing more.Sorry, what? Always? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How important is monogamy to you, really?I've dated around in my youth trying to figure out what I wanted, I cheated and I've been cheated on. Now? My partner and myself would walk out the door no questions asked if either of us strayed at all. It's the most important thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 01:03 AM |
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