| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | Serious question about swingers | No-Succotash6237 | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/26 06:26 AM | |
| 2 | She might accidentally kill you | Rant | No-Succotash6237 | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/26 12:38 PM |
| 0 | Are virgin wives safer? | Dating After Divorce | No-Succotash6237 | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/26 12:15 PM |
| 0 | Clumsy wife | No-Succotash6237 | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/26 12:32 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Letting go of the kidsI would drop all of them so fast. Don’t count on the current gf to stay regardless of what you do. Enjoy your time with her, bust some nuts in a few new ways. Don’t kill yourself tho. As a man you can endlessly start over. I stopped listening to society long ago. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/26 05:08 AM |
| 4 | Mutual infidelity in a 13-year marriage, trying to figure out where to go from hereIn all seriousness, she’s not ever going to be faithful to anyman. She’s broken at this point. Her sexual psyche is getting off on the backstabbing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/26 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Mutual infidelity in a 13-year marriage, trying to figure out where to go from hereA handjob from a stripper is nothing compared to an emotional affair. Don’t feed up to the recording lol. That’s highly not gonna work in your favor. If you have to tell her that you know. Say all 4 men have contacted you. Give her paranoia going into single life. Lmao, don’t listen to me. To be honest you seem patient. So whatever you do plan will work | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/26 06:46 AM |
| 1 | How long to start dating after 12 year relationship?I would go the casual route if I were you. Maybe a few escorts on a burner phone that you never talk about. Get a new hairstyle. A new shave. More resources. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/26 06:38 AM |
| 1 | How long to start dating after 12 year relationship?Oral sex is not good in bed. These women prefer 9+ inches lol. Clit licking ain’t doing a world of anything. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/26 06:36 AM |
| 1 | I was way too reliant on my wife.Bro doing Uber eats is so therapeutic if you’re going through something. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/26 11:46 PM |
| 3 | How to survive silver bullet divorceReligion can be retarded like that. Funny how the good book tells us their nature is exactly like this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/26 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Is anyone involved in a one way relationship?It’s up to us to hold women accountable. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/26 01:30 AM |
| 3 | Discussion about my life?Why were/are you doing joint banking? If the answer is no one told you, you need to at the very least get some male guidance that can be done via YouTube videos. At the very most get some guys around you in person 👌🏾 | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/26 09:15 AM |
| 3 | How do you navigate relationships in 2026 as a middle aged man? (3x Divorced)That does not equal that lol ≠ | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/26 04:29 PM |
| 0 | How do you navigate relationships in 2026 as a middle aged man? (3x Divorced)You give a lot more credence to their careers than I’d care to. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/26 04:11 PM |
| 0 | AmazingYeah, they don’t have a single mother problem either. Because it holds women far more accountable than our system does. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/26 11:49 PM |
| 0 | AmazingIt doesn’t give them the ability to be parasitic of men. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/26 10:41 PM |
| 0 | AmazingYou can get divorced their. Just no alimony or child support. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/26 10:41 PM |
| 0 | AmazingTheir government is none for not fucking men over in divorce. Specifically child support, and alimony. Marriage is pretty much sanctimonious only there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/26 09:19 PM |
| 1 | AmazingI like how Algeria doesn’t have this issue | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/26 09:02 PM |
| 1 | AmazingThere’s pretty much no where safe on Reddit for an unanimous opinion. I agree with you more than disagree. American divorce is a super experimental concept. Especially with judges. They essentially have more power than the president. You can’t curse out your parents in public is some countries, or the ruler. You can’t curse out a judge in court. But you can use profanity when talking to anyone, anywhere else. Most people are sheep, and accept everything. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/26 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Husband 30yrs, Wife 36 wants a divorce but is sending mixed signals.She’s crazy & you’re a good lover. Sounds like she’d leave if the sex wasn’t so good. And you can’t always be good at sex. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/26 07:55 PM |
| 1 | She is insinuating things that never happened. Not sure how to respond.Agreed. You make your children more gullible that way. Then, they end up abused. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/26 06:49 PM |
| 7 | Married for 10 years and confronted four times in the last two months when I found my wife cheating. I don't know.Make sure to not open up about this to future women. They are the predatory gender and will see you as weak. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/26 07:07 AM |
| 2 | Married for 10 years and confronted four times in the last two months when I found my wife cheating. I don't know.Date seriously in about 12 years. Be willing to date a woman that is your junior. You shouldn’t even think about kids while you’re poor lol. As far as the no sex, I’d divorce any woman over that. The cheating should be an automatic divorce. I’ll break up with a girlfriend for much less. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/26 07:06 AM |
| 5 | How do you all deal with the exhaustion?A cheap little fix are phone games. The dopamine is a hell of a past time. Of course fitness too. Fitness, plus therapy has an incomprehensible effect on happiness. Also, I’d get a regular escort every few weeks. They’ll listen and suck your dingaling. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/26 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Weird?? Or not weird and ok??Trauma bonding is a bad bridge. But if you find him attractive & you have something to relate over, it’s worth a dinner date. Be bold & ask him on a date. Skip all the banter. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/26 03:20 AM |
| 3 | Weird?? Or not weird and ok??Men don’t care about things like that. Unless he is effeminate by nature. In that case, everything will offend him. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/26 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Title: Married 6 months ago, now I think my wife is a covert narcissist and no one believes me because she’s “the sweetest person.” How did you cope?I stopped associating with people that defaulto believe women. Much better existence. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/26 02:12 AM |
| 5 | Blaming social media and AII view them the same way I view the black community, and the crack epidemic. Yeah, being manipulated by a greater force is some fault not of your own. However, more of the fault is yours(women)for partaking. I’m black by the way. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/26 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Love after marriageYou better keep trying. You got what you want. It’s going to take some time to learn how to appreciate it. That’s called “AQ”, adaptability quotient. The ability to unlearn is a very hard one. Work on it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/26 11:11 AM |
| 17 | Ex wife’s new relationship.99% of women what women say is projection or schizophrenic babble. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/26 08:35 AM |
| -2 | She just changed overnightPlease block me. Reddit only lets me block a limited amount of people. Just for both of our sanity. Block me | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/26 03:56 PM |
| 4 | She just changed overnightWomen often build up to disrespect in that fashion. Part of being a man in a relationship is keeping her in check. It’s most likely she said little disrespectful things here and there. You may have let them slide, causing her to lose respect for you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/26 03:30 PM |
| 4 | Supposed to hookup with a girl soon, only ever been with one person.Don’t tell her that you’re a rookie. Women cannot empathize with that. Don’t even bring it up. Also, schedule a contingency plan in case she cancels last minute. These bitches are scrupulous. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/26 03:27 PM |
| 6 | Supposed to hookup with a girl soon, only ever been with one person.Try to masturbate exactly 24 prior. Fuel up properly, stretch, use a condom for at least the 1st round. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/26 11:42 AM |
| -1 | Dating after divorce age gapI am rarely attracted to any woman over 25. I won’t be shamed. Do you. Don’t live for others. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/26 03:07 AM |
| -8 | I don't love my wife of 8 years any moreWhy not just negotiate an open marriage on your end? Women that are really into their guys say yes. My girlfriend tonight picked up a girl with me. If they like you they do it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/26 06:47 AM |
| 14 | Age gap!It’s perfectly natural. Don’t let the feminism cook your brain. She’s looking for a man to lead the way. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/26 06:44 AM |
| 14 | UPDATE: Just had the talkAsk your parents to raise the rent lol. Expect a lump sum Christmas gift. Wink. Wink. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/26 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Towards male equality in divorce and standard litigation playbooks women useI never believe or trust women. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/26 09:02 AM |
| 1 | How do I get over the thought of another man with my kids?Or she’ll end up with a dude who is not her type. Then settle for a more predictable guy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/26 08:40 AM |
| 1 | How do I get over the thought of another man with my kids?Solace in the fact that she’ll probably be chronically single. Your kids will eventually see what’s up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/26 08:14 AM |
| 5 | If somebody's wife hit on you, would you hook up with them?She’s just flirting for attention lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/26 01:04 AM |
| -2 | Do I tattle on my ex wife and her paramour? (After divorce is final)No. You shouldn’t. You’re not able to fight fire with fire. Women do extreme, irrational things with very little regard to consequences. She could easily narrative spin to make you look like a bad guy, spread false rumors, or all out make parenting hell for you- all while feeling no shame about it. Take the L, date someone hotter & younger. Serve the revenge cold, not tactless. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/26 06:15 PM |
| 3 | Not ready for any type of relationshipI’d treat dating like an internship if I was you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/26 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Picky at 55...Male or female, I default to wanting to punch unjustified rudeness. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/26 03:24 AM |
| 9 | Picky at 55...I’m rarely attracted to women over 30. Personality, and physically. I like women to still have that sparkle of hope in their eyes. And skin that has firmness. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/26 02:46 AM |
| 14 | Picky at 55...Be warned, women today are very rude sometimes regardless of how polite your approach may be. It’s not you, they’ve change. They are sick. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/26 02:45 AM |
| 5 | Picky at 55...Shoot the shot kid. Sharpen the sword for the sake of it being sharp. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/26 02:45 AM |
| 1 | She might accidentally kill youMight I also add. She’s very clumsy. Which causes her to constantly have an injury. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/26 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Those of you who initiated a divorce, how did your wife take it?Kinda sorta. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/26 10:47 PM |
| 7 | Those of you who initiated a divorce, how did your wife take it?Kicking, screaming, also with a suicide attempt. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/26 09:55 PM |
| -2 | She might accidentally kill youIt amazes me how many men on Reddit actually value the opinion of others, or the downvoting system. Do you ever see the viral videos making fun of people that comment these exact things you’re saying? | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/26 09:42 PM |
| -1 | She might accidentally kill youWhat’s Mensa? | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/26 09:35 PM |
| 2 | She might accidentally kill youWhat was the last straw? | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/26 08:06 PM |
| -4 | She might accidentally kill youLol, Godspeed | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/26 02:13 PM |
| -1 | She might accidentally kill youCool | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/26 01:31 PM |
| -2 | She might accidentally kill youOkay. I don’t really care about not stepping on toes bro. It’s Reddit. You think I’m a dick. Cool story. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/26 01:28 PM |
| -15 | She might accidentally kill youIronically enough, she just called me. Great conversation. The love is still there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/26 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Can you men remind me not to beg for her back? The urge is strong to ask her to come back.Please don’t. Do a favor for a stranger. I’m that stranger. Please don’t. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/26 01:26 PM |
| 2 | She might accidentally kill youYup, but you know what they say. Young love is blind, stupid, and dumb! The man I am now noticing these things quickly now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/26 01:24 PM |
| 0 | She might accidentally kill youI’m in the same situation. My new girlfriend is like your new lady too. Thankfully my ex didn’t cheat. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/26 01:23 PM |
| -5 | She might accidentally kill youIt’s okay that you make that assumption. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/26 01:21 PM |
| -29 | She might accidentally kill you“All foxes sound like dogs when they cry.” | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/26 01:21 PM |
| -8 | She might accidentally kill youI’m not that attracted to independent. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/26 01:10 PM |
| -8 | She might accidentally kill youI’ve only met 1 woman in my years that matched me in brain power. That’s ultimately rare. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/26 01:10 PM |
| 9 | New woman, parallel relationship,anyone else been here?Ask her for $100 before you go & don’t pay her back 👍🏻 | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/26 12:25 AM |
| 4 | Lawyer ex-wife is losing it.I had to drop my family too. You will be better in the end. And you will choose healthier people. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/26 04:08 PM |
| 14 | Lawyer ex-wife is losing it.I’d drop my family is I were you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/26 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Are virgin wives safer?Dude these 40 year olds feel like teens | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/26 04:51 AM |
| -6 | Are virgin wives safer?I don’t want a woman who has released that much oxytocin. Each hit is like addiction to them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/26 12:20 PM |
| 6 | My only regret.In my experience it’s been 100%. I know a lot of people. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/26 09:04 AM |
| 5 | My only regret.Even more of the truth is that women must be kept on a tight leash, and moderated. Or they always destroy shit with chaos. Unintentionally or intentionally. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/26 11:25 PM |
| 21 | My only regret.Everywoman I know that has ever asked for an open relationship has already cheated. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/26 11:15 PM |
| 3 | Is marriage dead ?It is for the young wise men of today. It only made sense when the quality in women was higher. I have 2 girlfriends that provide the same experience as being married. I’d only marry a virgin, without the state involved at this point. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/26 08:21 PM |
| 6 | Wife divorced me, we have two children, I wanted to have a Godly family but she didn’t want that with me, now she has a boyfriend whom she is on fire for God with and I feel like this is all a slap in the face. Anyone else go through something like this?Religion and women don’t mix unless the women are oppressed bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/26 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Someone just offed his ex wife and himself over custody and divorceNo I refuse to be idealistic. You can’t convince me. I’ve seen too many judges do too much evil. Being idealistic is how so many men end up divorced. Just like women, judges have an image that’s one way. But in actuality, they are another. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/26 10:29 PM |
| 3 | How in the world do I get over being angryFight the good fight. Be proud of your battles after the war is over. Pain is temporary, pride is forever. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/26 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Ex wife still makes me feel guilty - how to deal with itYou’re better than me, I’d break in her place and steal. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/26 05:08 PM |
| 5 | Ex wife still makes me feel guilty - how to deal with itJust get a new dog. Hell, you could have him cloned & healthier for $10k. Stop making deals with the devil while you’re at it. He likes anal, with no aftercare. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/26 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Handling Ex ContactAs a man you have to know that women always are ignorantly curious. They will always run their dumbest thoughts through a council. Even your sisters, trust me I have 5. Boundaries are placed on a general basis, only removed through merit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/26 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Someone just offed his ex wife and himself over custody and divorceBecause people don’t just do that without extreme motive. And abusive men rarely deface themselves with physical harm. So logical conclusions. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/26 02:05 PM |
| 3 | Someone just offed his ex wife and himself over custody and divorceRarely sober too. There’s 4 judges in Tennessee with over 2 DUIs in the last 5 years. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/26 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Someone just offed his ex wife and himself over custody and divorceThey are not humans. They have a special place in hell. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/26 01:56 PM |
| 1 | What to do at 39I wish you the best & wisdom | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/26 12:20 PM |
| 5 | Ex proudly claims life is so much easier / better nowToo bad for her nobody believes women. Even women | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 11:20 PM |
| 1 | It’s been about a month since I found out my wife is a cheater and the shock still feels fresh at timesGiving your best efforts towards something. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 09:43 PM |
| 1 | It’s been about a month since I found out my wife is a cheater and the shock still feels fresh at timesIf you gave it the old college try, you can graduate to better things easier. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 07:34 AM |
| 1 | It’s been about a month since I found out my wife is a cheater and the shock still feels fresh at timesDid you hold her accountable during the marriage? | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/26 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Did anyone ever...Most people aren’t writers. Try writing grants for a living, then reading an average American’s Reddit post. Oh yeah, the average literacy in USA is 8th grade. So just get used to feeling telepathic in an orgy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/26 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do lots of divorced men who hookup try to hookup with cougars and single moms when there are younger women to have sex with?Ease. Women give me some resistance 27-35. Almost none 35+ I maybe fuck 3-4 women aged 18-24 a year. But the juice is only worth so much squeeze. Attractive women over 27 is like going to the store for a pack of cigarettes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/26 11:45 PM |
| -1 | My attraction to my wife has gone away almost completely.I don’t think you should have criticized his preference. However, I know what you mean. I’m well endowed. I love fucking skinny women, & fat women. But I can go as hard as I want with fat women which is what I need. If I have sex with smaller women, there’s no way to avoid soreness for them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/26 11:42 PM |
| -14 | My attraction to my wife has gone away almost completely.Jack off to skinny woman porn & leave evidence. Or take some viagra & go to a happy ending massage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/26 11:39 PM |
| -1 | Why do socially awkward men love history, politics and are often dragged into the rabbit holeDucks flying south for winter, whales learning songs of sailors, dogs teaching each other to fight. Go touch grass | /r/ExRedPill | 05/01/26 01:43 AM |
| -3 | Why do socially awkward men love history, politics and are often dragged into the rabbit holeActually most mammals do. Especially whales, dogs, cats, and any other hyper social animals. I don’t argue online bro. Good luck being regarded. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/01/26 12:43 AM |
| 3 | Why do socially awkward men love history, politics and are often dragged into the rabbit holeNo. They’re just the ones without discernment. History and politics are natural male interest. Social awkwardness is at an all time high tho. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/01/26 11:10 PM |
| 0 | Will it really get so much easier in your 30s?Pro tip, wear nice pants and get your legs jacked. Then, your abs, then your arms. I wear pants that show off my physique. Women respond even better to sexy legs than arms in my experience. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/25 08:26 AM |
| 0 | Will it really get so much easier in your 30s?If you work on yourself yes. Getting women for a man becomes as inconvenient as getting a pack of cigarettes from the store if you’re a well put together man. I’m speaking from current experience. Not only are women more attracted to you, your competition shrinks. It’s honestly amazing how women treat me now. Even in passing, when I was 18 I didn’t even get the same eye contact. And I’ve never been afraid to talk to women. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/25 08:24 AM |
| -1 | The ideas surrounding male virginity in a woman's eyes sometimes contribute to the rise of red pill.You’re going to get downvoted no matter what you say here lol. I look at it like Christianity. Undeniably Jesus Christ had an immeasurable effect on human existences. Do I get along with most Christians? Can I “fit-in” in a church? No. No. I take the knowledge and teachings. I question everything. And am comfortable with solitude. People anti/pro redpill are not comfortable alone. The internet is like roadkill. No place for a centrist. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/11/25 08:52 AM |
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