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| 4 | The term ‘Situationship’ is used almost exclusively by women when they are FwB-zoned by a guy above their leagueNo, it's used when any man refuses to agree to an actual relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 05:17 AM |
| 3 | Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecuritiessorry, try again. This isn't gender specific. You chose a targeted article from a males website. The data is skewed because the subject is male focused. https://www.cnn.com/2023/10/24/health/lonely-adults-gallup-poll-wellness/index.html This is about the general population and shows 1 in 4 of all adults are suffering. This is across 142 countries and finds 27% of adults between 19 and 29 are lonely and that number drops with age. A particular paragraph notes: "While there was little or no diffe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 08:40 PM |
| 6 | There are so many single girls who are great catches!Hmm no. Go talk to all the men who meet those criteria and get completely ignored. Your data actually proves the opposite. Women control access to sex. They aren't choosing the majority of available men. Second. The cross section of study participants is exceeding low. Edit It isn't a large enough sample size to get a true determination either way. The numbers are heavily skewed . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 05:19 PM |
| 4 | For those of you who think women can get anything for free?You were born late, the guys who did that got bombarded by the message " we don't need men. Stop approaching us, that is misogynistic " And we listened. Enjoy your independence and freedom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Are men really the biggest problem or is it women?Have a good day. I'm way past this discussion. Go wave your flag and all your "facts and statistics" and bake them in a pie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 05:50 PM |
| 4 | Are men really the biggest problem or is it women?I am not going to argue that. I have gotten attacjer by two girlfriends. I didn't deserve. First I caught her dealing drugs with her brother out of my house and told them to leave. She picked up a knife and lost her mind. I got 28 stitches from that incident and 12 hour surgery to repair my intestines. The second one got pissed because I didn't want a marriage and shot me 3 times with a .38. I am the wrong damn person to bring this shit to. I don't blame the entirety of woman on those lunatics. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Masculine and feminine in a relationshipIt should be. It should be the bare minimum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 12:29 AM |
| 0 | Masculine and feminine in a relationshipWhat men want is a peaceful household that is his oasis from the world. A masculine guy will be happy to provide IF he sees value in the relationship. He isn't going to give 2 shits for your " life force" or any such nonsense. He wants someone non combative, loving and appreciative of what he does for you. This social media propaganda of " of just a woman" will see you out of a relationship quickly if you are not able to meet his expectations. Just as your liable to leave if he doesn't meet your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 12:12 AM |
| 3 | I recently came across a video that says men who want to assume both gender roles in a relationship are inherently narcissistic. Is this true?In my opinion too much emphasis is placed in this feminine vs masculine crap on social media. Mate, just live your life and let the chips fall. Decide on a career or trade path. Get established and you will find the other puzzle pieces will fall into place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 08:18 PM |
| – | Are men really the biggest problem or is it women?As always move the goalposts and change the parameters. I'll just wish you a good afternoon. These types of diatribes are asinine to argue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 07:23 PM |
| 10 | Are men really the biggest problem or is it women?OK let's cover all facts then. How about Lorena Bobbitt that cut off her husband's junk for unsubstantiated assault? Or the mothers in the news killing their own children? Or that influencer who killed her bf crying assault when the video got released of her attacking him? If your going to tell the full story then tell both sides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 07:01 PM |
| 12 | Are men really the biggest problem or is it women?Read the rest of that paragraph. Jesus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 06:51 PM |
| 17 | Are men really the biggest problem or is it women?Where the hell did that enter into the conversation?? Seriously the only addition to the discussion is to jump to the most extreme of examples. Wth??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 06:45 PM |
| 80 | Are men really the biggest problem or is it women?Here is the real truth. And to be fair, I post from a man's perspective. However. In my experience, you have the women's side of any argument and the men's counter argument. The truth almost always resides in the middle. Each recites their stories or experiences heavily skewed toward their beliefs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Why do players keep a harem of girls when he could easily get a girl he wants?Why stick with one when you can have a dozen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.What most don't know, I have had the same ideals since high school in the 80's way before all this social media buzzword shit or pill talk. Even my late wife in college pushed one step to far and I ended the relationship and called her Dad to pick her up. Her friends goaded her with all that controlling talk crap since they were used to walking all over their boyfriends. She went to a frat party I told her " your choice , but if you go, I am done just let me know " 30 drunk frat guys and 4 soror… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 06:05 AM |
| 1 | What public figure would you choose to be a role model for the opposite sex?I hate that, new phone myself and keyboard isn't big enough for my fingers lol happens constantly!!! And autocorrect I would love to strangle autocorrect!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 07:14 PM |
| 1 | What public figure would you choose to be a role model for the opposite sex?Wasn't what I was responding to. Start a new post specific to that question. I never even said being a bit crazy wasn't a positive. You just took it as an immediate negative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 07:05 PM |
| -3 | What public figure would you choose to be a role model for the opposite sex?I see lots of positive things. Doesn't change the fact I find them bat shit crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:58 PM |
| -3 | What public figure would you choose to be a role model for the opposite sex?And to clarify. Women have been saying much worse of all men for decades whether its true or not. Let's not try to take a high road that doesn't exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:57 PM |
| -3 | What public figure would you choose to be a role model for the opposite sex?Nope. A realist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:55 PM |
| 4 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.So your saying you two never evaluated each other to be a spouse,? So you met and went straight to a justice of the peace? Somehow I doubt that. Be realistic. No matter how you describe it. Marriage didn't happen until you both were "ready" and if either of you saw behaviors or unsavory habits, the marriage wouldn't have happened. No different than if one of you failed a job interview, you would have failed the relationship interview. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.This isn't directed at any pill or men. Women just as often feel entitled to making men fulfill their needs while ignoring their spouses. Contrary to popular belief this isn't gender specific issues. I want no control over my partner, she has a choice. We either meet each others expectations of a relationship or we choose to end it. I will never tell her how to act, what to wear or who to be friends with. However if I do not agree with those decisions we will have 1 conversation and if we can't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:36 PM |
| 4 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.Well basically it is. Dating is just a long interview to decide if you two will make a good couple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.Yes, my expectations, my life, my decision and under my control. I have no one to answer to but myself. Giving up that control to someone else is asinine. Why should anyone be expected to start or stay involved in a relationship just because it's best for the partner? If we don't have the same life goals or share a common belief system then the relationship is unsustainable. How does staying make any sense? You can love someone to your core being and not make a happy couple. Sometimes you just h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:23 PM |
| 4 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.Has nothing to do with a table. Either each compliment each other and meets expectations or they do not. Neither needs to settle or be expected to anything less. The only difference is the expectations each will have and if they are realistic or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:18 PM |
| -11 | What public figure would you choose to be a role model for the opposite sex?None, they are bat shit crazy and entitled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 05:48 PM |
| 1 | How should I handle this situation where a hookup was canceled but then uncancelled?Nope. She had her chance imo. I'm moving on. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/23 05:34 PM |
| 0 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.Women. Hands down are master manipulators bar none. I can't speak for others. But I am very up front at the beginning of a relationship about my expectations and what I will or will not compromise on. I am willing to discuss any subject, but if it hits on a subject where we can't see a valid compromise, I'll just wish them the best, hooe they find someone they need and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 05:00 PM |
| 6 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.Everyone has expectations just as everyone has choices. Life is nothing more than choices and things your willing to compromise on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 04:37 PM |
| 6 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.This is wrong on many levels " woman's autonomy as it intimidates the man" this doesn't intimidate anyone. Her having autonomy, is just her being an adult, it is nothing to brag about. Your misinterpreted our level of indifference as intimidation but the reality is, we just don't care. It is very simple. Either that woman is willing to meet our expectations in a relationship or not. If not, awesome, fully respect her decision. We will just move on to someone else who will. Just as they can decid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 04:25 PM |
| 2 | If a woman’s value is tied to her looks, why should she NOT start cheating once she becomes undesirable?I said she could, all she wants. It would just come at a price. If she's willing to live with that price, then have at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 07:21 AM |
| 2 | If a woman’s value is tied to her looks, why should she NOT start cheating once she becomes undesirable?OK sparky. I guess I better so tell them all to leave their younger wives. BRB. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 07:16 AM |
| -1 | If a woman’s value is tied to her looks, why should she NOT start cheating once she becomes undesirable?If she isn't is a relationship, it isn't cheating, that's my point. Try again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 07:11 AM |
| 4 | If a woman’s value is tied to her looks, why should she NOT start cheating once she becomes undesirable?No issue, it is just the reality of it. She cheats, husband divorces, most likely will remarry someone younger and more attractive within a year or two while she gets used over and over spending years praying for another relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:47 AM |
| 4 | If a woman’s value is tied to her looks, why should she NOT start cheating once she becomes undesirable?And the husband would eventually divorce her and move on. Mate these things very rarely stay hidden. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:39 AM |
| 3 | If a woman’s value is tied to her looks, why should she NOT start cheating once she becomes undesirable?Except cheating would be impossible because given your parameters, no-one would enter into a relationship with her. She would just be single and hooking up. I myself prefer to date closer to my age range, 56, so I might still want to date her, but if she is a serial cheater, then she is instantly disqualified. The math for your parameters doesn’t work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:31 AM |
| 4 | If a woman’s value is tied to her looks, why should she NOT start cheating once she becomes undesirable?She can cheat all she wants. As long as she realizes that will instantly end or label her as undesirable in a relationship which is what most really want. As an example, if I start to date someone, and it is discovered she ever cheated in a relationship or was a willing partner to someone else's affair, then I am done. Immediately block and ghost because I will no longer see her as a dating, relationship or even a hookup option. I could never trust her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:23 AM |
| 15 | Q4W: Women only dance clubs. Genius idea?Pretty sure I saw a video of just such a club and all it showed was women sitting around bored and the club was losing money because no one was buying drinks. Shrug. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 03:59 AM |
| 2 | If the man doesn't like the woman more the relationship will never work out. Youtubers and red pill men need to stop telling women to pursue men. Men hate to be pursued and feel uncomfortable with a woman thirsting after himAnd get screamed at for approaching women? No. Women wanted equality you got it. Time to step up into the male role. We get so many mixed messages so instead of dealing with all the drama we have just walked away. Once we decide we want to approach and find a marriage partner we will just look internationally for traditional women. The results are so much better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 09:42 PM |
| – | What advice would you give my 37F perpetually single friend? I’m at my wit’s end with herBut men aren't chasing careers in sufficient numbers. College entries for males is lower and dropping and ATM women are receiving degrees at a 2 to 1 level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 10:20 AM |
| – | What advice would you give my 37F perpetually single friend? I’m at my wit’s end with herThat's great but unrealistic. Those treatments are expensive even if you make over 6 figures and carry no guarantee. Before covid my 30 year old niece and her husband spent over 300k in one year on ivf and she never became pregnant. She is now 35 and is now looking at adoption. At your friend ls age, she will automatically be listed as high risk and there is a good chance she may not be able to carry to full term. Yes its possible but that doesn't make it probable to any high degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 07:27 AM |
| – | What advice would you give my 37F perpetually single friend? I’m at my wit’s end with herLook, no offense to your friend, but the last study released showed that by 2030, 48 to 50% of all dating age women 20 to age 50. All women in western society mind you. Will be single, childless and have very limited dating options because of the growing education and wage differences. She is competing against all those women now and is literally looking for a 1% unicorn. The number of people in general in Michigan making 6 figures I think is less that 2% or less. Then you remove women, who make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 07:14 AM |
| – | Thought Experiment: What’s the difference between a post-op M2F transexual and a sex robot?No emotional drama. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 07:02 AM |
| – | What advice would you give my 37F perpetually single friend? I’m at my wit’s end with herVery doubtful. The average salary in Michigan for men is around 50k. She is still looking for a unicorn that may not be looking for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 07:00 AM |
| – | "The Wall" Another look at the idea and what it really means for men.No woman anywhere is a 10/10. Even the most attractive in the world barely rank 8/10 and the entitled attitudes and other unsavory behaviors usually drops them between 2/10 to max 6/10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 05:41 AM |
| 4 | Men Have Abandoned WomenI am not going to get into a theological discussion. That always ends very badly for anyone involved. Women can have all the purpose they want, and if they wanted to follow that belief they would take their traditional roles willingly and be cooperative with men. They do not and have not for decades. Women only adapt so far as to expect all benefits but not willing to compromise for anyone or anything. They are the ones constantly complaining of "settling" for average guys who aren't x tall or h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 08:36 PM |
| 7 | Men Have Abandoned WomenI'll take that a step further. We have spiritually, emotionally and physically disconnected from women, especially westernized women and are walking away from that societal norm. why? Because we had to adapt. As it is men are leaving the dating market, you can find articles where match maker services are having events but while having dozens of women showing up, no men attend. Attendance in clubs by men are down. Even Tinder is having trouble having enough men sign up now to meet demand and the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 08:15 PM |
| 7 | Men Have Abandoned WomenOh no, men have purpose. It just no longer involves or centered around women. They spend time with the guys at bars, seeking connections online for social interactions and just hookup for physical needs once in a while. Thanks for women's sexual freedom and giving it up with no expectations men no longer have to focus on meeting their standards anymore. Children, ltr and marriages just aren't part of the equation anymore. They can put in the minimum of effort and still get the maximum out of lif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 07:48 PM |
| – | The Hottest Women Are MILFSThe hottest women are those you can borrow and send back so someone else to deal with the emotional craziness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 07:31 PM |
| 13 | Men Have Abandoned WomenWomen abandoned men and traditional relationships long ago. Men just adapted faster and improved upon it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 07:29 PM |
| 1 | If for you, submission is just being cooperative and not naggy why not just say that instead of submissionLook no offense woke up with bad stomach issue and in no mood for long diatribes on the subject. You can call it apple fritters for all I care. Men want and call it submission it is that simple. If you don't like the word cool. The end result either women supply what these men want in a marriage or they will find traditional wives that will even it if means going international. Women unfortunate do not have that option since those men will never meet their expectations for a marriage and they ce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 05:35 PM |
| 0 | If for you, submission is just being cooperative and not naggy why not just say that instead of submissionSigh I KNOW that. There are more than the one article and one way to approach it. The WHOLE idea was to suggest she research it for herself and make her own determination. It was 2 am and I didn't want to go into a lengthy response with and linking multiple articles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 04:38 PM |
| -1 | If for you, submission is just being cooperative and not naggy why not just say that instead of submissionthe article was meant to show that submission in the realm of marriage doesn’t match the dictionary definition. I suggested OP research the subject to see if it cleared up the reasoning why people refer to it in relation to a married couple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 03:36 PM |
| -1 | If for you, submission is just being cooperative and not naggy why not just say that instead of submissionIt was meant strictly as an example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 12:39 PM |
| 0 | If for you, submission is just being cooperative and not naggy why not just say that instead of submissionBecause submission means much more than that. Suggest you research submission in a traditional marriage. That definition is a bit misleading. This article for instance while scripture based can give you some interesting thoughts on it. https://www.focusonthefamily.com/family-qa/submission-of-wives-to-husbands/ The modern western feminist movement have painted it completely wrong and turned into a way to describe modern slavery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 06:06 AM |
| 0 | What's the point of a long term serious relationship for a man?Nothing unless he enjoys humiliation and pain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 06:01 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: a woman being a bad ass... Turn on? Or turn off?I just can't. If I see full sleeves or any sizeable tattoos, it is just an instant turn off. Same for the nose rings and ears that have more metal in them than cartilage. I can't even stand those freddy kruegar nails. It just isn't attractive. In most cases people just go overboard with the body modifications. Small tattoos or mostly hidden tattoos I can live with but if I see her drop clothes and I see huge color patches of tat cover hips, thighs, her back and those designs below the breasts et… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 10:34 PM |
| 5 | If men want societal safety nets, they need to band together and weather the storm to get them.Nah, not worth the drama and headaches. The smart ones do as others have chosen. We leave and walk away on our own paths. I already retired a full 10 years early and looking to relocate to somewhere a bit more in favor of my lifestyle. Leaning toward Dubai but who knows. I've spent the last 6 months just traveling and checking out various locations that favors my beliefs. Once I find somewhere that I just feel "this is it" You will see nothing but asses and elbows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 09:51 PM |
| 9 | If men want societal safety nets, they need to band together and weather the storm to get them.All those resources came at the cost of men, their rights and financial support. Buy I guess that doesn't matter and reciprocation as always by women shouldn't be considered. Why is the fight for equality always seen as a one way single highway? The fight is always about equality as long as it only effects men negatively and doesn't touch anything women feel they are entitled to. Funny how that works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 09:10 PM |
| 0 | From a cold, practical perspective isn't women's emancipation bad for society if it leads to low birth ratesActually your right and wrong. There is a lack of children. As it is governments have recognized we are not replacing the aging population at a rate that will stay sustainable in the coming decades. While our generation or even the next two, we may not see the full impact but as an example we are living longer, but most aren't earning enough for sustained retirement that requires help from govt funded support. As it is, as the older generations are leaving the workforce, the amount of younger pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Women want to split housework and childrearing but don't want to compromise anywhere elseJust had this exact discussion on another post. It is crazy how women say "men aren't entitled to sex" and yet if you say " women aren't entitled to ask for traditional providers" the rage and fire breathing women that crawl out of the sewers is astounding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 08:49 PM |
| 1 | What do men want from women in a relationship?Easy, be the oasis I run to in a storm that provides peace and tranquility. Not a military commander looking for war and conflict the moment I hit the door. Men aren't that complicated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 06:36 AM |
| 11 | Q4M: a woman being a bad ass... Turn on? Or turn off?I don't see a bad ass. I see someone who made questionable life choices. Lots of tattoos? Bull ring in nose? The way she talks and puts herself out there, Would never see her as a dating, relationship or hookup option. I do not view her as feminine. I just see someone full of testosterone and drama. No thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 06:33 AM |
| 2 | Male sexuality is disgusting. Female sexuality is healthy. What more should be done to shame men into being better?Nope I say send them to God let him sort them out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 04:12 PM |
| -2 | Male sexuality is disgusting. Female sexuality is healthy. What more should be done to shame men into being better?Predators? If sex is the only thing women are offering, then it is the only thing men will seek. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 12:27 PM |
| 5 | What Percentage of College Girls Are This Superficial?200% of them. Don't forget the entitled piece of the puzzle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 12:24 PM |
| 1 | what do women gain from being in a relationship with men if they’re seen as valueless after 25?And stop creating new accounts to send me notes about your 85 year old sugar daddy and how his teeth keep sliding out on you damn. Buy him some glue or something. Christ some people. And I don't care about your daddy issues you complain to your therapist about!!!!@ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 06:27 AM |
| 1 | what do women gain from being in a relationship with men if they’re seen as valueless after 25?I guess that matches well with women with such poor personalities they aren't worthy of marriages or relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 06:14 AM |
| 1 | When approaching women, its better to give them your number than to ask for theirs.Don't do it!!! It's a trap run forrreesstt run | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 05:09 AM |
| 6 | Why do guys take it personally when women see them as a safe option, when guys end up marrying those options as well?No, men do not. What they will do is choose someone that shows interest in them and not question the motives of the relationship. This is why men react so negatively when this subject comes up. No one wants to be the safe second best option. If a guy goes after the trophy girl and fails, he will find someone who showers him with attention. And he will love her unconditionally. Women on the other hand, chooses to go after these guys when their biological alarms go off and it becomes an imperative… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Why do men say women have high standards?You might love this as a misandrus, but the single women who actually want relationships and even marriages and who love men and not hate them do not. They still make up a large majority of the woman populace. Just as you have one side preaching do not approach us, you have a different half all begging to be approached. Men are now just adapting and walking away. It isn't men who pushed this hookup culture, we just adapted to it far quicker than anyone realized. It is a by product of the sexual … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 02:46 PM |
| 1 | what do women gain from being in a relationship with men if they’re seen as valueless after 25?Most use other apps like bumble. Feeld was OK until last patch screwed it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 07:10 AM |
| 14 | General question: how do you feel about your SO ‘acting things out’ with an artist/singer on stage?Easy. She can find her own way home . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 04:24 AM |
| 0 | what do women gain from being in a relationship with men if they’re seen as valueless after 25?Men are already turning off dating in favor of just hooking up. Check the news, tinder is even having issues having enough men join to supply demand and match makers are having events where no men, just dozens of women are showing up but find no options. Even the birth rate is falling significantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 04:10 AM |
| 5 | Why do men say women have high standards?Location? those numbers are based on an average for instance, if you live in LA or NY your salary locally will be higher but also your costs. In the majority of areas the percentages of men coming close to 6 figures is quite low. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Why do men say women have high standards?I'd can drill down when I get home or you can Google search it. Lots of data running around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Why do men say women have high standards?Just a quick search Average Salary by Age (3rd Quarter of 2023) Age Group Average Salary 20-24 $38,012 25-34 $54,080 35-44 $65,676 45-54 $66,144 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 01:14 AM |
| 3 | Why do men say women have high standards?Every one has their own reasons and there are news reports that give varied reasons. But basically they just aren't. If you believe the data women are earning degrees at a 2 a ratio of 1 vs men and that trend doesn't look like it will change anytime soon. Men are opting for '"regular jobs" that have a national medium income of 35k to maybe 45k at the top end. Since they aren't interested in a traditional family, or children they are happy with just the basics. Nursing is still heavily female dom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 01:04 AM |
| 8 | Why do men say women have high standards?Those were just examples. Considering men are shying away from advanced degrees and even college in general, dating options will get even more remote in availability. I posted earlier but a fairly recent study shows 48 to 50% of all dating age women in the west by 2030 will be childless and single and may never be able to identify a dating option. Combine that with data that shows women for the first time in history will outnumber men and calculate men who prefer same sex coupling, then the men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 11:50 PM |
| 1 | More women (unfortunately) have to accept financial responsibilities if dating/relationships will ever fix itself. [Repost]For women unfortunately yes. Men have Adapted by going to look internationally for wives who aren't worried about his income and will be very happy with a traditional family and still willing to work and invest in their families. Their expectations are far different than western women even though their education and earning potential can be higher than their spouses. They just do not care if their men just love them, provide a family and treat them with dignity and respect. Women unfortunately w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 11:40 PM |
| 25 | Why do men say women have high standards?This " mildly successful men" it depends on what you see as mildly successful. This can be argued from any perspective but working in nursing for 30 years I cannot even relate the amount of times a coworker said something similar while standing next to the "nice guy she wished everyone was like" but wouldn't date him because he was bald, or an inch too short, or had a lazy eye. Your post sounds great but when you actually look at the behaviors it can easily be proven wrong on so many levels.n | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 11:21 PM |
| 7 | More women (unfortunately) have to accept financial responsibilities if dating/relationships will ever fix itself. [Repost]The truth is this will get much worse. Look at college admission rates. Men are actively avoiding college educations. They just do not see it as required to be happy. According to the Washington post. Studies are showing with current trends women are at earning degrees at a 2 to 1 ratio in relation to men. It stresses it is a multifaceted issue but it does seem to support men are just not pursuing advanced degrees that furthers the earning gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Woman who complain about ot being able to find a "good man" just have very high standardsObviously not. Weird jump to take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 10:25 PM |
| 4 | Woman who complain about ot being able to find a "good man" just have very high standardsSorry for your loss. I truly wish you the best and your able to find what or who you seek. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Woman who complain about ot being able to find a "good man" just have very high standardsIt is more than that. Studies and dating data show a portion of men are deciding not to pursue any type of committed relationship, combine that with men who seek international marriages and the fact that for the first time in history, women are fast approaching outnumbering men. Then combine that with men who prefer men sex coupling and the percentage of dating options reduces quite significantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 09:28 PM |
| 4 | Woman who complain about ot being able to find a "good man" just have very high standardsIt isn't easy, to add part of the issue are men in general aren't seeking relationships anymore. I am one of those men. I just see no benefit it. I lost my wife in 2002 and chose to never remarry or seek a ltr or commitment. This is fast becoming a more acceptable option for men. They only seek companionship on line and only rely on those hookups for certain physical needs. The hookup culture has all but replaced the dating culture and men adapted faster than expected to it. The last study I rem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 09:18 PM |
| 8 | Passportbros, s*x tourists, or s*xpats of Reddit, did dealing with women overseas mess up your view of women in your own country?To clarify, if they felt the need to get a passport, fly overseas to date and find a partner, they have already decided to bypass any women from their own country regardless of looks. They have literally given up on finding a match at home. S@x tourism isn't necessarily in the same categories as the passport guys. A good portion or those "bros" are seeking actual relationships and marriage partners, not just hookups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 07:13 PM |
| 1 | "Filtering out fuckboys" is a really dumb excuse for expecting men to pay for nice dinner datesFuckboys will still pay for dates for the opportunity for sex. In fact they will pay more often to have a higher percentage of sex being offered. All that does is create a transactional situation similar to prostitution or escort except instead of exchanging money for the services being offered, it is dinner and drinks etc. There is still a monetary cost and an exchange, the difference is to the fuckboy, it is no different than paying for a pack of gum, using it up and moving to a different gum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 04:01 PM |
| – | Guy asks girl who switches up the deal to leave. Subreddit goes wild.She tried to change the agreed upon dynamic. He was perfectly within his right to ask her to leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Do wommen even truly like men at all?No. They just want ATM machines. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 04:24 AM |
| – | Friendzone and dating advice: the elefant in the room that I haven't seen adressedAll the friendzone means is she doesn't see him as a relationship or sexual partner. In these cases I suggest the men wish them the best and block and ghost instead if wasting time, energy and resources on someone who will never return the same effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 06:16 AM |
| 0 | If men knew how sexless most relationships are, they wouldn't be so depressed about single life.Which is why men should walk away from relationships in the west and just go find traditional wives and girlfriends. Problem solved. Western women no longer need to do any chores and traditional men can have their traditional cake, eat their fill while their traditional partner bake them another one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 06:10 AM |
| 2 | Men should not commit to women until they close all their optionsLet's say she has 5 steaks. All 5 tastes the same. But they all have whether it is the cut, seasoning, size or difference in how it was prepared. But suddenly, she just knows there is a 6th steak somewhere that has all the things she wants from the others but has that little something more. So she keeps searching instead of being happy with one of those choices. It is a never ending cycle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Question for men who want "traditional" gender normsYou maybe one of those rare jewels that is the exception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Question for men who want "traditional" gender normsYes and no. Your obviously looking for specific traits they don't have for a relationship. The question becomes will anyone be able to meet those traits. No offense but women in general tend to build of this image of their expected partner. They will literally build him by comparing him to others they have dated and or movie and fantasy descriptions of the " perfect" husband. The issue is they also refuse to compromise. For example, has everything but is 5'6 not 6'5 not an option. Has everything… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Men should not commit to women until they close all their optionsYes and no. The main issue is, how much emotional and mental trauma will she cause herself because she allowed so many men to pump and dump. No offense meant, but I have met woman who were so mentally compromised, there is no way they can function in a normal relationship. I will use sex workers as an example because theirs is the most obvious. I know 2 well known porn stars. I consider them good friends and they do OF, I have met many of the talent for o.this industry and crew. None of the tale… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do men let their gfs push them around?It is called going to jail for assault with no evidence because we are supposed to believe all women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 04:23 AM |
| 65 | Men should not commit to women until they close all their optionsLet me fix this. Men should not settle for being someone's last remaining option. They should go find someone that chooses them first, loves, respects and appreciate them. All others should be left behind them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 04:21 AM |
| 2 | The red pill men on youtube have 30 and 40 YEAR OLD WOMEN terrified of aging. Can we please normalize older women being just as beautiful as the 20 something year oldsNo why? Because everyone has their own preferences and you can't MAKE them change their preferences just because you do not agree with them. Lets have a little clarity. It isn't men pushing the plastic surgery market. Most do not even agree with half the procedures being done. I myself am completely turned off by someone who has had multiple procedures. None of us want to date a plastic barbie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 04:10 AM |
| 12 | Question for men who want "traditional" gender normsThose are extreme examples. Most men would just be happy to be appreciated and respected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 04:05 AM |
| 3 | CMV If a Man is successful with women other women calling him a „myso*inist“ or „in*el“ doesnt matter. Results talk for themself.I had opportunities, but I didn't take them. I do not date or fuck co workers ever. Tried it once and it nearly got me fired. Never again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 06:00 PM |
| 3 | CMV If a Man is successful with women other women calling him a „myso*inist“ or „in*el“ doesnt matter. Results talk for themself.Oh no mate, I stopped listening decades ago. I worked in nursing and developed a great sense of selective hearing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 07:56 AM |
| 1 | What would the ideal conditions for financial abortion look like?From my understanding the idea comes from Tennesse house bill 2698 as reported by fox news in 2022 i think? It came from a representative that met someone in a barber's shop of all places who was relaying his story of living with someone for 5 years, found out the child wasn't his but an affair partners and when he went to court the judge just basically said "someone has to feed him and thats you until he ages out" That man ended up losing his license, his job and went to jail as a result. The b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 06:09 AM |
| 1 | No, men are not "creating single moms"shrug, google it. Florida just made it into law with a few changes. Permanent alimony there is done, it no longer exists. They now have 3 different types of alimonies to cover various scenarios. I haven't read the law because I didn't know it went through until I looked this afternoon so I will have to go look at details at some point. I do know other states are looking at Florida as a template to change their laws. Not that hard to find the information. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 04:41 AM |
| -1 | What would the ideal conditions for financial abortion look like?I'm not arguing those points. But I wouldn't doubt for a second if it gets a popular vote it will move to a more national level especially coming into a new voting session where politicians will be fighting for those votes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 01:19 AM |
| 1 | No, men are not "creating single moms"I have never used any social media besides Reddit and that is only certain forums and fairly recently within the last couple of years. I steer completely clear of tik tok, ig or similar like the plague. It is a cesspool. I never touched on baby trapping as I see that as a separate issue that needs to be addressed. At this point we can agree to disagree because no matter the amount of information provided that shows the opposite, you will just argue the point and change the goalpost if it doesn't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 12:16 AM |
| 0 | No, men are not "creating single moms"And again I would argue your wrong? Why there are more studies to get done and I can probably find data regarding this particular subject. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/digital-world-real-world/202302/research-casts-doubt-on-male-centred-theories-of-aggression%3famp Arg I hate reddit app ok. Article from Feb this year regarding abuse examination of the real-world research suggests high levels of female aggression, such as seen in digital behaviours, have long been known about16. Beyond domesti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 12:00 AM |
| 0 | What would the ideal conditions for financial abortion look like?I'll see if I can locate it later. I might have it bookmarked or can find it my browser history. I'll check when I return home but that will get quite late. I am currently out of town. Just fyi. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 11:40 PM |
| 0 | No, men are not "creating single moms"Dead wrong. When I get home I'll try to find the article. The same study showed children in single fathers homes didn't have the same issues to a large degree. There was huge differences between the two. Dead beat dads do exist don't get me wrong but many dads get mislabeled. There are articles where fathers were never told of a child's existence but they were labeled and insulted by families without ever having the chance to be a father. You also have a huge amount of false paternity claims whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 11:19 PM |
| 49 | CMV If a Man is successful with women other women calling him a „myso*inist“ or „in*el“ doesnt matter. Results talk for themself.Here is the truth of it. Those insulting buzzwords are often used regardless of they actually apply or not. If men in general do not fully agree with "x" subject they are immediately labeled a d insulted. If they put forth an unpopular idea or preference regarding dating options or standards, immediately get labeled incels and burned at the stake. The funny part is, most women do not even know the actual definition. They throw it out there because someone in social media used it and it sounded c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 11:08 PM |
| 0 | What would the ideal conditions for financial abortion look like?Ok closest I can find right now was a brief video on a podcast called DNA podcast on YouTube that mentioned a news article on wafb? News provider for Louisiana posted around 3 months ago. I can do a better search later but that might give you enough information to locate olit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 10:59 PM |
| -1 | What would the ideal conditions for financial abortion look like?.You can Google search it and I believe Florida has already past the legislation and is being used as a framework to take it nationally. https://www.wealthmanagement.com/estate-planning/big-changes-florida-s-alimony-law Article about the alimony changes and we're signed into law which I wasn't aware at the state level. I can't find the child support but I am not at home where I can do a deep dive. I think it was Louisiana that proposed this change but am not sure where it is at in the approval p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 10:02 PM |
| 0 | No, men are not "creating single moms"This is fast approaching change. I just posted on another post. Legislation has been recommended at the state level and looking to be pushed to national level that changes this dynamic. First of all child support will only be applied if, it can be proven the parents were in a committed relationship either by marriage or holding themselves out In public as a couple for I think of a period of a year + I believe. I might be wrong on the length. Further child support will be calculated on a base mar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 09:49 PM |
| -1 | No, men are not "creating single moms"Not necessarily true. If you read recent studies, children from single mom homes have a higher rate of self inflicted harm, depression, anger, and more likely to turn to drugs and or crime. I am sure anyone can find studies that prove either side of the argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 09:32 PM |
| -1 | What would the ideal conditions for financial abortion look like?I do which I fully support these changes. It goes even further in that part of the legislation gets rid of permanent alimony. Alimony will be based on a market static calculation and not on his income. It will only be applied to half the of the marriage. So for example, married a year, get six months of support at market value. Marry an NBA player, awesome! But no more million dollar divorces. I hope all these changes are implemented and taken nationally. It seriously levels the field and makes … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 09:27 PM |
| – | Men don't need to reveal that they plan on paternity testing.Well good news. Legislation on the state level which could go national is not only looking at mandatory paternity testing at birth but adding legislation that unless the child is a product of a actual committed relationship that I think is over a year+ in length and can be proven via witnesses etc they were a couple. Unless a marriage is in place. This also has legislation to control alimony. Permanent alimony will no longer exist. It will be based off the relationship. Married a year? She only … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 09:21 PM |
| -2 | What would the ideal conditions for financial abortion look like?Actually, a few states in the US have recently suggested laws to address this. What they are suggesting is there has to be an existing relationship in place or the father can legally opt out of child support. If the child is a product of a one night stand or FWB situation, she will not be able to get child support. This further will be based on actual child need and not his income so the amount will be capped so no matter how much the father makes, she will only get enough for basic needs. This … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Paternity tests should not be used as a weapon against opposite sex, but as a logical progression of rightsFirst result is from 1999 data provided from AABB (american association of blood banks) https://dnatesting.com/paternity-fraud-the-tough-realities-men-must-face/ Recent article that digs a bit further and gives examples of some individual statistics. https://www.fraud.com/post/paternity-fraud Article in 2022 I believe that focuses on the fraud and it's consequences to men and the legal system. https://www.verywellfamily.com/help-for-victims-of-paternity-fraud-2997823 https://dadsdivorce.com/arti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 06:48 PM |
| 1 | As long as women expect men to pay for dates, men will always expect something in return.Yes and no. In the majority of cases men would be happy with a little honest appreciation. That so rarely happens why would they want to fulfill a traditional act they will likely not only not receive any appreciation or even recognition but are often met with indifference, ridicule and spiteful comments. Basically it becomes a bad investment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Women are more likely to be lonely than menYou can find studies that support each argument. The basic truth is because of the current social climate, women are actively seeking real relationships while men have just adapted to the hookup culture and just seek out online gaming friends or "the guys" to satisfy their social needs and just looking for hookups for physical needs. Given the current dynamic, this puts women in the "losing" side of the market. Men just adapted and changed to suit the market but that in turns leaves many women s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 04:55 PM |
| 2 | 60% of Millennial women are already nearly infertile. And 80% of childless women regret not having kids. Is this why more women are crying on TikTok than ever before?Oh it's going to get much worse. Recent studies show that by 2030, which isn't far off, nearly 50+% of all dating age women between 20 and 50 will likely not only be childless but be single with very few dating options. Between the education gap, income gap, and differences in women seeking very "elite" dating partners, and men wanting traditional role wives, which less face it doesn't exist in the West to any great degree anymore plus add that for the first time in history women are outnumberin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 04:19 PM |
| – | In a house with no kids and where the man is at work from 7am - 5pm, what daily tasks do women do around the housePersonally I do not care. But she will need to be pursuing something. It could be her education, hobbies, cleaning and chores but she needs to remain busy. I will not accept using staff to clean my house just so she can shop, watch rom coms or do lunches with the girls everyday. Basically any adult should be able to do daily care for themselves whether it's food preparation, laundry, cleaning and other chores. If you see it needs done, do it. If I am too busy have no issue out sourcing some of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Paternity tests should not be used as a weapon against opposite sex, but as a logical progression of rightsThe assumption maybe a committed relationship but the reality that over 30%+ fathers find out after years of bonding the child was never theirs. I had a friend years ago leave a note that simply said "I wasn't daddy" and put a bullet in his head when a required testing for his daughter with leukemia revealed they were never related. If the percentages of false paternity weren't as high, then it could be argued but given the social climate, those tests should be mandatory at birth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 03:50 PM |
| 4 | Paternity tests should not be used as a weapon against opposite sex, but as a logical progression of rightsPaternity tests should be mandatory. Period. It takes all the guess work and legal issues and squashes it at birth. No more false paternity claims, no more false marriages based off those claims and any child support can be assessed right after the test if the parents aren't in a committed relationship and have no interest in being a couple. It isn't fair to the children or those fathers that build years worth of bonding only to be slapped in the face when it is discovered they aren't the real f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Asking your partner to wear less revealing clothes: controlling or boundaries?Personally, you can call it a boundary, a rule a guideline or an insecurity but in the end it is my preference and as such a deal breaker for the relationship, non negotiable. If she feels the need to dress or act in ways I do not agree with, that's her decision, as such I don't have to accept it in a relationship partner. At that point how or what you decide to label it means nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women?Example article from April 2023 https://www.shethepeople.tv/top-stories/opinion/men-prefer-wives-without-job/ Pertinent paragraph. "There has been a recent survey conducted using matrimonial sites based on the amount of interest working women get from men regarding marriage. The data indicated that men chose non-working women as potential wives as compared to working women. In fact, women in job roles that are conventionally ‘masculine’ like IT firms, management and business, were the least chos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 03:27 PM |
| 4 | Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women?1) fat fingered the phone. Did an edit after with a better explanation. 2) wrong on so many levels. Yes you will find some guys that applies too but it isn't the majority. A good portion of men still prefer and want traditional relationships. They just don't see them in westernized dating environment. This is where you see the posts about passport bros etc where they have just decided to seek out those relationships internationally instead of locally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 03:06 PM |
| 5 | Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women?Pretty self explanatory. The majority of women are still looking for traditional provider husbands but yet those husbands aren't getting traditional wives. It's gotten to the point where young men are just checking out and doing the bare minimum. They aren't enrolling into college or looking for advanced degrees or careers. They see no benefit in it. Each are no longer willing to "settle" and work together as a team but act as individuals and expect the other pick up the slack and provide a spec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 02:55 PM |
| 5 | Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women?Absolutely it they are trying to live a lifestyle obviously above their means of support. If they enter a relationship expecting a traditional provider husband, she needs to expect to provide a similar traditional wife role. If on the other hand she prefers a more modern relationship where it's 50/50 then live within those means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 02:38 PM |
| 12 | Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women?Social media and the direction out society has taken. Women are being taught from an early age "they are the prize, never settle" instead of, we are all equal, find someone your compatible with. Between Disney, Hollywood and the greeting card companies, women gave adopted very unrealistic expectations from relationships that even goe himself can't provide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 01:59 PM |
| 4 | What % of women actually go through a “hoe phase”Ask a number of women you know. Then average that number. Then add 70% to it and your close to accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Your wife/husband doesn’t want to do certain sexual activities that they did with the ex with you. Your response.It's human nature usually centered around one word. Hope. They hope things will change, but rarely does it ever change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Your wife/husband doesn’t want to do certain sexual activities that they did with the ex with you. Your response.Which is expressly why such indepth discussions should happen before any formal ceremonies are planned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Your wife/husband doesn’t want to do certain sexual activities that they did with the ex with you. Your response.There are many many such posts on various forums such as dead bedrooms, infidelity, relationship issues looking for advice on very similar subjects. It is by no means isolated or unusual sadly and if you read the posts it becomes exceedingly obvious this subject was never discussed. It usually comes from blatant miscommunication either in accident or one or both purposely hiding their past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Your wife/husband doesn’t want to do certain sexual activities that they did with the ex with you. Your response.And your applying the post to your specific relationship and experience. That's disingenuous. There are always exceptions and alternative endings that may prove or disprove any theory. Your relationship may be completely different from the other 10 your neighbors have experienced. The Op apparently added some information that gives more context to his thoughts process. As with any topic of this sort, it's up to the couple involved to discuss and decide what is acceptable or not. You and your spo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Men don't benefit from taking the red pill.Finding sex isn't that difficult. If sex is the only goal then you can visit a legal brothel where it's legal. The post was specific to "men who are seeking relationships." And i posted specifically to give an opposing viewpoint to their claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Your wife/husband doesn’t want to do certain sexual activities that they did with the ex with you. Your response.So if your spouse is having negative emotional responses, your solution is " it's their problem not yours?" That isn't a relationship in my opinion. If my partner said anything remotely this insensitive, she would get a quick invitation to leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Your wife/husband doesn’t want to do certain sexual activities that they did with the ex with you. Your response.That's exactly my point. He may choose not to stick around based on this incompatibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Your wife/husband doesn’t want to do certain sexual activities that they did with the ex with you. Your response.I do not buy into the alpha / beta arguments as they are normally popularized. And yes, people can decide they do not like specific kinks. But that discussion should take place before any long term commitment happens. The main issue is people will tend to "hide" or not be honest with perspective spouses and then the issues arise suddenly. There are many posts where relationships blow apart from just this issue and it's not only men. Women may enter into a relationship with a preconceived idea th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Your wife/husband doesn’t want to do certain sexual activities that they did with the ex with you. Your response.Again. Not what I said. The couple gets married. They already discussed and she knew he didn't want a child with her. His explanation was, he just didn't want to be a father. She agreed and got married. But, she finds out the partner before, he was enthusiastic about having a child, with her, not his chosen current partner. While she did accept his reasoning and got married anyway, but was really looking forward to being his best partner and mother of his children, shes excluded now? After he wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Your wife/husband doesn’t want to do certain sexual activities that they did with the ex with you. Your response.That isn't the point of the post or how it reads. At no time were physical limitations questioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Your wife/husband doesn’t want to do certain sexual activities that they did with the ex with you. Your response.Never said it was. Doesn't mean it can't be an example of an unbalanced viewpoint. That was the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 06:22 PM |
| -1 | Your wife/husband doesn’t want to do certain sexual activities that they did with the ex with you. Your response.But right here, this is the result. "or made me feel undesired, I wouldn’t be with him." Men think completely differently than women. If you were a willing participant in those activities, but refuse your spouse, unintentionally you just told him he is not as a desirable sexual partner your previous partner was. Whether that was your intention or not, that will be the result. He will literally question "what's wrong with me?" At that point the entire relationship can be questioned. Did she settl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Your wife/husband doesn’t want to do certain sexual activities that they did with the ex with you. Your response.This is farther from the truth than you realize. These men want to feel desired, not settled for. It isn't insecurities that is driving it as much as wanting to feel like their partner is truly happy and attracted to them sexually in all forms. It isn't the actual act but the desire to share those experiences with a partner that chose you for a long term commitment but was willing to share very kinky and intimate moments they aren't willing to share with their chosen long term partner? Reverse t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 04:56 PM |
| 1 | ALL men who want to date should go to the gym and take care of themselves, and women are reasonable to demand that.Reverse that, All women who want relationships should go to the gym and take care of themselves and men are reasonable to demand that. This argument can be said for nearly every preference and or attribute anyone prefers in a spouse. From income level, weight, looks, behaviors and mannerisms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 01:51 PM |
| 5 | Men don't benefit from taking the red pill.So you have a feminist lgbt supporter who went undercover as a guy to who fully expected to expose the toxic world of men only find the exact opposite and experience just how badly men are treated in the dating scene in the west who do not meet the entitled expectations and discovered just how difficult it is for men and it effected her so profoundly she self deleted and your now dismissing her experiences? figures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 01:43 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Too many men care way too much about their dickI am not going to address the majority of this post as it's disingenuous at best. As for your bullet points. 1) men have adapted and are just developing the parts of their lives that fulfill them. With the dating culture such as it is, hookup culture has taken over the actual dating culture. So why would they need to put all that time and energy into a dying market that ridicules, belittles and just plan doesn't respect them 2) This wouldn't be a problem except, anytime any disagreement happens,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 12:58 AM |
| 6 | Men don't benefit from taking the red pill.Research Norah Vincent and the information and study she did. It might give you a different insight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 12:22 AM |
| 1 | If women are the ones who control the dating market, wouldn’t it make sense for men to lower their standards instead?Or, men can go to places where the women still prefer traditional relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 05:26 PM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.So you would prefer to have no legal rights passed marriage, if you weren't married by 20 you could face criminal penalties. I think you need to research a bit before spitting such drivel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 01:31 PM |
| 9 | Men need women more than women need men."Those industries are male dominated because men won’t allow women to work in them. Not because women can’t do the work." Biggest load of horse shit. There have been multiple articles and studies done to show women choose not to work in those industries. In most cases there educational incentives to try and get women into various industries and they still refuse to choose those industries. "You will still have to work to support yourselves. You aren’t all going to just disappear and we aren’t go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 02:27 PM |
| 1 | My daughter’s dating/marriage prospects ?I wouldn't even attempt it. Her looks are not even being considered. Bpd? With a history of refusing treatment Mixed with a history of felony identity theft? And then a history of meth abuse? If she were the last available dating option on the planet, I'd lock myself in an underground bunker and weld the door shut. That has drama and bad idea spray painted all over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 02:49 PM |
| 1 | The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right?Personally, I make it a point to not approach women in public areas. There are way too many mixed messages being given out and it just isn't worth the time it takes to try and decipher just which message they are trying to convey. In most cases your damned if you do but also damned if you don't. For reference, I'm 55, I've got a few years on you. During college, we didn't have the majority of old that you have now. But we also didn't get the same blatantly negative responses we do now. If I appr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 02:42 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys explain lonely women?Mate, they can find dates. The issue could be they can't find relationships. Big difference. To answer your question, yes they absolutely can feel loneliness even if they get lots of attention from men. They aren't getting the relationship outcomes with the men they truly desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Men don’t care about women’s career?It is subjective to the men your involved with. Personally, I could care less what her career and income is. It will not effect me in the slightest. She could be a hostess at a restaurant or a PhD professor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Would you or would you think most people feel a certain way (deal breaker) over a person's past dating choices?Absolutely. As an example, if I were dating someone and found out they knowingly was involved in an affair with a married person,that's an immediate deal breaker for the relationship. I would have zero reason to trust their choices or judgement. A person's past choices in dating partners can give you a relatively good idea if you will be compatible as a couple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Guys, you have 2 options, which would you choose?Your basing the decision on a strictly visual preference. This isn't always the case. Younger women tend to carry less emotional baggage in regards to failed relationships. In most cases this makes them more compatible in a relationship overall. Just based out of the limited choices, I wouldn't choose either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 03:54 PM |
| 2 | The “modern woman” is changing, and the “modern man” needs to adapt to the changeAnd this mindset has seriously backfired in general. Why? Generally, men are just opting out of relationships all together or looking for women who still prefer more traditional relationships. Considering the latest study showed that 50% of all dating age women by 2030 will be childless and single and also overall college admissions for men have been drastically reduced, it has become obvious that men again in general just see no need to "improve" for a relationship they see no real benefit in i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill is a Cult that is brainwashing young men to be misogynist.I really didn't have an opinion until here: "Men who can't get modern women so they seek poor countries to exploit women making them into bang maids" Classifying these women this way is not only blatantly wrong but very disrespectful to them. Not only are these women intelligent and often educated, most speak multiple languages. The only real difference between them and " modern" i.e westernized women is they still much prefer traditional roles in a relationship. Make no mistake, if the man they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Porn, High body count, unfair criticism and the red pillBasically, no. Why? Porn actors and actresses literally get to a point where they see sex, intimacy and relationships different than "vanilla" couples. It has nothing to do with them being "subhuman" and everything to do with them seeing sex as less of a shared intimate moment and more of a transactional or recreational past time. There are studies that show the more people women end up having sex with, the higher the percentage is they will not be able to pair bond and will not be satisfied in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:23 PM |
| 2 | CMV : I always hear about Low value Women claming they locked down a HVM and therefore beeing a Hoe has no impact on theyre Dating Choices. Those Dude which they believe to be HVM are not.This is dependant on how they are identifying a HVM. If she is only judging him based on income, then that could be the issue. The question is, just how much does that guy actually value her or is he looking at her from a sexual fetish viewpoint. The other side of that coin, is being able to date someone and then truly being willing to commit long term is two very different things. There was a TikTok video I saw posted where a girl was bragging about dating someone who bought her a high priced (… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 02:10 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Western men have always been an undateable messExcept this isn't true " they are free to find someone that meets their standards." According to the latest numbers, by 2030, 50% percent of dating age women will be childless and single with very limited options. This will further be complicated that further shows women in the US are outnumbering men. This will reduce still the number of available men that may or may not be interested in a committed relationship. The "standards" they are looking for are only being satisfied by the very top perc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 11:05 PM |
| 5 | Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to womenThat isn't historically completely accurate. There were provisions after around 1700 that gave women's rights to own property and have some say in what their husbands were able to do with their assets. New York actually passed an act in 1771 that requireed married men to get their wives signatures to any deed she was entitled to before sales or transfers. As with any social change it was a process. When America was established, it basically just copied these rights from their home countries whet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to womenOh, I steer clear of almost all social media, reddit is the exception and I only found it due to a bad breakup a couple of years ago and I was researching some information. YouTube is mostly for music and similar. The other TikTok, what's app, Twitter etc I avoid like the plague. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to womenWhat sites are you visiting??? The only places I've seen that are remotely that hostile are not sites I would ever frequent. No one has to be in a relationship of any kind to be happy. If anyone chooses to remain single, it's just that, their choice. Gender shouldn't matter really. I do not think anyone should be dependant on another. Everyone should be able to take care of themselves and their own financial responsibilities. That is just being a responsible adult. I see that as the bare minimum… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to womenWanting interaction, attention, sex and or families is a far cry from feeling entitled to it. There are plenty of women that still want those traditional relationships just as some men do. There are also plenty of men who aren't really that interested in seeking such interactions. It's just not a dynamic they want to entertain. Personally, I am not interested in any relationship past a casual dating relationship. I have zero interest in marriage or being committed. I see no benefit in it. As wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 10:50 PM |
| 2 | What can restore the divide between men and women in America?I don't think it should be resolved. Men are finally realizing that against the message we are constantly met with, we do not need a relationship, family or even a marriage to be happy and fulfilled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 08:37 PM |
| 5 | Where have all the good men gone?The cause? Look at society as a whole and the message being driven into the young men. They are mentally and emotionally pounded on with the message "men aren't shit". If you look even 20 years ago the message was " be a nice guy, put women on a pedestal, work hard and be a success" but in reality the reverse is true. Nice guys are ridiculed, men are bashed and often portrayed as bumbling buffoons and idiots in entertainment venues or as only being valuable if they are hyper masculine and succes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to womenThis is so wrong on so many levels. Father's teach their sons to respect women, be the shining knight, put women on a pedestal, be the nice guy and you will profit. In reality the reverse is true. Men get shit on by society. We are portrayed in movies as incompetent bumbling idiots. All they tried to do is supply a good life to a family and ask for their respect. That is no longer the case. Men have just adapted to the changing environment, they just haven't adapted the way it was expected. Men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 02:28 PM |
| 0 | Men, does a woman's educational background or career success boost her attractiveness?Nope, she drops to a 3. Why? In most cases those women exhibit all the characteristics of people that are argumentative, combative, hyper masculine and or controlling. Those behaviors and mannerisms aren't conductive to a long term relationship. Quite frankly, I would consider us incompatible as a dating couple, wish her the best and just move on. Edit fixing autocorrect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 01:56 PM |
| 0 | Joining a hobby group with intentions to meet chicks is terrible adviceI disagree. You are more likely to find a compatible match for a long term relationship by sharing interests in such hobbies. The majority ofen just looking to get laid aren't going to be interested in investing alot of time, energy or monies into those hobbies unless sex is guaranteed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 01:51 PM |
| 3 | Both women and men don’t need each other and why this is a good thingExcept mental health in regards to relationships, loneliness and depression are at an all time high along with use of antidepressant meds. If you call that best for them. Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Both women and men don’t need each other and why this is a good thingFrom quick google search. Limited from my current location. I have better search apps on my home system. But as you can see they are all very similar if not from the same source. https://www.researchgate.net/figure/List-of-Major-Reasons-for-Divorce-by-Individuals-and-Couples-Who-Participated-in-PREP_tbl1_262229581 https://divorce.com/blog/causes-of-divorce/ https://psychcentral.com/relationships/top-reasons-for-divorce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Both women and men don’t need each other and why this is a good thingI believe divorce.com? Could be wrong. But there are multiple sites with the same information. It's quoted a bit in various articles some with supporting studies and some just regurgitating the same study. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Both women and men don’t need each other and why this is a good thingI'll have to find the study. Unfortunately can't from my current location. Pew research has various studies regarding relationships as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Both women and men don’t need each other and why this is a good thingFrom older couples. Yes. But not from the following generations. The number is skewed. Also look at the declining marriage number. It further skews the results. We have dropped from a stat of 8 per 1000 getting married to 6 and below. Less people are seeking marriages. Again, the majority of these longer marriages belong to a different generation that approached relationships differently than the younger generations. If you look at the various age ranges you will find for 29 to 40 years olds the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Both women and men don’t need each other and why this is a good thingThere are some studies but not all agree. The average reasons are : Lack of commitment (75.0%) Infidelity (59.6%) Too much conflict in the family (57.7%) Young age at marriage (45.1%) Financial issues (36.7%) Substance abuse (34.6%) Domestic violence (23.5%) Severe diseases or physical incapacity (18.2%) They do drill down on some of these topics because the terminology is very broad in the description. Basically, it's their choice. It always has been. The statistics for 2023 so far shows a divo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Both women and men don’t need each other and why this is a good thingThere was a study put out out by pew research I believe that showed by I think 2050 the population of men to women will effectively balance out for the first time in history. The study further went on to explain that a study by the UN projects women will start out populating men part this point in time. This of course will be dependant on a number of factors. The following is an excerpt from the article. "The United States has had more females than males since 1946, according to the U.S. Census … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 08:50 PM |
| 5 | Both women and men don’t need each other and why this is a good thingCheck the statistics. The average relationship now only lasts about 2 years to 3 years. That's the average from couples at 20 years +. Most couples in their 30's are lasting between 2 to 6 years on average. The longest relationships belong to couples above 40 to 60 that still show 5 to 10 year relationships. This trend isn't going to get better. In fact most studies show it going the other way. A sizable majority of singles are just opting for casual sexual relationships and not committed relati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 08:30 PM |
| 4 | Both women and men don’t need each other and why this is a good thingAnd I would argue they are a traditional couple. Him cooking and cleaning is him being an adult. I don't give extra marks for that. I would bet they still see themselves as "traditional" regardless of who does what chore. Marriages are work, they are like a difficult garden that requires constant maintenance and care. They don't just happen like in fairy tales, Hollywood movies or Disney cartoons. I am quite sure both your parents put the work in to keep the relationship stable and healthy. In m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 07:51 PM |
| 21 | Both women and men don’t need each other and why this is a good thingHere's your issue. Your example, your parents. They came from a different era in dating and relationships. Each supports the other. As it states " for better or worse, for sickness and in health" It's a completely different mindset now. Today's dating norm no longer holds that to be true overall. It's not about the couple any longer but of the individual. We have developed a truly disposable society and sadly that includes relationships. It's just easier to discard them instead of working on iss… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 07:31 PM |
| 1 | The average man is fine, it’s the below average men who are genuinely struggling.Those statistics are only based on a small sample size. They aren't necessarily accurate if your looking at the bigger picture of the social norms. The average study uses less than 1000 people then extrapolates the data. This can easily skew the results. Part of the issue is the "grading" system being used as a measure. The average guy you described has always been average. But yet they still had opportunities to date and have relationships. Often than not, that isn't the case any longer. Dating… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Do you care about a women's career or level of educational attainment in a partner?No, her education level or career choice overall doesn't impact my lifestyle in the least. The only caveat if she spends the majority of her time working leaving very little time for an actual relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Men who want to move abroad to find love - why?Here's the crux. Most if not all women want someone who fulfills those financial needs. The real question is what do the men get in return? Majority of western women, pay my bills, get my nails and hair done, great you just spent 10k, now take me to dinner and no your not getting intimacy, no I am not going to take care of the house, your clothes or do anything for you but be here. Make her a coffee? Big deal she would rather Starbucks, offer a weekend end at the beach! Only if it's in Dubai. No… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 03:15 PM |
| 14 | The 'Sexlessness Rise' is not specifically male-drivenWhile the sample size is rather small and can be misleading, you can use other data points to help reinforce the theory. For example if you look at the data released by the dating apps, you will find only the top percentile of men in either looks or appearance of financial success get positive results. All others, the interest drops significantly, however the majority of women regardless of whether they are viewed as "below average" to "highly attractive", their information stays relatively high… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 03:12 PM |
| 1 | What is considered a “High Body Count” ?Personally, the body count for me isn't the issue as much as her behaviors surrounding it. Was any lying or infidelity involved in any level? Was she ever a willing affair partner? Was she lying to everyone and running around with sneaky links? Is she constantly searching and seeking out validation from other men? Her behaviors will give me idea if she would be a stable compatible relationship partner or not. If there is a yes to any of those questions, she is immediately disqualified as a possi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?It's not hate. Far from it. But no, we do not have to accept being the punching bag for years of relationship drama we had no hand in creating. And your remark just proves the point. How? The same reason you use to date older men for emotional maturity is the same reason 20 year old woman seek out those 30 year old men. Those older men your attractive too, are dating you for most likely the exact same reasons why those 30 year old men are dating 20 year olds. Dating women their own age inherentl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 04:04 PM |
| 0 | For guys that *really* care about body count, do you ask?No they won't. Why? Because of the stigma and negative reactions they face and the overall conflicting messages social media paints. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?No, this isn't always the case. Those men in their 30's where the men that got curbed in their 20's who have now established their careers and financial standings in most cases. Women in their 30's, more often than not come with emotional baggage from bad choices in relationships. That is not always the case, but the odds are as the new "bf" we will have to deal with the emotional fallout especially if she didn't seek out therapy for her negative experience. So why would those men now "settle" f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?This is a much more complicated question to answer and by the responses you will find people on each side of the extreme. Basically, it's specific to the guy and what they are seeking in a partner. The usual arguments, while cliche, actually apply. First, women in their 30's have a much higher chance of having multiple traumas from bad choices in relationships. That usually means the new bf has to deal with the results for problems they didn't cause. Especially if she didn't get the therapy she … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 03:18 PM |
| 11 | For guys that *really* care about body count, do you ask?You can ask but she's either going to be offended or straight up lie. Better idea is to watch her behaviors. Is she highly flirtatious? On her phone constantly? Always on Instagram? TikTok? What's app? Or have all the dating apps installed. Does she have a huge list of men on her contacts? Generally their behaviors will betray their past. Then decide if it's a deal breaker for you. I've had dates where they volunteered information that showed they cheated or were willing partners in affairs and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you rather be single or in a horrible relationship?Single, 100 percent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 04:08 PM |
| 3 | A lot of single men at their late 20s are actually voluntarily singleSome of these guys, are nursing students. Not all are MD students. I won't say it's across the board, but there are certainly enough I can say it's a majority of the students I've run into. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 11:07 PM |
| 16 | How do you solve the "The Fatherless Crisis"?My perspective. I've tried to be that replacement dad. It doesn't work. To be that role model you need to have some control over the child and yes that could include possible discipline. No that doesn't include "beating his ass". One of the largest issues is the mother interceding between the "step father" and the children. Once the children learn they are nearly untouchable they tend to push behavior boundaries and will openly cause chaos to a relationship. From the step aspect, if you invest i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Should we just raise the consenting age to 25?It seriously wouldn't matter. When he was dating 25 year old people still lost their minds. The funny part is, there aren't too many women in that age bracket that wouldn't willing volunteer to date him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 07:52 PM |
| 3 | men should never help women with anything unless they clearly verbally request itPersonally, I gave up the knight in shining armor mannerisms years ago. At this point, it's just none of my business or responsibility. Unless I already have an established relationship or friendship with the person in need, I'm just walking away. Being a good Samaritan now is just not rewarded and often just punished. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Men who genuinely are fans of Andrew tate can I ask u why?I do not agree with how the tatted communicate their information. But I will say they aren't far from the truth in the majority of their actual message. You have to be dig past all the macho bs they fling, but there is a solid message hidden behind their bravado. So why are they so popular? Because their messages are actually resonating and making sense to most men who are mentally exhausted with hearing the " all men are shut" mentality that has taken over social media. There is enough truth th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 07:30 PM |
| 0 | Do you think the Idaho college student murders would be getting 24/7 media attention if the victims were ugly male students? It seems like even in death, pretty girls get priority.Do you believe those were the only murders that week? No, they weren't. Did you see any other major news notices revolving around any of the other murders? No we did not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Are rich and sucessful women less likely to be willing to have a husband and less likely to marry than low income and middle class women?Hers the issue, women in general want a partner on their same level regarding finances. Someone who is successful, will not want to marry someone who isn't close to them in earnings. Men however, will date someone on a much lower scale of income if there is a great connection. It has nothing to do with emasculating men but those successful women do not see anyone lower than their earnings level to be acceptable romantic partners long term. As for your example, no I wouldn't attempt to date Chris… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Being monogamous does not benefit a man in any way except oneThis is 100 percent false ", the benefit he gets is the kids are definitely his and he can ensure his genetics and legacy continue strong." Just scan the forums regarding how many men find out the child isn't theirs but a affair partners. Men should forgo any thoughts of marriage. In today's society there is no benefit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 08:53 PM |
| 2 | What are the real reasons woman value abortion so much?Umm no, lol hell no. They can stay the hell out of my kitchen. The last time I let someone cook, they nearly ruined my perfectly seasoned iron skillets. You gotta be joking. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 07:55 PM |
| 3 | What are the real reasons woman value abortion so much?I love women. I don't love some of their behaviors. And Ive always gone my own way. I do not allow social media or social anything to dictate what I think or feel or believe. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 07:45 PM |
| 2 | What are the real reasons woman value abortion so much?I'm a bad example to use. I had my vasectomy years ago. After my daughter was born I wanted nothing to do with more children even by accident. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 07:30 PM |
| 6 | What are the real reasons woman value abortion so much?It's the get out of jail free card. It gives them the right to be as promiscuous as they want with zero accountability. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 06:11 PM |
| 1 | UK: Boris says Putin wouldn't have invaded Ukraine if he was a WOMAN: PM slams Russian dictator's 'toxic masculinity'Well honestly, I haven't researched it that far but it's a possibility. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 07:39 PM |
| 30 | For every single mom, there is a single dad.No doubt, my wife died in 2002. (Drunk driver hit her) my daughter was 7. I ended up raising her as a single dad with no help. My late wife and I had no really family to speak of. The reactions I got from women were hilarious. They were convinced my house was always trashed, it was always immaculate. I must have tons of laundry to do. Nope all finished and put up. We had to be eating nothing but fast food or premade meals, umm nope I worked restaurants during school, I cook exceptionally well. A… | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 03:11 PM |
| 12 | UK: Boris says Putin wouldn't have invaded Ukraine if he was a WOMAN: PM slams Russian dictator's 'toxic masculinity'Men do not have the monopoly in starting wars. Women monarchs throughout history have been known to start wars, and in some cases were more likely to start a war than use diplomacy first. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 02:26 PM |
| 6 | females acting like you are harassing them when you are just walking? (what to do about it?)I'm way past that lol. I'm one of the bosses now. But it definitely taught me a lesson. | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 11:01 PM |
| 13 | females acting like you are harassing them when you are just walking? (what to do about it?)They did, she threatened a lawsuit and they told her to forward their lawyers number to hers and told her once her lawyers send the proper request they would send the video footage of the incidents. Never heard from her or her lawyers. | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 09:44 PM |
| 15 | females acting like you are harassing them when you are just walking? (what to do about it?)None for her. She didn't call the police just our station office. She saw the name on my shirt. Her trauma was she was by herself with children and I was direct quote "physically intimidating, hovered over her, she felt pressured to accept my help, kept touching her and I followed her home" What the camera showed. It showed me parking in behind her, I walked to the car and not only stood back so I could talk to her but never touched the car. She told she was out of gas. I went back to my truck, … | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 06:41 PM |
| 2 | How did you stop basing your self worth on sexual validation from women?I learned early, never base your self worth on others opinions. My childhood was shit. Abusive and hate filled. My older brother based his self worth on my parents opinions. He committed suicide. Luckily I didn't. I got help and emancipated at 16. Never looked back. No ones opinion should count more than your own. Don't get me wrong, it's nice to be recognized by others but that shouldn't be the basis for your opinion of yourself regarding your value. | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 05:00 PM |
| 3 | The Roe v Wade ruling is an opportunity for men to *gain* reproductive rights that have thus far been non existent.Great idea, I very much doubt it will ever happen. | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 02:57 PM |
| 36 | females acting like you are harassing them when you are just walking? (what to do about it?)Not much you can do. I rarely if ever approach or offer to help anyone due to similar issues. I make it a clear point to steer clear of any woman that is alone. I refuse to have close door meetings without others in the room. I refuse any social invitation unless it's someone I know and trust and I absolutely will not offer to help anyone in a public setting. The last time I tried, I was actually in my paramedics uniform and offered to help a young mother with no gas with kids. I ran and got her… | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 02:54 PM |
| 5 | How did you stop basing your self worth on sexual validation from women?Easy, my validation has never been based on anyone's, including women's opinion of me. | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 02:36 PM |
| 10 | What does MGTOW mean?What? Your worried about points? So basically it's just a post to bring drama and had no real point. Thanks for the clarification. | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 02:34 PM |
| 16 | Single mom marches 12-year-old son to girl's house after he brands her fat and ugly in foul rant. The mom claimed in a newspaper interview that "men nowadays ain't got no respect. And I swear, my f**king boys ain't gonna be these men. Nope! Nip that s**t in the bud, man."Nope all she did was embarrass her son. I would bet the opposite effect will occur. He is 12. There is no excuse for what he did , he needed to be taught the lesson not ostracized in a public forum. I'd bet she will get the opposite effect of what she wanted. | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 02:27 PM |
| 2 | the lack of empathy this sub is showing in regards to Roe V Wade is making question whether you really want equality.What lack of empathy? Public opinion was over 65% against overturning the law. It got overturned anyway. Just as many men voiced concern and disappointment. I myself see it as a huge mistake. Maybe it needed revision to bring it to a modern standard but it shouldn't be dissolved as it was. The only thing these types of posts do is create a wider separation of the sexes. These generalizations are doing nothing to fight the actual problem. Our govt needs to be brought in line with it's power as it… | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 02:22 PM |
| 10 | What does MGTOW mean?Not exactly sure how mgtow is failing considering marriage rates and birth rates are significantly dropping and more and more woman are complaining that men are walking away from marriage and even relationships. Now what you are describing is the hate speech thrown out by the extremists. A majority of men supporting mgtow have no issues with women or their rights. They don't hate women, do not call for violence they have just chosen to focus on their own lives and not live it by the societal pre… | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 02:11 PM |
| -15 | What does MGTOW mean?The problem with mgtow is that it has been taken over by radical extremists. It was started just as a movement to give a voice to men who just decided to walk away from the drama most women exhibit today. It basically described men who just wanted to walk a separate path that the societal norms. They focus on self improvement. This doesn't mean they hated women, they just chose to forego relationships. Then you had the extremists jump on the bandwagon and started putting out messages of hate and… | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 02:04 PM |
| 8 | Vasectomies for all men at the onset of puberty.No, that's an excuse. You did the major mistake. You allowed your health to be taken for granted by someone else. You gave him that power. If I chose to have sex with someone randomly and get an STD because I chose not to wear a condom. That's on me, regardless if they lied or not I made the decision. That's how accountability works. You chose first to have sex. You allowed him to coerce you into no condom. You had every chance to tell him no condom, no sex. This is where accountability comes in… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 02:15 PM |
| 9 | Vasectomies for all men at the onset of puberty.Again, the woman chose who they sex with. If the guy refuses a condom don't have sex. If both parties use bc and it fails. The second line of defense is the plan b the next morning. If the woman refuses that and chooses to keep the baby then that's her decision. At that point the man should be given the option of signing off support. The difference is, men have 2 forms of bc. Vasectomy or condoms. Women on the other have choices. You have condoms, spermicidals, plan b, iud's, hormonal bc. Etc et… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 02:07 PM |
| 5 | Vasectomies for all men at the onset of puberty.I disagree. Bc fails because of both parties. It's not on just men. Women have a responsibility also. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Vasectomies for all men at the onset of puberty.If the man refuses condoms, the woman should refuse sex? Easy fix isn't it. Prime example of how women do not take responsibility for their actions and decisions. Women CHOSE who enters their bodies and when. The only exception is during the admission of a crime and that's a completely different situation. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 01:43 PM |
| 7 | Vasectomies for all men at the onset of puberty.This is in no way a valid option. Why? Their body, their choice. There is one sure fire way to fix it. Don't have sex with every random person you come across. While I do not agree with the roll back of roe vs Wade, more people need to take accountability for their behaviors and this includes sexual promiscuity. I did get a vasectomy, and yet I still use condoms. Why? Because I take personal accountability for my health. This is 2022 as most women like to point out. They have their own monies, c… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 01:39 PM |
| 14 | Roe V. Wade OverturnedAnd that isn't what will happen. All this will do is make women look for alternatives. If they have money, they will just leave the US and get the abortion. Or you will find a huge increase in dnc type surgical procedures under the guise of some other diagnosis. They is likely going to be a huge increase and market for illegal abortions and or skyrocketing sales of plan b meds. Either way I think it was a huge mistake to repeal that law. It did perhaps need clarification and an update but not di… | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Roll call: Anyone here completely sworn off women?While I have not sworn off women, I have become very selective on what women I socialize with. In other words I have become very picky. My late wife died when we were 35. I am about to turn 55 and will be retiring early very comfortably. I have learned through dating that there are just a majority of women that do not deserve my time and attention and are actually so drama filled i have no use for them in my life. I was taught to pay women respect. open the door for them and to help when needed.… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Roll call: Anyone here completely sworn off women?While I have not sworn off women, I have become very selective on what women I socialize with. In other words I have become very picky. My late wife died when we were 35. I am about to turn 55 and will be retiring early very comfortably. I have learned through dating that there are just a majority of women that do not deserve my time and attention and are actually so drama filled i have no use for them in my life. I was taught to pay women respect. open the door for them and to help when needed.… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 03:06 PM |
| 0 | Roll call: Anyone here completely sworn off women?While I have not sworn off women, I have become very selective on what women I socialize with. In other words I have become very picky. My late wife died when we were 35. I am about to turn 55 and will be retiring early very comfortably. I have learned through dating that there are just a majority of women that do not deserve my time and attention and are actually so drama filled i have no use for them in my life. I was taught to pay women respect. open the door for them and to help when needed.… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 03:06 PM |
| 0 | Roll call: Anyone here completely sworn off women?While I have not sworn off women, I have become very selective on what women I socialize with. In other words I have become very picky. My late wife died when we were 35. I am about to turn 55 and will be retiring early very comfortably. I have learned through dating that there are just a majority of women that do not deserve my time and attention and are actually so drama filled i have no use for them in my life. I was taught to pay women respect. open the door for them and to help when needed.… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Roll call: Anyone here completely sworn off women?While I have not sworn off women, I have become very selective on what women I socialize with. In other words I have become very picky. My late wife died when we were 35. I am about to turn 55 and will be retiring early very comfortably. I have learned through dating that there are just a majority of women that do not deserve my time and attention and are actually so drama filled i have no use for them in my life. I was taught to pay women respect. open the door for them and to help when needed.… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Male birth control pill lowers testosterone without side-effectsAbsolutely. I myself got a vasectomy years ago and still get tested regularly to make sure i do not produce sperm. If i were younger and this was available then absolutely I would | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 01:33 PM |
| 3 | WW3 will change everything, or at least I think so!!It will be worse than that. A large amount of the population have no idea how to survive. Basic survival skills have been lost. They don't know how to make a fire, build shelters, forage for food, which wild foods are safe to eat, how to hunt or even how to process a kill. A good portion of the survivors won't be able to survive without help. Now take into consideration the majority of women today are single mothers and while some do have basic survival knowledge, most do not. How will they surv… | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 02:56 PM |
| 5 | WW3 will change everything, or at least I think so!!Why? Do you think they will only target military bases? No, they will target the largest civilian city centers for the most collateral damage. Then you have the fallout which doesn't recognize genders. Once society as a whole collapses, it will be everyone fighting everyone for resources. Again, gender won't matter. Edit spelling | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 02:24 PM |
| 17 | WW3 will change everything, or at least I think so!!If ww3 breaks out, feminism will be the least of our worries. With the sheer amount of nuclear weapons available, it becomes a question of survival. I think anyone left, will be concentrating on general survival more than who has what rights. The world is likely to look slot like the mad max movies. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 02:02 PM |
| 3 | if men are getting soft, what about women?By masculine i mean hyper aggressive, confrontational. and argumentative. The moment you disagree with them on any subject they feel the need to go in berserk mode and literally brow beat you to death. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/22 04:32 AM |
| 5 | Most women good, most men badGenerally. Women are born innocent and you have to prove any guilt. Men are born guilty and always have to prove their innocence. | /r/MensRights | 09/06/22 02:47 PM |
| 7 | if men are getting soft, what about women?Its a double edged sword. Women are having to display masculine type traits. This dynamic has caused a breakdown of the traditional roles in relationships. Now you can argue this point but the statistics make a few things fairly obvious. It has severely impacted relationships as a whole. Marriage rates are down significantly. Divorce rates are up. Depression is running rampant. Guys are refusing not only marriage but even relationships. People in general are finding it more difficult by the day … | /r/MensRights | 09/06/22 02:45 PM |
| 2 | saying all feminists are radical misandrists is the same as saying all mens rights activists are like incels.The problem is what is being labeled as feminism. Should women have equal rights, pay, respect etc? Absolutely. The problem is modern feminism doesn't want equality. They want superiority. Let's have true equality and get rid of all double standards. | /r/MensRights | 09/06/22 07:59 AM |
| 3 | Dealing with strong feminist gaslighting womenLiterally, ignore them. Make like a sub, for silent, dive deep and pray that destroyer doesn't see you. The emotional and mental drama just isn't worth the incoming hurricane. | /r/MensRights | 07/06/22 02:05 PM |
| 5 | MeToo and similar organizations are preventing people like Ms. Heard from getting proper mental health care.They problem is modern women, especially westernized women have been given a pass to act as foul and nasty as they want with zero accountability just because they are women. Heard is a perfect example of double standards. All women want to hold men to traditional standards but refuse any traditional role standards themselves. They preach for equality but only accept superior results. Anything less is considered the patriarchy, controlling and mysoginistic. Heard is the example of women using fem… | /r/MensRights | 02/06/22 07:01 PM |
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