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Now imagine that with three lunatics.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/25 06:42 AM
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Not even close. (The first few years is lots of hormones, sure.) This was my third marriage and it was explicit that all that in bed was mine either way. I swore before that id never marry again. I'm a fool for thinking i could make it work.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/25 11:56 PM
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Sadly, if I'd paid more attention to my brain than my heart, before it began.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/25 07:47 AM
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Ouch. I don't know if I'd have managed to control my reaction at that point. I applaud your self control, sir.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/25 04:01 PM
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I only up voted this for the brutal honesty. I've been there and suicidal/homicidal is the feeling. I wouldn't, but there's nothing that twists the mind more. Shittiest feeling on earth besides seeing your son almost die in your arms.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/25 03:43 PM
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Cheating does a serious number on libido to those of us hardwired to monogamy. Try cialis or the generic.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/25 12:57 PM
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Three divorces leave me with nothing but bitterness. I love the kids. Somehow, they don't make me think about their mothers unless their mothers get them to. (I've brain damage, my kids are smarter than I am.) Everything else? Don't show me anything romantic, I'll get angry. Don't ever, ever suggest a Disney movie. Ect. You run out of ways to avoid memories. Drinking helps a bit, then makes it worse. Be OK with just you. Focus on you. Do that and don't fall for the rebound. It's just another nig…
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/25 12:52 PM
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Hey, I'm totally using that from now on!
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/22 02:32 AM
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Since you say 'yet', perhaps you might want to try seeing if they'll go to counseling with you. Seems you're preparing yourself for the worst, in a way. Go beyond that. Save it or sink it. Wish you well.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/22 02:29 AM
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Everyone is different. That said, I've felt your pain. Get a P.I. with your lawyer, if you can. Meantime, focus on you. If you really want to fix it, fix yourself first. It's usually far gone by what you're describing, though. (The no butt thing feels personal here, ouch, they're cheating with someone that has a big butt.)
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/22 02:25 AM
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I said never again and meant it. Then I fell so hard for someone. It happens. Too bad it went south right away and I refused to see it for a long time.
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/22 09:13 PM
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You're a diamond in the rough. In this state, the ex can send someone to jail until someone else ponies up the back support, no matter the REALITY of the circumstances. No kidding.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/22 10:41 PM
2

Correlation not equal.. Listen. They're using it because they're depressed. It gets them a temporary feeling of belonging, then drowns them in a deeper hole. The advertising algorithms are literally hell due to the invasive data collection so many opt in to. Edit: when times are hard, they start giving advice that's based on... you guessed it.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/22 05:34 AM
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Good advice. I, on the other hand, went full stupid and made Facebook feel bad. I mean, it's only fair.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/22 05:30 AM
1

I'm sorry. What you want doesn't matter to her, if it ever did. Find something else to wrap your world around, or you'll end up like me.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/22 05:29 AM
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For your own sake, it's the way. Who wants a partner they'll assume will air the dirty laundry the moment the sun goes down? I should have noticed the loud exclamlmations and ridiculousness combined with my reluctance and her vaugeness were polar opposites, but then too much time alone just makes you forget exactly how social interaction works. I used to love my time alone.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/22 04:19 AM
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It served me well before. This last one, though? Frankly I couldn't help it. That advice literally helped me get over it, kept me from being a drag before and I wish I'd followed it again. I couldn't. OP will be fine, she's got a good grasp on it already.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/22 01:16 AM
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It's not something to talk about to until you're actually considering remarrying. 'We grew apart, I figured being lonely was better alone. '. It has the added bonus of being quite honest.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/22 12:52 AM
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Cody, is that you? For fucks sake, get a lawyer or at least give her an ultimatum if she's stalking your truck in her car. Yeah, they're expensive, but they're cheaper than the alternative if you can afford it. (Try not to drive through a cornfield in new Mexico with half the county chasing you, this time. )
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/22 06:30 AM
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Nothing like the dictionary definition.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/22 04:58 AM
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Due to the absolutely horrible events that occurred during my marriage, not only does that flash into my head constantly, so does quite a lot more. I can't detangle any of it and my ex seems to delight in making it all come right back. Picture this one. Me: "oh just kill me already. " Her: "what?? I don't want to get in trouble. Why don't you just commit suicide by cop or something?" Yep. She was dead serious. That metaphor didn't just go straight by her, she had advice.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/21 05:35 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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