No1isMygod Archive

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1	Messed up first dates with two good women, I need help Just search physical escalation on YouTube and start there, don’t want too much, just find one or two things you could implement and then do it. Really easy to overload and get in your head	/r/seduction	28/10/21 09:04 PM
3	Messed up first dates with two good women, I need help Primary tip for building game is practice, from your post it sounds like you don’t have an issue speaking to women but are maybe uncomfortable escalating or speaking about more risky topics that would allow you to make the conversation less formal or more flirtatious/sexual. Plenty of videos out there to help with both areas, but two things that greatly helped me were 1. Touch early (shoulder hug at greeting or similar) and consider the logistics of being able to touch before suggesting a date v…	/r/seduction	28/10/21 07:40 PM
1	Hey guys confused You don’t feel excited to talk to her because you are not excited to talk to her, simple. Do not play that denial mind game with yourself where you keep being friends and think she will change her mind because of something you do, that’s approval seeking. Also know that when she asks why you don’t talk as much or seem uninterested, if you say something like “I’m into you and don’t see you as a friend and don’t want to be just friends that’s why I’m not interested in talking” she is probably goin…	/r/seduction	21/07/21 11:52 AM
9	How do you carry yourself it university at 30 ? In the same boat, 29 back at university, personally have had more success at this age than when I was there at 18. Carry yourself as a man with intention, you made a CHOICE to go back and improve yourself rather than simply going as a continuation of high school. It’s been my experience that as I lean into that mindset the younger women I meet respond to the confidence and direction. Also there’s a lot of room to banter and tease when addressing the age/interest differences.	/r/seduction	21/07/21 11:37 AM
1	Guys falls asleep in my bed but doesn't want to cuddle?? I take it the reason y’all were in bed was not bc y’all just had sex?..	/r/seduction	20/07/21 05:23 PM
2	Should I (F22) start acting like a b**tch to get the guy I want? Please explain why this works. That’s awesome, the ability to experiment with changes after criticism is an admirable quality.	/r/seduction	19/07/21 03:59 AM
1	Should I (F22) start acting like a b**tch to get the guy I want? Please explain why this works. You say you can’t stand stupid games, but you are playing one by not effectively communicating with your desired and undesired love interests. Saying you are interested or not interested in someone shows respect to another person and more importantly to yourself. If you are consciously choosing to not effectively communicate then you are playing a game.	/r/seduction	19/07/21 03:54 AM
5	31 male no girlfriend. Hardly any friends. Lonely AF Therapy Join a class or club preferably a male dominated subject matter to get some male friends, I was in the same boat a few years back, started training jiu jitsu and hanging out with the guys from class. Even if it takes awhile to make plans with people outside of the class the fact that you go to the class a few times a week will allow you to socialize and practice those social skills.	/r/seduction	18/07/21 12:18 AM
31	For those who went from no dates to getting dates all the time what was the turning point for you? Inner game comes from action - you can read, think, and consider all you want but if you want to feel good you have to put thought into action. Start working out to feel and look good, go on a date even if you don’t think the girl is super hot or you don’t think you’ll get laid, it’s about experience and your experience will give you new insights and confidence. Small steps - you’re not going to be killing it over night, set small attainable goals to build confidence. Do the things other men don…	/r/seduction	13/07/21 02:26 AM
1	What's your 'go to' move to sexualise an interaction that's too platonic? 100% how it’s said, do it deadpan and you’re instantly a psycho	/r/seduction	08/07/21 12:04 AM
1	What's your 'go to' move to sexualise an interaction that's too platonic? I agree, and I’m more than happy to let the woman lead too. I try to default as “be the leader” cause frankly it’s better than never asking for/getting what you want and getting bitter.	/r/seduction	04/07/21 11:48 PM
8	What's your 'go to' move to sexualise an interaction that's too platonic? You’re viewing it as a trick through your personal lens, I agree that the reason to get physical is because both parties want to. But it’s a mans role to lead a romantic interaction. You’re not doing yourself or a woman any favor by not attempting to lead the interaction to a desired end, just wasting your time and hers.	/r/seduction	04/07/21 07:25 PM
65	What's your 'go to' move to sexualise an interaction that's too platonic? “Are you thinking about kissing me?” Her answers: 1. “Yes” so kiss her 2. “Ew no” you can keep hanging out if you want but it’s not going to happen 3. “No, what would make you think that” then just laugh and say “could’ve sworn you were staring at my mouth, is there something on my face” she will laugh, now has the idea of kissing you in her mind, or you will naturally be on the topic of kissing	/r/seduction	04/07/21 02:25 PM