NoActionAtThisTime Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Litterly and figuratively stabbed on the back by the one person. I thought was going to be 4 ever bou I was wrong!!! Let me know if this makes sense to everyone or how fair this is 42male abused horrifically for years 45 female ex no remorse and no not bitter looking for recommendations on recourse I was going to say the same thing. This post makes my eyes bleed, I refuse to try to decipher it.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/01/26 07:43 PM
17	Update, 2 years post divorce You shouldn't have confronted her. Every time you let her know she can affect you it's a win for her. Do not allow her into your life, physically or mentally.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/12/25 05:49 PM
1	Rant: “Do you remember when?” AI slop YouTube channel. Nobody should click on that link.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/25 07:01 PM
2	Rant: “Do you remember when?” I hate to spout cliches but there are a couple of things that came to mind in this situation. The best revenge is living well, and the opposite of love isn't hate, it's apathy. Don't send her a letter. Show her that you can live a happy life without her in it. Letting her know that she still has the ability to affect you is a win for her.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/25 07:00 PM
2	Women Silently Emotionally Disconnecting and Checking Out Is Cowardly At least some of the women actually like their husbands I think a lot of the ones who go on "I hate my husband/men" rants are the ones you could see making bad decisions in their 20s or even 30s. Hell, you can see posts like that on Reddit all the time. Some 28yo woman will be complaining that her boyfriend can't hold down a job and has bad personal hygiene, but then frets about how that will affect their future children. If you're stupid enough to marry and have kids with someone like that you …	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/25 08:57 PM
5	Question for divorced men. Why do some of you see an fwb instead of a prostitute for sex and vice versa why do some of you see a prostitute instead of a fwb? I'm not judging others who hire sex workers but they have no appeal to me. I want to be desired, knowing that I'm paying someone to sleep with me would ruin it for me.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/25 08:39 PM
7	As a divorced man, what are the red flags before the marriage? If the sex isn't top-tier before you get married it's definitely not going to get better afterwards. Also don't marry someone who takes antidepressants.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/25 08:38 PM
3	I feel like I'm never going to have better sex than I did with my STBXW and I'm really down about it This is a somewhat different situation but the best sex I ever had was with an ex-gf I dated for about a year in my mid-20s. Here's the thing, a big part of the reason the sex was so incredible as the toxic love-hate dynamic we had going on. It was great in bed but absolutely awful otherwise. Turns out I'd rather have B/B+ sex with a good partner than A+ sex with someone as poisonous as her.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/25 06:27 PM
22	Had trial yesterday. Lost the kids. How to cope with this? Please share your tips. FYI, OP appears to be from Germany so most of the US-centric legal comments probably won't be relevant.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/25 06:17 PM
2	Divorce is over, ex left me because I was too boring and didn't harm her Oh man, I had a girlfriend like that in college. Really pretty, felt like she was way out of league. Made me overlook all sorts of character and personality flaws. Thankfully things with her ended before marriage or kids.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/09/25 09:20 PM
3	Your best friend just got done with is divorce, what are some advices and tips to help him? This is huge. I feel like when men divorce there's a fork in the road in front of them. One road leads to booze, the other to exercise. Pick exercise to dull your pain, it will pay dividends for the rest of your life.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/08/25 04:35 PM
3	Do you have any concerns using AI for your divorce process? or have values Well it has that in common with a lot of divorce lawyers!	/r/Divorce_Men	21/07/25 07:41 PM
7	Devastating news from 7yo after time with mother. She has been arrested for domestic violence against me but I did not press charges. I know it's water under the bridge at this point but you made a mistake by not pressing charges. Now you have to fix that mistake though. Your child is being harmed, do whatever it takes to protect him from his mother. The best thing to do first is to talk to a lawyer. Ultimately I assume this will mean involving CPS and/or the police but a lawyer can help you figure out the fastest way to get your son away from …	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/25 12:51 PM
2	Why is it so easy? Don't focus on your ex-wife. You got custody of your daughter and she won't be exposed to the felonious scumbag that your ex married. You won, despite a system that's stacked against men.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/25 07:31 PM