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| 1 | NO matter you like RSD in general or not, this is a great video from Tyler on How To Warm Up And Build Social Momentum (of course everything from RSD is about night game)Hm. I can respect that. I agree with you on the marketing. Its like, the same shit over and over again, but look how many fucking products they have and how they're still coming out with more and more. They really are kind of preying on people. You have to be pretty desperate to pay $3000 for a "hot seat" or whatever the fuck it is. I don't really see how you say they are manipulative though. Arent those guys just about going out, being bold, and having a good time? I don't think I've ever seen … | /r/seduction | 03/01/14 04:47 AM |
| 2 | Inexperience guy here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong!Listen to throwawayPUA. It doesn't matter if your a bit awkward. Just escalate. Most girls will not mind your awkwardness. There's even one guy out there in the scene (Liam from Natural Lifestyles) who says he actually ACTS awkward on purpose. Just have the boldness to escalate, and that's enough. And as far as anxiety, that's okay. Just keep working on it. If you do something all the time, it will not scare you anymore within one year, or less. You could be doing this stuff with ease by the tim… | /r/seduction | 03/01/14 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Best Books on SeductionYeah, he becomes a dating coach. Edit: the guy did an AMA too: http://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/1pmujo/iama_man_who_used_to_have_gynecomastia_man_boobs/ | /r/seduction | 03/01/14 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Best Books on SeductionMight not be what your looking for, but A Thousand Tiny Failures by Tony D. Its a memior from when the guy started as a stoner with gynecomastia (man-boobs) to him going out 7 days per week, to him becoming a coach. Its highly entertaining and funny as hell. | /r/seduction | 03/01/14 12:27 AM |
| 1 | NO matter you like RSD in general or not, this is a great video from Tyler on How To Warm Up And Build Social Momentum (of course everything from RSD is about night game)how you manipulate emotions Just curious, what do you mean by that? | /r/seduction | 03/01/14 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Can't get laid -- schools of thought in pickupThere's nothing wrong with being nice. "Nice" in this context implies neediness, and an inability to express their real intentions. You can be a kind, friendly, and charming guy, without being a "nice guy". | /r/seduction | 02/01/14 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Often after a one night stand, I feel like I did a bad thing? I don't understandAsk yourself what you really want. Do you want one night stands? Remember, there's nothing inherently wrong with having a one night stand. The girl often wants that just as much as you do. As long as your not leading the girl on, don't feel bad. Do you want a girl you can have a connection with, but still see other people and avoid the trappings of monogamous relationships? There are lots of girls out there that are up for that, as long as your honest. Do you really just want a gf? That's fine t… | /r/seduction | 02/01/14 02:46 AM |
| 3 | Fclose whilst living with parents?Back in my teenage years I brought a girl to my house with my parents and my 3 dogs. My door did not close all the way, so the dogs could push it open. And my bed wasn't that tall. So, whilst doing the nasty, my dogs run in, put their heads on the bed and start licking her leg. I kept swatting them away but they were so interested in what I was doing to this stranger that they kept coming back. I'm 95% sure that it actually turned her on even more. Chicks are wild. Then my parents start moving a… | /r/seduction | 02/01/14 02:35 AM |
| 15 | On Self-Amusement: A very core principleExactly this. I think the real value of gaming and this whole community is the core concepts. Self amusement means that you are having fun. By having fun and entertaining yourself, you become a source of value to other people as well. You are taking the lead, and that's what makes women want to follow. You are outcome independent, because its all just for your own amusement anyway. All these concepts are linked. Self amusement, DHVing, outcome independence, leading the interaction, having fun. I… | /r/seduction | 02/01/14 01:59 AM |
| 1 | I don't get it....Hear me out here... Just judging from your comments, you paint a very negative picture of yourself. When your all down on yourself and you really want to make it work, you come off as a value sucker. A person who does not bring his own fun and good vibes to the situation. Whose depending on the other person to have a good time. Dependent. Not fun. Needy. Seeking to fulfill some goal. Game is about being a source of value. Of being a happy, fun guy. Who can lead a woman along with him on a fun ad… | /r/seduction | 02/01/14 01:49 AM |
| 5 | What other subreddits do you use to help improve aspects of your game?I've learned so much from /r/fitness. Really a great community there. | /r/seduction | 02/01/14 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Seddit guys who are successful with women, how often do you get rejected and what do the rejections look like?I've seen it a few times... what do you mean by polarizing? | /r/seduction | 02/01/14 01:34 AM |
| 3 | What's the best way to approach a girl sitting down at a cafe? Standing and talking down to her just seems awkward.Yeah, that's kinda what I was implying with the "for a quick second". I think that's a good idea | /r/seduction | 31/12/13 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Is the concept of a "league" real, and should it be considered when approaching women?No way. Theres some guys in this scene who by all standards would be in a league far below the hot women that they pull again and again. Case in point | /r/seduction | 31/12/13 12:14 AM |
| 2 | I am trying to advance in my game, but have a hard time identifying if a girl likes me or not. I flirt almost instinctively. A lot of girls I had crushes on in high school, when I talked to them after high school said they would have gone out with me in a second. How do I know???You should watch this video, man. This guy goes pretty deep into the same thing throwaway just said. http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=G6BOHzlP-Uk | /r/seduction | 31/12/13 12:11 AM |
| 5 | What's the best way to approach a girl sitting down at a cafe? Standing and talking down to her just seems awkward.What I personally would do is just be like "hi, can I sit here for a quick second?" And then do a direct opener or something. That should lead nicely into how you want to end it too, and it shows a little bit more boldness by sitting down with her instead of just standing there like a weirdo. | /r/seduction | 31/12/13 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Just a few newbie chodey/ hardcase questions concerning my looks and being intimidated in clubs. Is there any way over this? Desription inside.You gotta own your shit. I know a guy who seriously does look 16 at the age of 21. He's short, skinny, and has the babiest of baby faces you'll ever seen. But this guy pulls mad girls because he knows how to have fun. Just accept who you are, and go have fun with girls. Trust me, you can do it. And if they ask you about it or shit test you on it, just agree and amplify. Jokingly be like, "yeah, I'm 12, I got a fake ID so I can go home with older women" Or some shit like that. A girl won't reject… | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Just want to say thank you and share my storyThere's two sides to this seduction stuff. There's the part of it that emphasizes scripted routines, tricks, gimmicks, and highly detailed plans. And then there's a side which emphasizes learning to be the best man you can be, creating an attractive lifestyle, and systematically overcoming your fears. | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 11:47 PM |
| 4 | Does a dude with a stutter have any chance at all?"Hey girl, I just had to motherfucker tell you that you look pretty motherfuckin sexy." -Samuel L Jackson | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 11:40 PM |
| 1 | I'm a decent looking guy with a really quick wit and yet I don't really have an overabundance of friends or romantic prospects.Hey. It sounds like you have a fear of sexual escaltation or don't know how to express it. You should watch this video: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=G6BOHzlP-Uk | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 08:49 AM |
| 6 | How do I be assertive without coming off as a jerk/arrogant?You can be the nicest guy in the world but still be a a 'bad boy' that gets tons of attraction. How? Boldness. You need to boldly and unapologetically express to girls that you are a sexual man and are looking for a sexual woman. That goes against our social conditioning (which is a shame). And its scary. You become a rule breaker. A risk taker. A man willing to take her hand and lead her on a sexual adventure. There's nothing sexier. Watch this video: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=G6BOHzlP-Uk | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Anyone have links to great InField videos?I'm on mobile so I dont want to go through the hassle of linking, but: Google RSD infield for some great night game shit. Julien and Tyler are bad ass. Google Sasha Daygame, Liam McRae, and James Marshall for daygame. This stuff has helped me to no end, and I learn SO much easier by watching infields than by reading. So more power to you! Go learn some shit! | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Anyone have links to great InField videos?I just discovered Sasha and that led me to the Natural Lifestyles guys, and holy shit, my mind has been thouroughly blown. I have found my fucking calling. | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 08:33 AM |
| 8 | After a year of lurking, I think I finally get itColorado here. You can come have a beer anytime. And hey, whatever else your into, we got that too ;) | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 08:30 AM |
| 1 | After lurking for a while, I finally had the balls to make a moveFUCK YES!! Hey, I just did my first approach the other day too. I went to the mall, walked around for an hour like a little bitch, and then finally a girl (2-set) makes eye contact with me and then they both start walking the other way. Instead of bitching out once again, I walked up and said "hey, I think you guys are cute, both of you, so I had to come say hi". Turns out they were 16! (I'm 21) So I had to break it off. But they were both beaming and smiling and I actually pulled it off pretty … | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 08:27 AM |
| 5 | Tips for a babyfaceBaby face master race! It okay, bro. We just look less threatening is all. And when were old we'll look young and still be able to pull hot girls :D | /r/seduction | 26/12/13 12:03 AM |
| 3 | Tips for a babyfaceAs a 140lb skinny babyface I may have to try this. I did a bulk in the summer and went from 135 to 150. Didn't really effect much about my general size, but I was much more solid and filled in. But then I got injured and lost it all :*( But I do know that whenever I even put on a big jacket that makes me look larger, I look a lot better, somehow. Hopefully if I bulk up again Ill get more defined facial features and not end up looking like this instead | /r/seduction | 26/12/13 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, please help me out. I‘m overly sensitive and it has been ruining my chances with women for all of my life.Weed is my little insight drug. I only smoke it alone, or with my Dad. Only maybe once every month or so. And it just sets my mind off on this rampage where all of a sudden I have a bazillion amazing ideas and I've just figured out the secret to all my problems and just created a plan to become a millionaire and change the world on top of it. So I write all my revolutionary stuff down and go to bed. When I wake up the next morning I realize how completely overzealous I was and how silly some of … | /r/seduction | 25/12/13 11:41 PM |
| 13 | Seddit, please help me out. I‘m overly sensitive and it has been ruining my chances with women for all of my life.WARNING: I am about to dump everything I know on you. I intended to put a simple response, but it just all came out. So read carefully, and ask me if you have any questions. Like someone has so eloquently said, you have a nagging little bitch voice inside of you, as well as some harmful beliefs. I do too. But that voice isn't you. Wanna know how I know this? Remember a time when you felt like a bad ass, or were just feelin great in general? Come on, I know you have at least one time when you fel… | /r/seduction | 25/12/13 10:44 PM |
| 1 | How do i reach true confidence?^ this | /r/seduction | 25/12/13 09:06 AM |
| 1 | How do i reach true confidence?Then do something like this No advice is gonna get you over your fear. You just gotta go face it. | /r/seduction | 25/12/13 09:01 AM |
| 1 | A Paradigm Shift: Make Game About Giving, Not Control or TakingNo, dude, that does make sense. First off... damn! I like how you just fucking spill your thoughts all over a comment with no regard. Like some flow of conciousness literature or some shit. Nice. But, yeah, you kinda just pegged me right there with that pendulum thing. I either have these delusions of grandeur where I'm on this spiritual quest to unlock my fullest human potential, where I will ride my unicorn and flowers will fall from the sky and women will open their legs at the very sight of … | /r/seduction | 25/12/13 03:43 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I've gotten worse since discovering SedditYour getting into the trap of thinking that these guys have the answers and you need to follow their technique in order to become like them. Fuck that. You have the answers. Dont listen to techniques or strategies from these guys. What you should take from all this is the underlying concepts. Become a value giver. Become bold. Become self amused. Learn these things through your own continuous practice. Just use the community for pointers along the way. Maybe if your having trouble escalating, yo… | /r/seduction | 24/12/13 09:38 PM |
| 1 | A Paradigm Shift: Make Game About Giving, Not Control or TakingMy whole approach is encoded with my sense of unworthiness Same here, man. And this is why I think the concepts of game are so powerful. Not the strategies or tactics, but the underlying concepts. Like, at the most fundamental level, game is about being valuable. Being a source of value means you can be self amused. Being self amused means you can be outcome independent and have fun in any situation. It also means you are not looking for value outside of yourself. Because when you offer no value… | /r/seduction | 24/12/13 09:27 PM |
| 1 | A Paradigm Shift: Make Game About Giving, Not Control or TakingDamn. See, this is why I chose to practice this stuff. Its not that I want to learn techniques to bed women. Having sex with 10s isn't my goal. I'm doing this because its the only thing that I've found so far that is going to force me to confront all my insecurities and problems. Because, out of everything, my number one fear is exposing my true self to the world and not being good enough. This is something that forces me to begin exposing myself. I mean, people rip on the "community" for obviou… | /r/seduction | 24/12/13 09:19 PM |
| 1 | HELP! I have a 3 part problem to my social interactionYeah, class always killed me. I'd get up feelin like shit, and then have to rush to class, and then sit there listening to a lecture for an hour. I have to do something active. Maybe, like you said, go to the cafe, and make it a goal to talk to a lot of people there to establish a social attitude. Whatever will get you out of your head and into the social flow. | /r/seduction | 24/12/13 12:55 AM |
| 1 | HELP! I have a 3 part problem to my social interactionAre you me? I am the exact same way. On all 3 points. Let me give you an example of a good day and a bad day for me. Good day: I wake up early at the crack of dawn and immediately jump up and start cooking breakfast and getting ready. I hop in the car and head out to the mall or somewhere where I can find some girls to do some of my AA challenges. Ill get further into a social groove, and actually sometimes will become pretty damn fearless. Ill go home, workout, rest for a bit, and then maybe go… | /r/seduction | 24/12/13 12:15 AM |
| 2 | What stories do you tell yourself?Awesome, man! That's the way to be. I just started too. What got me inspired is I read a post by TofuTofu about a bootcamp he went to with RSD Tyler, and the dude was just compmetely fucking fearless and just on a completely different level because he had spent a decade practicing already. Its right here if you want to read it. But that's the fucking thing right there. This stuff SUCKS to do, its scary as hell, but that is where it leads. Its like continually facing our fears and insecurities li… | /r/seduction | 23/12/13 10:16 PM |
| 2 | What stories do you tell yourself?I kind of disagree that its dependent on your state (if I read that right ?) There's been times when I've forced myself out there to just go do something game related even though I felt like shit. Like the other day, I woke up and felt all lethargic. So I just laid there in bed all day and read books and surfed reddit. My state was all off, but then by the time it was getting late I read some inspirational stuff, and I was like, fuck it. I'm just gonna go out there and go through the motions eve… | /r/seduction | 23/12/13 10:08 PM |
| 5 | Practicing the art of conversationAll this stuff applies to gaining success socially. There are a few concepts here that are considered really important for pickup. Self amusement. Giving value. Outcome independence. Being present. Accepting failure. Continuous practice. Abundance mentality. Positive thinking. This is all very important in almost everything you do. Its just life improvement, and becoming a better, more centered, fearless and valuable person. That's what gets you girls, and that's what gets you success in other a… | /r/seduction | 23/12/13 04:20 AM |
| 2 | I'm feeling like a god, thank you seddit!If I can't batter women, how am I gonna bake them a cake then? | /r/seduction | 23/12/13 03:43 AM |
| 3 | What stories do you tell yourself?I sometimes tend to think it'd be more comfortable not to try. I know that feel, man. And your right. Its way more comfortable. Its scary as fuck to do this stuff. It stirs up all kinds of negativity, and there are tons of intense challenges along the way. A few days ago I read an article. It said something that rang very true for me. Comfort is like an opiate. You feel good, but your senses become duller, your mind slower, you become lazy, and the fear that prevents you from getting out there i… | /r/seduction | 23/12/13 03:26 AM |
| 2 | What stories do you tell yourself?Exact same here. One day I went to the mall and asked girls for the time. Like you said, it was much harder than expected. Then next time started complimenting girls on things (not as a game strategy, just to get over fear). I felt awkward as fuck at times. I got some off putting responses. But afterwards I felt like a king :) I'm in it for the long term, and I know that these little strategies are improving me already. The hard part for me is just going out and doing it instead of deciding to s… | /r/seduction | 23/12/13 03:10 AM |
| 5 | What stories do you tell yourself?This is one of my biggest problems right now. In my head when I'm at home, I tell myself that I can attract women and have all the ability and resources needed to do so successfully. And then when I get in front of a girl, my mind clicks on a different story. That there's no way she would like me. That I'm just unattractive at heart, and need to compensate for my lack. And I start asking myself what I am doing here. This isn't for me. Blah blah blah. I think I just need to get out there more and… | /r/seduction | 23/12/13 12:36 AM |
| 1 | "No More Mr. Nice Guy" vs "How to Win Friends and Influence People", two books often recommended on here. Has anyone else read these, and sees contradictions in following both of their advice at the same time?I've read parts of it a long time ago, but all I remember from it is that it says to help other people meet their goals or in their putsuits and then they will like you. I mean, that's good advice, but the book has such a hige following and is so highly praised... is there more to it than that? | /r/seduction | 23/12/13 12:25 AM |
| 1 | My advice on mastering conversation through understanding inner and outer game.I always find that things that keep me off of reddit are usually for the best :) Anyway, Ill keep an eye out for that post man! Thanks for contributing. | /r/seduction | 22/12/13 03:29 AM |
| 3 | My advice on mastering conversation through understanding inner and outer game.no internet at sea Between this and that username, I have to say, I'm a little concerned. | /r/seduction | 22/12/13 03:23 AM |
| 2 | My advice on mastering conversation through understanding inner and outer game.Great post. A lot of stuff there, I'm sure this will take more than one reading and llots of practice to grasp fully. Thanks for posting. By tbe way, I would love to hear more about one to one conversation someday. Thats definitely one of my weak points. | /r/seduction | 22/12/13 03:11 AM |
| 7 | Escalating From Eye ContactThis is when you open. Im the same way. I just get these amazing connections with random girls from just eye contact as we pass eachother, but I never open, and if I did open then my nerves would be so fired up my voice would be shaking and I would cease to be God of Random Eye Sex On the Street and become a quivering little boy with a wavering voice, trying to sell her on some lovin'. This is where learning game comes in. Open. Just say hi. Or maybe, "hey, you look so cute i had to stop and tal… | /r/seduction | 21/12/13 06:20 AM |
| 1 | HAPPY HOLIDAYS! Giving away my 115 page e-book on approaching women for free...Hey, thanks man. Definitely appreciated. I hope you get back all the good karma you spread and more. Happy holidays. | /r/seduction | 21/12/13 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Top 10 Mistakes Intelligent Men Make With Women [72 mins]Google 'RSD infield footage'. | /r/seduction | 18/12/13 04:17 AM |
| 1 | A cure for apporach anxiety? I don't think there is an easy fix. This worked for me though.I like it. Gonna try this tommorrow. Will report back. | /r/seduction | 18/12/13 01:23 AM |
| 5 | Simple question: What do you say, when you meet a beautful girl on the street and she smiles at you?Everyone else here is right. Just say hi. I also wanted to add something though. I think when you first meet a girl like this in daytime, its important to get her laughing and enjoying your presence right away. One method is to kind of tease her right after you say hi and introduce yourself. Like, "do you just make googly eyes at every cute guy you see on the street/subway?" Or something along those lines. And have an idea of what your going to say to her, especially if your the type to just say… | /r/seduction | 18/12/13 01:12 AM |
| 7 | Simple question: What do you say, when you meet a beautful girl on the street and she smiles at you?Just stop right in front of her, smile and say "Hi how's it going?" or something. Maybe touch on the fact that she made eye contact with you, and then make a joke about it or tease her for trying to pick up guys or something. | /r/seduction | 18/12/13 01:00 AM |
| 23 | Top 10 Mistakes Intelligent Men Make With Women [72 mins]Yep, same here. I tend to get stuck in the mode where I'm thinking about everything. I think this is also why 'interview mode' is such a big problem for a lot of dudes. Sometimes ill even try to 'act' like I'm having fun, but internally my mind is running. I'm still in left brain state. But then when I truly do get out of it, and into party zone... ITS FUCKING ON!! If anybody else out there struggles with this, go watch all kinds of in field footage. Look how they don't come in and stimulate the… | /r/seduction | 18/12/13 12:50 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Daygame at the mall part 2Nice. Where are you doing this at? I'm getting into doing the same thing here, going to the mall and just approaching girls with innocent questions to get me over my AA. So far its just been asking for the time. And for some reason even that still makes me nervous because its almost like theres an underlying assumption that im just talking to them to hit on them (which I shouldn't be afraid to do anyway). Good stuff though, man. Glad to see someone else starting to get out there like this. | /r/seduction | 17/12/13 03:39 AM |
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