NoChemical8640 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Midlife Crisis or Midlife Clarity? Anyone Else Initiate Divorce? Fuck this is exactly where my wife is heading, we just dissolved reconciliation efforts because she’s not taking full accountability without blaming me (she had a 2 year affair with a coworker) I feel the guilt will set in too late for her and she will want to do her last ditch effort right at the very end.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/25 11:04 PM
2	Midlife Crisis or Midlife Clarity? Anyone Else Initiate Divorce? Oofff, this feels awfully too familiar	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/25 10:59 PM
2	Are there any "divorce safe" dating apps for those who are separated and divorcing? The better thing to do is make sure you’re both on the same page, if there’s no chance of reconciliation/reconnection then simply tell her you’re going back to the dating pool and honestly she’s probably doing the same.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/25 09:21 PM
1	No one is perfect, we're all work in progress. Have you ever tried to fix things rather than change the current person for a "perfect" person? Yeah that’s tough cause right now I’m in therapy and I don’t think she’s even tried yet. I know she does have some deep childhood trauma and we do both have the same experiences with drunk alcoholic fathers.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/12/25 06:57 PM
2	No one is perfect, we're all work in progress. Have you ever tried to fix things rather than change the current person for a "perfect" person? I actually started the divorce process and was a few weeks in before I asked for reconciliation. I was hurt by her actions. She was having an emotional affair with a coworker. It wasn’t necessarily bad and I’ve been going through counseling and have been picking out my flaws and insecurities as to why our marriage got to this point and I’ve been getting insight on how she approached things and how she handles things on her side. A lot of observing so I don’t believe in false hope or lead false h…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/12/25 03:14 PM
2	How much weight did you lose after the divorce My son had her phone and needed help because he had opened all the tabs when he was watching a video, found a very long message to one of her “favorite coworkers” about how they keep going “back and forth” in their relationship.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/12/25 06:57 PM
2	Why did therapy not work? Be honest, don’t give me the polite, mature answer. Were we married to the same woman? 😂😂	/r/Divorce_Men	15/12/25 03:45 AM
3	How much weight did you lose after the divorce We are planning on finalizing ours mid march I think we should be done then we will sell the house. Pain is getting better just can’t stomach her and her nonsense right now. Went from 260 pounds to 213. Already did some self care and had to basically buy a new wardrobe so I feel better in that sense. But I feel like I’ll go through one more wardrobe change before this is all over	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/25 05:45 PM
3	How much weight did you lose after the divorce Will be sober 5 years in February. Just can’t stomach this relationship until it’s legally over. Almost one month into the divorce. She’s still in “shock” that she got caught and is still playing the victim here.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/25 03:59 PM
1	How much weight did you lose after the divorce Lost 47 pounds in 3 weeks so far.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/25 03:32 PM
8	Women Silently Emotionally Disconnecting and Checking Out Is Cowardly Ooof this pains me because I am going through this right now.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/25 05:37 AM