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And before you say this is because my boyfriend is some sort of top Chad material I've seen that too. He is. Your and most women's version of "an average guy" is way up, in like 90% of top men. Can women come up with new arguments?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:14 PM
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Low iq high confidence didn't expect anything less from a RP
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:09 PM
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how does that relate to my reply? I didn't even get into why it doesn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:58 PM
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> work on myself out of curiosity, what exactly did you do? > the worst she can do really is just say "no". have you not seen a million videos titled the worst she can say is no where guys were humiliated so much that if you flipped genders it would result in a restraining order.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:55 PM
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for what? cold approach doesnt work. it will only lower your self esteem and waste your time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:52 PM
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<image> the number of times i sent this picture is going to reach triple digits soon
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:50 PM
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say hi for what? romantic interest? you are labeled a creep. classes? just look it up. compliment? a creep. is there anything else? what do you think she will be entertained by a conversation about weather? lmao the logic of people who never had to make friends outside of the ones they met when they were 11 or within their family is laughable. not to mention not everyone has flawless social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:48 PM
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Good for you and them. Just a friendly reminder: the average physical attractiveness of men percieved by women is way lower than the actual average attractiveness of men - which also heavily depends on age - if you are in your 20s as a man it's exponentially harder to look attractive to women your age. So if you wanted to have a gotcha moment then you failed. Also, it depends on the culture and if you are American, then it's way easier to cold approach in your culture than even in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:20 PM
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Being humiliated, laughed at, labeled a creep, brushed off in a rude manner. I don't approach because obviously I don't want that to happen but also because I don't have the magnetic charm or model looks to make a woman interested in me within the first 3 seconds of the convo. Cold approach does not work for an average young man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:36 PM
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Being humiliated, laughed at, labeled a creep, disrespected or brushed off in a rude manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:31 PM
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who in their right mind posts on reddit obsessively while being a "successful woman". i call larp
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 08:21 PM
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Bro if your friends uncles coworkers sons school friend is a misogynist it doesnt have ANYTHING to do with gyms and approaching women there. You are just extremely bad at logical reasoning and this post honestly should've been removed long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 10:47 AM
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Bro this article genuinely makes me tweak out. It's suggesting to basically make men celibate and make women raise children without a father figure and promote further gender divide and alienation. It's like why not just vasectomize everyone at this point. How antihuman and evil do you have to be to write sometihing like this. And btw if you flipped the narrative and wrote an article about forcing men and women to raise children together and building economy around that you'd get death threats a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:11 PM
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common knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 11:44 AM
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They also ate human meat and raped single digit aged girls. Abysmal logic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 11:24 AM
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She was bitching about politics and then switched to accusing me of being an incel as if that matters more in this context. Are you blind or concussed after being hit by a ukrainian drone?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:43 AM
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Are you claiming that this is worse than genociding people of an independent country? 😂😂😂 Only a "good" russian would defend like that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:23 AM
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I didn't have "good" russians calling each other out in a western platform on my 2026 bingo card
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:33 AM
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Bro reay said "unlucky pal"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:11 PM
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You confuse the consequence with the original reason. You were naturally more attractive for women and this is what allowed you to have a partner and fill your whole social circle with women. In reality they just universally found you safe, attractive and confident to befriend or date from the get go. After you've made a first few friends it just turned into a massve snowball effect which attracted even more women. And now you're sitting here trying to prove that it's actually just because you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:09 PM
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feminists want someone they can peg and bully lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:12 PM
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You can find many more stories about a guy spending every day with her for years just for her to announce they were friends all along when he confesses. So in your case it's likely not the reason why she chose him. In my experience I have been chosen by some women for that reason but investing so much time into them proved to be mentally draining and when I stopped spending as much time with them they all left lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:35 PM
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lilith is straight up just posting unrelated rants now. this sub is so cooked
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:14 PM
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Thats what this user does most of the time. She is a serial misandrist. You start to remember nicknames when you hear the same crazy takes all the time from them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:03 PM
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Those men are not on Reddit. You won't find anything bur ragebait and doomerism here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:59 PM
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Your average is most people's top 20%. I already tried pointing it out but seems like you completely ignored my point. Ig it does prove that women prefer looks over brain because you sure lack the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:45 AM
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The key is to be an actual friend, and not just someone waiting for a chance to take it up a notch. I feel like a lot of guys don’t know how to do this. Not really. The key is to be tall muscular and charismatic. Unfortunately not many men can grow larger, change their facial anatomy and hair by snapping their fingers. But you my guy were born like this and it's pretty sad to see another chad unknowingly doing the "but it worked for me!!" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:08 AM
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Men don't even have female friends in the first place. Women aren't letting them befriend them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:05 AM
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What do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:48 AM
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Comparing dating to job hunting basically shows how shitty it is lmao. We are no longer looking for a partner to enhance our lives, we are looking to work a second job for bread crumbs of affection instead of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:48 AM
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women nowadays refuse to even get dolled up lmao. Unless you consider basic hygiene and skin care routine getting dolled up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:36 AM
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The way I understand OPs point is that in his dating experience it works better if he is the one who chases, creates an image of a happy boyfriend, initiates everything and is basically always strong, reliable and confident. This is obviously ridiculously unrealistic. If you can't relax and just be yourself with your partner then what's the point of dating. The moment you relax your buns, she thinks you are weak and starts losing interest in you. Unfortunately as OP and I also noticed the showin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:10 AM
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What does that have to do with lack of confidence? It's clearly not the point. The point is that many if not most women act like princesses that don't actually reciprocate the entertainment. And it needs to be mutual for a healthy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:14 AM
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What if I don't wanna talk to a taken woman because I don't wanna hear "my bf this my bf that" all the goddamn time?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:33 AM
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I do but I don't wanna argue with you lmao. It's not even the first time. You are a misandrist and all you do is argue in bad faith to get a "gotcha" moment against a guy at all costs lmao. And you follow this pattern all the time, literally 0 character development
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:29 AM
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It was significantly easier to date before 2020 and it gets worse with each year thanks to wars, economic crisis, big tech. But hey you are right it was so hard to date during the 2010s without covid or wars or evil AI corporations when the biggest social issue was having too much fun mhm. Shows how little empathy you and older people in general feel towards the younger gens and how poorly you understand them lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:27 AM
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Normie thinking I am the OP and getting personal like all the issues we discussed apply to me and him lmao. Hey man, I know lacking a brain is difficult but I will have to stick to a standard of not talking to lazy ignorant idiots. Take care
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:13 AM
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I'm not OP and I know that you'll get into semantics of every word so no. But if OP answers he's in for a lot of pure unfiltered misandry lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:10 AM
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You dated when it wasnt a shit show, unless you met within like last year so no you aren't qualified.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:00 AM
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"wimin bad post" coming from a "min bad" woman lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:59 AM
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If you have a husband you are not in the dating market which this whole post is about. I highly recommend actually using your brain to chose when to write comments, I know very few actually do that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:50 AM
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This is a very nice post outlining the men's issues very clearly. Now get ready to be pummelled by a horde of white knights in the comments lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:48 AM
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An idiotic thing to do is making a guy wait 6 months lmao and then argue on Reddit about what a "higher quality man" would do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:39 AM
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Hey man would you rather get 100$ in 6 months for free or hope that someone offers it to you sooner? 100$ probably isn't worth the wait but it's a guaranteed 100$ regardless. You are free to set your boundaries however you want and they should be respected but sometimes they are stupidly absolute and it's perfecly valdil to call it that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:56 PM
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my position is that woman is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:58 PM
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"some men blah blah" yeah the only reason you're here is to blame men. unless youre willing to argue in good faith im not gonna continue this convo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:44 PM
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those arent as big of a deal. usually people are compromising. the bigger and more important problem is how people are becoming more and more isolated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:40 PM
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Men give just as much value to women as women give them. Companionship, support, physical intimacy. Your monetary understanding of a relationship is superficial and lazy. Many pretty women date ugly broke guys. Many pretty women date beautiful broke men. Many pretty women date rich and beautiful and so on. Your transactional view on this is so basic and yet you keep making posts and debating everyone blindly instead of actually trying to think constructively and reach a conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:51 PM
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You are on a debating forum
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:47 PM
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This is the point of discussion bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:47 PM
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its not memory, you are just being semantical and arguing in bad faith oh yeah let me hire a lawyer so that you can pick apart OP's every word together Im not gonna argue with someone so pedantic. It's clear that all that matters to you is showing how smart and cool you are on the internet instead of reaching an unbiased conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:44 PM
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I can agree with that but that doesnt warrant calling him an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:30 PM
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that is so vague its a useless piece of advice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:29 PM
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oh god you are so nonchalant and cool. destroying dumb men on the internet am I right? except I never said everything can be solved, so it's you who made it up OP himself said it was kinky. and there can be a number of reasons why his ex decided not to do anal including just to cuck the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:28 PM
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How do you fix 3. Dont just say "go out" or "treat them like normal people"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:03 PM
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you really showed that guy his place and contributed so much to the discussion. you go girl
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:00 PM
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6 months is insanely long compared to most relationships and very unfair to the guy. there is a plethora of ways to avoid those bad outcomes without such extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:59 PM
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if it's something out of his control then I'd say they are just incompatible on biological level. everything else can be solved with improving your hygiene and managing your diet. "So a woman got into unpleasant situation, learned from it, implemented rules to avoid it, and you're not sympathetic that she got through it", OP never mentioned that it was unpleasant. It was some kink play and he even cited his ex's own words. If it were unconsensual any modern woman would call the police and get th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:57 PM
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Thats a baseless assumption
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:00 PM
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there are plenty of ways to solve those issues and there is no way they didn't discuss that he didn't mention anything about his partner being a victim of a rape. lowest effort laziest argument. and of course coming from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:55 PM
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it basically means she had her fun, settled for an ugly chud like you and wants to larp as a modest christian lmao. if she was sexually and emotionally attracted to you she'd do anything you want. you were just the boring, "slow down" option basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:52 PM
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Hows any of that relavent
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:43 PM
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It doesn't matter how attractive is a woman if she will reject you at the same rate and will have the same unrealistic standards. Might as well only go for the pretty ones. Also aren't women the ones who constantly whine about "god forbid a girl has prefernce" (which is an excuse for only chasing hot jacked rich guys lmao)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:54 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:34 AM
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other guys and men from this sub are two different things and I never shit on someone just bc they arent my type
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:57 PM
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everyone has a type that is like 1/10 girls. thats why people dont stay with the first partner they chose for the rest of their lives. and thats why they spend so much time looking and sifting through people. the reason you think otherwise is because of the concentration of unhappy incels on this sub who are genuinely misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:19 PM
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A corvette enjoyer. You should get a c3
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:50 PM
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Whats the car. Come on man you cant just tease us like this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:29 PM
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"if you don't like broccoli, don't eat food"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:29 PM
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they behave like they are 13. this kind of stuff should be discussed in r/teenagers not here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:26 AM
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get this child out of this sub someone please
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:38 AM
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This post reeks of AI. Idk why would you need AI for such a simple take but just wanted to warn everyone it's likely a bot..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:41 PM
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crazy take considering that most people are in a relationship so they clearly DO need each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:21 PM
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To me it is a mystery how anyone dates at all. It is so hard to find someone who is compatible with you and sifting through dozens of potential partners is so exhausting you start to think it isn't worth it. And once you find the one, you aren't even guaranteed to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:33 PM
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It means that for each 100 women below 50 there is 101 men below 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:48 PM
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The thing with those men is that they want to eat meat while being vegeterians. Clubs and bars aren't good for them because 1) they are terrible at socializing, 2) this form of socializing will do more harm to them than good and 3) they should learn how to respect themselves and that their value is not tied to their body counts. But they don't understand that and focus on black pill and finding a partner asap despite not even needing one. To summarize not everyone benefits from clubs and bars an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:47 PM
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If she is nice, if we have things in common and if she shows genuine interest in me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:31 PM
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How are they valuable? There is a literal surplus of men below age of 50. Even mathematically they are less valuable than women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:11 PM
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The amount of sex in a relationship doesn't matter to me nor to my male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:00 PM
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You join hobbies to do hobbies and find friends, not to approach every single woman you see for the first time and ask her out. You will spend a lot of time doing the same activity together. A hobby gives you an opportunity to share a conversation topic and deepen the relationship from being a complete stranger to someone she can trust. If you fail to do that in one hobby, you can try a different one. You don't need to limit yourself to only one hobby. Try everything you can and meet as many peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 10:05 PM
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You sound like the most stereotypical Karen. Anyway, I was describing men in their early 20s because that's the average age of my male friends, so your argument completely falls apart. And if dressing well, wearing cologne, maintaining lean physique, staying clean and good grooming is not enough for you appearance standards, well I'm sorry Mrs Universe, that none of my dirty peasant friends are 6'5 models from fashion magazine covers with sharp jawlines and a 5h long daily skincare routine. I gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:54 PM
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How much "GrEaTeR" effort do you need? You must have such humble standards. Most young men look, smell and dress nice. Most young men go to gym. Most young men are studying/employed. Most young men have partners which is a direct proof of their emotional maturity and ability to care about their SO. What you describe sounds like a bunch of hobos. I honestly don't know and don't want to know why you surround yourself with such men, but please don't extrapolate that to the whole male population jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:01 PM
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OP is wrong but assuming that all men don't put effort into their appearance, relationships and emotional intelligence is even worse. Where do you even keep finding those ugly, bad smelling, unstable men? In a pigsty? Literally any man in my immediate friend circle is well groomed, clean, well mannered and has a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:33 PM
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No one really cares about the gender war enough to fix anything. It affects a minority big enough to be a threat but not big enough to bother the people outside of this war. I mean look, even such existential threat as climate change is ignored by literally everyone because no one cares about plastic-melting heatwaves in 50 years when half of us will be dead anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:30 PM
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Maybe you should stop trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:32 AM
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You missed the point completely. A woman wouldn't date a guy who she thinks is unattractive, especially in her early twenties when she prioritizes that over everything else. But they do in fact date in their early twenties. Majority of them does lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:29 AM
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I am straight. If we take all ages into account I'd say I find 30% women and 20% of men attractive. If we narrow it down to 20-40 age bracket it's 50% of women and 60% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:04 AM
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Women being less attracted to men is a bs statement. They are attracted to men. Ask any woman in a hetero relationship. The real reason is women find relationships more often IRL so they don't need to use apps. I genuinely do not understand why anyone, not just women would want to go on apps and spend hours trying to pick good photos that fit all the criteria, write a good algorithm friendly bio, set up convo starters etc etc etc etc. It's so boring, so unnatural, so artificial. Just go meet som…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:55 PM
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Shhh, don't break their illusion of men being lust-driven braindead ogres who chase bimbos or they will experience cognitive dissonance!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:58 PM
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[ Removed by Reddit ]
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:28 AM
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No butt sex? She should be in jail
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:02 AM
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Ok mr white knight
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:58 AM
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Maybe read my comment again. Existense of majority means there is a minority that didn't. If you don't use your brain what's the point in arguing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:58 AM
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Mate, should I make a gofundme for you? 5 years without sex must've traumatized you!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:56 AM
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HAHAHAH yeah I'm so mad I didn't get to stick my junk in a wet hole for longer than you. And advice in what? How to be completely irrelavent and make everything about yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:55 AM
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Not having sex for five years is not even the definiton of being invisible. He just came up with a low effort lazy defense because he couldn't care less about this discussion. And your reply looks like you didn't read the thread and also don't treat it seriously. It's a running theme of this sub, successful people not caring about struggling people. If you don't have anything smart to say just log out and do something more useful
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:09 PM
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According to that logic men who are below women's average height have 50% smaller dating pool but yeah fuck those guys. We only care about the average man who is 5'9.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:02 PM
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Congrats on being that one woman from Reddit who doesn't care about height. There are 4 billion more most of whom do care though. And for them this argument works
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:43 PM
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Google "women rate men less attractive on average than men rate women". It doesn't suck for women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:41 PM
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"I have been broke. I was under 100 billion for 2 years of my life... From 2021 to 2023!" - Jeff Bezos
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:39 PM
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Vast majority of men is above 5'8. For men who are shorter than that it's quite literally an impossible bar to meet unless they cripple themselves with an invasive leg surgery which will lock them out of dating either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:36 PM
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It's even less guaranteed for men once they somehow get to a talking stage so that doesn't change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:33 PM
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Go to any singles event and there will be 70 men who paid 100$ entrance fee and 5 fugly women who came for free. You think they said goodbye to a 100$ bill bc they don't want to look at fugly women? No. They are fed up and desperate. But those very same women that are "invisible" will reject everyone on that singles event. Bc having options makes them trip on power and become insanely picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:29 PM
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The post was about options and all your friends have to do is to choose an option that doesn't want to use them for sex. The problem is that your friends likely value the excitement and charm of a man who is interested only in sex more than a man who is less exciting but wants a ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:19 PM
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This man has never been invisible in his whole life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:15 PM
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So.. You talk to guys with red flags (that potentially havent been displayed yet) in your own words just because they pass the looks filter? Isn't that exactly what OP just said?..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:14 PM
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Truth supernova
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:11 PM
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Far less women ask out men. The definition of an option is when it's available to you and you can use it to create a relationship with a guaranteed 100% outcome. So since men ask women out more, they create more options for women. While women only select one of those options, which means you really aren't guaranteed even a single option when you are a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:11 PM
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Women who are lonely don't actually want any man. Your assumption that the act of complaining about their loneliness means that they want to date is wrong because that's what men mean when they do that. What women actually mean when they say they are lonely is that they demonize men and want other women to validate their view on men. Think about it "I am so lonely" never comes without "because all the men only care about one thing" or some other misandrist statement. It's a masked attack on men,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:06 PM
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You can be as nice and considerate as you want but it will never attract any women. Sure the 10th woman you ask out will feel pity and go on a date because "he is ugly but nice" but then after a few dates she will claim that she "doesn't feel a spark" and send you an HR message before hopping on chad's dick within a few days and getting dumped a few days later. This cycle is as old as the world
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:31 PM
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Sure lol. You can DM it to me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:38 PM
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Either way I don't try because I would burn myself. I know the truth. And I'd like to keep it like this to at least have some uncertainty and semblance of hope left. And many men are doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:25 PM
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I haven't seen Americans talk like this. Must be Ohio dialect or something
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:13 PM
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There is some truth to what OP said but the majority of what he wrote sounds like blabbering of a schizophrenic person
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:08 PM
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You sound like you come from a non-western culture. Women from the west are way worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:05 PM
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so invest a lot of time and effort to entertain you like a jester while you "don't feel a spark" and treat him like a second option after the local chad? seems fair. you know I love how short-sighted people are. people treat this stuff like some sort of joke and act hedonistically without even realizing how bad their retirement will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:57 PM
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So you are just gonna completely ignore how shallow it is to judge someone by their income and looks? And then you just say "it is what it is if u broke n ugly u dont make the cut". Empathetic gender btw. A classic on this sub. Now I wonder why you chose a purple pill tag and not red pill. You should probably change it to something like "red pill woman who wants all broke and ugly men to not make the cut. does not apply to women tho, they can chase chad no matter how ugly and broke they themselv…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:47 PM
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US has a completely different culture and dating experience. My life and my preferences would have been completely different if I lived there. I was asked if I would do that in my current place and circumstances and I replied honestly. And no, I still don't agree that one guy on reddit not wanting to date a 50 year old fugly woman justifies all women being extremely shallow and having abnormally high standards lmao. How slow do you have to be to keep on defending this claim
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:23 PM
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Good thing US isn't the whole world. I tailored my preferences to my local demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:10 PM
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Ok bro. I learned english as a second language, am fluent in four languages and learning two more. Thanks for pointing out my single mistake. You really had a second "g*o*tcha" moment there. Not everyone is born with native knowledge of a language that is used by 90% of the internet. But yeah, you had to resort to this bc there is nothing supporting your lazy ass claim. If you care to know why go read my explanation in a neighboring thread to a user who showed at least somewhat more respect and …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:07 PM
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A twenty-something guy dating an ugly obese 50 year old woman is such a lazy and stupid argument that you can find it being proved wrong pretty much under any post here. I will spell it out for ya: I am not obese. I have a pretty symmetrical face. I would gladly date someone who is in my age bracket, and matches my body type/looks - which is like 75% of women in a similar age to mine. Besides, I would gladly make exceptions for someone who genuinely loves me and treats me well. And this is prett…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:42 PM
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Bro completely ignored my message and proceeded with her gatcha moment. Congrats man you are so cool and witty and you totally got me there. I am not gonna go into detail why your argument is total bs because honestly it's so weak and lazy it's not even worth my time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:32 PM
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Was your thought process like this? "I'm gonna take a completely unrelated to the topic example for a gatcha effect because I'm not arguing in good faith and just want to put down some random guy who defends struggling men"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:24 PM
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> Unless they're incels or black pill, they would know better than to call themselves incel or blackpill. That term applies to all men who can't get a date for whatever reason, not just violent misogynists > But what any semblance of proof do you have? Many friends and examples online. Funny of you to ask for proof when you yourself said in the post your idea's purely based on your own observations of "guys talking"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:21 PM
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I know for a fact that dating is bad and I would live through a lot of negativity if I even attempted it. I am already at low mood and depressed, so why would I subject myself to even more suffering? In fact, as long as I stay in a state of uncertainty I have at least some hope that it's possible. Basically, it's like stepping on thin ice. You know it might hold you but you will most likely fall through. So obviously no one wants to walk on thin ice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:44 PM
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I'm sorry but if you think that, you are objectively a shitty person. And a woman too, what a coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:37 PM
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This guy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:34 PM
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You defined three different categories that women favor in men which is personality, money and looks. I pointed out that if it was true many incels would be dating, because you are obviously demonizing incels even though the quiet majority of them is much nicer and harmless compared to the vocal misogynistic minority that you see online. But that majority still can't date. Hence, personality doesn't matter and it was even confirmed by the blue pill guy below lmao. So what exactly did I say wrong…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:29 PM
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Thank you bro you just proved the whole idea of black pill correct. You truly are a walking hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:24 PM
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I know for a fact it's bad. And confirming that on my own experience would be the last nail on the coffin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:21 PM
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These women won’t feel special, you don’t care about them as a person, you just want a woman. Investing time and resources into a woman while you are already behind by a decade in dating experience and facing yoru thirites doesn't work. Some people don't have the time and energy to play all those games with socializing and expanding your circle of friends when they know the few women that they meet naturally are likely taken or not interested bc it all boils down to a numbers game. So yeah, apro…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:19 PM
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So what you are saying is if a guy is broke and not particularly attractive he just needs to respect her and be nice to her to win her over? Lmao. Yeah, that's how it works obviously. Mhm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:07 PM
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People say having standards is normal but in reality if the standardsb for the whole group overlap (hot tall jacked rich funny exciting blonde blue eyes etc etc etc) we get hypergamy. And I am pretty sure it is only specific for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:25 PM
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This guy is just mentally challenged i stopped arguing long ago and advice doing the same to you OP
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:07 AM
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Obviously if someone wants a GF they need to date. But as OP has expressed in most cases men are expected to invest, while women get the free stuff and are free to cancel the subscription whenever they want, and you cannot predict this just by looking at a woman and deciding not to approach. OP said that because of this women are scared to lose this power which I don't necessarily agree with bc it's unfortunately how biology works, but I do agree that this issue exists. What you are saying compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 09:16 PM
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the pic made me cackle but yeah the post was about men who do date but aren't satisfied with the power imbalance, so your "dont like it then dont do it" argument absolutely doesnt work
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 08:55 PM
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I don't go for Stacies and that isn't even related to the discussion. You have to compete for any woman, not just the most attractive ones. Go to any party, women there get chatted up by dozens of guys who hope she will select someone who she likes the most out of them. That's jestermaxxing in full glory. Not to mention she might just reject all of them anyway so nothing is ever guaranteed no matter how good and compatible of a guy you are. Idk why you are so obsessed with me allegedly chasing a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 08:48 PM
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This isn't even closely the same. Women go on dates, get free dinners and gifts and entertainment because all the courting, they play games and make men act like jesters for them. It's literally the definition of having power over someone. And what you described doesn't amount in anything substantial for men. You're just being sophistical
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:27 PM
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Big tiddy goth girl is a funny example but even if your interests match there will still be a thousand dudes with those interests and will compete for her with you. What about the men who only have male-dominated hobbies which basically means you are competing with the guys in that hobby? Do you not know that whenever you go to like martial arts class or stem degree in college you will basically see one girl being hit on by the whole campus because women are so rare in those spaces. And even if …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:18 PM
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Bruh she wants to see if you’re pleasant enough to trust to the point of getting naked with. Not “move the chess pieces till she has no option but yield” The act of "screening" someone is literally what gives women the power over their date? Are you not seeing what you're typing? The chess analogy and whatever dominance-based hierarchy idea you got from reading OP's post is a misinterpretation of their words.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:07 PM
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Yeah they would all just chase the local chad if that were a thing. Which most women do at least once in their lives anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 01:57 PM
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Wife material is a woman who supports me and genuinely loves me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:19 PM
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That's what I meant. What was achieved in 1800s is also thanks to feminism, so I was wondering which part of it you don't like. If you are fine with that then you are talking about the modern branch of feminism and I understand why you aren't fond of it. I'm curious to hear what men's rights you think feminists should be marching for in your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:35 PM
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What do you define as feminism? In my eyes, feminism fights for equal pay, abortion rights, equal legal freedom and equal power in marriage for women. Without it, it would still be common to see women being abused mentally and physically, restricted from property ownership, higher education, high end jobs, and basically being treated like a second class citizen who is completely dependent on men. Is that what your definition of feminism? Or is it more of a "I don't like women with dyed hair and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:51 PM
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Lets consider a little scenario. We have 1000 women and 1100 men aged 20-29. 800 women date the other 800 men. 50 women and 50 men are gay and date each other. We are left with a 150 women against 250 men. In case you still don't get it let's make it more extreme. 149 out of these women are matched with 149 men. We are left with 101 men and 1 woman. You see how it works?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:38 PM
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Biology. There is always an endless supply of men and a huge demand for women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:01 PM
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Men can be masculine and be feminist. Can I ask what traits exactly you consider feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:15 PM
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We should care about that 20% because it's still millions of men. The other 80% also needs help. No one wants to be alone. But I wouldn't expect any other stance from the empathetic gender
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:58 PM
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what have they even done to yo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:49 PM
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They say that because their personal experience and the stuff they see on the internet convinced them. It's also supported by data.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:47 PM
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So what you are saying we should not care about any minorities? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:48 PM
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I'd love to see that paper. Either way there are still the 20% that aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:00 AM
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You are free to think anything of me. I don't care if you think I am some stinky incel in his mom's basement who never touched grass or talked to a woman, as it's not relevant to this discussion. I can assure you that I am not but you of course, don't have to believe it. I can't go over every single example I've seen (both IRL and online). Off the top of my head: losing weight and getting in shape, going to speed dating and therapy, going to book clubs and other hobby activities, improving groom…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:15 PM
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There are dumb kids who follow tiktok trends because "it's cool" and there are grown men who lost all hope after trying for countless years in their twenties and learning from their own experience that you can't fool the dark reality of dating. I'd say for sure there are more kids who consume manosphere content but they are just kids and for them it's not even nearly as bad as for the grown men who tried dating and failed dozens upon dozens of times which truly made them into real life incels. K…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:54 PM
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Why would you assume I am struggling with it myself? I can only say that there are countless examples of guys who: go out and attempt to improve their social skills, approach women in a non-creepy way and try expanding their social circle, do new hobbies, go to therapy, improve personal hygiene and go to gym, try to improve financially, all on their own. It really takes massive mental effort to do all that, and after seeing no improvement, or even worse, if things start getting even worse after …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:46 PM
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Even the most persistent person would give up after following the basic advice like "self improov" and " just go out" and working on every little aspect of their character for years upon years and still not getting anywhere, let alone an average guy. After continuous failures any person gets burnt out and depressed. And I mean really continuous. There are times when it just doesn't work out, month after month, year after year and sometimes it's not even based on attractiveness, just pure luck. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:30 PM
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Do you think incels are born like that? They are not some animals with primitive behaviour patterns. Each man has a complex mind. They go through many rejections and failures in personal life before they become incels. In fact any person who faced a decade long bad streak in dating life would almost certainly become jaded and sore, especially when they are a minority. You are just dismissing their problems like an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:01 PM
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If robot women were a thing every single human woman would become single or date a robot bf. They would just be better in everything by a mile. OP treating it like it would be a one guy thing. Nono, everyone will very quickly realize how much better robot gf's are and switch to them. It would be weird to talk about your human wife instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 05:16 AM
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Don't blame biology. Anyone likes hot people, women or men. Because of this, hot people learn to not value others' attention (there is always a lot of it), again this works for both women and men. This is simple maths.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:40 PM
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I'm surprised women still unironically use apps knowing full well this is what they'll find there. Apps are intentionally designed to keep you out of stable relationships. It's like going to the bahtroom in search of food instead of checking the fridge.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:11 PM
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bro said this on a DEBATING sub
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:59 PM
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where are all these men who seek sex? i have a wide circle of male friends and half of them don't date at all, while the other is in a stable long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:57 PM
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I agree that a claim about men being logical and women being emotional is wrong but I also think that you'd need a better argument than just one example of a guy being emotional on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:21 PM
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Maybe OP just focused more on the pick me part, rather than the putting other women down part. Maybe for a man who's starving for female attention and has gone through lots of rejections it is only natural to perceive it like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:34 PM
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I can see why you’re single— nothing but hate and bile comes out of your mouth. Again no? Finding a partner especially if I don't go out and don't hang out in places with other women is extremely difficult? Given that I'm not even trying to fix it—it's literally impossible. And even if I did I would have to jump through a billion hoops just to have one single girl reluctantly give me a chance and then dump me when she gets bored. This is a very common story. No, I'm not assuming. Literally ask a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 08:32 PM
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You say mean things then get offended when I object. What is wrong with you? When I say that, I just point out something that is objectively bad. I am not going to hold back just because you get offended easily by the stuff that is objectively true. You get offended whenever you are challenged. In this case it is completely reasonable to assume that your husband struggles a lot with you, judging by how fiercely and disrespectfully you keep attacking me. You admitted to overreacting and being emo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 08:32 PM
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always with the very obvious logical implication being that I’m incredibly and utterly deficient as a woman in every way. There is no implication like that and I literally said that it is possible and that you are an exception. And having a husband means insults aren’t insulting any more!!! I did not insult you. I do not envy your hubby tho. So when you said you assumed I must be very pretty, you were also deliberately insulting me, lashing out to call me a stuck up bitch Well how high standards…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:08 AM
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I didn't mean to offend you and I don't see how I implied you deserve to die because you are average-looking. You act all emotional as if you are still lonely and in despair, despite you claiming to have a loving husband. The key part of my reply was that you must be an exception, but generally it's the other way around. I don't know why you were one and I only listed possible causes that don't have to be true. And no I don't favor super pretty girls. I hate them because they are stuck up and ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:23 PM
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Nobody said it's women's fault. It's just that they social advantage they have by being the center of attention for guys and other girls is an enormous privelege, but they act like it's not and the socially inept guys are evil and immoral. The number of those guys is growing larger and larger. They need help while you need to at least pretend to feel empathy for once in your life. Although of course being selfish and narcissistic is the only way to survive in today's society, so I don't blame yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:52 PM
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This assumption is justified by how men are mostly proactive in the dating scene and how women in male-dominated spaces are flooded with attention from men statistically. I think it's very reasonable to assume the problem is in you rejecting guys, which also is veeery common among women in STEM. But if what you're saying is true (which i still think is exaggerated on your side) then you must be extremely unlucky or unapproachable. Maybe guys assumed such a pretty girl already had someone. Maybe …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:45 PM
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"you can definitely make that happen again with someone better suited?" Yeah maybe from your POV it could be true. You don't seem to fully understand how it is for less romantically successful guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:22 AM
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