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To the point if creamy_mari, I was one of those people who didn't know wtf demisexual was until recently. I had heard the term but never had it defined. I've always been demisexual, my first crush was based on personality and intelligence (I'm also sapiosexual) so it's clear to me that I've always been demi. I think you should probably just let it go a little. Don't focus so much on finding a demisexual and focus more on being happy with yourself as you are. If you cannot be happy with yourself,…
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 05:41 AM
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Demi sexual here Idk what age you are, but I'm 23 and currently engaged to my wonderful fiance. I think he's at least attractive because other women have hit on him, but because I understand I have personal bias, I'm not able to really tell ya if he is conventionally attractive, above average or what not. I can recognize beauty as an artist. It's just not what attracts me. All I cam say is he's the most beautiful human being on earth because he's mine <3. If you haven't met one irl, maybe you ne…
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 05:34 AM
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It's my time to shine here. Ya'll are both right and wrong, but not yalls fault. Everyone conflates worth and value. These are similar but not the same. And you can change the terms, but there's the principle. Worth is inherent to life, to humanity. Even a brain-dead human has equal worth to a billionaire. But value is what you bring to the world. You have value because you xyz. And this can be anything. I bring value because I use my linguistic knowledge to aid others in their discussions and d…
/r/ExRedPill18/04/24 09:21 PM
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It didn't start out as red pill. The video the creator made that made me want to join was about a system called AQAL. I wanted to learn more about it
/r/ExRedPill13/04/24 09:00 PM
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Hai! I was in a red pill community! It wasn't red pilled at first but swiftly changed into one because the YouTuber behind the discord server started showing his true colors (Hoe Math. I am talking about the birch named hoe math) My experience with it reminded me heavily of an abusive relationship. There was only 9% women there and most of the guys treated us like shit
/r/ExRedPill08/04/24 09:23 PM
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Here's my honest tip. Don't only look at the outside. And learn to value yourself beyond looks. Don't really think about your looks that much aside from hygiene and maybe styling clothes. If you focus too much on looks, it creates a negative energy. I remember once arguing with a guy who was an honest 7/10 (according to everyone who rated him), but he thought he was ugly, and yet he would only ask out Instagram model women. He constantly got rejected by them. Women who were indeed pretty and "on…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/24 07:02 PM
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There are plenty of demi sexual girls out there, ya know. I myself am on the spectrum of demi. I never look at a physical body and feel lust. But I do develop "the hots" for someone who I Intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually connect with. Doesn't matter what they look like. I cannot speak on how physically attractive my fiance is, but I lust after him all the time because he is so smart and emotionally intelligent. People do have physical preferences. There's nothing wrong with that. But…
/r/ExRedPill29/03/24 01:49 AM
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Ah.... that sounds so strange to me still.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/24 09:22 PM
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I wish me participating showed myself as better All they wanted was a female punching bag, really. And once the mods stopped punishing bad behavior, it only got worse. I don't need and never wanted an "alpha chad", really. I never thought of money or anything else when it came to marriage. I only ever wanted a man who was my intellectual equal and more emotionally mature than myself. Which I got. My fiance is exactly that and on top of it all, he's generous and resourceful, which I never even as…
/r/ExRedPill16/03/24 11:02 PM
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She won't ever know for sure if you mean it either. That's why relationships are built on trust. If my fiance told me I could safely jump off a cliff, I'd do it. Because we've built trust. Many issues like this are easily resolved when you flip the script. Instead of it being you're worries and insecurities, pretend their your future gf's insecurities. Women are humans too, so we share a lot in common. I have had to flip the script for my fiance in the past regarding his body image. He had an un…
/r/ExRedPill16/03/24 10:52 PM
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It was online, and yes it was very misogynistic. Only 9% of the members were women and every single day we had to prove that we were indeed not Wh0re's before our opinion would be considered valid. And even them "women don't actually know what they want" so our opinions were Invalid anyways. Offline, I've found people hide these sort of beliefs a lot more. I think it's because, subconsciously, they know they're wrong.
/r/ExRedPill12/03/24 01:30 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/s/TreWUEks9R
/r/ExRedPill12/03/24 01:23 AM
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That's actually not true. It's a false conflation. It's not even the dark triad traits women are attracted to. I'll have ti find a link that'll help you with this specific thing. Brb.
/r/ExRedPill12/03/24 01:21 AM
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Lol, I've seen few very good looking white men in the community i was in. Most were average unless you like excessive musculature lol. In a server with maybe 1000 men, there were maybe 3 to 5 where were above average according to others there (I'm sapiosexual, so most people brush aside my ratings despite being an artist and my studies of fashion, body types, face shapes, color theory, ect ect). There were good looking guys, but strictly good looking and white, maybe 4 or 5. And most of them wer…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/24 02:08 AM
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Lol, this would be the only time I'd say it's ok lmfao I had to pull out for my own mental health, but I may check in from time to time to see what new bullshit they talk about... if they ever manage to find anything new.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/24 01:41 AM
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I will say that that's the difference. If you're a little too old to be groomed that indicates you are capable of seeing through all that. Younger women aren't, myself included. I always advise women my age to be very cautious dating older men until they're at least 27/28. Especially if they're also neurodivergent like me on top of being young. I also just came from a "mild" red pill community. The environment was abusive and the entire server was cultish. It wasn't at first, but it slowly turne…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/24 01:40 AM
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As a woman just leaving a red pill community because the environment was basically abusive? It's a huge red flag. Red pill content + him being 10 years older = run as fast as you can. Many have already told you basically everything I have to say. But trust me when I say to trust that instinct. Even milder red pill creators like hoe math are horrible. That one is basically a cult.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/24 01:37 AM
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Well. I don't know if I can offer advice rn, but I can offer my sympathies. I know I never personally cared about a guy's sexual or dating experience. My fiance has some, but that's not why I stayed with him. I stay with him because he's a great man who loves me, is generous (not rich, generous, there's a difference), and he's emotionally intelligent (I'm not lmfao. I'm dumb as fuck when it comes to emotions. I'm working on it tho!) I was raised Christian, so there's a whole purity culture there…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/24 01:33 AM
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