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she saw he had a penthouse mansion you didn't make her orgasm and said you didn't have a full boner (she thinks you have trash dick) you basically kicked her out. by just telling her to call the uber Now I realize the dgaf attitude of just telling her to call the uber and only caring about your nut might seem alpha as fuck in some eyes, but the combination may have seemed inexcusable in hers. Can't be a dick after you've given trash dick. You might have pulled it off if you gave a really good pe…
/r/askTRP19/12/19 01:47 AM
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I've experienced a much more watered-down version of this. A family member got sick (won't go into details) but it had me fucked up because I was worried about them, so naturally in this state I wasn't projecting as strong of a frame as I normally would and I noticed myself slipping into bluepill habits and I lost a plate because of it. Moral of the story. Women don't care if your entire bloodline just got fucking wiped off the face of the planet. "Where the female can derive no benefit from ass…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 09:21 PM
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Pick your clubs,activities sports, events, etc. And attend regularly. Attend as regularly as possible and socialize with everyone and be as friendly as possible. Its basically easy mode in college the first year because no one else has friends either. Try to meet people at all the "freshmen/new student/orientation" events as well. And with frats not being a thing, and no one clicking up due to dormlife, you've got another advantage that most USA students don't have. Social groups will be easier …
/r/askTRP27/11/19 07:25 PM
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You don't have to be dishonest. You can make it clear that the relationship is not exclusive. And its entirely possible to care about someone who you're not exclusive partners with. If you don't care about them, drop them or friendzone them. And focus on cultivating a social network so the women come to you and you won't have to allocate time to finding them. Tinder and bars are good in the beginning, but eventually you wanna have your own spiderweb. If your SMV is what it should be, the only ot…
/r/askTRP24/10/19 01:59 AM
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The best way to not get burned big-time down the road is to experience controlled burns now. in other words, yeah its probably best to get experience. especially with how things are in the western world in 2019. Doesn't mean you have to go and bang 5s all day. I believe in quality over quantity within reason. 7s and up is pretty reasonable. 8s and up maybe if you're a 6'2" nordic god with the physique of a quarterback. Banging every 5 you can, is idiotic in my opinion. 5s have to settle too. whi…
/r/askTRP24/10/19 12:03 AM
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Ignore her ass. She knew your intention and went home with another dude. Don't be rude so you can save your social circle, but do not go out of your way for this girl. Get with other chicks. If you get with one thats hotter than her it may cause jealousy. Thats your best bet. Its also the catch 22 of the situation. You won't get her until you get something better.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 04:22 PM
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Just hit ppl up on tinder and friends you already know and just be like "any parties this weekend?"
/r/askTRP27/09/19 06:43 PM
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Talk to them on the phone. have a convo. They're probably just afraid it'll be awkward. If you have a phone convo first its usually way less awkward.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 07:52 PM
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this ^ tbh. just be careful not to get aids. always wrap it with the questionable looking chicks because they get with some questionable dudes. you start with like 5 or a 6 if at all possible and let preselection basically do all the work for you. The fact that you're attractive will hasten the preselection effect too probably.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 03:51 AM
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If u go with music I'd suggest something that can actually get you some cash these days such as production (every shitty soundcloud rapper/ wanna be rockstar will pay you to mix and master their shit) or DJing (paid gigs at club, plus you can get tons of pussy because chicks throw themselves at even the shitty djs) OR if you want a really hard skill that will directly net you some cash. Pick an in demand programming language and learn it. Start with tutorials and once you've got the basics, chal…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 03:58 PM
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keep at the gym. Fuck 10 chicks to kill oneitis. It might take less than 10 but thats the general rule of thumb people say.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 03:41 PM
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from the sounds of it its too late for OP. he's post college and lacking the post college social circle that still seems to be heavily about who you knew in college from his perspective.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 11:03 PM
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absolute trooph. stay on yo purpose. Its more of a milestone than a shit test. Just shrug it off.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 03:18 AM
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FUCK HER FRIENDS. forget the bitch. be friendly with her obviously. but make friends with her ppl
/r/askTRP14/09/19 03:14 AM
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Go check out central america or thailand. You can live like a literal god with that kind of money. and fuck the most beautiful ethnic women you could dream of. If thats not your thing, southern europe and eastern europe are good as well.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 02:50 AM
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loneliness is the number one cause of depression. Some people will say you need a girlfriend but thats bullshit. a Girlfriend will alleviate it but you don't wanna be dependent on one person. You gotta start finding hobbies like other people said on here. Find hobbies that other ppl do, and make friends. Go onto facebook groups and for things you're interested in in your city. Once you get a little friend circle going, then you can worry about relationships with females. ​ Side note: there are a…
/r/askTRP14/09/19 02:46 AM
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If you got abs, show them off in a bathroom selfie and then use pics of u and/or other people you've been tagged in on facebook and instagram. Put a very minimalist bio (just like a dumb funny short quote from a movie) and add 6'1" at the bottom of it. only put about 3-5 pics. 3 if they're really good. 5 if they're so-so. ​ This might work if you actually look really good and have decent abs. I'm 14% bf and have abs but kinda mediocre ones but I've got a good face too and it works when I'm in bi…
/r/askTRP16/02/19 10:09 PM
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Not all. Alot perhaps. But alot of them were Omegas. Particularly the school shooters. edit: also I wonder to what degree is the distinction between psychopath and sociopath relevant to the differentiation between omegas and sigmas.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 02:32 AM
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Agree. social skills are pretty important. But I would argue that rehearsed "game" is extraordinarily un-natural and girls see through it 99% of the time and you sound like a try hard dumbass who read some shit online (even to people who don't know what PUA is). The only time it really works is when some aspect of your SMV ends up being your saving grace.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 07:07 PM
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you have to be on gear to get to that level (even on gear its insanely hard to get to) anyways. The biggest full natty lifters out there aren't even close to being "so big that they turn off girls". My point is, If you're natty I wouldn't even consider worrying about turning off girls by being too big.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 07:03 PM
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Tell him to read this subs sidebar and start lifting. And assuming this is real. For the love of god don't tell him "plenty of women would be lucky to have him" You'll just confuse the poor bastard even more.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 12:28 AM
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Negatory friend. ghost until she commits. She's trying to pull you into beta orbit.
/r/seduction25/03/18 07:58 PM
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Not necessarily. An alpha could still be a retarded douche but he probably wouldn't get as far that way and given the wrong motives and mindset he could just be faking it. But You could be faking the "nice alpha" character too just as easily. Alphas really only exist in a relative sense. That is, relative to a group of people. For example. "Relative to the people in [theoretical social circle] Chad is the alpha" However that same Chad could be a beta when compared to another group of people like…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 02:15 AM
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I'd recommend going on to soundcloud and networking with some small/undiscovered artists. Often times from my experience all you have to do is shoot them a PM and they'll say yes, you can use their music royalty free. Smaller artists might even be willing to sign an agreement. PM me if you need help with this. I also dick around with sound engineering as a hobby and might be able to offer you some pointers or help you If I get the time.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 02:21 AM
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"Black pill nihilism" you hit the nail right on the head with that phrase Black pill nihilism has its roots in all of these anti-social violent offenses. Notice how its always the Omega types?
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 01:57 AM
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that or just ignore it outright. If she thinks that even her insults aren't worth your time It'll cause all kinds of hamstering.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 12:28 AM
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I disagree with him. I think hearing all these things before they happen to you, will allow you to internalize them and process them better when they do. just my opinion as well. It could go either way.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 12:54 AM
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"We're still fucking though because she's a good fuck and imo thats not to waste, just treat her like a whore whos only a body to you." Knowing she was a party slut you should have done that from the begging but at least you learned the valuable lesson of AWALT out of this. You're doing better than people way older than you in red pill We've got a Potential Übermensch right here. Keep posting please for the sake of this sub.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 12:49 AM
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Very refreshing information you have here. It makes me realize that before we get sucked into conspiracy theories we should consider psychological explanations first. Evolutionary psychology is definitely an essential pillar of red pill.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 02:10 AM
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go to nofap. the longer you hold a streak the more "vanilla" your sexual preferences will become. Trust me weird fetishes aren't permanent. I used to beat my dick to tentacle hentai for some reason and now I don't even get a wiggle. some guys have even reported not being into gay porn after abstaining from porn for a while. and even if you don't stop jerking at the very least stop watching porn and it'll do wonders for your confidence. (though nofap will take you even further) EDIT: Porn Induced…
/r/askTRP19/09/17 05:31 AM
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She's not yours, its just your turn. this applies to everyone. even chad, because there are many chads and all of them are better than each other in some way.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 05:01 AM
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assuming you're not bullshitting about your stats. You're a chad. Take advantage of it (or be taken advantage of). You'll regret it if you don't go homecoming and prom at least once. After that one time don't waste your time if you don't want to. And make sure you pick a girl who puts out because tuxedo rentals aren't cheap. And get decent grades in HS so you can continue your escapade into college (where the real shit begins)
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 02:30 AM
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actually a damn good point. Thats how you wake up in a bathtub full of ice and a scar where your kidney once was.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 01:21 AM
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move on and fuck other girls, BUT you can fuck your oneitis if you raise your smv and if you're at 29% it seems pretty clear what you need to do. Start lifting and cut down to about 12 percent. that along with your non-beta attitude shift will probably have her wanting you. IGNORE all shit tests (supposedly weight loss shit tests are a big thing because people hate to see others engaging in self improvement) EDIT: and ghost if none of the above works. but in the mean time don't focus too much en…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 01:07 AM
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Great post! I love to hear about little corporate adventures like this because even though they don't pertain to my field specifically I'd like to think I can take take the lessons into my own life. If anything I definitely understand corporate life better.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 02:57 AM
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Pitiful rationalizations. You would have barely gotten results with that bro split if you were natty
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 09:03 PM
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I knew a "chad" who crushed ass before he joined a frat, and did so easily. However, after he joined the frat it seemed he crushed slightly more ass. my point being; if you're a chad you'll do well regardless. IMO there are two paths you can take in college that will result in ass-crushery. The first is the party life in which you'll have a definite advantage over normies if you're in a frat (how much of an advantage depends on the general social atmosphere of your school. If its an old row type…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 08:40 PM
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Agreed! Usually ALPHA is the result of socialization not Genetics from what I've seen. Good post!
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 01:15 AM
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Consider veganism/alkaline diet to promote an alkaline body (which is not hospitable to cancer) and medical cannabis. Good luck in your fight I believe in you.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 02:43 AM
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never considered this point of view. Interesting
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 04:28 AM
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Can't tell whats worse. Being a frustrated beta male who never figures it out or being a CC riding female who remains forever ignorant to the fact that she is a slave to her emotions. Thankfully I'll never have to know.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 07:27 PM
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This is the deadass truth right here man^ Your SMV is too low (or at least your game isn't enough to compensate) so its coming across as creepy as fuck. I actually envy the balls you must have to go around failing like that (though from the sound of it you probably weren't aware) Think of it like this. If Brad Pitt was saying the shit you were saying, do you think it would be coming across as creepy? Agressive game from a chad = being flirty and attractive/social Agressive game from a NotChad = …
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 05:41 AM
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Chads don't creep on 16 year olds when they're 20. Chads are out banging hot 20 year olds.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 02:02 AM
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Little do they know, there's already a way to turn it on naturally. You just gotta pop a red pill.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 01:58 AM
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I feel like this needs to be pinned to the top. Because What impression do we want to give AFCs who stumble uppon TRP for the first time? A bunch of equally frustrated losers? Or authentic gurus like GLO. EDIT: at least for a while.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 04:45 AM
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The girl probably was shit testing him because he didn't display enough value in other forms. If you're in that situation you just described, then I'd be willing to bet that you have more going for you than just the money.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 03:58 AM
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Oh shit, I've been wondering about that quote for a long time. Didn't think about it that way. He meant the idea of self improvement not the actual action. The actual action really involves more self destruction than anything. destroying your muscles at the gym, going out and approaching and being rejected by many women so you can kill your fear of rejection and destroy your approach anxiety. "Self-Improvement is masturbation, Self-destruction is the answer."
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 04:36 AM
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I'm from the deep south and he's right. Girls down here want that southern/traditional, fratty, preppy look. You dress hipster/street fashion down here and they'll think you're an immature boy (not a man) who doesn't get invited to any of the cool parties. The plus side to this is that alot of the traditional wear works the professional post-college life. and alot of the southern brands mesh well with the patagonia/columbia tech-prep outdoorsy style that guys with good physiques can rock (even i…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 02:43 AM
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Yeah its probably not the best way to go unless you're overweight. If you're overweight or even obese, its more damaging to continue to be fat so you should probably burn it off quickly until you're down to about 15-12%
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 06:16 AM
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off topic, Tool is a great band!
/r/askTRP02/07/17 01:12 AM
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Truth. guys who started lifting in highschool are almost always better off and more well adjusted individuals in college because of it. Focus on lifting AND diet. After about a week or two the fast food cravings go away as long as you have food in the house.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 04:02 PM
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I suspected as much if he was getting non stop rejections. You'd think some 6s would be interested if he had a decent physique. And I don't know about you but guys don't usually start thinking about prostitution until they've been rejected by some UGLY ass bitches. I'm talkin' bottom of the barrel. At that point. It should be pretty clear that you've got a lot to work on.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 07:36 PM
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My advice, Do that minus the hookers. Keep the lifting up get good nutrition. And go hard with the money so you can move to a city with a good nightlife. Once you're there just wear really nice clothes get a decent car for yourself, and pull up to the club with your nice car, fit body, and nice clothes every weekend. If you do all those things you're guaranteed to pull at least 6s and 7s. 6s and 7s are better than hookers imo. If you're worried about it you just gotta go in there and network and…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 11:16 PM
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Yeah but if she has too much of an issue with his SMV she'll just claim rape.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 12:53 AM
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good, then between him RP advice and proper nutrition you should be able to rise up in the world if you just grind.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 09:18 PM
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Get the job, help your mother and cut out un-necessary shit like netflix, going out to eat and all that type of extra entertainment luxury shit. (learn to budget. look into dave ramsey envelope method. makes shit super easy and simple.) Your food budget should be super cheap but healthy shit like brown rice, canned fish, raw chicken, ground beef, canned vegies (or fresh if you can afford). Have a schedule. and save up for a gym membership. Keep trying to advance your income (something I can't re…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 08:35 PM
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"Striving for sociopathy to be better with women is like striving for autism so you can be better at math." quote made me laugh. good post though.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 03:49 AM
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Yeah seriously fuck the playlist part. thats just kicking him in the balls. She's probably lowkey shit testing him with that. Especially ignore that part.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 07:29 PM
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Honestly sometimes I think simple reminders can be more useful than crazy long theory posts.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 06:37 PM
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Thats fucking brutal. Do what he said but also, you should end it RIGHT before everyone gets back for the summer like a week or two before so it'll really stick like a thorn in her side because keep in mind there will probably be some extra high value smv dudes who she'd be fucking right now if it was the middle of the semester. That way she'll have a week to overthink it and she won't be able to shrug off all responsibility by immediately drowning herself in cocks.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 11:06 PM
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this 100% there are no unicorns AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 05:19 AM
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This ^ fantasizing will get you nowhere good. Only drive you further into beta-dom
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 02:37 AM
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Good job standing up for yourself. This should improve your frame but you might wanna start carrying a small knife on you from now on if that guy lives in your apartment.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 03:24 AM
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Yeah I bet, I try to hit the bags a couple times a week. Been putting thought into joining my colleges MMA club. Maybe it'll help me with my frame.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 02:44 AM
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good point but they are necessary because they put you into a good position from which to develop that frame.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 09:07 PM
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Well thats good that you lift more than I ever have because I have a good physique which must mean that you have an AMAZING physique. So then your body should be mostly squared away. Now its your mind that must be exercised. Around day 15 of nofap you feel like you could fuck a tree but if you push through it you get such absurd confidence and general gratitude for being alive that the urges become irrelevant. “Lust is a poor, weak, whimpering, whispering thing compared with that richness and en…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 07:24 PM
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Lift and this wont be a problem for ever. If you're overweight get your diet together and run. As AnglelusMortem said, build some goddamn self-discipline
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 03:45 PM
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Anti depressants are a temporary solution that are (as we all know) not without their kinks. Assuming your diet is already DEAD ASS ON POINT (vegetables and shit, not just macros) and you're working out regularly, you might want to throw in some extra cardio (yeah yeah I know it kills the gains) but it'll help your body produce more endorphins which will even you out and make you feel good. Make sure you're also getting at least 7-8 hours of sleep so your body can properly produce melatonin and …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 12:23 AM
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I'm confused because I have yet to find the part in TRP where it tells you to end an LTR that you're happy with. Regardless. If you were constantly being rejected your game is probably shit. Your inner game is clearly off from your post. If you're mentally unstable and as you've said you have read TRP then you MUST know women want an emotionally stable rock (FRAME). What makes you think that you could project a frame that women want to step inside of. Assuming that picture is of you, then it def…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 08:23 PM
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Savage. Girls like that especially need someone to put them in their place. Right on, fellow nofapper. thats gotta be hard as fuck working at a titty bar though. Keep at it. Some people on here bitch about nofap but its all very easily refuted shit if you've done your homework. Keep that frame you've got!
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 07:22 PM
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Yeah but you should have pretty respectable muscular development at those weights. edit: assuming form is good and those aren't 1 rms
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 07:13 PM
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Go read the book "No more Mister nice guy" if you get a chance. Its pretty much meant for dudes with your exact issue. A lot of people on TRP also recommend this book. Its definitely a game changer for a lot of guys on here. But the general advice I would give you is the same basic advice that the book would give you. Start doing things for yourself. and for gods sake. If you haven't already, read the fucking side bar. If you do that it should be obvious to you what you need to do.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 03:40 PM
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I love stories like this. Whenever someone goes through a big change for the better like this there's usually a catalyst involved. Military, Fraternities, NoFap, Gym/nutrition, meditation, cold showers. I encourage people to take up as many of these catalysts as possible (doing all of them would probably be hard though as military and fraternities take up a lot of time) And having a great hobby that you can socialize in is no small feat either. Staying busy always keeps my mind off of those late…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 03:06 PM
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I understand that, I was just wondering If the perceived lower SMV amongst Arabs was due to the political shit or something else entirely. And from the other more verbose comments I'm reading in response to my question, It would seem to me that you are correct that islamic terrorists are part of the reason BUT there is also more at play like their aggressive behavior towards women and their general sleazy creepy appearance and social approach. Its just kind of fascinating to me how being part of…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 04:22 AM
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Yes but they're aggressive in a sexual sense. If they see something they like, they'll be the first to let you know. If you piss them off, they'll be the first to let you know. White women will often be more subtle about IOIs or IODs
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 01:10 AM
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I wonder what it is about arab dudes that they hate so much lately. Do you notice anything in particular about the way they dress or the things they say? Do you think they give off a creepy/low-value vibe when they come into the bars in packs? Curious to know what some experiences are on this because I have a lot of arab friends and they're mostly really nice guys.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 10:10 PM
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dismiss = ignore completely and redirect the conversation in a different direction or act like you didn't hear and that your attention is somewhere else. You could also act like the idea of her insulting you is so futile that its cute. (this really only works (well) if you're somewhat physically imposing. Pressure flip = her: "you look like a tryhard douchebag" you: "haha are you just saying that because you don't want me to notice how hard you tried on your makeup?" thats just one example and i…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 11:43 PM
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First of all, Get mad. get furious. You've been blessed with good genetics and yet society has denied you your rightful place. Summon up all the rage you possibly can because you'll need it for this next part. Stop smoking weed (regularly at least: social occasions can be okay but thats debatable), Join a gym and clean bulk/start lifting heavy since you're already toned. Start meditating for 10 minutes every day. Once you've got that shit settled and you're on about a week long streak start tryi…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 02:52 AM
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Ice her. i.e. ignore her do your own thing, talk to other girls. Call her bluff. If she comes back she probably wants your dick (or your attention) If she doesn't, then congratulations you've just avoided a rape charge.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 09:31 PM
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That was fucking savage. get john red pilled fast. If he could do all that, I'm willing to bet he can handle some light reading. (the books you suggested are great too)
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 06:00 AM
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Yeah, you gotta want it yourself dude. Read up on the side bar and read up on monk mode. Check out the nofap redit for motivation. At the very least you gotta stop jerking it to porn. You can still jerk it but do it with out porn. My Tips: Meditate 10 mins a day. start eating healthier and try to stop eating out altogether if you can. stop watching porn read the shit out of the sidebar start going to the gym or at least running and doing bodyweight exercises
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 06:26 PM
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yep, we all know who the real winner is...
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 05:29 PM
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just because something is more in your control does NOT mean that its easier by any means. Take the Linux operating system for example. Easier? Not by a long shot. More under your control? Infinitely. Same could be said about doing your own car maintenance.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 02:44 AM
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Solid point. If she had a PhD in sociology or psychology I'd respect it but women's studies is basically worthless bullshit. Patting themselves on the back for being women. I'd say the same thing if there was such a thing as man's studies. totally worthless idea for a degree.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 02:27 AM
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Get out now. Staying is arguably just as bad for your frame as blowing up. But going to the party could be good if you can talk to other women. she'll probably get jealous and fuck you or you might have luck with one of the others.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 07:12 PM
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Silent and still like the grave. Go on and live life. Post pictures of you and other people (ideally girls) on instagram, snapchat stories facebook etc. (Don't overdo it) But Don't say shit and let her come crawling back pathetically and embarrass herself. Or at least be salty as she scrolls through her feed seeing you busy having a life.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 06:02 AM
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Its kind of hard to control the flow of conversation if you're bad at the language that the conversation is in. It might not be you're game that was lacking but simply your linguistic skills. The girl could have had a decent point on this one man, sorry
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 02:54 AM
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