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Texting with a girl is no big deal. She can ignore you if she wants, there are no real social consequences, and girls feel safe. Therefore she doesn't mind texting you. But when it comes to meeting up.... Girls with no authenticity will flake. They appreciate the validation and some girls feel the need to retaliate based on how they were treated in the past. Insecure girls will get nervous close to the date. Also on a date, she feels that there is an expectation for her or you to perform 'social…
/r/seduction14/02/20 06:01 AM
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Obviously I want to take her out and get her into bed. In the west, like where I live in Australia, girls expect you to do a lot of work and be flawless. So going straight into date logistics wouldn't be appropriate.
/r/seduction22/01/20 08:07 PM
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It's not working well. But I see that integrity is a big part of game. I find I make basic mistakes when I forget to be genuine and 'real'. I'm just asking for pointers so I can get into the mindset of texting.
/r/seduction22/01/20 07:59 PM
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A lot of commenters have mentioned this is useful though. I'm just explaining trouble with a particular girl, but in general too.
/r/seduction22/01/20 07:11 PM
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Well whats a good starting point. I met her on the street, and I saw her on tinder, but she didn't like me back. Asking what she's on here for crossed my mind. But I thought it was lame. Shall I start here?
/r/seduction22/01/20 10:30 AM
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Good questions: How do u work this week? Are u living alone? Do you like more Netflix or going out for a drinks? What are u looking here? Ask me one question which you think is the most important for you? These are questions I don't see myself asking. I am not saying they dont work, most likely do, but I would have never thought of them and I feel uncomfortable sending something like that. You know what I mean? How do you work? Do you mean "Whats your work like this week"? "What are you looking …
/r/seduction22/01/20 09:58 AM
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This is my problem. I'm only good at rapport. I have no clue what to say.
/r/seduction22/01/20 09:56 AM
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If I go for point 4,i feel like I comme across as too quick.
/r/seduction22/01/20 09:25 AM
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I'm cool with losing a girl. I feel like I can get numbers but when I text her, that feeling fizzles out. I'm making the same mistake over and over. Boring conversation.
/r/seduction22/01/20 09:20 AM
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Like "why did you choose to be a stripper, do you have bigger goals?". What should I write?
/r/seduction22/01/20 09:18 AM
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If your going to worry about what other people think,you won't get far with cold approaching girls. From this post I see a lot of problems I used to have and some I still do have. Stop giving a fuck about what other people think and go after what you want. If you try and behave the way other people want you'll be miserable for the rest of your life. To answer your question 'is it acceptable, or have guys had success? ': Answering these questions is useless and it will only impede your success. J…
/r/seduction24/11/19 09:53 AM
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Tbh I've found scandanavian girls here to be the exact same as Australian girls.
/r/seduction06/10/19 11:17 PM
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I'm in Brisbane. Your reply is interesting. Maybe they need time for emotions to build up or something? I have heard that you have to work hard for them to like you, but at the same time you need to do it without trying hard. And all the way through you need to be 'flawless'. I think your young, and young girls are not as complicated. My first kiss was with an Australian girl I met when she was 19. And then I texted her the next day after the date, and again SILENCE..... I see her a couple month…
/r/seduction06/10/19 11:16 PM
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How would you text a shy girl. I met this girl that is here to study English. I actually speak French to her and she was smiling and twisting and turning. So I think she is interested but she said she comes from a really small town and at times she got nervous in between laughing. I assume calling is too much pressure.
/r/seduction24/09/19 12:57 AM
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I think my question is more to do with cold approaching women. I do well on dates. But walking up to a girl and then starting a conversation. After my opener I do go quiet. I do a lot of work on myself. I also have some interesting plans for hobbies which I will do after I get a proper job. I do want to live an interesting life. I'll give this a try. Any other ways to loosen up without alcohol? Most things I hear people talking about at a bar sound just stupid. I prefer intelligent humour. I gue…
/r/seduction28/07/19 08:48 PM
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It's different all the time. I called a girl and had a shirt conversation about gym and fitness. She thanked me for calling and sounded surprised. but didn't offer an alternative date and declined when I invited her.
/r/seduction11/07/19 12:09 AM
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So if a girl said she's out of town over the weekend and says maybe next time. I should call again or not? I meet a lot of women. I just don't know if I'm quitting too early.
/r/seduction11/07/19 12:04 AM
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What is your experience of calling. I have called and girls are suprisingly polite and decline saying they have plans. Was thinking of following up on a call a week later. But how do you know when it's time to quit? Some girls say they are unavailable and don't offer an alternative. Some say no but maybe another time. I can't tell if they are being polite (but uninterested) or they are interested. ​ I've become fearless in my approaches and now it's a matter of being socially smart. I don't real…
/r/seduction10/07/19 11:33 PM
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I recovered her number. I'll wait a week. And give her a call.
/r/seduction03/07/19 11:51 AM
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Women don't want to hear about your fears when they don't know you I had an instant date, where me and a girl opened up to each other about mental problems. I dont think every girl is like that. In the end, good girls will want to know you. Some like to know you quicker and it's attractive for a guy to be honest and vulnerable. Not all girls, but the 'good' ones. I think it's a powerful quality to be honest with everyone. Shows integrity. And some girls will recognise it. I
/r/seduction02/07/19 11:56 PM
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Yeah I thought it would be funny. I need to take more risks (But within reason). I should call more often.
/r/seduction02/07/19 11:54 PM
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I texted her last night. I tried to think of something I thought would be fun: "I know its a long shot seeing you dont know anything about me. Here's all you need to know: I am a ******. My biggest fears are the ocean / marine apex predators. Random fact: I want to be a ***** later. Your turn....." After I texted her I deleted her number, because if she didn't reply to that. Then any more messages/calls won't work. But I do like calling girls. I like the 'anxiety' and rush I get from not knowing…
/r/seduction02/07/19 11:44 PM
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Seeing as my text didn't work, maybe calling may have been the right move. But that's a lesson to be learnt I guess.
/r/seduction02/07/19 11:07 PM
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To me that seems too forceful. I sent a message last night. No response, so I deleted. What do you think when I say it's too forceful?
/r/seduction02/07/19 11:06 PM
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Just talk to her dude. Gauge her interest. She obviously wants to talk to you.
/r/seduction02/07/19 07:18 AM
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" Texting is like an illusion. Not the place for seduction or relationship building. Never. " I totally agree with this. But in my experience girls always want an interesting text. Thats why I phoned, because I don't know any other way how to talk genuinely. But maybe that is the right text.
/r/seduction03/05/19 10:31 PM
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Thought I'd have to do something more to stand out...
/r/seduction03/05/19 09:04 AM
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