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Yes lol this is spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:14 PM
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It’s so much more likely to hypothesize that women like r*pe porn because it allows them to have a sense of control over their fears/trauma. I suspect this is the same for cuck porn. I never liked it until I was severely traumatized by an ex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:14 PM
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Well most people like men and find them enjoyable. That’s one. Another is penis. It’s very fun and awesome. That’s another
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:11 PM
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How does your husband feel about this? Do you ever talk about it? Does he ever offer his own opinion or just agree with yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:10 PM
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To answer your parentheses questions: Most of them do It started tens of thousands of years ago It came from the need for species survival
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:08 PM
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I do the same thing for men. It’s not that I’m rude to women, but I always go the extra mile for my bros… lol sounds silly doesn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:06 PM
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This is my experience as a man except I used to get a lot of attention at 200 lbs. at 300 lbs I’m invisible/disgusting. Now I’m losing weight but the resentment is a lot harder to shed than the weight no matter how unjustified you know it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:03 PM
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One more thing about ‘happiness’- It’s one of those words along with ‘love’ that the English language has absolutely destroyed. I think you thought I was talking about hedonistic pleasure. Perhaps the better word is fulfillment. A deep satisfaction with who you are. That’s the kind of happiness I believe should be a goal of any philosophical endeavor. To me this kind of happiness harmoniously fits into a life of seeking truth, living authentically, et al. One might even sacrifice short term happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:38 PM
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I’m a huge Sartre fan! (And have a philosophy degree lol) I would argue that happiness is the point of doing any philosophy. That’s at least what the ancient Greeks believed. Deep, long term happiness. Not simply happy with your current but temporary state of being, but happy with who you are, with your essence. I would also argue that these rules on sexual behavior do not have to come from God. As an atheist, and an existentialist, it is my job to decide what I think the right way for everyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:33 PM
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The thing that’s tough is people are generally not very good at knowing what they WILL want 10-20 years down the road. Speaking for myself, when I was 21 I wanted to be a rock musician and live a dual income no kids lifestyle with my hot egalitarian girlfriend forever. Now I’m 31 and I want VERY different things. I used to scoff at the idea of having children. Now I’m older and I believe that human relationships and connection are the mist important things in life, and as such, starting a family…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:09 PM
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It was merely a thought experiment to show how certain rules or limitations on sexual freedom COULD actually increase long term fulfillment. These people are loosely based on people in my life who I know and talk to and don’t have to assume things about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:57 PM
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You’re right not to assume but there are a lot more people out there who wished they settled down and established a family verses those who regretted doing so. Like there can be a variety in human behavior and preferences while there is also still fundamental trends and rules to this behavior as well as basic biological imperatives most of the population must either succumb to or try to rationalize away.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:06 PM
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Okay whatever the case may be, People who fucking love their partners tend to be happier than people who love fucking their partners. If your religion or culture causes you to embrace this idea, great! If it is so heavy handed or demonstrative that it causes you to go on a Dionysian pleasure bender as an act of rebellion, bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:09 PM
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Something tells me you don’t have a lot of religious friends. I’m very atheist but I’ve actually worked for churches in the past and this nightmarish existence that you’re attempting to paint as reality only exists in the minds of frightened lefties. We’re not talking about David Koresh here. All I’m saying is that I can see in my own life that a committed relationship to one person and potentially starting a family is often far more fulfilling than the freedom of casual sex on demand, and that …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:58 PM
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Answer what? Okay take this as a stronger version. Mike and Jessica grew up in a Lutheran church in the Midwest of the US. Their faith was a strong part of life and they chose to get married and have children without much sexual experimentation in high school or college. Now they are in their 60s and retired, with a beautiful home and several great kids. Mike’s brother, Nancy, however rejected the church and went to a secular state school enjoying her sexual freedom. She had several boyfriends b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:53 PM
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When you argue against ideas you disagree with, it’s a lot more powerful to argue against the strongest version of those ideas, not the weakest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:27 PM
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Sure you can. Look at religious people. They’re probably happier in their marriages overall than secular people. Sometimes sexual freedom sounds a lot more fun than it actually is, and sometimes cultural rules about sex bring more happiness than they seem like they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:44 PM
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Nope. Men would love it. Men are bigger and stronger and there is a lot less fear involved in getting hit on by women we don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:36 PM
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Let me rephrase in light of the mod comment: “I say this with love but have you considered that perhaps you’re the common dominator in all these interactions? Truly want what is best for you so just imploring you to consider this potentially uncomfortable possibility”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 02:40 AM
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In high school and college, rarely and it would be subtle. I had friend group if between 5-8 people including both genders. Went to lots of social events. Now as a 31m, absolutely zero unless it’s flattery from someone who needs something from me. I now have zero real friends. 20-30 acquaintances professionally, but no real friends. They all moved away or started families and left me behind. I still go to bars and social events often.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:27 AM
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Go back to gender studies class lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:20 AM
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Nah. 1) it’s only for 18 years and then you have a forever helper/supporter etc. 2) I used to be the sole caregiver at a group home full of children. Yes, got to clock out, but frequently did 24-48 hour shifts. Easiest shit I ever had to do. Changing diapers sucked but the rest of the time was just chilling with kids and chores. 3) during the school year you literally only hsve to deal with the kids from like 6-8am and like 6-9pm (even less if they’re in lots of activities. If you raise good res…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:13 AM
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Maybe you’re just fuckin annoying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:09 AM
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Younger women definitely look hotter, but they are also so fucking dumb and usually whiny as hell. As a 31m, my strategy is to find 30ish year olds that took care of their bodies and still look like they’re in their early to mid twenties. Bottom line: women in their 20s are the hottest. Period. Every man knows it. Few will say it. Idgaf so I will.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:07 AM
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Engage with the data not me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:00 AM
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Fair point, but women make more than men now because of your ideology. Where are all the men with the good jobs? There are fewer of them because y’all took most of the good jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:50 PM
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I’ll share my experience. I definitely have substituted real romantic relationships for porn for the last decade or so. In high school and college I had many girlfriends. Usually lasting 6 months to a year but several lasted longer. I always really enjoyed my time with my partners and was quite a romantic, all things considered. My last year of college I started a serious relationship and we moved in together after graduation. Messy break up and a couple rough years after that. I really believed…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:48 PM
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The once divorced pool is pretty good quality. Once you get into the multiple divorces it gets dicey fast
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:11 AM
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This is true. Best move is to date a 30 year old who looks like a 20 year old. FWIW lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:22 AM
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Sartre says we MUST choose who we are despite our circumstances, but he was married to a misandrist who insisted on not being sexually exclusive with him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:31 PM
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lol are you sure you’re not redpill? BP, generally: “everyone has value and something to offer! Just keep putting yourself out there, you’ll find your person!” RP, generally: “no one owes you anything and life ain’t fair. If you want to be valued and respected you must build up and demonstrate your value.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:29 PM
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No this is textbook marital submission- you just choose not to use the term as it presumably makes you uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:46 PM
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Competent men in this post is just shorthand for having more resources than the woman. This was very common before we transitioned to an egalitarian economy. And this world is where all of the men must pay for dates, men are providers culture comes from. Women still want this treatment but now make as much or more than men (depending on age), and there just is simply almost no one to choose from that has both 1) more economic power than you, and 2) is willing to pair bond with you. Almost all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:45 PM
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This is the answer. Female empowerment and politics all go out then window when there’s any question of the man’s attention being diverted elsewhere. Women don’t like it because they don’t like sharing their men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:57 PM
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I just want to be loved. The older I get the more dubious that idea sounds. Do I feel entitled to love? yeah I guess so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:47 PM
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A casual glance outside reveals life is better than it’s ever been for 99% of people anywhere on earth
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 03:54 AM
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All this end of the world self talk was really bad for me and my dating as an early 30s man. Reorienting my social circles away from my hardcore lefty college friends helped. And exercise lol. But yeah I think if you really believe the post modernist Marxist interpretation of the world you’re like in for some self loathing. Better to have a little faith in the human project.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 03:53 AM
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Right on
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:40 PM
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People to use “grow up” as an insult are insufferable. It’s a weird and gross situation. Sounds like she is likely mentally unwell.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:28 PM
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This is the biggest one for me. Never thought I was super smart but it’s so hard to find someone who can keep up. My ex was good at faking it but when I finally started catching on to the repetition of the end of my phrases and all the “yes, and…” it started feeling like improv comedy and got disgusted by these interactions
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:45 AM
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Def agree. That’s the hardest part for me too. I have trouble justifying any relationship if all they bring to the table is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:46 PM
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No I thought that’s what you were saying. “If you don’t have things to offer (resources) why should you get picked? (For sexual opportunity)”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:29 PM
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Men offer resources, women reward with sexual opportunity. I think I got it. Thanks for the lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:47 PM
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My ex once said “I ONLY date guys with big dicks” I should’ve decided then and there to break up with her small breasted ass and “only date chicks with big boobs” But hey at least she was honest
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:55 PM
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Late 20s is the sweet spot. Early 20s they’re so stupid, and any later than 35 and they get real bitter and jaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 05:14 PM
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I disagree with premise 2. Cold approach works better than ever because it’s less popular than ever. Going to the gym is literally rule #1. If you do this and cold approach enough you will get results. Girlfriend = volume x looks x rizz You’re pretty much stuck with your personality but 1 and 2 are easy to improve
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:33 AM
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Wow. What an impressive non sequitur
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:19 AM
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31m attracted to lots of 20s, lots of 30s, some 40s, a couple 50s, basically no 60+ Use this for your research
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:10 AM
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Yeah me too. My IRL game has always been so much better than my app game. There’s something about talking in real life that gives you a glimpse into the intellect and personality of the other person so much more quickly. If you’re smart and personable this is a much better environment than looks based apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 12:52 AM
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I would agree if you modify the subject of the complaint from “men” “highly desirable men.” In other words the top 10% of men act this way because of the significant optionality they experience in the dating market. The other 90% are excluded and they are the ones complaining about being sexless (and dateless/ relationshipless as well). I think OP is talking about these men on the lower end of the value spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:41 PM
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I think loneliness, as such, is an internal feeling, an internal emotional problem. But I think in many cases the cause of this problem is lack of real companionship, support, and lack of prospects of a romantic future or partner. I think women are much better at living without romance or a partner. Men tend to go off the rails without the guideposts of a romantic relationship. Men may be physically stronger than women but in many ways women are psychologically stronger and more resilient than m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:11 PM
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I’m inclined to think that those who speak this way probably haven’t thought about it deeply enough to be able to really delineate their feelings. It’s not so much about finding a new placeholder word as it is to accurately explain one’s emotions without placeholder words.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:18 PM
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It’s not lonely, it’s lack of self worth stemming from seemingly being unable to do what normal people can do. Some internalize this and place the blame on women, society, etc. this is where the problems really arise. But when most men complain about no sex, they’re really complaining about lack of companionship, support, and plans for future/family. Sex is just the placeholder word.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:12 PM
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If you’re at all intelligent, the easiest place to find a partner is the classroom/school. You’re expressly supposed to socialize with/flirt with/date your classmates. And no one is married yet. If you were dating now, you’d have half the amount of available partners, and much less of an opportunity to meet them in real life. Maybe you’d do fine, maybe you wouldn’t. But I implore you to admit that you’re lucky. I’m also 31 y/o as of a few weeks ago. I remember how easy it was compared to now. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:42 PM
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In high school? High school and college were the easiest places to partner up. All I really had to do was exist and be nice. Now it’s a lot harder. I can’t do online dating. I work in a field that’s 95% male. Doing everything over again, I woulda wifed up my HS sweetheart too, I was just too young and naive at the time to know what I had.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:44 PM
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Think of it this way: you’re the guy who inherited your dad’s business who keeps telling everyone else to pull themselves up by their bootstraps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:04 PM
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The same way we do now, by punishing harshly, regardless of gender. If more males commit certain crimes, they will be punished more for them as well naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:07 PM
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True. Like making them register for the draft. It should be all young people, not just young men. Also need to make sure men don’t go to prison longer than women for the same crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:05 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:52 PM
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It has gone beyond equality to equity. It demands that we give women extra help because of their “marginalization.” We want everyone to be treated EQUALLY - no special help for special interest groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:49 PM
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I’m anti feminist. I’m pro equality. Equality means everyone gets treated exactly the same regardless of immutable characteristics. No special treatment for women. No DEI, no affirmative action, make them register for the draft, equal treatment for paternity leave, equal treatment in family and criminal court, etc etc. Also no obligations based on sex. No expectation for women to be subservient, to raise the children, etc. but same for men. No societal expectation to protect and provide, to pay …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:47 PM
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Can’t speak for most. I have no desire for romantic relationships. I’m fine with just having casual fun with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:39 PM
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I used to worry about this stuff all the time. Now I just ignore women. They make life a lot more complicated. Life is simpler and easier now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:10 PM
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Ever heard of penis envy? Well, for men it’s “we-ness” envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:07 PM
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Money/resources
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:07 PM
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Maslow’s hierarchy of needs has entered the chat. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:54 AM
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It’s already started. Porn seems to be a suitable replacement for a significant portion of young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:50 AM
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Yes, dating almost always starts as an exchange of resources for sex. Both men and women hate this. Men hate that they are no longer able to provide sufficient resources without generational wealth or extreme luck. And women hate that their romantic value is still principally defined by their physical beauty. Both genders are unhappy with the state of things and are deciding the juice is not worth the squeeze more than anytime in living memory.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:47 AM
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No, only you are talking about that.
/r/AntiFeminists29/10/22 12:16 AM
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No. I would respond with the least amount of force necessary to neutralize the threat. I mean if a 10lb goose attacked my family I would also physically deter it. It is possible to physically respond with appropriate force even if the attacker is a woman without “pretending physical reality doesn’t exist.”
/r/AntiFeminists28/10/22 11:13 PM
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Equal rights, equal fights. If you hit me or my family, idgaf what gender you identify as; you’re due for a little impact calibration.
/r/AntiFeminists28/10/22 10:15 PM
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Same exact thing as people who claim that conservatives want all LGBTQ people dead. Reactionary rhetoric in response to the most extreme 1% of the opposing side of the culture war. That is all.
/r/AntiFeminists28/10/22 10:10 PM
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Honestly, for most of my life, I would’ve much preferred the monogamous relationship, but in the last few years I think I’ve changed and now would prefer the casual sex. Tbh, I’ve had enough bad experiences with women that it caused me to become jaded and kind of give up in general. I just can’t be bothered to text back quickly all the time, or quell my partners insecurities, or prove that I’m not cheating, or listen to woke ideology being regurgitated. I’d still be open to a relationship but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:24 AM
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I think it reads like a satire most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:46 AM
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I’m bi - I would pick a red piller as long as they weren’t too over the top. Probably not an FDSer though, as their community is far far more angry and toxic imho.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:51 PM
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Maybe I haven’t been on this sub long enough, but those kinda sweeping statements always raise a red flag for me. You really gonna treat thousands of individuals as a monolith?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:07 PM
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Lol. There are VERY few men who actively want women to have low self esteem. Mayyybe subconsciously or something? Still a stretch though. Most men would much rather be around and interact with confident self assured women vs. a woman with low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:29 PM
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Good move girl. Never cook for a man. It makes them more evil the more you cook for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 12:59 AM
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Lol “accidentally”
/r/AntiFeminists02/10/21 09:28 PM
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