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Don't overthink conversation starters. They're exactly how they sound. Starters to a conversation. Pick something around them or use what they're doing as an opener. It doesn't matter for the most part. Obviously there are things you shouldn't say, but you should know what's appropriate.
/r/seduction09/03/22 03:26 PM
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The most important thing to focus on is having fun. It's sounds cheesy, but girls are attracted to guys who are enjoying themselves. Don't make talking to girls you're number one priority because women can sense that a mile away.
/r/seduction09/03/22 03:20 PM
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You're welcome. I hope you have a great time with the other girl you mentioned.
/r/seduction08/03/22 03:40 PM
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In my opinion, she either wants to hang out as friends, or see if you get along with her friends. I would attend and see how it goes. If she's not flirty I would cut it off.
/r/seduction08/03/22 03:34 PM
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I agree. Go for it and see what happens. Otherwise you're right where you began.
/r/seduction08/03/22 03:25 PM
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I like this. It's natural.
/r/seduction08/03/22 03:22 PM
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Be direct. Don't worry about being smooth. Let her know you're interested.
/r/seduction08/03/22 03:22 PM
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It's okay if her message bothered you. It's a very hurtful response. However, she's made her stance clear. She's interacting with you out of boredom. She likes the attention and refuses to meet. One of the fundamental rules of seduction is this: If she wants to meet with you, she will. There will be no excuses. If she is genuinely busy, she will make an effort to reschedule. If you haven't already, move on. I don't know her, but based on her messages you dodged a bullet. Why would you want a gir…
/r/seduction08/03/22 03:20 PM
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I agree. In short, go for it.
/r/seduction07/03/22 11:04 PM
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I have a bad feeling about this. People get sick sometimes, but this is very convenient. Let's assume she telling the truth. I would follow up and reschedule. If she gives another excuse, cut it off.
/r/seduction07/03/22 08:04 PM
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Good luck soldier.
/r/seduction07/03/22 06:19 PM
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I know it hurts, but use this experience to change your next interaction with a girl you like. Let her know you like her as woman and not a friend.
/r/seduction07/03/22 05:07 PM
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I wouldn't have phrased it this harshly, but maybe he needs it. The post is deleted, but this comment has summed all I need to know. You need to focus on yourself and become a genuine good guy. Not only will this attract many more women, it will improve your life as well.
/r/seduction07/03/22 05:05 PM
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I agree. You don't see her as a friend. You said it yourself. You waited too long and you know it. The best thing to do is move on.
/r/seduction07/03/22 05:00 PM
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Ask after you've made small talk. Women generally have more matches than men on dating apps and converse with multiple simultaneously. Don't wait too long or she'll lose interest.
/r/seduction07/03/22 04:58 PM
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Fair, but don't get your hopes up. It will hurt more. The next time you see her, make it crystal clear you're interested and would like to hang out. Don't leave any gray area. The goal is to know if she's interested or not. You need to know this ASAP to avoid wasting time.
/r/seduction07/03/22 02:43 AM
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I see. You made a fatal mistake. It's better to get her information so you can initiate, but the fact that she hasn't contacted you in anyway is bad. If she wanted to talk to she would've made an effort. Unfortunately, this is a case of a girl being nice and nothing more. It's time to move on.
/r/seduction07/03/22 02:35 AM
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"Hey, this is [your name]. I liked talking to you and want to hang out. If you're free this week, Let's set something up." Send her this or something similar right now. Don't wait. The sooner the better. You've already had a way to contact her since Wednesday.
/r/seduction07/03/22 02:11 AM
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You're expectations seem high. You say many women like you but you don't like them. Do you mean you aren't attracted to them? Do you not like they're personalities? Have you ever given them a chance? I feel you or something you're doing is the issue.
/r/seduction06/03/22 11:41 PM
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Take the lead. This is one of the most dominant things you can do. Plan the date. Send the first text. Be direct and honest. Initiate intimacy. Stand by your ideals and express your personal opinions. Say no when you don't want to do something. Own your mistakes. Take initiative. All of these exude masculine/dominant energy.
/r/seduction06/03/22 11:37 PM
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That's not the lesson I think you should take. The other guy sounds cool and laid back. Him buying you a whiskey is what gives me that impression. I'm assuming, but it feels like he was there to have a good time and the girl you were interested in picked up on that. It also sounds like you lost hope as soon as he showed up and that interfered with your game.
/r/seduction06/03/22 11:28 PM
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I agree with this. The biggest mistake guys make is talking for the sake of keeping conversation afloat. Have a purpose.
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:27 PM
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You're starting over, but you keep your XP.
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:12 PM
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First of all, I applaud you for not using your circumstances as an excuse to not meet women. The fact that you're getting dates means you're a very charming man. With that being said, if you can't use your body then use your words, eye contact, and of course wonderful smile.
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:10 PM
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I agree. Nothing is more unattractive than insecurity.
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:02 PM
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I agree. Suggesting Is a much better option.
/r/seduction06/03/22 01:02 PM
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That's up to you. I think you are scared to get a yes as well. That's a good point you brought up. However, we do agree that you need to approach.
/r/seduction06/03/22 01:29 AM
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You're wrong. You're not ten steps behind. You're one step which is approaching. I believe you still fear rejection and that's okay. You think because you've faced the fear it no longer exists. You don't want to acknowledge it because that means admitting you're afraid of something you've already conquered. You think "I'm done with that now." That isn't true. You have to face it each time you approach. Fear is a bounce house that gets bigger and bigger the more you avoid it. When you face said f…
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:40 AM
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You're a stranger. One conversation will not change that. Insta-dates are rare. They only occur if interest is high and she's comfortable. It also helps if she's extroverted. You're more likely to get a number than an insta-date. Keep trying and don't get discouraged because what you're trying to do is difficult.
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:23 AM
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I agree. Remember to be assertive and confident, not pushy.
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:16 AM
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I understand, but you have to bite the bullet. The regret you feel each time you chicken out causes you immense emotional pain. Even if you only build up enough courage to approach one girl, you will be happy regardless of the outcome.
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:12 AM
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Age is irrelevant regarding dating apps. You will attract who you attract. Many girls like guys older than themselves even if only by a year.
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:03 AM
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I will restate the comments above. You want a "yes." Take anything else as a no.
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:00 AM
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There is no trick or secret. Force yourself to move. If not rejection, then what do you fear? If your problem is talking yourself out of approaching, then talk yourself into approaching.
/r/seduction05/03/22 11:59 PM
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It seems like it was for the camera and not you. A great view nonetheless.
/r/seduction05/03/22 11:53 PM
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You're welcome. Good luck.
/r/seduction05/03/22 11:52 PM
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Let it come naturally. The best nicknames are organic and spawn from inside jokes.
/r/seduction05/03/22 11:49 PM
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That's not what I mean. The piece or pieces can be a multitude of things. Are you dating the right girls? Do you make it clear you want a long-term relationship? Are you dating girls that want that? Are you presenting yourself as someone capable of one? The list goes on and on.
/r/seduction05/03/22 11:45 PM
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There a plethora of possible reasons why she isn't responding. That's not important. You're not her so don't wrack your brain about how she feels. It's a waste of time. You know how you feel. Give her space and express your feelings the next time you meet or talk.
/r/seduction05/03/22 11:39 PM
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You're doing great, but there's a piece missing. The piece that develops relationships into long-term commitments. Find out what that piece is.
/r/seduction05/03/22 11:25 PM
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They heavily impact them. They also impact you. The car you have is fine. Keep it clean and take care of it. This demonstrates more value than what your driving. Get an apartment you can afford and apply the same principles. Keep it clean, smelling great, and well furnished. Buy clothes that fit your body, and your style. All of these things make you feel great and make incredible impressions on good women.
/r/seduction05/03/22 11:19 PM
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I think these are good tips.
/r/seduction05/03/22 11:00 PM
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What is your goal with this girl? Do you want to stay friends? Do you want a relationship? Understand your goal, and then act.
/r/seduction05/03/22 10:58 PM
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