NoJackfruit2965 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	The only reason why men and women aren't understanding each other is cause both of them are in different phases in dating An attractive woman can frontload effort and then put her feet up and still be taken care of by an average dude who’ll be afraid to lose her. Average women know they need to put in consistent effort to maintain relationships with average dudes as equals. If they’re not getting “princess treatment” anyway then they might as well gun for top dudes for the social status.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 12:24 AM
–	"Giving up on modern ........." It should have stayed the norm but when we went from "seeing" multiple people at the same time to "sleeping" with multiple or one after another, we let things get out of hand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 10:53 AM
1	MEN: Would you rather a woman with feminine presentation but masculine temperament, or masculine presentation but feminine temperament. Vice versa for women? Woman A is a nogo for the moving for work thing. Woman B would be perfect with at least shoulder length hair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 06:48 PM
1	Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this. fair enough, like you said, we probably deserve to	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 01:19 PM
–	Late stage feminism leads to population collapse Late stage feminism without paid egg donors and artificial wombs leads to population collapse. There is no putting things back in Pandora's box with respect to women's rights and the dating app hell scape, we just have to push forward with more technology. Or we go Handmaid's Tale.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 10:10 AM
1	Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this. That's just the US, well I guess that explains passport bros	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 07:18 AM
2	Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this. Every time someone chooses one person over another to have kids with, they are an agent for natural selection ("eugenics"). It's more immoral if there is a centralised authority making the decisions like what you described (we just not let anyone with genetic markers...). But if society has been restructured to a point where an unattractive male can no longer compensate with his utility/resources then the selection pressure on male appearance will reach similar levels to the selection pressures …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 07:11 AM
13	Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this. Yes if you're too ugly to be picked whether male, female or helicopter, you go back to where you came from without plaguing the world with more remixes of you that is how evolution works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 07:03 AM
-8	Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this. The reason why many more women are attractive to men than the other way around is that unattractive women were just ruthlessly selected out of the gene pool, men saw 0 value in them. Especially in times when war and conflicts were common, there were usually more women than men. To a point where female hormones do a really good job now of increasing neoteny, promoting facial symmetry and stuff like soft skin and high cheekbones. They became the peacock gender for humans. Yes we have more female a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 06:54 AM
2	Relationship expert says men shouldn't date if they're broke If I have 2 out of 5 of those does that mean I’m in the 1%	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 01:27 AM
5	Q4W: Choice between the two. A guy with three failed relationships behind, or with zero. Has he ever talked about FOMO? Is marriage in the cards? Try not to end up as the starter girlfriend. Just because he's nearly a decade older does not mean he will be above that, your youth might even alleviate his guilt of wasting your time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 05:19 PM
6	I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenario Both almost always happen because one is not attractive enough for the other	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 06:06 AM
1	Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s. It’s a global market now, women in his country are being flown out by Dubai millionaires or enjoying flings in Italy/Jamaica so the market is harsher than his father’s time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 03:17 AM
1	Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s. Has to be proportional and the proportion is dictated by women. There was a study: https://home.uchicago.edu/~hortacsu/onlinedating.pdf . A 6 foot man earning 62k is as desirable as a 5’6” man earning 237k. Short western men should seriously just consider Asia where their exoticism and relative better height doesn’t require a ludicrous income to make up for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 03:08 AM
4	Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s. Well the weight is holding you back by a lot on dating apps	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 02:37 AM
1	Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s. Hmm it’s very slightly less shallow because the stuff he claims to care about can be at least be tweaked even as an adult with lifestyle changes or makeup.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 02:13 AM
2	Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s. I appreciated your persistence with that. The 8th percentile comparison is very accurate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 02:10 AM
1	A lot of men seem to believe that when it comes to casual sex, avoiding feelings is much easier for the man to achieve than the woman, but the main cause of this is due to men’s manipulation habits when seeking sex. That's a good point. There are social elements to this. But also read about biological factors oxytocin and vassopressin + dopamine: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eyq2Wo4eUDg . Start from 5:45.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/24 01:20 PM
2	A lot of men seem to believe that when it comes to casual sex, avoiding feelings is much easier for the man to achieve than the woman, but the main cause of this is due to men’s manipulation habits when seeking sex. Marriages and LTRs lead to a more stable society, casual sex leads to our current clown world. One should be more demonised than the other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/24 01:16 PM
12	So uh... how about that fertility crisis huh? Tbh I think it is also because pregnancy takes such a toll on women that they'd rather not have more than 1 or 2 if they can avoid it. If women could have better pregnancies, painless births and smooth recoveries, it would help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/24 10:27 AM
2	So uh... how about that fertility crisis huh? It might become a way influence who creates children if the government is only willing to pay attractive or well educated couples to become parents.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/24 07:39 AM
1	Why are people still so hesitant to admit that two-parent households are best for kids and that fathers are important? Some women desperately need children but can't find a man (fitting their standards) who will commit. Telling them that it is irresponsible to have children anyway violates their right to bodily autonomy. /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/24 07:25 AM
1	What is happening to men? I am concerned ??? When times were hostile to women, most women would have wanted to drop out but only the rich could because of unfair social structures that kept women dependent on men for basic survival. Now when times are hostile to men, they can drop out more than women did because there are no social structures keeping men dependent on woman for basic survival.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 07:17 PM
1	What is happening to men? I am concerned Only rich women could drop out successfully without resorting to nunnery because marriage was the main survival tool for women. Men of all economic classes can drop out of marriage and family, they just need enough income for 1.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 07:07 PM
–	What is happening to men? I am concerned Rich women dropped out all the time and lived as spinsters or had boston marriages despite overwhelming pressure to be "normal". The ones who couldn't live off family wealth either became nuns or married to live. Those who married often couldn't opt of kids due to of lack of birth control or the right to consent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 06:01 AM
1	A double standard i’ve noticed with how a notable amount women react to online dating content directed at men vs women The kind of women that fall for criminals are not the kind that any normal man would benefit from being with. Just consider them in the same category as all the obese, disfigured and geriatric women that are considered equally unviable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 05:52 AM
1	Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) traditionally seen as "feminine" that you find attractive in men? Men, what's something traditionally seen as "masculine" that you find attractive in women? Nothing is unclear, many basic human traits are traditionally gendered even if many people in modern times don’t intuitively think of them that way (like his_purple_majesty).	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 04:30 PM
6	Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) traditionally seen as "feminine" that you find attractive in men? Men, what's something traditionally seen as "masculine" that you find attractive in women? If basic things like confidence and leadership is gendered then kindness should be as well	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 02:37 AM
–	What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted? More controversial because we coddle women too much but it shouldn't be	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 08:09 AM
–	What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted? The cheating list can be dangerous if it is just based on accusation even with "strong evidence" since we're in a world with AI generated pictures and videos now. But I wouldn't mind if the criteria is adultery proven in court as grounds for divorce or something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 04:41 AM
1	Disregarding appearance, modern dating dynamics naturally select for emotionally unavailable men Attractive emotionally available men are immediately locked down and taken out of the market and they allow themselves to be taken out, otherwise they're labelled emotionally unavailable/toxic/commitment-phobic lol. They are not passed around from woman to woman when they get tired of him. The main things that matter to women are looks and status and from men that pass that bar, emotionally stable ones create relationships that last so they're not seen much in the dating landscape. Men who don't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 03:08 AM
9	Are Situationships for the most part, a result of women not being able to secure men they wish to date? You should do a study to find the split, as a dude I've been on both sides but from the whining on social media it seems it's women wanting the relationship more. Or maybe men are just less likely to feel bad about it because they still got sex. Situationships seem to be the female version of the friend zone tbh, the fuckzone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 01:59 PM
1	A woman pushing for commitment can leave a man feeling the same way a man pushing for sex makes a woman feel Sorry most of them are going to lie about the reason. In 99% cases it is because you are not the hottest he thinks he can get. Things like "maternal behaviour", etc is bullshit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 02:39 AM
1	men without much experience should just pursue women they think are hot I agree that a 1 is super happy with a 4 but a male 1 is competing with male 2s and male 3s. Even if the female 4 only dates below her looks (hah), the male 1 faces enormous competition unless he is rich enough to compensate. It might as well be a lottery to find the outlier 4s that will give that male 1 a shot because she is the dream girl of other males 1s too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 08:18 AM
3	men without much experience should just pursue women they think are hot It's the same fallacy as women trying to win the Chad lottery, not enough outlier women to go around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 10:13 AM
22	Why are women so aggressively worried about being murdered by men? Dude how does this matter from the perspective of someone living as a woman who wants to take precautions while dating? It's like saying don't worry about being mugged in shady places in New York because there are more muggings in Detroit. How does that stat matter to someone trying to live in NYC?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 10:12 AM
5	She has to like you more It's not gender specific. It's always better for the more honourable person in the relationship to be loved more. They can love, stay loyal and put in effort out of their sense of duty and commitment. Even when their feelings wane, they can reflect and recognise that it can be temporary. They will work on bringing the spark back. The distribution by gender on honourable/dutiful people is up for debate and hard to determine. Women are statistically more conscientious but they also initiate breaku…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/24 03:31 AM
1	Would you say dating is easier as a straight girl or guy, or easier as a gay guy or girl? Sex: Gay Man > Straight Woman > Gay Woman > Straight Man Commitment after few months of dating: Gay Woman > Straight Man > Straight Woman > Gay Man	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 04:33 PM
1	Do Any of You WANT An Arranged Marriage? Why? Who Should Arrange it? Take a look at the r/Arrangedmarriage subreddit. It's mostly Indians but the process has gone to shit just like every other form of marriage-forming.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 10:43 AM
–	A thought experiment for men Nice, seems like you were playing the role of the selector and rejected an objectively attractive woman for very superficial reasons. Are you either a top tier man or a stupid average one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 06:39 AM
1	Are male celebrities more likely to date fans than female celebrities? I think they mean men have crushes on celebrity women because they look good but don’t really admire them as people or care about their achievements. Yeah it’s unfortunate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 06:31 AM
9	For those of you who think women can get anything for free? Its the apex fallacy applied to women, only top 20% will get away with this, the rest will be badgered for sex on the first date or she’s not “worth it”	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/23 03:05 AM
–	Why do fathers react so differently to the idea of their daughters dating? Bruh forget it, everyone here is wilfully retarded	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/23 01:31 AM
8	Older women are way easier to manipulate than younger girls So you get back at manipulative women by manipulating random innocent women? A dark triad woman is not going to fall for stupid tricks like what OP did so most of the victims will be naive ones. Would a woman be justified in treating you like shit because a random man in her past was a dick to her?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/23 01:27 AM
2	Women, what is your perception of the male experience? What do you think life is like for us, or in what ways do you imagine or see it differing? Abstinence before marriage needs to come back for everyone. Not for God or “purity” but basic self preservation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/23 07:34 AM
1	Women, what is your perception of the male experience? What do you think life is like for us, or in what ways do you imagine or see it differing? +1 abstinence before marriage is best for both genders	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/23 07:32 AM
0	Men do not like the “ideal” red pill girl By equal in a partnership but still submissive, he means she earns the same salary and splits bills but listens to everything he says.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/23 10:46 PM
2	Hypergamy doesn’t really exist but women don’t know what attracts them Yeah I wouldn't commit to a woman who doesn't elevate my status by being better looking than me. If all my options were old, ugly or single mothers, I'd just stick to porn and video games... which is what a lot of men do anyway instead of settling. This comment should be required reading for everyone in this sub but most of these idiots wouldn't even get it. The vitriol against female hypergamy is voluntarily blind when men have (and should) be practicing it themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/23 10:32 PM
1	CMV One Big reason why man today struggle is because they are delusional about they‘re own SMV. Yes female sexuality is rooted in feeling desired. Men who were in the same or slightly below league made up for not being a hypergamous prize by showing high attraction and investment in the woman. But now even that effect is stunted by quite a bit through (porn dulling male attraction to women and low investment per woman in order to make the dating process sustainable), making higher SMV males more appealing as they inspire raw attraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/23 11:11 AM
1	CMV One Big reason why man today struggle is because they are delusional about they‘re own SMV. Matches for women don’t matter because men admit to auto swiping on everything then choosing among those who accept back. See if any matches reach out in a way that shows basic respect and not just for sex since men also admit that they’d have sex with women who they would never be seen with in public.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/23 10:56 AM
1	Q4M- How would you feel if your wife got your child a medical exam after you looked after them to make sure you didn't molest them? Fucked up devil’s advocate: Men also have a dual mating strategy, they fuck anything they’re attracted to that is available but only commit to women who fit certain standards so they get / retain social status. The wife can doubt whether he is actually interested in her or just committed to her to create children that he’s actually attracted to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 03:49 PM