NoLeather3109 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Biased Guardian ad Litem Report.... Well fuck! I’ve been divorced for 4 years and been through stages 1-3 on repeat. She successfully used 3 against my now ex-partner (she bailed after that) by manipulating a therapist that she chose. She’d prime my kid before a session on what to say. Lost a ton of parenting time now that she’s in school so based on this I’ve got stage 4 and 5 to go. I’ve been saying for years now that she’s trying to alienate my kid from me. Love the BPD ex wife. Took me a long time to become mostly non-reactive…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/09/25 05:40 PM
7	Men that were financially ruined, what did you lose and how did you recover? I lost almost everything. I think I went from a net worth of about $600000 to about $40000 it was a “fair” division of assets according to the judge. Took a 60% pay cut to start my own business and worked 10 days on and 4 off for 2 years. Took me that long to bring my income back to where it was before and I lived very poorly due to child support and travel costs taking up more than half my income. 2 years after that, I am now making 5x what I used to, have a home again and my net worth is highe…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/08/25 05:34 AM
1	Imputing income for CS/alimony Welcome to the club. Your obligation to pay has to relationship to your ability to earn. It’s not fair and the whole system screws men. Here in the US, your child support and alimony is calculated based on your pretax income, but you pay with post tax dollars. Fair, not even close.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/08/25 12:25 PM
1	Men who went to therapy during or after the divorce. What did you learn? Same here, I would also say that I’ve had better experiences with out of country therapists than US ones. The US ones in my experience were too ultra feminist and did not seem to be able to see my side.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/08/25 02:39 AM
1	How did you press on; when they rewrote truth and turned everyone against you? “It happens to everyone”. This is so true. It happened to me as well, ironically the worst thing I did was try to defend myself. This made it so much worse. People will see through the lies usually, but it will take at least 2 years in my experience. Upvotersfortruth is correct. State where she is wrong and move on.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/25 04:37 AM
4	Divorce topics important to older men Understanding how the court system doesn’t give a damn about men being fathers and how important we are in our kids lives. I feel like I’ve been reduced to a pocketbook. The family court system is against men. It’s not you, it’s that your ex has a better lawyer, it’s the system and it’s there to make you pay.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/07/25 03:42 AM
8	What did you do with your ring? I threw mine in the trash. Didn’t want to pass that bad karma onto anyone else.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/06/25 01:32 AM
3	What sort of woman stops a man from having his kids 50/50 for no reason?! I think the court system is all about “what’s best for mom” while pretending that it’s all about what’s best for the kids. At least that’s the only thing that makes sense to me. My ex definitely feels that getting maximum money out of me is best.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/05/25 08:08 PM
1	I told her I wanted a divorce. It did not go how I expected I think you are. That’s ok though a lot of us have been in your shoes and thought the same thing. I also thought the same as you and boy was I wrong. Courts cleaned me out. I would say that it is only in the past few months that the judge may be seeing through some of her lies. Second the home recordings. I am convinced to this day that my body camera prevented me from going to jail. The hidden audio recordings were helpful as well though she quickly stopped talking in our home. (One party state…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/25 03:19 PM
1	What are the ‘alternative’ tactics that are available for men (like the Silver Bullet for women)? Doesn’t seem to matter if you’re female	/r/Divorce_Men	17/03/25 07:44 PM
3	My wife is undiagnosed BPD + NPD, we have a kid. I really want to leave but I love my kid. What is the best thing I can do for my kid? Looking for a divorce playbook Oh, and wear a body camera to protect yourself. Film everything. This saved me from criminal charges.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/24 05:24 AM
4	My wife is undiagnosed BPD + NPD, we have a kid. I really want to leave but I love my kid. What is the best thing I can do for my kid? Looking for a divorce playbook I was in a similar situation about 5 years ago. I filed for divorce when she threatened to leave with our daughter. (1 year old). My work reputation got destroyed and I ended up quitting, lost a number of friends due to her lies as well. Got raked over the coals during the divorce and lost in almost every way as she lied in court. I was so emotionally beaten up by her I wasn’t able to talk about it for years and wasn’t able to defend myself or my daughter well. She continues to go after me now a…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/24 05:22 AM