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It's worst for new people who are just swallowing the pill. If someone posts, they'll get a variety of perspectives on what to do; if a troll slips through there and offers something that's attractive but not red pill, it may be a problem. I think it's up to all of us to police this sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 05:43 PM
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In my mind, frame is the mindset that you are an innately worthy man who commands respect and approaches things decisively, with amused mastery over self and outside influences. Frame is an alpha mindset. It depends on you and you alone. That's a great definition. OP, I advise you not to say you are keeping frame in these situations. You aren't. You are demonstrating the trait of emotional self control. This is highly admirable and an asset. You need to believe that. But you are being beta towar…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/15 05:01 PM
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There are two issues here: Her conscious and subconscious views of herself sexually, and your sexual needs being met. She needs to seek counseling for her issues. As her husband, you cannot shoulder the burden of helping her through this trauma. It will be a difficult path for both of you, as her sexuality will ebb and flow dramatically through this process. As far as your needs go, you aren't doing what you need to do to ensure they can be met (you've stopped kino, etc.). Pick up your home game…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/15 04:47 PM
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Look at it like this: she is going through something extremely traumatic, painful, and scary. Women shit test and fitness test to determine if, basically, you can handle them. She has so much fear and pain in her, that she lashing out at the world, and you in particular. She needs you to be alpha more than ever. She needs you to be an oak. She needs you to be her oasis in the desert that she's in. This is her way of telling you that.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/15 04:40 PM
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It's conditioning. Women told us we were supposed to "share ourselves" and "be vulnerable," so we tried to please them by doing this. Part of the unplugging process is stopping this.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/15 04:03 PM
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My steps for reading NMMNG- 1. Read the entire thing; consume it all as quickly as possible. 2. Print it out and read it again. Underline, highlight, make notes. Do the Breaking Free exercises that you're able to by yourself. 3. Find someone to help you with the Breaking Free exercises that require a safe person. 4. Put the most important things to you on note cards. Begin going through the note cards on a daily basis or when you have issues. 5. Burn your printed copy. Keep the digital version f…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/14 03:38 PM
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It's been said before: NMMNG is for the guys doing beta for the wrong reasons, and helps them fix the issues within themselves that cause that. MMSLP is for the other group of men that need to add alpha to correct the course of their relationship. Although both can be useful to just about anyone.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/14 03:35 PM
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Don't apologize. You did not intend to hurt her. Her feelings are not your responsibility. Validate that you hurt them, then express that it was not your intention. Then carry on with life.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/14 04:07 PM
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Have you read NMMNG? It shed such much light on why I used to put up with the things I did from my mom.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/14 02:39 PM
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It's shared responsibility. You discuss and agree upon a course of action, instead of passively letting it happen.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/14 02:36 PM
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C'mon. Even an HB9 is too heavy for a standard closet hook.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 12:43 AM
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Take a picture of the bruise. Better safe than sorry.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 11:31 PM
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Thank you for that very stark wake up call.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/14 12:10 AM
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That's what I'm wrestling with. Am I doing it for me or because I want her approval? I'm sure there's some of the second, but I'm trying to figure out if it's most of the first. Also, don't know if it would provide comfort beta.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 09:26 PM
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Thanks, man. That concept has been hard for me. Counselors in the past told me to share so she knows what's going on. Glover says the same thing, while most of RP is Nike - "Just do it."
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 09:24 PM
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