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SHOWER THOUGHTNoNefariousness5137/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:45 AM
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Thank you for saying this. Andrew was a HVM and such a gentleman. Her ugly scrote-ass ex had nothing to offer and the negging was so hard to sit through even in 2001(?) when that movie came out. I'm not prone to conspiracy theories but Hollywood was actively trying to lower female standards with that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 10:50 AM
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I...think I love you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 09:48 PM
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Good advice, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 01:58 AM
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Do you have any advice for detecting bids that might not be obvious? Or even those that are really really obvious. Source: am autistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:59 PM
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Male therapists gaslit me about my problems and I swear they took pleasure in them. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 06:02 AM
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Yes, they are literally feral zombies. Their brains have been hijacked by porn. I watch zombie movies and it feels real cause guess what, it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 09:19 PM
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This is the content I'm here for. Made me laugh out loud. :-D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:14 PM
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Yes. My standards are so high that no scrote will ever touch me (or be "platonic" "friends") again and although serial monagamy is a thing, this is the mathematical equivalent of one (1) scrote never ever having access to a woman again. Feels good. It's all I can give and I give it my all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 10:56 PM
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Oh, a shit ton. Remember, the more men talk about sex the more they are addicted to porn as a rule. It's not actually "natural" to have everything be an innuendo or an incel talking point. Tradcon men just talk about it in a specific way, hyperfocusing on virginity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:57 PM
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OH. Since reading a discussion on FDS I started ignoring men who insist on saying hi to me. Did this once on my street, what does the fucker do next time he sees me? Accelerates to pull into his driveway, almost hitting me with his car, narrowly avoiding manslaughter. That inability to cope ladies, is what crippling insecurity will get you when everything in the world is all about your tiny, tiny dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 07:44 PM
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Same. Fuck you, Jason!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:15 PM
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Yes, narcissists know what they are doing. As I used to ask wide-eyed questions from a place of numbed curiosity I noticed that my narc ex really liked to brag about how his evil mind worked. His favorite term in the whole world was plausible deniability. He bragged about dating a girl because her dad was his boss. Original, I know. He detailed the mind games he played with rivals at work to get ahead. He talked about all the reasons socially desirable people thought he was awesome. And it alway…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:50 AM
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Just because it hurts our feelings that men view sex as transactional doesn't make it any less the case, sadly. Also, though men will happily take any goods or services from women, sex is THE main deal and that is why in general, with the exception proving the rule, it will be an uphill battle to advance any relationship past the stage at which sex has happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:01 PM
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You and me both, sister. My "prudery" is directly related to the incessant oversexualization of absolutely everything. I didn't used to be asexual. I just want the merry-go-round to stop before I literally vomit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:56 PM
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Ding Ding. And we can only safely say that on here. What a fucked up world we live in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:45 PM
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Yanks backward on the collar/leash and crosses the street because the dog is fearful. Excellent! Now the dog is fearful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:46 PM
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Thank you so much for writing this out! As a woman in her 30's it's so bizarre to me how quickly things changed from the 80's till now. I think women have always had things bad, but specifically in 2021 if you participate in pickme culture you will actually be worse off than our foremothers were socially, emotionally, psychologically, pretty much in every way, even possibly financially. All the things you mention about about social/emotional coercion is just the new way of controlling women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 02:09 AM
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Ah, thank you so much for representing autistics. Neurodivergent interests are going to be the next civil rights movement, as it should be. It's nice to see FDS representing the truth of our reality ahead of the curve and not just due to reasons of woke theater.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:05 PM
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Yup, yup. It's like that quote from Mean Girls: "See, at least me and Regina George know we're mean!" At least atheist porn-addled scrotes know they are mean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:45 AM
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I read this as you had the chat in front of him, and I love it. This is my style too, since LVM need to face social shaming as a result of their LV actions. It's the only way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:48 PM
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"Nothing attracts a man more than a woman who hasn't slept with them and won't." This is the catch-22 about scrotes that libfem don't understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:34 PM
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I like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:57 PM
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Much like with anything, being versed in religion can protect you from scroviation on the subject. It's not intimidating to me when scrotes start mansplaning what Jesus said because what my religion actually teaches about women is that we are the pinnacle of God's creation and *checks notes*... that's about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:01 AM
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They still believe society will award them a mommy bangmaid who will take care of everything. The discomfort of staying the same hasn't exceeded the discomfort of changing. Yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:04 PM
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Ah yes, the "dumb fox" method of maintaining standards. This is my personal favorite!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:02 PM
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I know you are getting challenged a lot for this OP, so wanted to say I'm right there with you. The trouble is, what is "correct" is going to be interpreted 7 billion different ways by 7 billion different people. It's impossible to untangle the male gaze from what is comfortable or what allows you to get by without being socially harassed. Sometimes it's about safety and sometimes it's about unresolved trauma and most of the time it's impossible to sift through years of conditioning. There was a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:58 PM
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Hahaha yessssssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:17 PM
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That's what I'm saying sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:24 AM
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Defining reality about themselves is a tactic abusers use and their propaganda is in the air we breathe. We don't need men, we need to avoid them for our health and safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:38 AM
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Well put.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:32 AM
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So many opportunities to be had in going by a male pen name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:38 AM
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You didn't do anything wrong. A lot of stuff with men just has to be about safety. Safety first. That's part of the reason why we block and delete because engaging with them escalates. The average man is 50 pounds bigger than the average woman, it is a fact of nature; our brains know this and that is why you did what you needed to do in the moment to get away from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:53 AM
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Yes, it's so simple and peaceful now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:44 AM
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Cheeto juice hahaha anything's possible really
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:42 AM
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I'm in my 30s and found FDS after years and years of thinking I was the crazy one for seeing through the bullshit and societal gaslighting (I'm actually just autistic, who knew). Super frustrating to think I should have trusted myself all along. Remember, what men say is infinitely worthless; what they do is the only meaningful thing of consideration. I'm here to break the cycle and because every day that I block scrotes from my life that's one more abuser who will feel the squeeze. It's very fu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 11:47 PM
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I'm so sorry this happened. You sound really strong though. AN is a hard thing to beat. It's pretty clear these two are jealous of you; don't give them attention. We don't choose our families, sometimes the best we can do is gray rock until such time as they are no longer in our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:54 PM
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Ughhhh sammmeeeee girl. Me and my therapist just have to agree to disagree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:41 AM
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Underrated comment hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:48 AM
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You're not crazy but it do feel crazy to be the only one in the room who thinks that voyeurism isn't cool. Would they be happy if that happened to them? Of course not, that's so mean! Porn creates psychopaths, folks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:45 AM
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Yes I can't quite understand the thought process behind it. They're not grossed out by blood and they're not grossed out by women's bodies when their own pp is actively engaged. It's like a cross between a neg and a self-fulfilling prophecy (this is gross so I will be grossed out by it). I have no idea why men are so weak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:17 PM
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Yeah, but now with FDS it's harder to "divide and conquer" and shut people up with tone policing. I'm more willing to engage on different platforms now and then casually drop a link to FDS. PS I'm so stoked my flair has gone green now! Thanks FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:31 AM
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Good points. I would like to add getting people to do stuff for them ie their work or being the fallboy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:24 PM
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Yes, I have met at least 2 malignant narcs hiding in plain sight psychologically tormenting their victims IN FRONT OF EVERYONE and everyone just could not be bothered to give a single sh*t. Do you have any advice for spotting them right away?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:21 PM
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Dr. Ramani Durvasula (an expert on narcissism) believes 30% of people are narcs. She didn't SAY it but in another video she said the majority of narcs are men, so. You do the math. Yes most men are narcissists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:05 PM
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I'm so mad at myself for letting my otherwise sometimes HV brother gaslight me about this stuff, that's why it was so confusing. Having trouble forgiving myself, but I see I'm not alone :-(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:34 AM
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Thank you. This needed to be said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:31 PM
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Narc men want to be the damsel in a relationship. They think we find this attractive! I don't know how to do emojis on here but some combination of facepalm and crylaughing best captures my feeling of disbelief when this happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 02:37 AM
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Thanks! I tell myself that even if no one else will listen, at least I can educate myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:51 AM
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Couldn't agree more. This sounds like the book I've been looking for btw. Thanks for the recommendation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:45 AM
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There is scientific evidence that women can tell if men are gay or straight by looking at photos of them. What else can we tell, and what else do we habitually ignore because of societal gaslighting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:55 PM
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Does anyone else think that female pornographer has the deadest eyes they've ever seen? Meanwhile Gail quite literally gets more beautiful with every video I see of her. Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:04 AM
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"I'm a rather unique guy I think, so it's difficult to find compatible people" = I am a covert narcissist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:43 PM
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Oh! My therapist did the same! I stood my ground and told her all the reasons she was wrong. No lie, she apologized. I don't know the answer to finding a radfem therapist anymore than a radfem man though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:33 PM
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Ah, thank you! The prefrontal cortex damage part was what piqued my interest. Yes, prefrontal cortex damage prevents men from being able to not only initiate, create, and build relationships, but also any worthwhile endeavor including education and careers. Renowned psychologist Philip Zimbardo was talking about this 10 years ago and pickme "journalists" were mocking him up and down. Wonder how that worked out for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:42 PM
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I'm super curious about your take on this. Do you want to elaborate?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:24 AM
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Love the jail staff at 1:06: "He was extremely agitated and was going on about his life and all the normal stuff".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:00 PM
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Yes, she was all "not all men" and I was like "that's not relevant for x, y, z reasons".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:12 PM
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Exactly. Men have made sure of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:44 AM
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I. Love. FDS. Been: -Working FDS talking points into discussion with my therapist. She got real quiet then told me I was right, then apologized. -Working subtle FDS into other online forums of which I am a part. It's so satisfying to state a polite, factual point and watch the scrotes self-implode. You guys keep it real and are the best. Ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:37 AM
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Yes, men know we don't need them. Any woman would take this knowledge and level up, but men feel the need to racketeer an entire gender into "needing" them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:15 AM
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I'll do you one better. Since women are, objectively, in every way, better than men, can we stop letting them into our lives? I'm too good to talk to most of them frankly, let alone let them touch me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:53 PM
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In her book Self Made Man Norah Vincent talks about walking down the street dressed as a man, and men would avoid making eye contact as a disinclination to challenge her. In contrast, when she presented as a woman, catcalling and leering were obvious power plays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:49 AM
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Oh, definitely. Young is just not elderly. Elderly women they will still harass. So basically, all women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:38 AM
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Yep. It's like the research that shows that women can get away with being assertive at work but only if we frame it as being for the sake of someone else. Society brainwashes women into thinking we don't deserve good things for the sake of ourselves (cause women are naturally more caring, see) and for me that was a huge part of understanding why I was romanticizing a wedding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:03 AM
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Ooh I like how you put it as coming out. It do feel that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:57 AM
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I also had PTSD from something that happened, and became hypervigilant. It removed some of the few remaining blinders about what men are. If you're a remotely young or attractive woman who is alone the fact is all men are pretty much watching you all the time. They literally think in terms of the risk vs reward of servicing their pp at all times. It's creepy af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 06:51 AM
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edit: wrong thread
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 06:49 AM
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Sad. Who are these NVM? Once you're enmeshed it's so hard to get out. I've been making a consistent point to point my 20 something sister in FDS's direction. It's my part time job at this point lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:19 AM
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Scrotes always, always use women's vernacular against us once it hits the mainstream. Whether it's "golddigger" or any number of relationship tropes they've coopted. Classic DARVO. A scrote once told me (in confidence! you're not like them!) that women are so dumb. So...doesn't that mean that men are predators? Anyway, a main reason I keep coming to FDS is to keep up with the predator trends/see where they are heading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:47 AM
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Yes. Or pretend you don't understand their negging while maintaining your standards. "Oh I thought we were just getting coffee, though." Or just block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:31 PM
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Yes. They NEED to be in abusive relationships. Porn and gaming create abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:29 PM
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Well done queen!!! I am so impressed with your resolve and having foresight to come to FDS to boost your resolve. I just blocked and deleted some scrotes this very week and it feels soooo good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:00 PM
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Amazingly, murderers and rapists are people's sons 100% of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:36 PM
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Yes, thanks for writing this. FDS is the one place I come to get away from the hideous dumpster fire that is the manosphere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:40 PM
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I just had a lightbulb moment, combined with memories of my (attempted, forced,) conversations with a covert narc. What if asking them about what they think punishments should be for x,y,z crime were used as a screening tool? As I recall, Xnarc was terrified of anything having to do with punishments regarding rape, but you could use any crime really. Scrotes always tell on themselves, you just have to listen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:21 AM
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Oh so Vice is giving FDS free publicity? Good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:34 AM
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Truthfully? About 5. I felt gaslighted by society for sooooo long about what men are, I was starting to think there was actually something wrong with me. So glad to have found FDS!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:19 AM
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I felt dyslexic reading that, which clued me in to his shit lol. It's just like the "word salad" that narcissists habitually use which is actually a form of mild hypnosis. They babble words and throw in catch phrases to alter your mental state. Nice catch, OP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:15 AM
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This is exactly what it is. Society needs to wake up to this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:11 AM
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Yes, Gen Z's and young millennials are truly enraged in a way that overconfident Boomer's never could be. I love the smell of fear they give off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 04:35 AM
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Everyone dies alone. Cat ladies, married folks, definitely scrotes. You may or may not have loved ones around, but everyone dies alone. Like that's going to scare me into chaining my future to some LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:58 AM
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It's truly not confusing when you realize that most men are lying, at the very least to themselves. I'm a big believer in acknowledging the truth even when it's hard cause at least then you will be starting off evenly. Ever since FDS the remaining scales have just fallen off my eyes, and I'm mentally checking spin every time I see it, which is whenever a scrote opens his mouth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:54 AM
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I absolutely love how scrotes write entire novels to strangers on the internet when they need permission to cheat or leave. I believe this is deliberate: strangers give you permission, the bar lowers, more random strangers give permission to the next scrote, the bar goes even lower. "I don't know where to go from here"?!?! Lmao. How about you raise your kids and make your sick wife a sammich, you freak bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:22 AM
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This is what I too am actively working on while deprogramming with FDS. I refuse to be part of the problem and every time I entertain a man, give them attention, emotional labor, ANYTHING, this emboldens them to feel entitled toward women. We don't live in a vacuum, and I want to do my own small part to make them starve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:55 PM
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Hi there, fellow autist. Some people have given great replies such as taking the time you need to figure out if something feels right. I would like to add that we autistic women are constantly down on ourselves due to bad past social experiences. When dating, there's a double gaslighting effect wherein most men are actually emotionally abusive and society constantly tells us autistic people are dumb. We are not dumb. We are very, very, very good at recognizing patterns. So if something feels wro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 10:32 PM
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Came here for "My love language is physical touch"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 09:35 PM
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We are in a really misongynistic culture. 40% of men watch porn, everyone's a narcissist, 1/3 of women get raped. If HVM were 100% logical (which is ideal) then we would acknowledge that every man ever is some level of misogynist. It's how they work. You can blame science, you can blame Eve for biting the apple, you can blame history, but I really must insist that HVM not lie to ourselves about this fact. Lying to ourselves will make it worse. Thank you for listening to my TED talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 11:32 PM
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Anybody know the difference between psychopaths who commit murder and those who don't? Whether they can get away with it. "Acceptance" my ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:43 AM
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Yup. American men are so weak that a preferred method of breaking up with someone is to sleep with someone else so your partner will break it off for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:25 AM
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