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CMVNoNewt9782/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:37 AM
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Folding clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:14 PM
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That would work for some women. Just helping the argument of people that make it seem like being at home is not a big deal. I cook us meals every day clean and do laundry, grocery shopping etc. takes 5 hours of my day every day . Working on top of that would be hard for me but I’m happy I don’t have to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:31 PM
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My point is that the man providing allows him to have that luxury. Otherwise a woman does all of that then also pays 20-50% of bills , how is that fair for her. Even doing equal chores and equal bills, why would you want to do that? You want to come home from work and still cook, clean and do laundry. Im happy to date people that don’t want me to struggle and be a slave. We get to enjoy our lives. Also splitting bills won’t matter bc as good as they have kids there will be a work imbalance. Moms…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:27 PM
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I’m cleaning for both of us. Cooking, laundry, and way more. Takes about 5 hours of my day daily. That’s a full time job. He doesn’t have to worry about it at all, gets off work and comes to a nice home with a meal on the table. That’s the luxury we give each other :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:26 PM
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That’s sad. So you risked your entire life/health/career to give him a child and he still treats you like his buddy not the mother of his children. Still have to work after that. I bet you do most housework too huh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:24 PM
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Even cooking 1 meal is 1-3 hours of prepping/cooking and an hour afterwards for cleaning. Now make that 2-3 meals a day, and other cleaning, and laundry, getting pregnant and risking their lives to give birth, childcare, and picking up/helping kids with homework, and organizing appointments and much much more. Most women do this work and still work a full time job while the man works, comes home and pretends to “help” by throwing out the trash. That is not fair for women. A true balance is for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:21 PM
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Yea In return for free labor that would cost that man money otherwise. A housewife after young kids is not a luxury, I can’t believe you think that. I’m going to be a housewife my whole life❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:19 PM
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Women do so much work that goes unnoticed. Laundry, cooking, real cleaning(not just wiping things off here and there) grocery shopping, childbearing, child care and more. Society doesn’t value that bc it’s “unpaid” work. But in reality it’s a 24/7 job. Even making a simple meal takes hours of cooking/prepping and an hour to clean up afterwards at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:16 PM
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Nah I want 100%, maybe I’ll Postmates us some food or order our groceries on Instacart from time to time The reason is because I a lot of unpaid work every day to keep our life running
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:12 PM
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I do have the things I say
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:10 AM
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Bro do you read what I say
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:47 AM
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I have A LOT of non financial standards too. I’m high maintaince. ALL women should raise their standards, there would be less lazy men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:51 AM
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I’m not a virgin. I only desire the men I’m in a relationship with. Maybe stop making assumptions about women and go outside and make friends. You’ll realize these assumptions are silly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:48 AM
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Not true. I want to be desired by only one man and desire him back, and have him not desire any other women. It’s men on the internet that always talk about being naturally “polygamous” and they can’t help but to feel attraction for new women vs someone they’ve been with. That they need variety but having sex with multiple women but can still be in love with just one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:42 PM
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That’s what I’m saying! I’ve gotten guys who I’ve never met but me clothes and plane tickets just because I’m pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:34 PM
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I agree, if you work on having a healthy body, skin and hair you don’t really need to do a whole lot. We are programmed as humans to view health as beauty. Plus it will have longer lasting results than going the artificial way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:32 PM
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I enjoy taking care of my looks, it’s not as expensive or time consuming as you make it out to be. I go get my nails/toes done every 2 weeks, schedule a hair app every couple months, I do my own lashes and prefer natural makeup, I work out for 30 min every morning (consistency is more important then how long you work out tbh) and I feel good about myself. Appointments to me feel like getting pampered and they make me happy. I’m personally not worried about aging because I know that if I work out…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:25 PM
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I do call him daddy ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:42 PM
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He meets all of my standards. I’m stay at home he spoils me and takes me out to trips once a month and I live in a beautiful home and got a car for my birthday. And he’s not even my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:46 PM
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That’s not what masculine energy is. I have other ambitions too. And we would usually hire someone to do those things
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:21 AM
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Nah, I’m making this post to do what the title said. Tell women that they should have higher standards now and not fuck anyone who can’t help if she gets pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:28 AM
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It’s bc girls eat them out better than man can. Even if they’re not “actually bi” you can’t deny the hooking up is great
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:26 AM
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I’m straight woman and pussy is literally so pretty loll
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:25 AM
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Most women realize at one point that girls are way more hot, fun and treat them better than men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:24 AM
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I live a lavish lifestyle, I only meet people with a lifestyle similar to mine. And I had this lifestyle before my partner. He knew I was high maintenance
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:23 AM
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Yup and my man gives me an allowance every week. I save my money and he helps me invest. So I’m good. My plan is to be fully financially free in like a year or two
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:58 PM
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Tbh yea, I go on here when I’m bored sometimes. Every time I tell ppl about my relationship ppl get mad for some reason. If I do it to also show girls that they can have higher standards. But otherwise I’m out doing my hobbies, getting my nails done or doing a Pilates class with my girls
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:57 PM
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I just turned 22, I’ve been with my partner since 19
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:53 PM
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Lmao “slaves away” he works like 2 hours a day max. We’re too busy traveling every other week and having fun. Don’t worry, he’s definitely not complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:48 PM
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Yup. A man can give me the moon but if he doesn’t tell me I’m beautiful every day and wants to spoil me with love then nah. I need that to function
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:41 PM
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Not a gold digger :) I have a lot more standards than this. A guy can give me a house and the fucking moon but unless he treats me right and we have the same values it means nothing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:39 PM
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Yea we got pregnant but it’s not the right time for us so we got an abortion. A perfect choice, people should not bring children into the world unless they’re ready. I stated the standards that I have to be ready for children
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:38 PM
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That’s my point, I want to tell women than more than ever they should only have sex with responsible men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:37 PM
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A lot, I don’t need to tell you because clearly my man loves me and believes in me. We are working together to have an amazing life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:37 PM
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I can be picky about all things. This post is focusing on financial. If I made a post about all my standards it would be 5k words
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:35 PM
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This is why I only have children with a men that married me and provides. Solved all issues
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:34 PM
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I agree that lazy men that can’t provide or take care of their children should never get to reproduce
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:34 PM
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They do. Women do all of child bearing and most of feeding, care, cleaning and school/activities in most families.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:33 PM
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I think people that have that point of view grew up watching their moms break their backs at work and come home to cook/clean and take care of everything while dad sat on the couch. Unfortunately I see a lot of women online not see their worth and what they provide, not everything in life is about money. We can bring a lot to the table that is needed to have a home/family that cannot be bought.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:29 PM
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This is my point exactly! It’s hard work to be a sahm, together with a good providing man that’s a good father you can create an amazing life for children. I would never bring kids into this world unless I can provide the best life for them, I struggled growing up and want better for them. Also I have heard of some stories were the mom is sahm bc it’s cheaper for that family instead of paying thousands a month on childcare. It’s a struggle either way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:26 PM
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My man is Rich. Maybe it’s where I’m from but they’re all around me. My aunt married a rich man (he’s a vp of a company) and she was in her 30s and had 2 kids from a previous marriage. She’s a stay at home mom now who takes care of their new baby and always redecorates her home. She’s living her dream life bc she knows her worth. There’s many men like that out there. It’s about not settling for less
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:23 PM
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Everyone is different! The men I met don’t want their women to struggle, they want them to rest and be in their feminine energy while they care of the home. I support and help my partner in a lot of ways, we build together. Sometimes what I see from men being like “ok you take care of the kids but that’s it? Work too and pay half the bills” they don’t appreciate women at all and don’t see the value in a woman giving birth or raising his children and cleaning /cooking. I would never be with a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:21 PM
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I respect that, I was in a similar situation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:17 PM
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Yup! If I’m having kids, I’ll be home to raise them myself and not by strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:17 PM
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Who said I don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:16 PM
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Nope, lol. I’m picky about personality, values and the way people treat me too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:16 PM
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Yes I am, because on parent can deal with that responsibility while I risk my life / Heath / career for us to have children. It’s an equal sacrifice on both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:43 PM
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I do make my man feel special? You don’t know me. I have high standards bc I know what I provide. I literally make my man breakfast + coffee every morning while he’s on his zoom calls. And that’s just a little bit of it. I spoil him and he spoils me. Also I literally do modeling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:41 PM
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I was never for sexual liberation, it does more harm to women than good
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:10 PM
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How is providing a home for our children asking for a sugar daddy. That’s the minimum parents should provide for their kids
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:09 PM
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I care about all of it. That he’s a good life time partner, a man that treats me right and loves me, a good father and a lot more. What he can provide is part of it :) Also nothing wrong with ensuring that if I bri g children into this world I would want them to be set and taken care of financially. Love can’t do everything
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:05 PM
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I provide value. I want to teach my children 2 languages and have the time to raise them and cook them healthy meals. And a lot more. I am a very clean person and I want to make my home a sweet inviting place. Very far from sitting at home all day. I also have my own business that I would continue to work in part time from home. I obviously can’t include everything in this post
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:05 PM
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Why do people keep assuming that. I in no way give myself for free to undeserving men. I’ve only been with one person and that’s my current partner
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:01 PM
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I don’t do casual sex, never have. Only in commited long term relationships and I’m with my first boyfriend rn
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:58 PM
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Them having money is the standard, then he has to treat me right and have the same values as me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:55 PM
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I don’t either ? I don’t see the problem for having standards for the situation I want to have children in, I think more people should and we would have better humans. Also ppl act like I forced my partner when it was his choice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:35 PM
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I don’t do birth control, it’s bad for my health
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:30 PM
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It’s not the only reason I would choose someone at all. Being able to provide is the baseline requirement for me, then after that we have to have things in common, you have to treat me right and we have to have the same values about life and kids
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:28 PM
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Ok. Dads should be responsible for their kids. Single moms do a lot more most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:52 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:50 AM
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Did I say I would sit on my ass? Being a sahm is hard work. It’s cooking, laundry, cleaning, gardening, teaching, homework, kids activities and hobbies, taking care of children 24/7. I want to teach them 2 languages, teach them about finances, cooking and support them in their goals. some men value their children being raised by their mom, a clean home and good healthy meal on the table every day. That’s the life I want. I’m not going to do all that AND work a full time job. That’s literally hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:48 AM
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He wanted a vasectomy, he benefits from it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:33 AM
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HE wanted one too. He doesn’t want kids. I do in the future. I talked about it. I said vasectomy or protected sex bc I don’t do birth control. He wanted unprotected sex so he got it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:28 AM
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I require those things if a man wants me to have his children. I don’t expect it from a boyfriend, but also it’s nice and I love my boyfriend for it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:24 AM
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Well I personally don’t think abortion is murder or anything like that. I think people should have the right to choose to carry out a pregnancy or not. And so many more points. That’s why I’m not anti-abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:19 AM
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My current boyfriend is my only and first person, and I don’t have sex outside of relationships. I also have high standards to who I date. And yes, the house is for my children. That’s why I would want a house before having children. I grew up poor but I’m doing so much better now and want to provide that for my children. Also working on a passive income business at the moment to have passive income and investments by the time I have kids. That way if anything goes wrong (dad gets sick, dies, ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:18 AM
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It’s a good thing, women should be picky. There’s a bigger sacrifice to accidentally getting pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:08 AM
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He doesn’t have to give me those things, I don’t require them from him and I’m grateful. But yes he does. And again, he willingly wants to get a vasectomy. He’s been wanting to for some time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:07 AM
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I don’t agree with abortion ban no. But if it’s what some women have to deal with then they should be pickier than ever to who they have sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:03 AM
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I don’t, I care a lot about my health. Also I’m 22 and he’s 40. I think I’m good
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:02 AM
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My point exactly. Being a full time stay at home mom is a difficult job in itself: cooking, laundry, gardening, taking care of children and their activities + school and more. It’s a job in itself. I want to do that job personally and not be forced to work a corporate job on top of that. Otherwise hire a full time nanny, cleaner, chef while I work. But obviously I would not prefer that bc I want to raise my children and not have them be raised by strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:58 AM
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My boyfriend wants one anyway, he doesn’t want kids. I require a vasectomy if a man I’m in a relationship with wants to have unprotected sex. Bc if he wanted that it would be for his pleasure so why should I deal with the consequences. If he doesn’t then condoms always No casual sex at all, protected or not Those things I require would be for our children and they would benefit the whole family. If I don’t have it then I won’t bring children into an unworthy situation, that’s my personal choice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:55 AM
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It’s unfortunately true, people judge me but men who invest and take care of their women are less likely to leave them as single moms. And even if they did I wouldn’t be completely screwed and I would have the means to give them a good life. People think I’m selfish but I’m just trying to make sure I’m not bringing kids into the world to have a difficult life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:43 AM
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I’m familiar with red pill. But I’ve noticed a lot of men On this specific sub complain about women with high standards. Maybe bc they can’t get women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:36 AM
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That’s what I want to do personally. But everyone should do what they want. It’s just more risky for women to partake in casual sex with men who don’t care for them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:28 AM
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I think they are more than equal, everyone has different opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:28 AM
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I’ve never done it personally, but just more of a reason not to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:26 AM
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Good thing I’m not asking you😘 there’s men who want to do this for me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:09 AM
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That’s why you look for a hot guy that fits these standards! You’ll be surprised, there’s plenty out there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:06 AM
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I don’t. Most men complain about women not having a low body counts but then complain on here that women’s standards are too high and unrealistic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:02 AM
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I would say I’m 22-24% and I get a lot of attention/interest. Tbh I think most of these bodies would with the exception of the last 1. Also the way people dress+ confidence makes them more affective.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:01 AM
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And that’s perfectly ok too. There’s people who prefer traditional relationships. As long as everyone is on the same page:)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:58 AM
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I am! I’m also young so I realize that my youth/fertility is valuable. Don’t know why people are mad. There’s many men that prefer traditional relationships and would love for someone to take care of their children/home full time while they provide
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:58 AM
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Lmao fr
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:51 AM
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I am :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:48 AM
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I’m personally against birth control bc of the negative effects it could have for my physical/mental health. Tried it and felt so depressed :( Birth control is also a sacrifice women endure to give men more pleasure. Women on birth control should also have high standards to who they are taking it for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:41 AM
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Me and him don’t want biological kids together. That’s a mutual decision. I’m 22, I’ll want kids in the future not any time soon. If I choose to have biological kids those are my standards
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:39 AM
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I agree, I think high standards don’t birth anyone. If men don’t fit those standards then I won’t have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:38 AM
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He wanted one anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:37 AM
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I understand what you mean. However women have to deal entirely with pregnancy / child bearing on their own. The effects it has on their body/mind/careers, women get set back an average of 10 years in their career after giving birth. And even more. They are vulnerable. The right thing to do for both partners is that when the partner is dealing with pregnancy/taking care of baby, the other partner should worry about the outside duties. Being a SAHM and taking care of a child is just as much work,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:34 AM
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A lot of men believe in providing this for the mother of his children
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:24 AM
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Go ahead if you want. I bring a lot to the table and know my worth :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:23 AM
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Gets hit on every time we go out to a bar and by models he works with
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:22 AM
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It is ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:21 AM
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You want unprotected sex, men gotta pay up ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:18 AM
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I do want kids one day. Not right now tho
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:17 AM
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Doesn’t affect me, I’m a stay at home girlfriend and happily secured. And I do think women will have less casual sex, that’s why I spread awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:16 AM
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I only have with my partner , I don’t with strangers, like I said, I wouldn’t even have sex with someone unless I knew they can take care of me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:15 AM
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Regardless, women should have higher standards that ever
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:13 AM
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I bring plenty ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:11 AM
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If that’s the case then yes, there should be a price for all the sacrifice women have to deal with if men want their own biological children
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:11 AM
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No need. He’s very attractive and successful. And knows how to treat women right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:08 AM
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Women are. Men judge us for having high standards, just saying why women should and should have even higher standards
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:06 AM
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Not buying me, but knowing my worth and appreciating the sacrifices I took and in return providing for me and my children. Sounds fair to me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:05 AM
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A man can certainly not deserve sex from a woman, such as if he doesn’t respect her, care about her or her pleasure etc. Men are not entitled for sex but can certainly work to be worthy of it. And Personally I don’t do casual sex for the reasons I mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:04 AM
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I am! I’m young, successful, can speak multiple languages, love to cook/clean, I’m good at managing /communicating my emotions, love to workout and take care of myself and more. I’m a catch and my partner thinks so also :) Me knowing My worth is also why I would expect so much from a man that wanted me to have his children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:02 AM
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I’m not, I’m telling other women even more of a reason to be picky about sexual partners
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:00 AM
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We don’t want kids together
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:56 AM
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Everyone has sex dude. Doesn’t mean people should have to be parents. I won’t be and I’m grateful for that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:50 AM
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Yup!! 50/50 is a scam for women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:49 AM
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More like they could be slightly more risky/take a chance on someone new since they knew there was a backup in case anything went wrong, that backup will be gone for a lot of women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:48 AM
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It’s true. Most women have high standards for who they have sex with, I want even more to. There’s more at stake
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:47 AM
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I didn’t, which is why I terminated my pregnancy. So that there would be no child
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:46 AM
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Men get to cum, women get to risk their entire health/career/future/mental health. Too risky for women to be having sex that could result in a pregnancy unless they have the right partner by their side. I’m happy you’ll be safe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:45 AM
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Do I care? If it’s inside MY body then I choose what to do with it. It’s gone now, yay for me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:41 AM
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Yup it’s dead. And now I won’t have to ruin my whole life caring for a clump of cells. Cry about it. Now I can have all the unprotected sex I want bc my man is getting a vasectomy anyway!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:38 AM
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Dude I got an abortion and it’s painful and not convenient at all. People do not get them for fun and it’s really a last resort
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:17 AM
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As someone who just experienced an abortion, I cannot imagine that right being taken away from me. I cannot imagine being forced into pregnancy and taking care of a child when I can’t even take care of myself. This is horrible and I feel so bad for all the young women out there terrified
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:14 AM
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