NoOnesAnonymous Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	People of reddit and the world: I'm occasionally fearful of men, how do I better understand and relate to them? [Serious] Xpost to r/menslib. Side note: educate yourself on dangerous vs safe people and the signs. You don't want to ignore warning signs of a dangerous person because you're trying to overcome your bias.	/r/ExRedPill	17/06/18 11:26 PM
3	Does "dread" work? Struggling to stop red pill thoughts in relationship If you want to see how dread works in a long term relationship, just look at how many married RPs end up divorced about 1 to 2 years in. The first 6 months or so it might even seem like it's working, then everything implodes.	/r/ExRedPill	02/04/18 08:18 PM
6	Are attempts to resolve issues in a relationship regards to sex coercion? I think this can be super subtle and really depends on the context and how it's phrased. For example, let's say my child has a stomachache. I say to my child with a gentle voice, "I'm really sorry your tummy hurts. We probably shouldn't eat cake, and if it's still hurting tonight, I'll make you a doctor's appointment." This isn't a threat. It's a genuine concern and attempt to solve the problem. Suppose instead I say harshly, "What do you mean your tummy hurts?? No cake for you!! If your stomach…	/r/MensRights	13/03/18 03:04 PM
-5	Toxic Masculinity There is a certain toxicity in parts of black culture too ( for example, considering well educated blacks to be race traitors or not black enough) but white people probably shouldn't be intersecting ourselves into that, and should be focused on our own racism instead.	/r/MensRights	10/03/18 04:20 PM
0	Toxic Masculinity Having control over emotions is a good thing; suppressing is not. People who study emotional development in children often note the unhealthy dynamic where anger is the only societally acceptable emotion for boys, while girls are allowed to express a much broader range of emotions, except of course anger. Women are expected to suppress anger (again, controlling your anger is healthy, but suppressing it is not) while men are expected to suppress the rest of their emotions. There is also less pres…	/r/MensRights	10/03/18 04:16 PM
7	Toxic Masculinity "Mean girls"?	/r/MensRights	10/03/18 04:10 PM
3	How women getting passes for crimes can truly destroy people's lives: what it was like being raised by a convicted sexual offender He said his dad was in gradeschool, so yes...	/r/MensRights	16/12/17 10:49 PM
1	Reading RPW has both helped and confused me in relationships. Have you considered counseling for yourself?	/r/RedPillWomen	01/12/17 03:56 AM
1	If 43% of females give up their original careers after childbirth, why should government pass over highly experienced males for a conveyor belt of inexperienced females who leave after a few years never to return? First that's not paid, so people take the bare minimum as is. Secondly, you'd be hard pressed to find an employer who wouldn't think less of a man taking off even 3 weeks for the birth of a child. Since daycare doesn't start until 6 weeks, each parent would need a minimum of three weeks off if things were equal.	/r/MensRights	03/11/17 02:16 AM
1	If 43% of females give up their original careers after childbirth, why should government pass over highly experienced males for a conveyor belt of inexperienced females who leave after a few years never to return? Or we could have parental leave policies that apply equally to men and women and whichever parent wanted to stay home could. That's what some countries do.	/r/MensRights	03/11/17 01:51 AM
1	Show weakness and she is gone? Hard to say. What were the things you let slip?	/r/ExRedPill	25/10/17 01:23 AM
9	I used to be what you'd call a "Redpiller" Thanks for opening up and I hope you are able to find your true self. I just feel the need to say one thing in reference to the "they treated me like a guy" thing. Part of the problem is the notion that men should be tougher, not express emotion, and that it's ok to do things to boys to help them "toughen up." It's not. It's not ok to treat boys like crap or deny their feelings or make fun of them and tell them to toughen up. I don't want to diminish your recognition of being transgender, but it…	/r/ExRedPill	19/10/17 02:30 AM
6	The Wage Gap I really wonder about that, though. Surely the woman is quitting to stay home because she was already earning less? I don't have any stats unfortunately, but every single couple I know where one parent stopped working after kids, it's always been the lower paid spouse. I do know a few stay at home dads, and in every case it's because the woman was earning more. And every stay at home mom I know was making less than her husband when she quit to stay home.	/r/MensRights	27/09/17 12:27 PM
5	Is there a shit test to see if red pillers are too far gone? Off topic but how did you go from rp to ex?	/r/ExRedPill	20/09/17 12:38 AM
18	How red pill indoctrinates and keeps it's members. Not sure if it is so much making people feel like shit as it is playing to underlying fears that certain types of men have. Those subs are like providing a collection of plane crash videos and stories for people who are afraid of flying, while claiming "all flights are like this!"	/r/ExRedPill	03/09/17 01:37 AM
11	"Not going to jump to conclusions" Source?	/r/MensRights	01/09/17 02:42 AM
10	Can I get my husband to leave TRP? I'm very sorry. Whatever you do, DO NOT get pregnant with this man. It will be the worst mistake of your life. Unfortunately, in order for someone to change, they have to want to change. Sometimes, actually leaving is the best motivator for change. If that doesn't do it , then it's only going to get worse. I'd recommend therapy for yourself, because leaving a long-term relationship, even an abusive one, is very hard.	/r/ExRedPill	13/08/17 01:37 AM