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#KickHimOut2021NoOrdinaryLifeXO/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 08:40 PM
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When they’re a bit too invested in getting to know you, it’s most of the time a narc looking for ammunition. This is soo accurate! They definitly use any and every bit of information you tell them to attack you later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 02:18 PM
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What the actual fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 02:16 PM
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Happy to hear, this sub has really helped me so much even though I have only recently started posting here...I have been lurking for a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 02:14 PM
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Thank you and I agree :( It does not help that I had very low self esteem at the time. The really stupid part is that I make really good income as it is, yet felt I needed the validation. It was fun at first but that quickly faded. I am happy to say that I love myself now, to the point I really don't give a shit what any guy thinks of me. I know I look good, I don't need some dude talking to himself in my comments or inbox to reassure that. I deleted my snapchat, Instagram and other apps I used …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 03:06 PM
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As someone who used to do this for money for a short time, it made me very suicidal. It was not "empowering", it reminded me every day how men look at women as a commoditiy, and even married men hate their own wives. It was awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 01:52 PM
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They are just angry because they are not only broke ass but have nothing of value to offer women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 01:47 PM
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Now when a guy says his ex was crazy, my first thought is "what was he doing that was making her crazy?" It's almost always a red flag and later I find out that he's a cheater, abusive, controlling, etc SAME.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 01:14 PM
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They blame women for being picky when it is them that have literally no standards lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:47 AM
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We know this. I just find it funny when scrotes act like we don't know this. Women enjoy sex as much as men, the difference is men settle for shitty sex, we don't. Masturbating is almost always better than sex with a man.. says a lot about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:39 PM
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Imagine being this fucking useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:48 AM
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It is pathetic to watch how many men cry over anything a woman does, then still claim victim when men are in the wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:16 PM
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Of course that is what makes them angry, and not the actual horrendous act he did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:15 PM
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Glad you blocked him. Of course he was too busy to text you, but not too busy to text you a fucking novel when you rejected him lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:34 PM
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That is hilarious....woooow! Barf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:32 PM
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Yeah that is just straight up creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:31 PM
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"if we bring you in, you're going to have to do what I say" Gross. You absolutely should feel good about your decision to decline. That is not a comment any competent manager would say and certainly not one worth working for. As for your friends and family, it is none of their business, saying it did not work out is good enough of an answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:30 PM
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Got rid of Snapchat and disabled messaging and friend requests on Facebook from random dudes. It feels so good to no longer get annoying creepy messages of guys talking to themselves in my inbox.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:27 PM
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Sorry you went through that. Definitely nothing wrong with you at all. He is straight up trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:24 PM
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If they have trouble keeping it up and say they are "nervous" is one dead giveaway. Almost all younger men watch it as well. I would be surprised if any of them can get it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:22 PM
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it's tricking us into playing mommy on a societal level. That is such an amazing way to put this and I admittingly hadn't considered this outlook before. You're absolutely right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:20 PM
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As a woman who used to have a porn addiction (been over a decade since I have ever watched), I hate how it is normalized to watch porn at all. It ruins your sex life, it ruins your ability to orgasm and it desensitizes you completely. When I read other women calling us "insecure" for not being okay with it, it makes me roll my eyes. I am not okay with it, and it has nothing to do with security, and everything to do with wanting to be with someone who I can actually have a healthy, NORMAL sex lif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:17 PM
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I have difficulty at the idea of ever being with a man again. After being with a woman, even though we didn't work out, it is significantly better in every imaginable way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:11 PM
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I am happy to watch these type completely destroy their lives this way and leave us women the fuck alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:10 PM
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Very possible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:09 PM
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I would destroy it all but in such a way that it would be difficult to prove it was me. Pretend you don't know what happened to any of it. Soak electronics in water with chlorine and literally throw out the sex toys without a trace. Act like all is totally okay while you take time to plan your exit, such as finances and living situation in place. Speaking from experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:06 PM
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But but facewash costs :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 02:56 PM
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Right? What the actual eff?! Total loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 02:54 PM
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I hope she never goes back. Ever. I would NEVER date a guy who watches porn, it makes sex horrible and causes nothing but problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 02:53 PM
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So happy for you :D Keep it up girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 02:51 PM
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If you’re chasing him he is NOT your guy. Ding ding ding. I wish younger me knew this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 02:48 PM
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That is what happened with me. We were together 7 years, two kids and he got married within 6 months after I left him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 02:45 PM
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That is just absolutely wild to me. I would never, EVER propose to a man. Ugh the thought alone makes me feel uncomfortable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 02:43 PM
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7 years? Yeah, byeeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 02:42 PM
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Yeeeep!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 12:14 AM
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That too! Of course!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 12:14 AM
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LOL facts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:58 PM
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That is what gave it away to me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:57 PM
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Perhaps, or she learned from her mistake. That said, I completely doubt his story based on the language used here, women do not talk like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:56 PM
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No way she did. Women don't say "its great" because it was "raw". That is definitely his language used and I have a feeling he is making it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:55 PM
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Barf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:53 PM
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Ugh exactly what I was thinking. The fact he is crying about it is absolutely hilarious. What a stupid loser, way to tell on himself that he can't handle respecting women's boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:52 PM
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Tell them tubes can grow back and pregnancy can still happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:51 PM
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It is his choice, as in, his choice to NOT get laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:50 PM
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Bahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:49 PM
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It’s a lie LVM sell so that a) women don’t become bigger competition in the educational/working sphere This is what happened with my ex. We were together from age 18-25 and the more I advanced my career, the more miserable he got. It caused a lot of problems. My stupid "pickme" phase thought by remaining "attractive" (changing my hair colour to be what he wanted and not what I wanted, I hated it) and supporting him financially that would be enough to "keep" him, when in reality he cheated on me …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:44 PM
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Men who say that are basically just wanting a woman who they can use their education/career status to hold over them imo. I am so happy that I have college, it was my number one priority to have a career so I could support myself and never have to worry about depending on a man. That said, unfortunately even mentioning what I do for a living can attract scrotes because it is a bit of a giveaway I make at least six figures, so I sometimes downplay what it is I do. When I hear of a woman who aband…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:42 PM
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I agree at age 19, I was working fulltime in college fulltime with nothing but anxiety. Now at 33 I am making bank and doing whatever I want. I love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:49 PM
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forgetting about the marriage and babies milestones is the way to enjoy life! Do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:46 PM
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Amazing to hear <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:45 PM
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Women have told me their 40s were even better than their 30s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:45 PM
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Best of luck to you. I am glad to hear it! I can relate -- I have diagnosed PTSD from early childhood trauma that I never got help for until I was 28 years old. I am happier, healthier and better than ever now in my 30's and embrace getting older, smarter, richer and wiser. If men hate that or are intimidated by that, good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:43 PM
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Agreed, my level of giving a shit goes down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:39 PM
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I love myself more the older I get. I am in my early 30's and I have never looked and felt better in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:38 PM
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That is the most likely scenario. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 02:33 PM
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I agree it can be very disheartening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 02:32 PM
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I can completely relate! It is why I am so much happier now that I am older, and no longer apologize or CARE about what men want. I do what I want, and don't give a shit what they think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:12 PM
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Dooo ittttt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:10 PM
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Ahhhhhh, freedom. When my ex and I split up after 7 years of hell for me, I had never felt so liberated and free in my entire lift.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:09 PM
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Relatable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:08 PM
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I don't give a fuck either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:07 PM
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Wow I am sorry you went through that. It makes me sick to my stomach just reading this. No woman should ever be treated this way, what the hell is wrong with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:04 PM
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he observes ... "looks like you can't please women" and without missing a beat, said "looks like that makes two of us." Amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 07:57 PM
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It is plain selfishness. Something similar happened with my kids father. I had planned a trip for the kids and I to go to Disney for the week. I had all the paper work done for the kids passports to cross the border, the noterized court documents, his signature and everything filled out properly to ensure they'd get approved. Well. The government tried to contact their father to ask him a simple question and he could not be bothered to call them back or answer the phone. He's that fucking lazy a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 04:49 PM
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Welp that's one sad pathetic way of telling he can't handle rejection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 12:22 PM
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I just hope those young women at least take them for all they got financially one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:14 AM
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It's hard to care about the opinions of those who contribute nothing of value. A dude looking like a hairy sack of shit criticizing a sexy 35 year old is laughable. Also single fathers are the worst. I would never ever date one and I say this as a single a Mom. I'd date a single Mother though because they are smart, strong and selfless and often pick up the slack of the shitty WeekendDad™.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:12 AM
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Good for you. I also trust my gut. I can't even be bothered with online dating. The only time I've used Tinder is to help my girl friends catch their LV boyfriends on there. It's amazing how many dudes are so desperate they will message you without a profile photograph and without any bio info.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:07 AM
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Focus on yourself. My ex did this to me and we had two children together. I actually felt liberated when he finally left. I got back into my old hobbies and things that made me happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 09:33 AM
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That's just so messed up. I wish women would just laugh in these men's faces. They're always LV too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 07:27 PM
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Gillette and their marketing campaign to capitalize off women too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 07:24 PM
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I'm with you, regardless any guy who is going to have a stupid hissy fit over my own body can go get bent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 07:16 PM
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I wonder too. From the many conventions I've been to, the stereotype of nerdy men having very poor hygiene is 100% accurate. Then they wonder why women don't want to talk to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 07:07 PM
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Oh no. I was there too. But I didn't find out he lived with his ex until he asked me to come back to his place to play video games. I noped out of there sooooooo fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 07:05 PM
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I was really concerned for a second here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 07:03 PM
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Agreed ladies this is so important. I've always been making my own money. I make more than most people I know, I have my own condo and don't rely on anyone. Then unemployed/underemployed scrotes living with roommates have the audacity to wonder why I won't go on a date with them. I have also been told that I am intimidating to guys, to which my response is: GOOD😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 02:57 PM
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In my country it's illegal to have pepper spray and carry a knife. I do it anyway. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 02:34 PM
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His parents definitely did something wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 02:30 PM
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I have been burned this way too and now I refuse to even sleep with a man unless he takes me out on a few dates and actually asks me to be in a relationship. It used to start as a FWB situation which is fine, but too many times they became obsessive, controlling and abusive all while expecting me to be exclusive, while never making me their girlfriend. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 02:26 PM
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The last therapist I went to, grabbed my hand and got creepy towards me. He called me several times after including from his personal phone wanting to meet up. I never went back. 😟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 02:20 PM
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Men usually stay but cheat, because its just easier that way. Why risk leaving unless they have someone else lined up? At least that has been the pattern I have always noticed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 06:21 PM
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I am right there with you which is probably why I choose to be single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 06:18 PM
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Gross. Meanwhile those type contribute literally nothing of value to the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 01:28 PM
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I wonder the same question ALL the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 01:27 PM
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Six years here too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 01:16 PM
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Imagine thinking $2600 is insanely expensive for fine jewelery expected to wear every day for the rest of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:54 PM
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Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:52 PM
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This makes me want to puke. Sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:28 PM
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RIP her inbox full of MLM huns. With my ex, I was the breadwinner, and he didn't even work. He had the audacity to ask for spousal support when he never married me and I had full custody of our two children he never paid child support for. Why you ask did I put up with such BS? Low self-esteem. Thinking if you do everything for him, he couldn't possibly cheat right? Yeah, no. I was wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:23 PM
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'we don't need rings or materialism in love' is all well and good till you realize for some reason you're bargaining downwards in life whereas love means you should be upgrading in life It's painful to admit, but this used to be me. Congrats to you though <3 You deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:17 PM
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My stupid liberal feminist self thought it was unfair because he buys me gift but I can’t get gift for him? Ugh I know right? I was dumb enough to actually do it. I had just graduated college, which I paid for by myself and lived on my own without any parental support. Him? Oh he lived at his Mommy and Daddy's house, working part time and never went to college. I paid for our first condo and house, while he contributed nothing. I wish I had support like this group when I was younger! I love my k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:15 PM
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I read about him, thankfully I was not in the city when that happened. Terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:06 PM
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Whenever I see this, I just respond asking for a list of women who have gone on killing sprees due to rejection. Still waiting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:05 PM
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This is why I have been single for years. I realized that men just drag me down. Unless I meet someone who can lift me up, I ain't wasting a second of my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:03 PM
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I agree, we are NOT the same and I find this viewpoint very damaging to women. It is okay to be different, and we should be embracing our differences. We also should be demanding MORE from men. Women put in all the work, with little benefit, while men put in little work with majority benefit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:58 PM
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They love their wifey pickme wife but they will cheat on her That is what happened to me, despite him not working and me doing everything for him. What a stupid idiot I was. So glad to not be a pickme anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:49 PM
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Young me was this idiot, convincing myself that I don't need anything. While true, it was very telling how one sided our relationship was and how I foolishly allowed it to be that way. Low self-esteem was definitely the culprit. When we first lived togther, our first Xmas, I bought my ex a brand new Xbox for $500. What did he get me? Nothing. Literally nothing. He didn't even take me out for my birthday which was a few days before Xmas and actually was annoyed when I told him I wanted to go for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:47 PM
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I work in IT and what is scary is that facial recognition software is still able to tell unique features even when wearing a mask. Best way to be unrecognized? Make up and glasses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:37 AM
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🤡Text me if you want to be trained to serve me for life. But you take care of your own expenses 🤡 I’m crying laughing over here!!! 😭😂😭😂 Sameeeeeeeeeee There is literally zero incentive for anyone to do this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 09:15 AM
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Absolutely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 08:43 PM
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Yes ladies ❤️ I am so happy I found this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 11:36 PM
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LVM don’t understand that they’re not competing against other men for me they’re competing against the comfort and joy of being alone This is the most accurate way to articulate my situation for the past 6 years. It is astounding how many men ask "How are you single?" Gee, maybe because I CHOOSE to be. It isn't hard to find a man to be with, it's hard to find one worth any second of my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 11:16 PM
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So you quit. Look at you being the tough guy I'm sure you really gave it to her still coming into work. You need that money bad don't you 😆
/r/MGTOW27/03/19 08:20 PM
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You know mooching off your Mommy doesn't count right. Any sane person with brain cells knows this didn't happen and this post is a fake jerk off fantasy fiction story you tell yourself to feel better about your pathetic life. That voice in your head that says it's not worth living anymore, it's right, and you won't be missed.
/r/MGTOW27/03/19 08:18 PM
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