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-5

A man has to be extremely charismatic, social and extra ordinary at few things to get other people to like or respect him. A woman OTOH can pretty much better be below average in everything for her whole life and people would still care for her more than the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 06:29 AM
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Not getting the point. Take 1 man and 1 woman of similar level of attractiveness and personality. You will realise women lives a significantly better social life than most men. Not only that, people will obviously be more caring and loving of the woman than of the man. If she fails, the society backs her up but if he fails the society discards him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 06:25 AM
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Yes women live a significantly better social life than most men just by existing. You travel to a new country and can immediately make friends, get a hookup or simply date the locals, men OTOH are rarely invited anywhere unless they are extremely fun, charismatic or attractive. Most are ignored if they're not travelling with friends already.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 06:20 AM
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The conversation is about what a man and a woman of same social standing and looks can achieve. The average man has to be charismatic, must take initiative and must have certain traits that makes him stand out from the crowd to get respected in the society while most women (below average to above average) are given preferential treatment and looked out for. Why don't you ask your dad would be rather be born tall and attractibe or short and average looking ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 06:15 AM
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Yes and I had a crush on one as well but she had a boyfriend. So it is not wrong to assume that truly lonely women are much rarer and people infact take more pity on them while men are mostly considered weirdos
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:21 PM
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I work as well and what I have seen is most men around me are single and have been a virgin or sexless from a long time while you cannot say the same about women. Getting married in the 90s was quite the norm, now the norm is to be in situationships and fuckbuddies for months which leaves a lot of men single.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:19 PM
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As I said, a fat man will still struggle more and will die alone and sexless unless he improves significantly. A fat woman can make 0 improvement and still live a life better than a fat man. Maybe not on the level of stacy but ofcourse a better life nonetheless. This is a huge advantage of being born as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:10 PM
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As I said a below average women will still have a significany better life compared to a below average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:07 PM
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The correct word is empathise. I made a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:05 PM
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What people wants is heavily influenced what others are looking for. If most women collectively sees more value in having sex with attractive men and being single with girlfriends, society will make that the norm. The average man will have low to zero option than unless he commits to complete celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:03 PM
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She will be asked out by some people who empathise for lonely women while a man will always be considered a weirdo. Edit:- used a wrong word.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:01 PM
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Women often say they married and equal but i always wonder is it actually ? I have seen fat and straight up ugly women dating men better than them but still saying they are evenly matched. ( Considering how delusional a lot of women can be this could be a situation) Yes they are not the norm now, a decade later, things will much clearer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:58 PM
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The shy girl in the back of classroom will still live a better life than her counterpart. It is not that hard to think that whatever position you acquire as man in society, a woman having the exact same position will still have significantly better options and a better life experience overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:55 PM
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Yes your primary motivation of being in a relationship is consistent sex. You would not have the redpill if men were keen on raping women in relationships. The redpill is based around being sexually attractive as a man, not being in a relationship where women treats you as a living wallet (which surely a lot for women do) it is pretty dumb to think most men will think like that. They wants sex where women finds them desirable. Here we are just arguing whether a man is owed sex in a relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:52 PM
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He does have a point tho. You just want to call him a potential grapist. how would you enjoy sex if your partner was obviously distressed and not enjoying it? You’re admitting that you’re fine with raping your partner if you wouldn’t be punished for it? If it is a continuous thing I will leave, why would I grape someone when I can just leave them But as a man if you married to woman who is keen on making you a beta buxx for life and would not even fuck you then there is usually no way other out …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:04 PM
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These women have just as much access to relationships as well. It is significantly easier for a fat woman to get sex and RELATIONSHIP than a fat man to get any. It is almost like fat women would rather be a cum dumpster for the chad than respectfully drop the entitlement and date on her own level. Not only that she would endessly rant about society putting heavy beauty standards on women. I am just using the same logic that women uses to say that expecting sex or kinkier sex or spontaneous attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:26 PM
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The only best approach to dating is realising most women want tall attractive and good looking men to fall for them, chase them and build a life with them and as an average man there is nothing much you can do except being settled for as a beta bux or pay for it every week or be on a dry spell for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:01 PM
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MEN with victim mentality are not desirable, women are doing just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:53 AM
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Not really, just the type of women I know. I would probably never date them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:20 PM
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That's alot high for me personally, you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:18 PM
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That still doesn't mean most men are rapist or have tendency to be one. Yes some could be a bit creepy but even that's because they are poorly specialized. Your case is not unique but it is clearly not the norm as well. If you are scared of most men that's on you and we as men have nothing to prove to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:28 PM
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No gender pay gap exists and it has been proven multiple times. If companies could pay less to a woman for the same job they would simply hire more women. Define unpaid care work. Some women simply love doing it for the family and would never demand money for it. Me taking care of my kids is not unpaid work that government should pay me for. I made that kid and it is my duty to provide him. If you man works and brings in money it is dumb to expect that he will put in the same work as you at home…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:21 PM
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I would avoid men in a dark alleys too. What I won't do is avoid men at workplace or colleges or any other places like that. You are just paranoid if you believe that men working jobs and making decent pay or even living pay check to check would throw all that away for just one non consensual fuck and would ruin their lives for that. Also, when it comes to dating a lot of women just flock towards men who already receive massive attention from women and when things don't work out in your favour y…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:42 AM
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Mention one thing that you cannot do as a woman in today's day and time. You can abort your kid. You have safe heaven laws and simply abandon your kid. You get special privileges during hiring or admission. You can do anything a man can if you are lacking even now then it is a skill issue and not societal one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:33 AM
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Whatever your sufferings are, a black man's suffering is mostly twice of yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:30 AM
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Avoid taking dark alleys, empty buses, going to strange places or dating men with reputation of being violent or having a criminal history behind them. But if you are specifically attracted to such men then that's on you and it is good if you take yourself out of the gene pool. Men have the highest mortality rate and are more likely to be murdered but we don't see men bitching about how unsafe the world is. Crime will always be there and it is a dumb belief that you can make earth 100% rape free…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:27 AM
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Women achieved whatever equality they wanted a long time ago. Now your average women wants the privileges of the top few percent of men i.e holding more wealth, more institutional power and having access to large pool of men slaving away for them, paying for their healthcare, paid period leaves and funding women's issues over mens not only that a majority of them would want men to fight and die for them in battles while they escape to first world countries just to continue with their normal life…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:12 AM
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You are screaming into a void. Women do not care whether you approach them or not. They can date, have sex and relationships on their own will, they just have to make themselves available on an app or at a social gathering. Most women drop hints that attractive men are able to pick on because of their experience with women, most men do not get any signals so they believe that it's them who need to initiate everything coupled up with the fact that the internet keeps telling them that it's just a …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:03 PM
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Are you looking for an emotionally intelligent reply ? How can I know ? Is there any course that one needs to do to be in a relationship ? I am 22 with 0 relationship experience. The best I can do is comfort my girlfriend if she feels negative about something, listen to her and maybe cook her something (women love food ig) that's all I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 05:20 PM
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The message is loud and clear to most men, you are just arguing for the same of arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 01:04 PM
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Hmm, why not lol ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 11:45 AM
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Most men I know who are single aren't single because they are all society stunned basement dwellers who play video games all day. Most of us are pretty average in all aspects of our life, college educated, stable jobs and average height. Most of us are in our mid 20s with low to no relationship experience at all. The difference between the lifestyle of an average woman and me and my friends is not that vast but when it comes to relationships (casual or LTR) or NSA sex you will realise that most …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 06:24 AM
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Which just proves my point, egalitarian relationships don't work, you need to be better than the woman most of the time, it is something that feminists do support cause it just makes them look fair and positive in society. Most leftist women who hate capitalism, CEO or corporation will leave no stone unturned to actually get with a man who succeeds under capitalism (corporate executives, bankers or CEOs) which should be a prime example of what women say vs what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 05:18 AM
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I mean, again - you're literally saying the same thing over and over, that you're worried about being alone. Perhaps a chat with a GP might be worthwhile? Never said that. I just said be the prize in a relationship or take no relationship at all over being a placeholder. When one person in a relationship has more options than you, they are going to use that advantage and your relationship is at the mercy of that person, in most scenarios that person is always the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 05:09 AM
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And not a guy who just tells everyone what to do all the time Not what I mean as well. Women want men who earn more than them because once the baby comes in they are going to need a man who provides. An egalitarian relationship where both make the same doesn't help her with that. She cannot leave her job as well due to massive degradation in lifestyle. It is only a matter of time before a better man comes up and replaces you. Women having a bunch of options can rarely allow them to be exclusive …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 05:05 AM
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Women are more than happy to play the submissive role in the relationship, men are told to be dominant and lead. The problem is if everything is equal then the man is not really the one who leads it is a completely equal relationship which results in the attraction dying faster because women can't escape their biology to submit to a better man. She needs to wake up and pay her own bills and contribute equally which makes her feel trapped and thus results in exhaustion most of the time. Hence the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 03:16 PM
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You can do everything right and still end up as the one betrayed better to play the "I am the prize" role in a relationship than to be stuck with a woman who can leave you and find someone better anyways cause you were already in the same league as her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 03:10 PM
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Appreciate your optimism but I as a man don't really like the idea of marrying a woman just for the sake of marriage. Most relationships are heavily skewed in favour of women, a woman can easily walk away with half your wealth and with a better man if she wants. There is literally nothing you can do except blame the system and get called an incel for it. Casual relationships are much better but of course reserved for chads, i would rather try being a chad and get some of the experience of NSA se…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 03:00 PM
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Yes it has, if the man was already better than her then the attraction would be much greater and could defend his position greatly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 02:35 PM
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Women hold immense leverage in relationships now. They might say that they are done with men but that is truly not the case, most of the time it is the same roaster of men rotating in a girl's group. They might not be in a romantic relationship but they still get the validation and physical intimacy from these men, these men are mostly athletes and genetically gifted in some way. A tall friend of mine really just shows up and has all the attention he wants, most average men are literally like no…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 02:33 PM
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Yes. Women sharing FWBs don't happen right ? There is a famous saying among men who are players "Once you get one, you get them all"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 02:21 PM
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Yes at least someone who gets it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 02:15 PM
-3

Women actively seek out men who will be the dominant one in the relationship and will lead. In fact a lot of women are willing to go through a lot of disrespect if the guy is chad enough. Even if a woman is a CEO, she still craves submission to a better man. Women's biggest enemy is their own biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 02:10 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 02:06 PM
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Maybe a more good looking man with a better status ? You need to be in control as a man cause if you are not then it is mostly the woman in control of the future of your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:54 PM
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Not really, which is why a lot of men wonder where they went wrong, cause mostly they didn't and the man simply ran out of his usefulness cause a better man showed up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:52 PM
-2

A man can do everything right but still lose the relationship to another man who was just better (looks, income or status). Women, in their twisted minds, will always find one way or another to switch the blame of failure of relationship on the men, something that society supports her for. Hence why a 6 can get with a 7 but a 6 getting with a 6 can one day might show up in resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 11:33 AM
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Nothing red flag about it lol. These men are flooded with options if they are attractive and rich enough, and yes that includes liberal feminist women. Just go to any college lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:33 AM
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Because they do not work lol. A 6 will get a 7 if she can, no matter how many 5 or 6 care about her and how egalitarian their relationship is. Men are on the losing side of the relationship even if it is completely egalitarian
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:24 AM
-1

That's a legitimate fear lol. Cannot trust anyone these days. A 6 can get a 7 and if the situation arises she will get one and you as a man will be left alone no matter how hard you were in love, better prioritise yourself and be as much selfish as you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:01 AM
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How do you even j**k off to this ? It happens all the time, women reward confident and competent men in the dating market, men with these qualities are competitive and need to have a winning mindset, a mindset that is often found in men who succeed under capitalism, not socialist or communist who keep crying for welfare. If that wasn't true then explain why are white men the most desired of all races ? Why do women (be it white, asian, brown or black) keep hating on white men all the time but wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:51 AM
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All women are capable of this lol. Modern or trad doesn't matter. But at least trad women do claim that they are hypergamous and choose accordingly but modern women will choose an egalitarian relationship only to feel they are getting the shorter end of the stick to get with a man who makes twice the current partner. If she, a six, has the option to get a 7 she will upgrade and replace the man who is already on her level at everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:45 AM
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A woman who is an equal to a man in everything will never be attracted to him lol. The feeling of I can do better that will always be there (better could be anything-- income, looks, height etc). These relationships are fragile and men literally have zero leverage cause they are not being flooded by women who want them but women are being flooded by men who want them, all it takes is just one better man to come up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:38 AM
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Women happily submit to men better than them lol. At the end of the day, most women crave submission to a man they feel they are inferior to. They are literally the most beta out there lol. Even the most outspoken liberal women will submit to a high value man. Ever ran into a group of feminist college girls who hated capitalism, CEOs or billionaires lol, do you know who they get married to at the end ? Same corporate executives, startup CEOs or men who succeed under capitalism not the men who cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:34 AM
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Logical take. You are in a relationship with a woman who is your equal in everything even then she will have more options than you, something that will give her the privilege to not be in it for the rest of her life, something she can discard if a good enough option comes up later in life. An option that gives you a better life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:56 AM
-1

Well, what if a better man shows up and offers commitment, then who is the one losing ? That is legit fear most men should have. You are just a few swipes away from being replaceable. Either monitor your position carefully or lose the game altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:39 AM
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Because she doesn't have to put up with it if she changes her mind. The relationship is at the mercy of women. She splits because she doesn't have a better option now, the moment a better option comes up, she would happily grab on to that if no kids are involved. Not only that, a sudden layoff is a sureshot divorce. Going 50-50 is rarely an option for most women, they still like to be with men who are superior to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:27 AM
-4

In a relationship where both parties are 6, women can still bag a 7 or an 8 by being more submissive (something a lot of women would do for the right guy)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:17 AM
-10

A fastfood chain manager who makes 60K a year should be marrying another fastfood chain manager who makes as much. But women inherently have the power to marry up in most scenarios, she is not marrying her looks match manager but her looks match engineer, lawyer or a doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:05 AM
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Having a woman who would not have given you a time of her day when you were a nobody in your 20s and now she wants marriage with you in her 30s is not a flex. It is basically another way of saying "you can serve me now and I might give you duty sex" Also if my status can attract many hot girls i would use that to my advantage especially if I want NSA sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:01 AM
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Plenty of people work like that, someone's uncle got them a job over here few days ago and I don't think it is a big deal. Also he has given 1 girl an internship like that and she is quite dumb as well so that's the only way she can get a job seems easy for her though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:41 AM
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If you can find someone at 20 then it is best to commit but the problem is most men don't have any game until they are financially well off and the struggle is over and it's time to eat the fruit of his hardship. What's the point of pairing off so soon when you can finally enjoy and explore life and commit to a much younger and attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:34 AM
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One has to pay one way or another. Also he doesn't have to commit and girls around him are impressed by his position and money. He has a great network and he can help them in getting a job and internship seems like a good relationship to me. Idk why women here are being so rude and jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:26 AM
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How would he if he is not looking for a relationship ? He is looking for casual and is able to bang 3 attractive women through his status. It is a win
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:10 PM
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These women believe he can help them move forward in their career. They like him as a mentor and are fine haveing NSA Sex with him which is consensual. The girls themselves have ulterior motives and the man has his too. Either both are equally guilty or no one is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:24 PM
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Are you implying 3 women consciously making a decision to sleep with a man they are attracted to for his status are prostitutes ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:35 PM
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Choosing the best he could. 3 young and hot FWBs who will fuck you just for paying for date or a trip. Sign me up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:25 PM
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Why does genuine love always show up when the guy's struggle is over and it is time to eat the fruit of his hardship ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:23 PM
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Hypothetically If he dated a woman his age he would still have to go through the traditional route of paying for dates and trips and might have to wait for sex as well. Might invest where it is worth it right ? Also he is an experienced dude, girls around him values that and he gets to bang them i don't see a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:19 PM
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We have to play the cards we have dealt with right ? Everyone is selfish and obv does not care about what other people think considering he has faced enough rejection he simply does not care about whether he is being genuinely liked or not. Mean people exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:16 PM
-2

Nothing bad if the girl is attractive enough
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:58 PM
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3 FWBs ? Me and my friends cannot even get a text back lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:57 PM
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If life gave you an option to be a betabux are you picking a 30 year old or a 24 year old ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:56 PM
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I don't think he is sad and lonely. I wouldn't be sad if I had 3 young girls sucking my dick yk. Maybe cause men don't desire commitment as much as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:17 PM
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The arrangement works fine for him. He told me he can reject them from the job as well if they don't fit the requirements, it is not an obligation for him to givethem a job, most women just hope that if they will be good enough he will keep them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:16 PM
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I feel like he is getting what he wants from the arrangement and does not really have to put the burden of keeping the relationship on his shoulder. You know if one goes away another hits him up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:59 PM
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SE Asian. A good job, a house and a car makes you look quite successful here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:47 PM
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He never explicitly mentioned it cause Ig he doesn't want to sound like an incl or misogynist. But he was more focused on status maxxing and stuff cause he is not in the best shape
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:33 PM
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I will keep it simple, a friendship of 25 years will always be more valuable to me than a woman I have known for not more than 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:04 AM
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Cause I am 22 and I can speak for girls around my age only.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:05 PM
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Yes cause they think they can fix him or they will be special.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:01 PM
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Never said that, I just said men who cheat are still somewhat more attractive to woman than men with no game at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:49 PM
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Have you not heard the phrase "Guys who get girls, get girls" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:27 PM
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Well I can blame pre-selection for that. A lot of women would rather be with a guy who gets women but cheats than be with one who does not get women at all. Women think they can fix him lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:18 PM
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How many men get approached by a model lol. I believe men with options behave just like an average woman. You know they can be picky cause they get tons of options
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:11 PM
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I agree, I am 22 and never been in a relationship ever. I have friends, brother, mom and dad. Whenever I am struggling in life these are the only people I trust that can help me. Since I have never had a woman in my life before i do believe that if a woman comes into my life later when I get my shit together she will be valuable to me but not as valuable as those people i listed above. I feel like it is because these people love me for who I am, my success or failure doesn't matter to them and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:05 PM
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If one cannot get sex the best thing he can do is observe and study people who are having it, try to get a pattern out of it, i consider all these pills to be this only. Blue pillers who are mostly women ig seems to be the most delusional around these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:30 PM
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I am 22 and started balding so I guess maybe it is kind of important to me. You know it is hard to live life when everyone keeps telling you to have a stable job, a home, offer stability and women will come. I mean no one wants to be loved for things they provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:15 PM
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Sex is hard to get for me i don't know about most men but if I am getting it, it would be an achievement for me atleast
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:10 PM
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Well you are on a sub where people only discuss sex and relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:59 PM
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