NoRefrigerator4969 Archive

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28	Never go on Dinner Dates Probably an unpopular opinion, but dinner dates are great. Just not for first dates. You need to establish a connection and physical attraction first. Dinner dates are great for getting deeper and building rapport. You can also physically escalate even when sitting across from each other. My number one way is to feed her. Also touch her hands or legs under the table. Just calibrate based on the mood. But it depends on the goal too. Do you want to get to know the person and explore a relationship…	/r/seduction	05/05/24 02:26 PM
11	25M bout to get laid for the first time. Need help Get some Cialis so you don’t get performance anxiety.	/r/seduction	23/04/24 12:36 AM
3	Wow. If your place was a mess as you suggest, she probably had a sobering up moment. When you get to your place the next time, make sure it smells good and is clean. No dirty dishes, etc. Put on some music the moment you get home. Make it fun. If she came back to your place, congrats you built attraction. The next step is rapport and comfort before escalating. She didn’t feel those things. Learning moment.	/r/seduction	19/04/24 10:28 AM
20	Need some real, ACTUAL pointers for getting more Second Dates. “She’s doing most of the talking” Means she’s carrying the date and you’re being too boring. You need to lead, escalate, change venues, go for the close.	/r/seduction	12/04/24 09:13 PM
1	Me (31M) and my friend (27F) behave as if we were a couple, yet she is adamant about us having a romentic relationship and I don't know what to expect Turn her into a pivot/wingman/friend or cut her. Those are your two options.	/r/seduction	03/04/24 04:00 AM
1	How to pull of a threesome? Find a female wingman	/r/seduction	02/04/24 05:28 AM
66	Tips on what to say to her in bed/talk her through it? First off, find something authentic to you. You want to be as comfortable as possible and in the moment. Second, make sure if you’re going to talk dirty to really enjoy yourself and get into it. It’s about being uninhibited and anything is better than being self conscious. With that being said, my go to move has always been to just morph into a werewolf. No words. Just fucking pure animal sounds 😂	/r/seduction	31/03/24 12:34 PM
1	It feels like the seduction community was in its prime 10 years ago and now there are hardly any personalities Bingo	/r/seduction	27/03/24 11:37 AM
2	What sexting/seductive messages do you use ? Have you guys already had sex?	/r/seduction	27/03/24 06:12 AM
2	My Friend Keeps cock blocking I’ve had a couple of friends like this. It’s likely Borderline Personality Disorder from my experience. Essentially he’s afraid of losing you. The thing with people like this is that it never ends well… Ironically by trying to keep you to himself, he’ll end up losing you. My advice is to stay away and be on the lookout for these traits in other friends you make with time.	/r/seduction	27/03/24 05:18 AM
2	Need advice on escalating? Typically the reaction I’m going for in this situation is for the girl to try and bump or hit me back so talking shit in a fun way works really well for that	/r/seduction	27/03/24 12:38 AM
5	It feels like the seduction community was in its prime 10 years ago and now there are hardly any personalities That actually seems cheap for a few months. 3 day event price seems crazy high. Most of the improvements people see are from adopting the right beliefs, micro-changes to communication, and then long term improvements to life situation, real life experiences, etc.	/r/seduction	26/03/24 04:20 AM
33	It feels like the seduction community was in its prime 10 years ago and now there are hardly any personalities I was in PU back in 2003 in the mASF days and the community was on fire with the real time learnings. Everyone was figuring it out as they went but the community was all looking for real world results. Not sure if anything like that exists currently but it’s certainly not here. It’s not for a lack of people wanting help, but it also feels like most people these days want an easy button.	/r/seduction	26/03/24 04:11 AM
16	Need advice on escalating? There are probably a ton of articles out there but it’s all about slow escalation until you decide to make out with her. Some examples could be as simple as: omg, you have tiny little elf hands, and then measure them to yours palm reading (make it up, be funny, who cares) just a friendly bump while walking side by side (saying something like, “wtf. Get out of my way…” obviously tongue in cheek. shit even something as goofy as you have something on your shirt and then raise your finger across her…	/r/seduction	26/03/24 02:23 AM
2	Womanizer vs traditional man 👆	/r/seduction	21/03/24 01:37 AM
64	What do you do the next day after a one night stand? Text her immediately (like an 30 minutes later) and tell her you had a great time. She’ll say “me too!” and now she can never come back and say it wasn’t consensual. Then you can ghost her, follow up later, etc.	/r/seduction	19/03/24 06:23 AM
1	I can't seem to secure a woman Sounds cliche, but girls just wanna have fun.	/r/seduction	19/03/24 06:02 AM
5	Travelling and a girl She wasn’t turned on with how you were escalating.	/r/seduction	25/02/24 01:23 AM
4	How to seduce someone you are in the friendzone with Well first thing I’d do is not think they’re going to make a move ha. But if you must know.. Girl older than me became more flirtatious as time went on. It almost became a running joke I’d pull on her that when she would touch me, I’d lean into “hey we’re just friends, no touching” (ie reversing the frame and DHV). I never let the rejection get to me at all, hence we actually were friends. We hooked up at a party that I threw for her before she was moving out of state. It ended up being a great …	/r/seduction	20/02/24 02:41 PM
9	How to seduce someone you are in the friendzone with I agree with everything everyone is saying, however, I’ve successfully done it a few times. Once with a coworker and once with someone who lived at my apartment complex (who was also 5 years older than I was). Both times, I was friend zoned but moved on. I did become actual friends with them with zero intention of hooking up. We hung out regularly, worked out, went to parties together, etc but I was living my own life, dating, etc. It’s possible but you have to move on 100%. Meaning, if there’s …	/r/seduction	19/02/24 07:08 PM
5	It's really that simple.. Just be playful	/r/seduction	18/02/24 02:12 PM
4	How do I get better at reading dating intentions? I got married this way. It was never my intention to do so (in the short term). Just by getting out there and knowing you won’t settle, you may surprise yourself. Most women date this way too. They are looking for something serious but that doesn’t mean they won’t have fun dating around until they find something that’s a good long term fit. Thats just the nature of the dating scene. You don’t have to have this conversation. It takes care of itself naturally.	/r/seduction	09/02/24 02:38 AM
2	Underestimated the struggle of initiating staying the night. This. Also, what cool things do you have at your place that would be fun to show and tell. i.e. record collection, view, etc. Even something as dumb as a board game has worked for me. If you escalate and drop hints about some thing you want to show her it makes for a smooth transition or follow up on day 2.	/r/seduction	08/02/24 12:16 PM