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She did deny the request and move on. The woman who posted it is a friend, and she did it to explain why she no longer dates
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:11 AM
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Will grow out of what? Liking attractive boys??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:35 PM
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Why do u think Ryan gosling is hot? I always see him used as an example by men but like… I don’t know a single woman who finds him attractive, including myself
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:33 PM
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So women shouldn’t be scared of angry men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:24 PM
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Sure. I just wouldn’t want that for myself
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:50 PM
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U were in a 7-year relationship with someone who you knew you didn’t want forever with, while she had plans/hopes for more
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:23 PM
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Sorry to hear about that childhood experience. If my bf said that, I wouldn’t think there is “something wrong with him” but I would be concerned. I would ask him why bc that would make me curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:57 PM
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This is a horror story 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:38 PM
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Hmm. I don’t think most people think about it the way you do. The difficulty and awkwardness honestly isn’t thought about. Like, I’m not the most confident person, but when I became undressed during my first time, the fact that he was going to see me naked didnt cross my mind at all tbh. Are you an overthinker? Do you not like being perceived? Do you wear a shirt in the water at the beach?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:29 AM
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Wait, do u actually believe this mind blockage you have is widely applicable to people?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:03 AM
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If a woman says she uses toys daily, is able to orgasm on her own, then went on to say that she is unable to orgasm while with another person because of anxiety and a mind blockage, then yeah I would say it’s bc of her using toys and not having familiarity with another person. If a friend told me this, I would absolutely tell her to seek help, not “those guys just didn’t know what they were doing”. It almost seems like this person has had “sex” with themselves so much that, in their mind, it’s a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:01 AM
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Grammar school is just elementary school, afaik
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:36 AM
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Women have more power to determine relationships?? But I thought we’re all stupidly pining for the same top men while they use and discard us until they choose a Stacy with whom to live forever and ever with? 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:39 PM
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🫪 how much will all of that cost? Edit: nvm I see in the above comment But it sounds like some of that is necessary for quality of life improvement, so I hope it goes well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:33 PM
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> Can we please stop equating unattractive men and overweight women? Yeah, I don’t get this logic. I feel like men came up with the whole “overweight women are bottom of the barrel” thing bc they don’t want to seem desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:00 PM
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You know what.. good for you! I’m glad men are started to feel the pressure to look appealing to women. About time things equalized around here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:09 PM
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What operations are you getting?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:43 PM
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No, not like a car or dog. Like a person who has expectations of what their partner should provide, just like you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:41 AM
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Women are expensive. Pick one you can afford and stop complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:23 PM
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Why are you contradicting yourself so much? In your post, you acknowledge that there are men who say that “men only care about sex”. The commenter replied that women are not claiming to know what men are thinking or want, we are just relaying what the men tell us themselves. Then u respond saying that “I’ve never heard a man saying ‘I only want sex’”. What is so confusing about this?? If you want women to not believe that men only want sex, then address the men who say that’s what they want. Let…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:57 PM
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Do these replies sound like AI to anyone else? 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:25 PM
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You think most women are worst than incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:12 PM
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Ummm what 😟. What type of person do you want and what makes u not good enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:28 PM
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Hm ok. You do you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:20 PM
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And your takeaway from that ordeal is that casual sex is better than relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:26 PM
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What happened with your ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:10 AM
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Just making conversation, as one does on PPD 🙂 And you said you’ll be single for life, so I thought maybe that could be avoided with an outside view
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:53 PM
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What were the things u didn’t like about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:24 PM
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What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:41 PM
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So, change their standards and/or preferences. Do you think how attractive a man is to a woman would affects how much pleasure she gets from intercourse with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:08 PM
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So what actions do you propose men and women take to resolve the orgasm gap? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:35 PM
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> doesnt go out getting drunk in bars Such a random inclusion. But anyway, when the kids are older and she decides to go back to work, is she still doing the majority of housework? What if you two divorce, how are assets split? Do you contribute to retirement accounts on her behalf while she’s not working? Does she get to use the money in the joint account on things for just herself like a new bag, or tickets to a show with her friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:15 PM
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What rights of straight men need advancing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:06 PM
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What does traditional mean to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:58 PM
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What are normal prices?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:40 PM
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“Or do you just not want us, and are trying to keep us away?” 🔔 You got it! Now act accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:09 PM
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Oh, so this post is about having sex with women. Not dating them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:22 AM
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Almost everything involves money
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:49 AM
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What is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:10 AM
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With the title he was close to acknowledging a disadvantage women face. But then went in the complete other direction with his post
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:45 AM
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Men used to see a hot woman and fantasize about sleeping with her. Now they see a hot woman and fantasize about Chad sleeping with her and get angry
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:40 PM
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You were thissss 🤏 close. Maybe next time…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:17 PM
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I don’t get what’s so hard about seeing and not objectifying
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:40 PM
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When you realize that men villainize women based on their own thoughts a lot of what they say make sense. “Women manipulate men and use sex as a reward” -> that’s what they would do “Women travel to hook up with people” -> that’s what they would do (absolutely insane btw) “Women use abortions to freely have sex with Chad with no repercussions” 😭 -> that’s what they would do “Women use their childbearing abilities to manipulate men into getting what they want” -> that’s what they would do Quite l…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:59 PM
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Ask OP
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:42 PM
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Ok, so now I see why men say women abort bc they “don’t want to deal with the consequences of their actions.” They don’t think of the resulting child
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:44 AM
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It’s not about helping anyone really. Just about worsening women’s lives, which is what he thinks it will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:31 AM
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You think the only reason women choose to have abortions is because they don’t want to deal with pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:26 AM
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What he said makes no sense. If women choose, how is not choosing someone a failure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:00 PM
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So, should more men be single than women? Or do you expect that the chads have multiple girlfriends/wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:42 AM
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😂😂 not gonna happen buddy. You’re bottom of the totem pole, so settle in
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:31 AM
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Bc men are easy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:54 PM
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No. You can’t predict human behavior and tastes based on numbers and statistics. This is exactly why you get posts from men on here saying “I’m average height with an average amount of hair follicles, why don’t women love me like my calculations say they should?! ☹️” If most women say they would date a 5’8 man and most women say they would date a bald man, that does not mean that most women would date a bald 5’8 man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:08 AM
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Men are not the prize!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:06 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:03 PM
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How will doing something that requires coordination pay off?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:03 PM
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How does height affect coordination?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:17 PM
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This is so real, the trying to appeal to as many women as possible. Working against them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:31 PM
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That last sentence is wild 😂. But I guess you’re the parent the black/red-pilled men on here wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:37 PM
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Your gut friends in tech probably look awkward or “off” in their photos
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:31 PM
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Do you see ugly women with men all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:28 PM
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So every time you see someone wearing shorts 5in long, or shorter, you see a piece of meat?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:05 PM
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What was your daughter wearing when she chose to dress like a piece of meat?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:31 AM
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Unfortunately, it’s scary to do that cus it’s unsafe 😢 Whenever I get approached in a lewd way, I still smile and say something pleasant because I’m so scared he’ll hurt me. Afterwards I always feel bad that I didn’t do/say something to show that what he did was wrong, but I was just trying to make sure I get home alive, ya know? ☹️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:47 PM
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I literally just listed an example. All cruise ships (that I’m aware of) that are family-oriented have nightclubs for the children and where children are allowed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:34 PM
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Wow, this man has fully ascended beyond all pills and now has the mentality of the average woman. Welcome, make yourself at home 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:33 PM
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Yes. Which is why they have clubs without alcohol that children are allowed in, most notably, on cruises
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:04 PM
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TIL that being visible to men is advertising yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:51 PM
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Wait… when did traveling become something that people do to hookup (barring passport bros)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:30 PM
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No, bc that would be unfair to my exes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:51 PM
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She’s a 10 (physically), but is a feminist. What is she now?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:19 PM
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Not necessarily do better, but they should make changes somewhere along the dating pipeline. That’s what I would advise my friends to do. Whether that’s in how they find the men, or in how they present themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:55 PM
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You asked a question, don’t get upset if the answer isn’t what you wanted 🤷‍♀️ women shouldn’t change anything about themselves if they’re getting the results they want
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:52 PM
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I know. My response was “no they shouldn’t, because they don’t have to”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:44 PM
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No, they don’t have to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:23 PM
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You equate a feminist to a gang member?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:47 PM
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What’s the compromise in a situation where one doesn’t want to do a sexual act and the other does? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:39 AM
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What tools did TRP give you to deal with your gf not being as enthusiastic about sex as you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:37 AM
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The cognitive dissonance is strong with this one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:35 AM
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Your “hear me out” is your wife? 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:10 AM
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Not every relationship has problems
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:05 PM
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How is it more difficult?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:47 PM
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What do u want from a long term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:07 AM
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Then it seems like this is a matter of self-actualization and ambition. Yes, some people don’t care how they look, what others say about them, or how they are perceived. While others always try to be the best
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:58 AM
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I guess what I’m trying to get at is why the condition for “failure” is not getting a woman to be romantically interested in you. Why is that the only “result” you are looking for. Regarding your last sentence, who is telling you to do these things to get a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:53 AM
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They are valid and logical
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:31 PM
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For himself… it’s really sad that you asked that question. Do men only improve for the chance at access to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:10 PM
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For a lot of women, it’s just not worth it anymore to enter a relationship if the guy isn’t a “top man”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:27 PM
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How are they oppressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:02 AM
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Someone’s been watching too much Bridgerton 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:52 AM
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After you have sex in the foreign country, then what? Will you feel as if your sexual quest has been completed?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:20 PM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:17 PM
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That’s almost every post on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:18 PM
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No one. They are unlovable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:21 AM
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It’s victim blaming because they say that the men treated her poorly because of her attributes and not just bc they were bad with bad intentions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:09 AM
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This is not a good analogy. OP said date what you want, not date people who are the same as you. If a poor woman wants to date a rich man, then date rich men that also want to date you, simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:55 PM
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You don’t have to do any of that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:04 PM
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Whenever the topic is brought up I voice my opinion on how much I detest pickles and being served them. Just like how I voice my opinion on being cold approached
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:04 AM
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Yeah, I should also criticize people who like pickles on their burgers, because their demand results in more restaurants serving burgers with pickles and I don’t like them 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 04:25 AM
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What about it is exhausting? Do your dates involve more than meeting someone, doing something together, then going back home?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 04:08 AM
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They even write books about this stuff 😵‍💫 just talk to women like you do your friends, it’s not a science
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 04:00 AM
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I looksmaxx Pack it up…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 03:46 AM
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Call them out for what? Liking something they don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 03:32 AM
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😂 what are you even saying. You are applying a law that exists in your location to the entire globe. That’s why it doesn’t need defending against.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:33 AM
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or get abortions Then no one is having the child. Which isn’t the scenario we are talking about. You keep adding various situations to the discussion. Simply put: a child being brought into the world requires sacrifice from the mother, but does not require sacrifice from the father. Regardless of laws, geography, age, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 09:23 PM
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Was your dad a chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 07:40 PM
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😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 07:34 PM
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Yes, if a man cares for his children he makes sacrifices. Not all men care for their children. Therefore, having a child that you are the father to doesn’t have to be sacrificial for men. What women’s mindset am I projecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 01:27 AM
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I don’t think I’ll ever get bored of traveling. And having kids is inherently sacrificial for women, whereas it doesn’t have to be for men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:02 PM
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I think most men want to be depended on
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:13 PM
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Do you prefer for him to not work?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:13 PM
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What things do u avoid for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:12 PM
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Oh my! I’m glad you made it out to tell the story 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:45 AM
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Is there any empathy for women’s dating problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:19 AM
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How did you meet her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:08 PM
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Stop trying to gaslight women into liking you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:58 AM
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You aren’t trying to date a woman though, you’re looking for casual sex 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:16 PM
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What is this agreement?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:44 PM
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Sure. The post discusses transmaxxers so i thought the original comment was referring to that. But yeah, I don’t think being born a woman is the same as being trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:30 PM
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If she wanted to spend 6 months on a voyage around the world visiting 30 countries, would you fund it supposing it costs ~$25k? Would you spend $4k on a new bag she wants? Would you spend $500 each month on new crockery, to fuel her new hobby? Would you pay $120k for an mba degree she is aiming for?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:26 PM
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You support your partner fully?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:17 PM
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You can be transgender as a trial, and cross dress
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:14 PM
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Women don’t think they would have a better life as a man because of goals. They think this way because of how they are treated compared to men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:09 PM
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You think being “dependent” on your job to give you a paycheck after working is the same as being dependent on a man to provide your needs and desires?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:08 PM
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No one should be taught how to treat their parents. People treat others as well as they care about them. And we accept the love we think we deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:07 AM
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How did they accidentally teach us that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:56 AM
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Twice a month is low libido 😭😭🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:16 AM
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🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:01 AM
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You’re talking about something different than what is being discussed in the post. Op is talking about dating. Parents who prefer male children are not hoping to birth a man who they will then date. Those parents who have committed sex-selective abortions usually do it bc they live in societies where men have more opportunities. So having a boy-child gives them a greater chance of their family prospering. If they only have a girl, they will have to rely on their daughter’s future mate being ambi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:56 AM
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Idk. You’re gonna have to ask him. I didn’t ask him to go on the date
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:07 PM
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Your own explanations prove you wrong. The fact that women are desired just by being, yet the men have to accumulate resources. Women are more coveted
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:48 PM
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Why wouldn’t you date your match? You’re not following the rules 😡. How dare you?!! This is exactly what’s wrong with the world. People like you who don’t know to stay in your lane. Don’t you know the skinny petite women are for short skinny men. You’re not allowed to be attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:57 PM
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For what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:04 AM
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Soo… if you gained weight, you would naturally start to find heavier women more attractive in addition to the skinny women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:21 AM
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So use this as an opportunity to explain yourself. What do you actually mean by “attracted to their match”?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:54 AM
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Men, please chime in and let me know if this is how you think, or if it is just this one guy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:48 AM
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So… if you gained weight, you would naturally start to be attracted to heavier women, and less attracted to skinnier women?? Why do so many people on this sub think it works like this 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:46 AM
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what are you supposed to do? Nothing. I don’t have to do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 05:24 PM
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Omg. Why are people still replying to this. Am I reddit famous? 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:21 AM
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How is that difficult? Good food and good conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:15 AM
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Well then the same can be said in reverse. Since every action is a reflection of who a person is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:08 AM
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You’ve never heard of, or read of, a man not liking a woman after a date? Not even here on reddit? On this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:37 AM
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I enjoy a date if the food was good and the conversation flowed well. Oh, and if he paid 😊 So, no awkward silences, he didn’t say anything weird, I didn’t say anything weird, he didn’t do anything weird, I didn’t do anything weird. Even if I decided that we’re not compatible, I probably still enjoyed the date if those conditions were met.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:25 AM
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How’d you arrive at this conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:22 AM
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It is easily believable if they were tall
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 04:16 AM
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😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 04:15 AM
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Omg! I found you in another post 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:06 AM
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So, according to you: men were able to date above their league in the past, and women are able to date above their league today. So what’s the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:05 AM
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Hmm. Then I think you’re in a good spot to help her achieve that since you’ve been through marriage. In fact, while you’re here, what do you think woman should do if they are marriage-minded? As in, what approach should they take in dating: only enter relationships with people who match exactly what they’re looking for in a husband and want the same things, or date more freely in the hopes that one of their relationships will progress to marriage? What signs could your wife have noticed that wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:56 AM
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If you had no kids, do you think you would feel the same way they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:51 AM
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But if you dated her a some point then she hasn’t always been alone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:47 AM
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What was the woman grieving? What are most single women around your age struggling with?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:25 AM
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How old are you? If you don’t mind me asking
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:27 PM
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Ironic that you wrote this since the original comment of the one you’re replying to says “dates are always just a chore that gets in the way of sex”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 09:40 AM
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What’s wrong with wanting to travel or have a luxurious lifestyle? Is it just that you don’t like those things, or do you think they are inherently bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 12:10 AM
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don’t get with an addict 😂 where do u people live that these things need to be said?? 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 12:09 AM
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No, this is not uncommon. I’ve see this in men who are not religious at all, and have dating histories
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 12:07 AM
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it’s not worth living his life to the fullest This is such a leap from what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:05 PM
1

It’s not enough that he’s taller than most women, he has to also be taller than most men. It helps keep them at bay when we’re out and about
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:45 AM
2

I’m not like most girls 🌺
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:38 AM
1

Tall (6’2+), fit, making at least 150k/yr, speaks more than one language, short hair, well groomed teeth and fingers, advanced degree, affectionate, caring, thoughtful, socially adept, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:19 AM
1

This sounds more like “thinking you can only be happy with this one person”. They mistakenly thought that this person was the only one for them, and stay in the abusive relationship because they don’t think anyone else can make them happy. I’m sorry but I have literally never heard of what you’re talking about. Not in movies, not in real life. I’ve never heard anyone say or suggest that they will be happy in a relationship with anybody 😭. And also, if you think this is a common mistake women mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:41 AM
1

I don’t get how this relates to your comment. You said “it’s a mistake to think you’ll be happy ‘with anyone’.” If someone is staying in a bad relationship because they don’t want to be alone. Then they don’t think they can be happy with anyone, otherwise they would leave the relationship to be with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:02 AM
2

I haven’t heard of that notion. Is it a common belief among women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:35 AM
-2

What are u even talking about? 😂 throw what in where?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 01:50 AM
-2

I mean that if the men were more confident, they wouldn’t be concerned with their gf’s past sexual partners or be worried about being compared to them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:44 PM
1

Lolololol. how does that work out in your mind? A lower body count means you care less about height and other physical attributes??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:42 PM
-2

Low body count does not mean no baggage. And high body count doesn’t mean a lot of baggage. As for comparison. Idk have higher self esteem and dconfidence
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 02:42 AM
2

Money has utility, that’s why people have expectations and standards surround it. How does a woman having low body count benefit the man in the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:21 PM
1

Oooo, drama! 🤭 I would like to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:54 AM
1

Nah. I wish they self-policed more. Then we wouldn’t have as many idiotic texts from them on places like “am I the asshole”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:52 AM
1

Did you come to America after the war started?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:33 AM
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I know I don’t have to change it. But if that’s what you’re constantly exposed to, that would become your standard
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:27 AM
1

Idk. That’s the thought that popped into my head when I read that. It doesn’t harm me physically. But it would probably cause me to lower my standards if that was the majority of what I saw everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:36 AM
1

😬😬 I’m glad they don’t go outside much. Can’t stand having to see that everywhere I go 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:55 AM
1

So, you think that first world women are ranked lower globally than first world men. There are no first world men who would do what she did?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:46 AM
1

USA, East coast
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:40 AM
1

Yeah, but he said “all a woman wants”. So he’s on the “only sexual pleasure” side
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:33 AM
3

Oh, you mean average in terms of intelligence. I thought u were talking about appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:11 AM
3

Can you expand on this? How is she bottom 30% worldwide? You think they live in an area with above average men, but average women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:09 AM
1

Chubby is not average 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:07 AM
1

Umm, no. If that was the case then women wouldn’t seek relationships if they were only after sexual pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:06 AM
2

What makes the above-average women non-slutty?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:09 AM
1

Isn’t it the same for you though? I’m sure you don’t like every girl you’ve come into contact with. And when you do like someone, the feelings seemingly come out of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:22 AM
2

You probably just don’t notice the attention
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:16 AM
1

So, why r u red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:11 AM
1

Love that for her!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 07:19 PM
1

👁️👄👁️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 07:07 PM
1

He gets to be seen with me and enjoy my company
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:43 PM
1

I’m one person. My desires aren’t the same as everyone else’s. Maybe you thought you were at your best, but others didn’t see it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:01 AM
-3

I pray every night that we don’t break up 🥺. Ive already become accustomed to his size and, based on what I read in this sub, I don’t think it will be easy finding another man with his endowment. Oh! What’s a girl to do!? 😣😔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:44 AM
3

You think most women wait until they have sex with a man to decide whether or not they like him?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:31 AM
3

I can’t believe I’m agreeing with a red pill on something. It’s true. Women are the primary motivator for men. If a man doesn’t have a woman by his side, he is nothing in the eyes of others. He is incomplete.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:58 AM
2

Why do you think you won’t ever be in a relationship or have a family?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:56 AM
8

I, for one, would welcome a large influx of Russian men to my country 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:52 AM
1

exactly this. Like, what purpose do you serve if in not getting princess treatment. If you’re not paying the bill, handling the doors, providing safe transportation, … I should’ve just went out with my girls and had a good yap session 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:43 AM
1

Umm. It appeals to men because they like taking care of women and providing for them. Why wouldn’t a healthy man want this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:40 AM
8

I think size matters, but not in the way that most men think. It’s not just “bigger is better”, it’s more so what you’re used to. Since I’ve only experienced my bf’s, it skewed my idea of what average is, in size and aesthetics. So when I learned of how other guys look, I reacted poorly in front of my friends because my bf is the standard for me. Then after a discussion (and images 😭😭) I learned that there is a lot more variation. So I think our preferences are shaped by our experiences, specifi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:29 AM
3

Well, why now. After all these years, how have you suddenly learned “the game”?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:28 AM
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Let’s say your photos were the issue. If you still have no luck even after taking professional photos, then it was something else all along. But I think that if you have to pay thousands for a professional to take photos, that means other areas of your life are unfulfilled. It sounds like you don’t have friends who you hang out with, or any social life. Otherwise, you would have at least 6 nice enough photos to supplement your profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:21 AM
3

You’re concerned with losing your virginity, but you are aiming for casual sex with multiple partners. Just saying I think you’re trying to run before you can walk. Additionally, you want to avoid paying for anything, but plan to target gold diggers 🤔 Furthermore, you say that being honest about wanting casual sex leads to women saying they want a relationship then rejecting you. If you say you want a relationship, do you think that women who are looking for relationships will hook up with you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:16 AM
3

Why? Why multiple people and not one person?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:20 AM
3

Let me know if I got this right: you want to regularly have sex with multiple people, and not have regular sex with one person?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:52 AM
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Johnny bravo is hot tho Eww. He looks and acts like those gym-obsessed men who are only focused on their body fat percentage
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:40 AM
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Omg. Is this how men evaluate themselves?? 😭😭 This would explain why I see so many guys on this sub complaining that they’re above average with no prospects 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:37 PM
1

How does that play into placating the rejected men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:41 AM
1

This is how I currently live 😅. My bf and I don’t use any of that stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 06:52 PM
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What are your opinions on the topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 08:22 AM
1

What was success for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:37 PM
2

Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:07 AM
2

You think the sole cause of dead bedrooms is lack of physical attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:38 AM
4

Interesting study. I’m sorry but I find it hilarious that the example you chose was “cleanliness and organizational standards” 😂. I would hope that’s not something men do to just satisfy women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:23 AM
2

Why can’t people admit that different people have different priorities in relationships. You say the women are lying when they say they can get over looks/don’t care about looks. Do you think men are lying when they say they don’t care about a woman’s college degrees or salary? Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:25 AM
1

Ok, so you think widespread female participation in the workforce caused each person to receive “half the pay”. So, if op did not endorse this, and it didn’t come to fruition, then only her bf would have to work in order to afford their lifestyle. So op is now not working, her bf is working, op is doing the chores that she said her bf is good at, her bf is not doing them, and op receives money from her bf to buy anything she wants to buy. If she loses access to her bf’s pay (he breaks up with he…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:57 PM
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Yes, it requires 2 to escalate, I agree. But the language he used makes it seem like it is impossible for the status quo (friendship) to be maintained. By using “can”. Sure, it’s not what one party wants, but it is not the case that it cannot stay the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:46 PM
1

What did she endorse to cause this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:40 PM
10

So, if she is willing to have sex but you don’t actually like her you pump and dump? And if she isn’t willing to have sex you ghost?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:32 PM
3

What are your insights from the threads you read? What did they say?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:29 PM
7

I don’t consider sex as a naturally part of getting to know someone, it’s something you do after you know them. To me at least. So those aren’t the only 2 options
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:27 PM
4

Or…. She’s capable of connecting with someone and enjoying their presence without sex being involved
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:26 PM
4

That’s exactly what it signals, no interest. Now you have your answer 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:20 PM
4

Can you link the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:17 PM
2

a skinny girl is wow a skinny guy is whatever Who decided this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:05 PM
5

This was in response to the man who is upset that some men have casual sex more than others
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:19 PM
1

Half the pay? 🤔 I’m not aware of wages being halved in our society as a whole. They certainly haven’t halved in my industry, so I’ll continue to work to afford what I want. But to continue with your reasoning: so you think the woman should rely on the man financially?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:18 PM
1

So, women shouldn’t work?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:54 PM
7

Then you wouldn’t be complaining that better men get relationships while those that don’t completely fit what she wants gets casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:51 PM
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But why can’t it be platonic? Can the man not control himself or is it certain that he will try to do something sexual with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:50 PM
1

Sex isn’t a reward
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:47 PM
2

Do you value casual sex more than a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:46 PM
0

lol, kinda ironic that you’re once again doing what the top-level comment described
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:29 PM
2

Wdym by “no longer at a state where it can be platonic?” How did it get to that stage?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:50 PM
1

I guess you’re in the camp of men who believe that sex/intimacy comes after the relationship is established. Most men on here want it the other way around, which is what I think OP desires as well
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 06:53 PM
2

I don’t think femcels exist either
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:41 PM
1

Kissing is not hooking up. If my friend told me they hooked up with someone last night, I would not think they just kissed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:34 PM
1

What does your workout look like? I know a lot of guys just lift, but I don’t think that targets fat. I would recommend cardio like running, swimming, and cycling
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:32 PM
3

Princess treatment is not the same as being gay
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:21 PM
1

I agree, a photo will help
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 03:01 AM
1

What was simpish?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 02:58 AM
5

Where do you live? Women don’t use gay as an insult, men do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 07:17 PM
11

This is so specific and unhinged 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:34 AM
1

u/FlamingMetalSystems Please refer to the comments in this post to see that a growing number of men do not want to bring back traditional courting or marriage, nor do they discourage hookup culture
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:54 AM
4

Sooo, committing at 20 makes sense but committing when you’re older doesn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:49 AM
1

Why do you think men who weren’t promiscuous in their youth desire promiscuity when they’re older, while the same isn’t true for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:33 AM
1

ty ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:28 AM
1

Oh my! Is this really how men think? 🙁 Do you look up to the man described in the post and desire his lifestyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:19 AM
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You mean to tell me that this is success according to the red pill? 🤣🤣 Damn, and I actually believed you guys when you said you wanted companionship and to be cared for, not just sex with a woman. Thank you for this post, will be referring to it a lot from now on
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:36 AM
-3

Then this just comes down to a difference in definitions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:57 PM
35

All of your assumptions about “most young women” are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:56 PM
-4

Wait, which personality traits made the list selective? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:42 PM
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What’s disgusting?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:20 PM
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This “woe is me” and “everyone wants me to fail” attitude is exactly why you will never feel the inner warmth of a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:34 PM
0

Omg, I’m learning PPD lore. One of the gang now 😝
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:21 PM
2

did she get the nose job? What happened after? Also, I tell people all the time to be patient. I think it’s good advice
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:18 PM
4

Only if it’s a birkin 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:08 PM
5

How did these anecdotes lead you to believe that “most women” have such a situationship at some point?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:06 AM
3

So she should get married and start a family to have the things associated with them and not for the marriage/kids themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:02 AM
7

Is this what you fantasize about? 😂 how did you even think of this?? 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:32 AM
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My comment wasn’t only about looks either. It was a response to your comment saying that a man with certain attributes is “Probably an 8-9” and speaking of “objective” face cards. The percentiles mean absolutely nothing. A man who has one eye is also under 2%. What does that say about men with one eye? Are they also probably an 8-9? 🤔 And omg, I just read your flair. Now I know why you’re so obsessed with these percentages. Feel free to disregard everything I said, and hang onto that “Top ~10-15…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 08:56 PM
0

Just scooting in here to ask: you think being a virgin past 20 makes you an incel? Very entertaining thread btw, what I like to see when I come on here 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 08:35 PM
1

Smh, they know nothing about us 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 08:19 PM
0

You can’t use math to rate people, it’s completely subjective. My 10s are my friends’ 6s, and their 10s are my 5s… everyone has different tastes and value different things
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 08:19 PM
-2

I will work harder to be worth their time 🥴 why are you working harder for them? Did they tell you they want you to be more of something to be worth their time ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 08:12 PM
3

You posting this is very weird considering your current predicament :/ why did you make the bet with your friend if you felt this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:07 AM
0

The same reason I might get McDonald’s instead of Steak Don’t understand that either it’s the only thing available a lot of times It’s really not. And even if, are you required to sleep with someone? Is anyone forcing you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:28 AM
1

but not a chance in hell now unless I’m just looking to get laid Why even get involved with them at all. You find it offensive that they’re interested in you? Then why stoop to their level? Why perpetuate their “delusion”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 05:15 PM
-1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 05:11 PM
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Blah blah blah… once again all talk and no walk 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 02:16 AM
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Send me your pictures so I can try it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 01:47 AM
5

I get you. I can’t force myself to be attracted to a short or balding man. If everyone on earth died and it was only me and a man under 6’2, I would be the last human to ever live. He would probably kill himself out of loneliness, and I would remain. To live out my last days in solitude 🥀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 01:44 AM
2

Now you would assume it's a sweet story where the dude become rich and get tons of women after graduation Why would we assume that? You said he was a docile dude that lost his personality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:47 AM
6

What r they?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:53 PM
5

Why would she date someone who had to spend so much time with her to figure out if he was interested in a romantic relationship when there are guys who would know immediately. The same way guys don’t like when girls “make them wait” because according to them, they wouldn’t make ‘Chad’ wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 09:00 PM
1

Impossible. Will never happen
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:36 PM
1

But no, men are the gatekeepers of relationships. Remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 01:52 AM
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like girl be fr, many of us women are aching for a male romantic partner and here you are talking about getting a mutt??? 😭😭😭 I’m sorry, but this was a dead giveaway
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:52 PM
1

Which traditional and which progressive values?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:40 AM
1

What does it tell people to do to attract women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 05:11 AM
0

No we wouldn’t, we don’t want ugly men, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 05:09 AM
0

Are you trolling or being for real with this comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 05:08 AM
1

What is your ideal?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 05:07 AM
-1

What do you mean? You think the guys in the movie were top 10%? And what is the red pill utopia?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:25 AM
1

Is the virtual world your dream? So, not simulated and no kidnapping. Just living in the suburbs with a housewife
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:23 AM
2

Wait, why do you think it’s a bad movie? I loved it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:21 AM
1

What does her being pretty or not have to do with it? Do you think more attractive women are more likely to want to lose their virginity?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:42 PM
-1

Propaganda I’m not falling for
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 09:38 AM
4

You don’t have to be asexual to be a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:48 AM
20

Why is society doomed if there are no virgin women over 26? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:47 AM
0

No BJs is substandard? 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 07:18 PM
3

😢what did she do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:22 AM
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Many men on here seem to truly believe that everyone is colluding to make their dating lives worse. Lying about what women want, lying about “what works”, lying about their own experiences, etc 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:12 AM
1

What’s your country?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:40 PM
0

That isn’t the case for those in my circle at all. We all pay our own way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:14 PM
0

It is very possible to have your own luxe apartment in hcol by your mid 20s. This is the case for most of the people I know around my age
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:53 PM
0

People are called incels for their views and behaviors, not whether or not they’re a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:48 PM
-2

The replies to my posts and comments. All the evidence u need
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:26 PM
-2

I don’t even have to mention height or dating and I’m attacked for my username 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:26 PM
1

You think the only benefit of being in a relationship is sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:44 AM
0

I don’t see how any of this makes a man a simp. What does “friend-zoned” even mean? If a man likes a woman, are the only 2 options for her to either date him or just ignore him? What should he have said when she called him brother? Idk about grovelling, but compliments are normal. I compliment my friends all the time, male and female. I think you find issue with this because you would only compliment someone you’re romantically interested in and think women see it that way. So in your mind, if a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:58 PM
4

What simpish behavior do u think is more prevalent now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:47 PM
1

I don’t think people should be lectured on how to conduct themselves in the same way that they are lectured on organic chemistry at university
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:50 AM
1

Model good behavior that the child will observe and imitate, scold bad behavior when performed by the child and others in the vicinity, reprimand improper speech, monitor online activities, vet external stimuli that the child is exposed to, etc etc If this is done sufficiently well, the new human will not need to be sat down and explicitly told how to make new friends, court a romantic interest, receive romantic suitors, express feelings, or approach uncertain situations I understand that there …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:15 PM
0

Use them on each other 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:53 AM
1

Yes, I get that. In my original question I was asking about the prevalence of autism within racial groups
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:52 AM
0

That’s what I mean by existing around other humans. Peers in school, adults at home, teachers, strangers, whoever. Throughout the course of one’s life, there’s a lot that is picked up through latent learning, observation, and trial and error. But it seems that some people here expected to be given lessons or lectures on some of this stuff by their parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:48 AM
1

Is a greater percentage of the white population autistic compared to other races?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:43 AM
9

So, disregarding sex, you treat your women friends the same as your girlfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:41 AM
6

Really struggling to understand how practically everyone else in society was able to learn social cues from just existing around other humans, but so many men in this sub weren’t… How would you teach your children the art of seduction? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:35 AM
1

The men here don’t come across as those who have big dicks :/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:28 AM
1

Is there a correlation between autism and height/race?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:27 AM
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are you being purposely obtuse No. You just included information which has no relevance, so was trying to find out why
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:25 AM
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False. You can be in a relationship and date without sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:35 AM
2

What does that have to do with what he wrote?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:19 AM
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Are you trying to say that you didn’t have a normal childhood with two loving parents because your mom asked your dad out? 😭 Trying to find the connection to the post
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:19 AM
3

What is “girlfriend treatment”?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:09 PM
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Sure, people in real life may not go around saying this stuff, but they think it. The redditors commenting here are real people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:42 AM
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That’s what they say themselves though 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:35 AM
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The fact that you think women are actively trying to prevent you from having sex just because none have expressed interest in you is absurd and honestly scary
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:33 AM
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but the instant blame on men seems ridiculous The hypocrisy of you saying all the women in your country are entitled and have big egos, but men shouldn’t be “blamed” for killing women 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:55 AM
0

How are young men sheltered as a result of living in a patriarchal society?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:40 AM
4

Even so. The younger killers have family. Most come from 2 parent households. If they had dropped out of society, they wouldn’t have become the threats that they are. They would’ve been content in their little bubbles/self isolation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:35 AM
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Men who have community/family don’t do evil things And what of family annihilators? Perpetrators of slavery and the holocaust? Men who abuse their own children? Wife beaters? The list goes on and on
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:06 AM
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I genuinely think men want other guys to fail at dating because they think it improves their prospects. I constantly see them describe dating as competition. They justify lying on dates and hiding their true personalities because they have to “beat” the other guys she might be dating. Whenever a young guy comes on here to complain or say he hates his life because he’s never had romantic interest from a girl, I don’t see any men comforting him or trying to change his mindset. Literally, the only …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:56 PM
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It’s a lot more common than people on here think. And I’ve never seen anyone be shamed/teased for, or embarrassed by being a virgin in real life. So it’s always a bit weird seeing the men on here lament about this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:49 PM
0

And that’s the correct answer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:37 AM
1

Why do you already have such a “they lied to us 🤕” mentality at 19 blue pillers told us all for years… Years? Years?! Please stop engaging with any pill-talk and don’t even interact with dating advice that exists online. You are not as disgruntled as many of the men on here, but if you continue to spend time in the same spaces you are now, you’ll end up there. And one day, you might decide to scroll all the way back to when u were this age, and wish you didn’t listen to all of the rhetoric you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:36 AM
1

I feel like only a certain demographic were told to that just “working hard and getting a college degree” will lead to success in life And once again, a certain demographic was told to “just become an adult and girls will like you”. Not sure why you didn’t think it through that you need to have attractive traits for people to be attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:19 PM
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Because that’s what’s commonly said by the men in this sub and around reddit. I mean, in this very comment section, a man says that if a guy got to “bang” a woman then dealing with her bad attitude and abusive behavior is worth it. So apparently the juice is worth the squeeze. Referenced comment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:55 PM
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Why aren’t you always being the best you can be with respect to lifestyle, mannerisms, job, routine, and clothes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:29 PM
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Is sex the only thing that separates your friends from romantic partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:27 PM
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You seem to have a fundamental misunderstanding of human behavior and, as a result, how dating works. You think people look at all the people standing around them then decide who they will and will not interact with? This is not how socialization works.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:32 PM
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Being enjoyable to be around is a traditional gender role?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:24 PM
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What needs of women are autistic men expected to respect? What needs of autistic men aren’t cared about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:22 PM
2

No no, that won’t be necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:04 AM
2

I pray that they do reach that conclusion so they can stop harassing women or trying to force themselves upon them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:51 AM
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I’m curious as to why you’re blaming the “fall” of the west on women. How is the UK turning to a shithole? How is Russia dooming its own population? I stg there must be something in the river water in India.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:45 AM
5

Why would u want multiple FWB’s? Or even have one while dating other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:42 PM
4

Who said that they were? Is that a thought that pops into your head often?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:56 PM
3

You were trying to refute her statement when you were wrong. Men’s bodies are not needed to create life, but women’s bodies are
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:04 PM
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Only the sperm cell is needed, meanwhile the woman herself is necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:51 PM
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How is the Democratic Party anti-male? How are the democrats making it difficult for you to vote for them? And how does Trump appeal to men like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 07:54 AM
1

You said above that you date people you aren’t attracted to, to not feel lonely. So I guess you can have sex with people you aren’t attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 07:26 AM
1

So are you just looking for someone to have sex with? Would you date someone you can’t have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:59 AM
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Do you not want a partner if you can’t get an erection while looking at them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:57 AM
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So lower your standards
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:49 AM
2

But women don’t wear full makeup most of the time, soo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:21 PM
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Women’s profiles are bad because they have a variety of photos and wrote original prompts answers that are about themselves? Meanwhile the men’s profiles are bad because they have no good photos and the prompts are all taken from an online male influencer. Funny you say all the women’s profiles are the same, meanwhile all the guys have “first drink is on me if: your ex is dead” or “I go crazy for: girls on lexapro”. Give me a break 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:26 AM
1

You got Shrek’d
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:14 AM
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I don’t think it’s a need at all. Just showing that by your logic, a sexual encounter is not what is being desired. But rather the attention from a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:24 AM
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So before, you chose not to be a shitty person only for the chance of a woman being attracted to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:18 AM
2

So the need is not sex then? It’s a “need” of women’s attention
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:16 AM
2

What are maladaptive coping mechanisms?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:03 AM
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Then OP would be dead and we wouldn’t have silly posts like this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:51 PM
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Intimacy and sex with a woman isn’t a need
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:26 PM
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What are the consequences?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:26 AM
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Because I’m online
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:55 PM
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Sister Hong is a Chinese man who provided sexual services for men who contacted him online, in exchange for items such as fruit. He recorded and posted over 1500 videos of such encounters, and became a viral sensation when he became known to mainstream social media. He dressed as a woman and had a hidden camera. So most of the discourse is centered around whether or not the suitors knew he was a man, and the ethics of his activities. In some videos, the men uncover his identity but still go thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:08 PM
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Shoutout Sister Hong!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:53 PM
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I’m so tiny and small 🥺 he’s so big and tall 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:01 PM
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women are known for doxxing people Lolooolololool. The irony in that statement
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:28 PM
2

Idk, ask him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:26 PM
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I know some who are even older. And have been made aware of more on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:25 PM
1

Interesting. The screenshot posted in the comments says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:56 PM
1

How do u know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:56 PM
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If that is what you believe, I have a question: does dating multiple women cause the men to be abusive or does being abusive cause the men to date multiple women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:36 PM
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My supporting evidence also comes from real life. I have some friends who never go on dates. I also have a friend who has had a relationship, a situationship, or a one night stand with most of the men in our social circle. I’m pretty sure that every woman knows a gal like that. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:28 PM
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EXACTLY The irony is palpable when you see the post history of those most against it on Reddit and twitter. And that’s not even getting into the absolute comedy that is the app being hacked by all-day 4chan users. Most of the men who I’ve asked about it say “I don’t care, it doesn’t affect me”. But coincidentally, the guys who start ranting when I’ve asked their opinions are those who have never in their life had a gf, and in some cases, never even been on a date. The obsession that “forever alo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:24 PM
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Seriously wondering: why do men want female characters in games, shows, and movies to be sexualized so much? What do you gain from it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:09 PM
2

What is the average man like?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:17 PM
2

How is it disgusting, invasive, and predatory?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:14 PM
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It’s not an assumption. It’s based on his own posts and comments. I didn’t write out all the evidence because he’s already aware of it, as I mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:29 AM
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I can stick out in a positive way by taking a shower 😭😭 praying for us women 🥴 Are you saying that you’ve experienced everything that a woman can do or that you just won’t be impressed by anything she does because women are always a good time?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:28 AM
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Why are you so intent on having a debate? I’m with your cousin on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:13 AM
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I don’t get the exercising one, or the last 2 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:59 AM
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I get free food often when at restaurants 😜. Don’t know if it’s gender-specific tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:56 AM
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Just scrolled through your profile and it almost made me believe in the male loneliness crisis 😢. Just hurry up with whatever you’re doing here on earth
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:53 AM
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I don’t think it’s basic and I don’t know everyone’s reasoning for things, so I didn’t want to assume
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:33 AM
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I wasn’t trying to be critical 🙂 just wanted to understand your situation better to potentially provide advice. I asked for your motive because in your comment you say that you are isolated from others, love the idea of lying flat, and prefer to stay home. So, it wasn’t immediately clear to me how a significant other would fit in to that lifestyle. Based on your response, I think you could easily find similar people on Reddit and other online forums. People who are not ambitious, like staying in…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:32 AM
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There you go with the assumptions again. Who exactly are “women like me”?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:21 AM
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Because of my comment above
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:24 AM
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Essentially, your post reads as if you are an incel. I could break it down, but that’s the simplest way to put it. I think you are already aware of how unpopular and controversial your opinions are so I’ll just comment on your vernacular. From the few months I’ve spent perusing this sub, I’ve noticed a pattern in the language used by men who are unfriendly to the opposite sex and largely unsocialized. One example is making a statement, then immediately defending it in the following sentence in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:20 AM
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Largely, women put effort in regardless. But I am of the opinion that hetero relationships work best when the man likes the woman more 🙂. I know, very controversial
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:11 AM
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Hmm. Based on my very limited knowledge of you or the situation, my guess is that your profile could use better pictures. I say this because the small amount of likes suggests a lack of initial attraction and is not because of your lifestyle. And I don’t think it’s your prompt answers because guys on the online dating subs say they don’t read those. I’d suggest talking really nice pictures and trying again. A fun thing to do is search “hinge profile” on TikTok. You’ll see lots of profiles so you…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:08 AM
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Oh… now I see the mentality behind the post
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:02 AM
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I’ve seen quite a few and commented on them. Although I dont think it’s possible. Ugly women don’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:00 AM
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I don’t think you’re a mentalcel. You get a lot of sexual attention from men but reject them cuz it’s not what you want. So you are voluntarily celibate. Unless I have the wrong definition. Also, I think you can find what you want at the gym. Not close to his family will be the most difficult hurdle, but I think it is possible
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:23 PM
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When men are approached, that sets the precedent for the relationship. Since they didn’t have to put in effort in the beginning, they don’t put in effort in the relationship. Since they didn’t have to work for what they have, they don’t value it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:16 PM
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A lot of assumptions 🙄. She’s not white and she didn’t get the attention she wanted from the men she wanted. Why are you trying to discredit her experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:00 PM
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Girlie, don’t put your past self down like that. I’m sure you were an absolute babe, just plagued by low self-esteem. Happens to us sometimes 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:44 PM
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How is she a femcel?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:29 PM
1

Wait. What do you mean by “failed miserably”? Did you not find what you want, or did who you wanted not want you back?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:16 PM
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Why do you want a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:11 PM
1

So much to unpack here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:52 PM
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Yes, I would never procreate with a short or ugly man and make sure all my friends think the same. What are you gonna do about it? 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:51 PM
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Noooo way you just used the French as an example of the epitome of beauty 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:40 PM
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Hmm. I guess you know the thought process of women better than us and the women who’ve replied
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:20 PM
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Why do u think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:10 PM
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I’m just gonna end this here because you’re not even understanding my sentences 😭😭 but congrats to your friend I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:04 PM
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You can delete as many comments from your profile as you want, but your dissatisfaction with your own life is apparent. I’m sure people in real life can sense it just as easily as we can through the screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:50 PM
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I don’t think it’s as you say. My girl friends, and others Ive encountered through mutual friends, who don’t get approached just do the approaching themselves. They’re the ones who say “you should message first” or “make the first move” when we discuss dating. The women who are used to being chased expect that behavior and, as a result, don’t pursue. Whereas the women who are not used to being chased make the first move because they’ve learned that that’s what they have to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:44 PM
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Ok, and what do men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:46 PM
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Do you think there is any association between how attractive someone perceives another, and how confidently they approach them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:45 PM
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You literally said that women should focus less on the men who approach confidently and go for the shy ones
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:11 PM
3

What are male perspective things?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:03 PM
1

And what do men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:56 PM
2

Aww, you’ve gotten to the part of inceldom where you think rape is in any way excusable or natural. The fact that no woman on earth would voluntarily have sex with you must be difficult to contend with, but at least you have your Pokémon cards to keep you company 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:56 PM
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I’m glad you’re in this thread, so you can see the hypocrisy of #3 in your other comment. Look at all the men saying that they want to be chased. But you think women should not want the same or go for the man that approaches them unabashedly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:33 PM
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So men don’t want a woman who looks at them with lust? Cuz that seems to be the primary desire for men on this sub It honestly sounds like you’re trying to convince women to give your friend who gets no action a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:03 PM
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Do you think that #3 is a general rule that people should follow in dating? Should men also go for the women that are not all for them 140%, because the ones that aren’t are more likely to be truly devoted?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:24 AM
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It’s not about fishing or whether or not you like fish. It’s about the type of person that would put a picture of them holding up a dead fish on their dating profile
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:30 PM
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⁠It’s just a phone or digital camera. No photographers, just your friend/family member or even a stranger. ⁠No photographer. I don’t even think people pay for graduation pictures anymore. Just our friends and a camera. ⁠Yes, there is a big difference in picture quality. I think men don’t realize that they could take better pictures. They just say, “my pictures are bad because I’m ugly”. As a little treat, I’ll drop 2 major keys for phone photography: ⁠If you have an iPhone, use Live Photo. Then …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:59 PM
3

What if a bomb landed on all our heads right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:29 AM
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Jump through a bunch of hoops? You mean become someone she knows through more interactions and time spent together. Do you think sex between people not in a relationship should be outlawed?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:55 AM
1

Ok. What are you trying to say with this comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:25 PM
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It’s not her being “easy”or “hard”. It’s her hooking up with the hookup guy, and wanting to be in a relationship with the relationship guy. Idk how men could see it any other way. The anger is caused by their own warped perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:23 PM
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It’s the same as men choosing some women to hookup with and others to have a relationship with. Some to have a relationship with and others to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:20 PM
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I don’t like yawns, I think they’re inconsiderate and uncouth. But, wouldn’t outwardly say that to someone who has just yawned. Maybe give them a look so they know not to do it near me again
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:42 PM
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It does happen. Sports players and celebs do fly women out for fleeting romances. Athletes from abroad especially like to date women when they visit. They will set the location to the destination city a few weeks/months ahead of time, then set up dates for when they arrive. Another thing that you might find untrue, is that regular guys will also fly girls out. I’ve been told this by my guy friends. They said “men will spend a lot of money just for the chance of sleeping with a girl.” They told m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:16 PM
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Hmm. I think I know what the problem is based on this comment. You seem to have a defeatist mentality and don’t take feedback well. “I guess I’ll just get downvoted for that too.” “But yeah just keep acting like you know me.” This language is not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:58 PM
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Oh deer 🦌
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:03 AM
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You said that on avg you approach 15 women with the hopes of getting action, sometimes up to 30. So do you just talk to different women until one of them is interested? Are all the approaches in the same establishment/setting? How often do you have these nights? To what end are you working towards? A relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:58 AM
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So regular porn should be removed as well
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:53 AM
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Is there just like a baseline attractiveness where you just want to kiss someone who’s at least that level? Trying to understand the motivation behind this behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:06 AM
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So I just realized that you’re talking about something different from the previous commenter. They said that being horny isn’t life or death, so they’re talking about sex. You said that love and affection are a need. Do you think that sex is the same thing as love and affection?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:40 AM
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Why is regular porn better? Why are only fans creators sluts, but not porn stars?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:36 AM
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I’m going to have to disagree with you Logos. They wouldn’t be peppering the internet with their lamentations if they don’t feel entitled to it. I also have some 1-on-1 conversations with the very men of this sub where they state they they “should” have a girlfriend and someone who fawns over them because “chads” do and that’s unfair. They are angry that they do everything to attract a mate and women still don’t approach them with lustful eyes. Also, let’s be real. The men who act so defeated ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:38 AM
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Maybe having government-enforced sex camps isnt a strongly held opinion. But taking away educational and economic opportunities for women is. Which is essentially a round-about way of saying that women should have to have sex with men and have their children to achieve their desired lifestyle. It’s the hottest social topic on twitter right now. All the “lonely” men are sharing charts intended to prove their belief that women should not be educated so that the they’ll have more children. And the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:29 AM
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If it’s not life and death, how is it a need?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:21 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:19 AM
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Lolololol. Speak for yourself. Wanting the man to put in initial effort is not an unreasonable expectation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 06:08 PM
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Well yes. Men are just defective women. Y chromosomes are just broken X chromosomes. Men are lacking the genetic code for a lot of things. This is why a woman’s body is intricate and complex. The female hormone cycle is perfectly tuned and regulates reproduction. Men are erratic and have unpredictable emotions and behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:04 PM
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Wait, so you’re the one with a triple digit body count and a dozen failed relationships, yet women are the problem? Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:09 PM
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What does the last sentence have to do with everything else? Why should escorting be destigmatized?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:02 AM
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men have an instinct to take care of/provide for women Saving this comment cuz I got downvoted for saying this the other day
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:01 AM
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That’s the spirit!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:59 AM
1

To like about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:47 AM
2

no need to use derogatory language against girls who didn't swipe right on you. how can I join? are they on reddit or their own site? wdym "giving"? edit: oh, I think I see. do you ever meet them in real life or are you a part of a real-life fetish community?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:49 PM
1

How did joining the fetish community help? Is it just a place where people talk about their fetishes?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 05:19 PM
1

What should they do to appeal to majority men? Really curious as to what majority men want
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:44 AM
0

Do you have an explanation or will you keep deflecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:42 AM
1

So if both the husband and child is in need and only can receive the resource, the husband should be prioritized? For example, if both the husband and child need a kidney and the mother can only give one, it should go to the husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:39 AM
2

You think that your partner should be prioritized over your kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:58 PM
2

How so? Who are they appealing to?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:16 PM
4

She told you her weight or you asked? Why are you using how much someone weighs as an indicator of who they should date? I feel like there are better benchmarks for compatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:19 PM
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I don’t. But I don’t get why that’s the thing that you, and apparently other men, crave. What does the look do for you? A girl is looking at you like you’re a piece of meat. You see her looking. What next? Would you go up to her and ask her out? With what confidence and self-esteem? Despite your awkwardness and lack-luster personality? Because according to yourself, those need a lot of work, and apparently you’re aging backwards so probably need to fix that as well. Benjamin Button may have foun…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:08 PM
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Why tho? What do you get out of being stared at in this way? Genuinely trying to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 11:23 AM
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I’ve never heard anyone express this desire before. And I feel like most people just want to live their life as they please without others getting in the way
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:42 AM
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Hmm. I guess this is why men don’t see an issue with cat-calling and other blatant forms of unsolicited verbal outreach. In their minds, everyone wants to be acknowledged, and they think that by “acknowledging” their targets, they are giving them what they want. And these women, so pleased with the “acknowledgement” they have received will become immediately attracted to them. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:03 AM
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Really?! Self-annihilation as a response to no one being attracted to you is normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:55 AM
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Would you be satisfied with an attentive friend who makes an effort to see/speak to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:53 AM
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If the problem isn’t men getting social connections through their partner, then why are so many men saying that having a partner will give them someone to talk to and feel acknowledged? Wait 😂 what’s wrong with a mixed friend group? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:51 AM
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Why do you place so much value on how attractive you are to other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:26 AM
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What are the antics you are so burnt out by? You see the sex doll as a replacement for women? Is sex the only thing you hope to gain from being with a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:06 AM
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Do you have family members or friends? If so, do they not talk to you or acknowledge your existence? If not, are the online communities you’re a part of not enriching you socially? If not, can you join a community where your voice will be heard? If not, can you afford a virtual therapist or some other service where you pay to be heard and acknowledged?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:00 AM
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In your opinion, is being “tricked” into feeling something by an online personality ok the same way being “tricked” into feeling something by an ai-doll is?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:54 PM
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What’s wrong with how women view relationships now? How should women view relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:07 PM
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Yes, I agree. No girl should ever split the bill
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:08 PM
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What are some examples of good content? What should they do to be better?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:47 PM
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Maybe I don’t really understand the platform, but aren’t OF models performing on camera as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:45 PM
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But it is a micro-business. I liken it to selling on Etsy. You create the product, promote it, sell it, and refine it over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:44 PM
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I don’t get how it’s toxic or exploitation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:39 PM
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The comments say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:56 PM
1

What are simps?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:31 PM
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I never noticed the thirst traps. I guess it’s a matter of self-discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:29 PM
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Prnhb is illegal? 😭😭 So how is it so popular?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:27 PM
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The website says that the models chat with people? I thought each creator makes their own rules
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:19 PM
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I agree that it shouldn’t be marketed to children. Where was I being dishonest. That’s why I think it should be promoted in a way that only those who engage with the promotion will see the content. And not in children’s spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:13 PM
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Never been to a strip club. Don’t see the appeal. I think men should de-center pornographic content from their lives. That way, they avoid feeling deceived
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:05 PM
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😱 the women are reaching out to children?!?! I dont think the promotion should be direct. I think it should be like flyers. Just posted around so people can engage if they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:47 PM
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They don’t have to. But they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:39 PM
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I’m sure the market will stabilize as some accounts don’t get subscriptions and the profitable ones remain
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:32 PM
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There are women who do all those things. And there are those who choose not to. Speaking for myself, I don’t ask on dates or pay for men because it’s not in my best interest to do so. Any man would say yes to a date, so it’s best to let them come to me. That weeds out certain traits I’m not looking for. Letting him pay also weeds out some traits. But more importantly, men lose interest when the woman pays and shows more independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:31 PM
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So when they pay, they feel it should be only them? Like they have claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:24 PM
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So those men were tricked into thinking they had a real relationship and are disgruntled? I don’t see how this could happen. They know other men buy the subscription as well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:23 PM
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What is one? I also don’t completely oppose their views on dating. If there are men who will give me more, why would I be with a man who gives me less?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:19 PM
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Why should donating for sexual purposes be illegal? Should prostitution be illegal as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:16 PM
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Jobs for entertainment purposes shouldn’t exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:15 PM
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Men can do OF as well. I don’t see an overwhelming amount of women claiming to be the same as men. I do see women wanting to be treated equally. And for fair wages that don’t discriminate based on gender
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:13 PM
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How are the men disadvantaged? How are they different from men that watch porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:10 PM
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I love this response. So real. But honestly, most men want to be in that position of providing, in my experience. Why aren’t they upset at the guys who pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:05 PM
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even so, they create the content of whatever quality and put a price on it. I’m quite sure they don’t steal the users’ credit card info and subscribe for them. When you go to the store, there are various products of the same good with different prices attached. You choose which one to buy. If you aren’t satisfied with what you bought you can choose to buy a different one next time or just not buy at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:00 PM
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Men should work for free too then. Also, that makes no sense. How does working for free promote independence? If the women do unpaid labor, with which money are they going to support themselves to be independent?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:52 PM
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What about women’s vulnerabilities that you mentioned? Those aren’t protected in that case. You can see some people from the Netherlands in this comment section saying there are still issues with women’s safety and men’s insecurities even with legal prostitution. Why do women have to put themselves out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:49 PM
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I don’t get the difference. How does OF monetize loneliness but porn does not? Why do men watch porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:47 PM
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Idk, everyone in these comments just convinced me to get into it. So, I’ll see how it goes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:30 PM
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Should non-digital sex work be illegal?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:28 PM
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What about men who say that “men don’t choose to be horny and have no choice but to pay for/pursue such content”?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:27 PM
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So it’s better if the content is free?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:24 PM
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They have to promote their business because apparently OF does not have a browsing feature, so users have to search for the exact names
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:24 PM
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So they think that if a woman chooses to do sex work, it should be available to everyone and she shouldn’t be able to do non-sex work? Also, how do we make exploiting the vulnerabilities illegal?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:23 PM
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Have you dated an OF model?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:17 PM
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young women who have no business doing porn Why don’t they?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:17 PM
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Thanks for the explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:09 PM
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Why? How are they vulnerable?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:08 PM
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You don’t like making conversation to learn about someone and you’re not happy with the selection on dating apps. Get a matchmaker then
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:37 AM
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Which set of girls were you more attracted to on average?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:33 PM
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Why isn’t it a good society? Should people be guaranteed sex because they exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:59 PM
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You can make that statement for men’s as well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:31 PM
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How is it broken?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:21 PM
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“LOL.” I asked expecting you to know of other material. But I guess not. “That’s your question?” Yes that’s my question. Obviously I don’t know what it feels like to be a potential school shooter, which is why I asked. Not sure why everyone is so combative on this site.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:24 AM
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Why shouldn’t you talk about it with women you’re romantic with?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:21 AM
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What would paint a more accurate picture than his autobiography containing his own thoughts? “I’ve seen too many young men (myself include) go from the ‘potential school shooter’ arc to the ‘relatively normal guy with a girlfriend’ arc as a result of finding even modest success in dating.” What were your motives for wanting to be a school shooter and how did having a girlfriend change that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:17 AM
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The Federal government does a lot of research on this. I think this is the latest study
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:34 AM
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Yeah, I had someone recently comment on my latest post that 4chan is the way that boys converse when they are not forced to be politically correct. And we should allow, even encourage, such interactions 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:25 AM
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How would you ensure the average man has a chance of earning that income? And what is stopping the average man from doing so now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:21 AM
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Who starts the wars that men go to? I know that’s only one of your talking points, but that’s basically the sentiment when men start brining up issues they feel affect them. If it were up to women, there wouldn’t be wars, homelessness k, and all these other avoidable suffering. So it’s like a man coming to you complaining about what another man is doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:37 PM
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lol. I’ve never been on 4chan but isn’t it the incel one where text color is green? That’s normal boy talk?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:24 PM
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It’s the same for women though, isn’t it? Men can take care of themselves. So women are needed for reproduction and wanted for other things
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:18 AM
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Can I message you to ask about the current culture? I ask him questions but I don’t think he likes talking about it and I don’t want to annoy him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:08 AM
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He’s only been in the US for one year 😭 and he definitely knows his history. But it seems like we have different definitions of patriarchy. Bc you use drafting into the army as proof that it isn’t but I wouldn’t say that has anything to do with it. And then you include oligarchy as a juxtaposition as if they can’t exist at the same time. You think that harsh conditions for men means no patriarchy? And do you think of patriarchy as a system of government? I was thinking more in terms of societal …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:51 PM
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The online merriam dictionary has article examples where it’s used in other contexts btw
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:44 PM
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What’s wrong with shrimp tacos? Keyword: if There are situations where women are at a disadvantage in marriage This thing about super high standards is just not true and isn’t reflected in the real world. Please show me that every single couple is a Superman-looking, Carl Rogers-feeling, Elon Musk-having man with your standard run-of-the-mill woman. Oh, that’s right, you can’t. Because that isn’t the case Women are targeted by men for existing If the loneliness is because of feminism and misandr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:42 PM
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Omg relax. Didn’t realize we had word warrior in here. But as you mentioned yourself in other comments, the merriam definition does not say it exclusively means the right to vote. Not sure what you’re getting so worked up for
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:16 PM
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Because I’m glad that men aren’t the only ones that can own homes now? My bad for thinking that’s good progress
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:54 PM
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You need to eat clean clean clean. Cut out highly processed foods as much as possible. No soda, no sugary or oily foods. Cut down dairy if you can. I eliminate it completely, but idk if there are ramifications for men. This combined with the cardio will result in major improvements. Idk my skin always looked better after a bike ride or treadmill run. If you still need to go to a derm after this, inquire about clindamycin, tretinoin, other retinoids, etc. make sure you wear sunscreen everyday, ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:49 PM
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Only you can turn your life around. Going to the gym is good, make sure to stay consistent. Do cardio, even though men don’t like it for some reason 🙄. Eat 2 small meals a day until you reach your desired weight, you wont starve. Stop fantasizing so much, you will lose touch with reality. I can’t help you with that last one 😟. Hopefully more men comment. I think you all need to be more supportive and hold each other accountable. Not only with the bad things like crime, but also when someone is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:42 PM
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To what men bring to the table? Women find various uses for them. But largely, a man is not needed, per se, unless for reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:14 PM
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Oh, I didn’t know. My bf is Russian and I honestly considered it the East. But I’m shocked that you don’t think Slavic countries are patriarchal bc it definitely seems that way to me and he says so as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:09 PM
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🤗 it’s a popular tiktok sound. But yeah, basically
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:41 PM
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I don’t hate men as a whole. There were some takes that I agreed with in the comments. While I understand that there are people who share this viewpoint, it does not resonate with me. Im not required to agree with everything
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:40 PM
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The fact that you even know your body fat % or how much fat “women want” is just ughh. This is the root cause of your unhappiness. You’re looking up all these irrelevant metrics or hearing them from whatever alpha male YouTube/podcaster you listen to. Next it’s gonna be the length of your pinky toe or belly button diameter. Do u think women just sit around going “yeah he was cute but he looked to be about 23% body fat 😖”. Omg this comment just pissed me off
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:35 PM
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Why are you letting this be your whole existence? Are you working on losing body fat %? Are you in school? Do you have life goals not related to women? When I was 21, I was focused on getting internships, doing well in classes, and being healthy. I honestly don’t get why these under 25 men are constantly complaining about not having a gf and being a virgin. Who dahell cares?!??!?! Go outside and see the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:29 PM
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Wat is an acceptable body fat %? Do most people in your country marry by 21?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:03 PM
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You keep saying “objectively” for things that are not objective. And I’ve seen multiple people mention that dating apps are overwhelmingly men. Could it be possible that the subset of women that use dating apps are those who men in general find more attractive so they get more swipes. While the subset of men is more representative of the population since there are a lot more of them? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:54 PM
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“Many women get showered with validation simply for existing. Strangers consistently tell them how beautiful they are, buy them things, give them money, etc.” And who set that system up?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:50 PM
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Odd that you see boys being more likely to be diagnosed with ADHD as a problem for boys, when it’s typically seen to be a problem for girls because we go so long undiagnosed. What learning style caters to boys? Should school not be orderly? Not saying that I necessarily agree with the whole women are more valuable thing, that’s just how I’ve come to understand the idea of saving women and children first. And surely there doesn’t need to be an explanation of why women need more protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:47 PM
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What is boyishness? As for their desire for intimacy and others: those things may have been repressed due to problematic occurrences. There are obvious correct ways and to approach a woman and court her. Of course methods that deviate from this would cause alarm and be reprimanded. One personal example I can think of is how I would be told that boys in my class pulled my hair bc they liked me (Is this the boyishness you speak of?). I was even told this by teachers! Now the young girls in my fami…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:39 PM
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Interesting. This puts it into perspective. I’ve also heard that the most common word in male suicide notes is “worthless” or something like that. So I guess this rings true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:25 PM
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Ok but, why is this disproportionately affecting men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:23 PM
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It’s not only used for voting rights
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:19 PM
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If men think the man vs bear is misandrist, then they truly haven’t faced discrimination
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:17 PM
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Why must I be one of those 2 options?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:11 PM
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Do you live in the West? I ask because your flair says you are Slavic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:08 PM
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I love that for us ☺️ let’s hope things continue to move in the right direction!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:01 PM
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Just having a two-sided conversation. We’re supposed to interact with our posts… I don’t agree with his explanation because I think he is confusing equality with equity. Men are not disadvantaged and do not need to be lifted in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:54 PM
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As a woman in tech this was certainly a read. Nice to know the way me and my friends think men feel about us in the office is true. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:48 PM
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He’s benefitted from the system of the past because the industry was more welcoming to him. For example, post secondary education. Advanced degree programs were dominated by men so he received more external support from family, friends, advisors. A woman’s choice to pursue an advanced degree is questioned more. During the application/interview process, she may be asked about her plans to have children. Then when she’s in the program, she may be asked about dating and children if she’s not in a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:36 PM
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Not mocking. Just providing a possible explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:25 PM
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What does it mean to act like a boy? This may sound weird but I believe women are told to “go first” because they are seen as the means to production, more so than a man. So a single woman is more valuable than a single man in that sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:25 PM
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That wasn’t my assumption, I’m basing it off of the image he commented. The two sides say men shouldn’t talk about their issues and the man is left feeling dejected. So I’m guessing that the commenter means that the red pill fills the gap by allowing men to talk about negatives in their life. Unless I interpreted it wrong. Maybe right-wingers represents the red pill side?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:16 PM
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Who told them they’d be millionaires, movie stars, and rock stars? And was this told exclusively to boys/men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:12 PM
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Do you think red pill support will wane in the US under Trump? he’s already cut dei initiatives and made changes to affect the workforce and labor market in his first week.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:08 PM
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How are you wasting your prime? How does the red pill help you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:05 PM
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I agree with the edit. Sometimes it doesn’t even need to be a compliment. There have been many men who thought I liked them just for simply interacting with them. They would tell my friend group, then the friend group asks why they think I’m interested and the answer is: “she always says good morning to me.” 😐 After a few instances of this, I’ve had to try not to be nice to men lest my politeness be taken to mean romantic interest. Nevertheless, men can up their standards as well. If a woman can…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:57 PM
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So, in your opinion, should we move past the gender roles for both or keep them for both? Since the mismatch appears to be the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:42 PM
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It does seem a bit “woe is me”to point out these shortcomings of men, because of the past. Before, the infrastructure wasn’t there to support women in these fields, so the initiatives to help were so they could catch up. This is because women were just simply excluded. And then when these opportunities became possible for women, they faced other injustices like being managed out, or social friction when they try to enter these fields. Now that women are caught up and surpassed men in some cases,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:40 PM
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And the red pill embraces men who talk about their issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:28 PM
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How do progressiveness and feminism take away the opportunity of happy marriages?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:27 PM
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Where are you getting these ratings from? How do u know 5/10 women get flooded by 7+/10 guys? And are you saying that the “less attractive” guys become red pill because they don’t get as much romantic attention from the opposite sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:25 PM
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Do you think these “privileges” in dating did not exist in the past? Say, 50 yrs ago? I don’t think a woman not asking a guy out, not paying, or not texting first means she doesn’t desire him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:19 PM
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What is a post wall woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:32 PM
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What does this mean? Does donating sperm give you clarity? Or like does it make you not as angry at women because you feel like you are being valued?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:18 AM
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girlie, this is concerning 😅 i honestly don't know what to say besides a barrage of questions. On another note, are you Slavic? I ask because I saw some Cyrillic in your profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:27 AM
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Checked out the subs. This was 4th on the list for Lonely, so that's interesting. But yes, there are some lonely women. They don't want to hurt others over it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:12 AM
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I'm really glad you commented this because I found those subs interesting and think they support my argument, on the whole. I scrolled through all 3 subs. AskWomen was actually super wholesome, I think I might join. Most of the posts were about life skills, tips, and past experiences. The relationship posts were mostly asking for opinions, sharing stories, or polling the sub. I did not encounter any harsh general statements about men. Maybe they existed in some hidden comments. AskWomenOver30 co…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:11 AM
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What exactly is MGTOW supposed to prove? A higher antidepressant usage does not mean women are unhappier. There are many confounding factors, like maybe women are more likely to seek help with issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:57 AM
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Nope, he's not the exception. Obsessed with people knowing we're a couple and always acting touch-starved. I feel like relationships are status symbols these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:34 AM
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Wow. I literally cannot get how a couple of girls bullying you taught you not to trust women. Your last sentence is concerning. How is being a deadbeat getting back at women? What about the children? And your use of "not all women but always a woman" is interesting because that's used by women to highlight how sexual violence is almost always perpetuated by men. What is always done by a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:25 AM
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So what does it do then? Why do people masturbate?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:17 AM
1

Why do you think I'm a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:05 AM
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Based on this and your other comments, it seems like you feel that everyone needs a partner and you despise women who claim not to need anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:33 AM
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yes yes, i agree and hear it all the time myself. However, that hatred is not because they want to be in a relationship with men who do not want them. That hatred is due to things men have done (not things like simply rejecting them), which lead to these women finding men repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:29 AM
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Really? is it because you think men don't desire you? Otherwise, I think that's quite different. I am aware of women who hate men, but it's because of experiences they have had or things men have done, not because they want to be in a relationship with one but cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:23 AM
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Yes, but I've been single for most of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:44 PM
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I have not had a partner for a long time and did not feel lonely at all. I spent time with friends and family. If at any time I wanted social interaction, I sought it out. Did not need a romantic partner at all. I said good morning to my family and friends if I wanted to, slept by myself, ate by myself most nights, and scheduled time to eat with others when desired. So I guess I don't know what true loneliness is because there is always someone to interact with. Why doesn't your sister spend tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:44 PM
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This take is very interesting and reminds me of a lot of things. I think it makes sense. But do you not agree with the quoted portion?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:37 PM
4

Are you saying that men just want to have sex with someone else? And that is the root of their unhappiness being single?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:28 PM
0

Where is the hypocrisy. Show me where women are saying that men have unrealistic standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:26 PM
1

Yes. All of those things are said by women to highlight how men are dangerous, and just want someone to take care of them or sexually satisfy them. None of those are about unrealistic standards… in fact, it is often said in women spaces how men would fck anything. So like, the opposite of high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:24 PM
11

She was not a femcel, in fact, she had a boyfriend. I haven’t heard any women saying that men have unrealistic standards for reasonable things,
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:18 PM
1

All because they can’t get a gf? 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:10 PM
-3

It’s not ignorant. It’s simple fact. You do not need a partner to not feel lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 09:38 PM
-10

Hmm, I don’t think so. I’ve read that it’s common for men to masturbate multiple times a week. If so, then they don’t need another person. But I guess this is something that I can never truly grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 09:18 PM
-2

I wouldn’t have asked the question if I had such little regard. I’m trying to hear the other side’s pov.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 09:12 PM
-2

I have not. I’d like to see some of these discussions because it’s a foreign concept to me. Even in my own social circles, my single guy friends tell me they “want a girlfriend by summer” and that they go to the gym so much to get a girlfriend. while all my single girl friends are focusing on their careers, getting advanced degrees, buying property (at young ages), and if they end up in a relationship, then that’s fine, but they’re not chasing it. I know that’s just my own personal anecdotes, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 09:02 PM
1

What is ldar?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:48 PM
0

In which subs can I see the posts by women who think men aren’t interested in them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:43 PM
2

I think your perspective would be good for this conversation. Why did you take childhood teasing to heart and swear off romance? Many people are ridiculed in school, that doesn’t kill romance for them. What are you doing to looksmaxx? What made you draw the conclusion that women are emotionally unstable?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:24 PM
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It’s not an urge to reproduce though. If it was, then the desire would be to start a family. If it was a purely sexual urge, then they wouldn’t need another person to satisfy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:59 PM
-1

How do people who are blackpilled handle this “truth”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:50 PM
7

People select for genetic traits all the time. Men do it as well. Should we not have standards? As for the social support system, that seems like something that can be fixed by men themselves. They can create spaces/communities outside of relationships to support each other. I see some of that online, but the appearance of those which exist to amplify depressive thoughts and unhappiness with their station in life are puzzling.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:42 PM
-11

Loneliness can be abated by having friends, family, and pets.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:38 PM
6

If it’s just about sex drive, then surely they can sexually satisfy themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:35 PM
10

I don’t see these men expressing a desire to father children. Only that they want a woman to accept their advances or ask them out. If they all wanted to build a family and lament this missed opportunity, then I would understand better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:34 PM
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I’m not saying that women don’t have the desire as well. It’s that women do not become violent or develop a deep-rooted hatred for men if that desire is not met. They do not say “men are irrational beings with unrealistic standards that only 5% of women meet. I am a wonderful woman that men should be fighting for. I will not change anything about myself because it is men who must change what they’re looking for.” Nor do they become reclusive because they cannot stand being in the presence of cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:29 PM
6

I don’t think that women don’t crave romantic relationships. I just think they do not crave it as much as men. And are much less likely to complain about not being in a relationship if they want to be in one. And are much much less likely to become violent when they are not in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:12 PM
-1

How are women? Just trying to understand the classification.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:17 AM
-1

Yeah, but why do you agree with the red pill mentality?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:24 AM
6

Are these actually considered high standards or were you being facetious? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:48 AM
3

India? lol, is it a mystery why the women aren’t supporting the protests? I don’t think any woman would want to willingly put themself in a situation where they’re surrounded by a crowd of men anywhere, much less that country.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:35 AM
1

Omg, that’s so odd. What country is this? Here in the USA, men live longer when married.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:22 AM
-2

I’m curious why you’re red pill as a hyper successful man? You seem like the person red pillers say “take all the women”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:18 AM
20

I’m not sure how you expect the “all women are flawed and their unrealistic standards are to blame for my lack of a dating life” narrative to be taken seriously. Level up and stop expecting people to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:13 AM
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