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Reason #24675 why open relationships don't work. You have to be completely desensitized to the idea of your partner having better sex with other people. Most people can't handle that and probably shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:39 PM
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Honestly, I would say forget about having "reasonable" standards and just go for the best you can get. However, at the bare minimum you should go for someone you find attractive, who has his shit together, and is a good person that you share values with. These are the fundamentals. Anything beyond that is a bonus. But honestly don't ever trade the fundamentals out for a "bonus." Him being rich doesn't mean shit if he'll cheat on you. Him being the funniest man ever doesn't mean anything if he's …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:36 PM
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According to red pill men, the ideal woman: -Has sex with you on the first date, while also having an extremely low body count. -Is intelligent, but not college educated -Is extremely beautiful, but also not obsessed with her looks -Is not a career woman, but also doesn't care about a man's income -Is shy and submissive, but is also assertive enough to always tell you what's on her mind -Is passive and obedient, but also fully capable of dumping an abuser at any given moment Honestly, men don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:16 PM
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You know what? I straight up relate. I got a couple of close friends I decided to cut off because I just couldn't deal with the outrageous shit that was starting to come out of their mouths. One of them even has a girlfriend, I dunno know the hell she deals with the genuinely racist/sexist shit that comes out of his mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:02 PM
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Yeah for sure, and I don't agree with them there either. But, the point is, there's no contradiction between their desire to not wanting to be judged, and their desire for agency. Most people want the liberty to be able to say and do whatever they want without being judged. But that unfortunately is not a world we'll ever live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:58 PM
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How outrageous does the shit he say need to be for you to be disgusted? Like, what's the minimum?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:55 PM
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When feminists say women shouldn't be judged for sex work/bodycount, they aren't say that because they believe those women had no agency. They're saying that because they think her agency to make those choices shouldn't define her life's worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:50 PM
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Most modern feminists don't explicitly hate men. Sure you could argue that some hate men secretively, but then I'd say even the fact that it has to be done secretly implies that they're not allowed to hate men explicitly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 05:51 AM
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The people making the posts and tiktoks are regular girls. They go viral because of other girls agreeing and liking them. They go viral because they are a common opinion. Bro, they go viral among the girls who already agree with that shit. It's not normal men/women who are making femcel content go viral. In other words, it's an echo chamber, and shouldn't be seen as a refection of life. Tate is one person and he also get push back from many people. No one pushes back on what these girs say. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 07:32 AM
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Tiktok trends and twitter groups are not real life. Could you imagine a girl unironically saying this shit to you in real life? Nah, because this typa shit only flies in femcel communities full of young, bitchy and stupid women. Using twitter posts as a reflection of modern women would be like using Andrew Tate as a reflection of modern men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 07:17 AM
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No one who spends their time engaging in online gender wars is actually happy. In fact, the gender war today is almost entirely driven by online outrage. Being a western man or woman in today's day and age is actually pretty good. In fact, I'd even say most people's outrage towards the opposite sex mostly comes from stuff they read on the internet rather lived life experiences. The gender war is just the product of our outrage culture that drives us to be fed and resentful at everything while be…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:31 AM
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Equating modern feminists to actual Nazis is unhinged. Lmao Do you think feminists are setting up gas chambers too?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:22 AM
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Listen to me, you could be Miss Perfect. Perfect body, perfect skin, perfect height, whatever. If all you do is stay at home all day, and you never meet new people, it doesn't matter how much you bring to the table, you'll never give yourself the opportunity to find love. So start by putting yourself out there. Go to the gym, the bar, a hobby, whatever. Talk to men, and be friendly with them. Men are so easy some of them will literally fall in love with you from the attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:20 AM
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Bro, getting a guy as a girl is easy if your willing to break societal norms. Men are so easy if you talk to them they will fall in love with you. The only problem is taking the initiative is hard and scary. Lmao But you can do it!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:17 AM
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Brother, it's twitter. Who the fuck cares? No one who unironically believes that shit is a normal functioning adult in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:14 AM
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Flexing this on an incel sub is absolutely hilarious. LMFAO Congrats of your relationship btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 05:58 AM
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Fuck no. You're gonna take off your shoes eventually and you're partner is gonna realize you're two inches shorter. Better to bite the bullet early and be upfront about your height. The right girl will like you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 05:57 AM
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This is awful advice. Yeah it could be that she had a bad day and wants you to try harder. Or it could be that she's actually not into you when literally says she's not into you. I'm not willing to risk a restraining order to find out. Nah, not when a girl whose actually into me would go out of her way to make time for me. Fuck that. She wants to play stupid games, she can win stupid prizes.
/r/seduction25/02/24 07:35 AM
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Okay, so that leaves me with two options. Option 1: Pursue harder at the risk of pretty much harassing her. Option 2: Take her "No" at face value and go approach someone else. Yeah imma go with option 2 chief. Not really looking to come off as a predator.
/r/seduction25/02/24 07:30 AM
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Hey good for you! I'm happy that it all worked out!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:17 AM
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This is a fallacy. Long term committed relationships are high risk high reward. You're experiencing the loss of a high risk, but if you had bet right and were experiencing the high reward you'd be out here saying it was totally worth it. My point is, you shouldn't use the high risk and a reason to give up on taking the chance on a high reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:17 AM
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Yeah....can't really argue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:02 AM
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id advise him that hes not a high value man if hes struggling with dating No, it's possible for "high value" men to struggle with dating. This is because being "high value" on paper isn't always conducive to being good at dating. You still have to know how to talk to women, be funny, relatable, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:07 AM
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No one's saying you have to be perfectly calibrated. But can you blame women for wanting a partner that they can have normal conversations with?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:04 AM
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Female friends will: >Give you good clothing/style advice >Give you companionship >Show you how women think >Introduce you to more women >Make you look safer >Will let you in on a fuck ton of gossip you didn't know Lots of benefits to female friends.
/r/seduction03/02/24 09:11 PM
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How many people are just naturally good at something? Most people who are good at something, even those talented, improve from trying. The only problem with sexual tension, is that it's literally the riskiest thing guys have to learn to build. Because fucking it up makes you come across as a creep, and usually fucking something up is how you learn. Feels like most guys sorta just need to take the plunge for a little bit before they get good at it. Because would rather risk being a creep once for…
/r/seduction03/02/24 08:39 PM
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The equivalent for men is not wanting to be settled for because it’s “beta”, but then also begging the women to lower their standards. LMAO. Holy fuck. I never realized how on the nose this shit is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:24 AM
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Some men would fuck a tree if they could. And other men are normal. The first two friends of yours are dealing with the former. The pretty girl probably got the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:36 AM
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Fair enough. I don't believe in the "perfect" car and if my car is good enough fo me I'll take it. I don't think I'm getting any worse of a car because it has a history. So long it's the right car for me I'm happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:57 PM
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Nah. That sounds like an an awful deal. But, as per your analogy, what if I actually get to keep the car and what if the car is perfect for me? In that case, why should I care if other people have rented it out for a short period at a cheaper price? Like, if your happy with the car, why do you care about the price? Your gonna pay a price for a car no matter what, so what difference does it make if it was rented out for free? If the car is perfect for me now, I don't give a shit how many people r…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:52 PM
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I don't get it. Was she satisfying your needs? If so, who gives a fuck if she fucked more at 20? So long as she's fucking you enough, why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:30 PM
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Oh thank god your here to tell this guy how his marriage works. I don't know how we would have gone by without your incredible insight on this total stranger. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:30 PM
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??? How is any of that relevant to what I just said?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:26 PM
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Treats other people like shit. Doesn't respect boundaries. Entitled. Cruel. I don't sleep with women who I think are evil. To me, I would degrade myself by doing something so intimate with someone so awful. Sex is something I'd like to do with someone I at least respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:17 PM
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Man calls an evil woman "something" Random woman get's offended Nice self report. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:13 PM
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Yeah, it might actually be demisexual. Not pan. Is a wild choice of words there. Lil Freudian slip Where's the slip? I meant every word. Evil women are less than fleshlights. That of course, doesn't mean that I see all good women as flesh lights, which is what you're obviously trying to imply.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:08 PM
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Sir, this is Wendy's
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:24 AM
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>I like her as a person >She's hot >We aren't compatible for a relationship >We just wanna hook up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:16 AM
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I've turned down a girl for having a vile personality. For me, I gotta be pansexual or some shit. Because the moment she turns out to be an awful human being, I just can't really see her as something worth fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:12 AM
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Why does a defeatest mindset make more sense when your older? You're 33, not 80. You're in the prime age of your life. Most women never make the first, so basing your self worth off of whether or not a woman has hit on you is ridiculous. Until you've asked out every woman, you can't say that no woman finds you attractive. Don't give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:04 PM
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Trueeeeee LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:16 AM
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Misogynists like sex. They hate women. So they use women like tools to have sex. For them, sex is not an act of intimacy with a woman. It's using a woman to get off. Yeah it's disgusting I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:37 AM
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So you admit you use it as an ad hominem that shames male sexuality, yet women are the same ones clamoring that men shouldn't put such a premium on their sexuality. Your expecting logical consistency from a movement. Most movements aren't logically consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:34 AM
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Defeatest mindset. You don't know if she finds you attractive enough until you ask her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:26 AM
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I got many comments from women saying I’m predator and manipulative to young women… despite them liking and messaging me first lol Most redditors have never actually sat down and thought about age gap relationships. Most redditors gained their opinion on this by hearing a woman online complain about shitty experience with an older guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:59 PM
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A real feminist wouldn't drop his feminist literature. He'd keep that shit locked up to his chest. Maybe rethink your misogynist biases?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:46 PM
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Stealing this. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:43 PM
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This is true, and something men online always fail to address. Why should women be in relationships with men that they aren't attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:36 PM
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Then cue the words "where have all the good men gone." The got married to better women sis.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:34 PM
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But her pendulum swung to far progressive left third wave feminism with the social upheaval of 2016. Damn, 2016 really was crazy for everyone. For me, it was defined by seeing Conservative go far off the deep end. I didn't know there was as similar phenomena happening to liberals on the other side of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:36 AM
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Yeah, I can't argue with you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:28 PM
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I wish more women were as kind hearted as you. But, unfortunately, a lot of women expect a finished product in dating rather than something they have to help create. And I don't necessarily blame them for it. Why would you settle for a guy you have to build when Prince Perfect might be next door? It's normal human behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:27 PM
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No, I don't think it's 50/50, simply because the passive role woman play in dating does mean it's easier for them to have sex. However, if you have less "assertive men" in dating then your typically also going to have less overall women being courted. So even though there's gonna be more male virgins, there's also gonna be more female virgins than ever as well. So more like 60-40 for male to female virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:32 AM
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It's both. Sometimes its planned, in that you found chemistry with someone and chose to pursue anyway. Othertimes it's spontaneous; like your at a club, drunk, horny, and find yourself making out with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:09 AM
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Purple pill Youtube and this subreddit Everyone is shallow and attracted to the best they can get. No sex is fair or perfect. I think about it a bit more than I should. I don't want to identify with it at all tbh Didn't really improve my life in any way, except now I know how to argue against redpill/blackpill. Learning about the incel ideology ironically made me more a feminist. Made my life worse. I go into real life still knowing these bullshit prejuidical ideas about women that I've learnt f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:08 AM
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Yeah, I agree with having an experienced gal to teach, that sounds awesome. What's problematic though is that from the male perspective, most guys don't expect women to be willing to teach men. The male narrative online is that most women expect their husbands to be a "finished package." And I think the fact that male virgins are kinda stigmatized proves this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:43 AM
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I'm sorry to hear that. It's quite tragic of the red pill garbage is ruining actual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:40 AM
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Yeah, here's what I don't understand: The male to female ratio is about 50/50. One woman in society for every man. So, if say a half of all men end up being virgins, would there not be a significant amount of female virgins? Even if all the experienced men are chasing after virgin women, would there still not be a lot of women who've never had sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:39 AM
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I fully fucking agree. Men need to stop putting up with dumb shit like "oh you cheated on me in my dream" or "oh I'm upset for some un related reason and now it's our problem." Like, women (rightfully) started calling out men on the bullshit we do in relationships. I think that needs to go both ways. There's tons of shit guys have to deal with in relationships that also just gets accepted as "normal."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:31 AM
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Women seeking to be Trad wives in this political climate and economy make me nervous. I don't blame em. Being a trad wife is way better than being an employee (assuming you don't have kids).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:27 AM
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You see, I agree with you there, but at that point I blame the dude for not knowing better. Like, come on bro, you really think she makes the guys she wants to fuck do her chores?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:25 AM
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You have no idea how flattered most dudes would be if a girl approached them in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:18 AM
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Yeah, I don't get this. Some the best looking dudes in your city can be found in your local gym. They're in shape, probably have some level of disipline, and look the best they ever will. If I were a woman, I'd probably head there to find a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:17 AM
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Men need to stop blaming women for the state of dating because it's just a waste of time. Even if all their criticisms about women are correct; you can't control the opposite sex. No amount of screaming or complaining is going to change what they're attracted to, or how they choose to date. The only solution for men is to change their own behaviours to create the best circumstances for themselves. Because I guarantee talking to women everywhere in real life will do you much better than complaini…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:13 AM
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Go to religious communities if you want virgin women. And expect marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:38 AM
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Dude, no offense but I just can't understand the idea of getting a literal surgery to get women to fall for you. Why would you want such vain women in the first place? Do you not believe there are better women out here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:35 AM
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They're used to the idea that women are hungry for relationships and somehow a half decent guy who just shows up will have women throwing themselves at him regardless of circumstances. It's wild how many people believe this delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:29 AM
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Feminism in the U.S., has fought for and won many, many policies disadvantaging men. Give me one example of a feminist policy that disadvantaged men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:27 AM
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How would men feel if women stated men up and down while making the “eww” face? I don't think he's referring to your example. Men don't even look at ugly women. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:26 AM
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Oh nice, another post about how if women won't fuck men, society will fall apart. It'll happen guys......any minute now......aaaaanyyyyy minute....... /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:02 PM
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"Man, why are all women hoes?" Proceeds to talk and only sleep with hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:59 PM
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ive seen some super ugly and deadbeat guys participate extensively in hookup culture, just because they had the right social connections That is wild lmao I wanna hear more about this shit. This shit is way more fascinating to me than any of the other red pill shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:54 PM
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Man, I wish we could pin this shit so everyone would get it through their heads. We do not live in a just world. It's not like the better you are as a human being, the better the world treats you. No, somethings in life have absolutely nothing to do with character, and hook up culture is one of them. Some guys look down on women and run through them like they're stepping stones on their path to hedonism. Other dudes love and respect women and then they die alone. There's no fairness in any of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:52 PM
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I completely agree. Most of these dude aren't angry about women hooking up. They're just pissed that they can't also do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:37 PM
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It took about 3 months for my last ex to cut off all guys she was seeing before me meanwhile she attempted suicide over one of my exes hitting me up Dawg I'm sorry that shit is so funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:31 PM
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For Women: You can't blame women for being hyper cautious in dating when men have a monopoly on violence that they can unload onto women at any point in time. You can't blame women for having high standards when women are always blamed for "picking wrong," when the relationship fails. You can't blame women for having different standards at 30 than she did at 20 because it's a sign of maturity for someone to know what they want as they age. We shouldn't be limited to our mistakes at 20. You can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:42 AM
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Oh thank god you're on this subreddit. I didn't know you, the all knower and guardian of women's secrets, were lurking around on reddit. I wasn't really convinced until you called everyone here unattractive. That really proved your point. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:03 AM
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The reason why the RP is so obsessed with a woman's age is because our society associate female youth with beauty. Also, your whole post is great reason why women shouldn't give a fuck about what red pill men think. The ethos of (redpill) male dating is advice is actually: "I don't give a fuck about being consistent. Anything that benefits me is fair game."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:56 PM
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Red Pillers: Lmao look at all these lame ass men pretending to be feminists to get some pussy Women: Hey, maybe we should watch out for guys who pretending to be feminists to get laid Red Pillers: oH wOw LoOk aT ThEsE WoMeN WoNt EvEn DaTe a MaLe FeMiNiSt
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:01 PM
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I'd give her my number. I'd also be hella flattered she came up to me to ask me for my number.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:30 PM
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I'll never understand why guy who can't get a girl would enter a room full of other men with the exact same problem for advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:24 PM
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A demisexual is a person who may experience sexual attraction but only after forming a strong emotional connection with someone Here you go. Also, it's normal and quite common for men and women to experience this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:09 PM
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This isn't an unpopular opinion. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:07 PM
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Damn, good job bro. That's fantastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:05 PM
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Women withholding sex as a commodity. And men having to impress her to access it. I hate this view. It makes it sound like sex is something women have to give up reluctantly, and something that men always have to bend backwards to attain. And that isn't always true. Sometimes the girl wants it as much as the guy. Sometimes the guy isn't into the girl. It's not always in this black and white manner you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:52 PM
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Can you really not see how insulting it is to be in a sexless relationship with a women carrying emotional baggage from her "fun" days? Like, bro, it's not about the sex. It's about being treated worse and having to deal with worse than the men who literally abused you. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:42 PM
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Damn, good on you for taking what you want. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:28 PM
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Q4W: Did you find your partner sexually attractive before getting to him? Or did you discover an a sense of attraction to him once you got to know him?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:07 PM
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That sounds like waaaay too much effort lmao. I need a good 9 hours of sleep. I'd rather have sex before bed. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:01 PM
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No, just because I don't want to raise a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:56 PM
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Toxic masculinity is absolutely a real thing. The male expectation to act like a caveman in order to be a "man" is a real thing. That being said, I do think aggression as a whole gets a unfairly lumped in with toxic masculinity. Unfortunately, if a man forsakes aggression, he gets walked over by all the other men. Aggression is something men need (in controlled amounts). Without it, we get taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:53 PM
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This subreddit is quite literally the worst place to find a husband. Like, every husband application is going to contain autism by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:58 AM
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Preferring your own group doesn't stop you from empathizing with other groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:58 AM
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I agree. I looked up "situtationship" on tiktok one time and tiktok decided to bombard my fyp with it. Like, great, another irl thing I have to be envious about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:22 AM
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Okay, I agree with the first part of what you said. That because women live in a different world than men, most women will never truly ever understand what its like to be a man. However, it goes the other way around as well. Us men will never truly understand what its like to be a woman. However, that doesn't mean we can't care about each other and want better for each other, even if that person's growth is personally disconnected from our own satisfaction. You need to get off social media and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:20 AM
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Why tf would I lie. Dude, I'm a guy and I feel bad for girls that get harassed. Why the fuck would a woman be incapable of feeling the same for a guy whose dying of isolation? What makes women so different from men, that they are incapable of empathizing with our struggles? We only lose said empathy when we say shit on them not wanting to date us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:40 AM
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Yeah, i aint reading allat. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:33 AM
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I think fair amount of women probably do empathize with struggling men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:32 AM
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I understand it. To him, his hatred if reactionary. He probably thinks if women weren't awful, he wouldn't have to hate them. It's like when white nationalists talk about black crime. They have to create a rationalization for their hatred, in order to justify it's existence as factual. By the way I'm not saying that any of the bigotry above is justifiable. I'm just explaining how it comes into being. I will say you have to be pretty disconnected from real life to think all women have no empathy …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:28 AM
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Why is it, that men expect women to empathize with their struggles when the men who struggle with women are literally notorious for hating them? Like, I agree that dating for men is hard. But holy fuck, the one group that you need to convince is not the group that you should be villianizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:07 AM
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Yep. It's an insult to themselves as well, because it speaks on their lack of faith in themselves to be able to pull women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:00 AM
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I mean, the term "women don't deserve good men" is said in a lotta different contexts by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:28 PM
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Damn. Tell that to the rest of your crowd. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:27 PM
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It's a combination of depression, lack of ambition, purposelessness and enabling parents. I was sort of a NEET at the height of the pandemic. It's an awful experience, not struggling to thrive but struggling to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:24 PM
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I think she's absolutely right but she really sucks at making her case. Like, every conversation situated around loneliness and sexlessness is focused on men. There absolutely zero discussions happening on behalf of women who get no male attention, or women who are never approached. The fact that these issues "male issues" and not "societal issues" is proof that we isolate women who share similar problems as men. Like, women who get no male attention get less sympathy than women who get too much…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:05 PM
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women they don’t deserve a good man, then question why women “pick bad men” or “are attracted to bad boys”? The guys who say women don't deserve good men are saying that because women pick bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:54 PM
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>"Feminism is for men and women" >"Waaah, why are most of feminists men!?"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:52 PM
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It's not your problem. Everyone's dating problems are their own problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:50 PM
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:'(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:48 PM
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Men also need to learn to identify with women as people instead of objects of desire too. I agree with this, but I think this is completely disconnected from a man's dating life. Like, no offense but the guys who are killing it on the dating market aren't the guys who care the most about women's issues. No, it's the guys who're attractive, wealthy, or charismatic. A man who puts more effort into improving himself will see more attention from women than a guy who dedicates himself to empathizing …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:16 AM
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Thank you! Good luck on your path to love. You sound like a good person, so I'm very sure you'll find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:24 AM
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I didn't downvote you lmao. I don't downvote people unless they're being rude. Yeah I agree hyper individualism contributes to the problem. I also don't fully agree with the high value man stuff either. I was only bringing it up to demonstrate how social media and lonleiness was the core problem. Also, they did have incels back then. But they were very rare. Dating was easier, cause meeting people was easier. Now we exponentially more incels than before simply because of how much harder it's all…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:23 AM
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Yeah, I fully agree. But here's the problem, let's say I go for option 1. I work on myself and become a high value man. Women now want date me and I want to date them. Okay, so what now? Where do I go to meet women now? See, this right here is the ultimate problem. Not the quality of men themselves, but the lack of a third place for men and women to meet each other organically. There are no clear rules given to us men as to how, or when to meet women in society. We're sorta just expected to figu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:58 AM
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You're attacking a strawman. They never said kindness wasn't desired in a partner. They said kindness wasn't sexually arrousing. Which is true. You wouldn't fuck an unattractive woman because she was nice, would you? Same deal with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:31 AM
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Okay, first of all you need to understand that men don't approach women very much nowadays. And a lot of being approached comes to down to: Location. Location. Location. If you're walking down a busy street in New York City, you're gonna be approached. If you're sitting in a bar full of men, you're gonna be approached. If you're at club and dressed sexy, you're gonna be approached. If you're sitting in the corner of a library with your headphones on, reading a book, you're not going to be approa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:22 AM
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It's so funny how the ideal society for these folks, is one where women are forced to be with men, instead a society where women want to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:01 AM
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Your taking her comment way too seriously. Also, yeah tiktok feminists are too stupid to be self aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:46 AM
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No I've been sick for the past two weeks. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:43 AM
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There is an epidemic of women on tiktok falling for men in masks. Incels needs to start maskmaxxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:43 AM
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If a 30 year old woman reflects on how immature she was at 19, then I could totally understand how she could be alarmed at an age gap outta compassion. I don't believe all women against age gaps are either virtue signalling or jealous. Seeing older men as predatory is all in the rage nowadays, so I totally get why women would be protective of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:32 AM
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Holy fuck I relate. Some people at university need to be given a class on hygiene. Like, the amount of people who don't shower and wear deodorant is too damn high!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:29 AM
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Congratulations!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:27 AM
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Right, but those men are the exception, not the norm. On a broader level, married men tend to have a higher quality of life than their single counterparts. When men and women can't find each other, it's a loss for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:51 AM
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Imma be real with yall. I only show up on this subreddit to shitpost in this megathread.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:46 AM
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😂😂😂 This be getting outta hand
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:39 AM
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7 year old me would have worshipped the ground she walked on <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:37 AM
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If you can't be happy being alone, you will never be happy in a relationship Completely disagree with it. I find that statement to be an empty platitude thrown around in today's world without any regard for how much of a role relationships play in a person's life. I mean, a relationship with the opposite sex is the foundational basis of a family. Some men's whole purpose in life is their spouse or their kids. And yet we insist to wave away the most ancient institution of man as if it's some sort…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:34 AM
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In hindsight I realized I was completely wrong about covid. The entire pandemic was a waste of fucking time. For all the shit it gets, Florida was the only one that got the approach right. Isolate the vulnerable, but not the young and healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:25 AM
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man to give you money Find an unattractive dude that looks like a total loser and has no female friends. Befriend him and start vetting him to see if he knows how to say no. Start by asking him for little favours, eventually working your way up to big ones. If he passed the process, and never turned you down, then congratulations, you've found yourself a slave. At this point you're probably the only female attention he's ever gotten and so he's probably madly in love with you and will do just ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:22 AM
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B, easily. No amount of sex can make up for an awful person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:56 AM
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Are you actually doubting that being ugly/socially awkward can make dating impossible? Like, bruh. I dunno what to tell you. The negative experiences of being ugly/socially awkward are seen in both sexes. This is definitely the worst hill you could die on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:53 AM
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Wait, so is it easy for any girl to pull a jacked dude? The majority of the population is over weight or obese. Being fit is a rarity nowadays. I assume jacked men are in short supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:32 PM
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Too bad on the second one he made a weird af comment about “All the Asians coming over to infest American universities”… and I was like uhhhh (‘cause I’m Asian, and an immigrant). Jesus fucking Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:37 PM
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Getting jacked is not easy. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:20 PM
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This is so dumb. You don't think there any women out there that are hoping that one day their future husband will approach them? Do you think a grandmother regrets her marriage because she didn't specifically wish for her husband to approach her?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:18 PM
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I can't tell you how happy this make me. I saw his video about being ugly years ago, and seeing him finally win is cathartic. Our boy finally made it!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:11 PM
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The wall doesn't exist, it's a coping mechanism created by men to make themselves feel better for never getting sexual attention. "Yeah, that bitch Brianna might be getting all the attention. But when she's 40, no one will want her, because she'll won't be as hot. Whereas when I'm 40, I'll look like George Clooney and all these ladies will chase after me. Brianna has no idea what she's missing out on!" Whereas, in actuality, most men who were unattractive to women at 20, will be even more unattr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:34 PM
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The ability to have sex whenever you want will always be a priviledge, even it's mostly with people you aren't attracted to. The reason why is because you know your still desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:57 AM
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Anyone that regularly visits this subreddit is a lost cause. We're all here because we love to argue and partake in the oppression olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:54 AM
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No guy who makes more than 300k a year wants them the same way these women won’t look at someone who makes less. All the guys making 300k are happy to date a cashier making 30k. Meanwhile all the girls making 300k are holding out for the guys making 300k. The lady's pain is self inflicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:59 PM
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What you fuckers don't understand is that average guys can be hot guys depending on the woman. Yall have this unrealistic protoype of perfection in your head, where you think unless you reach that standard women won't give the time of day, but that isn't true. A lot of women, will give you hot treatment, even if you are objectively attractive, because they find you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:51 PM
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Women tend to just ignore and not pursue men they don’t find attractive. Which is why men tend to claim they feel invisible. I agree with everything you said except this. Women are pretty fucking awful about this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:46 PM
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“this person is worthless in general” in a way women rarely do. Have you never seen how women talk about short men online? Lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:44 PM
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Whether the preference deserves to be scrutinized fully depends on the type of preferences. If it's a preference related to physical attraction; you can't really control that and therefore you shouldn't be judged for it. If it's a preference related to the behaviour of the opposite sex; it's fair to criticize this because our standards for behaviour should be rooted in some level of ethnics. On the note of preferences, I think there's nothing wrong with women expressing physical preferences for …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:44 PM
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Let's be real here, no man chooses an AI girlfriend. He gets an AI girlfriend because no woman would choose him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:19 PM
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His entire point was that you don’t NEED to be a good person at all..it has no impact. And I'm saying, just because you don't need to be a good person, doesn't mean that being a good person has no impact. You can become rich through being evil. That doesn't mean that you can't be rich through being good. I dunno how to dumb this down any further for you. Being a cunt and winning at dating doesn't prove that being a good human being is worthless. The only thing it proves is that being a cunt can …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:19 PM
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How? His point was that being a good person is moot, and then proceeds to say how he got laid by being bad. All that proves is that you don't need to be a good person to get laid. That doesn't mean that being a good person is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:40 PM
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You can be a neonazi and a child molester and still get ass Yeah, from either desperate women or women who don't know your true beliefs. Most women would probably be turned off by finding out you're child molestor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:16 PM
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So you got laid without being a good person. That doesn't prove that being a good person is ineffective, it simply proves that shitty people can still get laid. Now, whether you got laid despite being a shitty person or because you were shitty is the real question. And if it's the latter, is it still more effective than being good?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:15 PM
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Then just don’t integrate social media standards into your individual preferences. You're assuming that this cognitively optional and not just something that happens automatically. And even if it is, most people aren't even aware how much their standards are dictated by what they watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:54 PM
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If she was only willing date you at the finish line when you had money, then that means she's only dating you for your money. I dunno how you're gonna live with the fact that she wouldn't date you if not for your status and wealth. I feel like the girl who'll only wait for you at the finish line doesn't deserve you at your finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:51 PM
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Not me. No amount of attraction is a worth a crazy woman's bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:45 PM
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Reddit needs to start mass banning the femcel subreddits just like the incel ones. Nothing radicalizes more men into hating women than seeing women be openly sexist towards men with no repercussions (and vice versa).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:43 PM
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Maybe so. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:30 AM
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when men claim that a large percent of sexually successful men are manipulators/sociopaths, people rush Because the implication of this statement is usually that women are attracted to sociopathic traits, whereas in actuality sociopaths are just the ones willing to lie/manipulate to get laid. however, without that initial claim, a lot of people, particularly women, lament that the dating scene is filled with horrible, abusive, manipulative men, The women who say this don't realize the men they'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:29 AM
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This sub is a red pilled shithole. It's literally just men regurgitating the same opinions and agreeing with each other, all while talking past the women who beg to differ. People who come here, do so for the sake of seeing what they want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:18 AM
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Truerateme is fucked and doesn't allow anything about a 6
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:00 AM
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Start sleeping around and you'll start to realize how normal that shit is and how it's not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:59 AM
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Just a reflection of how social media has made height importance so much more extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:58 AM
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I fully understand where red/black pillers come from. I just don't think complaining about your looks will do anything to improve your situation. You might be ugly, but it's up to you to make the best with what you have to pull someone you're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:27 AM
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It's totally fair for women to be cautious around random men. Men, in general, are more likely to be a threat to you or your safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:25 AM
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Completely disagree on the humour part. Humour can take you so far bro. It's not even funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:59 AM
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I mean, doesn't it all come down to what you look like? What if your a model by Toronto standards and that's why it's so easy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:48 AM
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And yet, many women who embark on motherhood say it was a worthwhile decision. In fact, some women choose to have more kids. Why? Because for them, the value in being a mother was an experience so valuable it outweighed all the cons you've just brought up. Raising a child that you love, watching it grow and turn into an adult you're proud of, can be an experience far more valuable than all the deficits to your quality of life and looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:32 AM
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You're overthinking this. For all you know, she might not have even noticed that you were sitting behind her. You can't control how people perceive you, you can only control yourself. So don't torture yourself over what you can't control. Focus on the things that do matter to you in life, and your worries about how other people perceive you will go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:14 AM
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No it's not. If anything it's a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:06 AM
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Oh my God. I didn't realize you were incapable of noticing any similarities in genres. I never claimed that K dramas contained the bad boy archetype. I'm simply saying that even though K dramas don't have the "bad boy archetype," the fact that it's still an attractive man falling for an ordinary girl, means that fundamentally it's still an ordinary woman taming a HVM. In that sense, it's still similar to the bad boy archetype.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:08 AM
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Men who care about looks are not nearly as rare you think. Why do you think guys tend to fall in love with their female friends? It's because surprisingly, personality can make a man fall in love hard. A funny average looking girl is way better than a hottie whose a total bitch. Eventually, the allure of an hourglass figure will wear off if spending time with her drains the joy out of your soul. Where as on the contrary, the average looking girl becomes more physically attractive as the more you…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:48 AM
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They talk about it with other girls. If you're a dude whose entire social media sphere if full of blue pill garbage, it's easy to buy into the bullshit of "looks don't really matter."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:30 AM
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Lmao We both know the reason why you're no longer answering the question is because you don't like where it leads. So, I'll skip the questions and give you the conclusion for free: If the male K pop actors are still significantly more attractive than the average man, then it still reinforces the idea that women are "taming" the guy that every girl wants. It's still the age old tale of an ordinary girl taming the HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:56 AM
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Yeah, and what do they typically look like? Do most of them look like average looking men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:35 AM
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Trust me. You made the right choice. Any minor self esteem issues I had became a thousand times worse after getting on tiktok. Tiktok makes you feel like if you're not in the top echelon of society, you are nobody. Even if you logically know that these aren't normal looking people, it's really hard not to internalize some of this when you're seeing it everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:03 AM
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Because sexless men tend to develop misogynistic attitudes when they can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:54 PM
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Have you ever seen the male lead in a K drama? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:46 PM
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They weren't doing it for you. They were doing it for their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:20 PM
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Same thing happened to me. Helped wingman a friend into a relationship. She wanted to repay me by being a wingman. Holy fuck. She walked up to a girl I was talking to, and said something along the lines of "is he doing okay? He's still kinda new to this....hahaha" It was unbelievably embarrassing, and basically killed any chemistry I had going with those women. Never had her wingman me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:17 PM
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If you’re old/mature enough you know for fact that nothing will come from heaven to save you and that includes getting the right amount of sex/intimacy with a woman that you need Yeah, sure. It's up to us men entirely to find initimacy all on our own. It'll never happen to us passively. And yeah, it's kind of unfair how the world sorta just gives the role of the pursuer. But, do we not owe our fellow human beings the respect and decency in our attempts at intimacy? Like, we can't fully control h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:08 PM
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Nice bait. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:59 PM
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It's so hard not to get blackpilled off of tiktok. All the men/women that get sexual attention are unrealistically attractive. Comment sections are full of women who idolize a man's height, and men who idolize a girls physique. It feels like the only thing that matters nowadays is being attractive. It fucking sucks to live in a world where I, as an average man, can see more attractive people in a day than my ancestors have ever seen in their lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:56 PM
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Misandry from women breeds misogyny in men. The end result is still more women getting killed. You are not making the case for misandry that you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:44 PM
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No. Only dumbass misogynists genuinely believe that taking different dicks changes any part of the vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:44 PM
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Oh nice, someone who actually watched the tiktok. I was wondering what everyone else here was talking about. At no point does the woman in the tiktok talk about how she can't sleep with her husband cause she's 'had better.' The whole point of the video is that the guilt of her past is stopping her from enjoying her marriage now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:08 AM
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I don't care about n count. I'm convinced the men who do are just insecure as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:50 AM
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I agree. It's so fucking awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:49 AM
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Dude, with all due respect: What the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:44 AM
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I don't blame any man/woman who refuses to date an autistic person because their autism prevents them from acting normal in public. It's not the fault of the autistic person. But at the same time, that doesn't compel anyone to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:42 AM
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I actually watched the Barbie movie. It was actually pretty good. I went into it hearing it'd be a feminist movie, and expected a ton of "men bad" jokes as a result. What I found instead, was a really sympathetic view towards incels and men in general. Like, the main antagonist wasn't hated and spat on as an enforcer of the patriarchy, but was actually sympathized with as a victim of the system he was made in. I dunno if I would have called myself a feminist before, but the barbie movie might ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:35 AM
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Yeah but the sexual strategies themselves are entirely different, hence why they should be categorized differently. Women and FDS and men on the Red Pill would fucking hate each other by the way. They wouldn't see eye to eye at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:32 AM
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FDS isn't red pilled. The red pill is about becoming a high value man to attract women. FDS is more about raising your standards to attract the man you want. Minimal self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:56 AM
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Slow drift toward absurdity: 80% of women are only attracted to 20% of men. Could you please explain why this one is absurd? Most "attractive men" have certain shared characteristic. Tall. Nice hair line. Good jaw structure. Great facial symmetry, etc. Only a small percentage of men have most of those characteristics. So it doesn't seem like a stretch to say that only a small percentage of men are considered attractive. Also, the vast majority of men don't get any meaningful success on dating ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:49 AM
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My brother in Christ, why would you ever interact with such godawful people?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:00 AM
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Damn. A person who can have fwb and keep limited to that. Good on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:29 PM
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You're a good person u/Jambi1913. I'm wishing you well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:12 PM
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I kinda relate to this. Misandrists on tiktok who champion feminism have made me hate feminism. I bet women who spend time on this subreddit and incel echo chambers probably feels the same way about men's rights. Why should I give a fuck about the problems of the opposite sex, when they clearly don't care about mine and blame me for all of theirs? The internet does not give us a fair and charitable interpretation about the opposite and sex and their problems. I kinda wish I never saw the brainro…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:06 PM
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I'm gonna be real with you chief. I get where your coming from. But honestly, why should I give a fuck about how I compare to her past lovers? Like, if me and her are having sex, and we're both having the time of our lives, who the fuck cares what happened in the past? If someone else gave her a better orgasm, so what? It's not like it makes my life worse in any sorta way. And besides, that's way better than her getting traumatized or some shit that might have happened in the past. Comparison is…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:59 PM
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Correlation does not equal causation. I noticed no one’s showed me any statistics that explicitly stated that the study controlled for socio-economics, the crime rates in certain areas, and general stability of the households. Also, the age of the parents also play a role. For the record, studies that look at children raised in single parent house holds vs. dual parent house holds absolutely control for socioeconomics, family stability, etc. They also often use twin studies to control for the ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:51 PM
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Outta curiosity, do you just hook up with random people for casual sex, or do you just have a fwb? And if it's the latter, how do you avoid getting attached?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:44 PM
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Zack and Miri Make a Porno // Know Seth Rogan isn't short and fat. He's tall and has got a nice face. So that literally proves my point. The Holiday Starring Jude Law and Jack Black. Jack Black is probably the only example that proves your point. But the fact that the majority of your examples (Seth Rogan/Jude Law) don't even meet the criteria doesn't really help your case. Yes, a certain threshold needs to be met, yet even once that has been acehived, there are still other criteria need to be s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:27 PM
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The answer is simple. Our society holds the belief that men rule the world, and that the world was made for men. Therefore, anything bad I say about men, can't be that bad since I'm actually fighting back against my oppressors. So when women have standards, it's liberating. But when men have standards, it's oppressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:57 AM
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Short men might struggle more, but tall women also struggle more. It’s more a reflection of how gender roles have carried into attractiveness. Tall women only struggle because they try to aim for tall men. Almost no man ever turn down a girl for being too tall. Whereas as almost every woman would turn down a guy for being shorter than him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:47 AM
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Tell me why then is porn directed at females still an exceptionally small market? If truly women got turned on by looks, we should have, tall, muscular, men making a killing doing adult entertainment directed at women. Isn't ever movie or TV show made for women starring an attractive tall white guy? Have you ever seen the lead of a rom com for women be some whose short and fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:44 AM
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Goth chicks and emo chicks are absolutely mainstream. That shit hasn't been a niche, controversial look in decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:41 AM
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I just beat Spiderman: Miles Morales, like, yesterday. It was amazing. Also yeah, he's Miles is gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:40 PM
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Jesus Christ. What the actual fuck is wrong with some people? I'm sorry you had to go through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:34 PM
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I feel like the idea of men watching violent porn is really overblown by feminists in academia. Most men watch normal without violence. Very few men actually like the idea of a girl bleeding, crying, or getting hurt during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:28 PM
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CNC and BDSM are totally unrelated to rape? The mental gymnastics here are insane. The usage of a safe word, and the man not being an actual rapist, doesn't detract from the fact that the women still sought out to imitate the experience of a lack of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:25 PM
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Nah, I'm a real feminist. You shouldn't date any man that visits this sub either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:11 PM
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I don't think you understand that having sex doesn't fundamentally damage a person or your value as a human being. Why are you pushing an ideology onto me that I never expressed? I have nothing against women who sleep around. I'm not a red piller. Anyway, I feel like we're going in circles. So lemme just say this to clear things up. I am okay with women sleeping around. I am okay with women pursuing sexually attractive men. I am okay with women seeking compatibility in relationships. I fully sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:33 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:34 PM
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I was invisible for the longest time. Never kissed until I was 20. Fat, anxious, shy, and I tried putting myself out there. Man, I can't imagine the amount of guys in their 30s reading this, who have never kissed a woman in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:30 PM
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I don't see what the problem is with women enjoying themselves on the same level as men. It's almost like we're all individuals and preserving the sanctity of our vagina doesn't really define who we are as people anymore. There's nothing wrong with women enjoying sex. I''m not against any of that. However, you initially asked why men are so obsessed with finding out what women are sexually attracted to, rather than treating them as intelligent and compatible individuals. Now you're out here sayi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:25 PM
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Like, it blows my kind that you could think of a human being as anything less than an actual sentient individual capable of reason and ambitions beyond just dating an incel or a red piller. Do you think people date like sentient, ambitious, intelligent individuals? Personally, I see women sleeping with men who are hot first, and compatible second. Most guys who aren't in the first category, aren't gonna try to prioritize the second category.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:43 PM
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I laughed for about a good five minutes after reading this names.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:36 PM
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But mostly you have to present strong physical genetics, (talll, or muscular, or athletic) a masculine personality (whether that be confidence, charisma, ambition, a natural born leader, social butterfly, funny in a witty non dorky way) and this can present itself in many different forms - but the FOUNDATION, the structure is the same. What about women who live chubby guys? What about women who like scrawny guys? What about women like submissive guy? What about women who like shy guys? Like, yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:35 PM
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She visits this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:47 AM
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The victim blaming in this sub is insane. If a woman dates an asshole it's because she's secretly into him. And if she disagrees, she's just unaware of her true desires and lacks self awareness. All women love bad men, and thats why bad men get into relationships. No, men never hide their abusive behaviours on a first date. Men never become abusive over time. Nope. If a woman is abused, she should have picked better. Because men are always open, honest, and transparent about their intentions and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:36 PM
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Some women date good men, who were actually assholes Some women date good men, who slowly turned into assholes. Some women date men, despite them being assholes And then some women are actually into assholes. OP, just because there are assholes in relationships, doesn't mean the vast majority of women are into assholes. There are lots of reasons why people might find themselves in a relationship with an abuser, but that doesn't mean they love the abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:24 PM
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Dude, your mom sounds awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:14 PM
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I mean, it's still not bad advice. "Don't be a garbage human and stay away from garbage women" is still advice men need to hear today.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:04 PM
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Found the asian kid
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:03 PM
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Fit girls are peak
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:01 PM
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It's not rocket science. The people we are desperately attracted to, are the ones we want unrelenting love and attention. The people we are repulsed by, are the ones we consider abhorrent when they give us unrelenting love and attention. There are different standards for hot people. versus ugly people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:56 PM
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I'm not the one driving it to an extreme. You're the one doing that. I believe that men are expected to pay on first date, even if its something small like brunch at a local diner. The most extreme alternative was brought up by you, as a way to act like this phenomenon doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:52 PM
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Proof that looks/charms are the most important thing about being in a relationship. I know guys who are straight up awful. Misogynistic opinions, criminal activities. And yet, these guys had no problem finding women to sleep with. Being attractive and asking women out is by far the most important thing in modern dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:31 AM
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* Take her to expensive exotic restaurants * In what world do you live in, where doesn't imply paying for her food? Why else would she be excited to go to an exotic restaurant? To split a very expensive bill? But they aren't reflected in reality, that's the whole point. Right. So what expectation do you think men are held to? Do you think men are held no expectations whatsoever?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:28 AM
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Nothing in that litany of expectations said "expect to pay." Expect to pay what? Is this just another "I don't like that it's the norm that men have to pay for the first date so I'm going to make up a bunch of other stuff to make women seem unreasonable?" I don't understand. Are you acknowledging that it's the norm that men have to pay for the first date, while simultaneously denying that it's an expectation placed upon men? Also, what other stuff did I make up? I didn't make up any of these thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:53 PM
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Who is saying this? This feels like advice you get from grandma, not your peers. These are literally the typical dating standards thrust upon men. Go on social media and you will masess of women complaining about broke men who don't pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:21 PM
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True. Guys are literally snowflakes. They'll say the most horrendous, misogynistic, dehumanizing shit about fat women. Single mothers. Ugly women. etc. But a girl wants to date a tall guy, or a rich guy, and men literally seethe and commit mass shootings. Like, no man or woman is entitled to a loving relationship. No man or woman is entitled to sex. These things are luxury for those who can achieve them, but ultimately society doesn't owe you either of these things because you get horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:20 PM
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Deadass read a comment from a woman on one of the dating subs about how only kind men get girlfriends "You can't get a relationship because you aren't a kind person" "Why are so many of my ex boyfriends so abusive?"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:16 PM
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Buy her flowers Take her to expensive exotic restaurants This stuff has actually been proven to be effective though. Look up studies on "benevolent sexism." Men who do nice gestures for women have more dating success the ones who don't bother. Now, are there gonna be women who are exploit that for free food? Absolutely. But they are a minority, and taking risks is apart of the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:14 PM
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Jesus Christ. Sorry dude. I'm sure they were just trying to spare your feelings or some shit. The advice they should have given you was, "hit the gym and start asking out as many women as you can."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:21 AM
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Only mentally challenged men who are hoping for a mosel of chance are dumb enough to be in the "friendzone." The woman doesn't put you in the friendzone. You put yourself into the friendzone. If she turns you down, move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:14 AM
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Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks I hate this mindset because it creates this fake binary that you can either be her fuckable friend with benefit, or her unattractive reliable $imp. Like, y'all are aware there are dudes out there that are attractive and are down to settle right? Y'all are aware that it's only a minority of men, that are trying around for their entires lives? AF/BB is a philosophy made by losers that's used to rationalize their own shitty attitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:13 AM
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No, everyone does not win. Korean women are being forced to live with the ultimatum of either putting up with abuse, or living without a partner. Korean men are gonna get even more spiteful towards Feminism and women in general, and inequalities women in Korea currently face will continue to persist. It's a lose/lose situation for everyone. Korean men/women need to find some way to loosen tensions and work towards reconciliation. This is where Feminism can come in and fix the problem, but in ord…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:19 AM
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No. Men enjoy their position of superiority in Korea. They don't believe that women are as capable of men and they believe korean women are born to serve Korean men. Dismantling mandatory enlistment won't change or stop cultural expectations regarding sex in Korea. Men think that they're better and inherently more valuable than women in Korea. Look, truth is, I don't know enough about Korean culture, or the way Korean men think, to be able to argue against this. So maybe you're right, I don't kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 09:09 PM
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Typically speaking, if you're a dude, and you start treating a woman poorly because she rejected you, are a certified cunt. Your situation is a bit different though. You're not treating her poorly for not giving her a ride. You're treating her like you would treat any other stranger who asked for a ride. And yeah, while that's different from the treatment she would have gotten if she was a dating prospect. She's no longer a dating prospect, and so she's not entitled to that treatment. Treating a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:29 PM
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The term "gender war" was a hyperbole, not meant to be taken literally. Lmao Also, damn. If that's all common and true, then the situation for women in Korea is pretty fucked. That being said, it's gonna hard to convince any man that the patriarchy is working in his favour at the behest of women, if that same patriarchy is sending men to do mandatory military at 18. Which, is undeniably a systemic discrimination against men. If the mandatory military service wasn't in place, there would be less …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:04 PM
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So what? If women only find the top 20% of men attractive (this isn’t true by the way- that data is hugely flawed) then the competition just makes it harder on everyone except those 20%. That’s a choice they get to make So you don't get to complain about how men are holding women to unfair higher standard. At least a fifth of men would hit on the fat chick. A fifth of women wouldn't even give a fat guy a chance. Yes, it's their right to make that choice. But don't come on here, acknowledging thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:54 PM
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"Small dick energy" is a term popularized by liberal/progressive women. Oh the irony And then they ask why men end up following Jordan Peterson or Andrew Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:49 AM
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and don’t have attractive personalities to boot so obviously women are going to keep them in the friendzone. Who the fuck keeps someone with unattractive personality as their friend? Nah, you're in the friendzone when you got an attractive personality, but not an attractive face to match it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:47 AM
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Or does getting to know a woman first inherently lead to the friend zone, when the man does a poor job of trying to transition the dynamic from platonic to romantic? Even if the man does this perfectly, there's still a decent chance he's gonna get rejected because the girl is just not into him. Neither party's fault. Just the way it is. HOWEVER, that still proves OP's point. Why waste 3 weeks trying to development and platonic relationship with a woman, and turn it into a romantic one, when you …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:46 AM
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But the difference is, women only find the top 20% of men attractive, whereas men find the top 50% of women attractive. Attraction may not be negotiable for most men and women, but sure is alot more reasonable for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:33 AM
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Average men are always dumpster. Average women on the other hand, are luxury desserts. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:29 AM
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I agree. But if you have tons of suitors but you don't find any of them attractive, then your dating life isn't that bad. You're just picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:26 AM
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Man fuck this subreddit. All this incel shit is polluting my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:20 AM
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Damn. Your superficial dealbreakers automatically disqualify at least 1/3 of all men. Can't judge you for it though. Mine are worse: -Obese -Stupid -Not thicc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:30 AM
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Women who date you because of money, are dating you despite your money. That being said, if $$$ is what it takes to make attractive woman date a normal looking man, then fuck it, no one can blame man for doing what he can to get what he wants. Also, ironically, men wanting $$$ to attract women is also what partially contributes to the gender pay gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:27 AM
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If your not willing to give average man a chance then no offense but your dating problems are self inflicted. There are too many average women who think they're above average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:23 AM
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This is just objectively untrue. Researchers done twin studies where each twin was put in a different household with a different Socioeconomic background and parenting method. They found that despite being raised in different environments, the twins were relatively similar in terms of extroversion, IQ, and personality. So basically, your genetics play the biggest role in who you are. Not your enviroment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:19 AM
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0 Unless you wanna live in a world where people hate you because other people who look like you have done shitty things, it's better not to adopt prejudice and negative biases against groups of people based on negative experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:16 AM
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men will say "oh she does not need to do all that" but that's how women look and feel smooth and clean. ....so women aren't being held to that standard. They're choosing that standard on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:13 AM
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Any tips from the guys and gals here? Don't ever bring up talking points from this subreddit in real life. It's the ultimate tool for abstinence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:09 AM
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Women should never have been given any power. Bring back the patriarchy through physical superiority! Yeah lmao. Men have been leaders for most of mankind, and that's why everything fucking sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:08 AM
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Y'all ever look at the gender war happening in Korea? It makes the gender war here look like child's play. Women swearing off any sort of sexual/romantic relationship with men. Men using the word "feminist" as a slur. Shit's actually wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:03 AM
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That ain't sex, that's a marathon.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:01 AM
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If that were the case, why was he ever popular in the first place? It's twitch bro, no one gives a shit if your short. If your funny or entertaining, you will have an audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:19 AM
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.....and that's why he put up with it. He's dependent on her. Economically. Sexually. Romantically. He probably thought if he put his foot down, he couldn't do much better. Abusive relationships are almost always a product of desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:16 AM
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Wow. That story is hella fucked. Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:05 AM
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This world is so fucked. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:55 PM
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Based and wise pilled. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:53 PM
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Every man, regardless of how he looks, thinks he deserves a beautiful woman. He thinks he should be accepted as he is, and that women should value him for his wonderful personality or potential for future earnings. Bruh what? Literally go guy thinks that, otherwise so many men wouldn't be lookmaxxing in the gym or getting more money to find a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:52 PM
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I've had it the other way though, where your ex treated you like shit but you see on social media how much more he's into his new gf. I mean, in all fairness. Your looking at him through social media. In other words, your judging the image he wants you and everyone to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:34 AM
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It's teen girls though. This kind of rhetoric is being promoted by grown ass women. Like, early 20s or whatever. And their videos are getting 200k likes too. But I kinda agree with the gist of your point. It's tiktok. Who the fuck cares? It's the furthest thing from real life. Unlike this reddit thread amiright? haha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:27 AM
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Tiktok is really making think Gen Z really is the last generation...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:24 AM
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Which is so funny because the manosphere will never shut the fuck about how hard it is for men to get laid. These bastards wanna slut shame, and then cry about how women only sleep with chad. Well, guess what. If I'm gonna get slut shamed for sleeping with a lot of men, then I guess I have to pick who I sleep with really carefully. Which means I'm probably gonna pick Chad and stick with him to avoid being slut shamed. If manotards were smart enough to understand the consequences of their actions…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:22 AM
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Most of them just want a guy who makes enough money that they can afford a decent lifestyle, especially if they also plan to raise kids. Nah. Most women would crazy over a guy who makes a ridiculous amount of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:17 AM
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I love how you selectively picked the weakest criticisms made against women. Really goes to show how much faith you have in your own arguments. The average man is not a rapist. But the average woman does expect her man to be a provider and in some sense a protector. The average man is not abusive. But the average man will be treated as a potential abuser by most women up until they get to know him. But of course, let's just ignore all that. Let's focus on Onlyfans and make up. Whatever straw man…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:10 AM
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Yes, incomes are lower, and median housing prices are higher. I never disputed that. All I'm saying is that it's not 7X increase in price like you think it is. It's a 2x increase, and mostly only in the largest cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:57 PM
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Iirc about 30 to 40 are using data apps now but that still isn't more than the majority nor does it follow that they necessarily will not meet someone organically quitting the app or just finding someone in between. Lmao, 30-40% is fucking massive. What are you talking about? That's a third of all relationships. Lmao Most women won't dismiss you because of that. Just go look at any couple you know and ask yourself was it their height ? He literally provided you a statistic where 90% of women wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:42 AM
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Or, when they can use the "Patriarchy" to explain how it screws over men. The only male suffering worth validating is the suffering caused by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:33 AM
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The guys who won't wait more than 3 dates are the guys who actually have options and can afford to move on to another girl. No, these are the guys who complain about how modern women are whores. These are the guys that slut shame women while simultaneously trying to sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:32 AM
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YES. Thank you. Red Pill men are the most hypocrital subhumans on the planet. "Woe is me. I can't find a virgin to marry." Proceeds to look up how guides on how fuck as many women as possible Honestly, I feel bad for modern women. They're expected to be whores and virgins at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:31 AM
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Please, The Red Pill ideology was built around Pick Up Artists. Do you really think your religious uncle approved of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:28 AM
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It never ceases to amaze me that men need to be reminded that people who like sex… prefer sexy people. It's shocking because women like virtue signal how much they care about personality over looks on the internet. Also, every time sexlessness among men gets brought up on Reddit/Twitter/Tumblr, the answers from bluepillers are always ends up being "those men need to work on their personality/confidence/shower." For some reason, the internet just loves to pretend that attraction to looks is prima…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:25 AM
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Yeah, except of these guys who are helping you get laid are a pretty good gateway to right wing politics. Most of these guys are socially conservative themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:18 AM
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Yep. The right wing essentially has an entire monopoly on young men because the only people willing to validate young men's problems are red pillers (who are right wing adjacent). This is, in my opinion, a major flaw in the progressive movement. We have all these voices to speak out for minorities, trans people, women, etc. But who speaks out for the average, disenfranchised man? When the progressive movement fails to reach out to this part of the political demographic, those unheard voices end …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:15 AM
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Oh it's simple: "The reason why dating is so difficult for men today, is because men are collectively failing. The average man is more likely to drop out of college, is less likely to have a relationship, is more likely to be overweight, is more likely to live with his parents, and is more likely to have never had a girlfriend." "Men, simply, need to step up and do better." This is essentially what most of the feminist spaces on Reddit believe anyway. I wouldn't be surprised if this was the most…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:11 AM
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The thing is, if Mr Harvard has his pick of the litter, why wouldn't he just pick the girl whose attractive and well educated?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:04 AM
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The reality? In 1980, the median price of houses was $65,000 — the median income at the time was $24,720. $65,000 in 1980s when adjusted for inflation is $237,313 today. So if the modern home costs $430,000 then it's actually a 2x increase, not a 7x increase. And then you have to account for the fact that most of these extreme price increase are happening in places with the most population density, like NYC, LA, Chicago, Miami, etc. Basically, so long as you don't live in a major US city, housin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:59 AM
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