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FundamentalsNo_Acanthisitta5052/r/seduction12/07/21 08:38 PM
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True. You need to be attractive in a very specific manner for that. I have only seen a handful of guys with that level of attraction. There aren’t many of them. However, you can get all the way with a good enough personanilty and persona.
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:56 AM
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Personality in men and ability is the greatest predictor of success in all domains of life. Of course, there are built in mechanisms in women to evaluate this. Having the right combination of personality and ability can make you achieve 1000-10000 times more than a merely attractive person can, in all domains of life. Of course, historically this meant being brutal and highly socially intelligent, or just highly socially intelligent.
/r/seduction09/08/22 07:06 PM
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This is a good point. Dullness in men is not attractive at all, and a lack of initiative is definitely not.
/r/seduction09/08/22 07:03 PM
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Wow, so women value socially intelligent men, especially well-connected, and well established men. I am sure you can also play along the fanatasy, adventure and thrill-seeking trope. However, well-established men is a significant predictor of resources, historically. So, no wonder that women intuitively find lonely men, even though they are attractive, uninteresting. Unless, you are extremely attractive.
/r/seduction09/08/22 07:02 PM
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He got an attractive gf. So, he is good enough. He also lands dates.
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:56 PM
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Ok, so you got an attractive gf, which means you are not ugly. I reckon you need to be more interesting to be around, instead of a boring attractive guy with a predictable future.
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:52 PM
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It does not matter. Just trouble.
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:09 PM
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Not scary, just no fun
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:08 PM
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Cops are no fun. At least lawyers won’t care, or have a difficult path to see justice. A cop can just put you in custody. Just move on.
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:07 PM
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Cops are literally one the no-go professions I would date. I would date a drug dealer or a lawyer. However, not a cop, because someone will get hurt.
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:06 PM
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Dude, you serious? Check you arithmetic.
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:52 AM
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Yes.
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:51 AM
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You need to be a mind reader to be effective. For example, there are certain kinds of behavior you know are universally unacceptable. You need to know behaviors that are accepted and attractive to women.
/r/seduction04/04/22 05:39 PM
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No, I think you need to exude sexy in your interactions. If you don’t get this, then you need to imagine what it looks like and have empathy for how it makes women feel. You need an ability to model the psychological thoughts in a women in order to know what you should do. You need to infer her state of mind and transitions as you are acting out in your head, therein will you identify various archetypes that will make her feel XYZ.
/r/seduction04/04/22 05:08 PM
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Ok, she is that type. Then being boring means she would definitely stake your heart. You should have been able to see this a mile away. If not, that is something to work on. If you can’t predict the desires of the women you care about in your life, then you will overlook opportunities and be inconsistent. Find a tone that you can stick with and vary.
/r/seduction04/04/22 03:45 PM
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You need to first learn the variety of ways people engage in relationships, the good, bad and depraved. If you think walking with a dog is entertaining, then I am sorry, but only specific women like that. Jesus. You have a TON to learn. At least you are good enough to get a gf, but you sound like a dead person when it comes to relationships. Absolute, dead. DEAD!
/r/seduction04/04/22 05:10 AM
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You need to be able to build entertaining relationships.
/r/seduction03/04/22 09:33 PM
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About your title. You need a great deal of verbal and mental fluidity to make any topic, and any encounter interesting. I have an analytical background, so I can turn any conversation into a productive one if that is warranted. This helps building relationships in general. You talked about flirting however. It spawns from your demeanor, tonality and pace first. The content of what I detail tells her indirectly that I am competent. You can notice how smart a person is by the way the talk within a…
/r/seduction28/03/22 07:02 PM
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Ok, so at this point since you sound like you are good enough what I do is taking care of myself professionally so that I don’t sweat to pay various experiences. Financial security on top of everything else just cements your relative status in her eyes, but it is better to not depend on it as it can get unsustainable. You also don’t want to set expectations on paying heavily for experiences as she will be fking other guys for free. You want to cultivate a lover dynamic. I do it by spending some …
/r/seduction28/03/22 06:33 PM
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Check again. Are you objectively attractive? Could you stand next to a good-looking, manly senior manager and sway a vote? Could you get into a model agency? Or are you just a bit above average at a fraternity party with an ok gym body. Where are you at? I think a lot of guys need a beard for example.
/r/seduction28/03/22 05:42 PM
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First be attractive. You don’t need to look like a model, however, you need to look like a real man. That is all. Any guy can work enough to look like a real man. With eye surgery and adhesive beard for example.
/r/seduction28/03/22 04:13 PM
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Here is the thing. Some relationships are expendable and some people are expendable. Why are you surprised. Get a grip.
/r/seduction26/03/22 07:35 PM
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You don’t need to be silly for that, just be more reckless and stupid whilst keeping a hard head in that context.
/r/seduction26/03/22 05:19 PM
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Haha, basically. Different preferences for different women, but always within the tract of attractive. Just do not he ugly. You don’t need to look like a model, but you need to look like a ‘corporate boss type’ or something equivalent that automatically assumed respect.
/r/seduction26/03/22 03:53 PM
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Hey, only because you can’t see the obvious solution does not mean it exists. Here. No, I in early-mid 20s myself, working in quant finance, I am not an old bloke. I am not some 30+ dude or some 40+ dude. However, I don’t think this matters. I could just go for any girl (given my age), however, the comment asked for how to find a stable, great woman with a head, and not some fuckbuddy, so here it is. I don’t use tinder, I figure out whom is pretty and invite them on to an experience through casu…
/r/seduction26/03/22 02:50 PM
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I applied negation proportionality. Yes, most of the time they know what they want, and a few times they don’t.
/r/seduction26/03/22 07:27 AM
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Oh also, living a fast life may be very attractive to many. Not a flashy life, but a fast, steamy and sexy life. You need some money for this, or you can mimick surfers, boaters or drug life, to induce the same level of thrill with little ongoing costs. I have not tried those styles however, I know a guy who owns a big boat (not a yatch, just a big boat), and is doing well with that. I also know nomads who are doing fine, they work remotely so have time to explore. I just earn enough in financia…
/r/seduction26/03/22 07:05 AM
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If you are qualified, as in checking all of the boxes then respectable women would want to settle with you. You need to check all of the boxes, practically. There are plenty of women who just want a man that ticks the marks, and be DONE with searching, because sifting through a hoard of shit is not fun and it takes A LOT of time. The pile of shit is massive, ego, abuse, insecurity, vulnerability, too soft, too boring, no hygiene, no prospects, no stability in professional life, no redeemable cre…
/r/seduction26/03/22 06:50 AM
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You are funny.
/r/seduction26/03/22 06:09 AM
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No, you can bring out the devil in older people. It is just that men that age don’t do it, so they don’t see it.
/r/seduction26/03/22 05:52 AM
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No, have a hard undertone always, and then layer sensibilities. Never layer vulnerabilities.
/r/seduction26/03/22 05:51 AM
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Right, it is boring to be stable. I am a bit disappointed when a woman wants stability, security and predictability. There are many so many of them, and OP is talking about a different group of women.
/r/seduction26/03/22 05:48 AM
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I can see how the second sentence is true, and not true. The first sentence is bullshit.
/r/seduction26/03/22 05:46 AM
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What are you even talking about? This is real for a subgroup of women that he wants.
/r/seduction26/03/22 05:45 AM
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You need to be someone that is not a burden as well
/r/seduction26/03/22 05:44 AM
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No you need to dance with the tantrums and trauma. Do not push it away, invite it and devolve into chaos. You want chaos. You want instability, because everything else is too perfect. You should have a life able to withstand the instability a woman can induce in your life. If not, then you are not manly enough.
/r/seduction26/03/22 05:43 AM
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You need to add that they also want a man of a man and not a bloke.
/r/seduction26/03/22 05:41 AM
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Silly.
/r/seduction26/03/22 04:20 AM
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What are you even talking about. I actually give helpful advice. Be helpful. You are a joke. I bet you have no actionable advice. Small brains.
/r/seduction26/03/22 04:17 AM
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Become attractive with surgery. Be at least 85kg and 6 ft with at most 19 percent body fat. Be standard in career. • Height surgery combined with stem-cell therapy prior to and after surgery to force faster and more robust healing. Costs 200k+ USD, which is cheap if you actually build a small firm instead of just working on your career. If you can’t pay this, then do not even try. • Adhesive beard • Facial surgery (the right kind)
/r/seduction26/03/22 03:50 AM
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Hey, buy medical interventions to solve your acne and surgery. You can laser remove acne scars as well. Only poor people stay ugly. You can be smoking hot. For example, adhesive beards and surgery.
/r/seduction26/03/22 03:49 AM
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That was not my range. You need enough to be interesting. Who wants to have an intellectual conversation when the expertise does not align. Not what I meant. Who wants to have conversations that you have with a colleague, when the time is for entertainment? Only boring people. If you are too dumb, you don’t even know how to self-correct make any topic interesting, nor even plan before you speak in real-time. I mean genuinely interesting, and not just repeating and reporting what is top topic for…
/r/seduction26/03/22 03:43 AM
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What the fuck is this... You don’t even have women that want you. You need surgery, and then try again. Stop leading guys down unproductive avenues. You need to tackle you own physical attractiveness first, in maximal terms (gym, status and personality is not enough). You need surgery on top of this.
/r/seduction26/03/22 02:30 AM
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He doesn’t know what he is talking about. Romanticism has not worked for him.
/r/seduction26/03/22 02:28 AM
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This is partially correct. Don’t be rude, and do not be silly. Have a spine, and have fun. You last sentence is bs. She will smell the lie. Don’t lie, and what the heck? Why talk about falling so early, get a grip. I don’t think you know how to talk to a girl if you feel like you need to narrate how much you ‘like’ and how much you are about to ‘fall’ for her. Please... Sit. You are a fraud. Why can’t you just have fun, be worthy of company, and then start with romanticism afterwards? Oh yea, yo…
/r/seduction26/03/22 02:21 AM
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You just don’t see that that guy probably completed a college degree in an respectable domain. The style of conversations you have at 95 and at 115 iq is so different. You see a random bloke and think he is a blue collar fatty, when he may he able to hold extremely interesting conversations.
/r/seduction26/03/22 02:18 AM
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Yes, this is true. He should not be rude. I don’t even think he knows how to be assertive. Honestly, why is that even needed. Get a grip on your income and get surgery. Wow... Unattractive men are just innately uninteresting, unless you are smart and have a serious, big man job. If you are a random bloke, with avg status, then jump into a volcano.
/r/seduction26/03/22 02:16 AM
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Hey, get surgery. If a guy can turn into a 8/10 woman with enough surgery, you can turn yourself into a 8/10 guy. If you are avg looking, get surgery. Honestly, being average is a blessing, because nothing stops you from getting to 8/10, 9/10. Expect for 150-180k USD in surgeries. 😉 Height surgery Adhesive beard Facial surgery If supermodels do this, and you should too. Kendall Jenner looked plain and average before surgery. The same with Kylie Jenner, and so many celebrities. You can compare yo…
/r/seduction26/03/22 02:12 AM
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Honestly, I feel like anyone that uses ‘game’ in their vernacular does not know what good ‘game’ looks like for a diverse set of women. You just assume this narrow archetype.
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:03 AM
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He can buy surrogacy like Elon. Money is everything, and then have a gf that equals himself.
/r/seduction23/03/22 03:49 AM
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Shut the fuck up dude. Don’t talk what you don’t understand. Money = physical attractiveness and personality (so long you don’t have a soy-boy personality).
/r/seduction23/03/22 03:47 AM
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Yes, this is true. Money is actually everything now, because you can afford all kinds of surgeries and medical interventions. Get rich. Everything follows from this. EVERYTHING.
/r/seduction23/03/22 03:46 AM
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Everything a baby does is cute, because that is what they look like.
/r/seduction23/03/22 03:29 AM
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Work. Weights. Surgery.
/r/seduction21/03/22 05:31 AM
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Get surgery and become objectively attractive. Or work on yourself naturally. However, there is a limit.
/r/seduction21/03/22 05:27 AM
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Dating apps may be pay to win, or you need to be very attractive. You can get surgery, I have seen someone go from 3 to 8. Good luck.
/r/seduction21/03/22 05:17 AM
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I identify woman that what an entertaining experience. Maybe they want to live out a movie scene, or a thought experiment. I provide that option. I am also checked, else I know I won’t be worthwhile. There are multiple ways to get a ball rolling. I seek master’s programs at the local university. (Or senior bachelors, or graduate school) However, women like that are generally caught, so that may take more work.
/r/seduction21/03/22 04:59 AM
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Being attractive and nonchalant. Have everything you need, this means you need to have children with an attractive women, without being committed to her. This will be the foundation of extreme confidence.
/r/seduction14/03/22 02:48 AM
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Men have been dicks for generations. See our shared ancestry.
/r/seduction14/03/22 01:51 AM
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I like to make sharp remarks that sting. You use intuition to derive at effective patterns, which are highly situational, and needs to be ingrained to be smooth. It is difficult for some, but I only think working on induction (drawing patterns from observation to smoothly integrate) is the only way. It allows you to be creative, because you understand the principles. You need to train your induction skills to course-effect instead to being textbook about this. Women can easily see real from not …
/r/seduction14/03/22 01:49 AM
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Be a man. Have the psychology of a man, and not that of a timid pickle. Our past is brutal enough, literally if you read of our genomics. A lot of women prefer a well-built man that does not require her care-taking. This reflects in their preferences for a certain psychological archetype. You can ignore it, but it will be like ignoring her preferences for well-built men. It makes you less effective. You can go for a frenchman style, that it sway and polite, but hot and a little crazy. Hawaiian s…
/r/seduction14/03/22 01:33 AM
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There is not an algorithmic process, but there are patterns. You seem to lack smoothness, social intuition and the ability to unakwardly escalate. Perhaps you also look awkward. The right guy should have been able to bed her within three dates. Whatever, if you cannot predict the consequences of your actions without following through with them, or you fail at delivery, then you just have to fail to learn. However, there are plenty of guys that do not need to go through a long period of failure b…
/r/seduction13/03/22 06:13 PM
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You are ridiculous, haha do you understand that a few women think very negatively about weak men in the same way that a few men think about weak men. There is a reason why spineless guys do not have much respect in many corporate environments. Don’t be naive, we are talking about a specific type of women here, and not your girlfriend/wife.
/r/seduction11/03/22 04:58 PM
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She is familiar and not afraid of knives. Don’t be stupid. Leave her alone. This is actually terrible for her. She will not find a guy and will continue to be neglected because of these scars. Jesus. Only a criminal, mafia or someone really prepared will take her. She needs help. Perhaps you can inform one of her friends about the situation.
/r/seduction11/03/22 02:57 AM
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Adult issues are easy if you have $ and the ability to organize. It is not hard. Emotions are what is hard with multiple women, imo.
/r/seduction10/03/22 12:50 PM
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I don’t invest emotionally, I just context switch and focus on the experience, and have the future planned and implemented in the background. It is hard to impossible for me to emotionally invest, it just becomes confusing.
/r/seduction10/03/22 12:49 PM
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She may also want to categorize you to define expectations for herself moving forward. For example, is this is guy is casually looking for a serious relationships, or just for fun? If you seemingly check all of the boxes right off the bat, then she would want to know if you are serious early on, to prioritize you. There may be a whole host of other reasons. Figure out what she wants then decide accordingly. It is safe to assume that she wants the classical ideal life (or at least better than wha…
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:17 AM
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They are testing you. Just we worth the company. Sex is not an issue. Being none-worthwhile and a generic play-buddy is an issue. Many guys can’t even get to this stage. 😂 Go beyond this by being worthwhile (good shared experiences).
/r/seduction09/03/22 01:59 AM
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That is a lie. I have seen plenty of great women. What happens is that they are equally attractive/good beyond a certain level. You can make almost any relationship great, and if you are somewhat selective, then the vast majority. The fact that this guy can attract an NFL EX, but for some reason can not find other great women tells me you need to look at how you treat others when they are not your contemporary ideal. You should really have no problems...
/r/seduction08/03/22 11:02 AM
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I second this as well. A lot of guys like that may wait for her to bring up the notion of commitment. A lot of guys just ease into it and bring it up themselves. It depends on their philosophy for the context. You don’t need to fear losing the casual relationship if you don’t go too hard on him/confrontational. A guy usually won’t say no to a flirtationship. We love attractive company, always. There are ways to be elegant about probing where the relation is at, to make a decline not end the casu…
/r/seduction07/03/22 07:11 PM
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I second this. It is just fun to be attentive (within bounds to people who don’t understand what attentive means here). Why would you spend time with a woman and be bland and generic, it is not fun at all for anyone. You might as well go and eat dog food. It is the default of many guys (who are socially adept) to tease than to be stale, even if there are no long-term intentions.
/r/seduction07/03/22 07:07 PM
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What are your metrics? If you are an avg joe from UK I am suprised you get that many matches (bit chubby, and no strong features). An avg Joe from the States won’t survive in Norway and Sweden for example, because there are plenty of great looking guys here. Basically all of classmates had strong features and were sufficiently tall, and well-mannered. I know eastern Europe is different however.
/r/seduction06/03/22 11:08 PM
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You have low T, check with a doctor. Get surgery, get fit, big and better. Good luck. There is a way, should you be unconventional. The choice is yours.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:14 PM
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You can have both. Plently of poor guys having women becauae both want mutual fun. Of course, you need to be the kind of guy one would want to have fun with, which is the hard part.
/r/seduction24/02/22 11:56 AM
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Wow, you have the worst kind of handicap, and that is psychological. Many will put of with less than ideal physically, but psychological handicap.
/r/seduction24/02/22 02:52 AM
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Dude, what are your metrics. You have to be extremely ugly for surgery to not work. Synthetic beard etc. etc.
/r/seduction24/02/22 02:50 AM
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GTFO, you have no insight in how people perceive you with that comment
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:09 PM
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Because he is exposed to unhealthy industrials, unhealthy upbringing (soft foods), and poor lifestyle. He asked for what matters. Don’t mislead him, and don’t hide factors that are important. Do not let go of yourself.
/r/seduction13/02/22 05:45 PM
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Look, I am hung. I can reason without projection. Ahah, you are such troll and dim for being confined to your own mind. What I have said is true.
/r/seduction13/02/22 05:43 PM
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8 inch dick with 6 inch girth. Then you can be the same height and weight, plus somewhat ugly. You would pull if you fk like a rabit.
/r/seduction13/02/22 06:34 AM
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Height, if you are ugly get surgery. Kendall Jenner was ugly when young. She would have been average in Europe when young.
/r/seduction13/02/22 06:33 AM
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OP is so foul herself she attracts unhygenic men. SHE IS JUST PROJECTING. OP shut the fuck up.
/r/seduction01/02/22 03:25 AM
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No, he is just timid and does not attend around the right social circles. He is a very good looking blue collar. He should get an ‘artsy/biz’ job if not a collared job and live a very interesting life.
/r/seduction15/01/22 08:27 PM
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Check your T levels/medical numbers.
/r/seduction02/01/22 08:16 PM
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He is not changing the morphology of his body. There are limits to your strategies. Some people need surgery. Get height and be at least 190lb at 5’11, or lower your expectations. It is not about race, it is about you not having a ridge, a strong brow, round face, deep voice etc. Fix that and get height surgery. Else, find someone who does not care, but to be desired? You need to get surgery for that. He is 152lb, wtf. He is not even trying. OK
/r/seduction30/12/21 08:46 PM
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I think OP is sufficiently good looking for her to the point where she is willing to tolerate the akwardness. No women would hike with a loser/round-face. He just need to cultivate a hot personality. She even gave him her number AND arranged a second date. OP, but be checking so many boxes, but personality! Get her man.
/r/seduction22/12/21 06:47 PM
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Look, men convince women to cheat with them regularly. If you cannot inspire misdemeanors like crossing rules then you have bigger problems. Of course, some people are the default option so you should strive to become that. On another note, if you are ugly, do not expect to be with a partner you find attractive as well. What an insignificant point you bring up about parental rules.
/r/seduction02/12/21 09:12 PM
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People that wine about race have not looked at the neurophysiology of attractiveness. It is about chins, ridges, brows, lips etc. It is about every detail that goes into making a face and further details that makes one attractive. It is never about race. It is about having the physical components of attractiveness. Again, many people need surgery and fake stubble.
/r/seduction01/12/21 03:11 PM
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It is about features and not race. Is your face angular or round? Do you have thick brows and a ridge etc?
/r/seduction01/12/21 03:08 PM
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It is not racial preferences, it is strictly about specific features you have/do not have which you can work on. There are ugly people within any race, and they get less attention. Stop thinking about race, it is counterproductive and imprison you under a false constraint. Some people need surgery, FYI.
/r/seduction01/12/21 03:06 PM
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This is so important. I think a lot of men just brush this off, however, these traits indicated an excessive need for external validation, entitlement and impulsiveness. Unless you fully understand their nature, and can enjoy there wickedness, which a few men can. STAY AWAY You do not commit to these women, as cheating with them, or just having kids with them is a greater token of confirmation.
/r/seduction01/12/21 08:46 AM
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People here MUST read up or narcissistic and histrionic personality disorder, and other psychological disqualifications. These men and women have an amygdala (the part of the brain the governs social interactions and also weights the morality of various decisions) that operates SO slowly, is it akin to autistic people. However, the other faculties operates well. They will take advantage of you in depraved ways without remorse and much thought. Their interactions are thought through the lense of …
/r/seduction01/12/21 08:40 AM
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Yees. Enjoy seeing her laugh and fall, or enjoy the games whilst you fuck her friend and (single) mother. Make it intellectually interesting for yourself by trivializing seduction, perhaps structurally, by way of buying settings for seduction such as a pooled house, or nearby cottage (Europe). I agree, and also women are intrinsically interesting. Men are so fortunate in this regard. You can talk about anything and she will still be very interesting, unless she looks like a hog. Even 5-6 rated w…
/r/seduction28/11/21 08:19 PM
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I totally agree. Even if they are intellectual, they should turn the pursuit into an intellectual challenge. Else, they are indeed just socially backwards like you say and intellectually fixed. You can be intellectual and social at the same time.
/r/seduction28/11/21 04:50 PM
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I wonder if he is fucking getting results from this, else he is just posting his untouched dick out here for you to see. I think he feels exhausted from not fucking, not the actual bantering. He is so serious. Bantering and trashing without much thought is fun. I don’t want to talk deeply about your pseudointellectual pursuits. You should aim to connect deeply physically, not emotionally. Else, fuck yourself dude and stop complaining. People that need to connect emotionally first before fucking …
/r/seduction28/11/21 04:46 PM
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This guy is a moron. Check your medical numbers so that your T levels are not too low. It seems like you are just very weak overall. He knows the answer guys. Now, let him fail or succeed on his own accord. Scorchyy, suck my dick and fuck yourself. Become like them without the tattoos. Else, do not expect much.
/r/seduction24/11/21 06:31 AM
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Change yourself to the standards as much as possible. You already know what you are lacking. Good luck. This is the only effective advice.
/r/seduction24/11/21 06:29 AM
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You had nothing to talk about. Oh wow, good luck with the competition man. Ahhah, you are far behind.
/r/seduction17/11/21 12:27 PM
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Hurt people for fun. Do it again, OP.
/r/seduction16/11/21 05:37 PM
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Yes, he is probably reading the situation incorrectly.
/r/seduction13/11/21 12:13 PM
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Right, he may be doing a naive copy without understanding what acutally happens and how authenthic it all as to be. Clearly he perceives them as too pushy, which I doubt is the chase as they are succeeding.
/r/seduction13/11/21 12:11 PM
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Well, this is your interpretation. You may not be fully aware of the conversations they are having etc. You perceive them as if they grind her ass until they close, however, that is only a partial and very naive view. Furthermore, you may not be a good conversationalist, you may have a boring personality, or a non-seductive one, you may be a creepy ‘nice guy’, the secluded party sideliner? Ewww!
/r/seduction13/11/21 12:09 PM
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Natural language and reddit sections are not the place for quantiative and precise speak enumerating every and any setting wherein one is repulsed by crying, significantly flawed and <65kg men, and settings where they are not. For the precision you seek, read the definition I gave of vulnerbility above, which you challenged to mean being truthful and open. Anyhow, infer all and every context where that applies, and where that does not apply. I aimed for OP to infer that he should not be weeping …
/r/seduction10/11/21 10:54 PM
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Of course they get laid. You are changing what I have said to fit your own narrative. Stop changing what people have said to forward your own.
/r/seduction09/11/21 05:56 AM
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You should be able to infer vividly how they seduce women and then analyze your discrepancies with regards to their approach. You do not need to be literally shadowing them, just imagine what they do from sets of stories you are aware of (your own, and other’s), then analyze and derive at a rich behavioural pattern to adopt/work towards. For example, the preselection strategy would be such an inference. The top commentor did not even mention this. It is one of the most effective strategies out t…
/r/seduction08/11/21 06:13 PM
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Then we agree more than what was initially thought. Good.
/r/seduction08/11/21 06:10 PM
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You can share a story like this without tearing and clogging. It is an interesting story, and I have experiences as such. Specifically, connecting over bad stories. However, when I hear vulnerable I conote it with a soft-spoken, depressive and helpless guy on the verge of tears. Not a person who shares a sad story without these additional spineless impressions. Do not be the latter.
/r/seduction08/11/21 05:48 PM
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I am doing very well for myself. I talk like this to my brothers and they are better for it. You are assuming too much. In all likelihood, you have more to work to do.
/r/seduction08/11/21 05:36 PM
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I think you underestimate the diversity of psychologies in the world. It is realistic. OP should aim to eliminiate all perceived inadequacies. He should be left standing with no noteable insecurity and repulsive/not respectable behavioural pattern. You are falsely implying a connection between dissproval and threat. I see no threat. You should not give and support suggestions that are ineffective and self-sabotaging. You can be confident, composed and vulnerable, but in doing so, you exclude res…
/r/seduction08/11/21 05:28 PM
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I don’t think he should adopt vulnerbility as an approach, especially since he is already akward. I don’t think he should even consider it.
/r/seduction08/11/21 03:44 PM
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Of course it is incomplete.
/r/seduction08/11/21 03:38 PM
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Never be vulnerable. It is so repulsive. Any guy that talks about vulnerbility as a valid pattern to seduce can cut off his own dick and cry to sleep.
/r/seduction08/11/21 03:36 PM
2

It would, there is no substance. He is talking about how to win a ONS, short-term relation. His advice is incomplete. He is probably successful, but will lose to better competition. Socially inept people like OP may misinterpret. It is better if OP imagines shadowing a competent man, than to fully adopt fragmented advice.
/r/seduction08/11/21 03:34 PM
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Incomplete advice. He does not even question whether the guy is attractive and take care of himself. OP has not even studied all attributes of attractiveness. He is probably one of the guys that think attractiveness does not matter. OP, maximize your physical attractiveness and study how the most successful men seduce women.
/r/seduction08/11/21 03:26 PM
2

People need to learn to protect themselves.
/r/seduction06/11/21 07:47 PM
1

That is
/r/seduction06/11/21 07:22 PM
12

People need to learn how to protect themselves.
/r/seduction06/11/21 07:14 PM
-2

Security is a means to depravity.
/r/seduction06/11/21 05:49 PM
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Interesting, until you realize that some men chase affairs, and they are by no means the virgins your think they are. They are the men that get you to cheat.
/r/seduction06/11/21 05:39 PM
1

It is obvious at this point. The guys that live by affairs, chasing the next affair child are SO much more productive than other men. They also think of men who does not sufficiently protect their dignity as pathethic. I was a bit suprised when the wives thought of their inadequate husbands the same. There is no difference in intentisty and dismissal. The husbands may have it all, and do nothing wrong. However, they may lack some quality that becomes the seed of resentment which can devolve the …
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:59 PM
9

It is not work if you integrate multifacated self-improvement into your life. It is fun to see yourself grow.
/r/seduction05/11/21 08:03 PM
9

Guy is on point. Nowadays, money can buy you physical attractiveness in many capacities should you pay for it. Finance will really solve all of your problems unless you look like a hound.
/r/seduction05/11/21 08:00 PM
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Also, bad boys have the capacity to take advantage of other men. That makes them more relevant over several generations, so a preference has been inherited. Become the guy she would cheat with.
/r/seduction05/11/21 07:35 PM
2

You may suffer from low T, as a symptom is low sexual drive. Get on a better diet and health routine. You should be able to turn yourself on
/r/seduction05/11/21 07:29 PM
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What is this advice? You go straight to touching without talking about cultvating a lightly seductive personality? OP, you are already touching her, which is a good sign. Learn to escalate. Learn to be respectful, attentive but also lead the escalation with confidence.
/r/seduction05/11/21 07:00 PM
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/r/seduction04/11/21 11:42 PM
2

Looks, an attractive personality and sexually satisfying. These would be the main reasons. Money is not necessary. However, it can buy you good looks nowadays.
/r/seduction04/11/21 11:40 PM
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Get synthethic hair. We don’t go for fat and unkept women. They feel the same for balding men. We don’t go for balding women either. There is fun in disrespecting men. A lot of people think they deserve it because of their ignorance.
/r/seduction28/10/21 10:23 AM
1

Did you text her too much? Probably.
/r/seduction28/10/21 08:52 AM
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Have your testosterone checked. You may need to change your habits. A good start. Good luck.
/r/seduction26/10/21 07:53 PM
0

Guy is level 1.
/r/seduction26/10/21 07:50 PM
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If you are having depression that probably indicates you suffer from low testosterone. Furthermore, the fact that you play games indicates to me that you do not take care of your self very well. I predict she gave you a false number yo get you off her.
/r/seduction26/10/21 07:50 PM
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She was probably testing you? She likes you to be an unattached man that she can adore, that does not reciprocate any affection. She wants the security of showing affection without the risk of commitment. If she knows you are falling then any further adoration will feel wierd and repulsive. Now, she might be an asshole to test your resolve. You should find that hot and interpret her tantrums as show of entertainment to be amused by and further exaggerated. You should not find ways to appease, ra…
/r/seduction26/10/21 04:37 PM
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Wait, you listened to redditors telling you to be weak? These guys will end up with gf/wives that resent them for their ignorance and give them affair children. Being vulnerable and open is a silly adivce people give. They have tried their own advice and it has induced viseral repulsions in the girl. There is nothing more repulsive than a weak man. It is way worse than a 300lb girl that is nice and funny, because that girl does not induce the same level of repulsion.
/r/seduction26/10/21 04:14 PM
1

You can get surgery nowadays
/r/seduction25/10/21 10:19 AM
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I hope you the best. I am an Asian in Europe, and I do very well. That is because I have european facial features, eye ridge, thick brow and good bone structures with a strong personality. I am also taller than average. I would struggle if I lacked in height and standard facial features.
/r/seduction25/10/21 10:04 AM
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He lacks in standard looks, personality and perhaps height. All of which can be worked on. These are the parameters. You live in the US. You may think you are checking out fairly well, but not really.
/r/seduction25/10/21 09:59 AM
2

You may have overtrained as well and give off roid vibes? From your comments, you should just fine to figure out on your own extactly what parameters to finetune. Good luck
/r/seduction20/10/21 07:24 AM
1

Have you had extensive facial reconstruction? That may give off creep vibes.
/r/seduction20/10/21 07:24 AM
1

No problem, get surgery at you will be fine.
/r/seduction15/10/21 06:54 PM
0

Ok, gamer.
/r/seduction14/10/21 06:56 AM
2

I think this guy is not very smart. Ok, gamer.
/r/seduction14/10/21 06:55 AM
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This is just your opinion. You probably have an average brain and don’t see that he is doing a lot right, and have good features. Small brain comment.
/r/seduction12/10/21 09:16 PM
1

He needs lipsuction and facial surgery. Desi people have too much facial fat for western women. There are some really handsome desi men. They have the same feature set as arab men, and the handsome arab men pull western women like europeans. It is not about ethnicity, but rather feature sets.
/r/seduction10/10/21 07:07 PM
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Why do so many failed men, waste the time of other failed men by giving misguiding information. Pathetic! Shut up. Get surgery.
/r/seduction09/10/21 08:34 PM
0

Fix your flaws, get surgery. This is BS
/r/seduction09/10/21 08:33 PM
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Anyhow, lipsuction for hollow cheeks. Brow thckening. There is a lot you can do. You need to stop being ignorant. Also, you can get height surgery.
/r/seduction07/10/21 08:21 PM
-1

Get surgery, train the jawline. For hair loss, get synthethic hair. There is little you can do about beards, for now, or maybe you can get synthethic beards/stubble.
/r/seduction07/10/21 08:19 PM
0

You should add that it will cost a person 80k-100k to add 8cm of height, and 200k to add 10-12cm of height. With that, most will get to 175cm, which is the minimum. 180cm is very good.
/r/seduction06/10/21 07:35 PM
1

Get surgery, hit the gym, lead an interesting life, be the guy in romance novels/netflix series with added real-life substance, or entertaining jock, or intruiging professional. Get shredded, or lean shredded, or bulk-cut. Train your facial muscles. Also, get a fwb, hot-neighbours so that when you meet people you have no intentions but to entertain and seduce over text and follow-up meets. Also, there exists men out there who are very effective. 250+ different women, married/unmarried. Although,…
/r/seduction02/10/21 11:15 PM
1

People find important subjects in professional and personal life interesting. Something that has significant impact on their lives. You can make anything important with the right presentation, that is a creative task that happens intuitively or contemplatively. You can get to the point where you can befriend anyone, no matter. However, it does require the ability to be an asset in that person’s life.
/r/seduction12/06/21 03:27 PM
2

There is a body and penis picture on your profile
/r/seduction12/06/21 03:22 PM
1

Have conversations with male friends, lead an interesting life, profession, be driven in the category you chose. Get healthy. You can make any subject interesting, it is about the energy and how you make the content relevant. For women, aim to create sexual tension elegantly.
/r/seduction12/06/21 03:22 PM
1

I looked at his reddit profile and saw an image of his body. This was my best answer, as I thought he would not have access to quality conversations. He needs perspective.
/r/seduction12/06/21 11:06 AM
0

Go to Google, youtube, podcasts, then watch romances, etc. Also, you are fat. You need to take care of yourself
/r/seduction12/06/21 10:21 AM
1

Wow you send youtube links? Ok, you need to observe how people talk to eachother then.
/r/seduction12/06/21 10:19 AM
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