| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | Poly, Bi, kinky type girls… get with them if you ever got the chance | Field Report | No_Air_5047 | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 06:52 PM |
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| 31 | Woman who I cold approached in a department store complained to securityYou don’t have to keep doing it at the same location, change it up. You got a complaint at this store, if you get another one, they’ll look at you as a creep even if you did nothing wrong. | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Spoke to a girl for 2 hours at a bar but she left with another guy!!!Could be her, she wanted the best guy available that night, taller better looking black dude with more swag. Could also be you… not escalating the tension yet stuck to her like glue all night. Poor body languages, who knows?? Do some introspection, you might find some common recurring faults. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 10:58 PM |
| 11 | Spoke to a girl for 2 hours at a bar but she left with another guy!!!You went back to creep on her from the parking… yea that is kinda weird, seems like you cared too much. You might give off that psycho vibe that’s why she didn’t give her number haha | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Poly, Bi, kinky type girls… get with them if you ever got the chanceYea they a lot of them are very liberal/leftist people with a lot of triggers. I myself don’t plan on getting into a LTR, more so to keep them around as a FWB | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Tinder girl calling you “desperate”. How would you react?Is OP trying to get laid or wife a 20y/o from Tinder? Be flirty and be fun and of course be attractive. Girls on tinder gets bored very easily, any stupid question or statement, they disappear | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 10:10 PM |
| 1 | First date to Friendzone to still interested?Movies is like the worst first date idea. Always pick a spot with good ambiance where you can have good convos to seduce her and maybe get laid if the vibe is there. You probably don’t wanna be seem desperate that’s why you tried to play the disinterested Mr. Cool guy role. But what’s the point if she’s already physically attracted to you, you wanna get laid or you tryna play the long game with her. Jeezuz | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 01:37 AM |
| 11 | How to prevent weirdo vibesOP gives me weirdo vibes from just reading his post…. Cringy AF | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 07:07 AM |
| 11 | Thank you… and what workedSingle women at weddings tends to be horny and DTF | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 01:58 PM |
| 8 | Expert flirters and seductors wanted. Make money while flirting with girlsNot doing it for that poverty money lol And doesn’t work if your ugly, gonna take hours days before you will get a number. Make more at Burger King | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 08:56 AM |
| 3 | Precursor to last post on how to make yourself attractive to girlsRule 2: Don’t be unattractive | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Why I give upDid she sleep with Chad during any of those dates? Don’t be too down, every girl just have a specific physical preference that they are attracted to. | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 02:14 AM |
| 2 | How would you handle my situation?No never been in your situation…. Parents didn’t save for my college, grew up poor, financial aid and Army ROTC help put me thru college. Anyways, college age girls usually don’t care about other male students financial situation. As long as you got your own place (apartment/dorm), your good to go. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 05:00 AM |
| 3 | Cold approaches that have actually workedLol don’t matter what your approach is, results will differ per rules #1 and #2 | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 04:42 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys act around your friends GF?Hide your girl friends, wives, sisters and mothers from me…. Nomsayin | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 11:32 AM |
| 10 | Honestly, Im tired of pretending to be someone im not just to get laidOP you’re just complaining for no good reason. If you think you are average, why not work on yourself to be above average? How is that being fake? Shitty social skills? Fat and out of shape? All those things can be worked on. Sounds like you just don’t want to put in the effort to better yourself and just use whatever reasons as a excuse to comfort your lazy yourself | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 04:40 PM |
| 16 | Is 28 too late to have your first kiss?Ever thought that you give off the creepy vibe to girls? Your past posts are very cringy also. I think you may want to work on your social skills. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 05:53 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I don’t go out on my days off to mainly meet women, I go out to hang out with friends. We might goto a different restaurant/bar that we want to try or goto a concert event to enjoy some good music. And if I hit it off with a girl at any of those venues, then it’s a bonus. Unfortunately I have a rotating work schedule so I don’t have weekends off all the time. If you don’t care about being social or work on improving yourself mentality/physically, why TF you posting on this sub? | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Fear of developing reputation while daygaming at mall?I was joking…. But if I frequent a bar to pick up girls, I always support the establishment by purchasing drinks and/or food. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 11:33 AM |
| -3 | Fear of developing reputation while daygaming at mall?OP is basically a predator, hunting…. Lol OP did you get any pussy at least? Also at least buy something at the mall and support the local economy, even if it’s a cup of soda from the food court. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 09:27 AM |
| 109 | Going out as friends, should I?If she’s goes out as a friend, make sure you split the bills 50/50 haha | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 07:41 PM |
| 4 | Guys who go out alone at night to bars and nightclub, how do you not look like that guy who is by himself?I was in Cancun by myself this past May. When you are in a loud crowded club, nobody really cares if you are by yourself. If they find you attractive, they’ll vibe and dance with you. One day I went to the Mandala Beach club to relax and to eat and drink. Saw a hot 21 y/o Argentinian girl who was also by herself on the beach, all tatted up, and spoke no English. Started chatting with her using the translator app, bought her a couple drinks and then invited back to my hotel down the street ;) lol… | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 03:44 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Not gonna lie OP, you sound like a creep asking her about spooning. Instead of trying to learn some cringey text game, why don’t you just ask her out. If she’s not interested then move on. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 10:50 PM |
| 84 | Fuck the gameFocusing on your life goals is more important than pussy… For someone who put this much effort into getting girls, you should really re-evaluate your priorities. I’m a 35y/o 5’7 Asian dude that got out of LTR last year, this year I partied and traveled as much as I can despite a shitty work schedule. I partied and travel because I desired the good vibe of hanging with my friends, the possibility of meeting new cool people and enjoying good music and food. At the same time I still remain physical… | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 04:32 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]As a big club goer thru out my life, I was in similar situations many many times where I danced, made-out and then get their contacts afterwards (number, insta, snap whatever). The results are pretty crap. 80%-90% of girls doesn’t really respond and/show very little interest to hang out again. Makes me believe that majority of these girls just wanted to have a good time and possibly make out with a cute guy just for the excitement and VALIDATION. Some might be dating someone already, so it was m… | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 09:57 AM |
| 31 | [deleted by user]Yea dude fked up, he should of went for it…. Signs was all there | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 05:34 AM |
| 43 | No, I won't dress up like a fuccboi!Lol well you sound bitter and hateful, your vent adds no value to this sub, has nothing to do with seduction. Everyone’s preferences are different and locality plays a big part. What you find weird doesn’t mean jack shit, in fact people might find your style weird and unfuckable…. And I hope you don’t change your style, because you’ll just be one less competition for us “fuckbois” LMAO | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Let’s talk about Racial Preferences - based on statisticsDude she doesn’t even know what I do for a living, I never disclosed it to her… well she knows I’m in the military because I had a pic of me in uniform in my Tinder profile. The Tinder convo literally went like this: Me: Hey what are you up to Her: Chilling at home watching squid games Me: Can I come over and watch it too, I’ll bring some wine Her: Sure, here is my number These girls when they are horny, they just want to fuck. As long as you fit their physical criteria, it’s game on | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 07:25 AM |
| 3 | Let’s talk about Racial Preferences - based on statisticsI live in the city, more diverse and bigger population does help a lot. I’ll be honest, it’s my looks and not really my personality that gets me the pussy. I’m only 5’7, but I‘ve been told that I’m handsome and has a nice smile. I think I have a athletic/aesthetic looking physique, and also did a few body building shows years ago. I usually wear fitted clothing when I go out, so they know ;). My personality can be dry sometimes, my humor can get dark and morbid very quickly. But the key is I am … | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 12:39 AM |
| 4 | Let’s talk about Racial Preferences - based on statisticsWhy wouldn’t I? I get told from people that I looked mid 20s all the time. Had sex with 8 different girls this year, trying to even it out to 10 before end of year haha | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 03:12 PM |
| 2 | [FIELD REPORT] LAS VEGAS pull but couldn't close.Thanks OP, I’ll make sure to stay away from San Jose when I visit Cali for the first time one day. Funny this past Sat I was also at a club (NOTO) in Philly, bought a Brazilian girl home but also didn’t close the deal. Girl actually approached me first, and we danced for a good hour including making out. She was with 4 other girls, after the club closed she made sure all her friends got a Uber home and then told me she can back to my place and smoke some hookah. I really thought I was gonna hit,… | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 07:08 AM |
| 11 | [FIELD REPORT] LAS VEGAS pull but couldn't close.OP ignore this “nice guy” here, he just jelly | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 06:53 AM |
| 21 | Let’s talk about Racial Preferences - based on statisticsI (35m, Chinese) had a ONS with a Indian girl (28F) (Tinder) for the first time last month. She basically told me to come over to her apartment and we just fked, no prior dates, nothing. She’s a resident doctor at a local hospital, probably came from a good family, so I knew this was just going to be a fling. A lot of traditional Asian families expect their sons/daughters to marry/date within their own race. She told me she likes muscular men, I guess there wasn’t many muscular Indian dudes avai… | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 06:25 AM |
| 5 | Is the three day rule important after getting a girls number?Nah dude, I always text her the next day if I met her the night before. If she don’t respond or give back crappy one word responses, I immediately move on. Most good looking girls usually have multiple dudes hitting them up, she will give her attention to the most attractive/interesting person. | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 06:03 AM |
| 7 | How to approach this cute girl in gym?Because most girls don’t want to be approached at the gym…. And if you fked up and made it awkward, it’s gonna be awkward moving forward. Not saying you shouldn’t ever approach at a gym but Im just saying not at your main gym. I’m a LA fitness member and can use any of the gyms around the country, so even if I get rejected I wouldn’t care since I’ll probably never see them again. | /r/seduction | 30/11/21 06:20 AM |
| 1 | how do you not allow rejection not eat away at your spirit/self esteem?You fked up, should not approach at your “main gym”…. And also you asked her to work out together during the first interaction, should of kept it simple like introducing yourself and give her a positive comment and then walk away. As far as the rejection part, everyone gets rejected including good looking people. It’s a numbers game and like the others said, you just gotta don’t give a shit. Usually I’m communicating with to 2-5 girls at any given time and sleeping with 1-2 if not more. So you t… | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 08:06 AM |
| 4 | Struggling with girls in collegeITT OP is a beta who self depreciate himself and too hard headed to listen to good advice | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 10:39 AM |
| -4 | How I got the most out JanuaryYea lol I didn’t read a single thing about getting laid... no pussy for the month is a bad month | /r/seduction | 04/02/21 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Here is what I did to stop developing crushesI can confirm, one of the 34 🤣 | /r/seduction | 02/01/21 08:11 PM |
| 3 | The Best Thing to Do for Your Dating Life is Probably Leave This Subreddit (An Oxymoronic Guide)I am pretty sure majority of your post has been repeated by somebody on this sub or another sub. Except maybe in #5 why the fk would I want to talk about the after-life with some girl that I barely knows. This sub is not r/dating or r/dating_advice, I am pretty sure 90% of the dudes on this sub are just trying to get laid whether if it’s short term dating or ONS. Of everything you wrote, what exactly specifically touches the topic of seducing another person? Nice click bait of a title BTW | /r/seduction | 30/12/20 07:00 AM |
| 2 | I think it’s best that I just give up on all forms of datingIncels should be prohibited from posting. Receding hair line? Shave your head bald Short? Ok work on your physique, get muscular and stocky. At your age should focus on your education, so you can graduate with a good job. One day if you make good money, you can pay for some minor plastic surgery if you’re that insecure with your face. But honestly if you have good teeth, you’ll gain a lot of points, so braces and teeth whitening is big and doesn’t cost a fortune. I know some wealthy Indian dudes… | /r/seduction | 28/12/20 12:00 AM |
| 3 | The danger of asking ladies men for dating adviceRule #1 and #2 | /r/seduction | 26/12/20 04:13 PM |
| 2 | get this stuff right and it might just work out for you.Lmao what’s this high school? Very unrealistic | /r/seduction | 24/12/20 08:21 AM |
| 22 | The play of alcohol, nicotine, and drugs in gamePeople said alcohol is Bravery Juice lol. Also enough of it, a typical 4 becomes a 7 for some people haha | /r/seduction | 22/12/20 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Men have it the hardest sometimes :(Brah it’s been what a day so far? Stop jumping to conclusion, wait a little to see how she responds | /r/seduction | 21/12/20 10:28 AM |
| 2 | Blocked immediately after first dateGhosting you is one thing but completely blocking on all platforms usually means she found something really wrong with you.... and if some women did the same thing in past then seriously you might wanna re-evaluate yourself. Do you sound like a psycho/weirdo? Do you have a weird/psycho look about you? Do you smell like shit? There are a bunch of stuff that outright drives women far away | /r/seduction | 18/12/20 12:29 PM |
| 3 | How do I play the wait-game with this girl?Damn son, you 21 acting like you’re 16, I bet these snaps back and forth are just minor small talks that will most likely lead to nothing. At the same time she’s probably sending some Alpha bull snaps of her titties and ass, while Betas like you are praying she will send a message back within the same day 🤣 | /r/seduction | 18/12/20 12:15 PM |
| 3 | How do I play the wait-game with this girl?Lmao that’s some cringe shit | /r/seduction | 18/12/20 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Handling more than one fwb/Friend with benefitsStfu and do your thing. You think you the only guy they fucking too? | /r/seduction | 12/12/20 08:21 AM |
| 3 | What percent of 18-19 y/o girls would find this guy attractive?Lol you on that pedo time? JK I mean know there are sugar daddy dating sites where you can find younger girls willing to date much older men for....... financial benefits GL | /r/seduction | 12/12/20 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Don't be a nice guyDon’t be a beta male, be alpha | /r/seduction | 02/12/20 06:54 AM |
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