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You will be needy by default if you don’t get girls.: Doesn’t matter how much you tell yourself not be needy.in fact if your weren’t. Needy you wouldn’t feel the need to make a post about it
/r/seduction27/10/21 05:00 PM
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Take a basketball player. He wants to become a better player and one of his coaches tells him that he should work in his off hand to really take him to the next level. Hes used to dribbling passing and shooting with his right so when he practices with his left it will feel awkward at first. But with persistence and good training over time using his left hand became almost as natural as using his right hand. It’s the same with game. A lot the pick up techniques don’t come natural to us men. Like …
/r/seduction24/10/21 08:19 PM
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Yeah keep telling yourself that
/r/seduction22/10/21 11:18 AM
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Beauty is more objective that subjective. like 80% Objective and 20% subjective
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:20 PM
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If you pass the threshold of attractive then yes
/r/seduction21/10/21 06:22 PM
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Think your projecting bro. His game is solid and gets laid way more than you I suspect
/r/seduction18/10/21 11:27 PM
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Like how much experience would suffice to you? I’ve lived long enough to understand that seduction is largely in behaviors and subtle gestures than logical conversation as you are suggesting. I also know women will let alot slide if guy is hot enough while simultaneously condemning the behavior of a not so attractive guy as “creepy”
/r/seduction18/10/21 12:25 AM
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My social awareness is good and I go out often without being accused of assault. You don’t understand women which is the problem
/r/seduction18/10/21 12:20 AM
-1

Who said anything about assault? So is dancing with girls assault to you? if a girl goes to guy and start dancing on him is she assaulting him now? Or does this only apply to guys going up to girls and dancing on them?
/r/seduction18/10/21 12:09 AM
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Idk lower your standard lol
/r/seduction18/10/21 12:07 AM
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If you don’t like the girls that like you you just upgrade yourself. Bitter sweet part of game is that you actually have to become a better guy. Good luck. This is more like the long term answer your question. Shirt term is deal with what you have and be happy
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:53 PM
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So little context to this question it’s no bother trying to even answer
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:50 PM
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In fact they do. By the very fact of being in club and dancing provocatively you are tacitly inviting men to dance with you. It’s just a matter of who. And as I’ve already mentioned, when it comes to flirting it’s 80% sub-communication. So it’s not all logical and verbal is you are trying to make it out to be. Imagine being in the bedroom with a girl and asking her every 5 seconds if you could touch here or here. We are humans not robots. It’s mostly emotional and instincts when it comes to man …
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:48 PM
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I take it your a female. A woman will Often times conceal truth in order to appear altruistic. Basically virtue signaling. I watch a woman’s behavior not her words. Because actions speak louder than words. And if a guy who is unattractive makes advances on a girl it’s usually not that it was inherently creepy it’s just that the girl did not find him attractive
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:34 PM
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No it’s creepy if you are ugly, if you are attractive it’s confident.
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:30 PM
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Okay bro. I think this is slight virtue signaling op. Like obviously if the girl started grinding on him you wouldn’t be saying this. To only saying this because her response was negative. Not because you actually think Thei something inherently wrong. Well... that’s what I assume
/r/seduction17/10/21 10:41 PM
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Yeah I get this too. Like some girls are down but some aren’t. It’s almost 50/50 for me
/r/seduction17/10/21 10:39 PM
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If he was hot I would feel darn good ( speaking as chick obviously)
/r/seduction17/10/21 10:38 PM
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Lol it’s happened to me before also. Girls will dance you if you attractive enough, she looked back to see if your face was tolerable enough but I guess it wasn’t. Reevaluate and see if you need to looks max a bit more. At least that’s what I’m doing, cause it does suck like you say. Big blow to the self esteem especially when you see your good looking counter parts walk up to the same girl and start making out with her
/r/seduction17/10/21 10:37 PM
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Keep in mind you must have looks and a little game or a lot of game with average looks to pull it off
/r/seduction17/10/21 10:35 PM
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Lol not at all. That the main venue I do pick up at
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:50 PM
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You’ll get girls with minor alcoholism
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:16 AM
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I go for something fitted that accentuates my physique. Depending on the venue I’ll throw in some sneakers or if a little bit more higher end I’ll do some boots. Slight boost cause I’m slightly on the shorter end.
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:14 AM
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Has she shown any remote interest of liking you. Like does she come try and talk to you? What’s her interest level?
/r/seduction16/10/21 02:57 AM
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This is true to an extent as all men desire female companionship and intimacy. Nevertheless if you are broke, have subpar muscularity and hygiene is shit well, I wouldn’t be thinking about women for a time
/r/seduction16/10/21 12:06 AM
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Probably Colombia
/r/seduction15/10/21 09:02 PM
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Having sex with girls may boost your ego momentarily but true confidence comes overcoming obstacles and Pursuing your purpose as a man. I don’t really like the word self esteem because I don’t think a high self esteem is necessarily a good thing. Basically self esteem is how you feel about yourself which changes quite often based on external circumstances but confidence routed in concrete experiences. So if you are confident, even if you had low self esteem you will still be better off
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:49 PM
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Their will always be exception to the rule, but changing the rules into the exception is the issue here. The rule are that 95% of tinder likes go to the top 50% of men.
/r/seduction15/10/21 11:19 AM
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Don’t have to be. Bit of a straw man.
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:44 AM
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I’m stating plain truth. Looks is the single most important thing when it comes to attracting girls. Maybe not so like 50 years ago. But things like personalty and money don’t carry nearly the same weight in the dating market today.
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:40 AM
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If you are ugly you can be the most charismatic guy in the world and it won’t mean a dank thing. Looks is by far the single most important factor when it comes to attracting women. Money can help leverage your ability to improve your looks say though surgery but, it isn’t what gets women. What I will say is that if you are in the 5-6 range in terms of looks. Doing the things you’ve mentioned can help like game going to the gym but if anything below a 5 it won’t help at all
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:21 AM
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I know what it denotes in a literal sense but I’m trying to know what you personally mean by experience. But for the sake of argument I’ll assume you mean you’ve been around the block and have had a fair share of experiences with various women. Let’s just say that was true, you still haven’t proven anything I’ve said in regards to a guys looks and women being attracted to that to be false
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:13 AM
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What do you mean by experience may I ask
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:08 AM
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You made several assumption based on my comment. My guess you are projecting because you found that what I said may apply to you.
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:06 AM
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Ugly guys don’t get women. Don’t know where you stumbled upon this. Maybe an average looking guy with very good Game and charisma but never ugly
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:36 AM
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I guess you could say I had one in college. But it’s not all it’s coked up to be. Honestly looking back I didn’t enjoy it too much cause I was so desperate to have women in my life I kinda became to degenerate who just cared about sex. I was more acting on impulse than inspiration. But I guess it was fun. Looking back I would have much better balance to where I’m focused on my purpose whilst finding time in my week to squeeze in dates
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:34 AM
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Lmao this is some shit that belongs in r/sex
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:29 AM
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No it’s empirically proven to be so. Their are objectively certain things on a mans face “ that’s is 90% genetic) that make him either attractive or unattractive. Such as his eyes facial bone structure, mid face and jawline. These are the most important to women when it comes to sexual attraction. Obviously their are preferences but those preferences don’t mean anything below a certain threshold of physical attractiveness
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:28 AM
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lol say “hola como estas” you horny bastard
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:25 AM
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That’s like 90% of girls lol. Women overwhelmingly go for guys who are good looking. Across the board. If you are an average looking guy in today’s dating market you are fucked
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:23 AM
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Not true. Evidence shows that women, despite political background will go for guys she finds attractive. Now if she is very devout to a particular belief system she may consider dating down but that’s sometimes
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:21 AM
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Attracting girls has little to do with personalty in my view. If a girl finds you attractive you simply have to be normal and you’ll be good to go
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:20 AM
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Lol we have very similar story. I went back to my uni about three times a year after graduating. I felt the same thing you did but I probably had more fun going out alone than all my years in uni going out with other guys. Pros is no pressure and you can freely express yourself. But cons are if you have bad game it can be a bit discouraging when getting rejected. I actually managed to meet guys and befriend them. It turns out several guys had come along who where graduated like me
/r/seduction15/10/21 12:10 AM
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Bro. You are not the only guy she is texting 😂. Plus we have bow way of judging the current state of your relationship h less we see the texts lol
/r/seduction14/10/21 04:48 PM
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Maybe try abstinence for a time. May help you both sexually to perform and physiologically. If the brain is being bombarded with too much stimuli this can happen
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:58 PM
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Christian asking guys on seduction subreddit for advice. This is what you call a contradiction
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:49 PM
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Don’t be unattractive. Play to your strengths is what I really mean. Some guys operate better in a bar/ club Scene for reasons like their physical makeup and style of game. If that isn’t you you are wasting your time.
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:48 PM
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lol you cant find male friends. It’s pretty easy if you are a relatively attractive female
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:46 PM
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The moment you star to fall for a girl you are already in a loosing position
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:45 PM
1

I mean I haven’t yet figured how to seduce women through my phone yet
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:43 AM
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Could you retype your question properly
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:43 AM
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I never said women cared bout that. But women will go for an alpha over a beta any day of the week. Particularly if they find him sexually attractive. If he’s ugly well being alpha may not do as much.
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:42 AM
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Well...that’s what you say. And considering you are a woman only validates my point
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:39 AM
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Send pics
/r/seduction13/10/21 11:28 PM
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Most not all
/r/seduction13/10/21 10:35 PM
1

Todd v. Satori pua
/r/seduction13/10/21 10:34 PM
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Fair enough
/r/seduction13/10/21 10:34 PM
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What’s so funny. It’s a terminology used to accurately rate attractiveness levels
/r/seduction13/10/21 10:32 PM
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Your amount of matches will reflect the quality of your pics.
/r/seduction13/10/21 10:30 PM
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If you are ugly you can love yourself all you want. The woman won’t fall in love with you, because you have low reproductive value
/r/seduction13/10/21 10:29 PM
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Actually a fairly high percentage. The amount who do it well... slim to none
/r/seduction13/10/21 10:28 PM
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But if it isn’t consistent it’s not really something that is of any value when it comes to game. He doesn’t explain why he got the results or what methods he used it’s just oh some girls gave a me a Snapchat
/r/seduction13/10/21 10:27 PM
1

You can’t answer this yourself? How does Regis help you get better at game? What is your purpose behind this question?
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:46 PM
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Your face is not conventionally attractive is what I’m saying. Your nose is rather bulbous, and neck is hidden by your faces lack facial a symmetry and have a large forehead. Strengths is invisibly height and I don’t know your social skills but if you lack that then that would go under weaknesses
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:41 PM
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I have found for my self that I am garunteed to meet a variety of women a bar/ club and so their are a lot more options. But virtually with seeing girls during the day, say in the street, in the metro, at the supermarket. In a coffee shop, library ( if your in school) your options are virtually unlimited if you know how to do cole approach
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:39 PM
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What? They are practically the same. Why do you even want to know?
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:35 PM
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You aren’t conventional handsome by any means. The best thing you have going for you is your height. Think women value an attractive face to height if you ask me. You may consider seeking medical help or move to another country. Also I assume your awkward with very little social skills which doesn’t help you at all. But I’ve seen girl date guys that look like you before who are cute. Theirs hope in my estimation. But you must work for them. They won’t fall in your lap
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:33 PM
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Don’t be beta
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:28 PM
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So all of his pick up videos are him dressed up in some costume? I’d say the videos your referring to are less than half of his taking to girls videos. And I’m not even saying he has great game but it’s surprisingly decent. In general he has good eye contact, tone of voice, approaches with confidence. It’s not stellar but it’s decent
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:27 PM
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Prob gets more girls than you... rather he probably has better game than you
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:20 PM
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If you can’t replicate it consistently it’s by chance. But happy for you either way
/r/seduction13/10/21 04:49 PM
1

Can’t paint the canvas with a broad brush. Dating apps can be useful if you use it properly and have good pictures.
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:06 AM
-9

To each his own
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:58 PM
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Their are still genuine take aways from what is implied in what she says. But know I learn game from real puas
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:47 PM
1

Was thinking the same thing. My best guess is he is self confident bordering on arrogant. Or he has certain mannerisms that are inherently attractive
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:35 PM
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Maybe a couple approaches. Advanced means you rarely get rejected and know how to create attraction on demand if called upon. Game is not just waking up women saying “your hot” their are literal skill and techniques necessary to develop if you want to attract higher quality women
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:15 PM
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If you want higher quality women in your life you must increase your confidence, which means increase your value to women, which means becoming a better version of yourself, which means improving your physique, developing a strong personality and character and learning game
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:58 PM
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I see what you are saying but it depends on the internal motivation. What I mean is, all the self improvement you do is a means to and end not and end in its self. I think you are referring to guys who treat self improvement as an end in itself. When I talk about building a good physique, making more money, and learning game I understand it’s all for the purposes of attracting the women I want at the end of the day
/r/seduction10/10/21 06:43 AM
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Choose one thing until successful then once you have mastered that move to the next. Most guys I would say start with building the best physique you possibly can which is my goal. Maxing my looks in terms of overall grooming style and muscle
/r/seduction10/10/21 06:36 AM
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That’s true. Really I’m looking to actually learn game and increase my dating market value. I do okay in night game but because I’m not bad looking but definitely I need to improve my looks if want to attract the girls I find really attractive
/r/seduction10/10/21 06:33 AM
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Can’t say I could see a world in any other way
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:37 AM
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I do it to have higher quality women in my life.
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:47 AM
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No in fact I self improve for the sole reason of getting higher quality women. Their something working with that?
/r/seduction09/10/21 09:58 PM
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Fair point. I’m also looking to make necessary adjustment so I’m around women to attract
/r/seduction09/10/21 08:48 PM
2

Charisma comes from self confidence. Every guy is charismatic around certain group of people
/r/seduction09/10/21 06:43 PM
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Yeah okay
/r/seduction09/10/21 06:38 PM
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Game=strategy. It’s simply a strategy to get what you want. If two guys go to war and one has a strategy and the other guy doesn’t the one with a strategy will win 100% of the time. Even if the guy without a strategy maybe has better weapons, If he doesn’t have methods, systems in place to defeat his enemy he will fall. Same with women. Most guys don’t have a strategy. If they did it would look something like go out weekend nights and approach once they have enough alcohol in their system. But t…
/r/seduction09/10/21 06:15 PM
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Well the me club I’ve been to was more a college club so no. Night game is more about looks
/r/seduction09/10/21 03:45 PM
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Depends. Both could be more ideal depending on your style of game. For me probably club as I’ve tried both their is more opportunity to physically escalate through dancing in bars it’s maybe a bit more about verbal game which I’m not too good at. I actually like talking to girls but often time end up asking too many questions and they loose interest like last night lol
/r/seduction09/10/21 02:28 PM
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I went out with a wing my dirt night out and he actually harmed my game rather bad helped. I think your main issue is confidence. I know it’s prob not the answer you wanna hear but I think that’s what it usually comes down to
/r/seduction08/10/21 11:46 PM
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When thinking about how not to be creepy unavoidably you will end up being creepy
/r/seduction08/10/21 10:40 PM
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Or move
/r/seduction08/10/21 09:25 PM
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Graduated last semester from a fairly large state school population of attractive girls is pretty insane especially on Friday and Saturday nights. I’d say try and go out to parties and colleg bars where there will be lots of girls/ people in general. In terms of building up your status not sure what advice to give except be social. Beat wast to do that is be involved in clubs. You said you are in some already but try getting into more. Go to college events like concerts or trips.
/r/seduction08/10/21 03:16 AM
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Smells like oneitis
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:48 AM
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The Essenes of game in college comes down to popularity. Graduated last semester and really when I look back at all the girls I hooked up with or even became friends with period is because I played on one of the sports teams. I was invited to many parties and was constantly meeting new girls. Plus not to mention night out on The weekend and what not. For college just think friendly and social, not gamy and approachy. The slow farming method where you build good positive feedback with many people…
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:45 AM
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