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| 2 | A phase or is this just how it will be?Its a rough sea we are sailing on man. They've just waves. but sometimes they are bigguns | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/02/26 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Here we are again... drunkI’d say if you don’t get yourself together in another 6 a year or so after the D, then you might have a problem. If you are paying the bills drinking might help the transition. But just for a transition. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Ex-wife’s boyfriend loves to talk shit and taunt.Then be ready to throw down . If he comes at you you can beat him down pretty good with out getting in trouble. If he’s all puff and no punch I think asking about the flavor of My dick would be even more satisfying than punching his birch ass in the face. But you got to be in control and can’t just boil over. Gotta be a boss not some hysterical mess | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/26 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Ex-wife’s boyfriend loves to talk shit and taunt.I don’t know if this kind of shit is common where you are from. I’ve never seen this type of behavior as an adult. We fought as kids. Not everyone fought but a good portion. If this dude ever got close enough taunting me, he’s got it coming. And I would be within my rights too. I’d challenge him. If he wants to throw he will throw first and you are good. If he doesn’t want to throw then you are good . Next time he talks shit you just put him in his place. And you’re good. But don’t boil over and… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/26 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Ex-wife’s boyfriend loves to talk shit and taunt.Yeah but some times an attitude has to be adjusted . | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/26 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Ex-wife’s boyfriend loves to talk shit and taunt.Can you kick his ass? Man how old are your kids? Sometimes a man has to stand up. At some point I think I’d have to challenge him to a fight. If the dude ever got in my face or even my space I’d drop him. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/26 01:08 AM |
| 5 | Can’t imagine myself ever being in a relationship againMake sure you wrap that rascal then bud. For real. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/26 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Does it ever really get better/easier?My X had checked out a couple years before and I remember saying to her this marriage is like a bad business deal. And it was lol. I will be better off in a couple of years financially than ever. I have adult kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/01/26 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Does it ever really get better/easier?It fucking sucks man. There is no soft soaping that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/01/26 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Does it ever really get better/easier?My X, big D finalized a month ago, had that perimenopause thing going. I'd never heard anyone say that like that. I'd like to find someone to spend time with and fuck, but man it's weird out here 25 years later. World's changed and all the chicks my age are old lol. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/01/26 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Does it ever really get better/easier?Yes that's totally normal. You know what you should do. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/01/26 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Does it ever really get better/easier?You know what you should do. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/01/26 07:38 PM |
| 2 | She PlottedWish i would have taken your advice brother. My kids are 18 and 16 so that part doesn’t apply. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/25 10:19 PM |
| 2 | She PlottedLawyer. Lawyer. Lawyer. Lawyer. Lawyer. Lawyer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/25 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Divorce adviceIn indiana marital debts and assets are split 50/50 | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/25 02:27 AM |
| 2 | I know this is stupid…That sucks man. I can see how that might be hard. For me though lol, the opposite has happened with the scrolling. I get to watch at my own pace lol. Watching TV has improved since my separation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/25 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Reason for divorceThat sucks man. Have you moved on? Was she religious? or was it just hurtful to her? | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/25 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Reason for divorceAddiction would also be characterized by an obsessive amount of mental energy focused on it too. TO where, the person wouldn't provide emotional/mental attention too. Once a day. I asked the dude if he was low T or something lol. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/25 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Reason for divorcePregnancies often change drive man. It's not even debatable. What women have to do in that case is do it anyway if they want to satisfy their partner. There are low drive men that have to do the same thing man. IT's not as common but it's not like totally rare either. I really can't relate. I mean I'll fuck on a dime, so it's not a burden. But especially from a woman's perspective, if some hairy mfer was wallowing all over me and I wasn't into it, eeesh. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/25 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Reason for divorceI had a couple similar experiences with my stbxw. It was funny. I almost always get me a morning jerk after sex with stbxw. She was not into the morning thing lol. It was almost like the post game, or something or like a little light cool down after the race. LOL. THat shit made me laugh though. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/25 10:07 AM |
| 3 | Reason for divorceShe broke the contract IMO by not being available for sex. To me anyway that is the case. Sex is part of marriage. Like a real fucking vital part to my marriage. Porn is well. It's kinda complex but it is something available to fulfill a need, and sex is a need for most IMO, if that need is not being fulfilled. It sucks. I understand where she's coming from, but it's not cheating. It's fantasy IMO. I understand that she's comparing herself to that fantasy world, but you have needs that she isn't… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/25 10:04 AM |
| 1 | The divorce subreddit is sickening!!!!It ain’t sexist dude. Women can never be satisfied since Eve lol. Men have been doing dumb, irrational shit to try to satisfy them since then though lol. It ain’t sexist. Just response to stimuli. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/25 06:11 PM |
| 1 | I still love her but I have discovered that I don't need herNo pussy? I’m divorcing and am living OPs peace, but before too long when the final decree ink is dry, I ma have to you know get some every so often. stbxw and I had pretty satifying sex | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/25 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Why ex-wives act "fine" after a divorceMoney, charisma, talent. Well really just money. Which ain't wrong. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/25 12:07 AM |
| 1 | What made you marry to your ex/stbx ?Knocked her up | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/24 08:05 AM |
| 1 | I cannot move onGood Luck man. That sucks. You sound like a man who is going to take care of your family. I’m 52 i have 2 boys a senior and a sophomore. they are raised and I am divorcing. Nothing like your situ but irreconcilable. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/24 10:22 PM |
| -1 | I cannot move onHow old are your girls man? There your girls man. Your. Girls. If they are too young man the fuck up and take it. If they are post pubescent, fuck that bitch. Your daughters might need to see what cunts are like. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/24 06:48 AM |
| 1 | I’m lostI would start with John for myself. It's heady and symbolic though. I'm into the far out stuff. IF you are an analytical mind, I'd suggest Paul. Romans is a good start. It you prefer an unvarnished straight type of narrative Read Luke then Acts also written by Luke. Genesis and Exodus are fun. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/24 04:38 AM |
| 2 | I’m lostFor a man on this forum, I'd reccomend Galatians. It's about not being beholden to old ways of thinking and old ways of doing things, but allows for old ways of thinking and doing things in your new (Christian) life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/24 04:15 AM |
| 1 | I’m lostI'm now an unbeliever but Jesus saved my life. I was fading and joined a church and was a believer for quite a while. I'm cool. I don't need evangelizing, but I used to do it, so I take it as a loving gesture. Ecclesiastes is where a lot of us are. Vanity, vanity, all is vanity. But at the end Solomon is accepting of his emotional odyssey and concludes simply that we should keep God and his commandments, for me as an agnostic now, it's an end equivalent to saying just believe in what you believe… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/24 04:10 AM |
| 1 | What new hobbies or interests have you started since the separation/divorce?Flute will keep your cardio up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/24 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Emails for young children so they know you always loved themJesus dude . I’m sorry. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/24 03:13 AM |
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