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| -1 | She Flaked, I was mildly salty, now what? (convo attached below)Um no. She didn't flake. She was expecting a call from you to get an update on what you have planned for the date. Not only did you not deliver on what you said you'd do (calling her to update her the date plan) but you showed her that you're not reliable. So, she made separate plans with her friends because A) Unlike you, Her friends are reliable, B) Her making her own plans with her friends Minus YOU is her way of saying "You've been friend zoned!!!" OP, if you say you're going to do something… | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 08:42 PM |
| 2 | why everyone who claims to be slightly good in attracting women claims to be a coachYou're very welcome. Good luck, buddy!! | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 08:41 AM |
| 1 | why everyone who claims to be slightly good in attracting women claims to be a coachIt's simple OP. If you're not getting any answers, move on. Not any single person has YOUR exact method or strategies in their playbook. Your job is to take what you want from each person, or none of them, and make it your own. If you're not getting any answers or are confused about what their saying either: 1) ask better specific questions to gain understanding OR 2) Politely excuse yourself from the conversation and move on. | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 07:20 AM |
| 1 | why everyone who claims to be slightly good in attracting women claims to be a coachOP, they're asking you to talk about yourself to gauge what kind of person you are, what your strengths and weaknesses are, and the kind of women you approach. Knowing your history and you makes it easier to direct your course to better success. It's that simple. Just like, as you say, a therapist. A therapist needs to know your history and how you got to this point in your life, in order to direct you to becoming a better version of yourself. | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 07:05 AM |
| 2 | why everyone who claims to be slightly good in attracting women claims to be a coachBecause different men are good at attracting different women. They're just sharing what's worked for them. They're proud of their success because most men sit at home torchering themselves with the simple question of, "Should I ask her out?" Rather than just asking her out. | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 06:55 AM |
| 8 | How do you move from a relationship frame to something more casual?DO NOT EVEN MESS WITH HER!! 3 children with 3 different baby daddies?! She's proven a lot of things. She's NOT afraid to have more children, whether to trap a guy OR because she's very irresponsible. Probably both. JUST RUN DUDE!! | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 04:09 AM |
| 4 | Female attention means nothing unless it’s leads to something physical.It honestly sounds like you're using a haughty attitude to disguise your insecurity. You're overthinking this, and it's pissing you off to the point where you're becoming a bitter pill to swallow. And believe it or not, it shows on your face and communicates through your body language. Like the last poster said, "Record yourself a few times and let others help improve your game." | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Don’t want to date someone I’m not attracted to, but I disqualify myself and deem myself unworthy of the ones I am attracted to, been fighting this forever. how can I fix this?Who cares what attracted her to you. The point of going on a date is to see if the attraction/chemistry can run deeper. The only thing that's real to people on dating apps are your pictures. So, unless people are cat-fishing or posting wrong pictures (which can happen), your pictures are the truest part of your profile. Everything else can just be imitated or set up to sound real pretty. There's a reason why there's a swipe left or swipe right feature. As far as feeling unworthy. Keep going out … | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to not understand woman’s behavior as a man?"Don't try to understand women. Women understand women, and they hate each other." Al Bundy | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 03:56 PM |
| 1 | When to have the talk about how do I and the girl see us?Textbook!! Well said. | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 10:03 AM |
| 3 | How to go out alone without feeling awkward or judged?How do you walk into a restroom and take a piss? It doesn't matter. you're there to take care of business. Who cares. | /r/seduction | 15/02/24 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesIt was a task assigned to him by someone. Or more specifically, something. Something very close to him. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesWell. Chances are at 40, she's not getting "eaten" anyways. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Made out with a girl, connected with her for 2 hours, the next few days she gives me half ass answers when I invite herYour trying way to hard bro. Let it go. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 03:54 AM |
| 33 | What are some skills u should learn to impress girls or make them interested in you?Listen, don't talk. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 03:52 AM |
| 3 | Really confused and concerned / thoughts?Maybe she's having trouble sneaking out behind her boyfriends back. Dont worry, she'll find another way. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Lots of bar experience. Can’t get back into the flow?Stop trying to make it like it like it was. Your telling yourself that if it wasn't like before, then your unhappy. Turn it into a different challenge. Be the man with the highest connections from all walks. You'll be the guy everyone wants to hang out with because your always doing something new and exciting. People will spread how much fun you are that they'll calling you to make sure they're not left out. And people always bring friends. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Combating the overwhelming feeling of being a weirdoYour doing it correctly and your not giving up. In fact your confronting your fear of rejection perfectly. Its going to be rough for a while. But sooner or later, your going to have that day where you realize you don't care about the rejection and that your real self is finally being allowed out. On that day you'll notice two great things. One, your confidence level has gone way up. (Women's #1 sought after quality). And number two, the real you is coming out unhindered from fear. The way to con… | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 12:39 PM |
| 4 | What are some lines and conversations starters for when on dancefloorTell her you wish the DJ would play more "Elevator Music." | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 12:28 PM |
| 1 | What do women mean when they say they want a confident man?What they really mean is that they don't want them to be needy. Basically, they don't want to be your mom. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 11:03 AM |
| 1 | People of seddit who've "made it", what's the most crucial piece of seduction advice that helped you succeed at seduction?Thats Definitely a page out of Men are from Mars Women are from Venus book or at least something similar. But, it is so true!! | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 10:24 AM |
| 3 | People of seddit who've "made it", what's the most crucial piece of seduction advice that helped you succeed at seduction?You would think this is a No-brainer but its not. Its a No-brainer for you because you've already achieved that higher level by putting yourself in uncomfortable/new situations over and over and over again AND more importantly, not giving up. Most of the people on here don't understand that overcoming a weakness like fear of rejection, can only be cured by making yourself vulnerable to rejection. Rinse and Repeat. Dont give up!! Thank you for your post bro!! | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach helpTo each his own. Good luck buddy. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 09:49 AM |
| 0 | Cold approach helpLol, "Cute" is what you say so as not to hurt someone's feelings because you don't find them attractive when their friend asks you what you think. Cute is an easy let down. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 09:48 AM |
| 1 | What are some types of places to day-game?Community Pools. Like Golf Club Locations. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 09:31 AM |
| 0 | Cold approach helpBeing Friend Zoned is always "that deep." | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 09:30 AM |
| 7 | Cold approach helpLol, you just can't help yourself can you. Over thinking. You even brought in demographics to try to prove your case. Location isnt a factor, Age isnt a factor. The fact that is solid is that people love compliments and love hearing their attractive to other people. "I barely made it to class because I over slept." "That sucks. I like how you did your make-up this morning." "I didn't. I was running late." "Wow, you are definitely a Natural Beauty. We should meet up before school tomorrow. I'll g… | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Clubbing Observations"You seemed to be having fun yesterday. How are you today?" "GREEN LIGHT, GREEN LIGHT!!! GO, GO, GO!!! "Let's have some more fun today." My buddy and I are hanging out right now. But are you free after [time]?" | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 09:06 AM |
| 9 | Cold approach helpAnd thats why you'll fail more often in the long run when it comes to all this; You thinking you know what a woman is thinking. The Cliche of women wanting to be sweet and proper and innocent is over. Why do you think the Bad-Boy always wins? He's interesting, he's original, he's not afraid to say whats on his mind, he keeps her on her toes while remaining unpredictable at the same time. You don't have to be disrespectful, rude, or condescending. You have to stand out. I guarantee you that she g… | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 09:00 AM |
| -1 | Cold approach helpDon't ever use the word "Cute" in ANY of your opening lines!! In fact, the word "Cute" is no longer part of your Vocabulary!! Telling someone they are "cute" implies one of two things. 1) That person isnt good enough to be Hot or Sexy, or Naughty or, any of the things they want to complemented on and thus automatically turned off and your in the friend zone. 2) Implies that you don't have the confidence to say what your really thinking or have the brains to be somewhat original. Which, once agai… | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 08:26 AM |
| 3 | Why is flirting with girls so hard?Take more chances. Dont be afraid of rejection, and stop over thinking things. The problem is you tripping yourself out. Start off simple with the kiss and or holding her hand and then escalate. Theres no problem is she says no. Back if for about 20-30 min, start back at the beginning, and the try escalating slowly again. Just because she says "no" to your first attempt, doesn't necessarily mean "no, for the rest of the date." It could mean "not yet." People LOVE attention!! Especially when it c… | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 07:42 AM |
| 24 | Umm can someone explain this?Be flattered but keep your barriers up. | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 03:02 PM |
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