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| 1 | 10 Month UpdateSorry to hear, man. As for the reason why it all came back again, you have said it yourself. The whole struggle with the court date is more than enough to trigger such feelings and push you back in that stat of mind. I think to actually start really healing you need to wait till all the dust settles. Regarding what you wrote about how she handled things, that is why it passes so freakin' hard. You couldn't have a closure, at least not a proper one. As tough and draining it can be, talking throug… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/26 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Mid-divorce, 20 year marriage. I still love her and I miss her, and I never want to speak to her ever again.Similar situation here. The whole thing is pretty fresh though, we decided to end the marriage a month ago and she’ll move out in a few weeks. Regarding the ring…she took it off a week ago, and it felt like a kick in the heart. I decided not to make a fuss about it, ours is an amicable situation thank god, but still it hurt like hell. I’m wearing mine for now. Maybe it is ego, respect towards here (not reciprocated apparently), or just too afraid tobtake it off yet due to what it means. All I’m … | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/26 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Should I go back?Touché | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/26 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Am I crazy, or are these expectations unreasonable during a divorce?Hi, similar situation over here. What turned out to be behind her actions was that she had (allegedly) that 1% hope to reconcile. I was pushing things forward gently but non-negotiably. Once she realized there is 0 chance, she got a bit more active, but the constant push was needed. This is regarding the official todos and her finding a new apartment. When it comes to sharing day to day stuff I don’t give a fuck and act normally. She is not asking for help in crazy things and the divorce so far … | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/26 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Don’t accept mediocrityYour words really resonate with me. I have exactly the same thoughts and doubts. Have I become lazy in our marriage and took her for granted, or were my needs really so much simpler? I know for a fact that I have made big mistakes that have hurt her, but I have honestly apologized for those admitting then. But when you feel whatever you (think) you are doing to meet her needs always seem to be not enough, you start to lose your mojo. But as you have said, maybe she was a much better spouse than … | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/26 07:48 AM |
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