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You’re really invested in the thought that women desire the same things that men do. I believe that’s why you sound like an alien to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:47 AM
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Man do you have that backwards. A man that takes his time to rev you up, and gets you off every time is worth his weight in gold. A 10/10 two pump chump that doesn’t engage in foreplay, and only cares about his pleasure is going to get the boot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:07 PM
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Agreed. The government needs men to feel proud to sacrifice themselves. It’s all false premise. It’s disgusting, and it’s about time that we all come together in a common goal: we need to stop being pawns for the few wealthy that run the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:23 PM
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Most people aren’t educated about their own bodies, let alone how male and female sexuality differs. Some women don’t even know how to orgasm with a partner. I urge everyone who wants to learn how to give and receive the best possible orgasm, and wants to be an amazing lover, to watch The Diary of a CEO, the episode with the Orgasm Queen. It’s illuminating, to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:19 PM
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Being unable to socialize well with others is a detriment to dating prospects. Women that fall in love based on personality will never have the opportunity to choose a man if they never get to socialize with you in a relaxed setting. Supposing you do put yourself in situations where women can get to know you, but you are bad at it, women will not feel that they can move forward with you. (Not you specifically, this is a general you) This is why the death of third spaces is such a negative. The m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:39 PM
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Women that strategize on how to get a “high value man”. They often treat men as wallets, are overly focused on looks, and generalize men and women, just as many red/black pill adherents do. It’s a sad little group.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:33 PM
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Isn’t that where the “fats” should be? At the gym? How else are people supposed to lose weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:08 AM
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That’s not true at all. My husband makes content for YouTube, and sometimes wears eyeliner. It’s very sexy. Rockstars and goth/industrial men do this, too, and it’s very attractive. Johnny Depp in Pirates…heartthrob.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:04 PM
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You’re practically a trained monkey. Go lick Nick Fuentes asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:56 PM
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You sound like 2015’s retarded basement dwelling product of incest relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:53 PM
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You’re actual scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 02:23 PM
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Be careful…around here, if you’ve been tricked or betrayed in past relationships, you should’ve chosen better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:03 PM
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Fly Eagles Fly✨
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:58 PM
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These fools just try to pretend like nuance doesn’t exist for the sake of sad internet dubs. Of course it’s sick and weird for a parent to “guard” their daughter’s virginity, and of course it’s a nerve wracking thing to hear that someone you love wants to pursue a dangerous career. If my son wanted to be a police officer in a high crime area, I would be trying to talk him out of it, too…even though ultimately it’s his choice. These vociferous chumps will attempt to sound as edgy as possible to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:38 PM
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I never mentioned abdominal obesity, and never said abdominal obesity was normal. I was just saying that it is natural for women to hold onto a bit more body fat than men do, that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:50 PM
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Waist is not the abdomen. Women absolutely do tend do develop a slight lower abdominal pouch to protect the reproductive organs. It is very rare to have a completely flat abdomen as a women in child bearing years. In order to achieve that, most women would need to restrict their diet to the point of being malnourished.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:52 PM
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Women tend to retain more fat on average, even when at a healthy weight, especially in the abdominal area. They will naturally have a higher body fat percentage than men. This is due to reproductive health, this better protects the organs during pregnancy, as the organs shift to make room for a growing baby. Women also retain more heat at their core, which is why women tend to complain of being cold. The heat doesn’t radiate to the extremities in the same way as it does for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:10 PM
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Right. I’m very efficient at controlling my emotions, as I work in healthcare, and I need to be on an even keel. I have cried twice in my 7 year relationship. Once during the height of Covid, when I watched 20 plus people die in a week, I came home, and began talking about how frustrated I was that I couldn’t prevent these patients from dying. My fiancé told me that I needed to keep work at work, and wouldn’t talk about it. Once because, for the third time, I caught him doing something he agreed…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:35 PM
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Destiny fucks though. He couldn’t keep his passport ho bc he spends every waking moment in his room streaming like an ogre. Mel found a guy that will spend time with her🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:38 PM
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And bald
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:04 AM
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It’s about being ready for a relationship. If more people took some time to discover themselves, more relationships would last. Jumping into a relationship before you have your life sorted is begging for trouble. Did you ever have a friend that refuses to be single and work on their shit? They jump from person to person, looking for someone to “complete” them. They’re insecure, because they believe that they aren’t a whole person unless someone is choosing them. That type of person tends to driv…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:21 AM
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Dude, just do it for yourself. You’re putting in all this effort for a chick who told you she doesn’t see you that way. Achieve your goals because you want it, not to impress anyone else. When you’re happy alone, that’s when you’re ready to add a relationship to your life. And burn those graphs for god’s sake. Don’t do that again. You definitely scared her off with that type of weird shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 10:57 PM
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High risk, high investment is also the reason a lot of women are averse to tradcon content. If any of these women were portraying the reality of being a stay at home mom, there would be less pushback. As a woman who tried the SAHM thing, it’s monotonous, you are starving for adult conversation, you’re doing a lot of under appreciated work, and if you’re out of the work force long enough, and your husband decides to leave you, you’re likely to be left struggling. That said, a lot of women choose …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:50 PM
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Holy fuck 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:45 PM
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Your seething leaps off of the screen and permeates a peaceful morning. Relax. Women are not a monolith of sweetness and love. They can be just as shitty as some men. It’s messed up to pretend to be friends with someone when you want something more, then lash out because you didn’t get it. Goes for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:19 AM
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I didn’t think you were talking about me, no worries. I wish you all the best. Get off of the red pill. Beta bux doesn’t exist, all this terminology…for the sake of your own mental wellbeing, get off of this stuff. People grow and mature, I promise. Take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:44 PM
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You have such a dim outlook of women in general. Certain women will behave the way you describe, but those women tend to be shallow, materialistic, and self-absorbed. A way larger percentage of women might be quieter, but they’re looking for the same things you are. It’s more difficult the younger you are, because no one is ready to settle down, but it will happen. Don’t poison your soul with pessimism.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:13 PM
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Your route, meaning exactly what you do; get laid if it’s worth it, jerk off if it’s not, and expend effort for someone who is special. Did you assume I was denigrating you? I’m not. You have the same strategy as a lot of women. Women do put in quite a bit of effort. Physical appearance, as we hear that the fellas like that, go out where the guys are, keep ourselves safe, and flirt so the guy will take hint and flirt back.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:04 PM
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I definitely see where people of either gender is starved for love, care, and attention can become bitter, and take that out on the people closest to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:59 PM
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No, I’m definitely not inferring that men will turn to violence. That’s taking up a million percent. I’m saying that they’re discontented, yes. And what do we do with discontent in the age of short attention spans and social isolation? Take to the internet, boys. Or get really mad and start a podcast. A fewer number will actually put work in, and some will take your route.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:48 PM
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I think that this reproductive competition between men is very strong, especially in young men. It’s very hard for most men to be content alone when their testosterone is screaming at them. I find that most people have little to no willpower, especially in today’s climate of easy fixes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:09 PM
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So are most men. What is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:56 PM
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Most of the women in this sub are in committed relationships, so you might as well go to whichever sub these single ladies frequent. As for women choosing the wrong guys in their 20s…that’s where you’re mistakenly gendering an innocuous issue once again. Teens and twenties are the age where women and men are learning. They’re making mistakes, learning boundaries, learning about their place in the world. Almost no one chooses the best, most appropriate partner on the first try. It’s a learning pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:21 AM
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You say “some”…so how does this tie into asking women in general to take accountability for the “some”? You say you know some chicks like this? Go ask them face to face to take accountability if it upsets you so much. I don’t know why people get their knickers in a twist about a small segment of the opposite gender. A small segment that you wouldn’t even want to date anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:03 PM
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I agree that there is probably a subset of the female population that settles for men they don’t truly desire, but to pretend that this is widespread among women is fallacious. There’s a certain subset of males that settle as well. Perhaps more men do this, since they feel that they have very few options, then resent their SO, numb themselves with video games, and barely participate with the house and kids, wishing they were somewhere else. You could choose any group, and a segment of that group…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:08 PM
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Nah, my brother in law ate a carnivore diet for a year to try to correct some health issues, and he was supernaturally observant and strict. I tried to warn him- his cholesterol was in the 400s and his cardiologist said he was endangering his health.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:14 PM
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This type of woman will tell on themselves. It’s very easy to avoid that trap. Men need to state that boundary up front. You should not be investing much on a first date. You ask a woman on a coffee date, ice cream, or drinks. Or- if you want to go to dinner or a concert, tell the woman up front that you’ll be going dutch. A woman that is interested in you won’t mind in the slightest. Any woman that cancels when she hears she has to split costs…you dodged a bullet. Move on. An egalitarian woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:54 AM
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EVERYONE needs to constantly learn as they grow, yes. There are some concepts that you don’t fully grasp until you’ve either experienced it, or have been in close proximity to it. This isn’t a controversial claim. It’s why young guys are more prone to take risks and cede to peer pressure. It’s why both men and women kiss a few frogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:40 PM
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That’s why I firmly believe that couples need to focus on their bond before tending to the kids where possible. It’s like the saying if you don’t take care of yourself, you can’t help anyone else. It’s the same with parents. That good, strong core is great for the parents, and it’s a good strong model for the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 01:53 PM
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Accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:36 PM
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I’m sure that happens sometimes, but there are other reasons for women to be sex-averse for a period of time after giving birth. I’m a nurse that has worked in OBGYN. One reason is because of the trauma of giving birth. It can take some women quite awhile to heal, and to have sex without pain. Another reason is hormone shifts. That can last a couple of years sometimes. PPD is big. Then there’s lack of sleep due to be awake with the baby at night, exhaustion from new responsibilities. Worse if hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:52 PM
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If you believe that the majority of women are rejecting the majority of men for lack of perfect traits, I don’t know what to tell you. Look around. If you’re focused on a subset of women that frequent FDS and make bitchy Tik Toks…why are you after those toxic broads? Get you a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:43 AM
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Much better. I’m not though🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:03 PM
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I know you think it makes you seem more intelligent to quote a dictionary definition, but if you think I’m projecting, you could’ve stated it more succinctly, and you wouldn’t seem as pretentious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:01 PM
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You must not be paying attention. I don’t know how you don’t, when it’s so ubiquitous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:59 PM
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Your toxic attitude invites negativity into your life, and betrays you as the childish element in this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:58 PM
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Thank you for your well wishes. I think the toxic subsets of each gender like to highlight the things that the other gender is insecure about. I definitely would dismiss a guy who has no passions in his life, and I would hope that guys wouldn’t settle a girl without passions. Pretty all by itself gets old. Pretty and dumb gets old very fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:56 PM
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I think that some men feel that way, but it’s not true. Some toxic girls will talk like that, but there’s a reason it’s a trope for a guy with a guitar to pick up chicks at a party. Women love a guy who is passionate about something. And women hope that a guy will appreciate them for their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:51 PM
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No, that’s the problem. I’m interested in a man’s dreams, goals, education, aspirations, hobbies. A lot men actively dislike that a woman has a life outside of interacting with them, and it feels shitty. I want a man who is proud of the things I have accomplished, just like I’m proud of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:24 PM
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Some of these guys do treat women as objects. When they say that all they want is a submissive, sexually inexperienced woman with very little life outside of the relationship. When they say that our career/education/achievements/dreams/hobbies mean nothing to them, and are actually considered negative traits. I find that hurtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:20 PM
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AND- how are women not going to feel dehumanized when a lot of guys around here talk about what they desire in a woman. Their idea of a perfect woman is: -very young -submissive -very little or no prior sexual experience -education/career aspirations are a turn off They often talk about our dreams, career choices, even hobbies as a negative. That hurts. It feels like some of these guys just want a pleasant, blank slate that will stay young, dispense sex, bear children…I could never be with a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:15 PM
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https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:19 AM
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Yeah. I know they’re doing it at Vassar, University of Miami…it’s a good sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:49 PM
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You’re causing your own problem. I was agreeing with your first paragraph. Then I got to the insults. People don’t go out of their way to address people with preferences unless they start being confrontational about it, and start putting down people they aren’t interested in. It ruins the discourse. It’s the same feeling I get when I see an FDS spokesperson in here saying stuff like “oh so the incels are just mad that I won’t fuck the short balding brokies??” The conversation is over at that poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:47 PM
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Colleges have started waitlisting female applicants, and accepting males at an increased rate, specifically to address the disparity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:41 PM
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This has already started happening in colleges. They have started waitlisting female applicants in order to balance gender representation. I think it’s a good idea to give a leg up to people who need the help, and currently, it’s males.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:40 PM
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Some men in this sub aren’t helping their case. I’ve tried to have open and understanding conversations with guys in this sub, and was disabused of the notion that I could reach middle ground. It’s the seething hatred of women or refusal to see them as real people with hopes, desires that makes me less sympathetic to the plight of some of these guys. When I see a comment from a guy that seems to be redpill, but also seems to LIKE women, I pay more attention to what that guy is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:32 PM
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Nothing wrong with being emotionally guarded until you’re sure you want to take a chance on someone, but being vulnerable is how you connect with people. Romance involves feelings. If all a person wants is surface level, that’s fine. But if you want a serious relationship, the most important aspect is communication of feelings and desires. Is there such a thing as too much emotion? Yes. Inappropriate times for emotion? Yes. But that’s true for man or woman. If there’s a woman at work crying ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:05 PM
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Sure. I’m a woman, and if I’m sad, I don’t always cry. Human shit. But if you feel tears coming and repress them because you’re afraid a lady is going to judge you for it, you’re lame. Who gives a shit if anyone judges you for crying? Own your shit, stop capitulating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:30 PM
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That’s real strength. Feel however you want to feel. Who cares what anyone has to say about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:25 PM
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So we’re never to clarify that a shitty subset of a gender does shitty things? If I say men like to rape, it’s ok to apply that to the entire gender? After all, most women have a story about being sexually assaulted, just ask around. Ridiculous logic. Toxic people do toxic things. And people need to stop using the term gaslight for things they disagree with. That’s not what that means. Also, why do you want to live up to someone’s caricature of a perfect mate. That’s unsustainable. It’s way cool…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:14 PM
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Never heard of wanting to be comforted? Sure, you can cry alone, but it’s helpful when someone validates your feelings, and shares in the burden. It’s off-putting to be with an automaton. That’s why Gen X was so screwed up. Raised by authoritarian, angry, emotionally-void robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:58 PM
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I honestly think it’s projection when these guys say that women will perceive them as weak when they express emotion. It’s mostly men who tend to judge other men for crying, and a whole host of other emotions. Unless it’s anger, then toxic men will cheer it on. That’s not how normal, healthy guys think. I’m a nurse. Healthcare has disproportionate female employment. I’ve never seen a coworker shit on a man for crying, or being afraid, or showing pain. You know who I’ve seen do that? Guys. Guys w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:52 PM
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You’re speaking truth. It makes me wonder if people carry this vitriol into their real lives, or if it’s just online posturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:10 PM
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Wowwwww….not to be rude, but I don’t think you can speak to the nuances of the human mind if you don’t grasp basic biological functions, friend. I don’t think you should be having sex until you find out the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:14 PM
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People that are serious about making positive and sustainable change certainly do, but you’re not likely to find that level of conversation in this sub, friend. Most people in this sub are here to try and single-handedly win the gender wars, as if that’s possible. A lot of people in here are hurting and looking for someone to blame for that hurt. It’s a temporary solution, a little dopamine hit when they make someone else feel bad. It’s difficult to have the sexual abuse conversation because so …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:51 PM
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I’m not saying that abusers aren’t shitty people. But you can’t just call something bad, dust your hands and walk away. If you can identify underlying factors that contribute to bad outcomes, you can prevent some of these things from happening. And less victims of abuse is the desired outcome, yes? Also, I’m not here to have a man/woman bad conversation. It’s unproductive. Men and women have separate issues and benefits, but they have more in common than not. We’re all just humans trying to make…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:35 PM
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Not at all. I’m a nurse, and a patient advocate. It’s one thing to say a thing is bad. I’m interested in understanding the why. Once you know that, you can implement solutions, and reduce harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:40 PM
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Which makes sense, since they represent the majority of caretakers, and burnout is a huge factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:26 PM
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Right. Kind of like being extremely competent at work, so much so that you’re shouldering more responsibility than your coworkers. When something goes wrong, you’ll be held accountable, because no one expects much out of Trevor and Bethany playing on their phones all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:21 PM
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Yeah, I know the research you’re referencing. It’s a spectrum. There tend to be more male CEOS and lawmakers, but there are also more homeless men. Whereas women are less represented on the extreme ends of the spectrum, and tend to stay more consistently in the middle of the distribution. This is because men are more likely to engage in risk-taking behaviors. Which makes sense. Testosterone is a hell of a thing. I don’t think this is good or bad. It’s a set of facts worth considering.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:15 PM
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This sounds so strange to me. All the male and female friends I’ve ever had were reciprocal in nature. We’re friends because we enjoy hanging out, and because we care about each other, if one of us needs help, the other steps up. If one of us is moving, we’re all pitching in. If someone is painting, we get pizza and beer, turn it into a party. If one of us is having a rough day, they call and bitch about it. We’re there for each other. That’s what being friends is all about. My male and female f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:48 AM
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Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:16 PM
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It also seems to be filled with women complaining that their men aren’t down to fuck. I guess that means that there are both women and men that experience libido issues. And since we aren’t privy to their lives, that could be due to many factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:23 PM
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Lol what a visual. I’m imagining a VERY aggressive HAVE IT YOUR WAY!!! While throwing a greasy paper bag at a customer
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:13 PM
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One of the only sane takes I’ve read on this entire thread. Geez. If I thought male/female dynamics were anything like what I see in this sub, I’d be a nun lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:08 PM
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Agreed. Everything seems to be a team sport these days, and the lack of nuance is turning our society into groups of mean-spirited, performative halfwits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:37 PM
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Thank you. I am doing much better. I’m aware that as a woman, people listen to my story and sympathize with me, which is very unlike the reception men receive at times. Men are more likely to be advised to toughen up and move on. No one has ever told me to quit whining about being raped, but I’ve heard that spewed at male victims, and that’s sick. I hope you receive some compassion and care, and heal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:06 PM
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That’s a traumatic way to spend your years of development. I’m sorry people were so shitty to you. A lot of people are absolute trash until they grow up and realize that they were soulless lemmings as teens/young adults. I can empathize with that feeling of wearing and projecting trauma like a shabby aura. I was sexually abused as a kid/teen, and I was terrified of men well into adulthood. I felt that people could sense my shame and weakness in a very literal way. Took years before I could be al…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:40 PM
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You can definitely tell. It’s in the tone of voice, it’s in the words they choose. If it’s “hey love”, “hey mama” “you’re wearing the fuck out of those jeans” etc…I’m not making eye contact, I’m giving a very short “hello”, “hi”, “thanks”. Even worse, they just make noises at me like I’m a dog. The guys at the mechanic shop up the road when I was 13 used to whistle really low whenever I passed them after school. It’s fucking scary. I’ve had guys pull up alongside me when I’m walking at night. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:50 PM
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You wish anyone was offering you money to fuck. What makes a person like you decide to act this way toward someone who did nothing to you. Vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:29 PM
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If a woman consents to casual sex, there’s a risk that the partner may take it too far without consent. One of my friends was hooking up with a guy who asked for anal, pressured her, she said no, he kept fucking her and started to get nasty and call her names, then did it anyway as she tried to stop him. Another of my friends was having a consensual sexual encounter. Her partner finished and left the room. She started to get dressed when her partner came back into the room with a friend and they…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:32 PM
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That’s all people, dude. Not a gendered thing. A couple could be madly in love for years, have a life-altering change, or grow apart. Either person could have a change of heart. That’s a risk in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:27 PM
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I think the men here are pretty honest about how they generally view women on this sub. I think they say things that other men are afraid to say, whether I like it or not. That’s interesting to me, and gives me some understanding about how men think as opposed to women. I’m always very curious about the ideas of people that think differently from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 09:42 PM
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Oh that’s not true lol. I’ve met guys that were STUNNING to look at. Opened their mouths and it was over. Handsome men can be creepy for sure. Think Dennis from It’s Alway Sunny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:13 AM
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Ok? I’m not the arbiter of women’s penis preferences. I can only go by what friends tell me. I’ve heard mostly that they want somewhere in between 5 and 7. And your study there says the women preferred a length “only slightly larger than average”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:08 AM
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This study says women prefer penis size only slightly larger than average. Nowhere does it say that women were inclined to prefer anything close to 7 inches.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:53 PM
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Because even though a woman may not orgasm from PIV, it’s still an enjoyable sensation. By the way, most women do not require or even want a penis to be larger than average. Size queens exist, but it’s for sure exaggerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:42 PM
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Oral is the most important thing for women who can’t orgasm through penetrative sex. You can place importance on orgasm while also desiring PIV to feel good. The two aren’t at odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:58 PM
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Young people are naive and do stupid shit. They’re grown enough that they think they know everything, but their hormones are raging, making their relationships turbulent. This combined with the fact that they don’t have much prior relationship experience means that they tend to put up with bad behaviors longer. You’ll see young women putting up with toxic bad boys. You’ll see young men get played for a fool by selfish young ladies. Young people don’t know what they don’t know. Then a few years g…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:45 PM
2

Some women do orgasm from PIV, although it isn’t common. Even if a woman can’t orgasm from PIV, it still feels good. It’s just very difficult for most women to orgasm from that alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:04 PM
5

Some women can orgasm from PIV, though it’s rare. Also, even if the woman can’t climax from PIV, it’s still satisfying, and sexy. I don’t agree with “size queens”, but vaginas come in all sizes, same as dicks, so I guess some women prefer a larger size due to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:02 PM
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It’s rare, but some women do. I don’t think that’s the point though. A lot of men will pressure their partner for anal, and get upset at being denied, but they wouldn’t want it done to them. It’s painful, and a lot of women don’t get any pleasure from it. Men at least have the potential for prostate stimulation and STILL wouldn’t do it, so why are they getting pissy when a woman won’t? That’s what I get out of that scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:58 PM
3

Most rapes are perpetrated by intimate partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:23 AM
5

Oh shit lololol. Get it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:09 AM
2

To each their own. Thanks for answering. I’m a nurse, so I guess I’m more prone to obsess over the possibility of catching something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:32 PM
2

STDs?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:28 PM
1

I think that’s very proactive of you. Is she career-minded? Or has she expressed the desire to stay at home to run the household?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:33 PM
4

I think you misunderstood. Mother’s Little Helper is a nickname for Valium, which is a sedative. Many housewives were taking Valium because they felt depressed, anxious, and unfulfilled at home. Some women like to stay home and run the household, but to others, it’s mental torture. Many women that stay home feel like they have no purpose, especially if there are no children to look after. People need varying degrees of mental and physical stimulation to thrive. On top of this, many women feel li…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:04 PM
4

If she’s a traditional lady, and you can afford that lifestyle, go for it! If that makes you both happy, awesome. I personally prefer having a career that stimulates my mind, and going 50/50 at home, but everyone has their preference. Just make sure that she wants that lifestyle, because some women find that being a housewife isn’t enough and they become anxious and depressed. Ever heard of mother’s little helper? A good amount of women were on Valium in the 60s. Some women thrive at home, other…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:48 PM
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Except you’re not requesting 50/50. You’re expecting to get the whole trad wife package for 80%. If she works, and you work, you both get home exhausted, are you going to kick back with a beer and expect her to go into housewife mode? Planning and cooking for two people is a lot of work. Then there’s the cleaning, laundry, setting up appointments…and then she’s going to have enough energy to blow you? Come on. What’s wrong with finding a sweet lady you click with and going ACTUAL 50/50?? This is…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:21 PM
3

Your scalp, your choice🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:18 PM
21

Regressive fucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:44 PM
1

For the same reason some men just can’t quit fucking with crazy chicks. Low self esteem and not enough excitement in their lives. They feel like they’re being taken on some crazy adventure, which makes the sex seem better than it actually is. Until it gets old and that person starts dragging you into their mess. Some people wise up, some never do. Depends how broken they are, I guess.
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:01 PM
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How would you know if it’s better to have loved and lost? By your own admission, you only suffered your relationship for the purpose of regular sex, and you found her personality distasteful to you. I would argue that you haven’t experienced love, and therefore have no idea what you’re talking about. When you’re in love, after sex, you want to talk for hours, laugh, you notice little parts of their body that delight you, and make you want to have sex all over again, then talk about your dreams. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:10 PM
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I’m a nurse, and all of the women who lived to be 104, 106, etc…they all had three things in common: -never married -no kids -educated and active (read books, puzzles, writing, walk often)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:55 PM
2

Lol my fiancé sends me up a ladder to the third story of the house to spray for carpenter bees because he’s scared of heights. I’m a nurse, I have to defend myself often. I don’t expect my man to fight for me. I carry my own shit, too, if you can believe that! I don’t know, it seems like a certain segment of humanity is just fucked up, and people want to ascribe these negative traits to gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:15 PM
1

She started doing CrossFit and lifting with her cop husband. They have a set-up in their house. My sister is a nurse. They’re not taking PEDs lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:12 PM
8

That’s exactly it. I’ve never seen this put more eloquently. If you make healthier diet choices to start with and incorporate light physical activity into your life, there is a huge energy boost that allows you to reach bigger goals. I’m a nurse, and I used to have a coffee in the morning, eat a big dinner at night, then wonder why I was exhausted all the time. Now I force myself to eat a little something every four hours. The difference is crazy. I’m working OT, going to the gym at least three …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:31 PM
8

My sister had similar muscle definition and tone when she was heavy into lifting and CrossFit. Meanwhile I joined her, almost died, and decided three days a week at the gym is just fine😅
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:19 PM
3

No answer for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:00 PM
1

Happened in my mid-sized Pennsylvania town as well. Speaking to friends/acquaintances throughout the years, this doesn’t just happen in big cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:51 PM
1

Started at 11 for me as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:49 PM
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I had a best friend that lost a lot of weight, then became a completely different person. She was engaged to a man who became a good friend to me. She started to flirt with other men when we were all out together. Behind her fiancé’s back. She began to pick fights with him over nothing. I warned her that they were both my friends, and I wasn’t going to watch this go down. She begged me to distract her fiancé so she could get another guy’s number. I don’t know why she thought I could go along wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 03:36 AM
3

I think the very best we can do, man or woman, is to listen, reflect, utilize empathy, and never stop learning from others. I remember the first time I talked to a man that had been sexually assaulted by two women. My whole worldview was rocked. Good people can come together and tilt the scale, I’m sure of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 07:42 PM
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I know so many good men. My fiancé is the strongest tough guy kitten around. I have male family and friends that I would trust with my life. But for years I didn’t trust any man. I had to really break out of that mindset. From the time I was 5, my mother told me men only want one thing. Ridiculous right? But then: -when I was 9 I was raped by my half-brother’s dad, vaginally and anally -when I was 11, my father’s roommate trapped me in his room to lecture me that my dress was too short and showe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:37 PM
2

Thank you❤️. We lucked out for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:28 PM
1

For some women, no man is “hookup material”. I’ve always needed an emotional connection to become attracted to someone. I could be looking at a very physically fit, conventionally attractive guy, and he’s just….a blank slate to me. I feel nothing, I want nothing. I could maybe think, oh he’s attractive, but not FEEL attracted. When I get to know that guy, his actions and words contribute to his attractiveness. If he’s a dick, he legit becomes ugly in my eyes. A less conventionally attractive guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:07 PM
4

The psychological aspect. It’s a pretty fascinating slice of humanity. People say things here that you don’t hear in polite society. I like to try to understand outlier groups in general, though. A lot of it is parroted information, but occasionally there is a take I haven’t heard before. Coming from a loving LTR, I like to see some other perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:04 AM
2

People that have a real life friend group and go out doing things together have a good success rate. Anecdotal, I know. Just what I’ve witnessed personally. Tinder is trash. Why put yourself through it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:13 PM
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I love this so much.
/r/seduction10/11/21 10:44 AM
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I’m not sure...it may be that he became more manipulative over the years...he had an ex that screwed him over and cheated on him. Perhaps he became more angry and bitter over the years, causing these behaviors. One thing I’m sure of is that if I had met him later in life, when I had more experience, confidence, and firm boundaries, it would have been more difficult to take advantage of the situation. I believe it comes down to one person having more life experience, surety, and assets vs a young…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:46 AM
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Thank you for your kind reply! I learned the hard way not to be a doormat, but at least I was able to course correct. Some aren’t so lucky. My daughter, (and my son!!) will NEVER go through what I did, because she will have the benefit of learning from my mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:40 PM
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When I was 22, I met my ex-husband, who was 42. He had a stable career, lots of people in our community spoke highly of him. I also had a stable career, and was finally on my own after having basically raising my siblings and caring for my ill mother. I had tried dating guys my age, but they didn’t seem very serious or mature to me. My ex husband pursued me, and while I wasn’t interested at first, I was eventually convinced to try dating him. He was so thoughtful and kind, listened to me, and I …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:25 PM
1

The social media shit is straight ridiculous. Insta is such an untrustworthy place. These people are filtered/photoshopped to filth, and most times bear no relation whatsoever to their genuine appearance. I’ve often wondered what happens when some poor fool thinks they’re going to meet a hard 8, and are presented IRL with a light to decent 2 lmao...crazy. As for dudes locking down the first chick they meet...I don’t think that’s exclusively a male thing. A few of my close lady friends have done …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:45 PM
0

I’m seeing these stats and trends reported, but I’m not seeing them borne out IRL. Most of the people I know don’t even use OLD, and just seem to pair off naturally. I see 9s and 10s with other 9s and 10s, 9s and 10s with 5s. I see even matches, and uneven matches. I see people in happy LTRs and marriages, a few that are actively dating, and every once an awhile, a break up or divorce. I’m not saying this stuff isn’t trending...I just never see it IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 03:52 PM
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