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6

That's interesting. Do you have any links? If that's true then maybe something good's going on in Canada.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 12:29 PM
1

True but those politicians do not act in men's best interests. Quite the contrary.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 07:57 AM
1

Even if that is true why do you care??
/r/MensRights22/08/22 07:08 AM
7

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:42 PM
36

There is no reason in getting back on that track. I'll gladly let women do it. For a man being asked out means sure way to get laid or relationships. Otherwise there's much more uncertainty and I'd much rather stay home playing PUBG with guys=)) Plus if woman asks then she should pay for that dinner/coffee=))))
/r/MensRights19/08/22 10:52 AM
0

No, we don;t, stop bothering us. This is not true. At least some of you do. Or more likely women just care less about counts and more about other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:36 PM
3

Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:15 PM
2

If she wants to discourage women from marriage, isn't it to the benefit of men? Fewer women will push men towards marriage, fewer divorces. I don't believe her claims, but promoting her views may actually be good for men.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 10:01 AM
0

“men can’t be oppressed as they are the oppressors” The fact that men are or were oppressors should be challenged.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 07:01 AM
1

I never implied any excuses for anyone in my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:30 AM
0

No, they are out to fulfill their wants and needs, it's just happens that in the process some men might get hurt. TRP just explains what's going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:28 AM
1

"Pick me" is not about sex. They talk about equality but they know exactly where the difference lies. "Pick me" is about not requiring to be chased or courted. It is about not acting like a "queen". That's what they perceive as low value woman. And for a man incel means, yes, lack of sex.
/r/MensRights03/08/22 06:03 AM
2

Man, that's actually brilliant thought! I've never considered it from that perspective.
/r/MensRights31/07/22 08:14 PM
10

You're not BB unless you marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:57 PM
1

Yeah, when they say "I love you as a friend"
/r/MensRights27/07/22 06:51 AM
1

Oh then that's what feelings do to a man=))
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:50 AM
3

No idea actually. I was just debating what you wrote about streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:11 PM
18

To say that we have failed as a society to create safety while living in the safest time period possible is not right thing to say. Yes there are crimes but first world countries are as safe as it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:07 PM
4

You can't avoid being atacked in the street. But you definitely can avoid having a relationship with a violent man. You certainly can do some things to minimize risk of being attacked in the street. I used to be very careful at certain places of certain Russian cities at night for example and I am relatively big and strong man who used to do martial arts(which made me more careful if anything).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:46 PM
26

We live in the safest time period in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:43 PM
2

Originally I reply to comment that was about looks only it wasn't in depth discussion about what can women bring into relationships. can i ask what qualities you found in a woman without a fully developed brain (23-25 for women typically) We met when she was 19 and I was 23. I don't know any man who fell in love specifically with woman's brain. Welcome to planet earth that's not how men work. In my gf I found love, respect, overwhelming amount of kindness, right attitude towards relationships, c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:19 PM
6

Qualities you mentioned are also pretty subjective things by the way. what is the purpose of dating someone, in your view? I date my current girlfriend because I love her, she loves me and she makes my life better. If I wanted I could have dated better looking girls so it is not that I value looks the most I was mostly questioning what other guy wrote. But I also can elaborate on benefits of dating younger women. fully developed brain I don't think that in terms of brain capabilities 20 year old…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:51 PM
5

Could it be because 20 years old women look better on average than 30 years old women? I remember that that at university I considered most girls my age attractive enough to date but now at 31 I consider most women my age as not attractive enough. So I have to either be picky or go for younger girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:54 AM
0

genuine kindness than niceness, which pump and dump guys can't easily fake I know exactly how to fake just enough of those to get laid. Then I lose interest and disappear. Edit: In the end you would think "He was really good guy just wasn't ready to commit" whereas that was not the intention from the beginning
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:09 PM
31

I am relatively attractive guy and in my life I had sex with about 20 not really attractive women. Because it was quick way to get sex and I am always horny. I think there are a lot of guys like me and that's another reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:55 PM
4

When they talk about women being raped in the past they forget about men killed in wars in the past. Life wasn't fair but it wasn't fair to everyone.
/r/MensRights18/07/22 07:29 AM
8

Should have ignored her from the start
/r/MensRights18/07/22 07:24 AM
70

How do they justify higher price for men? Edit: My guess would be that men just drive more distance on average. Some moron in comments is arguing that men more often drive dangerously but I don't believe this is the case.
/r/MensRights15/07/22 11:28 AM
47

I would also like to point out that anyone who would have come to feminist sub with similar arguments about their points would have been swiftly banned.
/r/MensRights14/07/22 10:34 AM
3

Yeah, but it is unlikely that any mutual agreement will be reached between men to take collective responsibility. I guess previously religion kind of did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:42 AM
1

For me it wasn't big deal to wait a little bit if I did not have to spend much effort and did not plan to have a relationships. You wait couple of dates then have sex for several months. Although sex on first date is cool nevertheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:02 PM
1

Scrote all day every day!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:30 AM
7

Women are free to discuss men's counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 12:05 PM
20

There is a song in Russian sang by a female singer back in 90s which states that for a woman "every man who is not her first is her second" meaning that if she is not virgin she would lie and tell you that you are her second guy. Same as height your virginity/ low body count cannot be changed. It is still better for women because every woman once was a virgin.
/r/MensRights15/04/22 08:06 AM
2

So you agree that men are more likely to lash out with aggressive emotion? Yes, but there are a lot of other emotions with which men are unlikely to lash out. scientifically it would be men Very doubtful. But what's the point in generalising a whole group like OP did? He is entitled to have his opinion even if it's wrong. And generalizations may be useful depending on situation.
/r/MensRights15/04/22 07:27 AM
5

So you are biased by reality but those with different opinion are biased with prejudice. Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:05 PM
4

Is your opinion on this topic unbiased by your prejudices?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:52 PM
5

There are famous scientists who left no offspring. Intelligence doesn't always come with will to have children or ability to get with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:50 PM
2

Suicides - men get less help from society. Homicides - men are stronger and more aggressive.
/r/MensRights14/04/22 01:13 PM
1

Yeah. Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:45 PM
2

Nah, ones that I knew did not have lots of disposable income. They earned quite a lot compared to regular job but also spent a lot on alcohol and/or drugs or some other stupid things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:04 PM
4

But they are strong and independent and can do anything a man can do. Surely they can do that small thing.
/r/MensRights13/04/22 10:31 AM
5

By far the most tattooed community of girls that I know are strippers. Just an observation. For relationships I for some subconscious reason prefer girls without tattoos and that was long before I went to strip club. Not a red flag but a strong preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:22 AM
1

AFAIK Canada is doing great job cultivating agreeable men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:32 PM
1

Women want a man who is masculine, dominant, and chivalrous. But also somehow he needs to be agreeable and accepting of her high n count That's my ex, how do you know her???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:28 PM
4

I once hooked up with an ex, she was 27 when we tried to date and then we met 4 years after when she was 31. At 31 it was really very boring vanilla sex which I didn't like, at 27 she was into a lot of rough kinky staff. This the case that I can tell the most about but there were couple of others when I just was not able to compare myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:44 PM
4

If she had trains ran on her in college she's not suddenly gonna deny you BJs when she settles in her 30s I actually know couple of girls kind of like that. It is not that extreme difference but there is indeed a difference. They were much more sexual at 20 than at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:05 PM
2

It should be a default. Like not cheating or being honest or respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:01 PM
-1

True alfa-manliness is to define it yourself and stick to it. If that definition affects same sex friendships then that's they way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:31 AM
1

Do you think that support system for women is built by women? It is built by men and paid by their taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:32 AM
0

It is definitely not a question for the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:09 AM
3

Why must her standards be adjusted to meet yours? They should somehow be adjusted between to people if they plan to marry or have relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 06:34 AM
1

Yes. So maybe it is better to not engage in stuff that would make your partner feel disgust? And if a woman hasn't done such things then suddenly there's zero problems with these talks about past.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 06:33 AM
8

You are stronger than this. This is tough but she is not worth your life.
/r/MensRights28/03/22 03:38 PM
0

There's a lot of things that people do cross-culturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:51 PM
2

I don't fancy handling any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:43 PM
5

No, environment plays huge role. You maybe good looking millionaire living on uninhabited island. And you will not get any dates there lol. That doesn't say much about your SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 06:32 PM
7

Your therapist is pretty good in attracting clients with advices like that. Once again it is if I offered people to eat burgers or sweets to solve their problems. I even would be able to phrase it in equally attractive way. Maybe I got all this empowerment wrong but I thought that empowering things should be some kind of an outstanding achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:51 PM
7

I'm using sex as a tool to heal and find my power Except there is no power in it. Edit: It is if I told someone to eat burgers to feel better. It may feel good but in the end there is no power in it and there may be problems if one eats too much of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:07 PM
-1

Would you just straight up ask a woman about her count?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:12 PM
1

Now we need same post about dick size=))
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:03 PM
3

To me this means that we are winning actually. Those percentages are only going to rise.
/r/MensRights13/03/22 01:50 PM
6

Stop lying to men to get commitment=))
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:07 AM
1

As a man I am most of the time ok with paying for the bad date. That way I don't feel bad for not calling her back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:51 AM
2

Because they are men's equals as feminism have been telling us
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:49 AM
3

Women always have security in mind as well keeping image of a "nice girl". Plus without direct rejection she keeps this guy as a possible backup plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:52 AM
6

Women like that are the best IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:59 PM
1

This boils down to the trends in marriage in general, which is that marriage is a good deal for men and often bad for women Divorce is very bad deal for men though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:57 PM
1

Taxes from single men do finance women's lives already.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:39 AM
1

One of the reasons of why rich men may avoid marrying poor women is because of divorce laws. Too dangerous to marry someone who is poorer than you. Now woman has to be young, hot AND rich to marry a rich man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:11 AM
1

I appreciate your understanding=)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:39 AM
1

It's repulsive anyway. Even if all the data would show otherwise I would not act against such strong instinct that I have had since long before I had learned anything about TRP or relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:24 PM
1

You miss another important thing. There are a lot of great men who are insecure. Insecure doesn't mean undateable. Even some celebrities may be insecure, like for example Deontay Wilder(he is very insecure about not being able to be top 1 boxer now despite being one of the best already) or Elvis Presley(who as I heard acted very insecure when Beatles came to America to rival his glory)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:19 PM
1

Same here. Broke up with a couple of girls even. You are not alone=)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:50 PM
0

Some women will mention their exes a lot, others just do not see the need to conceal body count. Some will try to portray themselves in a good light but then you will them on lies. I have personally met the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:33 PM
3

Most women are not good at acting or lying. Also most of them do not see the need to conceal their behavior, and that's in part because men usually won't tell directly if they would not want to date a woman because she is considered promiscuous by those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:17 PM
1

Still all men are attracted to 20 y.o. women. Of course it would be impossible for most older guys to get them but I see 6-10 years age difference often enough. I myself dated girl 8 years younger than me. We broke up but not because of age difference. On the other hand women my own age become less attractive to me year after year. At 18 I would be fine dating woman my age now at 30 if I would be single I will try my best to attract someone about 5 years younger at least. Maybe I will fail but a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:22 AM
1

they want to do deviant and violent things that their female partners would never do The most violent and deviant things I have done was with my partners actually. Edit: it was nothing too crazy but comparatively to that paid sex was much more vanilla.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:03 AM
14

My position is that none of this should matter to anyone. Stop making decision for others please. It is right of every man to decide which qualities he wants in his partner. Reasons of why he wants those qualities be it competition with other men or anything else are irrelevant. If women would consider that man unattractive because he cares of things you have described it is their right as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:11 PM
1

Yeah, here I am being in relationships 95% of the time since I've be 20(now I am 30) with different girls. I do support TRP and BP and apparently I do not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:18 PM
1

Yeah and that's why marriage rates are going down and people both men and women are generally not happy with their dating lives. Oh, and don't forget mental health issues that are everywhere but more so among liberal women for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:04 PM
1

Would you date an actual pornstar?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:53 PM
1

Yeah and that's why women lie about their counts all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:50 PM
1

Actually it was a deal breaker for me a couple of times. But it also came with some issues and bad attitude to me because of some stuff happened with those girls in past relationships. Now I am with a girl who fits my preferences in this regard and I am quite happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:49 PM
1

Just like men, can women not have fun when they're young and then want to settle? Yes they can, but it is not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:48 PM
1

Same here. It's never the other way. And I had plenty of fwbs when girl suddenly started to want dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:44 PM
5

Yes Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:34 PM
0

The answer is that TRP does not hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:15 PM
3

I'm 99.9% sure you're the father but there's a possibility you aren't After this phrase there would be a lot of divorces initiated by men even without any DNA tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:38 PM
1

By looking around and seeing that omen in western countries have same amount of opportunities in life if not more than men. Oppression based on gender made illegal and you can go to court if you encounter one.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 02:08 PM
1

Systematic oppression ended god knows when, we live in 21st century.
/r/MensRights17/02/22 02:33 PM
–

I care about some traditional values and seek those when I look for girlfriend. I will not be compatible with traditional woman from the 50s but I won't be compatible with modern feminist girl either there should be some middle-ground. It is VERY hard for me to find compatible girls, but I have found at least one that I am with now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:16 AM
2

You do not have right for respect of anyone. It's up to people to respect you or not for any reason they want. Then there is the fact that many men think I owe them my body for showing an interest in me Women basically think the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:08 PM
1

It's fine only if it's older women with younger men. If the man is older then it's grooming and he's a predator. Don't forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:54 AM
7

There's simple device that helps with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:02 AM
2

I am yet to see confirmation to this statement in real life. I have personally broke up with a couple of those opinionated ones not because of that one trait but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:44 PM
27

Do you think most women are good lovers? No. It's just easy to have orgasm as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:58 PM
2

Actually I think we can do well - we have good conservative traditions. But Putin needs to go first. He maybe was an alpha male at 2000 but now he is weak. All his effort is spent to hold the power - nothing left to actually improve anything in this country.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 07:10 PM
1

Putin is an old madman who works hard to make himself, his friends and family billionaires.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 06:11 PM
1

I am from Russia. Government does not do anything meaningful to help birthrates. And yes we also import cheap laborers from the third world.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 06:10 PM
2

But I guess that's on that dudes as much as on those women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 05:55 PM
1

You recoil but 13 guy by the time woman is 40 is not that much even. Couple of girls of 27 years old told me that they don't remember. (after I insisted they said around 20) I also recoiled pretty hard both times. It was pretty hard to comprehend and to break things up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 05:54 PM
6

I was in this guy's situation. This is the kind of girl you would message only when you are horny.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 05:05 PM
0

Much too improbable case. That's the thing - virgins don't usually do OF. But given this imaginary situation both girls are bad choices. Both probably have mental issues. Yes I think that most women with 30-40 partners have those. So I would just flip a coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:41 AM
0

OP argues that it does in fact matter
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:44 AM
0

https://www.povertyactionlab.org/case-study/unintended-effects-anonymous-resumes Ok, I made a mistake, it wasn't about women, it was about minorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:42 PM
10

With anonymous job interviews women would be hired at much lower rate than men. There was an experiment and of course it's results were deemed not equal enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:24 PM
1

I know, but it's worse as a woman because of the cultural narratives surrounding rejection. It's the same, we are just stronger. Men, even above average men, are "supposed" to get rejected Just how badly one should think about men to write this?!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:31 PM
1

my self-esteem is too fragile to take the risk Bingo. It's pretty much the same for every other woman on earth. Since a traumatic experience a decade ago Believe me, every man has plenty of traumatic experiences which usually do not make him to stop trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:12 PM
1

Sex is only part of relationships. Now you say that because men want sex more women are justified putting low effort into relationships as a whole. Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:45 AM
0

Very small amount of women who ever lived in traditional households had had rich husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:52 AM
1

Where did I mention sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:04 AM
2

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:59 AM
2

And then man gets low effort from you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:47 PM
4

RP is not about women. It is about helping men or even saving them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:06 PM
3

I am by no means a perfect example but I am very much proud to be "STEM male". Moreover, my friends, whom I know from my university(other "STEM males") are the best people I know. And your attitude in these couple of comments just tells oh so much about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:08 PM
9

Are you serious? I really hope that you aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:20 PM
6

Yeah, it's all men's fault as expected. Also it has nothing to do with the fact that men comprise like 80% of STEM students. Telling this as a former STEM student. Few attractive that we had were bombarded with attention. And the one that I liked dated probably the most sexist guy that could have been found around us. He then broke up with her and she hasn't managed to land any meaningful relationships or marriage since. It's not that I complain, don't get me wrong. Now I think that we were not …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:05 PM
2

It is actually similar in a lot of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:13 AM
2

Well I have to disagree. All life experience change you and sex is pretty significant one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:09 PM
2

Not much difference for me. Anyway I do not want moral clone of myself for relationships and not because I am that bad, just because my moral clone would be probably pretty masculine. Also I do not think that casual sex is moral or immoral but how person treats it is important for deciding whether I want relationships with that person or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:16 PM
6

What's wrong with insecurities? I have some and I am going to live with them and die with them. I would even say that some of insecurities make me a better person. Also women women usually waaaay more insecure than men, although their insecurities are of different kind. having sex inherently decreases a woman's worth And what exactly is wrong in that? What if it in fact does? People for some reason assume that it doesn't but where's that confidence come from? Edit: It is not even overall worth i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:39 AM
4

If I want a girlfriend with big tits do I need to grow those as well??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:32 AM
3

If he's rich she would just walk away with his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:19 AM
67

the unremarkable, 5 foot 9, slightly skinny fat looking guy with the NPC face Average woman is just as much unremarkable, but most think that they are still for some reason better than the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:06 AM
1

Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:27 AM
3

his specific woman cares about you enough to want to take it slow Lol, maybe she cares but also doesn't find you sexually attractive enough. If she would've cared AND thought that you are really sexy she would've had sex soon enough while also wanting to have a relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:37 AM
2

"fucktoy for a night" vs "boyfriend material" The thing is that most men would prefer fucktoy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:32 AM
1

But how did christianity managed to come to power? Couldn't women say something about that? Also how come that every religion in the world is more or less in line with christianity? Where's religions that put women on top?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:27 AM
1

But how did they became objects?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:02 PM
1

If they are equal how did they allow themselves to be opressed? Where's that mighty matriarchal societies that can rival those created by men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:02 PM
2

Men are typically bigger, stronger and faster than women. This was a huge advantage for a very long time so men were 'tamed' and trained to share their resources and utility with women. Being big is strong is still pretty useful in everyday life. I am pretty big and moderately strong and I would never exchange that for any of women's perceived advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:17 PM
1

Back?? They were never on top. Perhaps for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:47 PM
2

No girl that I've met ever cared
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:58 PM
-1

I am RedPilled and have no problems finding girlfriends and also do not resent women in general. I do not practice poly relationships but I had couple of fwbs before. You for some reason think that red pill ideas are only shared by men who are unsuccessful in relationships. Reality does not change because of my or other men's success with women or because of lack of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:59 PM
5

What if that's what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:03 PM
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I think it is much more broad issue than just appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:29 AM
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Maybe, but the process of shaving is not that different. Which is what I was commenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:23 AM
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I actually had one pretty bloody occasion involving a trimmer. I won't go into details though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:19 PM
1

You can cut off something important
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:45 PM
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How's that different to men shaving their private parts?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:22 PM
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N-count is n-count. And if a woman is kinky but manages to save herself for LTR/marriage then that just shows that she has great self-control. What if she was previously a gold star lesbian? What if she never had full PIV intercurse but practiced BDSM? Extremely rare cases which have to be addressed individually. You cannot build general discussion around such cases. As others mentioned the rule is the less - the better. I even have a friend that never kissed, but is a theoretical kink expert. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:20 PM
2

Which may or may not transfer to such international marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:55 AM
2

Are those chances higher than chance for divorce with american woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:38 AM
2

It may turn out that gold-digger from Russia is better than average woman from the west. She will at least look better and probably cook better. Also even middle class american guy would be considered rich there. I am from Russia too and my advice is to give it a try.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:14 AM
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It is not likely that they will be able to do that. But they will be able to produce a lot of men with mental problems and it is pretty bad if you ask me.
/r/MensRights14/01/22 09:09 AM
8

How about this - more competition for women therefore women can get away with worse behavior therefore more misogyny. Now they want to censor what men say instead of how women act.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:58 AM
3

Solution should be worth another study. Maybe provide free pornhub access or distribute sex dolls for free=))
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:28 AM
2

Looks like troll post
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:13 AM
1

I did boxing for several years, was hit by plenty of people of both genders and from this experience women do not hit nearly as hard.
/r/MensRights13/01/22 10:08 AM
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You will draw a marble, it would look green but is in fact red with green paint on it. Better to have enough soap beforehand to wash it and figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:01 AM
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You do not understand how statistics work
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:51 AM
1

Probably less than 1% of people in the world have that income. Maybe less than 5% in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:38 AM
1

Well that's another problem but AT LEAST dates should be obtainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:35 AM
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Looks like equality doesn't help with birthrates. Birthrates are low in the most developed and equal countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:17 AM
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Money are definitely your advantage, you just have to use it somehow. And I do not mean spending tons of money on the first date. I earn about 100k and those money helped a lot when I was looking for a girlfriend. I do not spend much on dates but I definitely can spend more than average guy, also those money go on clothes and good fitness coach. Overall money can not solve all dating(or for me now relationships) problems but saying that 300k don't do anything is just wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:14 AM
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It's hard to believe really. With those money there should be plenty of women who at least would go on a date with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:01 AM
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But lets be real, most posts online follow personal dogmatic viewpoints But you have just presented us just another dogmatic viewpoint that you decided to believe in
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:55 AM
2

I do remember a female blogger being absolutley livid though Do you have a link? I want to see it=)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:54 AM
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I asked because similar policies(like forcing men to take parental leave) are implemented in scandinavian countries and it doesn't look like they increase birth rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:48 AM
1

Men have few rights when it comes to reproduction
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:46 AM
1

Do those policies really help raise fertility?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:26 PM
1

Just explain your situation to a man, you will find someone who will understand you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:13 AM
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I mean, a good counter point to this is the fact that women go around saying they want an alpha male as a partner, so there is some part of the whole thing that is real. They started to do it only since those titles became widespread. Also women don't really know what they want. It is just seems more "cool" to want to have an "alfa".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:09 AM
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Once again, it is not about your opinion about me. It is about my opportunities to have sex/relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:02 AM
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What about divorced men? Also, there are other studies that show that marriage gives it benefits if it is long. Because people now marry later and divorce is a thing those benefits becoming negligible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:26 AM
1

Well as you said, that only works IF a man doesn't want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:22 AM
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From the moment we are born, we are at a higher risk of being assaulted, molested, raped. Yet more men die from crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:04 AM
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I am talking about my experience and my options at 30 not at what kind of boyfriend you choose to look for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:59 AM
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It's combination of factors. I am 30 y.o. and while I became less attractive now I have earn good money and know how to talk to women while still being attractive to some degree. Overall I got more options than I had at 20 because I was broke and far too shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:41 AM
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You can but it is not at all easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:37 AM
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If you are 6/10 aim for 5-7/10. If you aim higher and unable to find dating success then they are too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:29 AM
4

Your opinion may not be true as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:26 AM
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It's something like 90%+ of men EITHER have children or get married Source? Seems like too high percentage for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:24 AM
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Average woman brings even less while needs more. Women are not shackled to men because state supports them and men's taxes go to fund that support.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:51 AM
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Most average guys aren't "amazing interesting wonderful nice fun" men either Average women are not better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:46 AM
1

Good to know
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:19 AM
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It's low standards for sex but much higher for relationships/marriage. If I am in long relationships with a girl then she is special. If I would be married then she would be the one. On the other hand if we had an ONS then yes she is replaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:33 PM
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A few years later she understands how much men value youth Or starts shaming men for valuing those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:23 PM
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Before protecting women from some community was probably beneficial to that community. Now in times of globalization it seems useless and also protection has become the job of the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:16 PM
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Tell him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:22 AM
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I remember a girl who would slutshame her brothers gf while being just a tiny bit less slutty herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:14 AM
1

Kids are another big topic. I would say that planning for kids should be the main reason to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 07:03 AM
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I never said that 20 years difference is common but men are older usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:07 AM
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When feminism happened, a lot of women were able to recognize and change from a lot of patriarchal and misogynistic ideals. In that way, I do think our attraction mechanisms are more beneficial. When feminism happened women's attraction mechanisms stayed exactly the same. Most of them had significant trauma because that’s a very difficult type of relationship to sustain and most times is rooted in misogyny or a huge imbalance of power. They are adult humans they can break relationships that harm…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:09 AM
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Harassing is bad. It’s one of the most common issues women AND children face. And men. I do not justify bad behavior though. There is no love there or attraction besides the manipulation. Yeah, sure. You know it somehow better than men themselves. Ok, you are right men are awful and women's attraction mechanisms are far superior meaning that they are surely better human beings. I think that's what your shaming implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:29 AM
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I think it is just having father figure that helps boy to become more masculine and have better dating success. I think it is beneficial for girls also in it's own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:08 AM
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If those girls are 18 they are adults. And even if one doesn't care about fertility, then just the fact that younger women are on average better looking may be deciding. Harassing is bad though. you don’t see women using this as an excuse to be rude to them and go after men young enough to be their sons Because younger men are less attractive to older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:02 AM
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So both genders should look for as young partner as possible if one wants to maximize fertility. You can't change your own age but you can look for younger partner. And anyway it is woman's job to carry a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:59 AM
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Someone should file a legal case against them as this is clearly a hate speech.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 07:41 AM
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Because they say that gender is a social construct
/r/MensRights28/12/21 07:39 AM
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It does not work that way. She will make you wait to ensure that you are emotionally attached and willing to provide then sex will come in play.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:23 AM
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I met a girl once who gave me compliments on my appearance. We talked a little and it turned out that she thought that I do not work out much and was born with good physique. Well at that point I have been training for like 10 years and at various points in my life I've been goind to the gym, doing boxing and other martial arts and even dancing for a short period.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:54 AM
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Come on it is 2022 almost. You can have ANY preferences. You can be porn actor from brazzers and want to marry a virgin wife without giving a sing f**k about what the whole world thinks about you. It is not ok to judge you or shame you for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:45 AM
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From my experience same can be said about strippers or really promiscuous women in general. Mental problems are usually abundant there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 12:29 PM
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if 95% of men on OLD were wife beaters Then only the best 5% of women would have hopes of relationships. In this case an average woman would have to get relationships wife beater or stay single. do you think women should HAVE to date them because that's all there is No. I'm sure in an alternative universe if 95% of women on OLD were obese, you'd be blaming men just as hard for not committing to them If men would come on OLD claiming that they want relationships then yes. They would also have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:28 AM
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That's reasonable things you wrote. But women a lot of times do not act reasonable and then men are to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:17 AM
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Well, people are pretty arbitrary in how they think about things. But general rule is that the less bodies - the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:54 AM
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The untouched hymen is first valued, personhood is secondary What if personhood is primary but hymen is still important and nice to have? Although actually looks can beat both of the above mentioned qualities in many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:53 AM
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I would be attracted only to 18 year old victoria secret models with masters in computer science you would probably tell me to lower my standards. So I would say it is more productive for women to choose men on their level and make some effort to avoid dead bedrooms. Part of that effort might be to not fuck with most hot guys around(whom those women won't be able to keep anyway) or delete instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:23 AM
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There were more things than fuckboys in your previous comment. If your criteria filter out 95% of male population and you are just average woman. Then you have to question your criteria. Instead you blame men for some reason for not living up to your expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 11:43 AM
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Yeah. So you work hard, get in shape, become far more attractive than average man....and get your pick among obese women. Add to it being single mother, alcohol problems and mental problems. Now THAT is your prize for all the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:39 AM
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Nah. How about women step down with their expectations?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:33 AM
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We are talking about those who can not find anyone among those thousands. They have to lower their expectations, stay lonely or be fine with sharing some more attractive guy with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:30 AM
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If a woman is looking for a serious relationship, 70% of profiles of men are fuckboy wannabes, fuckboys, guys who have red flags in their profile (mentioning their ex, low effort profile, edgy/weird/cringe photos, self absorbed or sexist redpill language and bragging about being an "intellectual", gun shown in photo, unemployed bum who has stopped trying, needs therapy more than gf, etc). Then that's level of that woman. She herself probably has same amount of red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:39 AM
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How about that threshold of basic attraction being too high?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:35 AM
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Ok, how about having sex about 2 hours of drinking in some bar/club? This post is my mind on my life. Fast-food sex, as written above.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:20 AM
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Problems happens when all women - high, low or whatever value aim for the same high value men. Of course at this point there would never be enough of those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:17 AM
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Absolutely correct. I was once with a girl like that. Pretty bad feeling. She didn't follow FDS but watched kind of similar videos on youtube about how she is more valuable and a princess because she is a woman. Fortunately I have had enough experience to be able to detect that attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:53 AM
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My point is that the whole "women are strong and indepent" narrative became possible only because technology and state support made it possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:35 AM
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Well, it is just your professor's opinion. Boys and men are taught various things not just what you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:44 AM
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I can see from men's perspective that it seems women are fickle, self-delusional, even sadomasochistic Exactly. It's not flattering, because it has nothing to do with me as a human and everything to do with manipulating female attention, validation, or even pity. As a human you are supposed to filter all this. Especially if it affects pretty important decisions like who you sleep or have relationships with. They see themselves as weak so anyone who respects them must be weak. Again, exactly my t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:02 AM
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Hmm. I heard similar stories from other women. Maybe you attract certain kind of guys? I don't know. For myself it seems certain that not caring much, pushing for sex fast and minding strictly my own interest will get me quite a lot of action with women. Couple of times when after meeting woman and having sex for some time I would have developed feelings and immediately I could feel that woman would treat me worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:59 PM
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I think yes. For example I also think the same. I do not really care about woman sleeping around with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:41 AM
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You don't know what you are talking about. I am really sure about at least my personal situation. "Bad boy" or "good boy," most men have an entitled attitude towards women's time and body. This a lie. It what feminists are selling to justify hatred towards men. "Good guys" that I know do not feel entitled to anything and they usually get nothing or so very little in terms of success with women. That is what observe since high school Edit: Ok, maybe there are SOME men with that attitude. But ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:26 AM
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I am pretty damn sure about what happened. Exercising "bad boy" qualities had helped me get to laid a lot, exercising "good guy" qualities hadn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:06 PM
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are you saying that women can't be independent They are only able to be independent because of modern technology. Birth control, tampons, safety provided by the state structures like police, welfare etc. Of course now they can do it, but I think it is good idea to remember reasons that led to the current state.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:46 PM
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We live in a different worlds then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:46 PM
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My personal experience. Is this data point good enough for you? I have been rewarded with sex multiple times when I was acting confident, persistent and pushy. I was rejected for "not being alpha enough" and that is exact quote also there were other instances without those words being said but I did not feel like insisting much and also was rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:54 AM
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No. Even trained woman would not be able to do shit against a guy 30kg heavier than her. And even at the same weight guys usually have more muscle mass. I am a guy who did various martial arts and sparred with girls as well. You completely don't know what you are talking about. I am also RP guy if that matters. Most women would not be able to defend against most men even with training.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:50 AM
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What is your price then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:41 AM
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Men just don't want their women to be a whore for a whole bunch of other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 10:59 AM
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What if you actually like someone but that other person does not like you that much and is willing to deceive you into thinking so. And you are not that good at psychology or experienced in relationships to tell the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 10:07 AM
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Heavily depends on a woman. For example I am in relationships for 7 years now, we only now are planning to marry but my gf has never pressured me into it. But of course some women near their 30s or older would be a hurry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 06:49 PM
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Assuming there's equal amount of them in both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:41 PM
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Get fit, get on tinder, get at least some sex. If you earn good money and you are fit you will have success. If you don't want or don't like to do that, then yeah not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:11 PM
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Logistics. Not everyone can work remotely. Until recent time with covid it was really uncommon. Also you have to leave family and friends and not everyone is willing to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:31 AM
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If even 5% of men stop pursuing women in favor of sex dolls it will have noticeable impact on SMP. Reduced competition for women will be felt by everyone. The thing is it won't be 5%(or any particular amount) of men it will be 5% of men MORE. Edit: I have just remembered that there is this guy - Yuri Tolochko. He married his sex doll. And he is bodybuilder so I guess he would have been able to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:55 AM
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No they won't. They are much less entitled and the whole attitude is way better. Much better deal for an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:49 AM
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Sometimes Russian men get really lucky with women they get. Not all Russian women are good but there are few that seem perfect. Telling this as a Russian guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:32 AM
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Women from eastern europe or phillipines will gladly marry guy from US Edit: also world is not black and white western dating problems are present in other countries but to varying degrees and you don't need perfect woman you just need the one that is good enough. Plus, if problem with obesity is that bad in the US at least your girlfriend will be better looking in other country
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:27 AM
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Those women usually have so much mental problems after that you really can not logically explain their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:45 PM
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Women should not be pressured, guilted, judged or have anybody but themselves have control over who they allow to touch their vaginas. They also should bear full responsibility for those actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:41 PM
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I think that porn and sex-dolls have bigger impact on women bargaining using sex. Also games. I remember cancelling tinder once date because my friends gathered to play CS:GO. That time I decided that guaranteed satisfaction from killing some noobs would be better than hypothetical satisfaction from hooking up with that girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 02:25 PM
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I live in the country where prostitution is de-facto legal still men have same problems as everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 02:19 PM
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Problems is that those qualities you listed are not usually rewarded with women's attention. Man might have all that and have zero success with women. While some rich, tall, fit, aggressive asshole would have tons of women willing to have sex or relationships with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 02:05 PM
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If you are HV you are most likely married for a long time or in long-term relationship, and if you ever break up with a guy you will not be alone for a long time. Seen some of those girls they got married shortly after graduation some married boyfriends who were with them since school. Non have divorced yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 08:08 AM
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Does your preference depend on man's age? I mean the older he is the more chances for partner count to be higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:20 PM
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Probably. But also for any man virgin or low partner count woman should be preferable for better chances of stable marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:18 PM
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Still it justifies looking for low count/virgin woman for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:17 PM
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You think you know men better than I do))) Even your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:20 PM
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Who said that they are superior?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:49 PM
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Women are much better at attaining/initiating social/romantic affairs because men are horny. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:47 AM
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There are much more demand for female sex workers of any kind than for male ones. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:19 AM
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Some inexperienced guys will have hard time detecting those things. You can do it but you need experience. Unfortunately I do not think that significant percentage of guys have that experience. But apart from that you are right, women who sleep around are not hard to detect if you spend some time with them, talk with them etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:24 AM
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I can get sex for free. But sometimes I value my time spent searching for it more than money spent for sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:17 AM
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I have done the asking, much less than 100 but still. They all said that they do it because of money. Much more than they could earn otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:11 AM
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That's life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:03 AM
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From what I've notice, its usually A. There's a lot of in-between
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:09 PM
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Actually I do not see much difference. But even if it is. Now what? Should you just break yourself in half just to accept partner's lack of attraction? It does not matter if it is fear or insecurity or how rational it is. Significant percentage of men deem this important.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:57 PM
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I want to know it, so I get to know it, and if you won't tell me or you lie about it How do you detect lie in this case?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:16 PM
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Then don't date them. Or honestly tell that he is second(or whatever number there should be) best.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:27 PM
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But there are at least some cases where it is true. As for other times, people do not always think rationally nothing you can do with it. How often were you irrational with your fears? Some people are afraid of spiders others afraid of not being very attractive to their girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:01 PM
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Ok then, valid point. Another question is should we always try to date completely secure people? Just the fact that the person is insecure does not make him or her undateable like those women who are insecure about their appearance. Thus maybe we should not invalidate insecurities of others and care about them sometimes. Especially at times where that insecure person may become your spouse for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:59 AM
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Where in this story is it implied that she is less attracted to the second dude? Nowhere. Now try and explain that to a guy. As guy I would say that even if I can understand logically what is going on I may still feel hurt or bad. So, it is inherently the woman’s responsibility to do anything and everything she can to save her partner from feeling irrational insecurity Well there is at least SOME responsibility for woman to do that. I mean she supposedly should love and care about her partner. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:44 AM
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But was that really your logical conclusion or have you written that out of anger or some other feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:34 AM
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Ok, maybe disrespect is not the right word. Anyway I think that every guy wants to be the most sexually attractive guy for his gf. And if you somehow find out that she slept with others way sooner it won't feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:16 AM
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Except everyone judges everyone. When you decide if you would date a guy or a girl you do exactly that - you judge various qualities of that person. Looks, job, height, behavior, everything. only weak and insecure men actually care about how many guys you've slept with Can I then say that only sluts sleep with men on a first date? Or have more that 'x' sexual partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:14 AM
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That looks similar to True Scotsman Fallacy. Stop categorizing men or shame them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:01 AM
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That would probably mean that you are less attracted to him than to other guys. Even if it is not the case, just possibility of such scenario might cause bad thoughts for a lot of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:59 AM
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Modern women would sleep with the man they are attracted to on a first date even that's why guys don't like to wait anymore. What to do in your case? I have no idea. I personally can wait in certain cases especially if I have good reasons to believe that girl is not playing me and she just doesn't sleep with men fast. But you already told us that you were easy lay for some guys so no idea really.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:57 AM
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Question is would those couples be friends if there would be no sex involved? Most of the time answer would be - no. If there is no sex then it is much more interesting to befriend men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:12 AM
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It can work without lube even. Some spit and going slowly. Of course that was with a girl who trusted me and did it with me before with more preparation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:42 AM
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It is possible if a girl does it often enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:39 AM
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Every dude wants a virgin until they have to teach her lol. Nothing wrong with teaching. Then in a year or two you have a girlfriend or wife who does things in bed precisely the way you like. Just a little bit of patience and understanding is needed really.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:11 AM
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This. This what women so often can not understand. We need separate post on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:57 AM
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Because the mainstream narrative would say to men to just accept whatever woman has in her past. That's what we are arguing against here. But you are right. If more men would leave in a situations like that, not only they will solve their immediate troubles and trauma and overthinking but overall relationships would be much better experience for men. I think that message is slowly being spread though=)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:50 AM
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I get your point but I have contradicting personal example. I once started to have sex with an ex that I hadn't seen for 3 years. Before she did anal with me, light bdsm stuff etc. But when we met again, she would do only vanilla stuff and overall sex became much more boring. It was with the same person and I hadn't become more unattractive if anything I got more fit. So there are different situations. But anyway it would suck for a guy to be in a situation like that. My advice for every guy in …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:41 AM
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I know that. I was just arguing the point of previous person. Also this experience more or less correlates with other men. Be it my friends irl or strangers on the internet. But according to couple women who commented before - we are all virgins just creating fantasies in our heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:09 AM
6

How about we begin to value men & their contribution to it being so stable and wealthy That would be cool but is not going to happen. It is not like I am against it, just being realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:27 PM
1

Trying to split sports by gender is also sexist=))
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:37 PM
2

Women place more value on other things. Guys who have those things get a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:58 PM
1

Yeah. So at least my personal life experience is just invalid somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:56 PM
4

You think covid is bad? It is worst thing for a lot of the past years by far. Society became used to extreme prosperity but can survive in much worse conditions. Covid kills less then cars and even the goddamn flu. Yes, but the value of human life now is greater than at any previous point in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:12 PM
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Just the fact that it is comparable does not mean that standard should be the same. reasons commonly given for wanting a virgin partner apply to both men and women Yeah, but women also most of the time place little to no value on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:09 PM
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Hmm. More like gradual decline. I would say we have quite a lot time if it goes just the way it is(like 50-70 years at least before we would have to make significant changes maybe much more than that). Unless something unexpected will happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 12:17 PM
-2

Solid points. But we recovered from trouble from that ship, we are recovering from covid, we would have recovered from something more deadly. I do not work with finances, but that's what it looks like to me. Anyway, let's wait and see=)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 12:16 PM
1

It is not that minor. And we were unprepared.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 12:10 PM
0

True. I haven't checked out but there were couple cases in my life where I did not go for a relationships with woman because of caution. Man just can not give in to romance carelessly these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 12:08 PM
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You underestimate how wealthy first-world countries are. Very small amount of people would be ready for any kind of violence. For men it is easier to check out and chill. But that way it will still take really long time for society to collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 12:03 PM
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Why is that? Economically first world countries have way more than it is needed to survive. Yeah, there are plenty of cultural problems but the value of human life is pretty damn high, so no one will risk to start revolution or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:58 AM
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Branch is not going to fall for a long time. Modern day civilization is pretty damn resilient.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:37 AM
-2

Does a man have to have big boobs if he wants a girlfriend with these?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:01 AM
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Imagining filtering for guys that never jerked off to porn How does that correlate with relationship or marriage quality? You have any data on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:58 AM
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No, but small amount of exes should be still preferred when choosing marriage partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:25 AM
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Which does not invalidate the fact that there are, indeed, differences. So casual sex might affect genders differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:12 AM
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Nobody is going to care about average man problems. So rely on yourself and do your best to create good living for you. Doesn't look like particularly bright future but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:43 AM
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Either both genders should have a dick or neither. There are proven psychological differences between sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:39 AM
1

Please go and read yourself, spend some time understanding the subject. There are resources that summarize Red Pill knowledge much better than I would do in this comment section.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:20 AM
1

top 20% of Chad's are taking all of the women It is not what TRP is stating. You oversimplifying the concept and making it wrong by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:13 AM
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First, statistics say otherwise. Second, I would not date woman who have slept with 50 losers that's still disgusting even if her bar is not particularly high. Furthermore, pair bonding is far more than the bar itself and there are also higher cheating chance, divorce chance, emotional trauma etc. Overall your argument is pretty weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:08 AM
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Not sure why men hate each other so much they don't believe they can have individual minds and desired qualities. You really want to shame men don't you? Still me and that other guy to whose comment I refer do not hate each other and have matching experiences relating to women. that's already been explained that it's a delay in adulthood There's tons of different stats and you can't attribute everything to one particular reason. You just found reason that appeals to your worldview and decided to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:32 AM
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Once again he can not get women that he wants, but a lot men can not get any women so he acknowledges that he is at least in better place than most men. This thing is called empathy when you don't yourself have huge problems(only some problems) but can relate to feelings of people who have it worth than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:45 PM
1

Yeah, and he is more or less lucky. Most men don't have even that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:31 PM
1

Depends on what kind of person she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 09:34 AM
2

Yes they do, at least in eastern europe. Although few in numbers even here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 08:55 AM
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You read only parts of red pill that appeal to you. If man has good reasons to believe that woman is relationship/marriage material he will wait and that would not contradict with RP principles. Thing is that most women are not, so little point of waiting. Red Pill is not trying to provide men a way to get perfect woman it is a way of dealing with bad situation on relationship market for average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 08:51 AM
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If women's online profile screams that she is a hoe, she is a hoe. If it's not, she still might be but it's worth to talk to her in person at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 08:36 AM
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Men and women have to have different sexual strategies for reproductive success. Same standards would not hold.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 08:14 AM
11

Doesn't matter, women will be against
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 09:01 PM
1

Yeah, but amount of women without father figure is not going to decrease any time soon, so older guys with their shit together going to get their chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:31 PM
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For a young guys it might not be true a lot of times they don't want marriage initially but will propose if fall in love a girl. I am not as young but it also might happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:00 PM
1

Women are often ok with MUCH more experienced man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 11:46 AM
0

I would say that trying to classify yourself makes you beta male. Who cares really about those letters? They are mostly for reference in describing people's behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:53 PM
2

Ok, my mistake then
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 08:51 AM
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First of all, comment that you replied to was not about virgins, just about no casual sex experience. Second, I don't deal with a religious people a lot and I am yet to see a woman who wants her man to be virgin/low-count. Generally they do not care much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 07:03 AM
1

No it is not. Men and women value different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 06:56 AM
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Maybe because on average men still work more hours and on harder jobs. Maybe because men won't commit otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:24 PM
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Yeah-yeah, it's men who are wrong again. It's never women. Stop this nonsense already. As relatively popular man I can tell you that there are around 10% of women worth of relationships and marriage. Others act luck a princesses, sleep around, have no respect for their men, don't do house work, don't cook, drink, smoke etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:18 PM
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Believe me most(if not all) of those girls have mental issues. Edit: On the other hand it is great that they are so open about this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/21 05:17 PM
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Direct questions are often not needed. You talk, you check social profiles, you observe woman's behavior and that is often enough to draw conclusions. On the other hand if one asks directly he might get lie as an answer. Some women would brag about their exes or how they like to party on the first date. No need to ask at this point really. Although I kind of appreciate such kind of honesty. Saves from a lot of potential heartbreak.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:06 PM
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irl most men seem to understand this and aren’t too hung up about it. IRL a lot of men would just silently disqualify woman as a wife material or just would not invite on another date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:02 PM
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It’s fine to care, but to assume that because one time she had sex on a first date and regretted it, she has to have sex on the first date That's extreme case, it's not what most guys who care about sexual history are concerned about. Don’t tell us what we care and don’t care about You too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 01:34 PM
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Girls who can get away with being bitches are only really hot ones. Men absolutely do not love bitches otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 12:29 PM
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So what's the reality? The reality is that all options that you described are possible - guys are different. For example I would put effort for a girl that shows her as good possible wife/girlfriend material - I just automatically start to respect such girls even if I am not that much attracted from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:33 AM
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Many just do it silently.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:19 AM
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Ok, just tell that honestly to your boyfriend/husband. It would also be just fine if he decides to leave you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:17 AM
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You greatly exaggerate percentage of guys who would do so. I guess you just need an excuse. Their fragile masculinity will be shattered And that's shaming men for the way their emotions work. And again you exaggerate amount of guys who are that vulnerable. Some would thank you for your honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:15 AM
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You don't really care. While men DO care about sexual history(well at least a lot of them). It doesn't have to be symmetrical.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:56 AM
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90+% of all violent crime is committed by men You are right. But there are several points to add. Men who commit violent crimes most often commit them repeatedly, so very small percentage of men commit most crimes. We live in the safest times of human history. If you live in first world country you have little to no reason to worry. Men who commit crimes tend to be more sexually active than average men. So there are enough women willing to be with those men anyway. It's not that I am trying to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:20 PM
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Your couple of comments contain more hate towards women than me and my bros ever expressed combined. Also you do realize that most crimes are committed by same 2%(I don't remember exact number) of psychopaths, right? And another thing - women in my life were far more physically violent towards me than otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:05 PM
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It's cool to be with bros really. I don't hate you though. I only want to spread relevant knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:02 PM
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Because it's not men that make other men go their own way. Women do that. Also we got banned even on reddit. Hard to tell anyone anything if it's like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:07 AM
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You don't really understand how statistics work
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:43 AM
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It doesn't add up. There is not THAT much more men that women on SMP. One guy on OLD can send hundreds of messages on all those women would receive attention. Also there are men who are married or in relationships doing same things. So tons of attention but not many real opportunities for relationships or marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 08:28 AM
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Where are all the good men gone though???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:44 PM
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I am afraid that half of us can not. By us I mean all men around. Those who don't spend time reading TRP stuff and generally tend to trust people have especially hard time. Also I think that men are biologically conditioned to trust women and protect them - that is hard to overcome even knowing about TRP.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/11/21 07:11 AM
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Fair point!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:53 PM
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Most men develop such preference first time they are able to see and feel the difference. Telling as a guy who have seen both ends of the spectrum. Considering the only protecting women need is from other men Also wild animals, fires etc. Life was a struggle for resources. You live in a society of abundance and think it was always that way. A lot of people had to die for that to happen. Plenty of societies just was not able to survive. Those who did see men in protecting role. And women want tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 07:22 AM
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She might be lying about her actual interest level but at least one is getting laid or investing no further effort. That's a really great point actually. I had similar attitude but I couldn't explain it properly even to myself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/21 06:58 AM
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It's all fine that women draw those distinctions. It's also fine that men are saying "no". Problem that women will then lie to those men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 07:37 PM
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I think men should feel shame for being attracted to traits that are only seen in female children I think men should not be ashamed of things they do not control. That doesn't mean that all men would commit crimes because of those things. That also doesn't mean that that's the only things that define what men are attracted to. Having body hair is a sign of womanhood just like breasts and hips I think that correlation is following: the more hair on body you have - the more masculine you are seen.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:56 PM
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Which means just younger than woman already is at the moment. It will not transform 30 years old woman into a child. Or even 18 years old woman into a child. You took comment about men generally being attracted to youthfulness(which usually transforms into men being several years older than their partner) and exaggerated it to the extreme point of being attracted to a children. The question is why you did that? I would guess that you felt somehow offended personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:19 PM
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Being hairless doesn’t make you look younger. I would say that it does though. The older you get, the more hair you have, and those hair become longer it thicker. It is definitely true for me as a man. I gradually had grew more hair since like 12 up to current 30 years basically everywhere except my head=)) I think it is same for women. I just find it funny that men swear up and down that they like women natural That's complicated matter, big enough for separate post. Good to know the men with s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:00 PM
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Don't mix attractive traits with violating a child. I will never do that. But when my girlfriend(not even a teenager) went to several procedures to remove her body hair I had to admit that I became attracted to her more. I have to add that she did it on her own initiative I never pushed her. Also read my other answer here - don't want to copy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:41 PM
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All makeup is designed to make woman look younger. For example to hide wrinkles or gray hair. And no, just lack of hair won't make you look like a child - you still have your whole body of grown up woman. But still your body will look at least couple of years younger. Anyway, nobody FORCES you to shave. As a grown up person you may choose not to. Just like any man may choose to have or not to have sex with woman with or without hair on her body. You might say "but men have no standards!". Yes, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:34 PM
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Shaving makes woman look more young and feminine. By doing it you just obtain competitive advantage over other women in the eyes of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:18 AM
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If you treat woman bad she will leave you and if you treat her really well then she would appreciate you and love you more. Turns out it's the opposite. The less you care the more women get attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 08:13 AM
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Games are designed to provoke emotions especially in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 08:07 AM
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8 or 9 I think. I have job, I have good girlfriend, I have some future prospects. Not much to complain about. There are problems of course including my relationships and also my health but I am dealing with that. I don't think that male happiness declined much. Man can be happy just sitting at home playing dota or something. But of course economic troubles and difficult SMP introduce some stress. On the other hand half of women I know go or went to therapy or take anti-depressants.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:38 AM
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I thought mothers of those boys should be angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 07:24 AM
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I think most people have very little to lose if they start telling the truth to the faces of other people. They just afraid and uncomfortable. I have started to be pretty direct in my conversations about relationships, with women and with people in general. It has changed little to nothing for me. Although I don't live in the US so maybe that's the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 07:22 AM
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Is it then appropriate to call girls who just want to fuck sluts?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 06:51 AM
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I do think that undesirable men and women should check out of the workforce if they are so unmotivated that not have dick and vagina causes them to give up in life. First: there is a big difference for man to work for a family or just for himself. Latter allows him to live off pretty small amount of money. It is not like Second: problem is that women(especially at young age) deem 80% percent of men as unattractive if hypergamy is left unrestricted. Yes, keep using bottom of the barrel women to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 02:02 PM
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Marriage is just a long term relationship with paperwork. It became that way very recently. It was more deep thing in cultural and religious way. Why would you say those marriage vows then if it's just paperwork?!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:37 AM
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You have just rationalized being single mother or part of the harem of hyper-attractive/rich guy. Well by women's actions it seems that they really deem this way as rational. Also you rationalized just letting significant percentage of men to check out of society and workforce. I think that enforced monogamy is what was rational in a lot of ways. It limited hypergamy but let people build successful, stable society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:12 AM
2

Ask your crush. Tell him the situation then see how quickly he disappears
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 05:54 PM
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Listen, I met couple of women claiming they would like to be trad woman and a wife. Well, we tried having relationships turned out they can not do this. It takes right upbringing, right attitude and lot's of effort. So those girls are now modern single women again. Maybe they like it more, maybe not I don't know now. Although in case of taliban coming they probably would be more motivated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 02:20 PM
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Most women still want men to pay though even though they themselves have jobs and are same age with the man(they should be considered equal at this point, right?). Maybe it's different where you live but it's hard to believe. Do women still want a provider husband? Sure.But not at the expense of our own financial freedom. It's conflicting goals. Provider by definition has power over you. So to my observation women want to be provided for while still being free to do whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 11:22 AM
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I am being sensitive for all insensitive men out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 11:05 AM
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What's wrong with calling promiscuous men 'fuckboys' :/ If you are not fine with women being called sluts for whatever reasons you don't call men fuckboys then. It sounds like consistent behavior to me. I only use this term online sometimes. Never called a woman slut in person or online. Only thought that way couple of times and ended relationships with said women but without calling names=))
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 11:03 AM
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But the term "fuckboy" itself sounds bad kind of like calling women who would have sex on first date(or who's attitude towards sex you just don't like) sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 10:49 AM
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If I mostly want sex then I would like to fuck as soon as possible. With relationships it is far more complicated. I don't like to date too easy high count girls. she tries to pull the Steve Harvey "make him wait 90-days" Sure, that's a huge stop signal out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 10:46 AM
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Sounds like shaming of men who want sex. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 10:40 AM
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The ever increasing amount of female breadwinners says otherwise. Well, that amount has to and will increase, simply because less men finish college and generally less men have incentive to go for a career. That doesn't change what women around me want. I come from Russia but it seems that in the west it is same more or less. Many women are now splitting household bills and rents equally while still doing the child bearing Once again, they have to. Probably one of the reasons why women became le…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 10:34 AM
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Marriage itself is pretty traditional thing and people are marrying less now. I am talking about that 20 yo woman would date man that are more or less equal to her, pay their share on dates, have casual sex, make her career a priority. While at 30 she would like to date more successful more financially stable guy, with good career prospects, who can pay bills, pay on dates by himself. She would look down at girls who have casual sex etc. Most want to be educated,have a good job so that her entir…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 08:59 AM
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They can't though. Chemistry in their brain won't allow them to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 08:49 AM
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No. It's HARD to be a traditional woman and good wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 08:48 AM
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If women are so miserable they would want to back to the traditional pre feminism Era They want though. Around 30 they suddenly start to want more traditional kind of relationships and/or marriage. They want to get back good parts of being traditional while still keeping advantages given by modern sexual freedom. You can find the most extreme cases of those on FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 08:44 AM
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I think it's both reasons though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 08:28 AM
1

I am pretty successful with women and still believe in RP ideas, now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:29 AM
1

She is trying to joke though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 08:49 PM
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I never said that men don't have to make effort to maintain marriage. But divorces are usually initiated by women and if current court system allows woman to break man's life whether he has done anything wrong or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:36 AM
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Let's say I want to be stay at home dad. Even though I consider myself an attractive man I would find zero women interested in starting family with me. Where's my choice? I would count having any job as having a career Is that really so? Because even woman with kids can find at least some job. But I think that in your comment before you didn't count that as career. The thing is most men also don't have career - even without caring for the kids at home(I doubt that regular plumber would see much …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:27 AM
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Some men don't get to choose - it is much easier for woman to find a mate and reproduce. Woman on the other hand can choose either to work or to be stay at home mom, men have to work whether they like it or not. Also most people don't have a career - the have job. Does it still look as attractive. Men can expect both. Well, they would have children...which they rarely able to see. You have to make sacrifices either way. Somehow for you or other feminists women's sacrifices seem far more importan…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 10:44 AM
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Very few people of both genders get the opportunity to live their potential. And at the first world countries women certainly have as much if not more opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:32 AM
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Maybe you don't consider it to be a privilege that you have never been expected to live in service to others Ok, fair point. Now what about applying the same logic to yourself or to women in general? Because there are a lot of things that men are supposed to do that women don't(I can give you examples if you need them). And tons of of other stuff including: shorter life expectancy for men having to serve in armed forces higher chance to die at work chance to raise kids of another man(yeah you mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 07:05 PM
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Much less than the amount of women who have died in childbirth. I doubt that. How do you then address the fact that twice as many women than men were able to leave an offspring? Shouldn't it be considered a privilege by feminists? how bad it has been for every woman affected How bad is it to die by being dismembered by a cannonball? It's another privilege for male gender to be subjected to this I suppose. Having to cook and clean for your kids and husband is probably fate far worse than that. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:27 PM
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Crying? You're such an asshole. Trying to teach everyone what "REAL MAN" should or shouldn't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:16 PM
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Well for SOME men feminism gave the possibility to have huuuge amount of casual sex. I am speaking of course about most attractive men out there.
/r/MensRights17/11/21 02:27 PM
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Aren't you downplaying how bad is it to...well..die?! Women have had to work as well Actually in the old times it was kind of equal for the working class. You had to work your ass off until you die regardless of gender. The type of work would differ though for men and women but both genders would be busy for basically all day everyday. Traditionally women give up their names and family legacies, their bodies and property have been traditionally considered to belong to their husbands or fathers Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:25 PM
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Men had sacrificed themselves in wars and at work for thousands of years just so that their kids and families would live a good life. Now, what exactly is wrong with women's sacrifice?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:00 PM
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Please, check the amount of wars started by female rulers. Women that throughout the history were able to come to power(although of course there were not a lot of them) were no less likely to start a war maybe even more than male rulers(Check out russian empress Ekaterina II for example). Anyway, at present majority of men would rather play Call of Duty than start a war.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:57 PM
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Should these simpy loser men be stay at home dads So you have just called all the gamers losers? Really? F*** you, man. What's an ideal man then? Some kind of workaholic with 60-hours work week? Btw. I am a gamer, earn around 6 figures as a software developer and never had problems with getting a woman. But I also would not shame any man who doesn't want to have a career or not able to have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:52 PM
0

Lot's fair points except from the last. Older women will still give you bad advice about relationships. But they are often easier to get if you want sex. You better ask other men about how to deal with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:37 AM
6

What people who advocate here for "equality of n-counts" fail to mention is that women are usually perfectly fine for settling at say 30 for a man who has less experience than her and think that he should also be fine with her experience. When woman is more experienced then suddenly "the past is the past". When man wants low count woman - it's somehow hypocrisy. At this point it's ironic to read stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:27 AM
4

Even if it's 50/50 custody? I doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:19 AM
7

Divorces are initiated by women. Then somehow men have to pay even if is joint custody. Do you see nothing wrong with it? Are men in all those marriages guilty? Really? Edit: Yes I didn't even bother to try and write long explanation because all this stuff is on the surface at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 08:54 AM
5

I've been reading TRP stuff for some time. I haven't found any RP idea that is hateful towards women. Could you please elaborate. It seems to me at this point that any opinion that contradicts feminist/liberal mainstream is labeled as misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 08:46 AM
1

It depends. Maybe her first guy was an ONS or really short relationships. So I completely disagree here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 08:40 AM
7

Do you have a husband or a boyfriend? What does he think about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 08:13 AM
7

Why are men always seen as guilty?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 07:59 AM
5

Come on, OP said nothing about hating anyone's kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 07:57 AM
1

Man, you are right. It is nothing wrong with you it is just the world we live in. Stay strong and hold to your standards. Being single is better than having doubts in your partner - believe me, I found this out the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 07:55 AM
4

First of all OP set the threshold of 5 which is more or less reasonable(If I were him I would have expected another virgin). Also people do aim for hard things all the time - sometimes they succeed. I don't see anything wrong with aiming at rare kind of woman when looking for a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 07:53 AM
2

Could please elaborate how is misogyny connected with just observing situation in people's behavior? Could you point out certain words that express misogyny? Edit: typos
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:16 PM
0

100 years ago there were shit ton of poor couples, living in big cities in small apartments with only man working in some factory and woman caring for 8 children. Only small percentage of people could afford what you have described in your example. Yes, sure, today that small percentage probably became even smaller so what? Money do not define what traditional relationships are. Traditionalism gave us stable, rich, rapidly developing society, where men would have had incentive to work long work …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:55 AM
1

High five from me, bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:39 AM
54

Is it really that hard to understand? They are not going after top 20% of men because the gap in SMV is evident at this point. So they consider less attractive men from bottom 80%.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 02:03 PM
2

Do you care at all about what kind of woman you sleep with or do you just want any pussy? Actually yes I do. Even more so if relationships are on the table. This was highly upvoted so I'm wondering if RP men really believe that getting into jail is a functional sexual strategy. No. Being the kind of man that tends to get into jail is a way to get more pussy. Being a thug is a way to get more pussy. If you are just regular guy working at the office going out of your way to get arrested won't help…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:20 PM
2

Hard to say. Only those guys know for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:49 AM
1

I am 30 and already fed up with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 12:54 PM
2

Am I attractive enough to bang but not attractive enough for a relationship That might be the reason. But we don't know without your photo obviously. Am I just bad in bed and just unattractive That is also a possibility. You should ask those guys about it actually. It may hurt your self-esteem but you but those answers are better than what we can tell you here on reddit without seeing you those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:05 AM
2

He is talking about 80 percent of men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:50 AM
3

End game is to stop pursuing women and leave single life as good as possible. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:46 AM
1

No all of those problems with lack of trust are going to be that new boyfriend responsibility to deal with. Doesn't look like a good deal for me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/21 06:32 PM
1

Marriage might be pretty good for average man. Sex(I know it not is guaranteed but still), children, second income some other stuff. Problem is not the marriage, problem is divorce and divorce courts. Divorce would devastate that same man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:47 PM
1

I think that concerns over a woman's past are evolutionary embedded in a lot of men. Also it was proven many times that woman's past affects her present relationships(Higher chances of divorce for example and various other things). I myself have tried to look past that, but figured out that woman with promiscuous past just want treat me the way I would like to be treated and also a lot of times such women have mental issues(just my personal experience). That's why I would advise any man to think…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 08:09 AM
1

Why would a man want to breed with a woman who sleeps with sex workers?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 08:03 AM
2

Why would a man want to breed with a woman who is not a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:05 PM
1

they don’t engage with low tier men Problem is that women don't engage with SAME tier men. women will be to blame for not dating men they don’t find attractive Problem is that women find attractive around 20% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:04 PM
1

After that "Chad" phase many women are left with children. Also after "Chad" phase women are much less attractive for marriage(with children or without).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:00 PM
10

If such articles become mainstream, humanity will be on the right track.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 04:58 PM
6

Also, if divorce courts would not have been so stacked in women's favor, she would have thought twice.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 04:34 PM
1

DP, DC - wtf does those mean?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 04:32 PM
32

She feels a shift.... And it is going to shift more! Both her getting older and men's attitude changing are the reasons. I think it should come down to a point where men just would ask "do you wanna fuck with me tonight?" And given negative or no answer just disappear. Because courtship, chivalry and traditional behavior of chasing women just do no good today.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/21 04:06 PM
7

She doesn't want guys who visit strip clubs because those guys know EXACTLY what she's been doing there. They know all about drugs and alcohol and drama and sex that goes along with that kind of work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 06:41 PM
2

Single mom with 3 kids from the SAME DAD - in 2021 it is apparently an achievement.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 04:53 PM
2

That would mean to grow up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 09:04 PM
3

I bet that man knows what he's doing. She may be his first girlfriend but he is behaving very intelligently with her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 09:03 PM
2

Yeah, looks like she is trying to show that she is not a slut. But she is doing exactly opposite.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 10:08 PM
8

Shit. It' traumatizing to even read about it. And those comments...I am speechless. It's pretty hard to realize which kind of world we live in. Hope at least it gets better for future generations. But for now it completely sucks for men. Investing in a girl with this kind of past... And then whole society will also look down on you for breaking up with her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/21 10:04 AM
5

You are gold No, some people are gold, others are bronze and others are shit. If you are shit, looking for gold is not a good idea. you are worthy of someone who will value you as much as you value yourself This what TV tells all of them. It doesn't that way. One should assess himself adequately. And those things above are actually true for both sexes. But I forgot how many women I have met who think exactly like this woman in the post.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 08:42 PM
0

I don't see how this is men's problem. Women should start to marry down. From the other hand it's funny to look at the attempts of women to find that educated, high earning man when they are near there 30s. I have so many stories of entitlement to tell now. Edit: they also fail to mention another thing - men now really lack any reason to try and compete. Society will not respect them for it. If only men would have a reason, a goal like, you know, a good woman and stable family and fame and respe…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/21 05:31 PM
3

At 46 she is 100% not. Philters, clothes, older photos, makeup - she will use everything, so even if she looks ok in her profile, once you will take clothes off her, you will be dissapointed. And anyway, younger girls are better even in bed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/21 09:32 PM
1

Same thing, I am quite high and usually swipe left women who demand certain height. Also, once canceled a tinder date because right before it she asked my height and I even was not looking for anything serious but I knew that I don't want even meet her and talk to her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/21 08:02 PM
1

But they ban spreading of TRP information and that's the main bad thing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/21 05:43 PM
1

She does not love or respect her boyfriend. Also she has big issues with confidence and self-esteem herself. Not to mention that she is obviously a slut.
/r/MGTOW27/07/21 12:26 PM
1

Searched again, didn't find in mgtow sub, but found original https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/oofp1d/my\_gf\_told\_me\_that\_i\_have\_whats\_called\_a/
/r/MGTOW26/07/21 12:42 PM
12

It kinda works for me, but I look pretty good and get quite a lot of matches. Still it limits my options because only like 5% of those matches write first. But I don't like to chase girls, so I am not going to be much more active. Observation: I once put a line in my profile that I don't have time to write first to everyone(it's actually true) and more girls started to write me. Some of them mentioning that line.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/21 12:41 PM
5

Couldn't find that post you mention=( Edit: found it - crazy shit happens out there.
/r/MGTOW25/07/21 11:54 AM
1

Guy realized something is not right. He didn't know what it exactly is but money are important in the equation.
/r/MGTOW15/07/21 05:43 AM
1

The biggest paradox is the fact that a woman worth 100 millions would not demand those millions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/21 08:57 PM
2

I know that teen pregnancy is not good, but I should say that she looks good after 3 kids. I guess that's because women are fit for having babies pretty damn early. And then they are trying to force narrative about marrying and having children with women over 30 whose looks and health would probably be destroyed after 3 kids.
/r/MGTOW12/07/21 12:53 PM
1

Yeah, I was thinking about that since I first saw Simpsons in childhood.
/r/MGTOW12/07/21 12:48 PM
4

To justify crappy behaviour. There is often no real trauma, even if you suffered something bad in your childhood for example it doesn't automatically mean that you become traumatized for the rest of your life. Human brain is actually good at recovering from those things. I was molested as a child by a stranger. I forgot about that pretty quickly and I've never considered myself a victim. I'm not saying that those women don't have mental problems but that's mostly caused by bad upbringing, entitl…
/r/MGTOW12/07/21 12:44 PM
1

A lot of times they have high body count just because of serial monogamy lifestyle plus hookups while they are young and single. That doesn't necessarily involves cheating. But it's just my experience. Anyway, cheating or not, commitment is out of the question.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/21 06:24 AM
19

That's your average career-oriented woman.
/r/MGTOW02/07/21 01:21 PM
19

In Russia we have law that forbids "propaganda of homosexuality to minors". It is there for several years already. Although apart from this our government is pretty corrupt and overall shitty.
/r/MGTOW02/07/21 01:17 PM
10

I 'trusted my gut' in the past and had broken up with a couple of women only to find out later that I did the right thing=)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/21 04:39 AM
16

If she is fat then sex is not her selling point, it has to be personality or something. And who even dirty talks to fat chics?! Is situation in America THAT dire???
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/21 05:40 AM
1

Exactly - you need know everything about her before LTR might be considered.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 04:59 PM
11

Thing is, it is easy to feel that woman is insincere with you. And something is wrong. This feeling alone would be a turn off for many guys, even if they don't know what exactly she's doing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 09:18 PM
-5

It's not THAT many nowadays even women start to have less sex. They are holding out for Chad. Also some slutty girls I know started to have long periods without sex(I fucked some from time to time) when they approached 30s - it became harder for them to find those really hot guys. Also they start to look for relationships at that time. Nevertheless, average young woman would have larger body count than young man. And of course it is more than it is tolerable for marriage. Even 10-20 guys are eno…
/r/MGTOW28/06/21 01:48 PM
6

Self-defence is usually a scam. Boxing, Judo or MMA or something similar - that's what will help you.
/r/MGTOW28/06/21 09:28 AM
17

Nice to see such article on a site that is not explicitly about TRP/MGTOW
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre24/06/21 02:48 PM
2

What happened with that?
/r/MGTOW23/06/21 02:08 PM
8

You know why she is the only one alone among her friends? Because some lucky bastard decided to go MGTOW!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 05:20 AM
4

Nah, even metal is much thinner now. They trying to cut costs everywhere.
/r/MGTOW22/06/21 10:47 PM
0

If she married him at say 20 y.o. and stays with him with no plans of divorce, sounds pretty good to me.
/r/MGTOW22/06/21 10:44 PM
8

Well, obviously he was foolish enough to believe that she is NAWALT and also that feminism is about equality. He is prince after all, he probably had little reasons to read about red pill before. I just hope that someone will send him link now. He looks like a good guy so I wish him to overcome this shit.
/r/MGTOW21/06/21 09:27 PM
28

He was just young and foolish. Probably hormones hit him hard also. I bet now he regrets everything but I think that divorce in royal family is not an easy thing.
/r/MGTOW21/06/21 07:34 PM
5

This story is almost scary. I couldn't resist anxiety for while after reading and I am not that guy and don't even know him.
/r/MGTOW21/06/21 08:59 AM
6

Lana is also reach and famous girl. Looked up that guy instagram - he is all about hype in social media, that alone justified dating Lana probably but even then he wasn't interested in a pornstar.
/r/MGTOW21/06/21 05:53 AM
3

The problem is that she is not the effort. That's why guys are not even trying. And that is true for most women out there and most guys now know that. There are some clueless men out there who probably are not experienced with women but she doesn't want them it seems.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 09:16 PM
4

I wonder if men also project their thoughts or is it women only?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 12:22 PM
4

Lol, recently I have canceled some tinder dates because my plans changed to....just playing PUBG at home with friends. I think this is how it should be.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/21 10:17 PM
5

You are exactly right. I dated beautiful woman a couple of years ago she was at least half decent person, far from entitlement that is usual in posts here. Still one of the problems was that before me she dated not the most successful guys she didn't like them much but at least she was able to do more or less whatever she wanted - they would still stick around. She was kind of shocked when started to demand decent behavior from her. It was new experience for her=) Well we broke up because she fa…
/r/MGTOW17/06/21 10:06 PM
2

She still has OnlyFans though.
/r/MGTOW17/06/21 01:55 PM
14

Wow, maybe I'm wrong then and she's lying. Edit: Funny that men were not exaggerating that much and probably they have told answers that were honest or at least not that far from truth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/21 01:33 PM
15

Nah, I'd better be honest with people. I am a man after all. And if they will want to go after me, I don't care and I'm not afraid.
/r/MGTOW17/06/21 10:20 AM
6

A drunk girl tried to pick a fight with me in a bar. She said couple of insults and tried to shove me. I shoved her back, and as soon as she felt that I am not afraid of applying force to her she became SUPER sweet and even said she's sorry.
/r/MGTOW17/06/21 10:15 AM
1

She claims it is fake though
/r/MGTOW17/06/21 10:07 AM
22

Anyway, 50 is still WAAAAY beyond dateable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/21 10:04 AM
9

She is probably honest because it's an anonymous post,
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/21 08:31 AM
1

I do the opposite=) Either girl does what I want or I leave her=) It is hard at times because of feelings and such but I do it anyway. You should just stop value access to easy sex THAT much. Then they will have no leverage on you.
/r/MGTOW15/06/21 01:42 PM
1

Maybe in Russia picture is different, I don't know. But I'm 30 y.o. and I get tons of matches on tinder(I am tall and in good shape so that does the job) but most of them are my age or even slightly older. And almost none of them are worse any effort.
/r/MGTOW15/06/21 01:36 PM
2

Yeah, that's what he looked like in childhood
/r/MGTOW15/06/21 07:20 AM
-2

The truth is that young women don't usually date guys that are that much older. 10-15 years difference is an exception. If you are not Di Caprio and you are just a middle aged man who makes good living and keeps himself in shape, yes you will get a lot of attention from women...... But that's from women who are about your age, maybe about 5 years younger and also from those who are older but women in their prime still would prefer to date younger boys.
/r/MGTOW15/06/21 07:15 AM
2

My mother didn't charge child support from my father because she was "strong and independent" and quite proud. She remained single though and never remarried.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 07:01 AM
3

Because they cannot let thoughts about their diminishing value sneak in their heads.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 06:52 AM
6

Why are increasing numbers of women choosing to be single They are not choosing that, lol=)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 06:46 AM
2

She is pretty ordinary 46 y.o. woman
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 09:29 PM
1

I agree. They should also let people specify body count and add philter for it.
/r/MGTOW14/06/21 09:28 PM
5

I once complained on bumble that there is height but not weight filter. I just wrote about that in my profile. A woman matched with me and she wrote something like "what's the point of having a weight philter, it will tell you little about what person looks like I am 69 kg but I look great". In reality she looked average but I thought that she is at least not over 60 when I looked on photos. And 69 is like 10 kg more than any girl I have dated. And I unmatched right there.
/r/MGTOW14/06/21 02:07 PM
22

As a youthful 46-year-old WHAT?????
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 10:24 AM
8

Yeah, and after that great first message they expect man to completely take the initiative.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 10:21 AM
2

She somehow forgot to talk about what it takes to raise a good wife)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 10:11 AM
4

What's wrong with education?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 09:59 AM
3

She is so damaged that guys are feeling it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/21 09:12 PM
7

I would like to buy a beer for this guy. He does right things in life.
/r/MGTOW07/06/21 10:47 AM
1

get past the physical Most women have NOTHING past the physical.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/21 10:37 AM
1

Too small platform to announce that I think. We need to spread the word somehow. But the idea is great!
/r/MGTOW04/06/21 09:00 PM
10

I'm ready for a relationship Yeah. And my ex thought she was ready for marriage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/21 10:10 AM
1

But there in fact isn't 200 men waiting. Even on OLD men to women ratio is only around 3 to 1 and they are mostly players and really desperate guys. One guy can write to 10 women simultaneously and they all think that they are being chased.
/r/MGTOW31/05/21 07:58 PM
3

She probably also wants 6ft guy=) What percentage is it now?=)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 07:04 AM
2

Thanks for the information!
/r/MGTOW29/05/21 10:39 PM
3

Does it matter during divorce if there are evidences of cheating? How does it work? Will she get less of husbands stuff because of it?
/r/MGTOW29/05/21 10:23 PM
3

Looks like she just wants that guy around for social reasons, because obviously she doesn't love him.
/r/MGTOW29/05/21 10:22 PM
0

I remember TossGirl in old starcraft, she was good.
/r/MGTOW27/05/21 03:27 PM
2

I was in the similar situation and I know those feelings. That's the world we're living in, we just have to stay strong.
/r/MGTOW26/05/21 10:32 PM
1

Have they deleted original post?!
/r/MGTOW26/05/21 07:43 AM
1

Did you stay with her?
/r/MGTOW26/05/21 07:22 AM
1

I see so much OLD profiles of single moms here. Do they get any attention at all??
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 07:08 AM
2

That's fat ass energy=)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 06:56 AM
1

That's because in the west women all the way were treated quite good, better than eastern women at least. Also abundance of such women is a recent thing and now feminist will burn in anger if someone dares to say it. That's why even MGTOW has to be semi-undercover.
/r/MGTOW24/05/21 07:36 AM
7

She is not happy in her body, she just doesn't have will to change it so she made this excuse. It's even easier since body posititivity and stuff like that is heavily promoted. But the thing is that most women(and men) would be happier being fit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/21 07:18 AM
1

Too much population already.
/r/MGTOW23/05/21 10:30 PM
6

We all have that one girl, thinking of whom still hurts. Same here, bro, but believe me it is better to be right than happy.
/r/MGTOW23/05/21 10:18 PM
1

He's one of us=)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/21 01:07 PM
1

In reality nowadays there is no glass ceiling while glass floor is still present.
/r/MGTOW21/05/21 07:11 AM
4

Probably she is not attractive enough for them.
/r/MGTOW21/05/21 06:01 AM
1

Only one in my family and friends circle This means that while there are many blue-pilled guys around here some smart lucky bastard went his own way. Which means: no husband for her=) We don't need to make every guy on the planet to be red-pilled we just need enough of them and the situation will change and we will win.
/r/MGTOW21/05/21 05:22 AM
7

Yep, there HAD to be red flags during those 3 years.
/r/MGTOW21/05/21 05:15 AM
2

Because she's figured out that it will benefit her in current situation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/21 04:58 AM
8

I would recommend to avoid drinking too much though. Bad idea. Also sex with new girl might help.
/r/MGTOW20/05/21 03:31 PM
0

I dunno, I would try to smash anyway=) Maybe I'm too young=)
/r/MGTOW20/05/21 10:52 AM
7

They should always add to that laundry list one more point: - Their perfect man has to have no standards. Because how else could he accept those women? What's funny is that they seem to imply that by default.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/21 07:28 AM
4

At this point even other women make fun of them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/21 07:20 AM
2

If she is not woke crazy bitch at least. Guys started to detect that.
/r/MGTOW20/05/21 06:35 AM
11

We are not going - I'm perfectly fine with it=) Not to mention that I can't imagine circumstances under which I would date single mother.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/21 10:25 AM
7

Most of them still marry and/or reproduce though. So no reason for them to stop.
/r/MGTOW18/05/21 06:36 AM
1

Break up after 1 year 11 month and move=)
/r/MGTOW18/05/21 06:23 AM
6

I have a pretty brutal way of dealing with similar situation(although my ex is not married and there might even be a chance). I just imagine that she had died. Sad but I can do nothing about it, just accept and live on. And of course there are also reasons why she became ex, as the guy above wrote.
/r/MGTOW18/05/21 06:17 AM
1

She acts as if she is only one who does the choosing.
/r/MGTOW18/05/21 06:11 AM
6

Ok, then. Strange stuff.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/21 10:43 PM
1

Come on! Have you been born yesterday?! She will say about 2 relationships and won't say about 100 hook ups. You have to ask something more straightforward. Although your question is also useful.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/21 03:23 PM
20

No, she doesn't state her intellect, she's competing with you. "I'm really good at chess" or "Let's play chess together" - that's about stating your intellect. While she says something like "I bet(Спорим) I will destroy(сделаю - not exact meaning but I don't know better translation in this context) you playing chess". That does not sound like intelligent mature woman(she's 37!) that sounds like some 18 y.o. bitch=) Also I'm ok with women competing, it just doesn't add anything to attraction. And…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/21 03:20 PM
1

How do you do that?)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/21 02:49 PM
21

First of all there is nothing about her intellect. Yeah, being good at chess probably correllates somehow with being intelligent although I believe that even person with average iq can become somewhat good through training. Second - competitiveness is usually seen as male quality that's why I'm not sure if it adds any value to womans dating profile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/21 02:48 PM
9

That's funny=)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/21 10:28 AM
1

It is useful to state the obvious from time to time.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/21 10:15 AM
4

Underrated comment. You are right most of the girls are eager to tell you about their past once they believe you won't judge them. The only downside of this approach - you are likely to invest a lot of time in girl that way.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/21 10:11 AM
6

You are right, I have observed same things.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/21 10:06 AM
17

Who pays for 37 y.o. escort?!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/21 06:47 AM
5

She is bipolar=))
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/21 06:46 AM
1

How about specifying body count criteria? Of course they can lie about that but still it can be useful to screen out some hoes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/21 06:45 AM
5

He probably broke up with those women after a lot less than a year. But I still do not see where's the crime. I hope a good lawyer will help him.
/r/MGTOW16/05/21 06:58 PM
1

I have a good idea from this one. Men should start putting body count requirements in their OLD profiles. She would have to either be a decent woman in that regard or lie, which puts additional pressure on her. And it also might be found out. Seriously we should be much more vocal about our standards! I seriously believe that if I would have stated that requirement to couple of my exes it would have saved much time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 05:05 PM
47

She most likely is divorced. In bigger Russian cities situation is similar to the western countries in that regard. She also states that she would beat you playing chess, deciding for some reason to boast masculine qualities=)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 05:00 PM
1

Most women do that same thing.
/r/MGTOW14/05/21 06:24 AM
3

Yeah, don't even look at them.
/r/MGTOW14/05/21 06:17 AM
2

men not simping for them sends their imagination to a dark place nowadays Exactly. Women were more neurotic than men even before, but modern society that forces them to be "strong and independent" makes it much worse.
/r/MGTOW14/05/21 06:12 AM
3

Believe me, she WANTS serious
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/21 05:54 AM
1

That was probably a redpilled guy who wanted to troll her a little bit.
/r/MGTOW12/05/21 10:38 PM
1

I believe that in the 80s most women were hot=)
/r/MGTOW12/05/21 06:48 AM
1

I agree. I believe that in 2021 woman suited for marriage should be more than just "dumb" housewife as it was 50-100 years ago. For me education and some career prospects would be great. Because she is not going to have as much children as it was before and taking care of them will not take that much time.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre11/05/21 07:45 AM
9

So, if you go to FDS and reverse genders in all the stuff they're posting you will get some great useful knowledge about the world.
/r/MGTOW11/05/21 06:30 AM
1

How is this tweet not seen as sexist?!
/r/MGTOW11/05/21 05:55 AM
8

Those men probably felt that something is wrong with her. Maybe signs of craziness or sluttiness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/21 09:46 PM
6

She even knows she's damaged=) Believe me, most of them who is in the same situation do know that too. That makes them even know crazy because they can't accept this fact although they know it. This leads to even more mental acrobatics
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 09:56 PM
2

It's pretty much the same story with all feminist publics on all social network sites.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 06:43 AM
1

Really, someone should do this already. I would gladly participate in development=)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 06:41 AM
2

Word is spreading - nice=)
/r/MGTOW07/05/21 01:33 PM
1

Nowadays even worse things are called work.
/r/MGTOW07/05/21 06:46 AM
3

What about strong men and good women?
/r/MGTOW07/05/21 06:45 AM
7

That 36 y.o. great woman you described would still be worse deal for relationships than herself at 20.
/r/MGTOW06/05/21 11:04 PM
20

Still a lot of men don't see a problem and will agree to it.
/r/MGTOW06/05/21 10:44 PM
10

And she probably thought that they all would compete for relationships or marriage with her. Welcome to 2021=) That perfectly shows illusion of choice most modern women have. Guys give attention to all women around him and fuck several of those. And all of them start to think that they are soooo high value because of that. Also I would love to watch that video, could you share?
/r/MGTOW06/05/21 10:14 PM
4

As I understand, only 10 guys can view that story. So they should be able to see it.
/r/MGTOW06/05/21 10:09 PM
2

They want to compete for top men so badly that they even put their lives in danger.
/r/MGTOW06/05/21 06:43 PM
27

That should signal all 10 of them that she is only good for sex. Good that she decided to tell the world about it.
/r/MGTOW06/05/21 06:39 PM
5

It is triple already=)
/r/MGTOW06/05/21 04:50 PM
3

Maybe it is the price of being able to reproduce this day? Because it is the only benefit of having a wife instead of loads of hookers.
/r/MGTOW05/05/21 12:16 PM
3

I have no words. Thank you. Edit: Actually I think every man should go and read those comments. It's so telling about their whole philosophy. Probably FDS could redpill men better than any MGTOW sub.
/r/MGTOW05/05/21 07:22 AM
3

I even went there to check. Somehow no mention of Bills divorce was found.
/r/MGTOW05/05/21 06:55 AM
3

Yeah, banning opinions is modern politically correct liberals way.
/r/MGTOW05/05/21 06:51 AM
13

You only humiliate yourself if you are after the relationships or marriage=)
/r/MGTOW05/05/21 06:48 AM
10

I am still not married(30 y.o. software developer) because of lack of decent women.
/r/MGTOW04/05/21 10:25 PM
3

Many players are ok with moms. They won't stay long with them though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 02:36 PM
6

Nobody forces men to have relationships with her. And it will be hard for her to find partner, as she already struggles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 02:33 PM
1

WTF if someone competing for getting a girl pregnant she at least should be around 20 y.o. and pretty. Not this!
/r/MGTOW03/05/21 02:00 PM
19

Usually you can pull this off with your girlfriend
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 11:01 PM
2

Is it sarcasm or is it serious?!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 10:57 PM
1

And she's probably wondering why=)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/21 08:34 PM
6

If you don't like thing she does - leave her. It's simple as that. Also in Russia where I live, exclusivity is still assumed by default.
/r/MGTOW30/04/21 07:18 PM
7

Jackpot! Found my ex on webcam sites! Edit: On one hand I'm sad because I still had some feelings, on the other I'm glad that my intuition was right.
/r/MGTOW29/04/21 10:58 PM
1

What were her arguments?
/r/MGTOW29/04/21 10:29 PM
1

Interesting stuff.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/21 09:34 PM
2

Googled it, can't find this book in english(
/r/MGTOW29/04/21 07:05 AM
1

Sometimes I literally laugh thinking about some women I've left because I don't have to deal with their shit. Yeah, my feelings were hurt but now I don't have to argue with them, I have nothing to prove to them, I don't have to think about her ex in her friend list, I don't have to buy them shit etc.
/r/MGTOW29/04/21 07:04 AM
1

He should go for divorce. With no kids it shouldn't be that bad.
/r/MGTOW29/04/21 06:57 AM
1

They don't even consider that a mistake.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/21 06:19 AM
7

No woman that was part of generic hook ups is a wifey material. That's how it works. I still don't understand why they even mention it but it is good to know beforehand.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/21 12:03 PM
27

My girlfriend would have become my ex at the very moment she posted such thing.
/r/MGTOW27/04/21 02:36 PM
2

Maybe 50 y.o. man with a couple of kids of his own.
/r/MGTOW27/04/21 12:27 PM
4

Exactly, already around age of 30 hardly any woman is good enough for long-term.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/21 12:05 PM
1

Yeah, I also believe that her man thinks differrently about that=)
/r/MGTOW26/04/21 06:58 AM
2

The thing is that she doesn't know. They really have no idea.
/r/MGTOW26/04/21 06:08 AM
12

Here's an idea: tell her to contact one of their dads, beg and plead for him to take her back; and tell her to make it work. I would never accept any of my exes back though. There is a reason they become exes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 10:18 PM
1

If I was that other guy, I would stay clear of a girl who has done that to her ex.
/r/MGTOW25/04/21 08:51 PM
6

The biggest problem is that she's 46, not her weight. If a girl is a little bit overweight at 20 it is one thing, at 46 much different story.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 07:48 PM
3

Taxes implement probably even better thing - government gets to decide how to spend money on women. If they want more money - they just increase taxes.
/r/MGTOW23/04/21 08:42 PM
4

This is called taxes.
/r/MGTOW23/04/21 07:53 PM
2

Even if she is that wonderful. She is of very low value to a man. That's just how it is.
/r/MGTOW23/04/21 07:52 PM
2

She is too old for a stripper. I don't believe she is one of those
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 07:34 PM
2

Yeah, I ran away from a girl once when I started falling in love. I did it because I knew that she wasn't good enough for cohabiration or marriage. So if I had let those feelings become stronger it would be bigger problem to break up later.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 06:03 AM
85

She is probably divorced
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/21 07:02 AM
14

she adds value to my life, and not just through sex. In fact, she contributes financially as well You've just described what every decent woman does in relationships.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/21 09:33 PM
25

I know hes a simp and deserves what hes getting Do you realise that he was programmed into submission since childhood? If man is born a slave he won't see nothing wrong with being a slave.
/r/MGTOW21/04/21 11:47 AM
2

Yeah, one should start asking about her weight and bodycount=)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/21 09:38 AM
5

They have many options for sex not so many for commitment. This one is looking for commitment, provision and marriage that's why she has to go out with a man she is not attracted to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/21 06:24 AM
22

Do they really ask that? Girls on tinder where I live are usually more subtle=) Also this picture is scary AF.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/21 06:15 AM
2

promise of cohabitation What legal meaning could it possibly have?!
/r/MGTOW21/04/21 06:08 AM
2

She treats me like an orbiter and a safety net It is generally useless for her unless she can trap you into marrying her. Keep her as friend, have sex with her, don't date or marry. No problems.
/r/MGTOW21/04/21 06:07 AM
9

Learning how to flirt is wasting time you can spend doing something useful for you and/or society. It is one more advantage of arranged marriage - saves loads of time for men. Modern dating game benefits women. They want men to flirt and approach to select the best of them. When men stop doing that they become mad.
/r/MGTOW21/04/21 06:01 AM
4

posing directly in front of my rowing machine and taking selfies In such cases I concentrate and don't give a single look to them looking only at my barbell and focusing on my sets and reps I am going to do. Just pretend they don't exist, that way you won't give them any piece of drama that they want.
/r/MGTOW21/04/21 05:56 AM
0

Fuuuck. Is it official data???
/r/MGTOW20/04/21 03:51 PM
1

Will this husband be entitled to any spousal support?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/21 02:59 PM
5

Stay strong, brother.
/r/MGTOW20/04/21 06:01 AM
1

The reason society has developed up to this point is because of men commiting.
/r/MGTOW20/04/21 05:53 AM
2

Are they impying that one regular non-femist weighs 250kg?! That country has some obesity issues for sure=))
/r/MGTOW20/04/21 05:44 AM
6

Yeah, that would be great answer
/r/MGTOW20/04/21 05:41 AM
161

If this woman didn't like first 3 dates and is still thinking about next date - that means there is no line of "more chivalrous" men waiting for her. Also she is not even attracted to him, she was looking for a provider and he is the only one who showed up to ask her for a date.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 03:37 PM
2

You're write. So they will pick players that tell them what they want to hear.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 09:57 AM
9

Well ideally winner should also reproduce. Which is not guaranted with all the pills and abortions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 09:56 AM
23

Nope. They want no less than alpha-bucks who are also cucks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 09:53 AM
15

Well actually at this point everyone can. To my understanding they're a bunch of shitty irresponsible people.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 09:52 AM
3

Yeah, and High Value Woman is a 18 y.o. Victoria Secret model looking girl who has I.Q. 140 and wants to fuck me on first date which is arranged and paid by her. She is also enthusiastic about threesomes with her friends who also should be 18 y.o. models. Something is clearly wrong with their heads - they wrote some fantasies there and expect reality to ajust.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 09:49 AM
4

Man, you're the best=) Gotta use that line sometime)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 06:24 AM
3

I have to ask it again. Why do they feel the need to even mention that??? Why don't just write nothing about it?! I had a couple of exes who told me similar things. That took half of their attraction away right there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 06:22 AM
1

I live in Saint-Petersburg, this city in particular is really open for other cultures. You shouldn't face any race issues here. Politics and economics are bigger problem as I said in comment above.
/r/MGTOW18/04/21 11:49 AM
2

I am not married but I've been dating my girlfriend for more than 8 years. So I can guess: Nagging is pretty hard to tolerate Sex becomes boring Some resources are spent on her one way or another
/r/MGTOW17/04/21 11:30 PM
3

Do you realize that governments will start to adapt at the moment they will start running short on money?! The only solution is to install at least half-decent government(Trump for example was not that bad as I can see). Going off grid and minimizing taxes will work only for relatively small amount of men.
/r/MGTOW17/04/21 10:59 PM
7

I am from Russia. It is just a little bit better here in terms of feminism and leftism but poverty and political situation is horrible - country is ran by a bunch of literal thieves and murderers. Maybe after we change Putin for someone else it'll get better. One good thing about Russia is that at least our women are pretty good-looking=)
/r/MGTOW17/04/21 10:54 PM
7

Yeah, and they are still paid by men that earned their money doing actual work. Also if a man donates money to some girl online, his girlfriend or wife gets less money. So while some girls earn others lose.
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 10:32 AM
9

Come on it's like one girl out of 10 000 or even 100 000.
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 10:29 AM
8

Look better after 30?! Impossible. With one exception if a girl is really overweight at her 20-s and then loses weight.
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 10:23 AM
1

Well, actually atractive men do have standards. And really high ones. Looks like once again when women complain about men they talk about only small percentage of them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/21 08:45 AM
2

Guys remember while she will tell you that she doesn't need a man, she just wants one, inside she might be like this woman. And to me this woman looks like she definitely needs a man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/21 08:42 AM
3

Someone should do a research of thousand cock stare fenomena, because their eyes clearly change. Too bad that such a research would be banned as unethical.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/21 07:22 AM
3

Yeah, the problem is that they don't see problems with such change of mind. They don't see that their value drops in those 5 years while demands rise.
/r/MGTOW15/04/21 04:57 PM
23

Because she advertises her availability to top guys. "Here I am, date me, fuck me I am hotter that those other sluts!!" Once she gets older and starts looking for provision she will write different things.
/r/MGTOW15/04/21 07:43 AM
22

But I did what made ME happy But it DIDN'T in fact made her happy in the end.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/21 06:41 AM
1

Why would men provide a traditional life to non-traditional women Obviously because so many men in fact do that. She sees it on TV and probably even in real life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/21 09:36 PM
6

That's a... a lot of men. From my experience women tend to forget their exact body count really quickly. After like 10 they lose count while men tend to remember it even at much higher numbers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/21 09:22 PM
5

Yeah, they all say that it doesn't matter. So there should be no problem to casually answer it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/21 09:20 PM
2

Who even dates those?! For some money even old man can have sex with 20 y.o.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/21 09:05 PM
3

I would be ok if all people made their bodies count public.
/r/MGTOW09/04/21 12:12 PM
27

But she doen't want to feel like a prostitute
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/21 11:58 AM
1

Such women are the worst. Believe me, I've seen enough to compare. They usually have god awful personality. While women who don't mind to split the bill or even pay for you are much better as individuals. With that being said I have to say that I usually don't mind to pay for a woman on a couple of dates(because good women are worse it) but if she behaves like she's entitled to my money these couple of dates are all she's gonna get with me.
/r/MGTOW06/04/21 10:51 PM
20

Exactly, huge amount of men are still getting married. Women see this and think that they can get away with anything.
/r/MGTOW06/04/21 10:38 PM
34

Why do they all mention that they used to fuck around?! Even if they did why not just say nothing about it??
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 10:34 PM
1

First of all, I am from Russia and you don't know what you're talking about. You have completely wrong picture of what life was like here. Second, I was talking mostly about the fact that it was really family-oriented society although single motherhood was a thing after the war for obvious reasons.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 08:14 PM
3

Interesting thing is that in USSR where actual communists held power for 70 years, there was no such problems. Probably because women didn't have that vote...well neither had men, noone had =))
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 07:01 AM
1

Is there really significant opposition to it? I thought that science is just not there yet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 10:35 PM
2

Question is, will this situation change?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 09:41 PM
21

She probably has been going to a gym for like a month)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 10:06 PM
2

She uses all that makeup to get upper hand in competing for men, lol=) Somehow it's men's fault=)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 10:02 PM
2

I feel it is just not appropriate for 48 years old woman to ask for "spoil". It is just not a thing that that mature woman should write in her profile. Also she looks even older while desperately trying to look young. She has makeup and hair cut of 22 y.o. girl.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 07:46 AM
4

I would say she's good looking. But it's personality of modern women that drives me off.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 09:22 PM
7

soyboys and extroverted female that never shut up Been there - worst environment to be in. I just put on my headphones playing music to be able to concentrate.
/r/MGTOW30/03/21 10:05 PM
8

Same here bro
/r/MGTOW30/03/21 09:54 PM
3

Female voters will never allow that
/r/MGTOW30/03/21 12:12 PM
14

OR, she doesn't think that at all. She just doesn't want to show you that she is in a hurry and is desperate. If you start dating with her she will push for marriage and kids ASAP!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 11:00 AM
36

Once again she never mentions her part of the deal. She thinks that she is by default entitled to everything because she has a pussy. Sounds pretty sexist to me in 2021. I wonder if she is a feminist at the same time?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/21 04:42 AM
2

THEY HAVE THE SAME DAD!!!!!! I mean what a relief, now that I know it she seems like a decent match for me. Well, not really. How did we came to a situation where that even matters?? Men with options should avoid her anyway.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/21 10:23 PM
1

Red pill content creators should point it out often. This seems obvious but not for everyone I guess.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/21 02:44 PM
7

Idk must be fun to see her panic.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/21 02:41 PM
36

She is never going to accept that they do in fact need a man, especially in a situatiion like this when she is pregnant. That would put her in a vulnerable position while she wants to continue to be seen as strong and independent. Also if one doesn't need something what's the point of even mentioning that?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/21 02:37 PM
1

I have a theory: this woman deep inside knows that she is pretty low value herself and she is never going to get really good man to date or marry. So she created impossible list of requirements to reject every man around before he rejects her first. I wonder how far from truth this is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/21 11:50 PM
2

200lbs?! What kind of standard is that? I had couple of chubby girls and they weighed like 50 pounds less.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/21 06:48 AM
14

The most powerful women are married ones, lol. Definitely not this one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/21 06:40 AM
5

There are pretty plus-size women, but she is not even one of those.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 11:53 PM
5

Her being overweight is not hindrance to confidence, it is hindrance to her VALUE for men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 11:52 PM
4

Now, what percentage of men are we talking about? 0.1% who fits in those requirements? Probably no more than. MAYBE she is 10/10 beauty queen but even then such list of demands reveals very shitty personality so no dream guy is going to put up with her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/21 01:17 PM
15

Well at least she's ok with single dads. Although, she definitely should go for older men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/21 02:34 PM
1

This background check should also check body count, if it will - I am all for it!
/r/TheRedPill19/03/21 06:33 AM
6

That's just how feminists construct their argument
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/21 06:13 AM
40

Even if she is good looking. She has OF account and shitty personality. Also we all know how nonexistent love life might mean that she is just aiming for guys out of her league.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/21 06:09 AM
42

"Something aint adding up" - about time she realized that=) Unfortunately, she is not going to keep thinking further.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/21 06:05 AM
2

Their logic is disabled when children their are involved. Her child must be provided for therefore every man who doesn't to want participate is automatically bad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/21 10:27 PM
6

Looks like everyone in comments knows her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/21 10:21 PM
25

In a womans ideal world she gets to decide both her worth and worth of men around her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/21 10:16 PM
1

This is gold, we need to collect such thoughts and post somewhere.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/21 10:14 PM
3

Well she just flat out says she is a slut. And she is not particularly good looking. Do any guys still message her???
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/21 06:58 AM
4

I had multiple exes checking up on me recently. They are 29, 29 and 27 y.o. That's so funny to look at.
/r/MGTOW15/03/21 12:21 PM
3

That's what I've been doing my whole life. It was devasting at times to walk away from girl you love for some isuues that many will consider minor but in the end self-respect is with me. I know that I did what was right.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre15/03/21 12:13 PM
1

Past doesn't matter, right? Why is she trying that hard to not look like a slut?!))) I mean, she is the same girl who would say that she did not became worse now. That all of that should not matter for her future boyfriend or husband. Still she had to come with that kind of explanation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/21 08:32 PM
6

Attractive men looking at her means NOTHING. I am pretty attractive and I would look at almost any girl that is not outright ugly or like 50 years old. Approaching and asking for date - that's another thing. Considering relationships - that's whole another level. Also if those guys know that she is single mom that makes perfect sence - she is attractive so they look at her, but she's not worth dating.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/21 12:52 PM
1

She's glad they broke up because it would never have worked Maybe she is not but she can't accept that because accepting would mean that she have made a mistake or that she was not good enough for the guy. They never accept that. I left a couple of girls in the past because I realized that they are not that good, but they somehow convinced themselves that it was them who broke up with me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/21 12:44 PM
4

Exactly, you just tell her that, you don't have to have line of girls waiting for you, you just want to see her reaction. Also at this point you just stop seeing her as relationship material.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 06:33 PM
30

Yeah, I'm 29 now and I'm not sure that I'm even capable of developing feelings to a woman over 30 - they are just not attractive enough. It's me who doesn't have butterflies))
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/21 10:20 PM
2

I've dated only one such girl but it was good experience. It is just that I think they are good girls. Young, often pretty, working honest job - not some of form prostitution and they are fun to be around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/21 07:18 PM
12

I prefer barista girls=)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/21 09:16 PM
17

Is it really about paternity and cheating? I can believe that woman with high body count may be loyal and will not cheat. BUT it is just disgusting to date such woman. Even if she will be loyal to me, even she gives me kids that are mine that doesn't matter. I want to commit to a woman that somehow preserved herself for me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 10:52 PM
3

Hate those "change my mind" lines in profiles. Like no, if you think that the world is bad, I am not going to try to change your mind, I'd better find someone with positive mindset.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 10:43 PM
1

Well I just wanted to point out that it is strange. I'm not trying to justify what she's doing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/21 10:05 PM
4

However the common thread was that they were highly damaged Exactly my experience. So many damaged women out there. And I don't want to be responsible for that damage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/21 05:35 PM
12

Don't they have child support? That's some income at least. I mean in this sub we often talk about child support and alimony being significant amount subtracted from mans income, that should mean that those single moms should not be that poor.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/21 08:36 PM
32

Secure enough??? More like the one who has no better options. And it is hard to imagine option worse than having to deal with your girlfriends ex on a regular basis. Saying that, IF she is really beautiful I could be that option....only for a couple of month of course=) Oh, I will look so secure until her pussy stops entertaining me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/21 05:53 AM
12

Even as a 185cm guy I am about to vomit when I see those height requirements.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/21 05:47 AM
1

Thank you! Looks like I have to look for a virgin to marry lol=)) Which is impossible nowadays lol=)) We are soooo fucked.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/21 05:44 AM
10

I once left a girl friend who didn't want to have sex as often as I wanted. And that was MUCH more often than once a month. We dated for several months and I thought that if I am not satisfied now, I will not be satisfied in the future. So what's wrong with this guy who tolerates such behavior??? I mean girl is still a slut who deserves nothing but still guy should do something...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 08:48 PM
22

Have you got any links?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/21 10:20 PM
4

Yeah, some simp will probably fall for her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/21 08:59 PM
1

Well this one at least offers her youth. Although such questions usually don't come from a good women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/21 04:45 PM
7

But she IS in fact easy. Just throw in couple of dollars and have fun.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/21 05:19 PM
1

You can't just call yourself a valkyrie. It doesn't work like that. Also you can't just call yourself a decent woman, worthy of marrying decent man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 09:18 PM
7

It's such a bait. She will stop being shy the moment she sees attractive guy in front of her. She will NEVER stop being shy for a beta. But it is a promise for that beta, that IF he tries hard enough she will stop being shy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 08:25 PM
2

She must also give away some signs of craziness and/or sluttiness, so that even biggest simps walk away
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 08:22 PM
3

She reminds me of one of my exes. She was also 28 and "ready to settle." At least that was what she told me about herself. From my point of view it turned out that she was 100% NOT READY!!! Alcohol, parties and stuff like that. Not ready at all, probably never will be.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/21 09:34 AM
3

So your needs will come after 4 cats and her ex. Greaaaat!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 11:07 AM
3

It might be actually good thing. You can extract some information from a friend about that woman, like how slutty she is, her history of relationships etc. This is kind of stuff that woman will lie about but her friend might tell the truth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 11:06 AM
12

Lol. She saw opportunity to extract some value from you, so she didn't want to filter you out by giving a number=)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 10:55 AM
2

What's the deal with foodie requirement?! Since when does that define a good man??? Also I myself have seen this mentioned in numerous tinder profiles - that girls just like to eat. Wtf with that, why do you even mention it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 10:47 AM
7

Yeah, we need more posts like this one. AWALT!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/21 09:15 PM
1

Even if that's true. It is still beneficial to look for younger wife. Man can't change his own age but he can be successful enough to attract younger woman
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/21 11:56 AM
8

I guess she really doesn't know how gut punch feels)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/21 07:49 PM
10

Lol, this just doesn't happen to young and beautiful women. She is just unattractive that's why men prefer to friendzone her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/21 08:15 PM
16

She just doesn't have time for more. Even if she really wants to. Every day she is working on improving herself she keeps getting older. She knows that and that's driving her crazy. Deep down she knows that only mad luck will save her and there will be some simp that will marry her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 10:50 PM
5

That's great insight. I can confirm - I met so many girls like that. LTR, couple of failed relatioships, some hookups in between, couple of times sex on first date in the end. It sums up in pretty high body count in the end, bad attitude towards man and moral trauma. But they usually think they did nothing wrong.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 10:30 PM
2

I disagree, with the last sentence. That leverage is removed for Chads only. Because they get all the sex with different women. Average guys are left thirsty. That's why their strategy works pretty well. That's why even single mothers are able to find someone who commits to them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 10:30 PM
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