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| 1 | I shut down once I know a girl’s into me; how can I stop being weird about getting physical?I think u described my whole life, plus when i started having a late glow up, I cant still believe 2 chicks said im the most beautiful guy theyve seen. I dont even believe in that lol | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 03:35 PM |
| 0 | I’ve always been perceived as a nice guy, how can I be “badboy” for real and foreverTbh I aint a bad boy either but dress as one lol. Went to the bar recently and I was wearing all black. I sat down to smoke and a blonde norwegian chick (in her early 20s) came up to me. Im asian aswell but I was just chilling. She told me her boyfriend broke up w her or something. We talked, at some point she was putting on her lipstick, Idk how to react but we started holding long eye contact and she keep lookin at my lips.This was like the 2nd time I went out to a bar and im inexperienced af.… | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Tinder - too high standards?Try tinder scandinavia (norway) as asian guy. Maybe its my shitty picture and moustache 🤣but bro. I just wanna match those badass girls. So many 10/10. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 03:22 PM |
| 58 | why doesn't game translate well within america?he probably talk w them at bars, or the club, scandinavian girls love to drink and have fun, thats when they mostly open up. other than that, yea its true, during the day time. but in the weekends, they go crazy on alcohol | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 09:00 AM |
| 2 | Where to get girls more beautiful than me ?Scandinavia | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 06:30 AM |
| 3 | How conventionally attractive are you?This, same here, except I dont think I was ugly throughout teen years. I was good looking to the ladies even then, heck I was even natural leading up a period when my parents started arguing.. issues at home and it affected me mentally alot. Left me with alot of anxiety and low self confidence. It became hard to believe that I was attractive. But since I ever started self improving this year, ive notice how they act around me now and I can see that I aint as ugly as I though. I stil struggle to … | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | I don’t understand yIm dead at these comments 🤣 what is this subreddit | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Signs of sexual tension between a female friend?Used to have same type of girl friend in hoghschool. I never made a move because I was a shy pussy boy and she was like this with everyone. I was being playfully virgin, and said I never hugged a girl before when we hugged and she offered me to lose it in a subtle way. She didnt say it upfront but like jokingly. I rejected myself by saying that was too early in our «relationship». 😅Fun times | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 02:46 PM |
| – | Too self conscious about my average height, its killing my gameThe thing is, I grew up with low self-confidence around women. Not untill now I have started to improve myself and trying to focus more on the women part. I’ve thought that there was something wrong, am I ugly or something. So i set out to improve myself. Went to the mall recently, I noticed something I didn’t before. When I held eye contact with the cute employee, she became smiley and flipped her hair, she even bit her lip when I talked to her. Now at first I never noticed body language like t… | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 05:07 AM |
| 1 | I have no issue with dating apps but have a hard time pulling at bars/clubsI am more a stay in my room type of guy, like almost an introvert. Went to the club for first time a few months back and it was suprising when this girl we started talking, touching and shit but I didn’t know what was going on, didnt expect to get so far, so when she tried kissing me I just got nervous and turned the opposite side. Didnt expect anything to happen at all that night😂 | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Too self conscious about my average height, its killing my gameMy game wack as f*ck then. I just haven’t been in the game. 🥲 Even though I do get approached sometimes but I just get suprised cause I didn’t expect it to happen to me. They be catching you off guard | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Guide to becoming a "Natural"I noticed that I was really funny and charismatic around different girls when I was inlove with this one girl around highschool times. I didn’t give a shit about the others and I was at such a happy stage of my life when I met this girl. Until heartbreak hit me and I became so cold and got more anxiety + personal issues with family. I would say you can be natural. I became more self-conscious now and tend to overthink more :/ Time really changes you, but im working on becoming my best self again | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 07:53 PM |
| 1 | I’m an Onlyfans creator with 2 girlfriends AMAIf it feels so hard figure out your life , and go travel around the world enjoy yourself, theres no need to be frustrated cause of something you cant change, go out and have fun on your own, go find success, and improve your mind | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 09:55 AM |
| 9 | Bf isn’t good in bed and idk what else I can do to help him get better, feels like I’ve tried everything.Does he watch porn? Maybe abstain from porn and masturbating. Oh man, if you knew what kinda thoughts was in a mans mind when he abstain from sexual pleasure for a long time. He gonna go crazy, the beast inside him | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:01 PM |
| 6 | Women are checking out men all the timeBro if teenage girls look at old man and giggle, most likely they just laughing at him. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 01:43 PM |
| 5 | I’ve heard two contrasting ideas. “Make her feel good” vs “Make her feel like shit”. Which is more effective?Sounds so insecure and manipulative . Making others feel like shit | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 01:39 PM |
| 10 | I invited a girl out to breakfast after work, and she gave me an excuse. I teased her, and wished her a good night. Did her next response leave room for something else?Cringe remind me of my first highschool days, I was so cringe w girls omg. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 03:39 PM |
| 34 | What are some skills u should learn to impress girls or make them interested in you?Playing in piano infront of the whole school certainly did help me attract the ladies | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:50 AM |
| 3 | I can't fake it til I make it. Everyone is boring to me.Bro just do you thing, dont worry, make yourself happy | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else feel like they're missing the bus to a fun sex life in their 20's?Bro u can do so much if you put your mind to it. I started self improving this year and the progress is amazing. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 06:56 PM |
| 6 | Why is flirting with girls so hard?Df 😂 | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessWhy move to asian country, just self improve. Im asian in scandinavia, yea its harder for me, but i aint gonna let that stop me. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 07:06 AM |
| 3 | [FIELD REPORT] Pulled a blonde girl from a gay clubSo many jealousy and hate lmao , how insecure can you be guys. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Your “Average Man” is Not EnoughI understand what u mean, I dont put as much effort socially but im taking one thing at a time, right now I really enjoy improving myself, having the time and money to invest in myself is great. Idk man I just get frustrated sometimes and rant, but truth is Ive never been improving so drastically, i went from playing videogames all day and jacking off to this in a year. I realize, Progress is happening, we just moving different my boy. (Is it rant or vent) i think I meant vent. | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Your “Average Man” is Not EnoughBro what the heck i aint gonna read all that 😭 Im just improving myself. But yea sure, if writing all that makes you feel better | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Your “Average Man” is Not EnoughWorking on myself to become more confident in myself, when you look good, you feel good. With that confident it feels easier to approach and socialize. Thats how I look at it, and Im working toward it. | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Your “Average Man” is Not EnoughYea I’ll def look into it, got me a permanenet job at a factory after highschool. Now Im just figuring out myself for a year atleast, using my money wisely on improving myself first and invest some of it, and save some for university/ college. | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 04:46 AM |
| 3 | Your “Average Man” is Not EnoughI still got this loser mentality. To be honest I think I need therapy, cause I’m dying in frustation every night. Hearing my homies with their success with girls, and they don’t even care for self-improvement as much as me. They even find it funny that I wake up early, don’t masturbate or watch porn, have a routine, reading books, skincare routine, meditate etc. I try to improve my looks, clothes, everything. That makes me wonder, what the fck is wrong with me? Its not my looks, or is it?, I get… | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 07:53 PM |
| 1 | So I am a very good looking dude, everybody around me knows that, but I find it extremely hard to date. What could be the problem here?If people get salty of good looking dudes because they have to put in more effort, damn man… theyre still insecure. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 02:46 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop being a virgin loser?Take baby steps by improving yourself. Self-improvement. We have so much potential to become our best selves. There are soooo many things that we can do in our power to be a better man. start working out to become more muscular, start reading, therapy, fashion, face, martial arts. As he said, baby steps. 1 thing at a time. You will become confident. Also stop touching your dick and stop watching p*rn. Go 1-3 months without busting or touching yourself and tell me about it | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Why do women love thugs so much?My erection are getting crazy now, I havent touched myself or released in 1 month now. Omg | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 03:25 AM |
| 1 | roll the dice or leave !!Lmao I can’t believe I did this shit. Never doing thst stupid shit again. Was such a clueless teenager 😭 | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 05:32 PM |
| 1 | How do you develop confidence?That is true. Went to the barbershop for the first time in my 19 years and I look so much better in photos now. People compliments the new hairstyle. Planning to get braces. Whitening the teeths. Adding a skin routine, having fresher fragrance that smell good. Grooming. Can tell ladies look and been approached many times throughout my life. I just need to believe that girls ARE interested in me, I know, I just need to really believe it. Breaking out of my shell | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 11:28 AM |
| 3 | How do you develop confidence?I’ve started self improving and can say I’m slowly starting to come out of my shell. Bought new clothes and building a better wardrobe, building a better physique, starting to read, earning money, quit masturbation and porn. Self-improving while going out and practise talking to more girls / people in general. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 11:11 AM |
| 1 | How can an introverted/shy guy approach ladies?I thought I was an introvert cause I used to lock myself into my room playing videogames all day. Until I started getting money, and improving my muscle, fashion, face, confidence. I don’t think I’m introvert anymore. I just started improved myself and I’m obsessseeed. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 10:46 PM |
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