| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 216 | Doesn’t romanticize and focuses on all the women/family involved. It takes the spotlight away from him and shows the true damage he caused. Depravity is hard to see, and we shouldn’t feel ashamed if we don’t. These women are truly strong. This is what we should have been learning all along. | FDS MOVIES & TV | No_Garmonbozia | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 01:23 PM |
| 34 | I detached myself and stayed passive. It did more harm. | LESSON LEARNED | No_Garmonbozia | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 09:37 PM |
| 0 | Getting into the dating scene again after a short break | SEEKING ADVICE | No_Garmonbozia | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 02:07 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Doesn’t romanticize and focuses on all the women/family involved. It takes the spotlight away from him and shows the true damage he caused. Depravity is hard to see, and we shouldn’t feel ashamed if we don’t. These women are truly strong. This is what we should have been learning all along.Major props to you for surviving. These manipulators are sometimes those most dear to us and it’s part of why women need to stick together and, if possible, look out for others who may be victims but have rose colored glasses on. Those things are dangerous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 03:34 AM |
| 10 | Doesn’t romanticize and focuses on all the women/family involved. It takes the spotlight away from him and shows the true damage he caused. Depravity is hard to see, and we shouldn’t feel ashamed if we don’t. These women are truly strong. This is what we should have been learning all along.Oh this one doesn’t even mention his mother until the end of the documentary. And it’s a beautiful rendition of her. They don’t paint her as a awed mother- they show her compassion and pain for the victim’s families. It’s so heart wrenching to hear because she said “no mother wants their little boys to become a killer” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 05:21 PM |
| 3 | I detached myself and stayed passive. It did more harm.Nope none at all. And he’s still trying to be friends so I’m taking the chance to just call him out on his shit constantly until he just gives up 🤷🏻♀️ it’s petty but empowering as well. I have zero attachment to him anymore after all the support I’ve received | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 05:18 PM |
| 10 | Doesn’t romanticize and focuses on all the women/family involved. It takes the spotlight away from him and shows the true damage he caused. Depravity is hard to see, and we shouldn’t feel ashamed if we don’t. These women are truly strong. This is what we should have been learning all along.It’s just overall one of the scariest things. They are strategic and manipulative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 05:06 PM |
| 11 | Doesn’t romanticize and focuses on all the women/family involved. It takes the spotlight away from him and shows the true damage he caused. Depravity is hard to see, and we shouldn’t feel ashamed if we don’t. These women are truly strong. This is what we should have been learning all along.This was a perfect example of the flaws within the criminal justice system. They don’t bother to look further into details that they have been given. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 04:40 PM |
| 28 | Doesn’t romanticize and focuses on all the women/family involved. It takes the spotlight away from him and shows the true damage he caused. Depravity is hard to see, and we shouldn’t feel ashamed if we don’t. These women are truly strong. This is what we should have been learning all along.Oh my god yes he was creepy. His eyes are petrifying in a way of when you know you’re in danger. He was the epitome of modern primal. He was able to play the part, fit in and deceive but he had the most primal aggression imaginable. He was an actual predatory animal except animals at least kill for food. He was just a monster. The women who said they FELT that sixth sense of “I have to get out of here” was chilling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 04:39 PM |
| 5 | Doesn’t romanticize and focuses on all the women/family involved. It takes the spotlight away from him and shows the true damage he caused. Depravity is hard to see, and we shouldn’t feel ashamed if we don’t. These women are truly strong. This is what we should have been learning all along.It’s amazing how glamorized he was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 04:35 PM |
| 13 | Doesn’t romanticize and focuses on all the women/family involved. It takes the spotlight away from him and shows the true damage he caused. Depravity is hard to see, and we shouldn’t feel ashamed if we don’t. These women are truly strong. This is what we should have been learning all along.I think that the victims a) wanted to be left alone, b) there wasn’t enough focus on them and c) media has a twisted way of just being preoccupied by the killer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:09 PM |
| 2 | A survey where you can track your attachment style over timeI love this! It definitely gave me a huge perspective on my personality traits. My attachment to friends is secure. But my partner aspect is in between “preoccupied” and “fearful” positions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:08 PM |
| 31 | Doesn’t romanticize and focuses on all the women/family involved. It takes the spotlight away from him and shows the true damage he caused. Depravity is hard to see, and we shouldn’t feel ashamed if we don’t. These women are truly strong. This is what we should have been learning all along.Exactly. Everything has always focused on him and how “fucked up” and “psychopathic” he was but not once do you get the testimonies from the people directly involved. I never even knew his younger brother was so involved and affected in such a way. It’s amazing that it’s taken this long so finally show the true colors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 01:40 PM |
| 3 | I detached myself and stayed passive. It did more harm.Yes. I learned he just really didn’t take anything seriously. He can’t even remember some of the things HE initiated at the beginning that were so impactful to me. He just did what he did to get what he wanted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 01:03 PM |
| 3 | I detached myself and stayed passive. It did more harm.It definitely was. I don’t know what goes on in his mind, but he’s going to be alone and leaving a long string of angry women behind. His roommate stopped talking to him too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 01:02 PM |
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